Being Single During the Holidays! How to Cope during this Transition | Stephanie Lyn Coaching

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Stephanie Lyn Coaching

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@beckyvegalifecoach2481
@beckyvegalifecoach2481 5 жыл бұрын
I love love when you say if you are single then that means that you don’t have anyone unhealthy in your life. Wow!!! That’s a great perspective to have ❤️
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
It’s all about prospective
@sublimebeing
@sublimebeing 5 жыл бұрын
Single AF, and loving it! I am taking this time to be selfish and to do everything I like whenever I feel like it! Also, enjoying flirting with random strangers and getting out of my comfort zone. Happy days!
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah!!!!!!
@sophiadavenport3959
@sophiadavenport3959 5 жыл бұрын
I have been single for majority of my life and I love spending time with myself💕
@ArdelleVision
@ArdelleVision 5 жыл бұрын
Patricia tha bibliophile same.
@F0reverblessed
@F0reverblessed 5 жыл бұрын
That makes you very powerful! xOxO 💕
@sophiadavenport3959
@sophiadavenport3959 5 жыл бұрын
@@F0reverblessed aw thank you very much!😘💕
@F0reverblessed
@F0reverblessed 5 жыл бұрын
Patricia tha bibliophile ❤️
@Whoeverwhateverwhenever
@Whoeverwhateverwhenever 5 жыл бұрын
Are you alone on a Christmas eve?
@F0reverblessed
@F0reverblessed 5 жыл бұрын
Courage over comfort!! To enjoy the holidays, one must be secure with themselves! Being secure doesn’t mean you aren’t emotional, it means you understand your current situation and have confidence in yourself to get through it. Create the space you need to make yourself feel good. 💕 From a self love content creator to another- Great video Stephanie! ❤️
@bettyboossister3918
@bettyboossister3918 5 жыл бұрын
I LOVE being single....I get to do what I want when I want how I want when ever I want....And I can cook what I like...I have the bed to myself...I can just be me...being with someone would be too much for me...And everyone always comments how happy I am...If anyone asks me why you still single...il say same reason you are with someone BECAUSE I WANT TO BE....I LOVE IT....Its MY journey...MY life MY twists MY turns MY ups MY downs....MY LIFE!!!!!!!!
@serenedelusions
@serenedelusions 5 жыл бұрын
Best part of being single, especially during the holidays? I buy my own presents, stay out of debt and get to do whatever I want!
@jackieellison4596
@jackieellison4596 5 жыл бұрын
Yay this man made Christmas can bring lots of false hopes..the real meaning of Christmas is to be good to others and yourself all year
@HellaBella
@HellaBella 5 жыл бұрын
This year my single best friend and I are skipping all Christmas festivities with our toxic family and we're going on a trip to the mountains. I am just happy I finally gave myself permission to enjoy my life on my own terms.
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing!
@michaelm9361
@michaelm9361 4 жыл бұрын
If you're single, you have to spend Thanksgiving wandering around your house with your hands in your pockets and wishing you were married, and when it's time for dinner, you have to have frozen waffles because it's too much trouble to make an entire Thanksgiving dinner for one person . By the same token, you have to spend Christmas wandering around your house with your hands in your pockets and wishing you were married, and when it's time for dinner, you have to have frozen waffles because it's too much trouble to make an entire Christmas dinner for one person .
@breables1293
@breables1293 5 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe how great it feels to not be demeaned or put down or bullied by someone who is supposed to love you. Freedom is such a wonderful thing. Its so positive and people feel that good energy...I’m learning how to be single and enjoy it and not focus so much on the loneliness
@MindfulAttraction2.0
@MindfulAttraction2.0 5 жыл бұрын
Yea when i was younger it used to depress me. Now i enjoy the alone time.
@MLBOOG
@MLBOOG 5 жыл бұрын
Spending my first holiday without my husband of 35 years. So hard to be joyful. Thank you so much for this video. You always make so much sense.
@princenissan9121
@princenissan9121 5 жыл бұрын
Hang in there
@rebeccajones8628
@rebeccajones8628 5 жыл бұрын
Watch Wayne Dyer videos. They help.
@angelapatterson0919
@angelapatterson0919 5 жыл бұрын
Love your videos! They are really helping me get through a breakup from a 9 year relationship. Just happened 2 months ago!! I really needed to hear this!!! Doing just that shopping for myself and decorating my home for the Xmas holiday! Just me making my own decisions without anyone telling me what they don’t like. I’m free from the narcissist!!!
@ParrieXoXo
@ParrieXoXo 5 жыл бұрын
How do you always know what to say? You're amazing. And you've changed my life! After leaving an abusive man who almost killed me, I needed you. And I believe fate sent me you! What you're doing here is amazing. Thank you for giving me peace inside myself again. Now I am healing from trauma I sustained as a child and an adult. ❤
@TiffTheTyrant
@TiffTheTyrant 5 жыл бұрын
HOW did you know I needed this? You are my sugar plum fairy delivering the best tips!!
@1984musicman
@1984musicman 5 жыл бұрын
All I want for Christmas is.. Me! 🎶 🎄
@F0reverblessed
@F0reverblessed 5 жыл бұрын
1984musicman That’s right ! 🤗
@Charlie-Rivers
@Charlie-Rivers 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words Stephanie, it really helps me. I don't have to be ashamed for being single. It;s what it is...make the best of it.
@BCHODOSH01
@BCHODOSH01 5 жыл бұрын
Stephanie, you are so right. Take care of yourself, create your own happiness.Don't look outside yourself for love and happiness. Love who you are and do things that fulfill and make you happy. Being single allows you to do what you want, when you want and not have to be concerned that it's not what someone else wants. Personally i just recently ended a four year relationship with a toxic person, and i now feel free and alive. I am me once again, and getting happier by the day. I am open to the possibility of a new relationship, but nobody will ever again take me away from me.Thank you for another wonderful video! Wishing you a wonderful holiday season.
@BCHODOSH01
@BCHODOSH01 5 жыл бұрын
@@micheleabbott1403 i live in North Carolina. Thanks for your message, and i wish you a Merry Christmas.
@Patricia-xz6ek
@Patricia-xz6ek 5 жыл бұрын
Being grateful for being part of your channel.
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
🤗😊👍🙌💪💜💜💜
@FelisaPagaran
@FelisaPagaran 4 ай бұрын
I love bring single doing what I want and love my life. I have everything I need and want❤. I would have to be convinced to be in a relationship 😅
@someguynamedvictor
@someguynamedvictor 5 жыл бұрын
In a deep depression, toxic and narcissistic family members, single and an accessory to couple friends, health issues and all while working 60 hour weeks. Honestly feeling at the end of my string.
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
Out of all of those things what are the aspects of your life that you can control? Regarding your depression… What is the story that you’re telling yourself that’s causing you to feel that depression?
@Maryam7580
@Maryam7580 5 жыл бұрын
Is anyone completely alone ? I’m just wondering. I just ended my relationship because it was toxic, and I realized that my family is very toxic - which is probably why I was attracted to this person. But moving on.. I was curious to know if anyone besides me was completely alone. Let me know 😊
@princenissan9121
@princenissan9121 5 жыл бұрын
I am too
@IGlowIFlow
@IGlowIFlow 5 жыл бұрын
Maryam Alhaqq I was just saying in my mind this video should’ve addressed being completely alone instead of just single
@twainslureca
@twainslureca 5 жыл бұрын
Me too it’s always triggering when people assume you have family during the holidays. I don’t have either. A rel or family.
@ericm.5408
@ericm.5408 5 жыл бұрын
I’m alone and my heart is completely broken
@lavianahampton4641
@lavianahampton4641 5 жыл бұрын
Maryam Alhaqq I am !! I’ve been single for 6 years . The only person I was close to in my was my grandfather & he died over 3 years ago . Have you ever been in therapy ? It changed my life . Find a therapist , get away from your shitty family & go out there & find your worth . You deserve the best
@oliviahartwell4518
@oliviahartwell4518 5 жыл бұрын
Stephanie, you are a God send. Thank you so much for having used the pain you went through to help empower the rest of us. You are honestly my goal for how strong and self sufficient a woman can be.
@lavianahampton4641
@lavianahampton4641 5 жыл бұрын
Being single during the holidays is stressful & add on top of that not being close to your family . Try to find friends you can spend time with
@MrIowahawks77
@MrIowahawks77 5 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️ I needed to hear this so bad today. I have been hurting and sad this past week feeling so empty and lonely. God bless you for all your help and encouragement. 🙏.
@niiniisrodriguez990
@niiniisrodriguez990 5 жыл бұрын
My 1st holiday alone for the holidays Ive always had someone But in the summer i decided to end my relationship it was so toxic A hard desision to do but i did it for my 3 yr old daughter she needs a healthy mom emotionally wise nd if i wouldve stayed with her daddy she wouldve had a good stable family,its been hard mentally but shes happy im getting better daily 4 months this Dec.i still have really sad days but i get up nd start again the nxt day,but it does feel ok to be alone ,like u said no one can tell u nothing especially about being with my daughter thers selfish men out there tht want 100% time for them well no i need to find nd love my self be healthy in tht way to be a good mama First time i decorated myself for this christmas at my own style 😁 i even made a DIY door wreath tht was an awsome feelin with my daughters help...god is great nd i nvr tought being single would feel ok .....god bless all the single ppl merry christmas
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
Yay love all of this. You job momma!
@angelapatterson0919
@angelapatterson0919 5 жыл бұрын
Same to you! Merry Xmas!!
@TiffaniPaige
@TiffaniPaige 5 жыл бұрын
Wow I so needed to read your post ! I am in such an emotionally abusive unhealthy relationship and and I am having the hardest time finding the strength to let go, I feel crazy and depressed... your story is very similar to mine ..it's also my first Christmas alone without my 11 year old son so I love listening to Stephanie Lynn to give me strength...wow I am so impressed you let go for your health and your child! Way to value yourself !!!🙏
@niiniisrodriguez990
@niiniisrodriguez990 5 жыл бұрын
@@TiffaniPaige im sorry ur goin tru tht its hard but it will get better,i still hard days cuase im still in love with him idk y ii am but i still have hard days,but my little girl nd god gets me tru,god bless u nd i hope ur happines xomes bk to u 100%
@jaimiemainberger5039
@jaimiemainberger5039 2 жыл бұрын
Such a great perspective! I am going to focus on enjoying my single time because I won’t always be single!
@aayushi2277
@aayushi2277 5 жыл бұрын
Hey hun! I don't know u personally and I have no idea if this comment will reach u or not, but Thank u , the world needs more people like u, you are adding too much value to the world , keep going Thank u🥰
@dukedorn2668
@dukedorn2668 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Stephanie, getting accustomed to being separated before divorce. Good advice, thanks.
@jeremywebster5432
@jeremywebster5432 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your understanding, compassionate, and encouraging videos. They were tremendously helpful for buoying up my spirits during the holidays. I didn't have friends (romantic or platonic) or even family with me for rich social experiences, but I also found myself committed to the belief that I need not simply "settle" for whatever comes along.
@melissad5894
@melissad5894 5 жыл бұрын
You can watch what YOU want on TV too! You don't have to discuss anything with anyone - just do what you want! I love this. I almost would bring a guy just to make other ppl feel better. It bothers ppl that I'm single for some reason, which makes me think "maybe I do need a man since it makes me weird to other ppl" (that's the codependent in me talking). Thanks for sharing, it helps to hear this from another woman.
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
But see then you are beginning to realize that people are just projecting their own stuff onto you and then you’re taking on that projection and questioning maybe you do need a person in your life when really you’re happy where you are. Doesn’t mean you never want to be in a relationship but that you’re just content with where you are in life but peoples opinions are sinking in and making you doubt that
@johnbehneman1546
@johnbehneman1546 5 жыл бұрын
Great video Stephanie, you are correct on all accounts. This Christmas I am making upgrades to my truck. I am preparing for the car show season in spring. So I am grateful for my hot rod family. And I am thankful for my friends and family everywhere.
@operationgoddess
@operationgoddess 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely adore you, Stephanie. You're so wonderful. Thank you for being you!
@motowngirl5891
@motowngirl5891 5 жыл бұрын
Still single, it’s no one business what anyone is, that how we all get in this mess in the first place, we take anyone who comes along
@joshuasartore9393
@joshuasartore9393 5 жыл бұрын
Love yourself everybody just keep yourself happy fully joy make yourself the one you love you got too before you can love anybody else LOVE family may GOD Bless you all Shalom
@ttttiiimmy10bit
@ttttiiimmy10bit 5 жыл бұрын
Nobody ever asks me or says shit like that because ive always been single, works out great!
@glennasmith1187
@glennasmith1187 5 жыл бұрын
On Point!! Well said! So freaking true 👍
@anseasal77
@anseasal77 5 жыл бұрын
I finally decided to decorate this year, and it mattered not what anyone else thought about it...😎 of course when my daughter's came over and said how cool my taste was and skills were so good, it did make me feel great and grateful to be able to do it MY way. I will always be my best cheerleader for the rest of my life, whether I meet someone new or not...I will not return to any form of the relationship I was in...thanks Step
@Hannahacarmona
@Hannahacarmona 5 жыл бұрын
I love love love this so much!!! The outlook of making new traditions for myself and doing what I want actually makes me super excited! Thank you!
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad! Everything is a choice and everything is perspective on how you want to look at something. That’s the beauty of the freedom of choice that we have we can either focus on all the things are going wrong or focus on all the stuff in our lives that are going right. Being single is a hugely empowering place to be
@webeducation
@webeducation 5 жыл бұрын
Not looking at Facebook = freedom. I don't listen to love songs, or Christmas music for now. I stay away from that stuff. Found a hobby I am really into. Haven't had that in a really long time. Working on my craft. Setting SMART goals and making a routine. Next goal is to execute a routine for 30 days straight. It's important to Bea able to sit in silence as well. Also try to figure out what flaws you may have and work towards fixing it. Get a devotional or workbook you can go through on a daily basis that has action steps. Don't move to the next step until you've successfully completed the current one. Set 3 new standards for yourself as well. These are deal breakers for your next relationship. Reasonable ones of course. Also look at the "wheel of life" which consists of "spirituality, family, friends, career, education, health, and finance". Mark down each week what you did to better yourself in each area, even if it only to 10 min to do it. After you have done this consistently for 3 months. Try to make these things a daily habit. Create a priority scale to help you make better decisions. Such as a shower is more important than cleaning, and cleaning, and cleaning is more important than that phone call you have to make, etc . These are things you do everyday and will help show you what you have values most and what you have values less. Once a month or you can afford to, try to pay it forward at a drive thru. If you watching a commercial and your butt is on the couch at the same time, do 10 squats, next commercial, do 10 calf raises, next commercial do light stretching. Last but not least, set aside 1 whole month where every week you put together a nutritional plan. Then try to execute your new cost effective plan throughout the week. If you fail to accomplish this task within a month. Then take 3 whole months to do this. But before you do the nutritional planning take only 1 month to get what you need to get in order. Next if you shave, or do anything to your face. Then place a fog free mirror in the shower, a little higher than normal. This will cause you to have to stand on your calves to use the mirror. Tell yourself you cannot enter the shower without doing some rotator cuff work. Now if you find yourself unable to do this because you are rushing to work for example. Then something has to go. Pick 1 thing each day that is not urgent or important and drop it from your things to do that day. What one thing can you do without today? This could also be a sign your vegging. Most likely because your looking for answers to a problem through, or your overworked. You can veg out but put a time limit on it. Also if your going to veg only allow yourself to veg on your craft. Like literally sit at your desk and pull out a book related to you career. Now I don't care what you do with the book. You can doodle or make paper airplanes out of the pages but you are going to sit there in front of it. Or bring a blank sheet of paper too. You are creating a habit. Remember that 90% of the battle is just showing up. You have to be present before you can do anything. Also write down your 5 biggest time wasters in sort of a Feng Shui style. For example my biggest time waster was KZbin on my cellphone. I have an app on my phone that only allows me to use KZbin 10 min at a time on the weekends. So now o don't wonder on a SAT or sun where did all my time go. But I allow myself access to KZbin at anytime through my laptop since I rarely use my laptop. Also put stuff along you normal path through your home if you have something you use regular then put it in a place where you don't have to go out of your way to get it. And last but not least, this one is really important. Try 1 thing each month related to grooming. If you never had a mustache, grow one. Never wore a tie , try it for a every weekend for a month. See how you feel. Then write down 3 movie actors who you respect both their character and personality. Then watch as many of their movies as you can. And the same goes for TV shows. 2 TV shows that helped me put things I perspective when going though my breakup was "My Crazy Ex" and "Hoarders". Then finish the day off with writing down 3 unique things you are greatful for that day. An one last quick tip, if you in a breakup and need to get out and be around people. Grocery store, bookstore, coffeeshop and cheap places such as (dollar store, goodwill, etc) since you will be going their a lot just to get away for a little bit. Hope this helps. Now you have something to do for the holidays and beyond. You can do this. Even Michael Jordan was once told he was not good at basketball. And as Wayne Dyer once said "when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change". You can also buy a gift for those less fortunate such as a child someone who needs to pay a bill. The expression on their face is their gift to you. Another thing is that completing the steps above will give you hope, and hope as well as seeing new possibilities you never saw before is what will help drive you. Remember too that "if nothing changes, nothing changes", and that "you don't have to be great to start, but you have to start, in order to be great". You got this 👍
@yvetteapicella4153
@yvetteapicella4153 5 жыл бұрын
Your right Stephanie Lyn you don’t know what the following year is going to bring your right you may meet someone and be in a committed relationship your also right about caring for one self thank you for this video
@F0reverblessed
@F0reverblessed 5 жыл бұрын
Yvette Apicella Yes!! 💕
@nangia_vivek81
@nangia_vivek81 5 жыл бұрын
Well said. I have done so many new things like going for sports events, theatre, food festivals on my own and it feels great.
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
Yay!
@a1r9a9shi99
@a1r9a9shi99 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this amazing video! Indeed, being single is clearly NOT the the worst thing that can happen to anyone. I think people are only miserable being single if they let themselves be miserable about being single. In all honesty, I think holidays can be lonely and stressful even if you had a family because you could just be left out of the loop the entire time or you could have a very broken dynamics. Please put your sanity and well-being before what may look good. I know it may be hard, but staying off social media and forcing on what you can give instead of what you do not have is a good way to be happy regardless of relationship status and other situations in life. Even if I am single, I am spending Christmas Eve at a friend's house for a sleepover, and then going for a dinner with a different friend on Christmas Day evening. On New Years, yet another friend has invited me to spend the day with her. You see, Im not lonely this holidays even if Im single because I have great friends and people that love and care about me. I try to remember that relationships are beyond just romance and dating, and it is quality of that said relationship that matters. Don't get caught up in having just ''anyone and anybody'', care about who you spend your time with and the quality of that relationship.
@marriah3249
@marriah3249 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Needed this..
@WhenAphroditeSpeaks
@WhenAphroditeSpeaks 5 жыл бұрын
Great advice! And merry Christmas!
@caroleleblanc98
@caroleleblanc98 5 жыл бұрын
Great message. I totally agree. Thank you.
@cherrycain6425
@cherrycain6425 5 жыл бұрын
I am going through a divorce. I truly am happier now than I have ever been. I can do whatever I want when I want. My son lives with me and he’s single but he’s happy too.he works 12 hours a day. And when he’s home he plays x-box and stuff with his coworkers and mine. I get on my phone and read Facebook and play on my laptop. We don’t have someone that gets pissed because we aren’t giving him our undivided attention. I’ve started buying myself little things as like a reward. This is the first time I’ve ever been practically on my own and I love it. Nobody’s telling me how to live my life and spend MY money. I feel like a bird that’s been let out of a cage.
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
It’s a huge weight that is lifted from your shoulders
@luluyangcerdasrajinberambi4648
@luluyangcerdasrajinberambi4648 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saving Stephanie soo
@Эля-м8л2н
@Эля-м8л2н 5 жыл бұрын
thanks? you really helped
@oaklandsoldier5920
@oaklandsoldier5920 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 35, single and black male with no kids. I feel very depressed everyday.
@wealldeserveloveandhappine7430
@wealldeserveloveandhappine7430 5 жыл бұрын
I got my baby girl and my unborn baby... I'm happy😊 they're my family
@genionerve5137
@genionerve5137 5 жыл бұрын
My chapter 2 was to learn to live alone
@operationgoddess
@operationgoddess 3 жыл бұрын
This is so good! You help me so much! I so appreciate you! Thank you! Bless you! Ana maria ♡
@wendysalgado488
@wendysalgado488 4 жыл бұрын
I love you 💕 your videos ‘ I am so agree with you. I feel like that also and I will apply your tools
@nickilitt9129
@nickilitt9129 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Stephanie, I love your videos. I am hoping you will touch more on the topic of- how to deal with our feelings, in regards to our kids relationships, and experiences they build with people we won't ever know well. Such as our Ex and their new partner, etc. Is that something you are interested in addressing?
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
I will put it on the list.
@kali697
@kali697 5 жыл бұрын
Alone is better than being in a house with toxic family members or an abusive spouse. Enjoy the silence.
@backinblack1778
@backinblack1778 5 жыл бұрын
thanks . helpful advice .
@jagartharn6361
@jagartharn6361 5 жыл бұрын
The most awesome thing about being single during the holidays (Io Saturnalia!) is that I have no girlfriend or boyfriends house to go to where their family does nothing but bitch about politics. Then again this is likely applicable to being single in general, but this is the best part when its this time of year.
@timothycrespin6836
@timothycrespin6836 5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. Thank you
@laila_bella
@laila_bella 5 жыл бұрын
This is my first time on your channel and I would like to say thank you for making a video that helps my lovely mukbanger Stephanie Soo handling one of her manipulative 'friend' by watching your video which is uploaded 2 years ago :)
@D.E.Middleton
@D.E.Middleton 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Stephanie.
@marcinjasek5291
@marcinjasek5291 3 жыл бұрын
I really like this one
@sabrinalopez9789
@sabrinalopez9789 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@hollykay4947
@hollykay4947 5 жыл бұрын
This is my least favorite time of year. I always want to fast forward through. It’s depressing as hell for me and I’m really trying to be grateful and focus on the positive. It just seems that year after year it’s the same thing. I really hate when people say it’s the most wonderful time of the year, so thank you for addressing this.
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
Because their is so much pressure to think it is the most wonderful time of the year actually caused people to feel less than.
@deannahouston1266
@deannahouston1266 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! My husband just moved out today and told me he wants a divorce.
@SCGSHOW
@SCGSHOW 5 жыл бұрын
Where all my single people at??! ❤️
@giovannagiustino5139
@giovannagiustino5139 5 жыл бұрын
❤these tips & advice !!!
@456inthemix
@456inthemix 5 жыл бұрын
I"m a happy single mum & grandma, right now my grandchild is wirh me, we are soulmates. 👶👵
@SharpCats371
@SharpCats371 5 жыл бұрын
Tell them, I am living vicariously and find it satisfying or...chuckle. Your are not here to meet someone's lifestyle standard or expectations. Happy Advent Merry Christmas.
@roosterbrand3671
@roosterbrand3671 5 жыл бұрын
You are very pretty!
@sherriangebrandt3258
@sherriangebrandt3258 4 жыл бұрын
How do you cope when you have been a single mom for most of your kids life, now they are adults and they spend the holidays with their partners family? I dread the holidays now!
@joshpage3911
@joshpage3911 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@krylissnorwind7528
@krylissnorwind7528 5 жыл бұрын
I hate to be negative but after all the self love, after you've done all the things you want to do. The house is still quite and the bed is still cold.
@Ahmed35956
@Ahmed35956 5 жыл бұрын
Get married 🤗
@zaynabelmawri5499
@zaynabelmawri5499 5 жыл бұрын
Christmas lights is more then enough for me haha ...,Thank you !
@TiffTheTyrant
@TiffTheTyrant 5 жыл бұрын
Enjoy all the good stuff. Drink that egg nog, play Christmas music on the ukulele (drunk lol) go for a walk with the dog on a snowy day, drink a peppermint mocha with a good book in Starbucks, watch the movie Christmas Vacation, send a person an awesome Christmas card, visit people in the hospital...AVOID all social media.
@Zarasha1
@Zarasha1 5 жыл бұрын
I rather be single than be with someone that wants to use me as an emotional punching bag.
@ItsConstitutional
@ItsConstitutional 5 жыл бұрын
Being Single sucks, but when looking for that "one" needle in a haystack becomes impossible, Single is the most peaceful moment in a world of Chaos. In my years of life experience and interactions with people from the Rich and Famous to the Poor and Homeless, there are two types of people, Those who Seek truth in all things and those who love the Lies and hate the truth and hate all those who bring truth to the Table. Those who seek truth in all things usually are the ones who have "Inner Peace". They dont need material things, don't need to travel the world or have lust for money. I equate Those with inner peace, as like the character "Grasshopper" in Kung Fu David Carridine. Not the religious part of it under Budda, but those who seek and love knowledge and Truth in all things, they have the ultimate "Inner Peace".
@desikrus
@desikrus 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video! Very relevant to me.... Except for the family and friends bit.... Divorced, no kids, no surviving parents or relatives, no siblings... And very few friends who are in a completely different place in their lives (all with kids aged around 5 who are the centre of their universe and take up all their time, attention and energy) and are not interested in maintaining contact with me... Loneliness is quite palpable🙂 Any ideas how to survive the holiday season?🙂 Thanks in advance and Merry Xmas!
@jack_lin5946
@jack_lin5946 5 жыл бұрын
I'm going a pretty tough time. My ex broke up with me last month and now I'm all alone and depressed. Throughout these 2 years, I lost contact with many people because of the relationship and career goals. Now I feel incredibly lonely and my family is not an option because of fights. I keep missing my ex and I don't think I can handle this holiday season.
@breables1293
@breables1293 5 жыл бұрын
Jack_Minion same here but it gets better. You will see light at the end of your dark place and it will be amazing. So stay strong and do the work. You can make it through!
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with the person below. It does get better and do not get caught up in the holidays. Just focus everyday on thinking about what you want next for your life. The future can be scary or exiting you get to choose. You got this!
@jack_lin5946
@jack_lin5946 5 жыл бұрын
@@StephanieLynCoaching hey stephanie, thanks for the reply. I wish things will get better. I have no friends and no one to rely on. After I graduate, I'm pretty much going to be by myself. If by any chance, are you open to do a video about loneliness? I don't know how to handle it.
@Scott-kq2iz
@Scott-kq2iz 5 жыл бұрын
I know, they are like they are stuck in the matrix or something. I find i'm happy just doing my own thing. Sure I would be with someone but every relationship always turns into nothing but work. It would help if they would help build you up but no, we can't have that.
@anotherdroid493
@anotherdroid493 5 жыл бұрын
“Why are you still single” would make me want to ask, “Why are you still married?” 🤣
@cardude6617
@cardude6617 8 ай бұрын
Been single for 5 years and I wish my life would just end
@genionerve5137
@genionerve5137 5 жыл бұрын
I get happy when ur notification show for ur videos and have joy when i watch the videos 🤔😉😂🤣 sorry. Nah for reals to im just not looting i have other shit on my mind at the moment more important then worrying about why I don't have a fucking partner why am I single it's the least of my worries not on my to-do list right now
@genionerve5137
@genionerve5137 5 жыл бұрын
We are born to be alone i aint got no friends i roll by my solo like the pitch black ocean
@JessieInTheSky09
@JessieInTheSky09 5 жыл бұрын
Girl..... how did you know I just became single TODAY....
@F0reverblessed
@F0reverblessed 5 жыл бұрын
Jesse H The universe ! 💕
@ninajaakkola5819
@ninajaakkola5819 5 жыл бұрын
Once someone (a single guy) said to me about himself: "Maybe I'm too picky". I immediately responded: "A person can never be too picky. Picky is good." The guy responded: "WHAT? I always thought it's a bad thing to be picky."
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
🙊
@ninajaakkola5819
@ninajaakkola5819 5 жыл бұрын
@@StephanieLynCoaching I hope I was not misunderstood :-) I don't think I was :-) But just to make sure, I think I responded the way I did, because he said the word "too". I just wanted him to see that it's not all bad to be picky. That sometimes it's good to be somewhat picky. I said it a bit strongly because I thought (maybe erronously, I did not know this person very well, just an acquiantance) he needed "strong medicine" for the mind block he seemed (to me) to be suffering from. I wanted to liberate him from his own apparent limiting belief.
@ArdelleVision
@ArdelleVision 5 жыл бұрын
Been single all my life.🤟🏻
@F0reverblessed
@F0reverblessed 5 жыл бұрын
ArdelleVision Your soulmate is being molded just for you! 💕
@sophiadavenport3959
@sophiadavenport3959 5 жыл бұрын
Story of my life.
@jonsmith8083
@jonsmith8083 5 жыл бұрын
I love you
@ArdelleVision
@ArdelleVision 5 жыл бұрын
D.E.Y.A thanks girl!
@ArdelleVision
@ArdelleVision 5 жыл бұрын
Patricia tha bibliophile right?
@terribrown5989
@terribrown5989 5 жыл бұрын
I hope its the last year I'm single cause its been 26 years now
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
What do you think has caused you to stay single?
@terribrown5989
@terribrown5989 5 жыл бұрын
@@StephanieLynCoaching I wish I knew
@cristyaquacristy6107
@cristyaquacristy6107 5 жыл бұрын
How about those people who are meant to be single? I know i know , you will say that this it s not possible but what do you know ? 😆it s real
@ShadowBan666
@ShadowBan666 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Stephanie how about me and you stop being single together 😙 lol
@genionerve5137
@genionerve5137 5 жыл бұрын
I dont celebrate the holidays anyways. And are you single?
@kevinannatravels3142
@kevinannatravels3142 5 жыл бұрын
I dont mind being single it has a lot of advantages... being in a relationship doesn't determine if I'm a man
@StephanieLynCoaching
@StephanieLynCoaching 5 жыл бұрын
Boom!
@maudritouet6710
@maudritouet6710 5 жыл бұрын
bah you don't take any holidays !
@jimjones8808
@jimjones8808 5 жыл бұрын
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