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@max052752 ай бұрын
Have a good weekend, Robert. Thank you for your lessons.
@drfaustus722 ай бұрын
Hey Robert, it's your old upstairs neighbor from Waverly Drive. I remember you reading research for 48 Laws on the front porch. Glad you're doing so well!
2 ай бұрын
@@drfaustus72 flagged for lying
@bakooryhere33002 ай бұрын
But I already did Robert!
@chinweanthony24002 ай бұрын
Thanks Robert for your invaluable lessons. Will like to meet you someday
@halchemy2 ай бұрын
Being a good listener is an incredibly important skill to have.
@ClemensGoermer2 ай бұрын
I plan to retire at the end of 2025 at 62 after 36 years in Telecom as a sales engineer. My wife will retire in May 2026 and she's loving life! But walking away from a good income stream and building the nest egg to living from the nest egg is a scary proposition couple with the alarming recession and CPI report
@SueliPavlenko2 ай бұрын
I feel your pain mate, as a fellow retiree, I'd suggest you look into passive index fund investing and learn some more. For me, I had my share of ups and downs when I first started looking for a consistent passive income so I hired an expert advisor for aid, and following her advice, I poured $30k in value stocks and digital assets, Up to 200k so far and pretty sure I'm ready for whatever comes.
@VanceHorsford2 ай бұрын
My advice: for newbies to grow financially this year, invest. Saving is good, but investing elevates your finances. Why newbie make huge losses on trade is because investing without proper guidance can lead to mistakes and losses. that will stop you from trading, this has been one of the biggest problem to new traders, I've learned this from my own experience
@SueliPavlenko2 ай бұрын
Tracy Britt Cool Consulting was my hope during the 'bear summer' last year. I made so many mistakes but also learned so much from it, and of course from Tracy.
@EalDieguez-f7i2 ай бұрын
I'm surprised that this name is being mentioned here, I stumbled upon one of her clients testimonies on CNBC news last week...
@timothygebhart63372 ай бұрын
So true! I used to interview people for a radio station and know that people love nothing more than to talk about themselves and for someone to listen. The most valuable part of life is the story we live. Sharing that is sharing our soul in a sense. Asking questions and being curious not only is good for social skills, but is one of the ways to tap into a person's soul, to experience them on a fundamental level.
@U-inverse3692 ай бұрын
Well, plenty of people Tell the Story of their character, their Avatar, which is not real at all. Its just brainactivity generated by their senses and Central nervous system. What they really are, is the Player, the Architect, the observer, but yeah, Lets hear their Story about their world of Warcraft character. Its entertaining too and there is always something to learn, especially at what Level of conciousness they Look into this world of Warcraft. If we want a deeper connection, then we need the skill to direct the conversation with deeper questions. Not every meeting is built for that.
@natalieblagrove92922 ай бұрын
Same here I’m a freelance writer for a magazine. When I interview people I notice that they light up. When I finish an interview I’m usually inspired by their life story. It feels so good to experience human interest.
@DarkPsycheZoneАй бұрын
*Absolutely true! Being social is not just about mingling with people, but mastering the art of connecting, understanding, and communicating effectively. Just like any other skill, it can be nurtured and refined, empowering us to build meaningful relationships and thrive in any environment.*
@grindbuddyАй бұрын
Once again, this is gold. Robert thank you for dedicating your life to improve the lives of others.
@ramyelya112 ай бұрын
After watching this, I realized that I always listen to responses with something about me, my story, my suffering, or even my success. I will try to always look for the interesting thing in others and try to forget myself as I am watching a movie! Thanks, sir. I love to see you and your videos. Your thoughts are so precious and rarely found in the world. Your books should be considered as holy books; that is what the world needs! Love you from the Middle East.
@ChrisTrewVideos2 ай бұрын
Improv comedy classes are a GODSEND for people who need help being social.
@joydas71492 ай бұрын
Has it helped you? I am considering taking one
@ChrisTrewVideos2 ай бұрын
@@joydas7149 Yes! I am now teaching virtual classes as well. Lots of info about it on my channel - reach out if you have any questions. I've been drawing lots of parallels between Robert Green's writing and improv. You might love it!
@ChrisTrewVideos2 ай бұрын
@@joydas7149 Feel free to reach out if you want more info!
@NionS-12 ай бұрын
😂😂no improv people are cringe and annoying
@ChrisTrewVideos2 ай бұрын
@@NionS-1 don't you think that EVERY group of people has some within that are cringe and annoying? I don't doubt that you've experienced some cringe improv. But there's also cringe stand-up, sketch, etc.
@basicone73932 ай бұрын
I CONSIDER HIM, THE DAD THAT I DIDN'T HAVE. THANK YOU, ROBERT !!! THANK YOU SO MUCH. MÉXICO
@Harsh_Singh11112 ай бұрын
❤
@siyandadlamini4962 ай бұрын
Me too
@denizgunduz30542 ай бұрын
That would be a great dad to choose
@aliyuibrahimhaidar15222 ай бұрын
Same here❤
@gameboardgames2 ай бұрын
Great video! When I was young I read the great book, 'How To Win Friends and Influence People' and one of that book's points was the same golden message: by taking authentic and real interest in others, and asking them questions and learning more about them, anyone finds that flattering and a positive experience, because for 95% of our lives or whatever, we are stuck in our own world thinking about ourselves and feels like no one cares much about our own experiencer. If you find someone interesting (and EVERYONE is, in some way, or has an interesting story) the other person naturally feels a positive reaction from that and will engage with you beyond the surface level as it's a positive experience. This works in all kinds of relationships, be them with making new friends, long term relationships, networking events, at the bar, wherever.
@codeeu199418 күн бұрын
That book is not that good btw.. it focuses more on pleasing other people rather than connecting with them. Sharing your story and life while listening to others is the way to go.
@Greenbambu782 ай бұрын
Yes, absolutely! Learning to quiet the mind and reduce internal noises can improve one's ability to listen actively and attentively. When the mind is less cluttered/chatty, it’s easier to focus on what the other person infront of us is actually saying, rather than being distracted by your own assumptions, biases, or preferences. Social skills are important in all aspects in life.
@realMartinHamilton2 ай бұрын
Adlerian psychology says all problems are interpersonal relationship problems. Social skills are paramount as you point out and remind us. Thanks Robert.
@silentbullet20232 ай бұрын
when you're walking in public, you're walking in a library.
@wesadu2 ай бұрын
Indeed
@carolcasey54412 ай бұрын
Interesting idea ❤
@Limpshot_McGee2 ай бұрын
Wow that sums it up so damn well
@raj5999Ай бұрын
Very thoughtful
@ZokonАй бұрын
I like this. Thank you.
@diamondastar87342 ай бұрын
Thank you, Mr. Greene. Your books and your videos, helped me to improve myself, leave my toxic work environment and meet new people. And I’ve also met a new man I’m romantically interested in. You’ve helped me more than you’ll ever know. Thank you. I wish you all the best.
@dimitrifyodorovickaramazov2 ай бұрын
Great advice as always. I have been a top performer in almost every part of my life. However, I find social interactions difficult, in fact, i paid not much attention to them, just like Robert explains. 😂 and of course, for years, I have watched people being promoted, buying house, cars, getting married, etc., while I am left behind. It really sucks when you know you can do almost any given task, but the social realm always gets in your way. It’s as if the world works against you and everybody thinks you are a loser. Robert actually tells about Franklin, he used to be a top performer, but a very bad social human being. But he changed for the better. Reading and listening to him helps me. Thank you Robert.
@Bitsurf242 ай бұрын
You are an eternal blessing to humanity
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
@@Bitsurf24 Nay ! His Gathered Information About Things Beneficial To people is A Blessing.
@tapasroychoudhury224128 күн бұрын
Doctor green..gm from India.. you have changed my entire perspective to social media and being powerful not happy..kudos to you.💯👌👌👌👌
@samueljholly2 ай бұрын
glad to be alive in a time where I can absorb the knowledge of Mr. Greene
@gozdesar2 ай бұрын
"Pleasure is other people." Wonderful, thanks.
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
Nay wrong Miss ! Pleasure is Me
@robertimmanuel5772 ай бұрын
“Hell is other people”
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
@@robertimmanuel577 True ! HELL IS FUN .
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
@@robertimmanuel577 Why ? Did You Tried to see What They Hide From You ? Yeah Admiration And Praise For You
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
@@robertimmanuel577 They All Acting And Showing Infront Of Others ! Did You Tried To Listen What They Say About You When They Are Alone With No One Around ? When I Listened Them , All I Hear Was Praise ! Then the Next Day When We Were together in Coffee shop , all I hear Was Same Nonsense they trying to hide How Much They Want To be Like Me
@robbiewho47452 ай бұрын
This video came out at the perfect time! Thank you Robert Greene
@LauraParke2 ай бұрын
People are your greatest joy or biggest grief. We are all capable of being both sides of the coin. Robert is so right even Dale Carnegie said, "learning how to get along with people is your number one asset. We all attracted to honey more than vinegar.
@biasedknowledge2 ай бұрын
I love how you frame social skills as something that requires active effort and desire! I had a client who struggled with feeling disconnected from people, and it turned out they were just too focused on their own thoughts during conversations. After we worked on getting them to engage more deeply with others-taking an interest in the people around them, as you suggest-their relationships transformed. This advice is pure gold and makes such a difference in real-world situations!
@denisse.duobert2 ай бұрын
It's true. I need to discover more interesting people. Thanks Robert, you are the first most interesting person. 😘✨
@doobybro1207Ай бұрын
People are like all those books behind Robert. If you open it you will discover a new story every time!
@ankitjadhav867Ай бұрын
How to open them?
@drebugsita2 ай бұрын
4:21 facts. Very good point. Being self absorbed is pretty darn boringggg
@FergBent2.42 ай бұрын
Not for an introvert!
@briansibanda94632 ай бұрын
I don't want to talk to people,I'm anti social,and whenever I would talk I would burst,I would be angry,but ever since I saw all your videos I have started to remain calm n get a grip of my emotions..it still hurt me but I'm getting the hang of it,nowadays I don't reply I calmly read the person and deal with the situation I'm still not ready,so please sir keep on teaching and advising us Thank you
@sewem12 ай бұрын
yeah, watching his videos and reading his works definitely brings the best out of one selves
@chetanrs2 ай бұрын
you are not alone
@kraigmeatbicycle16362 ай бұрын
Hang in there, brother, and keep working at it!
@Daniel-ef7nk2 ай бұрын
Don't feel bad mist other people suck, only reason to try to get along is to succeed in a career
@True38Ай бұрын
@@Daniel-ef7nk It's always other people that suck, not you, correct? You're just a sweet ol saint that everybody should just love, right?
@FanaK-uh1hj24 күн бұрын
Robert Greene, Thank you so much. I've noticed you do a ton of interviews. I'd love to hear about the most interesting ones - like, what questions really made you think? and also challenged your way of thinking. a video about that would be highly informative.
@gloriyahboregah63842 ай бұрын
I really like how as time goes on, Robert continues to highlight the significance of his book on seduction. At first glance it may appear to be the least meaningful of his works, but shifting my perspective outwards has improved every aspect of my life. I now believe the best defense is a good offense; when I stop worrying about myself, my conversations are more fluid, and I see more clearly the value in all of my surroundings. I don’t know how it never clicked before-I was always just telling myself “be confident” without even knowing what it meant. Thank you for the guidance, Robert.
@sylviaowega38392 ай бұрын
I struggled with poor socials, but at the same token I always saw the great importance of developing them as it helps improve the quality of life and move up in the world.
@Eloysacanta2 ай бұрын
Best teacher on earth! 🙌🏻🙌🏻
@musicbrazilian70652 ай бұрын
Robert your diction is superb and your voice is beautiful.
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
Hy my brothers This Is The Way To Be Good At Social
@gloriyahboregah63842 ай бұрын
Alright alright hop off 😂
@jeffreywashington96462 ай бұрын
Its A Great Friday When Robert Drops A New Video 🙌🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏
@one_calis2 ай бұрын
Robert Greene = The Honest 🐐
@piyushmarde98772 ай бұрын
Hello sir, before this video I saw your other video (The Tedx Talk ) it was probably 10 years ago you were much more energetic back then...cut to today's video, you are getting old but I saw the same energy as before, I'm glad that your doing good and I wish you a healthy life ahead....and thank you so much for the "The Laws of Human Nature" it really helped me to discover myself.
@zahararay56112 ай бұрын
He had a stroke in 2018, which contributes to his lack of energy.
@Jollofpappi2 ай бұрын
Very true. Your story about Benjamin Disraeli opened my eyes to the benefits of having good social skills. I wish I can have a one on one with you Robert, I’ve learnt so much from your books
@lauraboyes63452 ай бұрын
It's exactly what we were taught in comparative literature - the OTHER perspective is just as valid and equally as interesting as your own, or what you are already familiar with.
@sharifmdhasan37102 ай бұрын
Life is art and you're the artist ✨
@roxiane2 ай бұрын
My problem is I’ve always been interested in others… But I realise over time that people are never interested in me. They don’t ask me what I think, they don’t want to hear about my story or what I want to say. It’s tiring…
@Kumariello2 ай бұрын
That means you are doing great,and you are a step ahead 🎉
@vrahilofficial2 ай бұрын
I feels ya... same here
@MeliMeli662 ай бұрын
I came here to say the same thing. I listen to others but am not asked. I used to take it personally and believe that I was just not an interesting person. I now realize that just because I have a gift for listening it doesn't mean that others have that same gift. Learning about personality types and enneagram, socionics helped me to appreciate myself more as well.
@SkyMoo-oo2 ай бұрын
Exactly
@joyholtzhausen89762 ай бұрын
Most people are selfish/self centred. Shows they have no social skills either....
@AkpomenaCooking2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message Robert Greene I read your book on human nature and your chapter on narcissism helped me acknowledge this and it’s been really helpful in my life recently
@abdelrhimhagag88352 ай бұрын
Teacher Robert thank you so much
@dailyrepsofficial2 ай бұрын
Being social is an art, not just an instinct. Aristotle believed, 'Man is by nature a social animal.' Cultivating this skill enriches our connections and expands our influence. Mastering it transforms interactions into meaningful relationships.
@RobertoCastán-u7e2 ай бұрын
Always Awesome having the chance listening to you dr Greene 🫶🏻
@jheniferpenter66912 ай бұрын
How blessed I feel to be able to watch you explaining like this. You are one of my favorite authors and I look up to you! Thank you for this video, thank you for your work. 🙂
@umeshkhatri68572 ай бұрын
Robert Greene is a legend🙏🇳🇵
@Dolph-fe2ks2 ай бұрын
"Find someone more interesting than yourself." Easy work.
@stitischannel19632 ай бұрын
Find people that interest you But don't think about you like that, or say bad things to you. Just speak to yourself like it's one of your loving one(friends etc) Sorry for my english
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
@@Dolph-fe2ks I Tried Hard But Found No One ! They Said Then God Will Be interesting , I Said Afcourse I am Interesting
@Dolph-fe2ks2 ай бұрын
@@stitischannel1963 Thank You 💪🏼💜😎.
@beastoftalvar2 ай бұрын
Thank you for what you do Sir.❤
@RoyPinkman2 ай бұрын
This was the most impactful video on my life.
@cynthiaars81402 ай бұрын
It's absolutely true!! I still have work to do on that matter but I improved a lot and it's true, the quality of my relationships has increased enormously since I give more attention to what others say and I discovered that it's really fun to listen to other's stories!!!
@prs_812 ай бұрын
Thanks robert
@liebingf2 ай бұрын
Thanx Mr. G. !
@JamesLanee2 ай бұрын
This is so super helpful, thank you Robert! Would LOVE for you to come on my podcast.
@kirstisamuelsen31772 ай бұрын
For me it is. I try to be better with people all the time.
@sewem12 ай бұрын
I just enjoy watching robert greene's videos
@MsTosha11112 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing ❤
@filho_da_noite_amigo2 ай бұрын
You are a master of human behavior Robert. No wonder you wrote a book on mastery.
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
@@filho_da_noite_amigo Yes True He's Master Of Imitation
@Fedgery007Ай бұрын
I be would say 90% of people have no clue how to make conversation. People rarely ask me about myself, they just like talking about themselves or talking about superficial things.
@AlamoCityCello2 ай бұрын
Bobby, you are extremely generous to give this wisdom to us. Many thanks!
@rosequartzs2 ай бұрын
Why Bobby?
@HMadalin2 ай бұрын
Who the fuck is Bobby?
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
@@HMadalin I swear By Your Life I was Typing the same To Ask Then found you did it Thanx
@davidbrobb2 ай бұрын
@@HMadalinhahaha right
@MM-fd1zg2 ай бұрын
Lol 😂
@kobel45702 ай бұрын
Done Robert! Anything for you sir!
@julijakeit2 ай бұрын
We are definitely not all narcissists, once you deal with a real narcissist, the difference between a healthy self-interest and clinically malicious behavior becomes as clear as sunny day in July the middle of a dessert and a night in Alaska in December.
@peachluck10502 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment. Absolutely true and vital to understand.
@perfectlymydaze2 ай бұрын
I love you, Sir
@amitbarc2 ай бұрын
Another masterclass of Robert as expected...keep this coming master ❤
@göttIich2 ай бұрын
Your works are majestic, I hope they last until the end of time. I could "flatter" you, but you must already be aware of what you have done in this world. 🇧🇷
@TheExistenceClass02 ай бұрын
@@göttIich Not They Only It ! Will last for Eternity
@banditkarim2577Ай бұрын
Thanks
@schoolneverteach2 ай бұрын
Great point that desire is a key step for developing social skills. Perhaps the other very important thing is the acknowledgemnt that no one cares, so social anxiety is indeed quite a waste of time and energy....
@wiltonsoto-iw7iq2 ай бұрын
Great, thanks!
@UniUnfiltered2 ай бұрын
Your wisdom changed my life thank you sir ❤ 🙏
@dawahkim29312 ай бұрын
Exciting & impactful video. You guys comments are quite educative as well.
@bennyguitarjamtrack2 ай бұрын
Thx Mr Greene
@pradeepbhatnagar4848Ай бұрын
Impressive lecture.Thanx,👍
@michamichalak62002 ай бұрын
Most people are not interested in anything but themselves, projecting your own attitude is not wise.
@jonahjolie74662 ай бұрын
I want to practice… sounds like an adventure and fun!
@ShyamkrishnanNair29 күн бұрын
Absolutely agree! Social skills are often underrated, yet they shape our relationships and well-being. I used to think I could just wing it, but after realizing how much I was missing, I started actively engaging with others. I found that humor can break the ice, but it’s tricky-sometimes it lands, sometimes it doesn’t. Joining the Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x helped me understand that humor is about connection and empathy. Embrace the awkwardness, keep practicing, and you’ll find your confidence growing!
@JoseMorales-bh8xp2 ай бұрын
Thanks sr This information is really helpful and good time to for me.
@shawnburr86922 ай бұрын
It is absolutely a skill, not everyone can do it at a successful level.
@theantboy2 ай бұрын
those two things negate each other. if it's a skill everyone can LEARN it with practice.
@shawnburr86922 ай бұрын
@@theantboy just because you practice at a skill doesn't necessarily mean you'll learn it AT A SUCCESSFUL LEVEL. Being social and communication goes 2 ways, one you have to learn is yourself, the other is how others perceive you. You may be able to do it at an acceptable level to yourself, but others may not feel the same. You seem to be leaving out that metric in order to make yourself sound correct. That's ok though, use it as an opportunity to sharpen your social skills.
@theantboy2 ай бұрын
@@shawnburr8692 i cba debating with some dude on youtube. If we we're to debate we would have to define what "success" is within communication. You could argue that being able to function in society socially is success, but as it's subjective there's no reason for us to talk about it. My point was that even a person with communicative issues could become great at if he/her puts in, let's say 10+ hours of daily practice and added analysis for YEARS. The only thing that would hold someone back from that is being mute, deaf mentally challenged, but that's a minority and the minority doesn't make the rule.
@Enviz00Ай бұрын
Being Social is a Skill - Interacting with people is a skill that needs practice - Level of desire; do not be self-absorbed - View your self-absorption is very boring and repetitive - Everyone is like a movie, think what the other person is like, what their story, be interested. - "What is it like to be you?" - Find people more interesting than yourself
@voidxdonuts2 ай бұрын
Yes being social is a skill, based to neuroscience because skill is just a specific cognitive structure.
@fireman54192 ай бұрын
I never wanted to have social skills. I never wanted to be very good at social skills. I’m looking forward to the day that I don’t have to use these social skills ever again. However I have a feeling that these skills will come in handy some day.
@pistonpoppinmama2 ай бұрын
You say it so well! ❤❤❤ i struggle socially- [i want to be introverted by default. ] ican mix and mingle but its those longer lasting interactions i see at work-- the silliness and goofiness… or the connection … what are THEY doing different??? i always feel like i dont quite fit in…. 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
@Santafefashionweek2 ай бұрын
Great advice
@RoyEldorado2 ай бұрын
Excellent 👌🏾
@CarloscastanosjrАй бұрын
This past few days watching my crypto portfolio decline is very disheartening. Holding doesn't really profit much. Any idea on how to earn better in the short run?
@RhodoraMunicАй бұрын
Trading without a professional guide....Hud i laugh you, because you will remain where you are or even make huge losses that will stop you from trading, this has been one of the biggest problem to new traders
@TinacoOcioАй бұрын
The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance either on your own or with the help of a financial professional but is very advisable you make use of a professional .
@savannahglembin7090Ай бұрын
Addilyn Madris Ambrose was my hope during the 'bear summer' last year. I did so many mistakes but also learned so much from it, and of course from Addilyn Madris.
@LeavandonPaulАй бұрын
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@FedrickLucas-xz1zvАй бұрын
I've come across this name before, please can i reach her?
@berger19682 ай бұрын
Robert Greene is a genius
@annihilationHaven2 ай бұрын
I've had 0 interaction with other people and I'm perfectly fine. I can't hardly believe it turned out that way, but you can't force people to interact with you, it's their loss.
@ShuaibMonsurat23 күн бұрын
Very helpful 👏👏👏
@rutummaling51432 ай бұрын
Listen 70 talk 30 but remember always focus on urself who you are? Always be better ❤
@smokeweave39252 ай бұрын
if i didnt read 48 laws of power and never understood psychology my whole life would be in a diffrent direction
@Deeprospers2 ай бұрын
Yea I thought the same until I realize I was already using the works in book. Thankfully I didn’t realize how potent those tools are if used correctly
@thegreat94812 ай бұрын
Yall sound so sad
@leandrolucchesi9622 ай бұрын
@@thegreat9481 why? i didn't read the book but it seems difficult to state that someone is sad by reading a phrase
@thegreat94812 ай бұрын
@@leandrolucchesi962 The book was not written for you to become the people described within it. The book also had reversals to every law. So for a person to say they use tactics in the book to get through life is kinda pathetic if I’m being honest. I can’t imagine what type of person goes through everyday life thinking about this book like its never someone bigger and badder than them 😂 It’s just about awareness of people you may come across. Read it from that scope whenever you do.
@leandrolucchesi9622 ай бұрын
@@thegreat9481 thank you! I understand now! I'm really curious to read it
@SentMyOwnWay2 ай бұрын
Robert Greene has social skills 👌
@mycoachdave2 ай бұрын
"Be interested, not interesting." ~Les Giblin, Skill With People
@ballintogher2 ай бұрын
95% of life involves interactions with people? Sometimes I can go days without talking to anyone
@BeeRich332 ай бұрын
Avoiding problematic people is a skill.
@EmperorsNewWardrobeАй бұрын
Any thoughts on how someone does that, such as what to look for and how to handle that?
@BeeRich33Ай бұрын
@@EmperorsNewWardrobe After studying narcissism, you get sensitive to how people interact. They can get slightly controlling and have this look in their eyes.
@seagull50002 ай бұрын
Dear Robert, I have the exact opposite problem. I listen to other people all the time. Whether they are friends with a few exceptions, or just acquaintances, they talk about themselves and their problems all the time but they are not at all interested in reciprocating. Whenever I tell them about a problem of my own they will dismiss it, when I express an opinion they don't like they are quick to judge me. This has become a lot worse now that I have moved from a big city to the countryside. The initial interest and connection I feel turns into boredom, to say the least. If one is not self absorbed how do they deal with others who are self absorbed? I would very, very much appreciate an answer. Thank you!
@mogulmade2 ай бұрын
This is where I am at currently. I'm letting everything die now by not listening and it is eye opening. People are users
@karenlewkowitz58582 ай бұрын
Well, this sounds good - but, so many do not wish this, but to hear how you can benefit them. Our interactions are transactions.
@NinjaRunningWild2 ай бұрын
The only problem with this approach is talking to people & realizing there’s nothing there.
@zenostrixsterАй бұрын
As I was watching this video I imagined or thought what it might be like to be my friend. He has his family scattered all across the country. His family has a weird dynamic some being out of country and others not having a good relationship. I thought this and immediately it all seems so much more interesting. Like I wanna know what it feels like and how he manages it all. How much does he contact his parents and don't you like miss them. How do you handle the house hold stuff. Like wow that's amazing.
@DrunkPawn2 ай бұрын
Genious and simple
@MoonGlow222 ай бұрын
You already know your ideas, memories, Phantasies and cant learn anything new from them. But you can learn from other people. And the other side will have extreme amount of pleasure by explaining themselves and like you more. Its a win win for everyone
@BeAlphaX2 ай бұрын
Socialization is very important for you to Grow, have Confidence...Being Socialize will have a 99% Impactful to your Life...
@mcviper2702 ай бұрын
Pain is being self absorbed. Pleasure is other people. You must want to know what the other person's story is like. What is it like to be them? Action on this will unlock a higher level of social skill.
@dragabistreit2 ай бұрын
Two comments about this video: first, the more intelligent a person is, in every sense of intelligence, the more they tend to distance themselves from people. And second: this behavior of not being interested in the lives of others is American. Latinos, for example, are passionate, they want to know about you, they ask you about your life. Americans have a different profile.
@Daniel-ef7nk2 ай бұрын
Yes because very intelligent people prefer to spend time alone thinking rather than socializing and ending up dealing with all sorts of conflicts which are inevitable
@Yarmox2 ай бұрын
Only if youre another Latino.
@rajeshenghi74172 ай бұрын
Eye 👀 opening video ❤❤❤
@sarahsmith30162 ай бұрын
“We’re all narcissists”. That’s quite a statement lol. Can’t say I agree