Ben Platt - Grow As We Go [Official Video]

[@CXLVIII]

This song is the equivalent of when your throat hurts while you’re holding back tears

[@ericbowron6524]

If this ain't the truth..

[@NicholeCarterMusic]

it is just....a song that guts you litterally

[@dfnkjaws]

Why does that happen?? Always wondered!

[@torijwilcox]

Wow. Yup.

[@felicityjohnston9276]

@@dfnkjaws a certain type of stress I believe

[@joncerda351]

Ben has said this wasn't written because someone broke up with him. He actually wrote this from the perspective of the person he separated with. He was the one who needed space. That's the power of acting, the empathy of seeing the other side. It's truly powerful and moving. Thank you Ben for this beautiful song!

[@ruaraimckenna]

in an interview (with GMM I think) Ben said that he wrote this about one of his past partners with whom he had a very special relationship that he didn't want to end, but that he understood that they both needed to go their separate ways in the end.

[@sandysinner6901]

@@ruaraimckenna i dont get that. I smell bs

[@OrderedEntropy]

@@sandysinner6901 How don't you get that me and my ex seperated for the same reasons because love alone cant keep you going till death do us part. Love is but the basis.

[@xBlacksStarx]

I wonder if he's crying because he doesn't mean this song to be benefiting from their sadness, or using their heartbreak for profitable inspiration; he means this as a way of empathy and understanding the person. In the end: the song is still making him money; and I think the double edged sword is horribly painful to bear, because he means well, and is worried after breaking up with them, this song will come off wrong to the person it's meant for.

[@abubblez12]

That would make sense as to why you see the guy is leaving and the girl is chasing.

[@malcontent7976]

Dude, you should fix the video:/ it's kinda blurry...oh wait, it's just my tears.

[@JaHm3sZ]

u had me the first half LMFAOOO

[@syakirahheartnet8059]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@amandaolivo4574]

this comment omgggg

[@waawa3096]

I WAS GONNA THROW HANDS HAJGSTGAG

[@ellismartiskainen7729]

haha

[@EmeraldSammy]

Suddenly I understand why I always ran away, pushing everyone away. I need to learn how to don't get scared growing up alongside someone else. What a powerful song!

[@WorkerBeesUnite]

So freaking true… also if that other person is still just me

[@mandielou]

Loving God first and caring for yourself would be also a great help in being able to commit to someone and growing with them.

[@irene6133]

I wanted to break up with my boyfriend few times before, but he never want to allow me. Until last november he finally agreed, the failure of my decision happened when he found a way reach me. He never left afterwards. He's like a pimple you can't get rid off easily. But, he made me understand how much he cared for me with his efforts and how he accepts me regardless of my immaturity and insecurities. I understood how badly he wanted me to be with him. (Obsession at it's best) I realize that i could improve myself beside him, that I can depend on him when times I just feel helpless. He did so many things to have me, and did so many things to have me again. I'm grateful I have him with me. (Thankfully he's not the maniac type of obsessed man.)

[@SxCR4WR]

@@irene6133 I should’ve stood by my ex 😕

[@irene6133]

@@SxCR4WR patience is a virtue and it pays you well.

[@CherylPorterVocalCoach]

Just sitting here crying listening to this magical song and Ben

[@at-fq1km]

not me being in my feels at the same time as the Cheryl Porter

[@Evanchih_]

Samee

[@sithjedipumpkin5311]

We can cry together

[@smeazy41]

Teach me to sing pls

[@niccursmoviez1272]

all the time and seeing ben tear makes me flood

[@alexal.2483]

“We didn’t know we were making memories we just knew we were having fun” - Winnie the Pooh

[@Oraf843]

Deep!

[@myamorden5273]

Bro copy and paste be coming hard here

[@alexal.2483]

Mya Morden ???????

[@borgorkong7811]

Im 14 and this is deep

[@zahraghalib1146]

@@borgorkong7811 same bitch my childhood lol i remember being happy but i dont remember the feeling i can remember it being there but not what it was like

[@alexandrawolgamott]

I can’t believe the Treblemakers didn’t let him in

[@21stcenturygamer79]

If they made a spinoff of Pitch perfect, that focused on the Treblemakers it would've done way better than the garbage fire that was Pitch Perfect 3

[@alexandrawolgamott]

21st Century Gamer seriously....

[@yuma9987]

21st Century Gamer no❤️

[@21stcenturygamer79]

@@yuma9987 pitch perfect 3 was a mistake just like you.

[@21stcenturygamer79]

@@yuma9987 nah just joking, but seriously that movie had an identity crisis, and was a heaping pile of trash.

[@harryines4043]

Just gonna leave this comment here. So one day in the future when someone likes this comment, I'll be reminded of this beautiful song :)

[@KaraDaumueller-ez8sh]

❤❤❤

[@Darkone666.]

Listen to this now buddy ❤

[@christophersony7975]

Best comment on the World Wide Web I’ve read today. Love from Manchester England.

[@DVIs101]

Ding

[@trishapellis]

Hi, this is wake-up service

[@anvy2000]

I haven't seen anyone in the comment section talks about this, but that's such a beautiful dance routine.

[@chloevann5373]

Right?!

[@gailkentry2567]

dance is beautifully done and flows with the song! Amazing dancers!

[@bluejaysymphony8374]

IKR

[@annmaria7528]

that's called lyric dance

[@mobiz711]

It really is. It's so physical, almost violent. Really creative.

[@anelamom27]

You say there's so much you don't know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won't find it tied someone else Who said it's true, That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go, ooh And grow as we go, ooh You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn I don't know how this river rides But I'd like to the company through every twist and turn Who said it's true, That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go, ooh And grow as we go, ooh And grow as we go, ooh And grow as we go, ooh I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go, oh And grow as we go, oh And grow as we go, oh And grow as we go, ooh

[@elizabethdagestino6768]

Jasmine Nunez oh god bless you

[@Stephanie-jv5mf]

what does ebb mean?

[@regiramanathan6245]

@@Stephanie-jv5mf it is a word used to describe the waves of the sea. They ebb and flow. Meaning that they go back and forth.

[@jazzy7319]

Thanks 👍

[@kiara8968]

this is amazing thank you legend

[@itsyeboiandrew]

There are two types of people in this world: People who love Ben Platt People who don't know Ben Platt

[@tongkemkonyak8353]

and i’m sorry for the last ones ;(

[@basilgoodwin9207]

He was in the move pitch perfect lol

[@notvam]

agreed

[@鷲尾桃]

The third one: idiots

[@gracecw]

Yes exactly

[@ellenanderson612]

I love how people interpret this song differently. Some people see it as a breakup song for two people who love each other and just are not right for each other. While others see this song as a tribute to partners growing together through challenges. Yes, I know he wrote it about a relationship he had where he knew they just weren’t right for each other. But that’s the beauty of music. Interpretation!

[@TheStarss785]

So my interpretation is, I made this new friend and I didn't think twice about it he doesn't want to date anyone n just be friends. Then after spending time with him he made me notice that I wasnt just falling for his personality but i was falling for him. (Of course never confessing this to him but I'm sure he knew by the way I simply held his hand or the way my eyes looked at him So Deeply.) So I kept asking myself why has God brought this person into my life and why do I hold him so closely to me? He's always kept people at a far distance cuz he says he wants to leave behind the smallest print of damage (as a grenade he referenced himself) After a while he told me his sercret. That he was dying from cancer n the doctors told him he be lucky to live 3-6 months. It took everything in me not to fall to my knees in front of him n not cry, but I knew I had to be strong standing there hearing this, at the same time I never felt my heart be torn apart in this new different way. All I wanted was his company n the way he's shaping me to be the man I should be n always wanted to be. So as I'm growing n learning from him I decided to spend every second that I can have with him as a gift. While we all have a soulmate or soulmates in this world we never know how much time we have to spend with that person, So I'm gonna enjoy it n bring as much happiness into his world bcuz he has brought so much love into my heart. PS: he's still alive n still going from the time expectancy the doctors gave him.

[@Gundomdum]

I find it beautiful as a wedding song and a divorce sweet lemon as well

[@semanleman]

Lovely

[@leftout1663]

I agree on the second interpretation. Because I know how significant and challenging life is. Love isn't always butterflies and rainbows.

[@shroendeshmukh5063]

@@TheStarss785 no one's interested to listen to your gay shit

[@kreamloom]

His voice? Beautiful The music? Wonderful The dancing? Amazing My wig? Snatched Hotel? Trivago

[@grandcoasters]

Depression? Cured

[@kyliekjorsvik]

Ben? Platt

[@azhalicendra4783]

Mmmmm, doesn't rhymes correctly, but i agree. Lol

[@grandcoasters]

@@azhalicendra4783 eh anjir kaget

[@azhalicendra4783]

@@grandcoasters LAH ADA ELO??!!

[@ToxicPopsicle]

I've never listened to a song for the first time and thought "Wow, this makes me want to get married so I can have this be 'our song' and do our first dance to it." This is it. This is the song.

[@asklar]

protect this wholesome content

[@Lizzie_Kat]

I felt that way when I first heard 'You Are The Reason' by Calum Scott, but now that I've heard this, I don't think I could think of a better song for that purpose.

[@alien_from_andromeda]

Marcus McLeod Thats exactly what I thought! I was like “I just want someone so this can be our song, our wedding song and everything”

[@xqual1210]

Mine was a choreographed routine to Toxic by Brittney but now I may have to reconsider

[@taakotuesdays]

This and Ease my Mind

[@emmygunderson7270]

Two years ago, I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and felt broken. This song kept me from breaking up with my boyfriend. It took the words he had been trying to tell me for so long and put it in a song. After hearing this song, I let him love me just where I was. We grew together. We’re getting married in December :) Edit: Thank you all for the kind words! We decided last night that this HAS to be the song we dance to for our first dance. No other song is as meaningful!

[@thenardiersiblings]

That’s wonderful! Congratulations!

[@mithingthooth_5449]

wow that's great... congratulations

[@TheYuna1999]

@@thenardiersiblings I'm so happy for you! Congratulations!!

[@kimberleyanne6983]

I’m crying this is amazing

[@chewerxian1260]

Congrats!!

[@hcraig9246]

I don't know if you've ever loved someone who struggles with the demons of manic depression but there is a detaching they do when they hit their lows- a pushing away as they wrestle with all of the worst solutions to a battle they feel like they never win. The first time I heard this song, it had me in a ball on the floor. I wanted to call my daughter, immediately, and play it for her. This is what I feel every time she goes to that dark place. I get that this was written from the perspective of two people in a romantic relationship but I will never see it as anything but a mother begging her daughter to just keep holding on. That she doesn't have to go to the dark places alone.

[@jaredpatsfield5584]

Oh, I believe there are more people than you know who relate to this song in a similar way. I pray for you and your daughter. You are not alone.

[@DontHatemusiK]

Wow this comment just broke me 😭

[@rachelw1076]

I'm bipolar, and I know this so well. Thank you for continuing to show up for your daughter. And from both of us - it means everything.

[@wyleong4326]

You’re the light in her darkest night. Hope you’re all alright.

[@supermanfan1988]

Wow. Your comment really got to me. You're a good mama. We could all use a mom like you 😊

[@callmemads80085]

I’m sorry, but the way Ben is just trembling at the end fills me with so much heartbreak. Like, he just stares off into the distance as the director talks to the crew, and then he says “Ben? We good?” And he just snaps out of it and says “yes. Good.” And just darts away Jfc Ben please stop making me cry ilysm

[@Hanawiess]

Oh No Rose Ben is so precious is hurts

[@alexamurphy948]

When he cries I cry. It's just a mess of damage.

[@hoodiepotato9327]

What makes it worse is the dancing in the video because it kind of shows that someone left him even tho that person was basically a part of him and that them leaving (by the rough kind of quick hard dancing) was not easy :’(

[@jof6619]

I wonder if is in character...

[@kyragrayc]

He’s channeling his inner Evan

[@itsnerdo]

Is it possible for one human to be more wholesome?

[@casshervas9120]

Idk but hes one of the reasons i havent killed myself yet

[@digidelight]

@ please stop, same... and @ lizard4343 no, no way ever

[@joeybaldini5202]

@Nala R. the battle of the gods

[@georgesbleps897]

No

[@robg3179]

The way he says, "Yes. Good." at the end is all of us.

[@MihiJay]

Goosebumps right there! Almost felt the tears in my throat

[@niabisrealm]

except after this song i was really not good lol i was big sad for a little bit after

[@Nozuka621]

@@niabisrealm that's the point...

[@shazneentabassum9833]

The most beautiful thing anyone can ever do is accept your flaws, your insecurities and help you overcome them. The most beautiful kind of love is the one that is not perfect, but the one that helps you grow as you go. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever find someone like that. A love like that is so rare, it's a privilege. So if you have someone in your life who accepts you in your darkest moments, stays by your side and helps you grow, please don't let them go.

[@Sammyshimmy]

I was that person to someone but she left me because she said she was tired being disrespectful to me and tired trying to overcome that trait. I guess something like that makes people like us become rare. I have my negative traits too but i am willing to change it just to be together but she wasnt interested again.

[@mimosytb]

BEN THIS IS SO GOOD

[@JoshuaWiesner]

Seriously! I love this new album!

[@Esmeralda-fo1dk]

Can we take a moment to applaud those dancers 👏 It was so beautiful. That is TALENT. And Ben.. wow! I’M A MESS 😭

[@eleaya_rebekah]

I loved the dancers

[@Catalina-ub3un]

😭

[@hannahdaly97]

Effie Tutko has performed in many of Kyle Hanagami's videos.

[@cristianafrancisco3487]

It's incredible how synchronized they were

[@jazzyb901]

Rudy's choreography is amazing!!! And Ben..UGH. All the ugly tears 😭😭

[@cowboykelly]

THE WAY HE LOOKS AT THE DOORWAY WAITING FOR HIS SOMEONE TO COME THROUGH AT THE END GETS ME EVERY TIME

[@lemmymemmy]

Underrated.

[@Kai-ob6hd]

It makes me tear up each time. I can feel and see the pain in this song. It's so poignant and honestly one of my favourites. I've watched it over and over and I will watch it over and over for as long as I can.

[@armandoF31]

@@Kai-ob6hd i agree, I wish I could hug Ben at the end. I also think about my past experiences.

[@brittanyjohnson5708]

That's when the tears get heavy! Amazing acting

[@punkjunk1764]

I don’t know why at that scene it felt like he was the one who left and now lives to regret it so he stares at the door where she used to wait

[@magnoliadjholmes247]

I don't understand how people's voices can be this crisp, clear, and clean when they sing

[@noetrix3312]

Melodyne

[@dawniebug784]

Practice. I sang for 8 years. Practice.

[@leandroutz]

Practice and post-production. Distortion, some reverb, many harmony layers, Eq and compression. And a lot of love

[@JulianneCunard]

as a broadway performer, you have to know the rules. with really good contemporary music, you have to know the rules to break them. when you constantly sing live, you must adapt your voice, thus it will have a natural, smooth sound.

[@magnoliadjholmes247]

@Dawniebug I guess it's practicing with the proper techniques and instruction. I've been singing in front of people for the last 11 years. It's all been based on what I hear and think I need to do from what I see others do, but my voice is never crisp or clean sounding. I think I need proper training for that on top of practice.

[@corinnedamron1047]

Director: how many people do you want to cry because of this Ben: yes

[@mpremojohnson74]

Bwahahhaha...perfect

[@chloesutton7716]

Everyone lol

[@giuliaguidorizzi9456]

Honestly that’s really accurate

[@Puppee101]

Nobody: Ben: lets see how many people I can make cry

[@brandykimberly8355]

I have deep depression and although I love the song, it made me sadder and made me think about growing old. Something I'd rather not do.

[@deminions9302]

Since i lost my wife, i have been seeing her right next to me while i talk to the imaginary "her". Sometines I see her smile, sometimes i see her cry, giving me a cheer of encouragement or waving goodbye to me. Its so real sometimes that i felt a moment of comfort seeing her there... But i know how Ben feels at the end of the video... cause thats how i tear up when i reality hits me. When I know that shes actually gone.

[@billmarshall5040]

De Minions 😥

[@pranav1576]

Take care buddy

[@razz7898]

Damn man...💜 hang in there.

[@jkudaba]

everything will be ok buddy

[@skyescheffer5737]

❤

[@calebdesjardins616]

Me and my wife grew up together and have known each other since we were 5. We were friends then enemies, lovers, then parents. We now have a baby boy and have grown to learn so much from each other and about each other. Love is not agreement but acceptance and appreciation. This song speaks so much to us that I learned it and sang it for my 9 month pregnant wife who I still love with all my heart from 20 years ago :)

[@minervaramirez3106]

Wow 😍

[@wanjefrancis1107]

Awwee. Now that's a special kind of love

[@nusrathnecole8162]

actual goals wow

[@crime24]

Love is not agreement but acceptance and appreciation. That’s a great advice hope all people acknowledge it and to be aware that love is hard work not something easy.

[@etsymichael1514]

Good luck with the child be safe and have a great life with your wife.

[@jackiemakeuptutorials2524]

I got pregnant with my baby but it wasn't in plan, I felt like I had made a mistake, I felt like everything was on standstill, achieving my dreams felt impossible, I didn't know what to do with the child but when I listened to this song, it changed everything

[@sarahralph3421]

A perfect relationship is not perfect, it's just that both people never gave up. If you want a realatioship that looks and feels like the most amazing thing on Earth, you need to treat it like it is the most amazing thing on earth. You don't need someone to complete you. You need someone to accept you completely.

[@justqil8570]

This just makes me cried so hard . Ugh i stan u sis!

[@breannabell5334]

Write me a good book.

[@_colourfulmess2132]

OMG YASS!!❤ I share your view 100%. Couldn't have said it any better.

[@islarose8872]

I like this comment. I’m listening to this song. As I’ve just recently been hurt, and everything that he sung is what we said.

[@andrewsteven5893]

Thank you for this... ❤️❤️❤️

[@lwj93]

This song reminds me of when my boyfriend broke up with me. We went our separate ways for a year and somehow found our way back to each other and now we're getting married at the end of this year :')

[@ChicaMari5]

Congratulations. I'm so happy for you...

[@cas6648]

Have a happy marriage :')

[@debasmitachoudhury4104]

Aww congratulations 😁

[@fafaahmed4820]

Congratulations

[@luckpatrol]

god i hope this happens to me.

[@danielbrittjr5105]

Oh man. If only we were smart enough to not make permanent decisions under the influence of temporary emotions.

[@billmarshall5040]

daniel britt jr Great comment.

[@ShilohKeeling]

Thank you for saying this. It's something I needed to hear from someone else...you gave me closure in some strange way.

[@liviamaria535]

@@ShilohKeeling I know exactly how this feels... I don't know what you're going through but I hope that everything gets better from now on ❤

[@ShilohKeeling]

@@liviamaria535 person I don't know, I thank you for that. It truly has been better. It's kind of a nice feeling when someone somewhere says exactly what you needed that someone else couldn't say it in the way it was said.

[@jessicalay6553]

200th like :)

[@Wtvrflotesurgoat]

I love this song. We got married when we were 19 years old. Going on 16 years now. Grow as we go!

[@emberleonard531]

That, "Yes. Good." Though. I can't stress enough how important good acting is to musical performance. Ben is absolutely stunning in this area. Can't wait to hear the rest of the album!

[@osminreyes1806]

It reminds me so much of Evan (the character he played in dear Evan Hansen) like the song made my eyes water but as soon as I heard that one line at the end I started sobbing

[@rhirice5111]

I love Ben Platt so much

[@tiffaniemarie1190]

This is unrelated but omg your pic just gave me so much nostalgia! I can't believe how long ago now that Felix had that as his pic

[@olliewaller3416]

me too- hey there old-time bro how you doing

[@chantel5245]

am i the only person that thinks this song could be both heartbreaking and filled with love? i mean most clearly it's about one of those heartwrenching breakups where nothing's innately wrong it's just one person wants something different. but i feel like it could be sang also like a love song/serenade with one person reassuring the other person that they'll grow as they go.

[@jaemaxx]

absolutely,I see it as reassuring the other person that you both will continue to grow together

[@MeetByTheRiver]

You're not the only one. It's both reassuring and heartbreaking. I find this song very beautiful, and it's one of those that makes me tear up everytime I hear it.

[@layalkate4806]

Well.... I showed this song to my lover today. We both are 16 and have this big exam in front of us. And he just found out that a lot of things need to change in him. I am really scared that I might lose him in this journey of him growing out of his past self. He one day told me that he'll leave if he fails. So I showed him this song and told him this expresses all the things that I want. I want both of us to grow together.

[@hamishbuttner3263]

@@layalkate4806 you have a whole life ahead of you. Something I learnt is nothing is permanent.

[@dcorgaez]

its both, my ex said he would grow as we go and reassured me but eventually he left because we wanted different things and di not want to anymore

[@sahilsohani2759]

If u made it here. Your taste of songs is real good.

[@antmoose]

This seems to come directly after "Ease My Mind" in the longer narrative Ben Platt is telling across the videos for this album. (He's wearing the same clothes at the end of "Ease My Mind" as he is in this video.) In the previous video, Ben's boyfriend has just left him, for no given reason, and this song seems to be the explanation -- the boyfriend, a photographer, thought he needed to grow on his own. Ben's face reflects his own internal monologue, because the song is his plea for his boyfriend to stay. He is also represented by the woman dancer, constantly and tenaciously seeking the male dancer who is both with her and trying to get away from her, and who disappears more and more frequently before vanishing completely, while at the same time Ben himself starts tearing up around 4.01 and has a tear streak on his face by 4.08. The female dancer runs through the building and looks into the doorway where Ben is singing, and he looks at the doorway. He sees her and recognises her as the expression of his own longing, and when we look back at the doorway, she is gone, a figment of his imagination. Ben's face melts into a tiny, sad, tender smile, because he's looking at his own lost hope.

[@itsmichellemart]

this has to be my favorite comment in the history of youtube... Great analysis!

[@oicneliss]

I honestly wish I could upvote this comment one hundred times

[@GHOSTofYANG]

I give you props cause that actually makes sense

[@isabellecarignan9066]

I had finally managed to almost control my tears after watching the video a hundred times, and now I read your comment and I just broke down again.... such a powerful message really

[@kimperial]

Yes! And Bad Habit's definitely a third plate in the narrative although how it is sewn in--either as prologue or coming after GAWG--is still unclear to me. If the story follows the sequence in which the videos were released (it most probably does), it makes it all the more crushing to go from desperately clawing your way out of an addiction to a love lost, to moments of sweet remembering, to softly pleading for an alternative (growing together). We are taken to walk with Ben in his most intimate journey of heartbreak and at the same time witness the reflection of our own pains unfolding in these vignettes.

[@thesavvyrose5453]

The world needs more of this. More endurance. More patience. More belief in true love. Thanks Ben.

[@billmarshall5040]

TheSavvyRose Beautiful comment!

[@jamesmatamoros8149]

It is about the acceptance of violence you fool. He hit her within 20 seconds of the video.

[@jesseannetrinityc.domopoy8328]

"Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." - Dr. Seuss

[@savvysherlockian5668]

Fun fact: Dr. Seuss was a really shitty husband. He had a mistress, and neglected his wife. When she killed herself, he married the mistress.

[@lorelaibarrett4326]

@@savvysherlockian5668 oop-

[@shayb.1059]

Savvy Sherlockian For Pete’s sake

[@elianaben300]

@@savvysherlockian5668 not the mention the wife had cancer during all of this

[@eiliskelly7398]

@@savvysherlockian5668 don't forgot he was very racist

[@zierracyntha]

I was here about 5 years ago. But today this music pop up on my page, reminding me about my dark days before finally found my turning point. Turns out no matter what happen in our life, it always depend on how we assume our life would be. And here I am, forgot what it feels like drowning in sorrow. Because I owe my life, and it deserve to be happy ❤ For those who struggle bad days, hope one day you'll also get your turning point. Good days still exist and waiting for you ❤

[@Laura-ux8vt]

I hope so 😞

[@cerrifex155]

I had to choose whether I wanted to watch this or the new jonas brothers song first........I chose this.....it was a good decision

[@rachelle419]

Same

[@sweetistired1066]

Mood

[@camilacerda5328]

Same but I'm glad I choose this first now I can't stop watching it

[@madisonkatexx3477]

I chose this before Heathers Cast album

[@callmefem9387]

Same ahahhaahahaha

[@prcs420]

my heart is in pieces

[@raisun.a]

My heart is in Pisces

[@user-dn4kp6xp4o]

I feel like this song isn’t so much a proposition to grow together, but him begging to stay together, to not leave him behind. It sounds like excuses and reasons as to why they should be staying together. And in the end, no matter how much he’s asking and how many reasons he gives. Whoever he’s singing to doesn’t stay

[@sykogemini]

yes, it's a song of absolute despiration

[@TC-zh2ok]

this is the way I took it too, especially with how emotional he gets

[@abigailpaige8176]

That gave me chills. I think you’re right

[@trentintampa9328]

Sometimes you're the tree, and sometimes the vine, desperately clinging to and suffocating the tree. Vines need something (or someone) to cling to; trees don't. They grow and thrive on their own. I always chased younger trees, but we didn't grow together, they always grew apart, reaching for the sun. Then I found an older tree, who was mature and mostly done growing. He was cold and alone, and I offered to wrap myself around him and never let go, if he'd let me, and he let me. His trunk is my strength and my leaves have brought new life to his old limbs. Ben seems like a fellow vine. I hope he finds his tree one day, and they do grow as they go. 🌿🌳

[@hummingbirdcity]

As a serial runner, I suspect this is true.

[@kyleerussell3982]

To myself: I know being vulnerable with anyone is so difficult. Remember that it is not your fault. But you owe it to yourself to fight for your own freedom. You deserve to feel safe, to express your emotions, and to love deeply. Do not settle. Push yourself out of your comfort zone and fight for yourself!! Loving someone is difficult but letting someone love you is so terrifying. But you deserve it. Fight for it

[@Stranger_In_The_Alps]

If someone notices this, I’m still alive and fighting depression

[@AdrienneHogu]

Keep fighting. 🤍

[@miashumway8579]

You are awesome!

[@jasminhuba]

I'm with you

[@bethsanders635]

Always fight.

[@goldie2803]

❤❤ you are not alone.

[@willowscarlette3657]

You say there’s so much you don’t know You need to go and find yourself You say you’d rather be alone Cuz you think you won’t find it tied to someone else Who said it’s true That the growing only happens on your own They don’t know me and you I don’t think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you’re high I’ll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we’ll take it slow And grow and as we go Grow as we go You won’t be the only one I am unfinished I’ve got so much left to learn I don’t know how this river runs But I’d like the company through every twist and turn Who said it’s true That the growing only happens on your own They don’t know me and you You don’t ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you’re high I’ll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we’ll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go I don’t know who we’ll become I can’t promise it’s not written in the stars But I believe that when it’s done We’re gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don’t want to leave Cuz if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you’re high I’ll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We’ll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go

[@kdnwksnjwusu6755]

+

[@andrewrankin3434]

My wife played this song for me a few years ago it was very moving as we have been together since we were 15 and we have two wonderful children. She passed away two weeks ago at 36 years old after a valiant battle with breast cancer. I and my young children are so very shattered.

[@ravin2363]

I am so sorry for your loss. It is an irreparable loss. Take care of yourself and the children in such a moment.

[@carolynmcintyre5419]

So sorry for your loss, and your children’s. Ben Platt has another song that may be of comfort to you - “So Will I.” My daughter is 37 and battling brain cancer; she has 3 little ones. My heart goes out to you.

[@StupidWiz]

My condolences 😢

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Wow... So beautiful man.. Blessed experience of divine love

[@Messy_Lola]

im so sorry this comment actually got me into tears I hope youre better now

[@JocelynArendse-h8r]

THE DANCERS ❤!!!!!💯

[@oliverjackson6907]

HI BEN YOU'RE NOT GONNA SEE THIS BUT I LOVE YOU

[@clarabrandaog]

I love the dance, but part of me just wants to see the entire clip of Ben singing to the camera and slowly breaking down in tears.

[@jennamcmartin1957]

Clara Brandão YES YES YES

[@rileyhumphrey4391]

yeah, because all i want is to bawl in front of my computer screen:)

[@potatolyfe6574]

I thought I was the one

[@amiable97]

That sounds creepily sadistic, but I get it...

[@logan.weisberg]

Last time I was this early, Ben was still waving through a window...

[@maddieh7628]

Ahahahahahahahhaah I choked on my tea!!😂😂😂😂

[@kayleightaylor1728]

Hahaha this made me snort 😂

[@eleaya_rebekah]

Same

[@krisinallcaps]

SKSKSKS-

[@bee-jb7rl]

oooh oh oh oh

[@veronicagrayson2349]

I sent this song to my ex when he was distancing from me and when he said he needed to be alone from now on. He replied that he feels bad for me that I still have hope. It broke me. This song beautifully summarized my feelings and my heart goes out to everyone who’s going through a hard time. I’m with you

[@MoonlightWalnut]

I'm so sorry, I hope you find the person who will be there for you when you need them in future - because if they wanted to, they would. I'm in a similar situation. We'll both be okay

[@noahthomas9387]

Just got dumped tonight because she didn’t want to grow together. It really sucks feeling unwanted by someone that you love.

[@bedanamarlbenjamin7682]

Just happened to me feb/8/23 i leave this mark here i hope i find this comment someday and see how far ive gotten

[@ethereal2843]

I hope to heal and love myself

[@vowelboy8713]

This song needs to remain a secret or else the radio stations will milk it dry of it's potency

[@aurorarieder6058]

And tik tok

[@katherinestinson1551]

@@aurorarieder6058 tiktok ruiend all I want by Olivia Rodrigo which is a really good song, but it doesn't need to ruin this one too.

[@edwinkok1913]

@@katherinestinson1551 same reason i now loathe tiktok

[@jaceboda8489]

Best comment of the day.

[@Asf-bj4rw]

I like this guy. He’d make a good president one day

[@chlordiazepoxide]

I think he'd reply the same way Lin Manuel did, "I'd rather do anything else"

[@caitlinkerr8405]

Hehehehehe

[@mrawesome3238]

Definitely not that’s pretty stupid

[@kimf8437]

Yeeeah that would be funny if he was in a show like...I dont know...The Politician?? Wink wink nudge nudge UwU

[@giannayoupel5575]

damn yall really missed the entire joke.... kudos op

[@alexandervue9464]

Ben is one of those rare select artists where anything he's in no matter what, is good.

[@blakeplamondon8980]

Today marks the third anniversary with the love of my life, Colleen Michelle. She wrote me a beautiful card and mentioned this song, which I had sent to her. Being from Michigan while she is from California, sending songs was our way of expressing love while we were apart. I would sit alone, moved to tears as I chose songs that conveyed our feelings. This particular song touched me deeply because of the distance and the challenges we faced. Over the past three years, we have grown together through both wonderful and difficult times. Colleen has opened my eyes to many of my selfish tendencies, showing me what true love is and helping me grow as a person. It’s not always easy to confront your faults, but it allows me to understand what I truly want in life-to grow with the love of my life, Colleen Michelle. Always and forever, happy three years. I love you so much.

[@wowieitssam9457]

Talking: (Beginning) Director: Let's get him in for last looks. And lock it up. Camera ready? Let's role camera. Role sound. Guy: Scene one, take one marker. (Click) Director: Ben? You ready? Camera to one. And playback. (Music starts). Lyrics: You say there's so much you don't know. You need to go and find yourself. You say you'd rather be alone. 'Cuz you think you won't find it tied to someone else. Who said it's true? That the growin' only happens on your own. They don't know me and you. I don't think you have to leave. If to change is what you need, you can change right next to me. When you're high I'll take the lows. You can ebb and I can flow, and we'll take it slow. And grow as we go. Grow as we go. You won't be the only one. I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn. I don't know how this river runs, but I'd like the company through every twist and turn. Who said it's true? That the growin' only happens on your own. They don't know me and you. You don't ever have to leave. If to change is what you need, you can change right next to me. When you're high I'll take the lows. You can ebb and I can flow, and we'll take it slow. And grow as we go. (mmmMm) Grow as we go. (mMm). Grow as we go (oh-oooOo) Grow as we go. (oOo). I don't know who we'll become. (Ahh-ahh-ahh-ahhhh) I can't promise it's not written in the stars. (ooooo-ahh-oo-oo) But I believe that when it's done, we're gonna see that it was better that we grew up together. Tell me you don't wanna leave. 'Cuz if change is what you need, you can change right next to me. When you're high I'll take the lows. You can ebb and I can flow, we'll take it slow. And grow as we go. (oh-oH-oohh) Grow as we go. (...woah-oh-ohh) Grow as we go. (oohhhhh) Grow as we go. Talking: Director: And cut. (Distant talking in the background) Director: I think we got it. We good for camera? ... Ben, you good? Ben: Yes, good.

[@sykogemini]

Why do people do this?

[@eleaya_rebekah]

I don't understand this

[@elenadandrea6845]

I can hear fine, but I love to read along or ahead. Sometimes my mind is elsewhere. Also some people might just want to read since captions aren't always 100g accurate

[@taylorchinnock8545]

Lea Kratz personally I check the lyrics to the song before I even listen a lot of the time. If the lyrics are shit, doesn’t matter how good the rest of the song is, I need substance to enjoy music. So I personally appreciate this bc it’s saves me time.

[@isze112]

Been avoiding this on my recommended list. I knew it. It was gonna break my heart but I can't stop listening to this now

[@joshuawatts5378]

Same. Ive been listening to it off and on all day at work and have cried more than once. This song invokes such strong feelings.

[@flagsreported816]

same goes for me

[@DaisyheadByMary]

Yep today is my first watch and I’m devastated

[@marisol4328]

rona kriszelle jauculan I’ve listened to it 6 times in a row now

[@JessAyu]

rona kriszelle jauculan it's like you went throught a breakup without actually in a relationship 😭

[@Havocful]

Who's here because they appreciate ben platts music and absolutely adore this song

[@ilexater9556]

Most everyone? Unless for some inexplicable reason we have hate watchers... I'm technically here because I'm in a melancholy love song war with my younger sister and this is what she sent me, but I would imagine I'm in the minority.

[@hamzavohra.]

Just you. Everyone else who is here, hates this song and they hate Ben Platt. That's why they're here, clearly.

[@Lea-gd7zl]

Avery ALS WHO IS NOT

[@vaiduliuke]

@@hamzavohra. Exactly! I hate this song so much I listen to it every day.

[@beckyday3187]

So this came up in my recommends but I'm pretty indifferent about Ben and his song. No idea if this helps.

[@tastyabalon]

If my 3 years ex sees this. Pls know that I'm happy seeing u happy right now. Just do what you want and stop thinking about what other people will think about what you did, you always overthink too much. Just relax and trust yourself okay

[@CasonattoP]

lyrics You say there's so much you don't know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won't find it tied to someone else Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn I don't know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go

[@susantigito1679]

🙏

[@nm.a3823]

Thank you i was looking for it

[@0winskowski0]

This guy

[@glorireece968]

Thank you!! ☺️

[@ninotchka24]

Crying.

[@malcolmpatton8875]

This is probably the first time I've truly experienced having the thought of "You know, the world would honestly be a much better place if more people were aware of this person's music." Ben Platt genuinely has the voice of an angel and the world is truly affected positively by his presence in it.

[@candiedcockroaches]

Yes, 100%. Ben’s voice is so special. It’s one of the many reasons I love DEH. Also, it’s helped me get through my depression

[@bethjames8260]

Same here, I'm currently going through depression.😟

[@azlanyaacob4737]

Am I the only one that thinks that that is a sick choreography? You can see the emotion conveyed in the movements, the emotion is almost tangible!

[@billmarshall5040]

Azlan Yaacob Yes the choreography is sensational.

[@jennitalbot6785]

Except when she is running by herself. She is a normal clumsy girl. It is when she meets up with him that they are so in sync. I love dancing like this, my daughter would live it too. Always reminds me of so you think you can dance, this couple did bleeding love, that show had wonderful choreography too...the dancers sing with no words...

[@olddirtytattooedwarhorse7772]

why would you possibly think you're the only person who likes this dance piece?!? are you like, the only muhfuh with taste on the whole planet? nearly 7 million people have watched this, but YOU are the only one who can see the beauty in this? get over yourself, dude...

[@azlanyaacob4737]

@@olddirtytattooedwarhorse7772 I dont speak for other people, ergo, I won't assume what other people think. And I suggest you do the same.

[@jennitalbot6785]

@@azlanyaacob4737 you have 105 people who liked your comment enough, that dude is just looking for something to hate on positive comments for. What a weirdo. I wonder what he says to the commentors who just love asking if anyone else is watching it in their current year. Well, everyone that sees their comment, of course, but that is just not important. Trolls are everywhere. Every positive statement and comment is like an open target to them. All that condescension when he could just skip it and get a freakin life.

[@surgeonvicryl4872]

If someone reads this in the future, I'm still getting over the best love story in my life that is full of surprises, divine timing, coincidences, laughter and tears with my soulmate whom I had multiple pastlives. I have waited for 37 yrs to meet her, should have crossed paths in 2014 during my EU tour - we should have accidentally met but I had a detour to another country, was single for 8 yrs before I finally met her in 2023, could have met in person finally in 2024.. Grow as we go

[@jvtdwae]

OMG I CAME SO FAST TO WATCH THIS

[@undeadman7676]

i came so fast watching this

[@InvisibleKerry]

undeadman7676 thereeee it is 😂

[@bellasmith7006]

a fellow tøp fan who likes good music

[@airbornemusician2999]

Checked the replies to see if someone made a cum joke. Was not disappointed.

[@happilyhadesbound]

I stopped reading after fast and I was so confused

[@Miss-jj3cl]

This reminds me so much of my boy bestfriend whom I risked the friendship with to continue as lovers. Although he loved me first, in the end it was me asking him to stay. Two days before our 21st month together, he told me that he wanted to focus on himself first, that we're young and he wanted to do things without thinking about hurting anyone with anything he does. He wanted to improve himself without my help, without my support. That he forgot who he was and changed, felt incomplete. He told me he loved me too much that he forgot to love himself. Now, we've decided to stay friends. I chose to give him what he wanted even though it was nowhere near what I want. I wanted to be selfish, I wanted him for me, I wanted him to stay and grow with me. But I chose to let go cause it's for his happiness :) But the thought of being his world once, and now I'm only a part of it makes my heart ache a lot. I know you won't see this. But I just want you to know that I love you. And I'm sorry if I'm not the right person who makes you love yourself even more day by day. You ARE the best thing that has ever happened to me. I may not be with you as you grow for you chose to grow alone, but I promise to be here for you and watch you become the best version of yourself. Maybe God has different plans. It was a great rollercoaster ride with you, my love. Never lose yourself again. Maybe someday, we'll be together for the second time. And by then, we'll be ready to grow together and have loved ourselves more than anyone else.

[@chlordiazepoxide]

and if the two of you should meet as lovers again, may the two of you be the best possible versions there could be, and bring peace and joy to each others' lives

[@iisaniis726]

This hit so terribly hard. You put my thoughts into words. I know how it feels right now, I never thought it would hurt this bad

[@Miss-jj3cl]

Andrea Matos I never thought so too. But healing takes time. We may not heal now but we'll get there!

[@lexiidigzy]

Only mature people can endure this. I'm so proud that you're a selfless human being. Please rediscover yourself as he does it, too. Don't stop growing! Cheer up, babe. You can do it. This part of your journey may seem sorrowful at the moment, but you'll thank this situation in the future. 💖

[@MrJoshuaAwesome]

So beautiful

[@lucyrosado89]

How am I just discovering this song?! It’s so freaking beautiful and the dancers were amazing. Beautifully interpreted ❤❤❤❤

[@DavidHolton-wy7jc]

You're not alone on that thought Lucy, I'm surprised I haven't heard this song until recently. It's a beautiful and heartfelt song. How are you doing Lucy?

[@lisacampbell145]

Okay are we not gonna talk about how talented these dancers are??

[@treehugger444]

Loved every second of their incredible performances ❤️❤️

[@annierivera7531]

Hate the choreographer. Just blech

[@annierivera7531]

I meant the choreography. No idea who the choreographer is

[@kamisherley4034]

@@annierivera7531 588 ppl disagree :) although idc if you disagree, you could’ve said it nicer.

[@brendasann]

They're incredibleeeeee

[@VebitoTetseo_gPlus]

You say there's so much you don't know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won't find it tied to someone else Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn I don't know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go

[@zmabbas1514]

You can live and I can flow Thanks for taking time and adding the lyrics.

[@anushkanandkar9989]

Weebito thankssss

[@jayantpratapsingh]

Just Me "You can ebb* and I can flow" is correct. The line is a metaphor, talking about the movement of water bodies.

[@yovina9272]

Thank u👍🏻 lyrics so meaningful

[@zarabfarcello]

mmmmmmmm delicious copy pasta

[@hgmercury8036]

You say there’s so much you don’t know You need to go and find yourself You say you’d rather be alone Cuz you think you won’t find it tied to someone else Who~o said it’s true That the growing only happens on your own They don’t know me and you I don’t think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you’re high I’ll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we’ll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go You won’t be the only one I am unfinished I’ve got so much left to learn (Choir and Ben) I don’t know how this river runs But I’d like the company through every twist and turn Who~o said it’s true That the growing only happens on your own They don’t know me and you You don’t ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you’re high I’ll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we’ll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go I don’t know who we’ll become (Ahh) I can’t promise it’s not written in the stars (ooh) But I believe that when it’s done We’re gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don’t wanna leave Cuz it changes what you need You can change right next to me When you’re high I’ll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We’ll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go

[@mamoswineage1881]

Since no one said it, Thank you for the effort 😊

[@aliceadedokun1549]

This is amazing thank u

[@jazkate]

Thank you

[@oscaranthonydanos1943]

This makes me cry! 😭

[@ficcionesjorge]

👍

[@cherylwong8125]

My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. The feelings I felt in me was indescribable. I have never felt so much pain from losing a partner. He was so much more than a boyfriend to me, but he really is my best friend. I know I will be okay and be able to heal from this, but I will always miss this best friend of mine. This song hits home because I wish I can always be the one that can be by his side as we grow. I hope everyone that is/will be listening to this song will find peace knowing that things will be okay. Loving someone is also learning how to let them go even when you do not want to because you want them to be so so so happy with someone even that might not be you.

[@Anna-tc9yd]

stay strong cheryl. with that, and how you perceive things, i hope you know you're one of the bravest tho i dont know you and you dont know me. reading your comment, made me wish i was as strong as you when my boyfriend left me. it took me 4 years to get over him. or did i even have to? indeed, loving someone is also learning how to let them go. i wish for you a happy life.

[@brianboles7419]

And I had no clue that there was anything wrong. She says that I've done nothing wrong and was perfect its just her changing. Its hard because she is the love of my life and we have a son together and ive raise her other son since he was 3. I want her to be happy so I told her to go. But I don't want to lose her as a friend and as a mother to our boys and it hurts everyday knowing its not the same as it was. I really wish we could grow together. But hopefully it gets. Easier as it goes. But this song and these comments really hit home.

[@brianboles7419]

Stay strong I know how you feel. My girlfriend of 12 yrs told me last week that she is changing and not the same person she was when we got together and she growing and what's to start over new, and that she has been talking to another man from another state that she met online and she needs to leave and live by herself and see where it goes.

[@krisd6811]

I know it is painful but don't give up living for you. It gets better with time. I still miss my ex also, he was my best friend. Take care 💛

[@krisd6811]

@@brianboles7419 sorry to hear. Yes its truly painful when you have no idea what they are thinking and up and end things. I know you were together a long time but just keep pushing forward as best you can. Gets better with time. 💛

[@religionmusic1]

It became one of my favorite songs ever on the firsts 20 seconds

[@eleaya_rebekah]

Omg YAS it's now my fav pop song

[@Y351KA]

Mário de Carvalho OMG! Agree!

[@p-jay6942]

You can see that he wasn't acting. You can feel it too.

[@myndmatterz]

yeah, he was preparing weeks and months to make this take.. that is why it goes straight to the ❤️

[@maddison2989]

Even our favorite people, who we think have their lives all put together, are human. broken. Imperfect. Damaged. They are beautiful, yes. But they are broken. Just like you and me. That's what keeps them human. Anyone who says that they have their life together is a liar, by saying that, they are claiming to be perfect. NOBODY is perfect. If you could switch lives with anybody in the world who you think have their lives together, you would be both disappointed, and you would change your world view. The way people perceive things changes everything. One woman might hate men because as a child she was abused by one, perspective. My dog, for instance was abused by her former master, a man. She hated every man in my family until 3 years after we got her. during those 3 years though, a FedX Man came to drop off a package, I opened the door and she ran out and bit the mans hand. Luckily, I'm a nurse, and this was when COVID-19 Wasn't a real threat yet. I managed to help the man and only come off with a warning and fine. Now, she's the sweetest dog anyone could ask for. I cried watching this video because I had just recently went through a divorce. I will always be a theater kid at heart.

[@rizkydarmawan7197]

@@maddison2989 you know, you have a great heart, hopefully people around you could make you stronger

[@viviweed2560]

He actually wrote this from the perspective of the SO because he was the one who needed space

[@Emma-py3si]

WAIT OH MY GOSH.. this makes me want to cry even more

[@tcorpin]

Am I the only person who likes reading comments in sad music videos when they're sad?

[@koposart1489]

I'm the same, sometimes its nice to know you're not alone, and I find that some people can put my feelings into words better than me.

[@this_is_future]

@@koposart1489 SAMEEEEEEE

[@shahafrahman]

SAME BRO!!

[@carlalezcano5277]

No you are not, I'm now reading you, for example

[@slendykidslenderkid3185]

@@koposart1489 you couldn't have said it any better

[@AkshayTeaches]

One of the best songs ever made! Can still listen to it on loop after so many years!

[@LumosVeil]

I’ve always loved how while singing Ben can also communicate through his facial expression. Like how when he focuses on some notes he closes his eyes and shakes his head. It’s really sweet and endearing. Also his riffs are amazing.

[@eleaya_rebekah]

I totally agree. His voice and emotion make me want to cry his voice is just making my heart break because it's beautiful

[@langenavarro3637]

I thought you said his "sniffs" :3 Overall, I agree. He is one of a kind. Ben- you just. Jeez, these feelies.

[@secretkayla1998]

I saw this in my reccomended and wasn't going to click on it, and for some reason I don't know, I did, and now it's literally my favourite song.

[@rayanm114]

Crappy Vlogger +1 💕

[@josephriveraortiz5372]

Me too!

[@losasakarosa9050]

Same bro

[@draolgacaroline6041]

I did the same! I think mostly I came back cause his character in pitch perfect wasnt accepted First thing lol

[@tasneemnaseem5427]

Sameee

[@miatuttle2675]

There's just something so human in all these songs. I feel like a lot of times we trust people to be there when we jump. That they will open themselves to grow with us as we travel through life. That perhaps they will understand why small things like music videos and harmonies change and shift the universe. Yet some people choose to stand alone. But we're not alone. None of us.

[@sunfacingflower]

I don't know if you did it on purpose but those last 2 sentences really reminded me of the musical Dear Evan Hansen Or it can also be just me haha

[@sophiab.1715]

@@sunfacingflower Me too, i read them in the voice from you will be found, the static one

[@miatuttle2675]

@@sunfacingflower I totally did XD

[@skyrakirigya6153]

#You will be found!

[@pimentel1513]

now this is what we called art

[@otimmmm]

i understand that the song is about romantic relationships more than anything else but holy shit does it speak to me on a really personal level; it feels like a lesson to avoid isolating yourself from significant others, close friends, and family members, that you don’t have to develop by yourself but rather with others, instead. thank u ben platt for sharing such a healthy message through such a lovely music video

[@gwenhughes8650]

I love this! So true :)

[@steelervette]

You ever hear a song for the first time at just the right time in your life and it opens up a part of your soul that you didn't know was closing? Yeah... this is my favorite song.

[@assiaerguigue7791]

My best friends' dad has just died, and this song just appeared in front of me and made me think of her.

[@leticiaguida7244]

yes, here i'm now

[@monikam7322]

Literally, yes! A guy I was getting to know was getting really close to me. Things felt like they were taking a serious turn. I don't let people in easy and he knew that... I started pulling away from him. Before I could really do that though, he sent this to me early one January morning. It was the first thing I heard after waking and I literally got chills, cried, and let go of so much emotion. I have felt so much lighter since that day. I decided to give it a shot. Give him a shot. Best decision I've ever made. We've been together since then and I pray it never ends. I mean I don't know if we're forever, things can change, but he's opened my heart in so many ways. I'll always be grateful to him, and to Ben for this beautiful and touching song. I still get goosebumps when I listen to this, thinking back to that morning.

[@addisonbaldeshwiler8379]

I think we need to keep this in mind: Ben Platt is an artist. Ben Platt is also a human being. He is a person and not a commodity. What he shares with us should be what he wants to do, not what we demand he do. We should compliment his talent, and the talents of everyone in this video. But we should not be threatening whoever this "ex" is. Bullying and harboring negativity is not the way to treat other people.

[@olliewaller3416]

issa joke

[@theen8564]

agreed...... but I will throw hands with whoever hurt this man

[@adamasartislife2943]

So true❤❤❤

[@Matchamaid_moox]

theen Did you miss what they said?

[@theen8564]

@@Matchamaid_moox it was a joke my dude

[@aprildemeso5262]

When i was with my BF, i shared this song with him as a reminder that we could overcome anything - he loved it and hugged me and i hugged him back. It was a precious moment. When we didnt make it and broke up, i cried so much when i listened to this song. My heart ruptured, and sour blood cursed through my veins. I never listened to this song until today. I'm not crying anymore. I'm content that the relationship happened. Healing is possible, so just let the emotions flow through you. The only way out is through. ❤

[@moosefilmsbest9696]

I can feel his pain through this song, such a beautiful song.

[@anaclaramacedo5769]

me too

[@billmarshall5040]

Definitely! 😢

[@manon7249]

This song saved my marriage. 💕

[@rownaknb3710]

That made me smile and gave me hope even with all the pain. Thank you

[@moudial-hamwah2259]

Me too

[@akirarozu3245]

This made my jaw drop I am so happy for you!

[@victoriareyes8131]

I gave tried everything.. He doesn't love me anymore 💔😔

[@slekdidwbfi8692]

@@victoriareyes8131 sending love 💞💞💞

[@roughchick25]

The Lyrics from google :) You say there's so much you don't know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won't find it tied to someone else Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn I don't know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go

[@rien713]

The hero we don't deserve.

[@courtneyannvd]

My name is Courtney-Ann 😭

[@PUNKDUMP]

I scrolled too fast and I swear I saw "no homo-"

[@shaniahflores9424]

this hurts a lot

[@ezgieren5449]

Thanks for sharing the words of that pretty song.

[@AllyPfeifer17]

If you see this, please know that for every moment I’m left in this world, I will spend waiting for you to come home. I’ll never give up on you or on us. I love you, infinitely and unconditionally. Please come home.

[@ravenleeah4157]

whoever hurt him.. let's meet. I just wanna talk.

[@peperjuise]

Raven Smith Same here , I just need a minute .

[@Aurora-ub3jf]

Screw talkin, they gonna catch these hands

[@cheetyuh]

talk / slightly m u r der

[@Voodka07]

With a knive hidin behind ur back

[@OleWhatshisface]

but the guy who broke Ben's heart inspired these songs, so maybe we should be thanking him!

[@bharatcarballo5144]

"Grow As We Go" [Verse 1] You say there's so much you don’t know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won’t find it tied to someone else [Pre-Chorus] Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you [Chorus] I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go [Verse 2] You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I’ve got so much left to learn I don’t know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn [Pre-Chorus] Ooh, who said it’s true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you [Chorus] You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I’ll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go [Bridge] I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together [Chorus] Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go

[@inertia_oudrey7006]

Thanks 😊

[@nituukc]

the comment I was searching for, Thanks!!

[@alnandya]

thank you ? :)

[@raphaelkironga9590]

Thanks man

[@hazelness14]

This song strikes a chord. I've always pushed people and relationships away, thinking I can only be with someone once I've fully come into my own and know where I'm going and what I'm doing in my life. It often leads me to feel so lonely because as the years pass I still can't seem to figure life out. This song makes me think that maybe I don't have to have it all figured out in order to be in a relationship--that it's okay to fall in love, and even if I don't have clarity about life, we can figure it out together. Thanks Ben!

[@JoeMama-sd2kl]

I can relate to you too. Im in a relationship where we are both still figuring things out. My girl had depression and she pushed me away back then since she doesnt want to burden me and my family. But i keep coming back to her. I ask her that its okay to be together, I keep assuring her that I can help her grow and she helps me grow too. Because we can change together for the better. She cried and cried. And now we are planning alot of things for the future. Uncertain but still trusting each other. We havent even met yet hehehe but its gonna be in a month and im so excited.

[@yulisasanchez-ceron1000]

@@JoeMama-sd2kl I'm happy for you guys. I also was in a relationship but I pushed my gf away for the second time because I wanted to figure things out but now it's lonely and I regret pushing her away and not communicating with her like talking about things and everything just sucks now.

[@estevang.4693]

I feel the same way.. thank you Lady Amalthea. I need to make a change in my life

[@pamelatenesaca6833]

Same that’s how I feel .

[@ForgottenKnight1]

You are me looking in the mirror.

[@yasucdm]

Beautiful song ❤

[@shewillsurvive9733]

I literally dedicate this song to myself when i am on the verge of giving up, i might be the only human who unconditionally cares how i am doing, so ill hold on to me and grow as we go

[@bhagyanair7303]

You are so brave. I pray you get through the struggles you choose to battle alone. More and more power to you. 🍀

[@ShauntelleHamlett]

((Hugs)) Even though that thought may have come from a hard place, it will see you steady through so much of life. I can tell you as an almost 50 year old that loving yourself unconditionally is one of the hardest, best things you can learn and will make it possible for you to truly love others. 💕💕

[@saymarahman374]

!!! This !! Yes !!! 🤍

[@SadieStewella]

I felt this, this made me cry a whole set of other tears after crying listening to this song. I don’t know who you are, but I care about you. You touched my soul with your comment. I empathize with those feelings. I’ve only ever had me. Now I’m learning to become my own cheerleader and to love myself unconditionally. It’s been a rough journey and it’s far from over, but I’ll hold onto me and grow as we go 💛 I truly wish you all the best and all the love in the world. You deserve it.

[@carolinegracegary]

I love your username. You survive. I don't know you, but I'm praying for you now and I care. You'll win this battle🤍

[@ThatsSoRaechel]

I can't tell if he's one of the best actors of our generation or if he feels everything in his soul. Either way, I'm here for it.

[@dreamcatcherjmo]

both!

[@Softboii.Connor]

Both. I mean it's his music, he has the strongest connection to it. One of the things about being an actor is feeling the feelings your character feels. If you are in character whatever made them sad might make you sad. When I'm singing Michael In The Bathroom at three in the morning and am really trying I usually end up crying.

[@talkingpotato1822]

Lyrics [Verse 1] You say there's so much you don’t know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won’t find it tied to someone else [Pre-Chorus] Ooo, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you [Chorus] I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go [Verse 2] You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I’ve got so much left to learn I don’t know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn [Pre-Chorus] Ooh, who said it’s true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you [Chorus] You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I’ll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go [Bridge] I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together [Chorus] Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go

[@sayantansingha3842]

👍

[@maggiefpsttv]

Like we’re all not memorized lmao

[@Chularlarbi]

i'm sad now HAHA

[@hodayabr]

Thank you!

[@hafizdull5399]

Thank's

[@366783]

‘You don’t ever have to leave you can change right next to me’… That line is a powerful message of love, acceptance and respect…. Thank you

[@jasonadams9249]

This is the most mature song I've ever heard

[@cris_topher]

yes

[@acrosstheuniverse2691]

definitely. it's a great perspective. controversial to many songs today

[@nishaaaaaaaaaaat]

haven’t done anything other than listen to this song and sob uncontrollably for the last two weeks. thanks ben.

[@aziaanandyy]

Lol same

[@otakutilldeath]

Same I'm on my 5th daily rewatch

[@otakutilldeath]

At least 5 to go

[@12myea]

fucking same ugh.

[@wickyhendy74]

what does he say at the end? Yes, it's good.. he is visibly upset.. and i do not think that is acting..

[@jeremymoore9195]

That moment at 2:05 when he says "But I'd like the company" His expression kills me. That moment of, I don't have the answers, but please just stay so we can find them together.

[@rustythorne8785]

Ikr it's so poignant. It's like he feels pathetic but is trying not to care

[@strongbraveloud]

Jeremy Moore i was thinking the same thing, his face tells thousands of experiences in a second

[@katelynlorenz4782]

I didn’t think anyone else thought that too!

[@marissaosemeke4850]

My husband and I lost our son when we were hit by a wrong way driver last December and my oldest son was hurt really bad. This song was made for us I swear. Thank you for sharing it.

[@rachelsutton8992]

I love you 🤍

[@ashleydubose5757]

I’m so sorry this happened to you guys. Unimaginable pain I’m sure. I’m glad this song gave you some solace. 🙏🏾💞

[@Starr_Podcastofficial]

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m glad this song brings some sort of solace💖 May God bless your family always

[@daneloctoberberiong1948]

Your comment made me tear up. I hope you continue to find solace in each other...

[@topgun302]

I'm so so sorry this happened to you. I will pray for you and the rest of your family!

[@esliandashlyn4675]

Lyrics: 0:33 You say there's so much you don't know You need to go and find yourself You say you'd rather be alone 'Cause you think you won't find it tied to someone else Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you I don't think you have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go You won't be the only one I am unfinished, I've got so much left to learn I don't know how this river runs But I'd like the company through every twist and turn Ooh, who said it's true That the growing only happens on your own? They don't know me and you You don't ever have to leave If to change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow And we'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go I don't know who we'll become I can't promise it's not written in the stars But I believe that when it's done We're gonna see that it was better That we grew up together Tell me you don't wanna leave 'Cause if change is what you need You can change right next to me When you're high, I'll take the lows You can ebb and I can flow We'll take it slow And grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go Grow as we go

[@vivinaremigius1690]

Thanx

[@mariatresia3914]

Thanks

[@bluebird669]

Thank you very much

[@gyuffygee5889]

O

[@laplumesolitaire5631]

Magic love song ! 💜💚❤❤💛