INFP Is The Best Type And Here's Why

[@Yes_this_is_my_cat]

I'm that person that cries at EVERYTHING Sad: cries Angry: cries Happy: cries Scared: cries Alone: probebly singing

[@MagdaLenaS2312]

SAME! I know it’s a cooling down mechanism, but it happens even if I’m not as heated up… I think it also turns up to cool down others (when they argue etc.) And I’m definitely singing/humming/whisteling a LOT when alone xD

[@Hellofellowhuman212]

Same here!!🤣🤣

[@iccybear9932]

Meeee toooo

[@fishum4n]

me too! And its feels good when ı see people like me

[@joanabritolagarto1160]

Meee toooo

[@slipskolt7300]

INFPs excel at 3 things 1. Not doing the things they don't want to do. 2. Not doing the things they want to do. 3. vibin'

[@whitneyrose9293]

😂 Well said

[@erinb9647]

As an ENFP, I can also agree for myself as well. 😆😆😆

[@whitneyrose9293]

@@erinb9647 Truer words have yet to be spoken 😂 Right! 💯

[@WAckyD0odles]

I feel so called out rn-

[@nursejane6662]

Nailed it, bruh.

[@pinotnoir4234]

"INFPs don't move and they don't do stuff" Me who does not move, nor do stuff *surprised Pikachu face*

[@Umeshukitsune]

There's so much in our heads!

[@Izabela-ek5nh]

I always feel too busy inside to act also outside. I tried, but it was kinda boring...

[@CaveyMoth]

I'm planning on doing stuff. I'll get around to it all at once... Eventually. Gotta run it through in my head a few times first.

[@eleanorrigby5618]

@@Izabela-ek5nh This is so insanely accurate. Like you want to live a life but the made up life in your head is more interesting

[@Izabela-ek5nh]

@@eleanorrigby5618 haha my best friend said I don't really have need for normal life if I have such amazing movie-like dreams every night... he has no dreams so need to be active in this dull place called reality 😂

[@mellooobruhhh9281]

As an infp, my days be like… - wake up early but continue laying on the bed till I it’s late - shower while knowing that I’m late but still chill then just zone out - arrive in class and look outside the windows imagine i was a class topper, successful billionaire, famous actor, and etc instead of studying - leave the class as soon as the class ends. Listen to songs while I’m on the way back home then create a lot of fake scenarios which is related to the mood of the songs - Get back to my room and watch drama, series or movies then imagine I was that fictional character. - go to shower and create a story plot which is similar to the movie I just watched and put myself as the main character - go to bed and accidentally recognize some weird and embarrassing things I did many years ago

[@Katielomax7]

This is the most accurate and relatable thing I’ve ever read

[@StarlightMoss]

How dare you be and know everything that I am and want to be

[@mendokusai5823]

Accuracy level lmao. I wake up on time but always late for class and any plans bc I zone out or distracted by something

[@no-bv9jn]

How do you know my day?

[@nan.v]

How do you know me! 😂

[@isabelernst1417]

I'm a bad INFP... I don't read books. I daydream about being a person who reads books though.

[@austincarney9275]

i feel seen & validated

[@juxt_aposition9935]

No such thing as a bad INFP

[@renoni3885]

You are INFP

[@Melyuntonin]

I only read fanfictions i mean hey hey- It's nice to see others writing creative things alright

[@snail5742]

exactly

[@miing9426]

As an INFP, I could say that being a great listener is both a gift and a curse. It's a gift because you get to have a certain connection with other people but sometimes when you're tired and drained you still feel like you have to listen to other people.

[@9upforall555]

I agree, same!

[@scourneene]

yep totally

[@TheInnerSpark]

Yep

[@elisa4620]

As an INFJ I relate. I think all the NF probably (or maybe even most of the feelers) probably do. Let's start a club!

[@yatharthmishra4189]

True 💯

[@z9elka]

I'm infp, but... I don't really read. I like the idea of books, but I'm way to easily distracted to read. I just start daydream or think about something else.

[@susanivy3619]

I was like that in school...but an home I'll read the back of a box of a soup can if I'm downstairs eating and can't find something to read. I ONLY read non-fiction tho...to me life is so much stranger than fiction and it's REAL. If you get a book you like you may not be as distracted...if I don't like the subject my mind will wonder too.

[@benjaminfast5496]

@@susanivy3619 That's so bizarre to me that you only read non-fiction. I am the complete opposite. Correction, I enjoy reading psychology books, like the MBTI or Enneagram. But I LOVE fiction. I already live in reality (to the extent that my mind allows me to be present in it) so when I read, I don't want more reality. I want a fantasy/dystopian world where my mind can find inspiration, characters go on a journey, and my imagination can take off. I mean, as a result I take quite a while to read a book because I do stop quite often to ponder my own thoughts.

[@EmiliodaRocha]

I do audiobooks myself. I do get distracted when I listen, but I just rewind to what I last remember hearing. I listen to mostly biographies and fantasy/sci-fi.

[@ducky_urban]

If you are like me you might have to try comic books first. They have pretty images to look at and less words ;)

[@aniaania1674]

Same :/

[@OmagashV3]

I have just learned that I'm an INFP and when he said "INFPs retake MBTI test" I have laughed so much, because I did it 5 times in row just to be sure :D

[@shivamtiwari1547]

Same here

[@denisederoba8719]

Yep😊

[@SanamJanamian]

I just wrote a similar comment🤣🤣 I don’t even know how many times I retook the test in different t websites, searched, read and tried to change my answer so maybe it changes to some other type 😂 it never changed

[@sebastianmichael5819]

Same but Im still tryna understand mine, I did it a few years ago and got ISFP, after that I got INFJ, and now INFP. Problem is, I relate to all of them to some degree

[@reneets5729]

I was asked yesterday what my type was and I took it again just to make sure. I don’t know how many times I’ve taken it anymore

[@mt.4445]

Infps are good listeners. Me: *Spacing out a lot*

[@naya4050]

Ikr

[@ladysophia7469]

Same lol

[@noagoossens7273]

For real hahaha especially when people talk about details I don’t need to know

[@lukewiegand9001]

I think what people mean when they say INFPs are good listeners is that they are good at giving the IMPRESSION that we're listening. We could be daydreaming or thinking about a previous convo or thinking about how screwed up this person's situation is, but we give off a vibe that tells people we're listening. I can't really explain it other than that, but that's what I've theorized

[@naya4050]

@@lukewiegand9001 this might be trueee

[@MissSpiderRider]

"There's a problem and they'll just ignore it" - I felt that

[@acccmtdao6377]

Lol 😩

[@hallierosemusic]

Decided to read the comments while watching and as I read this he said it and my brain was like 0_0 WHAT

[@anica7438]

stop exposing meeee- pls- T_T

[@smolpeepee9756]

Me brushing my teeth after breaking the entire sink with water leaking: ….huh *continues brushing teeth

[@hieung6851]

*Procastination. Me all the time

[@pink_n_squishy973]

Im an INFP but I also have ADHD, so listening to someone often turns into to staring at a person while daydreaming about a pterodactyl named Lamar.

[@BenjaminSpicy]

Lamar seems like a cool pterodactyl

[@pink_n_squishy973]

@Irkalla here you go kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5mykpeGaM5ml5o

[@Umeshukitsune]

Me too! I don't think I could possibly feel anymore than I do. ADHD and INFP traits overlap, wonder if I'd be an INFP without the ADHD.

[@pink_n_squishy973]

@@Umeshukitsune I also wonder what I would be like without ADHD. I’d like to try medication to see, but to be honest the thought of being someone else scares me a little.

[@_whooopty_]

I feel you cause same hahaha

[@truenemesisprime550]

Actually as an INFP I would say yes I like to avoid conflict when it is not necessary but if you go as far as to push me or throw me, you've crossed a line and we have a problem where I release all my pent up anger with you as the focal point, but then feel bad about it afterwards when the anger subsides.

[@13plus3plus1]

And it subsides really quickly also. I don't have the energy for long periods of anger.

[@Bascombe25]

Unless you do something to offend my values or say something I am highly opposed to. Then you're dead to me. No argument mind you, I'm just gone!

[@alegna208]

💯

[@ditto4003]

same here but only with siblings if they r outside of my family I'll be the one apologizing.

[@rubededcii2395]

knowing exactly the moment you can be mad is such an INFP thing

[@leigoldalagnason2291]

I'm an INFP-T, and I am the best at ghosting, then suddenly coming back like nothing happened...

[@River132]

Same and if their like "why did you awnser my calls or texts?, "Oh you texted me!? I've been so busy sorry :("

[@rubysparkles5789]

Omg I literally would text my friend and minute later they'll answer me and I'll answer them 2 weeks later

[@etta5242]

my personality test said that I'm a INFP-T what does that supposed to mean, even I don't know me.

[@lexl4ch]

I would ghost for like 11hrs then comeback and tell i was taking a bath 🤡 - an infp-t

[@evaaaxsheep]

LMAO SAME!

[@moonlightsonata1369]

"They broke a record in retaking MBTI test " i feel exposed!!

[@zephyrsprout]

Honestly I only took it once and I have been to scared to retake it because I dont want to have to deal with the chances of me not being an INFP anymore.

[@StarrySkies]

@@zephyrsprout thisss

[@floralstorms]

@@zephyrsprout same but then took it later while wondering

[@aadi9764]

Nah I think the INTPs have us beat here.

[@sssundae_berries]

@@zephyrsprout I’ve taken it like 5 times and every time it is the same

[@adilbek.ermekov]

Shout out to all the INFPs out there U are truly the best!!!✨✨✨✨✨ - INFJ

[@CaveyMoth]

Nu, you're the best. Because you are open to other humans, and you don't act like a statue all the time.

[@adilbek.ermekov]

@@CaveyMoth actually i act like a statue 🗿 especially with my INFJ stare. But when someone starts to genuinely talk with me i become a living statue, lol

[@CaveyMoth]

@@adilbek.ermekov In most situations, I'm a statue. But in other situations, I'm a maniac bouncing off the walls. Gotta watch out for me.

[@miss.random2235]

Aww thank you it’s the first time some one said that😂thanks💜

[@cozyghostling8181]

Thanks

[@james240878]

The bit about ghosting really got me, “if you have an INFP friend you might….might…not have them….anymore”. It’s so true 😂 it is the best proven way to escape other humans

[@melissaanderson2573]

I felt soo called out, but in the most polite way😂

[@infiniteonion2135]

As an INFP, I really appreciate this video; it's both entertaining and validating, the "best" at being sad..funny in its truth..if only THAT were a marketable skill...

[@cam9759]

Its almost like a calming sensation after the sadness that I like the most. Kinda like comparing it to a rainy day. Everything is dark and wet yet also calm and beautiful.

[@carly9355]

@@cam9759 that’s a good way of putting it.

[@Umeshukitsune]

Joji the singer is rich from being sad. Unsure if he's an INFP.

[@infiniteonion2135]

@@Umeshukitsune Yes, there's definitely money/career to be had if you can channel that gloomy, brooding melancholy just right; Morrissey and Robert Smith come to mind.

[@infiniteonion2135]

@@carly9355 Yet another thing INFPs are good at - metaphors... I find I just naturally use a lot of metaphors/analogies when I speak, maybe this is common amongst INFPs?

[@fishtacosalad9552]

As an INFP, i feel honored for someone to understand us

[@Nella_nova]

Yea like the hobbies thing is so true. Karate. Art. Violin. Reading. Singing. Ballet. Drawing. Putting together a whole ass outfit I will never where. Making books that I will never write. So true.

[@juto8052]

@@Nella_nova summarized my life 😂😢

[@Featheryfaith7]

Yes.

[@アイドル乙女]

Omg same^^

[@Tempahh]

@@Nella_nova naaah i felt the writing books ill never write

[@user-xp9yt4hw7j]

😭bro that "ultimate creator of fake scenarios" IS TRUE

[@Orchidlettux]

So true, just before I watched this video I was daydreaming about the boyfriend I never had lmao

[@Harutoace_]

I was dreaming about my future hubby which I don't have at all lmao I am single 😂😂😭

[@anon6187]

xD

[@luanarcey6573]

EXACTLYYYY

[@vardets1032]

yeah i sometimes forget that its fake

[@r.maciel2544]

As I have aged, I have learned not to let others walk all over me and I refuse to be thrown under the bus. I've also learned to get my word in during conversations. My instinct is still directed at shying away, but I have learned to overcome that and be a person that doesn't take shit from people.

[@bignasty4874]

Absolutely! I WAS a very timid person. To the point of cowardice a couple of times. That felt so shitty, that I decided an ass-kickin' can't possibly feel so bad, so I did some hard introspection. I decided what was important to me and worth fighting for, and set up clear boundaries. I am now much more assertive and confident in who I am.

[@wendyowen1925]

Yeah, that was the only thing that felt maybe... not so accurate. Or maybe it's just because I turned 60 last month & refuse to take crap from anyone anymore. Hah ;)

[@ikea_bear1791]

Same!! I went through a really rough patch because I didn’t set my boundaries more firmly, but now I learnt my lesson and I’m definitely more assertive and aiming to be more confident with the way I carry myself

[@ivankovwink1311]

One of my biggest goals in life is to be able to stand up for myself and not take shıt from everyone. Hopefuly one day…

[@Mochi-re8cv]

⁠omgggg guysss y’all also where doormatsssss and ppl pleasers at some timeee ? Omg now I love y’all even moreeeeeeee🌺✨

[@yayalu8650]

“They are really good at feeling sad” hilariously spot on

[@thatswhatisaid8908]

Aren't we though? We love to be tragically misunderstood.

[@Possibly04]

@@thatswhatisaid8908 😭😭😭you are not telling a lie

[@tynettabrowning7152]

@@thatswhatisaid8908 but the truth is we actually can absorb others emotions and energies, so yeah… being sad comes from the awareness that people may not have the same heart or values as us, and the love and caring at a deep level we give to others is misunderstood and not reciprocated ❤

[@wayneisname4544]

Sad infp noises :(

[@LolaLoopsAndStitches]

😂😂😂 Sad but is the truth!

[@loveahulic]

As an INFP, I am screaming with laughter 😂😂😂 I feel called out and complimented at the same time.

[@taiyoko-san2069]

Same and they do it a hilarious way 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@iyaaan2643]

ME TOO!

[@Rinha_Nunh]

yeah same lmao

[@girlamation670]

Same I am literally laughing every minute

[@PG-is9vr]

Me too! It's spot on.

[@RenzoRivera]

Why is the ghosting part so ridiculously true?? I'm laughing but I'm not proud and I'm glad I'm not alone holy shit

[@briarroseO]

Agreed! It’s a big problem for me, I have to push myself to call people and barely manage to maintain contact. It helped me to recognise that part of the problem is the ‘boring’ factor - we are having too good a time on our own already! We have to actively make time to stay in contact with the ones that do matter to us. It gets easier as you get older if you work on it.

[@samuelpardo1430]

I mean like, I'm always ghosted, as an INFP, that just made me lose my faith and then disappeared

[@CaveyMoth]

I ghost everyone so hard. But it doesn't help that I tend to offend people whenever I open my mouth.

[@holographiq6299]

I’m so glad I’m not alone. I feel horrible about it man

[@hilaryray6810]

I’ve ghosted 2 people in 2 weeks😂

[@betielart]

„They would rather be kind than smart“ sums up my life pretty much. Just because Im silent, doesnt mean that I agree or that I dont know anything. I just dont want a fight, I would rather keep my friendship than having a discussion that makes everyone uncomfortable

[@frieschan1075]

This!

[@Ustazgay]

Also in general people aren't very open to being corrected. However if it's obvious you can take criticism, I will tell you. But of cours as INFP I'll say it nicely because being an asshole even when I'm right doesn't help anyone 😅

[@Mochi-re8cv]

EXACTLY

[@Igami_No_Io]

When he said "having so much hobbies but won't do it at the end." Just made me face plant because I feel that one. Edit: Holy crud what- 1.2k likes!? When did this happen??

[@JeffSans]

hello its me

[@Igami_No_Io]

@@JeffSans I was wondering if after all these years you'd like to meet

[@Edw590]

Hmm I seem to actually do, and prefer to go do one of my hobbies (have various and no time 😃) instead of daydreaming (though I still love daydreaming). Hope you all nonsenses start doing stuff! XD (joking ahah. but go do something! it's AMAZING after we begin. then can't let go of it and want to do more)

[@wayneisname4544]

There's so many projects I want to do but I always end up saying eh, maybe next weekend

[@dorothybrown1268]

This is soo true and it hurts so bad but it made me stomach laugh 😂😭 I came here to get mojo to do one of the billion hobbies I have in mind . It's quite hilarious and I don't know why but this guy's voice over... So funny. Quite adorable 😄

[@liana3886]

I feel so weirdly called out, as I truly have 100 hobbies, but I only do them in my head. But hey, lately I’ve been going to therapy to learn how to not let other people step on me, and I’m getting actually motivated to do the thing called “living in reality”. If every INFP got motivated, we would actually rule the world.

[@coocooformycocoapuffs3235]

dont worry I'm the same😂

[@ashamaritzardellavista1994]

How you learn?? I wanna know how learn to not let other people stem on us? Any tips?

[@liana3886]

@@ashamaritzardellavista1994 First of all, stop apologizing for everything. There are things that are our fault, but also things that happened that we couldn’t control. If something happens think for a bit before saying “I’m sorry”, because many times it’s not our fault. Is it raining outside? Are you not feeling well? Is there a traffic accident and you can’t make it on time? Don’t say “sorry” just inform the person / people about the situation, there’s nothing to apologize for. You want to say something but you are scared they will hate you for it so you stay quiet? I’m still learning to do it, but speaking out when you want to / have an opinion to share is very important. Don’t be scared to talk, everything can be communicated, but if things are left unsaid then it’s only you who will leave with sour taste in your mouth, not the other party. That goes for every situation, work included. Are you feeling super tired and ready to pass out? Ask for break, it’s just that simple. And finally stop thinking that you are a bother to somebody - you are not. By asking a question / requesting something you are not bothering people, you are communicating your needs, and that’s okay. Lastly, you have to become your no. 1 fan. If you are not rooting for yourself, then who will? Don’t beat yourself up (out loud or in you mind), instead start praising yourself. “Good job Asha, you did well today Asha”. It’s not “you’re so stupid, why did you make so little progress” it’s “well done Asha, you did your daily progress, you did so well”.

[@ashamaritzardellavista1994]

@@liana3886 thanks you thats helping me alot! I didn't expect you will call my name for example but it's actually work anyway 😭😭

[@feriel6371]

@@liana3886 thank you !

[@shasings]

this dude HAS to be an INFP, with how INSANELY accurate this is. feels like he knows me personally, it's scary.

[@aungmin5475]

ikr he make me feel like i am made of glass

[@william_long1065]

Every single thing hit me so hard. I feel called out but also so seen at the same time. I feel like INFPs taking the test over and over to see if their personality has changed is like taking a test to see if you're gay. If you feel the need to take it, you already know the answer. Bless you, my INFP brethren.

[@theatrerimbaud3672]

Lmao your comment just made me feel the same way as a queer INFP who keeps taking both tests. 💀

[@TheHornedDiva]

Rotf

[@ultimateboss2005]

As an INFP, reading comments when others say "As an INFP I do this...that...I feel like this...that.." and when I relate to them... I don't know I just Don't know I have found my people. I LOVE YOU ALL INFP MATES. THANKS FOR EXISTING AND NOT LETTING ME BE ALONE 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 *Edit* : my heart when INFP mates reply to this comment -> 💓

[@lavaluke6817]

Im sorry if you felt alone beforehand.

[@ultimateboss2005]

@@lavaluke6817 haha well, I still do but I'm used to it. But thanks for the reply though, it makes me feel...noticed? (sorry I'm weird lol)

[@azizulfikri8392]

@@ultimateboss2005 Well they are rare so it's always nice to see another kindred soul

[@ultimateboss2005]

@@azizulfikri8392 ohh are you INFP as well? btw, i think every personality type tries to be kind in their own way....but since you think INFPs are kind, well, thank you hehe

[@TheTrueKingJ]

Im an INFP!

[@闇の世界-n9n]

As INFP, I can 100% agree, but I have never heard someone talk about my features with such RESPECT, peopel call me crybaby or slowpoke and I always wanted to be someone else. Thank you 🤗

[@naya4050]

Same lol except the listening part

[@taiyoko-san2069]

This literally made me so happy that I wasn’t even sad😂

[@macmist]

"The loudest and most compassionate silence you have ever heard" - This alone made me laugh to tears

[@awin.a.mahmood4817]

I've never felt so roasted yet so flattered at the same time 😂 THANK YOU!

[@kenneth3753]

I know right. I want to forward this to my wife but she'll just roll her eyes and say yeah right. She likes to roast me with my.... Let's say mannerisms.

[@shadowvlk3861]

I am an modern INFP. I don't read books I read long youtube comments... (cause I don't have books..) hehe.. I like this video, because it made me smile, so thank you

[@titanking5956]

That pfp though 😳

[@chilliii8800]

i don't have to have books to read them, just read them on the internet

[@polynomy8511]

Same I don't read that much of books cause I don't have one But I do like reading articles and wiki pages

[@subhadramahanta452]

Same hehe

[@Gabs19067]

I read wattpad stories 😔

[@olxxa4967]

13:23 "If you just want to relax and just have someone that will silently exist next to you to chill then INFPs are Just the best at that" I just felt it

[@ish-shv4475]

😭😅🥲

[@sijenkai3928]

Yeah my family is terrible at that, but im great at it

[@liltunturi1251]

Love silence

[@silentcry0325]

Me too ngl - INFP mate

[@dirtbagsketches]

i felt that so hard you dont even understand dude

[@anoNEMOs]

It's pretty hard for me to start reading, because I read one sentence, start imagining those things I read about, and associations bring me in completely different places. I read another sentence but I already forgot what the first one was about, so I read the two sentences again and it all starts again. But when I finally get into it, I read like 100 pages in one session.

[@juminhan3375]

Lmfao relatable

[@Spicy_Burger912]

yep yep so true

[@8bert9]

Me too unless I am interested in what I am reading. If it is boring to me I drift off on the first page and when I come back to reality I have read 10 pages but have no idea what was on them..

[@vousmavez]

Relatable lol🤣

[@ar15u5]

omg isso true XD

[@badpoetry33]

“Looking at your past, looking at your future, looking at yourself…. it’s just so sad.” 😂😢😂😢😂😢 you nailed it, Benjamin ♥️♥️♥️. yours are hands down my favorite INFP videos on the internet

[@Angelwhatsername]

Ikr I cackled at that one xD

[@florencehenderson3707]

Same. That was so funny, then he just moved on....I think that's infp humor...

[@River132]

"They dont like you they wont tell you. They'll just slowly fade awayyy," not wromg the people I like i stick around for tho.

[@cringyhuman3210]

But they will never notice you :) sorry

[@electriccub4072]

I’m extremely guilty of this

[@lunibombom4551]

As an INFP this is true, I slowly fade away because it hurts to just cut the person off.

[@maka4640]

I feel called out haha. I just retook multiple personality tests because I was having INFP imposter syndrome. I want to do all these things but instead of actually doing them I daydream about how cool it will be to do them, and make very in depth plans of how to do them, but never do them

[@returnoftheromans6726]

Yes. The best and worst things happen in our minds. 😂😭

[@davidh6868]

its funny that INFP imposter syndrome is a thing. Like we're so insecure we're not even sure if we're emotionally sensitive or just "dramatic."

[@peterwheeler4205]

before the video started, I literally said to myself "should I watch the video first? Maybe I should take the personality test one more time to make sure." And here I am :)

[@sosomam4049]

@@davidh6868 Exactly. So insecure, we doubt the authenticity of our own emotions.

[@K12829]

Same. I procrastinate a lot but not actually do what I plan to do, that's why I get scolded a lot

[@zombiehampster1397]

Seriously though, that anger is real. i try to keep my pickle jar firmly sealed and only release it in the loneliness of my room. Sure it reeks of pickles, but pickled anger never smelled so good.

[@macphlurry5592]

Holes in drywall are never fun tho

[@Umeshukitsune]

I have so much anger! INFPs avoid conflict but due to our strong moral compass, I've been challenging my lecturers when I feel oppression and microaggressions are perpetuated.

[@lenula1]

I even thing it is much better than lashing out to other people. Sure it might not be the best for myself, but I have not found other way of doing it. Also, what a world would it be, if every type liked to argue and be assertive.

[@polynomy8511]

Yeah I also do that But sometimes I can't keep it in and I just starts to answer rudely

[@layedbackthomas]

I feel like I have the anger thing but it goes away pretty quickly.

[@arrypotter9472]

As an INFP, I can accurately say that we often have many hobbies. I have so many hobbies because I don't hang out with people much and would rather spend my time doing things that help me express myself and that are fun. I play violin, piano, guitar, and ukulele, I sing, I crochet, make bath bombs and scrubs, I'm currently writing three books, I'm learning Spanish and Dutch, I make origami roses, I have a knack for interior design, I'm learning how to do digital art, I collect candles, I make diamond paintings, I am a huge space nerd and stargaze with my telescope all the time, I play volleyball a lot, I am learning how to paint portraits, and so much more. That's just off the top of my head. Sounds cool, however it can be frustrating because I never know what to do with myself. I could work anywhere and do just fine, but I don't know where I WANT to work. Also I have depression, anxiety, OCD, and ADHD and struggle a lot. So yeah there are benefits and downfalls to being an INFP, however it is who I am and I might as well be proud of it.

[@PaprikaHotSauce]

Are you me? 😅❤

[@laibaakhtar9905]

I haven't found any comment this relatable 😅. I'm mbbs student, learning arabic, have downloaded Harvard CS 50 course to learn coding, have to learn research this year, freelance writer, have been painting and sketching in the vacations between my written and ospe exams, a little bit of singing, loves book reading and have read a lot of fiction, history related books, various social, political, psychological and economical articles, enjoy cleaning but only for myself not for others😂, love capturing nature, and of course I have also faced depression, ADHD, being super sensitive and a lot of other things

[@howcomethisisnotavailable]

I've always wondered if I'm like this because I'm INFP or because of my ADHD, do you have any idea?

[@arrypotter9472]

​@howcomethisisnotavailable both? I'd say both. Or maybe you have infp tendencies BECAUSE you have ADHD. Either way, you're beautifully unique, and you deserve unconditional love, appreciation, and support for who you are.

[@mapl_xx6346]

I’m an infp and tbh I have no words to describe how accurate this is 💀

[@yaseminylmaz6291]

Definitely!

[@ShayleeOfficial]

I was laughing out loud throughout this whole video. Omg, too relatable.

[@antoinettefrancis556]

lol Same

[@healthyauthentic7453]

Me too!

[@dantheveganman]

same

[@johanvanoppen1627]

Very funny and recognisable

[@Xandycane]

Same! It was awesome. Key word... wanting.

[@inkamerikagirl2732]

As an INFP, I agree that i find beauty in sadness and I feel it very deeply. And when I say deeply, I mean DEEPLY.

[@sweetsadsiren5569]

I feel both attacked and validated at the same time Like I’m in this picture and I don’t know how to feel about it Multiple times I have screamed because this is way too accurate

[@mahijain9455]

I can relate to this bro same with me.

[@insideroutside]

Fr fr

[@EDOGtv]

The satire in this video was really good lol there were nuggets of truth mixed in and made it good. Also about the anger, if an INFP is comfortable enough around you… there will be rage shown. But yes, we will regret it afterwards. 🤣🤣

[@purpletiger98]

Most of the regret is cause I can cut deep and later feel horrible for it 😅

[@edinam5464]

True that 🤷

[@Rin_Chawngthu]

My friends get awkward and scared if i show anger cause i never almost do. And the mood drops if it's at home

[@chronozormu457]

I don't think that I have EVER watched a video about my personality type where I would've heard so many truths and legit things about myself lol I am so happy for this video, thank you!

[@michalinaata5267]

I was smiling and giggling through the whole video, as an INFP 😇 Thanks for that

[@On4Eudaimonia]

I have an INFP best friend of 13 years. I LOVE INFPs. I repeat LOVE. I’m an ENFP and life is a constant adventure of imagination and creativity side by side. You INFPs also make me feel so free to be truly me, both my bright and dark sides.

[@tabboud]

we try :D

[@suraya_]

as an infp, I love enfps. yall are my favorite type. you guys are so fun

[@DarkSoulsZHL]

I'm an INFP and my best friends are INFP, ENFP and ISTP. And yes, I love ENFP's too.

[@RubitheRacoon]

thats the plan 👍 i hope you and your friend are doing well btw :)

[@Angelwhatsername]

I'm an infp and my best friend is an enfp, so I can attest we love you back! XD

[@behappy2847]

I'm an infp, i love watching korean dramas and before sleeping I'll imagine myself as the main character🤡

[@burningseaa795]

One of my fav things to do

[@UwU-lm9or]

LMFAOO when I was kid watching kdramas especially since dramas during the time were old and stereotypical I liked to imagine myself as the main character EVEN WITH THE TRADITIONAL DRAMAS TOO 💀✋✨

[@Jojo-mc7ku]

Well hello self or should I say ahnyonghaseyo chingu

[@Munchster798]

Sameee exept i watch C-dramas

[@lonelydaisy6413]

Im watching people's life vlog and then "if i was.."

[@yaellevi5448]

I have a hearing problem as an infp and it's amazing. Here's why: I can just pretend I can't hear people whenever I want and I can just say that I couldn't hear them and then ignore everyone whenever I want. Fun.

[@tabearebekka]

lol same :D but to me It's so difficult to ask people again and again if u really didn't understand them because of ur hearing problems (because u don't want to annoy them), also mine isn't about the volume, more about tones so yea, but it's actually quite cool if u can use that as an excuse for not paying attention haha :D

[@icantthink2853]

That’s called selective hearing.

[@yaellevi5448]

@Fire tears no that means I can ignore people and they can't be mad at me

[@yaellevi5448]

@@icantthink2853 my ears have this problem where they make too much earwax

[@yaellevi5448]

@Fire tears no I can just ignore them and mentally prepare myself to have a conversation with someone until they shout so I could hear them and I have an excuse to forget things that people told me.

[@yorkshirelassdiaries4841]

Procrastination ✔️ 1000 hobbies ✔️ Amazing imagination ✔️ Chill ✔️ Creative ✔️ Intuitive but not intellectual ✔️ Empathetic ✔️ Pacifist until my lid flies off, then take cover ✔️ Avoid drama and conflict ✔️ Good listener ✔️ Chatterbox ✔️ Highly emotional ✔️ Love my own company ✔️ Been described as other-worldly ✔️

[@achebwahs1111]

Check, check, check ✔️ ✅️ 💯 😉

[@airlynaces]

The first one about the sky is so relatable as an INFP. Didn’t know so many other INFPs did the same when they see a beautiful sky

[@JeffSans]

i adore the skyyyyy

[@En3rgyLee]

Lol it’s so true. When I have free time in staring at the sky. I literally make art works of sky when I’m in the mood to do stuff

[@simplyz3964]

I literally almost cried while looking at the starry night sky like three days ago Does our personality type just long to return to space?

[@lajirafa481]

So true. I’m on social media only posting sunset pics lol😂

[@sunhythen]

We are probably from somewhere up there. We may return to our rightful home someday and be with our big universal family. This planet doesn't always feel like home.

[@lumine7330]

As an infp, I appreciate your kind words. Most of the wisdom you speak is accurate. But there is just one thing, mortal... We never really talk to ourselves. We communicate with different societies in multiple galaxies and feed each other information. This is why we hide our intellect. If it were to get out, not only would all other types feel inferior, but they would learn the secrets of the universe. And you, yes you. Reading this. This mustn't get out into the world. If you have seen this, you are one of the few to have been given such responsibility to bare this secret. I hope I can count on you, human.

[@me1.0]

Nah I talk to myself too 😂

[@linguisticsnerd433]

Yes see we're never truly alone, us INFPs

[@lumine7330]

Lol

[@confusedlemon9289]

DONT TELL HIM HE MUSNT BECOME TOO POWERFUL

[@lumine7330]

@@confusedlemon9289 Oh no... it seems that I have revealed our powers! I am so sorry, my friend....

[@abigailthalman1190]

I like how you put in the fake day-dreaming in class thing but, as an INFP, I want to say something about it. Yes we do zone out & day-dream quite frequently in class but, unlike what you said in your story, we’ve learned to look like we are focused. So, that way we can day-dream without interruption.

[@janemorrow6672]

You got that spot on!

[@sunhythen]

Very fuckin true. You guys are family

[@Anna_s_Zone]

YESSSS

[@haynb03]

I’m not even done with the video yet but I want to say thank you. I don’t need therapy anymore. This is the most entertaining and relatable content I’ve ever seen.

[@bluefeathers4756]

I literally bursted out laughing when he said "Ultimate creators of fake scenarios"

[@DivineOracularEssense]

crazy...not that i’m proud of it but i am the queeen of ghosting. interesting that i’m not the only infp who is. sometimes i wish i didn’t have a tendency to do that to my friends or potential friends, and to social media in general. (i am horrible with being regularly active on social media). it’s a good thing i’m not in the dating world

[@luminyam6145]

Ghosting is exactly my methodology. I can't deal with the demands of friendships, it is an onerous duty.

[@Je-xl5my]

Yeah when I’m angry at someone I totally ignore them

[@Niveous23]

i thought infj types were the kings/queens of ghosting. maybe ya'll are the silver medals of ghosting?

[@luminyam6145]

@@Niveous23 It's bad, I even ghost my own children. I didn't realize it until they gave me hell for not returning texts and phone calls.

[@Niveous23]

@@luminyam6145 well damn, guess you get the gold medal? congrats..?

[@radalenta]

I never see the most accurate INFP's explanation like this one. This video explained me so damn well.

[@cathleyagarcia7627]

Can I just say this though? This would probably be the most hilarious video I have seen describing INFPs. Hahaha. Kudos to the narrator. His way of introducing ideas is very entertaining. I think it makes the viewers, especially INFPs, find humor in the reality of who they are and not take themselves too seriously which can be refreshing ❤ Tested as an INFP here.

[@Mochi-re8cv]

XDD

[@GachaINFP]

this is the nicest thing I've ever heard- and everything is so true, especially the taking the MBTI test a bajillion times 😂 tysm! I loved this so much 😂💗

[@BenjaminSpicy]

I'm happy you liked it 😊

[@subhadramahanta452]

I gave one recently 😂

[@disnat7197]

right, im making sure im an INFP lol

[@aziyaimee8477]

Hahahhaha! I laughed hard at this one. Urgh now everyone knows. It's supposed to be a secret

[@marycinderellacasulla1790]

Relatable to taking the test many times.

[@meysaya592]

I just loved the whole endless hobbies, then do nothing part, that was just, epic.

[@AlPHAjOLE]

I have never felt more called out and validated at the same time. Thank you.

[@jyyingg]

As an infp, i totally agree with the animals thing I was at my friends birthday party, and she had brought her bunny down. So, I spent the whole time looking at and petting the bunny. I was so worried that I would be considered rude because I'm paying more attention to the bunny than my friend;-;

[@wendyowen1925]

I've done the animal thing a buncha times. Another time I also was led by a little girl into her room cuz she wanted me to see her drawings, and we just hung out there the whole time drawing & dunking Oreos into orange juice. It was a great party.

[@nektariosh3470]

I'm an INFP and I think I would rule the world quite well. Who's with me on this?

[@anny1933]

Looks like a hard think to do but I'm with you gl

[@tmckmusic8584]

True, with our values, it would be a different world.

[@averagescentedman]

I’m an infp but I disagree with u…Nothing would get done lmaoo

[@bosslez]

Yes!! Agreeable, every infp's should try dat,

[@vannvirithek677]

@Elijah Kang i agree with you 100% for the procrastination thing 😂 Our type is not made to rule, it would be the worst thing to do, maybe not for the world but to ourself. Ruling is like asking an INFP to stop being who we are, it like commiting spiritual suicide

[@alt-uc6tn]

I thought everyone loves the sky. I do love it so much though more than an avwrage individual I guess, and I didn't know it's common to infps which is also my mbti lol

[@amoldivo]

This is the weirdest video I've ever watched and finished and feels like it's pretty weirdly yet best made.... The jokes are literally for INFPs to understand lmao although the maker might not be INFP himself (maybe?) But it's been heck a good video describing INFP!

[@acccmtdao6377]

Not with the fashion sense!! INFP are supposed to have good sense of fashion but too tired to you know, care about puttimg them on

[@katarinabozovic5601]

@@acccmtdao6377 Or too poor, in my case. But at least I can wear certain outfits in my head and look great there XD

[@acccmtdao6377]

@@katarinabozovic5601 ur case is mine as well xd

[@kedskies]

@@katarinabozovic5601 🥰

[@planetoii]

INFP who has injured walls and accidentally broken 2 windows with my anger. Don't want to take it out on anyone but also don't want to leave it all inside killing me from the inside out. Let it out somehow.

[@ithseem]

I, an INTJ, have almost always harboured a fascination toward INFPs for all the reasons above. I know one in real life and have been friends with her for years. She's had some problems with confidence, but it has gotten better now. She's also super philanthropic and I can see her changing the world (or at the very least, someone's world) for the better

[@seattlejones2908]

I love this comment

[@dmc7285]

as an INFP (like all the other persons here I guess) I rlly loved this video and thank you for doing a "INFP in a nutshell" that isn't the emo or crybaby stereotype

[@ForestG]

I never thought I could feel so hurt, hopeless, flattered, and superior (while questioning any right I have to feel better than anyone else) at the same time. You, sir, have cracked the code. INFPs, if they could actually lift a finger, would be a true force to reckon with. However, we conserve our energy for when the time comes. Then, as if out of nowhere, we strike in the night with all our might and achieve victory at any cost. Don't f*ck with our values or we will lift our a*ses off the couch and transform into our true alien form to convey our sharp intellect, vivid ideals, and plan for Earth while we inhabit this planet. We need to get back to nature. Thanks for reading whatever this was.

[@tabboud]

straight fax (as a fellow infp)

[@ForestG]

@@annawidlarz7967 I'm glad 😃

[@ForestG]

@@tabboud Indeed 👌 It's a blessing and a curse, but I'm working on overturning the curse.

[@MoonlitAna]

Seriously. Yes. Don't tread on my values. 😠♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@OfficeDuck-]

Omg this comment- i really couldn’t help but laugh even though it is almost 2am

[@PersonWhoAsked]

as an INFP, for me making up scenarios in my head can be used to the advantage, such as writing a book. it's a big help.

[@andhereismyspout]

I was screaming over this video. It's the funniest, coolest thing I've watched on yt for a while, I reckon. These points are SO ridiculously relatable, and the way they're presented in exaggerated, humourous form is EXCELLENT! I want to show this video to everyone I know now lol but I know only INFPs will truly 'get' it. I don't know how the heck you knew that I retake the MBTI quiz way more than needed though! That one shocked me. XD

[@anon6187]

Just retake it, just to make sure xD

[@venkatraypai5229]

I feel the same . I am laughing at the vedio for how much relatable it is oh God and at same time I want to show this vedio to everybody, that happy I am.:)

[@rachelclare8795]

INFP here-Loved This! Wow! It’s so funny how details are characteristic, I always have something to improve on - that was given as a characteristic somewhere-possibly another character type, so I’m still going to try and go to bed earlier…etc.

[@xxyenxd2382]

As an INFP who plays violin, piano, guitar, and drums, i feel called out.

[@Nella_nova]

Only play my violin. I have a keyboard and a ukulele which I don`t play cuz` I don`t have a teacher.

[@tinaranathania]

violin, piano, guitar, and flute here ahhahhaha Edit: ukulele too now HAHAHAHAHAH

[@electricant55]

Same. Of course I only play them in my head

[@tabboud]

used to play violin, congas, bells, and ukulele, currently play piano, drum set, guzheng (chinese instrument). o7

[@flickr5721]

As an INFP who plays cello, guitar, piano, and ukulele, i feel validated by this comment

[@gracesinnapen9666]

As an INFP procrastinating and watching this video under bedcovers during the day, I totally agree with all these points, especially about being sad... Just mentioning that we are often sad made me sad and I cried...

[@cain5075]

this video made me feel so happy and understood while being the funniest shit I've ever seen when you said "infps can be so interesting if you just let them speak" I almost cried istg thank you for loving us goofballs

[@villinaudasi5418]

OMG! THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO DESCRIBING INFPS EVER!!!

[@CaveyMoth]

It's so concise and true! It's like a window into my brain. Well, except maybe the saving the world part. This world is so fake and transient.

[@villinaudasi5418]

@@CaveyMoth Ikr!

[@annoyingdog4820]

This is literally the best description of the INFP type I've ever seen. I feel so seen 😭😭❤❤❤

[@ryantripp771]

Recently I’ve been struggling with my self identity and feeling out of place. I honestly think just taking the personality test and looking into what being an infp means has given me confidence in being myself that is much needed. There were just too many points that hit so close to home for me! Thank you for this video!

[@fooltruth]

Still feel like shit cus I let this girl down I fucked up so hard and I actually love her so much

[@mwyaski]

@@fooltruth I hope something good has happened now

[@gaby5546]

Aw *hugs*, I know that feeling too. It's great to finally find other people like us though, relating to other infps has been so comforting and validating and reassuring for me. We're beautiful creatures, I'm starting to appreciate that.

[@malikaganai3413]

Yesss, sameee! Same with me. Fellow INFP individual here🙋‍♀️ Been there, gone-going through this!🙌

[@imcatwoman3738]

Yea as an infp i tend to have these self identity issue often i just write down all my traits and read it out loud or whtever is it im thinking

[@Rust1809]

You know an INFP truly values you when they confront and call out the stupid shit you do.

[@pigtailswithbows]

I feel like I've just embarked on a whole new spectrum within the audience of this channel. You all are beautiful, _so_ damn beautiful. I've never come across this many people that I can _actually_ feel this much adoration for. If you see this, thank you tremendously for putting this channel up, Ben. And thank you to anyone who read this. 🥰

[@insideroutside]

Thank you

[@pigtailswithbows]

@@insideroutside 🤗 You're welcome! And thank you!

[@sunhythen]

I love You All

[@twitzmixx8374]

I love this guy immediately. His humor, his calming voice, the way he speaks things in cadence. It's just straight up comforting. 😣 I feel like he knows me in a spiritual level, casually makes fun of me while smirking then pats me in the head and laugh. It's so wholesome!!!

[@parsleyeugene]

Right?😅

[@abelelte5896]

I just found out that Im an INFP and it has changed a lot for me. I am learning a lot about myself and how to act in daily life and stuff. But Im still trying to let go of a lot of stuff such is being so perfectionate and constantly trying to better my appereance to others wich makes me very insecure and im constantly second guessing. I really love these types of video's because it makes me look at the good things that we as INFP's can bring to the world instead of constantly being mad at yourself because your not social enough etc.

[@seattlejones2908]

I can def relate…we are not for everyone. Only really special other people take the extra time to see all the awesome we offer. It is unique and fits our character. We are cute, creative, random, and fun. We offer excitement in the realm of the mundane. We color the clouds as rainbows and the sunshine is a juicy peach. We see life reimagined. In reality I pretend that I can be well received socially but I second guess what I say, how I look, etc. other people can read that insecurity. I’m getting smarter tho…looking for and finding people who I am confident around so I’m not obsessively over-observing and critiquing myself. Sometimes it seems like it has to do with the quality/personalities of the people I tend to feel more comfortable being around. Quantity doesn’t usually pan out for me ever…it just takes to long to get to the level where I’m comfortable enough to share my best qualities. I have to be choosy with which friends I make as so many people have no concept of reciprocal communication. I find myself 6 months+ into a friendship and we are still hashing the same boring crap as when we first met. Friends…hmmmmmm??? I have better conversations with myself and at least it interests me!

[@ree2546]

As an infp who's sad af right now because I have no friends but am too anxious and don't know how to socialize, 8:10 hits different

[@Gacha_june]

same with me

[@aistieramusic]

Same here. ❤

[@sky_if721]

Same. And sometimes my thoughts repeat the embarrassing moments from socialising.

[@chloe_jasmine985]

I never felt so understood in my entire life lmao 😂😭

[@sebastienmaloron1660]

so funny and right on spot, you figured out all those quirks we may have. My wife once told me that I must be a prototype, a one of a kind experiment and that the rest of humanity has been designed on an entirely different pattern.

[@yiddotrenda35]

this made me laugh so hard and it's also one of the most romantic thing she could make up :D

[@taiweannoona1204]

Im the INTP , my son is the INFP. You just made me love him even more. Didn't know that was possible... would like to see what you come up with for the INTJ- my daughter❤️ thankyou for the laughs today, much appreciated.

[@AnisiaEK]

The ending with the test, literally, whole video was sitting there and like "okay, maybe I re do the test? Maybe it changed". This is way too accurate, nearly feels like perosnal attack wth

[@sk61181]

No, no, no Benjamin, stop, stop right there, you can't read me just so fluently like this, that's my job as an INFP and then some...

[@praisekmore3596]

This 19 minute video LITERALLY took me over an hour to watch, coz it was so funny yet true and I was reflecting it to my life and it's all accurate(excluding the book reading).( I guess I acted like a true mediator🤷🏽‍♂️).

[@Bluz1]

Don't think I've ever watched a 19 minute video with a smile on my face from start to end, thank you.

[@SyahirahShimmer]

This is insanely accurate! I feel heard, I feel seen, I feel appreciated and I feel so exposed all at the same time

[@Mochi-re8cv]

FR FR 🌺✨

[@Aurora-qn2dx]

..the teacher would always Say that i was "away with the fairies" in school... I was literally.

[@Lisa-qt4hh]

The editing made me laugh throughout the entire video! And thanks for being so thoughtful and positive about infps, it's very heartwarming 😊🎉

[@CaveyMoth]

According to the subtitles, I am an Iron Of Peace. I need videos like this for every personality type; A visual encyclopedia of all the personalities.

[@heartistry4722]

As an infp-t with no friends who became a ghost and thinks everyone hates me cos of it, and wrote an album called alien theory I approve of this. I only did the test 2 or 3 times though and resisting the urge to do another one right now lol stay passionate aliens 👽

[@hannemari4643]

I laughed so hard at this...! I cried!

[@f.megawati]

THE AMOUNT OF TIMES IVE ACTUALLY SAID "Respect your elders" AS AN INFP WHILE BEING THE YOUNGEST IS ACTUALLY SO IRONICALL&Y FUNNY TO ME

[@goldenemery7417]

No bcz SAME 😭😭🤣

[@Nella_nova]

My ballet teacher calls me and old lady. And I was on Netflix and saw a thing that I know this little boy I know watches and was like: "Is this what the kids are watching these days. My childhood was better." I`m 12.

[@jhibehhhkkooo6t99]

infp here,one time I said to my older brother "always say less than necessary" he told me what does that mean? I confidently said "you'll understand when you grow up😌"

[@jhibehhhkkooo6t99]

my dad often calls me an old lady

[@waterlilyandvine]

You had me at "ultimate creators of fake scenarios." Omg! This video was hilarious and, yet so true as to what rolls around in my head.

[@MoonlitAna]

Seriously... and it's even harder when you like someone... you end up falling more and more with the them in your fantasy 🙃🙃🙃 ♥️

[@thatswhatisaid8908]

Oh I know! We are so good at it, and it's so sad when others don't get it. I'm hilarious, but my humour is wasted on other types. My daughter gets it though. She's INFP too.

[@some_88]

@@MoonlitAna it's me lol.Sometimes i imagine or dreamin about having a gf

[@AndyP3r3z]

I can't express how identified I feel with everything in this video. It's ironically so true in so many ways, and that was actually what made the video so funny too

[@matchaa4a]

I swear this is my fave INFP video!! -another bestest INFP