HOW TO DATE AND SETTLE SOONEST WHEN YOU'RE 35 YEARS AND ABOVE

[@sharonliana5631]

When I am off I let everyone in the office know I am off duty and won't respond to work emails, calls or texts unless something will go very wrong without my attention; I leave the office immediately at 5PM. I think I forgot myself to work in my first job after college, now in my 4th job I know better. If they want you out it won't matter the sacrifices you have made for them, they will have you out. Never replace who you are with a job, a job is just a part of a person's life, it shouldn't be everything about a person's life

[@BwalyaChiluba-i6r]

You have been my therapist, my Divorce wasn't even that hard because your teachings helped me in every step. It's been 2 years, healing from a crazy, narcissistic, childish marriage. I have learnt to make my own money but still afraid of dating, your teachings are helping me every step, thank you! I am 32 need to shoot straight next time.

[@benjaminzuluglobal]

@@BwalyaChiluba-i6r most welcome. Please attend the Finding Love Again Conference on 10th August at Utalii Hotel or get a virtual ticket Click www.benjaminzuluglobal.com

[@BwalyaChiluba-i6r]

@@benjaminzuluglobal 😢 I wish I could but I am in Zambia, I am not sure if it's possible to get a virtual ticket

[@benjaminzuluglobal]

@user-ty3di3bo7p yes get virtual ticket on www.benjaminzuluglobal.com or WhatsApp us on [phone]

[@BwalyaChiluba-i6r]

@@benjaminzuluglobal thank you very much, will definitely do so🙏

[@irenetoroitich6818]

I'm on the process of divorce from narcissistic man and I'm looking forward to meet with my mate and he should be over 52

[@AzaniaMohlala]

I don't want stress I don't want chaos I am one with calm I want certainty I want assurance ❤❤❤

[@ADayWithMe.]

Benjamin is saying the truth. Im from a broken home and it has affected my dating life in a big way. I wish i heard this many years back. Im now over 35yrs and childhood trauma is haunting me.

[@bb7503]

Not true lots of kids from married families who never marry Infact they are spoilt from their parents

[@MsMarie-m2z]

You told nothing but the truth I was in a relationship with one guy raised in a toxic household. He didn’t want to do therapy. Wasted 3 years but left

[@beautyscolary1743]

I like how Dr. Benjamin touches on social issues to address the topic at hand.

[@efe3097]

What Benjamin is saying about a fast paced career is very correct. It happened to me. Recently I had to take deliberate steps to slow it down when I realized I had no man of my own and did not even have enough time to take care of myself. My job consumed all of my time.

[@sharonnjeri2999]

Wow , I'm 28 from a single mom and you are very right Benjamin . I'm in a place where I'm learning myself by leaving alone and making my own choices just being a feminine woman is such a relief most single mom's are masculine and it's freeing to describe myself from my own opinion . Appreciate you so much Zulu

[@keziahwairimu3881]

Part 2 please. Am not in this age category but this Convo has helped me a great deal

[@MsMarie-m2z]

I was glad my mum left a toxic relationship and divorced my dad it helped my relationship with both my parents because they divorced when things were very unhealthy for us kids to witness . I’ve seen it how it damages children when toxic parents remain together in abusive household so so heartbreaking

[@Onedearminor]

This discussion was all about me😂😂😂I've learnt something 💯💯thank you BenZ 🤗🤗

[@carolkipruto]

The wisdom Zulu has is on another level.

[@beautyscolary1743]

True. I never thought it this way.

[@evemurey1996]

This was very informative. My take home, "Date exclusively " and this time "dictate the pace"👌. Thank you Benjamin

[@Farmingisgood]

Thank you Benjamin . God bless you for the awakening.

[@damarisnjerunjeru399]

Thank you mr Zuru,,,we need more of this

[@thulamil6956]

Peace is everything

[@teresianjeri-k7l]

Wow wow, love this topic,hv learn

[@lucywanjiku8525]

Part 2 please😅

[@Nyakato-v3t]

Make away for the family before you bring the family 👏👏👏

[@sharonliana5631]

I like the working from home part😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@wallywechs4694]

Part 2, 3 .... please

[@cynthiaomollo977]

I now know why boys turn to drunkards when a Family is toxic. As for me I dreaded going home for Holidays. My highschool friends were my family ,i love them 20 years later.

[@Salvation123..]

I feel you, for me I don't even have a place to go 😢.But God us gracious 😊

[@gracechangunda3394]

Always on point!

[@nancykajoka1385]

You're talking @Benjaminzuluglobal! They call them names

[@njulianyambura]

2 years since my Divorce and thanks to you Sir,I don't look anything like it😊. I would wake up at 6am with my diary and take notes as though am sitting for exams.I faced all my fears because you told us this time we don’t have time to waste.I even opened KZbin channel. Thank you Sir.I am turning 39yrs i September.

[@benjaminzuluglobal]

@@njulianyambura congratulations 🎊

[@bb7503]

Thanks for the show however i dont believe you i have friends and relatives whose parents married but they are single and vise versa ,what about all those kids from abusive marriages

[@princesspretty7508]

This man is full of knowledge,

[@marymutinda7277]

Benjamin i have a question

[@levinekosgei]

hello Zulu i have been following your teachings ,so there is this guy we were in a relationship for three years and unfortunately we broke up due to infidelity issue , now he is married and he want me and him to have a marriage certificate claiming that the wealth he has belongs to us both am stuck i need your advice kindly i still love him am 30years thanks

[@benjaminzuluglobal]

@levinekosgei stop that madness and block him. Move on and find single people to date. This time do not have premarital sex it's what causes this nonsensical emotional entanglement you're experiencing

[@tabithawaithira1202]

I am talking out of experience, never date a married man.Do all you can to forget about him.

[@wanguithua8802]

Run