Be very secure Learn to distinguish sincere men from chasers Work with internal deadlines Give him a taste of your charm not everything Stay on your way until a man decides he doesn't want to lose you.
Aah Zulu,I swear God doesn't regret giving you a voice😂😂God bless the womb that carried you🙏
@bongumamacline84529 ай бұрын
I got blessed the moment I landed on this channel, my life has never been the same..from Uganda
@annishkim517010 ай бұрын
He is like a father to me . he's teachings gets deep to me Thankyou
@ednahchirchir1924 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes being broke doesn't mean you don't have money 😮 lesson learnt
@hasfakitiibwa Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@evalyneacheing-ow2ew Жыл бұрын
Exactly dia
@user-zw5hd9fq6w8 ай бұрын
But been broke for long definitely takes one poor 😂
@yourstrulydenise7272 Жыл бұрын
1. Confidence (be secure)In you’re own skin 🤣🤣🤣 Benjamin I’m learning as a new wife & a new mom been struggling with this….. 2.Good listener ….Be an empathic listener (understand Him) 3.Disciplined keep boundaries 4. To have time limits…..
@beatricethomas4061 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@angelanjeri6369 Жыл бұрын
My first time listening to this man n damn i admire his wisdom a real gentleman.i could listen to him over n over n over😊
@nancyssonni8365 Жыл бұрын
The gentleman that oozes wisdom. Yours is not a profession but a talent, thank you sir.
@gloriamusau6681 Жыл бұрын
😂😂Did you just say that bra from hell😂😂 😂😂
@sofiesofiachannel10 ай бұрын
@@gloriamusau6681yes he did
@jackienjeri2404 Жыл бұрын
I really don't know how people keep writing we should be serious,we laugh too much , I look forward everyday for this.. Benjamin and your crew..God bless You for me .
@benjaminzuluglobal Жыл бұрын
Awww, thank you. 😊
@hellenopiyo58108 ай бұрын
Love the teachings so much but the too much laughters aren't always necessary. I mean you're there seriously hearing the content then they burst into laughter n you have to wait, yet what was said is so serious. 1:42
@beautybyTasha Жыл бұрын
The first time watching this andi can say I have learnt a lot.+humour =100%.
@dorothymoraa326 Жыл бұрын
Mostly am not comfortable with adds like making my nails , deep makeups coz I know one day I gonna miss them and I can't be able to go out, am proud of who I am
@relelekata5361 Жыл бұрын
You are loved and valued in RSA 🇿🇦
@nawazomuzik Жыл бұрын
I know why he is valued in RSA. The ZUKU name 😂😂
@mandy7168 Жыл бұрын
@@nawazomuzik u mean Zulu
@n.m624910 ай бұрын
Yebo
@Palesa80 Жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha Benjamin, I heard Someone say cohabiting with a Man is like being a multi-million dollar Football Player who goes into a soccer field, play for a club without a signed contract. You get injured in that field, you are on your own and have no back up.😅😅😅😅😊😊😊😊
@mariejeanneumugwaneza4011 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@chriswalker-ul1bl Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅
@user-fz1dg7us8d9 ай бұрын
Very very interesting
@user-jf6dz6hp6g8 ай бұрын
If u get involved in such it means u are read for any out come because all u want is to see if ur love is strong enough to stand any storm and u are ready for the future. Hence living together to avoid divorce after one week of married
@joankidon4626Ай бұрын
Well said 😅😅
@mercymaina6813 Жыл бұрын
This interviewer though… he can hype 😂
@nagashaannitah6304 Жыл бұрын
From Uganda 🇺🇬 I appreciate sir! We need more content on finances too! ❤️ Thank you sir
@zulekhabako5159 Жыл бұрын
Wakabi nyo
@salomeorina3579 Жыл бұрын
Ohh these one is so impact to my life the way you dress attract antention not respect......i salute you
@akampaolivia10949 ай бұрын
Was about to leave aprince but listening to u has saved me, respect sir
@lucywanjiku8525 Жыл бұрын
Benjamin thanks for this ,,,a humble reminder ,kindly invite an image consultant one of these days.
@kaosaomari5888 Жыл бұрын
How I wish our Women of nowadays would understand and know the meaning of RESPECT... Thank you..Am always inspired and mentored by your advice....keep the Fire Burning....
@aworpiece9293 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Mr Benjamin 🙏 I have learnt Alot on this video I'm this Kind of A lady who has Alot of veins on my legs and hands like that of a man 😢 I could feel so nervous even passing by someone when my arms are down oh my goodness But now because of this video am learning to be me NO MATTER How I LOOK ❤
@eunicewaithira2352 Жыл бұрын
Am from Kenya I would suggest you address lack of intimacy and sexlessness in marriages . Marriages are ailing and it seems to be a taboo to talk about such a topic.Thanks
@peterjacob71429 ай бұрын
the challenge men keep on talking respect respect but never get specific with what respect really means .... women don't know , what is it please, be specific... I am female by the way
@queeniengabo892010 ай бұрын
I can't stop listening to you again and again...Uar the BEST Zulu👏 Everlasting Blessings Upon U
@Terrence696 Жыл бұрын
🙋🏼♂️ From South Africa🇿🇦 we are still watching Dr Zulu !!! 😊
@mariamogale132 Жыл бұрын
Yebo!
@phindiletulisa5223 Жыл бұрын
I'm also from SA,I love this show
@lethabosiwa5861 Жыл бұрын
Me too Mzansi😊❤
@pattykosse9932 Жыл бұрын
Is he from 🇿🇦?
@lethabosiwa5861 Жыл бұрын
@@pattykosse9932 No, from Kenya
@jacklinekirungi5488 Жыл бұрын
I’m empowered by your conversation.
@gamuchiraitinazindoga37509 ай бұрын
Initially I wanted to skip this because there is soo much gibberish on this topic on net ...but after listening I think this is more relatable than any content I have ever come across I found myself correcting my faults ...thank you Benjamin and especially for advocating without waiver for no sex before marriage ....thank you
@user-me1pt6rd3n9 ай бұрын
This is me,i have a scar on my lips and one side of my nose not on the same size and shape but i love myself.Before i used to fear out of place but as am growing up am continuing loving myself more and nothing can make me lose self esteem.Thanks for education us Benjamin
@soniachichi2301 Жыл бұрын
I can watch this video over and over making alot of sense!
@thembiskosana3910 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂I love this man so much. Love from South Africa.
@nawazomuzik Жыл бұрын
The ZUKU name got RSA fans up and following 😂
@mandy7168 Жыл бұрын
@@nawazomuzik is it a problem though
@waka-otenudaeloho5848 Жыл бұрын
I 😅
@n.m624910 ай бұрын
Nami ngiyamuthanda
@pirrymlamba5179 Жыл бұрын
Work with internal deadlines this is my pique side🙏God bless you my brother Zulu I never get enough of your messages .
@cherotichjanet3928 Жыл бұрын
It is that time to learn and laugh. Keep up the good work.
@ewetes254 Жыл бұрын
I never knew you're this learned and speaks sweet,good English. I have always seen on lulu and rashid
@margret2688 Жыл бұрын
Anaongeaga kiswahili?
@jeannekaze560 Жыл бұрын
The very beautiful peoples they don’t show up every where, they know they are beautiful! If some people saying oh isn’t beautiful they don’t care;but one day some people they will surprise.Always put interrogation point,If someone told you someone you don’t know! Some time the body is need to show up for but isn’t always of in everything.
Wisdom 100 ......Let him see what it means for him to be with you for life ❤...
@siphesihleshongwe4786 Жыл бұрын
Such profound wisdom Mr. Zulu. God bless you
@midabingamlata9129 Жыл бұрын
Fall ? Or Be ? You Can't Make Anyone ....and vice versa . Ticket for Narcissistic behaviour is to MAKE someone be for your needs.
@wangarimugweru7473 Жыл бұрын
Make peace with what you fall short of then confidence levels shoot up there.
@stellamarisokoko1073 Жыл бұрын
You are teaching good sir,we should just be natural end confidence.
@jaellukaya2925 Жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu, you and Chris Hart are my role models in this field of Counseling Psychology.... bless you my mentors, you say it as it is, no sugar coating....
@musiimentasharrotte2241 Жыл бұрын
They’re my mentors too. I am a student of clinical psychology
@eyleenvictorians7062 Жыл бұрын
You have alot so much wisdom. Much love from +254 🇰🇪 😊
@eshycmwangi Жыл бұрын
Great Conversations from Zulu …as Always! These conversations are way more appropriate when the person in the listening chair is a lady Vs a man..
@Jummy_Endowed Жыл бұрын
Be secured about your man,,if you keep tracking, how wl u have the time to encourage him, in tym of trouble, you won't even concentrate on yourself, then you can noticehis collar,etc Don't satisfy his hunger for sex, your marriage is foundation on cheat.. observe the discipline Help him get his career better,,show him ur ability, let them see wat you are doing forever. Listen to him, they don't feel judged in alcohol aos, He shouldn't milk u for free,leave let him make a decision, let him show commitment, is about how much interaction b4 u decide.. Differentiate between a chaser,,to eat ur fruit(selfish) or plant ur garden with u(DNT play games with prince) Be confidence about yourself, shoe that part of your body you don't like, make peace with your body..(is mesmerizing.
@Jummy_Endowed Жыл бұрын
Thanks you all
@annfriddemumo1210 Жыл бұрын
Thanks alot sir,,,,,may God grant u more wisdom to inspire many
@estherasasiira1838 Жыл бұрын
Ladies listen to this..what a great message
@chichiowino1723 Жыл бұрын
It must be intense to handle the obstacles of life 👏🏾
@florencewanjiru1564 Жыл бұрын
This gentleman oozes wisdom
@consolataakinyi-zm1ix Жыл бұрын
Very important message, thanks for opening my eyes because all this time l have been concentrating on useless things that's why my relationships don't last long.
@morrineluck Жыл бұрын
Ooh my 😂 atleast you've learnt something dear
@queenwenzile1807 Жыл бұрын
From Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 . Zulu you are loved and appreciated
@bernardettesharara7891 Жыл бұрын
You can say that again lots of love from Zim .
@beatricemwangi10298 ай бұрын
Thank you Benjamin this is very educative. In the world we are in we need to hear this more and more
@pollynkirote9097 Жыл бұрын
Good advice brother Benjamin ❤God bless you
@abdullmumtaz7736 Жыл бұрын
In short badly dressed women attract alot of attention but not respect....
@onziluirene3423 Жыл бұрын
How I fall in love with that intro..uwee!!, This is Benjamin Zulu Global....it kills me ❤😊🎉❤😅😅
@TheAttractionTriggers11 ай бұрын
*Empowering ourselves with knowledge on how to be irresistible is incredible. Let's embrace these tips and be the best versions of ourselves.*
@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz8 ай бұрын
You're really knowledgeable sir...the time limit, and to differentiate between two chasters is what I really like most..am blessed by this teaching
@margret2688 Жыл бұрын
The bra and sitting allowance part 😂😂😂
@gloriamuia8405 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂I Laughed out Soo loud
@florenceakia2004 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅
@nancykajoka1385 Жыл бұрын
Always stay on your until a man shows you he can't lose you.
@adelaideadu-gyamfi7728 Жыл бұрын
I am very confident and my boyfriend said earlier he loved that but now he’s complaining I I’m too confident and that I should calm down cos I’m a woman. Now I don’t know what to do
@judithsakala4944 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely True. Thank you Benjamin sir!
@riza655811 ай бұрын
Benjamin, Benjamin, Benjamin Zulu🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 You said it all!!!!! 👌 Awesome!!!! So so true ~ When you meet a gentleman!!! You know ~ but carry on your way if you must... Thank You! Have missed your lessons of Truth! I see you on World Stage Benjamin ~ Not just East Africa, Africa! Every woman on this Earth has to hear you ~ amazing!!! Keep it up!! Am.always in your classes
@riza655811 ай бұрын
Hey!!! And you look absolutely on point!!!
@Anita_Ndinda239 ай бұрын
Wisdom Mr Zulu 2023 you have been one of my greatest blessings I thank God for you
@35907 Жыл бұрын
We love you Zulu,God bless you
@estherkitonga791 Жыл бұрын
A great advice thank you Mr Benjamin Zulu I love it.
@lenabenjamin7789 Жыл бұрын
Nice one...can see someone looks like Nodin Haji🤭
@catherinenzungnjume7822 Жыл бұрын
God bless you sir,learnt so much from you. Its your laughter for me🤣🤣🤣
@faddyssweetmusicmymusic2401 Жыл бұрын
Just admired your accent, and your show is real.bravo
@moureenkaruirublessed91124 ай бұрын
You are such a vibe❤l learn alot from you😊😊
@carolwambui5889 Жыл бұрын
I just love my coach keep educating us
@mzyvonnehangara7637 Жыл бұрын
Not all men are the same for example men outside Africa might not see some of this qualities important. Different people's love languages are not the same
@cynthiaauma1210 Жыл бұрын
This episode is just laughs 😂 but powerful at the same time
@Estherwendy450 Жыл бұрын
Hahahaaaaaaa.😂😂 I definitely don't want to be loved mildly but wildly
@victorianjoki5822 Жыл бұрын
It was the nose working for me😂
@nyotakasongo-yj1ot Жыл бұрын
Keep preaching sir, ...from DRC
@nellygichohi995 Жыл бұрын
I love this
@Glorie-oj7xc10 ай бұрын
Wow absolutely amazing ed inspiring , may God bless you man of God
@chepngetichperis6754 Жыл бұрын
Wow you built up my confidents sir thank you
@ellahwoods34268 ай бұрын
Thx so much with dat adverse🥰
@strong6082 Жыл бұрын
Rather than telling us about men, cause in the year 2023 no one gives 2 cents about them, tell us how our pockets will fall so in love with us, it's inflation time, love doesn't pay the rent in 2023.
@joycefuraha6403 Жыл бұрын
He is doing his best of works..if his teachings don't impress you then it's not a must that you listen to them
@strong6082 Жыл бұрын
@@joycefuraha6403 no offense, but am just tired of every KZbinr coming up with how to impress the other gender, we are having a lot of young kids nowadays instead of thinking of the future, like how to finish school, or even to tell the women " close your two damn legs it's the best birth control", we as Africans are going backwards, all we think of is the men/women, why bother thinking of relationship if you poor, it should be a crime for a poor person to even love someone, how will you feed your kids or pay your rent, you can't cash out love through the ATM, let our mindset be how to make Africa the best continent, but nope it's the opposite. So the KZbinrs should aim in sensitizing the youth on how to create jobs, if the government is not doing anything, let us encourage the youth, that's my expectations from this ones, and I will comment my thoughts, coz I never searched for his content KZbin recommended it, so if I see something I say something, like you said before, to keep my comments to myself,you should do the same, you should leave my comments alone and go to others who love relationships more than growth, then later blame God for your poverty.
@gracemwaura26489 ай бұрын
@@strong6082Zulu does what he does best as he is a relationship coach and a lot of people love his content as he advices all age groups "interested" in marriage or relationship. There are many other platforms dealing with how to get rich or eliminate poverty etc that you can navigate to.
@stylefreakamy Жыл бұрын
Wow! I have learnt a lot. thank you Sir
@florakathambi5815 Жыл бұрын
Our coach's socks Soo cute 👌
@sarahagola6504 Жыл бұрын
😂👍👍
@jesse_kihara Жыл бұрын
Also noted
@margaretkisau2416 Жыл бұрын
Why why is it the work of a woman always,woman do this woman do this!?
@attentivegal5258 Жыл бұрын
I'm telling u that's the first thing i noticed. Dress code also on point as always
@fanicekilele Жыл бұрын
I love this information...it's educative
@njokikangasha1840 Жыл бұрын
Great lessons all through 👌
@amusolochristine9090 Жыл бұрын
What a wounderful teachings thank you me mr benjamine
@hasfakitiibwa Жыл бұрын
Am very much thankful i found mr Benjamin. Doubt overcame
@gracewanga-dp5jn Жыл бұрын
Hi everyone 🤝 I am New here Dr thanks for the show lots of love from Uganda 🇺🇬
@nimusiima-co2ih Жыл бұрын
Thanks for Dat knowledge mostly to we who are going in marriage or friendship
@thegreyowl8753 Жыл бұрын
It was the sitting allowance for me😂
@kivivyamunyoki5270 Жыл бұрын
I loved your advise Mr.Zulu
@JemilaOsman-en2wp8 ай бұрын
Amazing conciousness powerful man to the point
@serahnjuhi110 Жыл бұрын
this is absolutely inspiring
@carolinechemutai828910 ай бұрын
Don't spend at a man house before marriage good advice sir I really second
@HazelHanover-yk1ct10 ай бұрын
That is for africa not the USA because no man wouldn't want to married you without you spending the night at the house its very different here in usa
@kazushkmilly3635 Жыл бұрын
HELPING THOSE WHO CAN'T AFFORD A WIFE😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Wanya224 Жыл бұрын
Bra form hell 😂😂😂
@floridahchepkemoi801010 ай бұрын
Have learnt something God bless you my coach
@emmasandranjambisalysandra Жыл бұрын
Always crazy of intelligent and inspirational
@adongosheila9215 Жыл бұрын
Whatever you are good at, show it.Listen good babi
@sarumashua8453 Жыл бұрын
Ooh i think i have to work on my egoo😢 thanks Brother Benjamin Zulu😊
@albrightsenewa4481 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the lesson.
@akurutchris4377 Жыл бұрын
I honestly liked this 🙏🤣🤣 special thanks great men 🙂
@Purpleiciousbabe Жыл бұрын
Not sure it applies to modern dating. Maybe particularly for African men. It’s good to know some of these things, life has moved on past all these traditional views. It’s challenging to find a traditional decent guy. I agree with some points.
@user-vm3mr2jf3w4 ай бұрын
Wow,am what a topic u never disappoint Benjamin
@user-lk9oj7nc3f Жыл бұрын
This seems like a comedy but with a meaningful massage 😂😂😂
@margaretmburu35688 ай бұрын
This is a good lesson it has really educate me alot thanks for the message
@graceannamwanga2094 Жыл бұрын
Hello Benjamin I hope ur doing good. Am Grace from Tz. Naimekuwa fans wako,but please ujitahidi kufanya vipindi pia kwa lugha ya kiswahili ili kuwafikia wengi,majority wanahitaji hii elimu na ninauhakika hawajui kingereza, Be blessed.
@julianneasasira-muwanguzi7603 Жыл бұрын
Zulu keep talking. You are one of the best thing that has happened to this generation. For sure you have made an excellent contribution. I am always learning and affirmed to excellent in relationship.
@doreenwanders422527 күн бұрын
Wish to meet you one day...just love alot you share to us