IF YOU DO THESE THINGS NO MAN CAN RESIST YOU

[@Rosepeter001]

Be very secure Learn to distinguish sincere men from chasers Work with internal deadlines Give him a taste of your charm not everything Stay on your way until a man decides he doesn't want to lose you.

[@edithmubbala9253]

?,

[@edithmubbala9253]

,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,z,,,,,,,,,Azzaro,,,,,,z,,,,,,,,,,-,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

[@lynmokodaya2431]

Aah Zulu,I swear God doesn't regret giving you a voice😂😂God bless the womb that carried you🙏

[@bongumamacline8452]

I got blessed the moment I landed on this channel, my life has never been the same..from Uganda

[@annishkim5170]

He is like a father to me . he's teachings gets deep to me Thankyou

[@ednahchirchir1924]

Sometimes being broke doesn't mean you don't have money 😮 lesson learnt

[@hasfakitiibwa]

❤❤❤

[@evalyneacheing-ow2ew]

Exactly dia

[@user-zw5hd9fq6w]

But been broke for long definitely takes one poor 😂

[@yourstrulydenise7272]

1. Confidence (be secure)In you’re own skin 🤣🤣🤣 Benjamin I’m learning as a new wife & a new mom been struggling with this….. 2.Good listener ….Be an empathic listener (understand Him) 3.Disciplined keep boundaries 4. To have time limits…..

[@beatricethomas4061]

Thank you

[@angelanjeri6369]

My first time listening to this man n damn i admire his wisdom a real gentleman.i could listen to him over n over n over😊

[@nancyssonni8365]

The gentleman that oozes wisdom. Yours is not a profession but a talent, thank you sir.

[@gloriamusau6681]

😂😂Did you just say that bra from hell😂😂 😂😂

[@sofiesofiachannel]

​@@gloriamusau6681yes he did

[@jackienjeri2404]

I really don't know how people keep writing we should be serious,we laugh too much , I look forward everyday for this.. Benjamin and your crew..God bless You for me .

[@benjaminzuluglobal]

Awww, thank you. 😊

[@hellenopiyo5810]

Love the teachings so much but the too much laughters aren't always necessary. I mean you're there seriously hearing the content then they burst into laughter n you have to wait, yet what was said is so serious. 1:42

[@beautybyTasha]

The first time watching this andi can say I have learnt a lot.+humour =100%.

[@dorothymoraa326]

Mostly am not comfortable with adds like making my nails , deep makeups coz I know one day I gonna miss them and I can't be able to go out, am proud of who I am

[@relelekata5361]

You are loved and valued in RSA 🇿🇦

[@nawazomuzik]

I know why he is valued in RSA. The ZUKU name 😂😂

[@mandy7168]

@@nawazomuzik u mean Zulu

[@n.m6249]

Yebo

[@Palesa80]

Ha ha ha Benjamin, I heard Someone say cohabiting with a Man is like being a multi-million dollar Football Player who goes into a soccer field, play for a club without a signed contract. You get injured in that field, you are on your own and have no back up.😅😅😅😅😊😊😊😊

[@mariejeanneumugwaneza4011]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chriswalker-ul1bl]

😅😅😅😅😅

[@user-fz1dg7us8d]

Very very interesting

[@user-jf6dz6hp6g]

If u get involved in such it means u are read for any out come because all u want is to see if ur love is strong enough to stand any storm and u are ready for the future. Hence living together to avoid divorce after one week of married

[@joankidon4626]

Well said 😅😅

[@mercymaina6813]

This interviewer though… he can hype 😂

[@nagashaannitah6304]

From Uganda 🇺🇬 I appreciate sir! We need more content on finances too! ❤️ Thank you sir

[@zulekhabako5159]

Wakabi nyo

[@salomeorina3579]

Ohh these one is so impact to my life the way you dress attract antention not respect......i salute you

[@akampaolivia1094]

Was about to leave aprince but listening to u has saved me, respect sir

[@lucywanjiku8525]

Benjamin thanks for this ,,,a humble reminder ,kindly invite an image consultant one of these days.

[@kaosaomari5888]

How I wish our Women of nowadays would understand and know the meaning of RESPECT... Thank you..Am always inspired and mentored by your advice....keep the Fire Burning....

[@aworpiece9293]

Thank you so much Mr Benjamin 🙏 I have learnt Alot on this video I'm this Kind of A lady who has Alot of veins on my legs and hands like that of a man 😢 I could feel so nervous even passing by someone when my arms are down oh my goodness But now because of this video am learning to be me NO MATTER How I LOOK ❤

[@eunicewaithira2352]

Am from Kenya I would suggest you address lack of intimacy and sexlessness in marriages . Marriages are ailing and it seems to be a taboo to talk about such a topic.Thanks

[@peterjacob7142]

the challenge men keep on talking respect respect but never get specific with what respect really means .... women don't know , what is it please, be specific... I am female by the way

[@queeniengabo8920]

I can't stop listening to you again and again...Uar the BEST Zulu👏 Everlasting Blessings Upon U

[@Terrence696]

🙋🏼‍♂️ From South Africa🇿🇦 we are still watching Dr Zulu !!! 😊

[@mariamogale132]

Yebo!

[@phindiletulisa5223]

I'm also from SA,I love this show

[@lethabosiwa5861]

Me too Mzansi😊❤

[@pattykosse9932]

Is he from 🇿🇦?

[@lethabosiwa5861]

@@pattykosse9932 No, from Kenya

[@jacklinekirungi5488]

I’m empowered by your conversation.

[@gamuchiraitinazindoga3750]

Initially I wanted to skip this because there is soo much gibberish on this topic on net ...but after listening I think this is more relatable than any content I have ever come across I found myself correcting my faults ...thank you Benjamin and especially for advocating without waiver for no sex before marriage ....thank you

[@user-me1pt6rd3n]

This is me,i have a scar on my lips and one side of my nose not on the same size and shape but i love myself.Before i used to fear out of place but as am growing up am continuing loving myself more and nothing can make me lose self esteem.Thanks for education us Benjamin

[@soniachichi2301]

I can watch this video over and over making alot of sense!

[@thembiskosana3910]

😂😂😂I love this man so much. Love from South Africa.

[@nawazomuzik]

The ZUKU name got RSA fans up and following 😂

[@mandy7168]

@@nawazomuzik is it a problem though

[@waka-otenudaeloho5848]

I 😅

[@n.m6249]

Nami ngiyamuthanda

[@pirrymlamba5179]

Work with internal deadlines this is my pique side🙏God bless you my brother Zulu I never get enough of your messages .

[@cherotichjanet3928]

It is that time to learn and laugh. Keep up the good work.

[@ewetes254]

I never knew you're this learned and speaks sweet,good English. I have always seen on lulu and rashid

[@margret2688]

Anaongeaga kiswahili?

[@jeannekaze560]

The very beautiful peoples they don’t show up every where, they know they are beautiful! If some people saying oh isn’t beautiful they don’t care;but one day some people they will surprise.Always put interrogation point,If someone told you someone you don’t know! Some time the body is need to show up for but isn’t always of in everything.

[@nikitavyleen8337]

Used to watch Benjamin on TV, Citizen to be precise, until today...never knew he had a soul warming KZbin channel. Benjamin oozes wisdom en knowledge at the same time. I've only watched few episodes en already am feeling enlightened. Indeed let our mindset govern us rather than life's realities. © Benjamin...you're a gem.

[@virginiawangoi4451]

Wisdom 100 ......Let him see what it means for him to be with you for life ❤...

[@siphesihleshongwe4786]

Such profound wisdom Mr. Zulu. God bless you

[@midabingamlata9129]

Fall ? Or Be ? You Can't Make Anyone ....and vice versa . Ticket for Narcissistic behaviour is to MAKE someone be for your needs.

[@wangarimugweru7473]

Make peace with what you fall short of then confidence levels shoot up there.

[@stellamarisokoko1073]

You are teaching good sir,we should just be natural end confidence.

[@jaellukaya2925]

Benjamin Zulu, you and Chris Hart are my role models in this field of Counseling Psychology.... bless you my mentors, you say it as it is, no sugar coating....

[@musiimentasharrotte2241]

They’re my mentors too. I am a student of clinical psychology

[@eyleenvictorians7062]

You have alot so much wisdom. Much love from +254 🇰🇪 😊

[@eshycmwangi]

Great Conversations from Zulu …as Always! These conversations are way more appropriate when the person in the listening chair is a lady Vs a man..

[@Jummy_Endowed]

Be secured about your man,,if you keep tracking, how wl u have the time to encourage him, in tym of trouble, you won't even concentrate on yourself, then you can noticehis collar,etc Don't satisfy his hunger for sex, your marriage is foundation on cheat.. observe the discipline Help him get his career better,,show him ur ability, let them see wat you are doing forever. Listen to him, they don't feel judged in alcohol aos, He shouldn't milk u for free,leave let him make a decision, let him show commitment, is about how much interaction b4 u decide.. Differentiate between a chaser,,to eat ur fruit(selfish) or plant ur garden with u(DNT play games with prince) Be confidence about yourself, shoe that part of your body you don't like, make peace with your body..(is mesmerizing.

[@Jummy_Endowed]

Thanks you all

[@annfriddemumo1210]

Thanks alot sir,,,,,may God grant u more wisdom to inspire many

[@estherasasiira1838]

Ladies listen to this..what a great message

[@chichiowino1723]

It must be intense to handle the obstacles of life 👏🏾

[@florencewanjiru1564]

This gentleman oozes wisdom

[@consolataakinyi-zm1ix]

Very important message, thanks for opening my eyes because all this time l have been concentrating on useless things that's why my relationships don't last long.

[@morrineluck]

Ooh my 😂 atleast you've learnt something dear

[@queenwenzile1807]

From Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 . Zulu you are loved and appreciated

[@bernardettesharara7891]

You can say that again lots of love from Zim .

[@beatricemwangi1029]

Thank you Benjamin this is very educative. In the world we are in we need to hear this more and more

[@pollynkirote9097]

Good advice brother Benjamin ❤God bless you

[@abdullmumtaz7736]

In short badly dressed women attract alot of attention but not respect....

[@onziluirene3423]

How I fall in love with that intro..uwee!!, This is Benjamin Zulu Global....it kills me ❤😊🎉❤😅😅

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*Empowering ourselves with knowledge on how to be irresistible is incredible. Let's embrace these tips and be the best versions of ourselves.*

[@FeliciaEkanem-pm1uz]

You're really knowledgeable sir...the time limit, and to differentiate between two chasters is what I really like most..am blessed by this teaching

[@margret2688]

The bra and sitting allowance part 😂😂😂

[@gloriamuia8405]

😂😂😂I Laughed out Soo loud

[@florenceakia2004]

😅😅😅😅😅

[@nancykajoka1385]

Always stay on your until a man shows you he can't lose you.

[@adelaideadu-gyamfi7728]

I am very confident and my boyfriend said earlier he loved that but now he’s complaining I I’m too confident and that I should calm down cos I’m a woman. Now I don’t know what to do

[@judithsakala4944]

Absolutely True. Thank you Benjamin sir!

[@riza6558]

Benjamin, Benjamin, Benjamin Zulu🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 You said it all!!!!! 👌 Awesome!!!! So so true ~ When you meet a gentleman!!! You know ~ but carry on your way if you must... Thank You! Have missed your lessons of Truth! I see you on World Stage Benjamin ~ Not just East Africa, Africa! Every woman on this Earth has to hear you ~ amazing!!! Keep it up!! Am.always in your classes

[@riza6558]

Hey!!! And you look absolutely on point!!!

[@Anita_Ndinda23]

Wisdom Mr Zulu 2023 you have been one of my greatest blessings I thank God for you

[@35907]

We love you Zulu,God bless you

[@estherkitonga791]

A great advice thank you Mr Benjamin Zulu I love it.

[@lenabenjamin7789]

Nice one...can see someone looks like Nodin Haji🤭

[@catherinenzungnjume7822]

God bless you sir,learnt so much from you. Its your laughter for me🤣🤣🤣

[@faddyssweetmusicmymusic2401]

Just admired your accent, and your show is real.bravo

[@moureenkaruirublessed9112]

You are such a vibe❤l learn alot from you😊😊

[@carolwambui5889]

I just love my coach keep educating us

[@mzyvonnehangara7637]

Not all men are the same for example men outside Africa might not see some of this qualities important. Different people's love languages are not the same

[@cynthiaauma1210]

This episode is just laughs 😂 but powerful at the same time

[@Estherwendy450]

Hahahaaaaaaa.😂😂 I definitely don't want to be loved mildly but wildly

[@victorianjoki5822]

It was the nose working for me😂

[@nyotakasongo-yj1ot]

Keep preaching sir, ...from DRC

[@nellygichohi995]

I love this

[@Glorie-oj7xc]

Wow absolutely amazing ed inspiring , may God bless you man of God

[@chepngetichperis6754]

Wow you built up my confidents sir thank you

[@ellahwoods3426]

Thx so much with dat adverse🥰

[@strong6082]

Rather than telling us about men, cause in the year 2023 no one gives 2 cents about them, tell us how our pockets will fall so in love with us, it's inflation time, love doesn't pay the rent in 2023.

[@joycefuraha6403]

He is doing his best of works..if his teachings don't impress you then it's not a must that you listen to them

[@strong6082]

@@joycefuraha6403 no offense, but am just tired of every KZbinr coming up with how to impress the other gender, we are having a lot of young kids nowadays instead of thinking of the future, like how to finish school, or even to tell the women " close your two damn legs it's the best birth control", we as Africans are going backwards, all we think of is the men/women, why bother thinking of relationship if you poor, it should be a crime for a poor person to even love someone, how will you feed your kids or pay your rent, you can't cash out love through the ATM, let our mindset be how to make Africa the best continent, but nope it's the opposite. So the KZbinrs should aim in sensitizing the youth on how to create jobs, if the government is not doing anything, let us encourage the youth, that's my expectations from this ones, and I will comment my thoughts, coz I never searched for his content KZbin recommended it, so if I see something I say something, like you said before, to keep my comments to myself,you should do the same, you should leave my comments alone and go to others who love relationships more than growth, then later blame God for your poverty.

[@gracemwaura2648]

​@@strong6082Zulu does what he does best as he is a relationship coach and a lot of people love his content as he advices all age groups "interested" in marriage or relationship. There are many other platforms dealing with how to get rich or eliminate poverty etc that you can navigate to.

[@stylefreakamy]

Wow! I have learnt a lot. thank you Sir

[@florakathambi5815]

Our coach's socks Soo cute 👌

[@sarahagola6504]

😂👍👍

[@jesse_kihara]

Also noted

[@margaretkisau2416]

Why why is it the work of a woman always,woman do this woman do this!?

[@attentivegal5258]

I'm telling u that's the first thing i noticed. Dress code also on point as always

[@fanicekilele]

I love this information...it's educative

[@njokikangasha1840]

Great lessons all through 👌

[@amusolochristine9090]

What a wounderful teachings thank you me mr benjamine

[@hasfakitiibwa]

Am very much thankful i found mr Benjamin. Doubt overcame

[@gracewanga-dp5jn]

Hi everyone 🤝 I am New here Dr thanks for the show lots of love from Uganda 🇺🇬

[@nimusiima-co2ih]

Thanks for Dat knowledge mostly to we who are going in marriage or friendship

[@thegreyowl8753]

It was the sitting allowance for me😂

[@kivivyamunyoki5270]

I loved your advise Mr.Zulu

[@JemilaOsman-en2wp]

Amazing conciousness powerful man to the point

[@serahnjuhi110]

this is absolutely inspiring

[@carolinechemutai8289]

Don't spend at a man house before marriage good advice sir I really second

[@HazelHanover-yk1ct]

That is for africa not the USA because no man wouldn't want to married you without you spending the night at the house its very different here in usa

[@kazushkmilly3635]

HELPING THOSE WHO CAN'T AFFORD A WIFE😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Wanya224]

Bra form hell 😂😂😂

[@floridahchepkemoi8010]

Have learnt something God bless you my coach

[@emmasandranjambisalysandra]

Always crazy of intelligent and inspirational

[@adongosheila9215]

Whatever you are good at, show it.Listen good babi

[@sarumashua8453]

Ooh i think i have to work on my egoo😢 thanks Brother Benjamin Zulu😊

[@albrightsenewa4481]

Thank you for the lesson.

[@akurutchris4377]

I honestly liked this 🙏🤣🤣 special thanks great men 🙂

[@Purpleiciousbabe]

Not sure it applies to modern dating. Maybe particularly for African men. It’s good to know some of these things, life has moved on past all these traditional views. It’s challenging to find a traditional decent guy. I agree with some points.

[@user-vm3mr2jf3w]

Wow,am what a topic u never disappoint Benjamin

[@user-lk9oj7nc3f]

This seems like a comedy but with a meaningful massage 😂😂😂

[@margaretmburu3568]

This is a good lesson it has really educate me alot thanks for the message

[@graceannamwanga2094]

Hello Benjamin I hope ur doing good. Am Grace from Tz. Naimekuwa fans wako,but please ujitahidi kufanya vipindi pia kwa lugha ya kiswahili ili kuwafikia wengi,majority wanahitaji hii elimu na ninauhakika hawajui kingereza, Be blessed.

[@julianneasasira-muwanguzi7603]

Zulu keep talking. You are one of the best thing that has happened to this generation. For sure you have made an excellent contribution. I am always learning and affirmed to excellent in relationship.

[@doreenwanders4225]

Wish to meet you one day...just love alot you share to us