That's Not My Responsibility | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers

[@msaverielle]

The answer to your problem is to remember that’s NOT your responsibility.

[@Greenlynxmedia]

I needed this. I’m in a transitional season of my life. Where I can be selfish. My kids are grown, divorced. I can focus on me. I’m in the process of saying yes again to me.

[@lvelfe3415]

Yes 🙌🏿 Focus on yourself now. No more partner to meet needs, kids needs have changed. Now you can become a student of you! Best of luck on your journey. I would advice try to find a support group so you don’t isolate yourself on this journey.

[@preciousmcfarland5265]

Me too and it feels good to love me again❤️❤️❤️

[@ginnacarroll9171]

Trying to work on myself after finding out about my husband’s infidelity.

[@natasharileyapplewhite]

Learning how to Love on me putting myself First.. Minding my business Living My Best Life Unapologetically.

[@natasharileyapplewhite]

Yes to loving on yourself and putting you first. Live Your Best Life Unapogetically. . Sending You Peace & Blessings🎉

[@Greenlynxmedia]

Everybody is not my assignment. Lord let this deep down in my soul and learn to walk away.

[@yolandawilliams3319]

GOD GIVE ME THE WISDOM TO BE ABLE TO DISCERN WHAT'S MY PROBLEM AND WHAT'S NOT!!!!!

[@drib3870]

I can't thank God enough! You saying this speaks volumes in my life right now. It's so nice to know I'm not alone in in this feeling. I needed to come across this today. Thank you❤️

[@jess.l1574]

Amen

[@Greenlynxmedia]

I’m so proud of you I see you 🫶🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@BelieveInMiracles78]

Amen

[@starronyoutube]

Amen!🙏🏾

[@Kelli_Keith]

“The enemy uses trauma to contaminate your concentration” JESUS!!!! 🙌🏾

[@rosalindhayes1363]

Preach!

[@AmandaRentz]

Thanks!

[@foreverfavored729]

Lord, I’m tired of being a problem chaser!

[@LRNJ-43]

Respond to stress and then return to a place of balance. Thanks Pastor Flowers.

[@bonitaoree]

If purpose fixes problems - let’s say that backwards If there’s a problem that I just can’t fix then it must not be my purpose! PREACHHHH PREACHER 😭

[@Greenlynxmedia]

I’m so proud of you I see you 🫶🏽💕

[@yahkar]

🤔 Maybe the Answer to Your Problem is that....it's not Your Problem. Great Lesson @REDEFINED TV , Many Blessings 🙏🏾💯

[@Greenlynxmedia]

I’m so proud of you I see you 🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@debraafriday]

This was so powerful and on point. Pastor Flowers this piece was so accurate.

[@allaboutherterritory]

I’ve been a car in a garage - help me Jesus!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 this was good I must get in engaged in my purpose and being careful who rides in the car with me

[@sarahmarie24773]

God 🙌🏼 Give me the wisdom to be able to discern what’s my problem and what’s not 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@modernlyethnic775]

Reciprocity is not selfish, it’s biblical! I was today years old when I received this revelation! Thanks Pastor! Thank You Lord!

[@jenniferrivera8627]

"When u live life outside your purpose the problem will still exist once your gone" " Now your children will have to deal with the same problem you were meant to fix" that right there hit hard. We got to get it together for our kids

[@natashajames2301]

GOD GIVE ME THE WISDOM TO BE ABLE TO DISCERN WHATS MY PROBLEM AND WHAT NOT.... purpose fixes problems!!!

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

This is real good!!! That’s me , so exhausted!!!! Every relationship I been in that’s what it’s been taking on problems that aren’t mine and feeling guilty if I choose me!!!

[@Greenlynxmedia]

I’m so proud of you I see you 🫶🏽✊🏾💕

[@ladennayoung2939]

I mean if you are going to supposedly choose you, then the decide to choose you wholeheartedly. We tend to have to unlearn and let go of mentalities, heart postures, mindsets, and behaviors that is NOT beneficial to us whatsoever.

[@ladennayoung2939]

And I pray that YOU choose to grow in GOD'S knowledge, wisdom, understanding, insight, strength, love, hope, healing, deliverance, and perspective. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN. EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE ISN'T FOR EVERYBODY, AND THAT'S OKAY. AND YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE TO LEARN TO BE OKAY WITH THAT, IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN.

[@Tanyajonamission]

Amen Lisa!!

[@graceandmercy412]

OH HOW I HAVE MISSED THIS!!!!! Thank you for coming back pastor Jerry!!!!! ❤️ You are our blessing from above!!!!

[@Greenlynxmedia]

I’m so proud of you I see you 🫶🏽

[@ladennayoung2939]

I'm glad he's back too. But he announced that he was taking a break, and the LORD led HIM to take a vacation. And I choose to praise and thank GOD, that he chose to honor and obey GOD completely/wholeheartedly. Because that's VERY important, and very much needed in EVERY area of your/our lives.

[@King_LD]

Idk why Pastor Flowers, but watching your sermons really speak to me and makes me emotional in a good way. I really feel like I’m learning something. Love your teaching pastor! God bless you 🙏🏿.

[@valeriemarshall8975]

Everything and everyone is not my assignment!!!! Praise God. Amen

[@deniquebarnett2307]

God give me the wisdom to be able to discern what’s my problem and what’s not!

[@Greenlynxmedia]

I’m so proud of you I see you 🫶🏽

[@redzin8818]

Amen!

[@thatsinteresting4661]

Stress management series has been so refreshing and healing. Much needed and very grateful for it. It was definitely heaven scented!

[@PeacockPeekaboo]

This message right HEEEERE!!!!! ☄️☄️☄️🔥🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@Silence-gp7gs]

Amen needed to hear this

[@courtneyjohnson5529]

Why is this such a worddddd🙏🏾🙌🏾🥹 soooo many NUGGETS! GOD bless therapy Thursdays!!!

[@ladennayoung2939]

THANK YOU HOLY, SPIRIT. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS JESUS. FOR SPEAKING, PREACHING, AND TEACHING THROUGH YOUR HUMBLE SERVANT. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. THANK YOU LORD. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. THANK YOU LORD. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN. THANK YOU LORD. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN. THANK YOU LORD. THANK YOU LORD, JESUS. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN. HALLELUJAH. ❤️💜💛🌹🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@jayboogie7956]

That superhero example hit me on so many ways.

[@Chinaecuatoriana1590]

God, give me the wisdom to be able to discern what’s my problem and what’s not🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

[@carlissable]

Just wanted to let you know that you Mr. Flowers ARE a Staple in my Life, Journey and walk with Christ. Thank you so very very much. You can't make enough videos for me...I'm almost finished all of them... waiting to hear his words and instructions through you King 👑 Flowers. Thanks much and blessings to you and your beautiful wife and family. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@-uniqueamari]

I NEED A PART 2🙏🏿 THIS WAS SO GOOD AND DEFINITELY ORDAINED FOR ME TO SEE THIS‼️ thank you pastor jerry AMENDDD TO THAT LAST PRAYER.

[@Kelli_Keith]

WE* need a part 2!!!!

[@meekmeek8198]

If only I knew this years ago...😤 but I know now. Other people's rejection ain't my problem, you don't receive me...that's on you. ✝️🙏💯 I'm good regardless

[@williamcaudle7436]

New Follower from Greensboro, NC. Brother words can not express how God is using you to bless me in this season of my life. Keep allowing God to use you. You are doing more for people than you will ever know here on Earth. Blessings To You and Your family. Thurs 2/8/24.

[@ALEYAFELTON]

This message was definitely for me! I dreamed of him just last night and got on YouVersion this morning he was on there… then my friend sent me this! Thank you God for sending confirmation through Pastor Flowers! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I pray for discernment, wisdom and guidance to everyone who watches this powerful teaching in Jesus name! 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️

[@anitacoleman9372]

GOD GKVE ME THE WISDOM TO BE ABLE TO DISCERN WHATS’S MY PROBLEM AND WHAT’S NOT🙏🏿

[@seniquarenee8034]

🙌🏽🙌🏽 Brother, you are truly a blessing from God…the amount of healing that I have received from you preaching he unadulterated word of God!! May God give you a double portion… Jesus + Therapy!!! I LOVE IT!

[@carmenross3151]

Whew! On time message. God is so real and true! Thank you Lord for my new level of discernment! #It’sNotMyResponsibility 💕🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@ameliesegla8288]

Reciprocity is not selfish, it is biblical. Amen🤲🏿

[@karen_hockaday]

This message is so blessed. Oh how I have missed this! Need this in my life. You can never get enough life lessons or wisdom or encouragement or faith. Thank you Pastor Flowers for always being faithful to His calling.

[@judylearnsmorewithtime159]

9th inning and slam dunking seeds of the Holy Spirit in the minds needing to bare fruit. Hallelujah

[@Greenlynxmedia]

Whew chile “you may not be graced for them”

[@kimmieboo1413]

GOD GIVE ME THE WISDOM TO BE ABLE TO DISCERN WHATS MY PROBLEM & WHATS NOT !

[@hopedaleydaily3795]

Lord, thank You! God bless you Pastor Jerry, for your obedience!

[@BreatheFashion]

Please no more Therapy Thursday breaks lol…I need my weekly session!

[@ladennayoung2939]

GOD GIVE ME THE WISDOM TO BE ABLE TO DISCERN WHAT'S MY PROBLEM AND WHAT'S NOT. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN.

[@camalebell9826]

I need to get my mindset right am lost and think bad and stupid and I be too angry over nothing when stuff don't go right I can think good and positive but I think negative thoughts I don't want and be worried alot and stressed out

[@yolandawilliams3319]

You've made the first step by admitting that you have a problem. Non of us are perfect and we all have a battle that we are fighting. Give it all to God and meditate on Him day and night and study to show yourself approved. I pray God delivers you and give you a fresh outlook on life!!!!

[@camalebell9826]

@@yolandawilliams3319 ok thanks I was always afraid I ask why because have issues and problems I created but don't like I need encouragement from myself when I'm depressed and hopeless

[@cathienamutebi4613]

Hello... texting from Uganda... it's about 9am here right now.. and I just had this conversation with my baby sis while driving my son to school this morning... So this message is for me.. I want to learn what isn't my responsibility... DEAR GOD PLEASE GIVE ME THE WISDOM TO BE ABLE TO DISCERN WHAT IS MY PROBLEM AND WHAT IS NOT... IN JESUS'S NAME... AMEN

[@janika954]

Yes!!! Miss you Pastor and First Lady!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 -Florida

[@kourtneesosthand1048]

Thats who did a shout and dance for therapy Thursday!!!!! I needed this one ...

[@Blessedmommydiaries24]

So powerful. Amen I receive this. AMEN.that is not my responsibility.the answer to my problem is not my problem. God give me the wisdom to be able to discern what’s my problem and what’s not.

[@PreciousOne777]

GOD GIVE ME THE WISDOM TO BE ABLE TO DISCERN WHAT'S MY PROBLEM AND WHAT'S NOT

[@bonitaoree]

Please tell me why I’m only 13:38 minutes in and I have three pages of notes already! 🥹😂

[@YourChronicIllnessAdvocate]

Maybe the answer to my problem, is to remember that it's not my problem 🙏🏾

[@kiracassiani6340]

I need this video and it stopped working right around 19 minutes and it's muted. Maybe not for anyone else, but it is for me 😭. This is literally what I've needed to hear all day

[@Beredefined]

I believe we fixed it, we apologize about that

[@heather7119]

Dude this word is rebuking me left and right 😆……EXCELLENT TEACHING

[@Greenlynxmedia]

That is where I am right now. Minding my own business. It has drained me trying to “fix” others when my stuff isn’t 💯 together.

[@warrencoleman8052]

Hello Redefined TV for the return of therapy thursday, glory!

[@highdaphinition]

I needed this Pastor Jerry! Deal with people where they are, not where you think they should be. That spoke to my heart. Thank you for that strong word! God Bless You and Your Family 🙏💙🕊🔥💯

[@ladennayoung2939]

An unnecessary storm. Lord have mercy. Lord have mercy.

[@ladylaura93]

True!! That is not my problem and "No" is a complete sentence!!👊🏾👊🏾

[@JINSTERPEACE]

Makes sense why Jesus went to a quiet place to pray.

[@Greenlynxmedia]

You are so annointed. I am thankful that I found your church online.

[@kangwa-musolechisanga242]

“Have you missed it?” YES 🙌🏿

[@shavonhampton3535]

🤯🔥🔥!!!! ….Problems are generational . This has given me confirmation on soo many levels. … outcomes belong to God.

[@kimmieboo1413]

Yall know the saying : The truth can hurt you or set you free! This word did both for me ! It hurt hearing things we already know but didn't wanna hear but yet rhema word freed me as well so I can overcome this & hold on to my peace.

[@Thebillpodcast2024]

I’m just going to leave a prayer request here, I’m asking prayer for motivation in my spiritual life that I will WANT Jesus rather. Than feeling like I HAVE To

[@jamie1879]

Deal with people where they are, not whether you think they are supposed to be....this was Soo good

[@munchkinm6929]

The Bible app brought me to this ministry

[@sheilawaddy3184]

God give me the wisdom to discern whats my problem and whats not

[@kamikerr3522]

Thank you ALL for showing up. Bcuz you come back, Pastor Jerry comes back. That means I have something to come back to. My life is blessed by each of you and your participation, thank you!

[@Greenlynxmedia]

You have me about to fall out my seat. Those weights are not for me! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@meganp8766]

May God continue to bless you and your family pastor Flowers!

[@faithfulwachira]

Amen and amen! Praise the LORD for freedom!

[@nikefadipe313]

Pastor Jerry!!!!!!!! Thank you for being different! you have blessed me.

[@tiffanywatson2453]

God give the wisdom to be able to discern what is my my problem and what is not

[@karischristner6793]

Yaas! It’s back!!!! Soooo missed Therapy Thursdays

[@kendallmeans8796]

I transparently love you man!! You really just speak to my heart every time.

[@Greenlynxmedia]

I’m so proud of you I see you 🫶🏽

[@preciousmcfarland5265]

Same here 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@debraafriday]

Same here

[@dthomas112993]

GOD, GIVE ME THE WISDOM TO BE ABLE TO DISCERN WHATS MY PROBLEM AND WHATS NOT !! 🙌🏾💯

[@madeforsomuchmore]

Hallelujah, I literally heard this the second time. The answer was revealed.. My 32 year relationship over the years became very toxic. And now that our 3 children are grown, as the last one is going to college this fall. Until now I thought I was stuck in captivity, but now hearing this session. I can see that God was trying to use me as the instrument in changing the other half. But since he continues to run from God, he will lose not only relationship with our 3 children and myself, but it will be very sad once he figures out that he was the cause of this all. 😊

[@monquentawilliams]

At 25:10 i knew this message was for me ✨👏I receive this message in Jesus mighty name !! & so it is !!

[@skippysmiles7360]

I have a hero complex and didn't know it

[@actuallyitsme.989]

SIRRRRRRR YOU ALWAYS COMIN WITH DAT ON TIME WORD😭😭😭🙌🏽

[@jdagrees9609]

Praise God. I’m thankful for your obedience Pastor Jerry 🙏🏾💐💕 1- Know Your Purpose 2- Deal With People Where They Are Not Where You THINK They Should Be 3- Look For Favor!

[@preciousmcfarland5265]

Wow so much wisdom, thank you Lord for opening up my eyes 🙏🏿❤️

[@adambata4667]

This is so so good. Just because you love them doesn't make them whole.

[@ladennayoung2939]

AMEN. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@AniseDaniel]

"When you live outside of purpose, this means there is a problem that you were supposed to fix - that will still exist after your death.". Help me to always stay in your will Lord.

[@pbebe438]

I love Therapy Thursday

[@carogers29]

Amen 🙌🏾 🙌🏾 🙌🏾 🙌🏾 🙌🏾

[@Trants25]

"Picking up weights I was not graced to carry." I understand now, I understand. The weight was never meant for me; I chose it.Thank you Lord for that clarity.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@charleneedwards6861]

Amazing! Lord help me to apply knowing my assignment vs what’s not my assignment.

[@cristyhamilton925]

Love for this message is all I have. I'm thankful Pastor Jerry Flowers made it to my KZbin feed with his stress sermons. I wish it happened 10 years ago, but it happened when God knew I would really listen. I respect that. There are many stressful things I've taken on that I know were (and still are) not mine to carry. I'm working on releasing what's left and being more connected with the Spirit for discernment to not continue this self destructive pattern. However, I would like to ask for prayer in the area I struggle so much with still, learning to stand back and let God, when it's my child/grandchildren that I watch suffer. I've already seen by experience that it's not my battle to fix or fight because my every attempt to intervene fails, but the heartbreak is suffocating me. We all need God's help.

[@tapjar85]

I clicked for the title and knew my life was gonna get called out...but siiirrr that Toronto Raptors cap had me smiling! Thank you for reppin my city and team lol.

[@YourChronicIllnessAdvocate]

War on focus that's a whole word 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@marybreuer7022]

This is the type of Bible I’m about! Thank you for sharing your purpose pastor Jerry!

[@monicakincaid1942]

Jesus😢😩🤷🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🙌🏾🙏🏾! What can I say? This word was🔥🎯…it stepped on all my toes. Thank you for being obedient to this message.

[@veronica7800]

We are back at it again!!!! Y'all I've missed therapy Thursday so much my Thursdays have felt weird without it. Let's get back into it ☺️

[@Greenlynxmedia]

I’m so proud of you I see you 🫶🏽✊🏾🫶🏽

[@all4god116]

my Thursdays and Sundays!

[@stephaniebilbo8460]

This is such a profound word for the season I’m currently in my life now. I need to follow and apply this word in my life.

[@jadanicole625]

I love therapy Thursday!

[@janika954]

My God!!! This was on time confirmation for me!!! My God🙌🏽🙌🏽😭😭😭Thank you Lord God!Thank you Man and women of God of God for your yes🙏🥹🙌🏽💜

[@paballomabusela808]

this has been me this past 2 weeks . 😪 trying to save someone and they even asked me to stop being their hero cause they know what they are doing. just after that We got this upload. wow thank you.

[@yolandawilliams3319]

I SEE ALLL MY BROTHAS AND SISTAS AND I'M SO PROUD OF Y'ALL!!!

[@amandamartinez4346]

Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏