Red Flags Are Warnings Not Invitations | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers

[@lakierrafuller918]

The skit is so powerful because it’s real it’s what it looks like today

[@goodestshow]

The type of change this ministry has triggered in my way of thinkig is unreal. Blessings to the Flowers😊🤗

[@Blessed0480]

I am proud of you

[@JesuslivesInme-f8q]

😢😢😢😢😢😢ikr

[@yahkar]

😌 I rather sleep in a cold bed alone, than be in a warm bed with a devil. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Great Lesson @REDEFINED TV. All Glory Goes to God 🙌🏾

[@SNOB4LIFEE]

I'm proud of you 👏🏾🤗

[@jubilantpublic]

Thank you for being here

[@jubilantpublic]

Keep coming if you are called to this place to keep coming

[@jubilantpublic]

All things are possible if you believe

[@jubilantpublic]

Trust the plan of God

[@debraafriday]

This skit should be seen by everyone who plans to get married. This was so powerful a life changer. You are both such a blessing to the world.

[@heidioates4833]

I'm proud of you 🙂

[@anothersinnersavedbygrace]

​@@heidioates4833I'm proud of you ❤

[@phoebeaguto12]

What an epic performance. You both nailed the life experience so beautifully together. Thank God for showing me this. Holy Spirit guide me to the right path 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼

[@ajwriter5699]

“And I making the right decision, or am I trying to make my decision right?” Hello!

[@iamdesjanay]

“Maybe how you pick reveals how wounded you are.” 🔥 Heal us, Lord!

[@anothersinnersavedbygrace]

I'm proud of you ❤

[@alloysa]

This film deserves an award for the hurt, hopelessness and heartbreak that needs healing before it’s too late. Bravo👏🏽

[@Creativeandblessedtreasures]

Proud of u

[@glo1005]

Proud of you

[@jadanicole625]

You can’t force yourself not to talk about it and call it healing! You can’t force yourself to avoid it and call it healing!

[@sherrynelson365]

I’m proud of you Jada

[@jadanicole625]

@@sherrynelson365 thank you! I’m proud of you too😊

[@sherrynelson365]

@@jadanicole625 thank you

[@NICOLECHAPLIN1]

I am proud of you 🙏🏿

[@jadanicole625]

@@NICOLECHAPLIN1 thank you! I’m proud of you too🤍

[@lpippiohuff]

Thank you both for this powerful message. I identify so many things I did to make my will seem like I asked for God’s will. Father, direct my path in You, for my marriage. Teach me to be part of the Bride of Christ so that I may be the bride that my husband needs to become the husband You desire him to be. Heal me in my waiting, Jesus. Thank You, Pastor Jerry and Mrs. Flowers, for sharing the Truth in love.

[@glorycarriersrenmow]

The drama got soooo real🤭... "Where we riding to?" And, "Why do I have to die!? 💭"

[@ajwriter5699]

I’m proud of you!

[@glorycarriersrenmow]

@@ajwriter5699 I'm proud of you too 🙏

[@navnitasawant7707]

Whenever I was tempted to text my ex, this channel has helped me to keep going. Thank god for truth which we need to keep reminding ourselves ...

[@glo1005]

Proud of you

[@evonnedeloney8555]

I’m proud of you 👍🏽

[@Rachel_Robinson]

Please hang in there.. your husband is on the way! I was with a counterfeit, a guy exactly like Jerry was playing, smoking weed, drinking, strip clubs, cussing, didn’t go to church ect.. God had me write a list of what I wanted in a husband, it was the complete opposite of my ex.. now I’m getting married to a man of God, in a couple of months, and he’s more than I had on my list.. and now I’m in full time ministry. Be patient and trust God. I regret the 3+yrs I spent with my ex! Fast forward, 4yrs, and nothing about my ex has changed. I truly believe the devil sent him, to derail my destiny.

[@navnitasawant7707]

Thank you @jennifer

[@ajwriter5699]

Remember the African pastor who said, “Don’t delete their number. Change their contact name to ‘don’t answer’” LOL I say to change their contact name to, “don’t call and don’t answer.” Trust me :) I’m proud of you! 😘 🫂

[@lindseycriner4735]

I’m PROUD of you everyone 😊😉

[@jadanicole625]

I’m proud of you too!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

❤️🤗

[@allthingssweetandneat547]

Wow! This was me! Ended in divorce. This definitely should be seen by couples before marriage and before signing any contract. Wow!

[@ajwriter5699]

Me too! I’m SOOOO proud of us!

[@raqueltribble4763]

MY GOD!!!! That skit needs to be reviewed with anyone thinking about marriage.. AMAZING MESSAGE!!! 2 yrs later and it’s reaching the multitudes in need.

[@feliciadance1715]

Nailed it🙌🏼 It's time to heal❤ It's time to break generational curses. Put God in the middle and take time to heal so God's will can be done 🙏 #❤REHAB🖐🏼

[@newenglandtoffee9190]

I'm proud of you🙏🏼

[@gabrielelachapelle8655]

Amen I needed this message. I struggle with not realizing red flags or I see them but not wanting to accept or have a hard time leaving. Thank you so much your amazing 🙏🏼🙂

[@gabrielelachapelle8655]

Its a warning ⚠️

[@chanelnorphlet4354]

You can do this! Take this learn from it and move forward in grace love!

[@trinesha7716]

I am proud of you. It is not easy, and you can do it.

[@paballomabusela808]

I am proud of you

[@gabrielelachapelle8655]

@@chanelnorphlet4354 Thank you so much im walking in purpose i got this amen 🙏

[@brandia6114]

Jerry, you and Tanisha “fake argue” so well! I know y’all aren’t arguing for real, but the acting feels real in these clips. So powerful and thought provoking 🔥 💭 Every single young adult needs to watch this.

[@lashannataylor7949]

Mannnnnnnnnnnnnnn wheww Chile !!! Lord help me . I’ve had 3 failed marriages because of these reasons mainly because I was taught that you supposed to married smh . Now I’m healing …. Lord whatever it takes for me to heal

[@drashley]

I'm proud of you 🙏🏿

[@ajwriter5699]

Pastor Tim Ross says that when he’s warned couples in the past about red flags 🚩 them ignoring he and his wife’s advice was basically them saying “Nah, maybe it’s burgundy. Perhaps a light pink, etc.” Lol Ya’ll know he’s NUTS! But Pastor Tim speaks the truth. People can say what they want. Thanks Pastor Flowers!!! 🙏

[@boamos6216]

Thank God for removing those people that needed to be removed from my life. You will understand it's better to be alone and have your peace

[@thebrownboss8795]

this skit is real life! whew chile.

[@maryannkinley5802]

Woah this made me see I need heart rehab. I was married to a narcissist for 7 years and now sometimes I wonder if it's me and my wounds. Sometimes I know the right decisions and sometimes I don't. This helped me

[@Blessed0480]

I am proud of you

[@chanelle.n]

Our Father will get you through. ❤️

[@newenglandtoffee9190]

Red Flags Are Warnings Not An Invitation🙏🏼

[@kristinrigby8952]

I am proud of you!

[@newenglandtoffee9190]

@@kristinrigby8952 I am proud of you too!🙏🏼

[@kristinrigby8952]

@@newenglandtoffee9190 Thank you!🙏

[@musicmakerdb4760]

This deserves an Emmy, Grammy, Oscar and Tony! Too Surreal this blessed me I recommend to all audiences. But this generation needs it badly

[@theehardpill]

This skit was sooooooooo necessary!!! WHEW.

[@Keonna.A]

That skit was so real!! Every time they took a pic that part took me out 😂😂😂 Sadly, many are in this situation. Healing & walking in the will of God is so key! 🙏🏾

[@angelicaakers4445]

Lissseennnn...the skit took me out!! Pastor Jerry and First Lady were on point!! Jesus!! We're getting healed and set free from the fruit of our own decisions 🔥🔥🔥

[@ladennayoung2939]

The challenging part of finding a sanctuary to attend nowadays, is that MANY pastor's don't think the way that you do. MANY of them are not choosing to teach the way that you teach, not willing to build, and try to understand scripture from GOD'S way and perspective, and NOT willing to teach or lead service in the direction, that the HOLY SPIRIT is leading them to do it. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN.

[@lilyjohnson1411]

I felt all of this all of it I see this played out in so many people's relationships that I personally know. FAKING IT FOR THE GRAM. FLOSSING FOR THE BOOK. All in the name of saying you married trying to present this image to the world like I'm married now it's all good. This right here will save so many people a lot of headaches. I saw a bit of myself in Tanisha as far as my baggage and what I need to address within myself and unpack so that I won't run the risk of spilling my issues onto the man that God has purposed for me. What I took from this is it's important to do the work on yourself, trust God's timing, don't rush the process. TRUST GOD'S WILL NOT YOUR WILL Thank You Pastor Flowers and Mrs Flowers for this much needed.

[@chetina912]

This definitely got me teary-eyed. I saw myself and the things I need to work on

[@anothersinnersavedbygrace]

I'm proud of you ❤

[@SUNSHINE-ji7lj]

Whatever you don't deal with in this season will show up in the front row of your heart and your next season. #Time to Face The Giants #

[@kjenkins3939]

I had to stop this…. It was too real and too much 🥹 God is able!! But this pain after surgery is part of the healing. Thank you

[@OffTheGridWithAKid]

I'm proud of you!

[@kjenkins3939]

@@OffTheGridWithAKid thank you. I’m proud of you too!! Be encouraged 🙏🏾

[@Krishnaness]

I watched the skit 2 years ago when it came out. It was just after i broke up with my ex. And that video actually helped me accept the reality that i need to go thru healing. In 2 years God did a lot in my life. Now i am healed. Single, strong and secure. Not in a hurry to meet the man God has for me

[@CallmeAri_]

😮‍💨 needed to see this 🖤✨ Jerry’s character was triggering, he was not letting up 😧

[@maneshperera9169]

Be healed . I am happy for you

[@timelessbeautyy]

Oh wow 😯 I am on vacation and came on here looking for something else. The title grabbed my attention and I clicked on it. I didn’t know what to expect but I can’t stop the tears! I have gone through a break up 34 days ago. I’ve known him for years and we were friends and started dating. We were together 3 years and I WANTED this relationship to prosper into a marriage so bad that I overlooked God’s signs. I loved him so deeply… so deeply that I loved him from the brokenness areas of my inner soul. We experienced some of the same insecurity issues you both mentioned in the skit but we kept going. The next step was the alter to marriage. Internally I wasn’t happy I had doubt but I kept going because that’s what I wanted. He was not faithful and I found out which was God’s way of pulling me out of the relationship because it wasn’t what God ordained for me. The past 34 days has been a journey.. God has shown me where I need to be made whole. This has been nothing but confirmation to my soul. Thank you for being obedient and sharing this message. If it doesn’t help anyone else, I was the one soul who needed to hear this to know I’m where God needs me to be and this process is purposeful for me.

[@shaky5956]

WOW...... Sir and Mama......my my my Lord, Heal me

[@christigee3859]

Yes I struggle with red flags making my own decisions and trying to make it right 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Ambers_Walking_In_Freedom]

This skit is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 my oh my! 🤯🤯🤯 on point... every bit of it! I appreciate this... it's extremely eye-opening!

[@jadebanks8708]

This skit is so so powerful wooow!!!! The things unsaid. Brilliant

[@newenglandtoffee9190]

I'm proud of myself and I'm proud of all of us here. It's an inside job🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@dilauni11]

This film is so real! Literally story of my life. Married knowing there were red flags 😭 but I’m praying and working my way through it. I refuse to allow my children to have the brokenness that my husband and I have endured.

[@msaverielle]

God has a preferred WILL for your life.❤

[@lerandabrewer3923]

This is DEEP......IN YOUR FACE.....HARD truth....whew can't wait for Sunday

[@drib3870]

Thank you, Pastor Jerry! I'm getting married next year and this message was much needed. The sermons that God gives you are always on time and at the right time! I'm so glad to know I finally found a church home in Houston! GOD IS SO IMPORTANT AND EVERYTHING TO ME!

[@kmills2606]

The marriage skit is excellent. You drove the point home!

[@tewashington2]

Lord have mercy. I felt this.

[@antoniobgreene]

A lot of times, we mistake GOD'S GRACE as a permission slip to get by.

[@Christimony222]

Tanisha was really acting her butt off this time! I was really feeling it. Jerry, you are always natural on camera! ✨ Your partnership seems to have elevated recently

[@vanessajohnson7662]

Lord, I want my honey to see this b4 we get serious

[@glendabartholomew8210]

I am proud of everyone that heard this live last night. I was blessed to be restored with my oldest son for dinner last night so I missed the live. But God!!! I am so proud of you all, and myself!!! Thank you Jesus!!!

[@tonibranch8189]

Please pray for my obidience…I’m proud of everyone… God Bless

[@JustJasmineJ]

Wow where was this when I got married and whew one time I did get almost married to my ALMOST 2nd husband and God said nope this not what I have for you so I walked away !!! God is good so glad I watched this 💕

[@boamos6216]

Pretty much summed it up for me in my situation. When I tell you the holy spirit moves he does. I don't believe in coincidence no more. I didn't stumble on this for nothing. Lead by the holy spirit. Bless you brother.

[@brendanorman4066]

Wow! Just had to pause it and shed a few tears!! This was so real.

[@rockiejohnnykrismaar]

The intense battle with perfect "We're so happy!" photos...

[@soupearth4]

Thank you pastor Jerry and Tanisha Flowers 💐 🙏 Profound word and awesome therapy. God bless your minister and family.

[@unbothered7429]

Well I'm glad I'm here on this therapy Thursday I have made a conscious decision that I'm going to strive for my healing and it's just been a blessing I am so thankful for this family and I'm so thankful for this pastor because it's the real and that's what's needed that's what's been given and it's helping me more. I even play this for my kids they may not know what's being said but in the time. Peace & blessings to all and I'm proud of you all of you guys just being here on this therapy Thursday

[@gundulaarnim8536]

I´m proud of you!!!

[@unbothered7429]

@@gundulaarnim8536 I'm proud of you too 💜

[@tiffanimadkins6954]

Red flags are warnings not invitations!!

[@sharonhonor5850]

This is real. I think you both in terms way you teach to reach those that need to see and hear how life is really happening always keep it real. Truly appreciate

[@maneshperera9169]

Your addressing your healing I am proud of you

[@shawntreythompson9602]

It’s a warning!

[@lindiwemalindi1278]

This was soooooo good!! The 6 signs just called me out!! God bless you!!!!!

[@nsukumudau5634]

I'm proud to be back. I love this, I never knew a man could be this strong emotionally and mentally.

[@amorataduel]

This was as powerful as the first time I saw it. Thank you. As I'm watching the exchange between you and your wife find myself replaying interactions between me and my ex. It eery how similar this skit was with the previous relationship. I found myself being convicted by all the red flags we presented to each other in that relationship. May God heal me and her so we can truly find the love he has for us. Self conviction is the first step in the right direction to healing.

[@daschuhow]

O my sweet Jesus! You said it all!

[@brookemason4269]

Whew Lord! You and your wife are amazing! There was so much of myself in that story! Lord the time I've waisted. I've seen red flags and still tried to make it work. I am in the season of healing! Thank you for your strong teaching. God bless

[@nsukumudau5634]

Bro acting almost made me cry😢 Jerry sounds exactly like me😢

[@Lifeofgigglygiggly]

Such a great message. Feeling so much conviction because had I listened to the red flags I wouldn’t be pregnant and single now…. God tried to warn me plenty of times and it wasn’t my answer at the time and now I see he was trying to save/ protect me. I feel guilty about going against Gods will but I hope he can forgive me and have his hand over my child’s life. I know he’s a forgiving and loving God and all I want to do now is devote myself to being better because of this situation and hopefully help others learn from my mistake.

[@lindiwemalindi1278]

Thanks for sharing sis,may He restore you,and may we be reminded that obedience is better than sacrifice,when sin feels too good even when we're convicted and we know the truth yet we still choose to betray God,truth is when we're believers,sins such as fornication,drunkenness etc aren't mistakes but intentional because we know there's grace,we know we can always go back to God crawling but often we forget theres consequences for sin,that sin leaves a bad taste in our mouths,leaves scars and something to remind you of your shortfall. Trying to see the good in them when the red flags are literally screaming at us lol,I sooo understand where you're coming from sis,I sis,I abused and misused grace for so many times,I dont understand how God still remains faithful. Most times we pray God changes people to suit our selfish desires but His will is not ours. Run towards Him,surrender it all,focus on restoring your personal relationship with Him,never leaning on your own understanding and acknowledging Him in all your ways. He loves you so much and when we confess our sins and wholeheartedly repent,He us faithful to cleanse us of sins.

[@NdivhuwoMillie]

This right here is piercing deep into the heart, whoow! Help us Lord.

[@ladennayoung2939]

I have to be honest under some of the other pastor's teaching I was bound by religion, Jezebel, and fear of losing my salvation, and relying on my own strength and good works for salvation. They wasn't and still isn't in most cases teaching about the gift of salvation, and the crucifixion properly, and the significance of it. I pray you all's strength in the LORD. And I pray that you ALL choose to grow in GOD'S love, wisdom, insight, perspective, and discernment. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN. And I pray that YOU ALL realize that this isn't just some KZbin algorithm, coincidence, chance, mistake, or someone just sharing this channel with you by mistake that have gotten you here. It's the Holy Spirit that have you here for a reason, and created the way to make this happen, and it's so that you can be free mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically. And I pray that you don't take this lightly and dismiss it. IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. AMEN. Because it's for your own good, and for anyone or anything that is connected to you. Trust me. For who the son sets free is free INDEED.

[@chickwitthagoodies]

This made me cry.

[@Ash-ol3ji]

The title alone got me bracing myself because I know this one's for me. 💯

[@ladennayoung2939]

I'm proud of you.

[@Jessica-ir3ko]

So proud of you all, intentional with your healing 🙌💛

[@Jayna-TransformtainmentTV]

I L❤VE Therapy Thursday with Pastor Jerry Flowers !! (Your KZbin ministry been a big part of MY-WALK-IN-CHRIST and growth in the work I do over here in Singapore 💢💯💢 GOD willing, hope to fly out some day and come attend your ONSITE Church one fine day !!😍 TO GOD BE THE GLORY 🙏🥰🙏 ~ LET's LEARN HOW TO IDENTIFY WHAT's GOD WILL FOR OUR LIFE (YES, PROFITABLE PAIN - Love this!! For real for real - HEAL BEFORE Y❤‍🩹U DEAL - I am following this as GOD WILL for me, and now developing as a COACHNG PROGRAM to help many others too)

[@tamari12453]

I’m proud of you! ✝️

[@jadanicole625]

This is so good and needed, as always 🔥

[@peacestartswithin]

I am proud of you all!🙏🏾❤️

[@newenglandtoffee9190]

I'm proud of you

[@Creativeandblessedtreasures]

Thank you so much for teaching us in a way we can all understand ❤ 🙏 the world need to hear this 🙌

[@ladyempire5921]

Absolutely loved this! So much truth dropped, smh many many generations can learn from this. The way you two went in on the hidden mindsets that are present on the wedding day yet, folks hollering "I do" This was absolutely needed! Thank you.

[@roslynkelley-world8692]

Amen 🙏

[@Delroy61]

Such an eye-opener 😳, this is so helpful

[@SNOB4LIFEE]

I'm proud of you ✨🤗

[@Delroy61]

@@SNOB4LIFEE Amen and I'm proud of you too 👏👏! Stay encouraged Sis

[@roslynkelley-world8692]

Wow this really blessed me and this use yo be ,but not anymore thank you Jesus.!!👏

[@roslynkelley-world8692]

This use to be me l mean to say

[@shaky5956]

@itsMar I'm proud of you 👏 🥰 💛

[@paul59471]

This skit was awesome 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@nikkyshamz2696]

Very intense and necessary conversations with the wedding scene 👌🏾 phew

[@taf9623]

Thank you! This message was both powerful and timely🙏🏾❤️🔑

[@oslynhilliman5113]

Proud of everyone

[@lpereira7866]

This is a spectacular message…. And I’m in my 60’s…. It still pierces my heart

[@roslynkelley-world8692]

Come on now and preach 🙌

[@akeemhuggins4973]

Litt litt litt fire 🔥 congratulations 🥳 Congratulations 🎉

[@lakishabrittingham8309]

This gave me anxiety 😦! I understand this happens but it's overwhelming and something I can not be in. Honestly this is why I am careful and discerning on who I date and want to spend the rest of my life with. I love solutions so that's why I chose to heal from the dysfunction I picked up growing up. The arguing makes me shut down because I don't like pointing fingers. I understand my purpose now and what I can do and what I can't. Healing is the key

[@Tweety09042]

I used to be one that used to avoid your videos for a season because I was had gotten off track with this guy and was stuck in carnality and ignoring RED FLAGS ...because I knew I would be convicted and I really wanted to keep my ex....praise God for The Holy Spirit and healing...keep doing what you're doing Pastor Flowers! God is using your ministry mightily🙏🏽

[@rebekahjette6304]

#TRUTH💯

[@michellecrockett5759]

This was so POWERFUL, REAL and VERY NECESSARY BEFORE MARRIAGE!!!

[@kierrademus8092]

Jerry u and your wife are amazing everything about this 🥺🙏🏾🙌🏿❤️

[@kierrademus8092]

This was soooo good I see a lot of me in her 🥺🙏🏾❤️

[@TheTimelessRetro]

This video is too real. My God! (You guys are amazing actors!)

[@caribbeangyal6252]

Wowwww , I needed this 🙏🏽🥹 God bless you 🤍 literally my past story 😢 my heart is now in rehab ❤️

[@Delroy61]

2nd half starts at 21:51 👍

[@avavanbuskirk2133]

Thank you for this.

[@lisagoldsmith7435]

Thank you Lord!!! That I didn’t go through with it!!!