Best Dating Advice For Finding And Attracting The Partner You Want | Neelam Verma

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[@shannaricker]

I am so excited about your daily introduction feature coming to Mindvalley!

[@logangomez1209]

@@shannaricker what is that about?

[@entrepreneurpodcasttv1239]

The world has it all backwards with relationships. If learning to love yourself was taught from a young age, it would change the world and end hate.

[@love_dove_]

“You attract what you are from within” love it 💗

[@monicalight7177]

Love is who and what you are. It is your birthright. It can never be taken away. Love flows through you and in you.

[@grammargalaxy7091]

I tell ya- the universe has to send you the match; 'it' knows your heart!

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Thank you

[@chandanirani1372]

Arigato

[@stacyrosman5563]

Absolutely true happiness comes from loving yourself unconditionally and knowing who you are

[@changeyourself3404]

Says who?

[@david.walters]

If you read this, doesn't matter where you are right now on this planet, I wish you a wonderful night and a happy peaceful life where all your dreams become true.

[@pennypocket5463]

Uniooooooo🎶💛🎶💛🎶💛🏞️🌲🌏🌎🌍🌟have a great day, dude😎💜🎶🎸💫

[@stacyrosman5563]

I also was in the same career for most of my life as an actress and a fitness model. Doing many interviews on different topics and I totally agree with what you’re saying. In order to have a great relationship first have to know who you are and living your truth. It’s absolutely necessary to have a relationship that’s really going to work out and It’s very difficult when you’re involved to that extent to find somebody that also is compatible. Especially today with what’s going on with the Covid

[@stacyrosman5563]

I said the same thing today when I was listening to Dr.Joe. The exact same words. Synchronicity

[@stacyrosman5563]

This is a fabulous addition to your platform your entire business is my favorite. Mine Valley has the best educational teachers and the most Chris Maddock entertaining at the same time

[@gurudra]

Learn to love yourself,if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone else🙏

[@avikmukherjee6371]

how to love yourself man isn't little delusional if you love yourself you have to be two within you ..how can u divide yourself ..don't just pick up keywords and randomly throw here and there ..

[@anub2744]

@@avikmukherjee6371 It is really possible, at first it will make you feel weird and it will be kinda hard. Once u start doing it, it will make you feel amazing. It always will give you a feeling of fulfilment and acknowledgement that u r loved and accepted and u won't feel bad even when someone doesn't accept u or acknowledge u the way u r. Start with the baby steps. First.. Start complementing yourself for every small or big things that u do on the daily basis. Second... Thank yourself (ur soul, body and mind) and say love you baby or dear to yourself ( u can even say that I am proud of u) when u look into the mirror. Third... This will be a bit weird initially but you will see a remarkable change. Imagine that ur soul is hugging you when u r low/sad and ur soul is kissing on ur forehead and tell that it's alright, it's going to be alright . A motherly love that u can give yourself. After this loving yourself would be very easy and u can invent ur own way to love yourself . Make sure even when u have a negative thoughts or fear think that ur soul is hugging yourself and telling you that it's okay , it's normal and u r just thinking and not acting upon it. And tell yourself that I trust you and I believe you and u r a very good person, u r an amazing person . It's one way of self-love that I am experiencing . It works wonders. I hope and wish it works for you too. Take care...

[@anub2744]

@@avikmukherjee6371 One more thing. Please in the mean time try to give some love to others as well, even they might be going through what ever we are going through right.

[@avikmukherjee6371]

@@anub2744 thank you for your kind words "ll try for sure.🙂🙂.

[@stacyrosman5563]

I love that, that is what I want and I won’t settle for anything less

[@GLesbihonest]

I've always been a person that has exclusive relationships. I'm not a person that dates multiple people at once. I haven't been in a relationship in about 10 years because I've been working on myself and waiting on that one true mate. That forever love and relationship. Our energy must vibe whole heartedly. Thank you!🙏🏾😊

[@carotxauxi8409]

Wow, so impressive. Me also, waiting for true love within more than 10 years. And self love is truly important. No matter we can find our soulmate or not, if we love ourselves enough (of course not selfish love). It's a true gift already.

[@sanghitalks8985]

Soulmate Myth 😂😂

[@changeyourself3404]

10 years is too long. If you had the right information, you would have found your soulmate by now

[@stacyrosman5563]

You probably know when you meet the person if that person could be right for you or not I would think you sound so intuitive and intelligent that you would be able to pick up on that immediately

[@stacyrosman5563]

Exactly you are 100% right on I’m so proud of you you’re so young and you’re so smart

[@lakeboww]

Thank you Vishen for bringing value.

[@sorann8419]

I think if we follow our intuition, we will be led to the right person.

[@changeyourself3404]

Sure, but most people will need to develop it first

[@stacyrosman5563]

When you evolved to the point where you’re at where you’re both that and I’m not myself your whole world changes you see everything completely different. When you live in a state of love, peace, happiness, compassion, kindness, joy, bliss and gratitude the world is your oyster but it’s a very beautiful and the ultimate way of living

[@CarlitoFluito]

38:38 Vishen, your screen reminds me a lot to my screen. Dozen open tabs, with dozen bookmarks :) It lifted me up thinking that it is still doable no matter the level of ADD. Best of loves, CF

[@deeric3367]

This is some of the best life advice I’ve had the pleasure to tune into. I feel more comfortable and confident now. I am grateful thank you 🙏🏽 for this experience.

[@stacyrosman5563]

Your energy radiates such charisma and love that people are just automatically attracted to you I want to be around you because of that

[@stacyrosman5563]

Intimacy and having such a connection where are the bonds it’s like you’re almost 1

[@stacyrosman5563]

Your authenticity and your dialogue and vernacular the way you present yourself is really charming you’re a lovely lovely lovely woman

[@nikitag421]

Mindblasting work u have done!!!! U r very correct,u shud ask d straightforward questions in initial dates itself....rather than dragging things and den realizing s/he is not the one .

[@stacyrosman5563]

I know exactly what you’re saying it’s so ironic and it’s so true this is something that you are really going to be helping so many people. You’re doing a great thing and you came up with a great plan bravo to you

[@stacyrosman5563]

This is great this is exactly what I needed to hear because I had this discussion with Dr. Joe and with Lewis Howes

[@sandraguti46]

A telepathic and conscious relationship is the best.

[@stacyrosman5563]

What an interesting intuition that you had for some reason but thank God nothing happened and that he did learn what you learned and grew from that. You’re beautiful inside and out

[@deutsch_luba]

Thank you so much for this great interview. 🙏❤️ I’m new here and I got very interested in your projects. You’re very inspiring.

[@sharrennijjar2018]

Beautiful well said about that physical communication to spiritual communication.

[@hannaraoul7731]

Thank you for sharing, so nice app

[@jollyjames30]

She seems very intelligent and articulate. From watching this video, she said she was chasing fame, success, travel, etc. From listening and trying to understand this, it seems that after competing in Miss Universe, she felt she would have a bright future in Mumbai as an actress. She might've met some dude who might've claimed that he had connections in the film industry. And he promised her the world and they had a sexual relationship for years. It's strange in Indian culture that any female would stay in a relationship for 10 years without any actual commitment. Normally after 1-2 years of dating, you get engaged/married. She was perhaps blinded by her ambitions of wanting to be famous and successful. Later she realized that she had wasted 10 years of her life on some guy who was only it it for the sex and not much else. The guy probably was having sexual relationships with numerous other ambitious and hopeful actresses and was promising to help them in their careers too.

[@stacyrosman5563]

I specialize in that too and Joe is a friend of mine he takes me often on as a guest speaker and podcasts and on his KZbin

[@stacyrosman5563]

Do you have that type of connection with somebody the sax is mind blowing because the connection in the heart the intimacy that you’re sharing makes everything so much more intense it’s so beautiful it’s much different than the other

[@palmmenendez4188]

Thanks to all for the talk very interesting!! Hope next in Spanish!!! 🤩🎅🙏✨👍

[@SagCuspofRevolution333]

Funny I was just thinking of starting a dating app for people who are spiritually conscious and have done the necessary work on themselves. Regular dating is just not for conscious people anymore. 25Dec2020

[@linda5754]

Terrific idea

[@noemie1873]

I was thinking the same 😉

[@tynaturkova361]

Amazing plan, great video ...looking forward for this app. :-)

[@FreePalestine123-b1x]

Great talk, thanks for sharing. Sometimes when dating it's very possible to confuse showing up authentically, with showing up in order to be liked (people pleasing frame of mind). How can we practice being more authentic and in our own frame and discerning of whether or not to allow people into our lives, instead of being overly concerned with having others like us?

[@roshianderson]

Yes! You have to become who you want to be with! I have videos on my channel about this as well 💕♥️

[@pennypocket5463]

💜💛💜💛💜💛💜how thrilling And emotionally intelligent education networks!!!, Wow...xitd.. Giving me Great faith in our futures, what Lovely lovely people!.

[@stacyrosman5563]

Yes I agree with you 100% I just actually said that I had this conversation with Joe and Louis to

[@stacyrosman5563]

And if you’re truthful with yourself living your truth and you have that knowledge about energy you can read people immediately

[@stacyrosman5563]

I’m taking your course I’m already there I thought point where you have the lessons to teach people how to get to that point I’m there everything you said but I’m going to take your course because I need to learn what to do after that

[@patrickolson7390]

I enjoyed the different approach to dating. Honest question: how does one do dating during a pandemic safely?

[@justicemoody]

You wake up to the scam, then attract someone who also knows it’s a scam.

[@edt8378]

@@justicemoody facts! I wouldn’t want a partner who lives in fear and isn’t knowledgeable enough to know this is a plandemic. I don’t want someone stuck in the matrix

[@justicemoody]

@@edt8378 Yep!

[@changeyourself3404]

Put a drop of thyme essential oil inside your mask and viruses won't go near you

[@stacyrosman5563]

Fascinating this is a great story you’re going to be an amazing teacher

[@laurafahey542]

Yes ask those questions for your time n energy she’s right

[@stacyrosman5563]

You always have to be true to your self

[@studiosingyourstyle]

So what is the app you referred to?

[@stacyrosman5563]

I agree with you 100%

[@BeaLentine]

Absolutely!!

[@stacyrosman5563]

This is the problem when you’re young and beautiful and I’m sure there’s millions of men after you all the time. But finding someone compatible is so difficult because it’s finding the needle in the haystack

[@pennypocket5463]

Stacey....I hope u don't mind me sayin, I think we kind of act like little love magnets....so just think about wot yu totally groove with, the Best Qualities of All the rel"s u had, like times infinity...+have fun, Etc, 😂and I think it's s bit like magic, coz all that excitement sends sparks into your direct Field of energy, from which you eminate your frequencies 🌸🎶🌸scents🎶?+?presents?🎶and in no time, the bumble bees will be partying nearby, ha 🌸🎶merry wishes

[@stacyrosman5563]

@@pennypocket5463 I’m totally with you! I love what you wrote thank you so much for sharing. You’re amazing XO, Stacy

[@pennypocket5463]

🌻ah, Thanx Stacey,Happy 2021🎶

[@stacyrosman5563]

@@pennypocket5463 Wishing you an incredible year too. Xoxo, Stacy

[@peace-po1hy]

Cant wait for the apl

[@Mikna22]

So true 🙏🏼

[@davescott9062]

I tried to go to the integrity.dating site but it's not working, do have another way to contact your guest?

[@Luvely17]

👏💎Great Advice! In the midst of this now and doing the innerwork✨

[@stacyrosman5563]

If they’re capable of handling that and also being on the same level that you are and coming from the same place that’s the issue or that’s the gift

[@tetmartin3366]

Is Neelam’s program in the Mindvalley membership????

[@radhekultura5484]

Are you using Vedic Astrology with this program? If not, I have had a similar project in mind for sometime and would love to work with y’all.

[@kylebraxton2668]

Haha who would of thought, truth is the key to a good relationship

[@stacyrosman5563]

I specialize in epigenetic’s and quantum physics. I meditate several hours a day my heart I work on my shoppers my energy Field and everything my meridians my heart and my brain are completely open but I can’t find I’m not really looking I’m just hoping it’s just gonna happen because it’s the right time and the right person

[@changeyourself3404]

That's not how the Cosmos works. Nothing happens by chance.

[@peace-po1hy]

Amazing

[@stacyrosman5563]

And it’s like they’re pushing it they’re trying to make it happen and not just letting it happen. I mean is it as though that person was out there looking for you and you guys just met

[@stacyrosman5563]

Absolutely

[@stacyrosman5563]

That’s beautiful

[@genneyescalona5031]

Before answering, it should be clarified :ex ; what about it is condependent? etx how?

[@Ok-kh5qq]

Who has 47 minutes to watch a video about this? Someone please summarise for the adhders

[@anniemedicalmassage]

It sums it up in the first 30 seconds. Be in integrity with yourself and you will attract people of the same.

[@keshav_p]

Another adhder here too! I draw thier talks into notes..that helps me to stay focused and Creative..hope it helps u too🌟

[@stacyrosman5563]

Let me ask a question I find that being an attractive woman has many benefits as a gift but it’s also a curse because it draws attention to the wrong people and it can at times be very dangerous

[@Haradeas]

For my feeling she doesn't connect with the people she is talking to, she clearly cant help them. She stays very shallow and she cant deeply explain the aspects that matter or how to see them and use them in a practical way. Her heart is on the right place, I hope she goes deeper in herself so that she can really help other people. Notice Vishen not aligning at all with what she says, but I understand you cant really compare different standpoints while trying to help a 3th person.

[@changeyourself3404]

Neelam is an amateur. I've been studying soulmates for over 10 years and she has just begun. Hence the quality of her answers.

[@harshvaishnav4363]

My take away from Neelam sharma's "integrity dating" 1. Know/love urself 2. Set STANDARDSDS for your u n partner/ be who u r/ no mr. Nice guy / Authentic/ Transperant 3. ask DEEP questions to find the one quickly Eg - what does falling in love/ love means to you

[@godsgirl7201]

👍🏼🙌🏼

[@katara4955]

her ex being "out of integrity" with her...does that mean he cheated on her?

[@laurafahey542]

Yes dating apps yeah

[@adrianaulici7027]

Where can one meet valuable people? I don't believe and don't use applications. Are there any places or applications to meet people that might not be a waste of time?

[@changeyourself3404]

You come across the right people in the streets, supermarkets, etc.

[@stacyrosman5563]

Do you need these people on dating sites I mean do you do that at all

[@stacyrosman5563]

Absolutely but how do you go about finding these people that you would be interested in dating. I know that many men as you out all the time probably in supermarkets and drug stores walking down the street that’s how it is when you’re a beautiful woman. But finding somebody seriously that you could be compatible with and it’s not worth going out on a date it’s enjoyable when you’re this is evolved how do you do it

[@stacyrosman5563]

So what happens if you’re at that place because I am but finding the right person how do you go about that? I mean there’s 1 million cars out there and dating is an a problem there’s enough plenty of men that asked me out but I won’t go out with them because I know they’re not the right person. It’s really complicated

[@changeyourself3404]

The same way Tony Robbins and George Clooney found theirs

[@sandraguti46]

Just becoming 5D and date someone who is 5D too....

[@pennypocket5463]

Oh l😎ve this, Sandra 🌸🌠

[@stacyrosman5563]

That will do it. I’ve also had the same experience and seven weeks ago I was brutally attacked kidnapped and brutally attacked to the point where I was unrecognizable. But I’m a trauma specialist I specialize in that and I have been studying it for 30 years. So I had PTSD for three weeks and it’s seven weeks now and I’m back to being 100%

[@stacyrosman5563]

You sound exactly like me and Tony Robbins is my coach this is this is hilarious

[@changeyourself3404]

Tony Robbins didn't find his soulmate by following this advice

[@AnnanyaBanerjee]

❤️❤️

[@stacyrosman5563]

Well you’re in powered by what you went through I called is empowered by adversity from what you went through. I’m just wondering where you find these guys that are within that compatible level

[@stacyrosman5563]

How to work for you how do you feel about that

[@khatazamalate2433]

Is that App ready and out??🤣

[@sanghitalks8985]

Soulmate Myth 😂😂😂

[@michaelmarian9987]

yeah took the red pill given up on marriage and its waste of time divorce rate is 100%😁😁 and unfornately that airplane did not crash neelam is stay alive.

[@GeraldSmallbear]

Maybe it's Millipedes.

[@stacyrosman5563]

Why would you want it any other way does selling your soul

[@oluwaibukunzebulon1026]

I realize men are not willing to be transparent in the beginning.

[@tolgabey6284]

I saw you so distracted, Vishen🤔 is everything ok? I hope that we will finally meet you this year and drink ayahuasca tea basically💏 #filizuygan

[@laurafahey542]

So how much 500 can u make payments or will this online college be affordable can we just do the dating site ??

[@changeyourself3404]

I think Vishen was upset by Neelams answers

[@amarahluwalia7501]

Such a boring speaker much the standard Mindvalley has set is so high - even Vishan looks so bored no clue why is he even doing it .

[@jamescasperdonaldson3186]

Yes thank you ☺️ Casper jamescdonaldsonfacebook

[@peace-po1hy]

Amazing

[@kathleenkaleookalanismith8724]

❤️❤️❤️