Best Friend Calls Me Out on My Makeovers | Fixing What You Don't See and Q + A!!!

Today I'm having my best friend call me out while fixing what you don't see and updating BAIB space with my family over at Squarespace! Head to www.squarespac... to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain! To check out more of BAIB or even partake, be sure to click over: www.baib.space
I needed a day to play catch up on life so I had my best friend come over to see what she could call me out on not finishing (stuff you do not see and I intentionally shoot around) while I finished up some other deadlines. After she left, I went through and fixed what I could when I had time off. Although I didn't tackle everything I was called out for, such is life! We'll have to do a part two. Thank you Squarespace for sponsoring this video.
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[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Don't come at me bro for how long this is. I know it isn't a build or a makeover but your girl needed to tackle the things you actually don't see in my videos. I wanted to make it a bit of a trio video incorporating the latest with www.baib.space , my new chapter to come and how you shouldn't beat yourself up if you don't get ALL the things done all the time. Tackle it when you can! You got this xx.

[@sophiaornellas2702]

honestly i love these long videos it shows the reality of renovation.

[@atrocino]

I love long videos, especially during a stressful time

[@olbird7647]

No worries- it was a really good mash-up of interesting and entertaining stuff 👍😊😊

[@sarahcurrence7642]

I love this comment! Its so true though expect the unexpected! Sometimes diy's just dont turn out out how we pictured it in our heads. It can be a happy accident or Pintrest fail!

[@NiKKey411]

P.s. if your cutting in paint in little areas and need it straight without taping everything have a plastic putty knife in hand to hold along the walls edge and a damp cloth to whipe the putty kife off so it wont blead paint where you dont want it

[@nope2075]

Yes. A true friend tells you what you can't see! That's true in friendship and design.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

She's my human.

[@mermaiddiyartist8119]

Truth 💖💖

[@delaneyleonard5504]

ok sidenote, you look so good with your hair down. absolutely killing it

[@vs71597]

And you can tell how much her Invisalign has done!!! Love seeing her all rough n tough in most vids and then she puts her hair down and looks craaaazy beautiful 🤍🤍

[@isabelh.6437]

Agree!! Rachel is gorgeous ❤️👌🏽

[@michellesutton802]

This video is so beneficial cause I’m always hard on myself for my own projects whereas in reality, not everything is going to get finished. It nice to know that others on there too

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Oh that makes me happy.

[@mermaiddiyartist8119]

It is. Very refreshing. It’s hard.

[@RikodiusRex]

I used an old pair of fishnets to patch a hole in the wall. 😂 IT WORKED and I could peel it off after. Which reminds me: I need to finish that. I’m so glad you’re doing well!

[@dawnwhite6062]

You need to praise yourself as much as you criticise yourself! You rock girl - you're super talented. Love & blessings from London x

[@michellesutton802]

You know what else is kinda nice, Rachel sees more things to get done than Lynsey. It shows that we as humans tend to call out the things we do harder than things that other people would view as just fine. This helps me to really define my own level of content and see my own standards

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

That's exactly what I said! It's so true.

[@michellesutton802]

Living to DIY with Rachel Metz 9:20 words of wisdom 🙏🙏

[@ednaruiz-hinojosa9929]

@@michellesutton802 ee as s poo Z pi

[@ravenkanzakiX]

Having gone through a breakup this year with my fiance, it's amazing to see a video like this. I learned that somewhere along the line, I had lost my sense of identity and I was letting my anxiety disorder really get the best of me. Watching you and several other youtube DIYers, it's been mega inspiring. I sketched an anatomy study and carved a pumpkin for the first time in years. I'm tackling projects and exploring the things that really make me happy instead of sitting around wondering why I wasn't good enough for so and so. I learned that it wasn't me, it really was him, and I'm grateful to have finally gotten myself together so I can get back to the things that really made me happy. I did, for a while, feel a crisis of "starting over" (being 31, and knowing I want a family and a home and all), but learning to slow down, that things have a way of working out. I'm very, very sorry to hear about your breakup because that's never easy, but so grateful you have amazing people to help you and you still get back on your feet and keep moving. It's an testament to how capable and strong you can be, even in the face of a setback like the end of a relationship. I will absolutely take a page from this and tackle things when I can and stop beating myself up when I feel like I can't do it. Thank you for showing me that I've got this!

[@mermaiddiyartist8119]

💖💖💖 good for you. I have anxiety and doing things i love and projects help. It’s ok to take breaks from projects. It’s strange Im not going through a breakup but dealing with heart breaking things with other people. It’s tough.

[@tarapage_arp]

💪

[@elinakatarii]

Wow, I can 100% relate. I’m 31 and my husband left me for someone else at the start of this year and it’s been hell because I was so invested, but I, too, am slowly learning that what will be is what’s meant to be. We were together for 11 years so it’s definitely been a hard one to swallow, even though I know now I’m so much better off. Much love to you, we got this 🤍💪🏻

[@ravenkanzakiX]

@@elinakatarii We've both got this! Chin up, push forward!

[@ravenkanzakiX]

@@mermaiddiyartist8119 Sometimes, it be like that, honestly. Projects for sure keep me focused and getting back into a swing of things has been feeling great lately.

[@alishareadsbooks]

Omg Rachel thank you for posting this. This makes me feel A LOT better about my own house and unfinished projects.

[@belleatkeson2022]

I love how real you are... it blows my mind you have such a fan base but still stay so true and kind!!

[@helenlinares6969]

She looks beautiful with the hair down, lots of blessings Rachel.

[@sweetphangurl3315]

I appreciate the honesty in this video. Love this channel overall.

[@blackcatproductions3]

I love your best friend, she was totally entertaining to watch. And I love how she good naturedly placed the tape and said a few words in a way that was more loving criticism than judgement. :)

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

She's the best.

[@vanillall1]

You just gave me hope that I can and will find my best friend! I'm almost 30 and the universe removed everyone from my life for one reason or another. It feels like I'll be alone forever but I'm hopeful 😁 thank you!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks for being here for me xx.

[@Hannah-qq4ym]

These are my favorite videos!! I LOVE seeing creators go back and talk about what they’d do differently. Helps me a ton!

[@dangergranger16]

Rachel, you are looking so much happier from within. I am sure you’ve been going through plenty of things behind the scenes that we don’t know about and maybe you aren’t FEELING like you’re happier and healthier and what have you. Just wanted to tell you I think you are so genuine, I admire you so much, and I can see a warm light shining from within. 💕 Love your videos and watching your journey so much.

[@susilangdon196]

This was super inspiring! I have so many small fix-its around my house - hang some pictures that have been leaning against the wall for months, fix a hole in the wall, sand and paint over wood filler in my kitchen. I need to go around my house and just tackle each one!

[@Lifeinlumos]

My husband and I got pregnant finally after trying for 2 years. Our son will be born Jan 31 ish and my 2021 is just being the best mom I can wile trying to do some DIY’s for my me time. Thanks for sharing and being so real with us. ❤️

[@nanaronhano337]

That’s so exciting! Congrats. Motherhood is so special. We’re due with our second in March.

[@Lifeinlumos]

@@nanaronhano337 Congratulations to you too! Stay safe out there.

[@mariettedemarest5173]

I am too old to be able to do the difficult DIY stuff, but I love to paint and do the small ones. Lol I just enjoy you so much and am glad to see your happy heart showing through. Keep up the good work, your projects are great.

[@reflexology52welsh48]

Is KZbin and other social media your primary job....you're so talented, and love how you don't try to be Ms Perfect, you admit your flaws...btw, I don't skip out of your ads, you deserve every penny!

[@AngEP78]

Just a suggestion: use auto body Bondo on the edge of the door. Wood filler/wall putty won’t last long on the edge of a door. It’ll chip within months.

[@NatTayHill]

Amazing. What you are trying to create with this new website is incredible. I am getting my butt in gear this week to submit something. ( I am a "boss lady" and have built up my little company for the past 10 years. This has been my biggest year yet and it's only getting better. ) You definitely inspire me and coming up with this website to bring all of us women together is amazing. Bravo!

[@nayerie24]

omg another video, we’ve been blessed 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Trying!

[@CarissaCleansItAll]

The 95% club!! I’m here for it 👋🏻

[@deannasanchez4105]

You look stunning. I loved learning more about you and Lindsey’s friendship! Also side note. Watching you make all those mini repairs and fixes was SO satisfying! Xoxo❤️

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Love you xx.

[@janetwhite9046]

You're one of my favorite DIY main characters. Keep up the good work.

[@_jzahmay]

You are an inspiration beyond words. I’ve been such a people pleaser my whole life.. and been going thru major “personal/emotional revamp”(?) for last 2 years... I enjoy your content thoroughly. You’re a beast lady 🖤

[@Crybaybee]

Listening to you talk about your best friend is making me emotional thinking about my best friend. Relationships with other women are seriously the most enriching part of life.

[@nikkiep23]

Sooo good. Lindsay is hilarious. I recently switched out the phone jacks to blank switch plate covers. It was a little thing but it felt so gratifying. You checked alot off your list. I have that same hallway light. I love it.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

She's the best.

[@NiHaoMike64]

If it's a newer house, you might be able to turn the phone jacks into Ethernet jacks. If there are 8 wires in the cable in twisted pairs, that's most likely CAT5 or CAT6 that will work for Ethernet. Keep that in mind if you would like to install an extra router or hardwire some device.

[@ehrynthomas2692]

Positive messages received🙌🏼Having a friend like that is the best!! Thank you Rachel☺️ I ❤️ your channel.

[@ayaspapaya]

Hi Rachel I love your vids and I watch them ASAP. i work at a construction company and I come to the properties to take a final look for the boss. We usually caulk the edges - of anything. For instance, the edges of the light fixtures, trim, door locks, the outlet cover things, etc. love you girl don’t mean to come off like I’m tryna add to your plate ❤️

[@LE123LE123]

I’m so glad I found this channel. You are very real and aren’t afraid to show it. That’s such an amazing quality to see in social media. Such a great role model and influence! And seeing your work and things you like but also fix- that’s so wonderful to see. I’ve learned enough from your channel, I’m off to buy my first power tool. Nothing scary- just a screw driver/ drill. I want to hang shelves and other things 😊

[@amandavincett7409]

Excellent video! It's great seeing you so happy. I love the tape idea on things that still need to be finished, I definitely need to do it as there are always bits I don't get done. Sending lots of love and positive energy your way 🌹❤️🌹❤️

[@Kkuts37]

We love you, Rachel Metz!

[@itsyagirlvicku]

After watching your last video on BAIB a while back, I did some soul searching and it truly has caused me to live with more intention. Whenever I'm feeling down (which is a lot cause chronic depression lol) I just try to think of your encouraging words. So thanks for being you and for sharing your journey ❤️

[@josinawashington6744]

This is awesome. A reminder that we are all human and we do our best. It's just impossible to do every single thing. I needed to see this. I have some incomplete DIYs. Love you and your channel 🖤

[@mael2039]

I honestly digged the writing on the wall before you covered it up such a cool look!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you!

[@janeemichele]

I LOVE watching this channel and learning from you. I started watching this summer during the quarantine and I have been addicted ever since. Can’t wait to join Baib space. But darlin, you have NEVER explained who Holly was and how you came to be there. Thank you for explaining. It sounds like an incredibly generous thing for both of you to do for one another. And a great inspiration! ❤️ Thank you Rach! I look forward to always experiencing you journey as long as you are willing to share!

[@paulalusk5586]

Great topic for this video. I know I do this too. Good for you addressing it and finishing it up.

[@JamiOh]

Love your energy, your inner & outer beauty & admire your skills & drive ~ 🙏🏼 thanks for your inspiration Rachel ❤️

[@sonywest1007]

You’re such an inspiring, hardworking woman. I hope are proud of all you have accomplished. You have every reason to be.

[@Mrsthekatspyjamas]

This was so refreshing! I am renovating a house right now and I find myself knit picking every little detail that I don't have exactly perfect and this was a really good reminder that it isn't a show home. Thank you!!!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks for watching xx.

[@breeramsey5136]

its funny how you said you have a feeling when something may be wrong, you send encouraging words or just call your friend. my best friend of 20 something years and i have that same connection. it’s the best. its like his and my heartbeat the same i don’t know it’s the weirdest thing but it’s beautiful.

[@dendoo7196]

Great video! It serves as much needed motivation for me to get my little one off projects completed. I've been procrastinating for way too long!

[@vivredd553]

THANK YOU for posting this video!! Gave me the motivation to do several undone home projects around the house today.

[@lolybiol]

I love the positivity and goodness you exhude. You go girl!

[@rachelsanchis]

I can relate so much to when you explained what the turning point was. I judge people so much on how they treat my dog and how he reacts to someone.

[@growforkeeps4432]

You've been KILLING IT lately. Excited to see what's next for you!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I appreciate that xx.

[@deanna2631]

Great video! Great idea with the tape. I’m going to do that in my own house. Thanks!

[@Mike08651]

Oh girl my best friend and I most be toxic 😂 compared to y’all relationship. I love your channel so much. Congratulations again on the website sounds like such a beautiful community.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks for watching!

[@martymaloney1032]

I paint the ceilings the same color as the walls, makes the room look bigger and I don’t have to be careful. I did a dark almost black purple in our dining room in one house and it was sumptuous.

[@JuliaPennyPhoenix]

So satisfying watching you get all these things done! Love it!

[@dtulip1]

Don't beat yourself up Rachel, you do AMAZING work, but the feeling of achievement when all the "little bits" are done is so COOL :)

[@breannebalser1586]

I love these videos! Maybe sometime in the next two weeks you and Lindsay could do a yputube live with us talking about your ideas for baib space and how to organize it. I would totoally join and love to be apart of the conversation. Im available Monday, Wednesday and Thursday lol. Also sharing about your 2020 vision board and how to make a 2021 would be a cool video and any vlogging of a day in your life would be intertaining to. I love learning more about you. Also thanks for showing us you fixing your mistakes. We need more of this reality shown on the interweb. Stay awesome girl!

[@gerihenry2261]

You go girl, KEEP IT REAL!! We appreciate you!!

[@ilyanamiranda8159]

* *proceeds to tape all the things I need to do/finish in my own house* *

[@MrAbdalatef]

Is It just me every time Rachel upload a video I like it before even watching it. You are amazing and beautiful I love you so much stay positive , stay strong , stay happy and safe.

[@MrAbdalatef]

Thanks for keeping it real and honest.

[@martymaloney1032]

So I don’t forget I always hit first because I know I’ll like it so why take the chance.

[@lorraineyanez4301]

Yes. I ve been so overwhelmed my daughter and I wanted a quick revamp in her room a part of it was a desk since she needs one now. Three months on back order😫 can finish it.....

[@NiKKey411]

taping and having a video journal of what needs to ne fixed is so smart. That way the lil leftover projects dont get lost

[@atrocino]

I need to remember to submit all my quarantine DIYs!!!!

[@lechatbotte.]

I call myself out a lot. When I’m on I’m on but if I lose motivation boo. Thanks for being so real. I’m not an Instagram fan so I’ll stick with this or I’ll get even less done lol

[@jennysmith-dack1963]

😂😂😂I love your friend, she tells it like it is. Had a good laugh. The house is looking amazing just all those bits and pieces.

[@luthuens]

I love your vibe girl! I feel uplifted everytime I see you... 😘

[@carlybayless18]

Living for your videos! I love seeing the raw footage of makeover reality when tackling such major projects. You’ve inspired a lot of my home Renos and the documentation of this one woman show! Now I just need to give myself permission to take my (not perfect) footage and figure out how to edit it 🤓 can’t wait to showcase my work and join your BAIB space! 😍 I admire your content quality/consistency and your resiliency/ability to adapt, all while helping others along the way. You truly are an inspiration🙏🏼

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

I can't wait to see it! Thanks for the love xx.

[@LaverneLovatt]

I have been trying to catch up on all your videos. This is one of my favs so far. You have become more genuine since you lost all the weight (the ex) Keep up the great work

[@ashwyze]

I love everything about this video. Inspiring me to just tackle those small annoying things!!!

[@NYSBKGRL]

This is what I need to do! I am the queen of getting a project to 95% then moving on to the next 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@martymaloney1032]

My husband complains that I do 90% and leave the rest for him...just last week I started to take down the exterior stairs to our split entry. He had to finish up because I hurt my hip and can’t stand for long periods of time, he’s retired as of April 1st so it’s not like I’m hogging his weekends. 🤣

[@arvinahowe1583]

Love how real you are😍

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks for watching!

[@anaellemarie_]

Love the vision girl 💛✨🌙

[@cannolie12]

OMG, I am from Costa Rica, you totally have to, this is a total paradise!!!!!

[@browniebackup1]

Love this video!! thanks for sharing.

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thanks for watching!

[@vanillaskye55]

It was actually pretty satisfying to watch all the touch up projects you tackled. How many did you end up getting done?

[@BeezyBee89]

You seem really down to earth, I'm glad I found your channel 😊😊 I've been on a journey of a more positive path and I am trying to absorb as much positivity from others . . . Hopefully that doesn't sound too bad 😂🤣 . . . I've recently parted ways with my family and its been a struggle . . . . Finding channels with content like yours and people like you have been a lot of help! . . . Thank you 😊😊

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you for your love and support!

[@MsSassyMT]

I love this so much! I hope, hope, hope that Rachel's next place is a fixer so she can have so many projects to share with us.

[@Isis31]

Happy Birthday to me! New Rachel! Thank you, Rachel! 🎃🎈😍

[@jessicavasquez7346]

Caulk your painters tape. It will change your paint game.

[@terrirouleau4758]

We are our own worst critics but we should also be our best cheerleader! Your the best and I love your philosophy on life ❤️

[@miriamguzmanzalama4411]

Love this video 😍 Real life of a real human without a mr kate team to go behind finishing tedious stuff. I'm going to do the same in my own house!!! Thank you very much 😊 Take care😘

[@ZalinaW]

I love your videos! I'm so in the same boat. I need to re-do a lot of areas in my studio apartment and it's not just about time but also MONEY! I have to wait until I have the money and time.

[@watchlearn3943]

Nice hair. Thanks for inspiring me. I started my youtube channel just this year and it was one of my plan for 2020. Right now I only have few subscribers but it's okay, it would grow as time goes by. I thought of starting a youtube channel coz i wanted to share what I have taught in school and when time comes to retire I have something to look forward to and I am hoping that just like you, I would be successful in this endeavor. More power to us!

[@jdrummerdd]

love seeing more of how Rachel kicks ass!!! love it.

[@samiam017]

Love this!

[@malaykav]

Create your space for you! yessss. I bought a cute little fold up table for my dinning room in my 1 bedroom apartment because it’s just me and everyone tells me it’s too small. Girl...99.9% I eat dinner on the couch. It folds out when/if I have company but I realized early...Why would I buy a 4 person dinning table to fill up the space when it’s just me.

[@hannahbannana3478]

Love it!!

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Thank you!

[@craftyzara3552]

This is so fun! It also reminds me of all the things I have to get done!🤣

[@tarapage_arp]

A snagging list...no shade, no shame!!!! Just life!

[@jannibal9273]

Watching this on 3/6/22 - so long after you recorded it. This was a great video, loved it all. I drag along myself on completing projects - go in great guns and all enthusiastic and run out of steam, and then things seem to sit forever just so ever slightly unfinished. But they do eventually get done. It is cool though to be able to have somebody walk through your place with a keen eye and put tape on stuff that looks a bit wonky. I'm trying to think of one of my friends or family who could do that, but honestly - none of them are DIYers and they wouldn't recognize a hole in a wall if they fell into one. So there's that. P.S. I can change out lightbulbs, despite my fear of getting electrocuted, LOL. You're right, women as individuals are stronger when we are together, and that doesn't have to be physically together. Whether we are celebrating our successes together, or empathizing with each other, or providing comfort in times of sorrow and heartache, we are stronger because of that empathy and sympathy. I wish we would as a culture socialize our male counterparts to also encourage empathy, support, and sympathy for each other as part of their emotional character.

[@mermaiddiyartist8119]

I feel your heartbreak 💖💖💖💜💜💜💜💜 you’re amazing and an inspiration 💜💜 I’m glad you have great friends.

[@sarahbelmonte8888]

Great video. Thank you for sharing, you’re making me feel like I’m more capable than I think. 🦋

[@smkhorshidian]

Screwless plates for life 🙌

[@Knittedbyknadj]

5 month toy did amazing

[@bowerbirdstyle7661]

I try to break down my reno jobs into steps and complete each before moving on to a new one. I go bit by bit rather than flat out so I do things correctly and completely, otherwise I make mistakes that bug me every time I look at them.

[@carriejohnson7816]

This is hilarious!!!

[@Nivimary]

I really like this video. There are tons of unfinished stuff like this in my house, too, so I can totally relate! And the sad part is that it takes a lot of time for an amateur like me to fix since I don’t really have that much spare time 😭 Love seeing your hair down and also this outfit, you are very very pretty 🥰

[@cindyjoya5916]

Hey I just discovered you lol I love all your videos. I just bought my first house is a older house you are giving a lot of ideas but I’m still not 100% confident. I show my mom your videos she said can she come help you with your house 😂 I told her I wish that will be so cool. ❤️

[@LivingtoDIYwithRachelMetz]

Yay!

[@lola_incarnate]

😂 I love Lindsay since I saw her in the fitness studio makeover

[@lisahahn173]

Use a drop cloth! Remove outlet and switch plates prior to painting! Eggshell is great for walls and/or trim...not OK for ceilings. Paint like a pro

[@angelica.may.wander]

I wanna be a baib like you when I grow up!

[@olgaortiz746]

GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS THAT WELL I SHOULD SAY THI WAS GREAT IM GOING TO TRY THE EXCERSIZING ...SLOW N STEADY IM DISABLE HAVE CONSTAT PAIN ON MY R..LOWER BACK. BUT IM GOING TO TRY N TWICKET A LITTLE THANKS FOR THE ENCOURAGE WORD. AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.....

[@michellew6097]

omg baib space is such a good idea !!! So amazing💘