Best Marie Kondo De-clutter Tips... and which ones I WON'T use!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Thanks for watching! Please let me know if you've tried the KonMari method and what your thoughts were! :)

[@Just_Lurking8]

I agree make the pile but not all together. Separate pants, dresses, shirts... it’s more organized in a way that won’t be overwhelming . I need to see what I have in the same category. Thanks and keep up the good work.

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

Folding so that my clothing is stored vertically in my drawers. It is easier for me to ID what I may not be wearing as often, and to find a particular item when I do want to wear it.

[@tateemmett3846]

InstaBlaster.

[@cathymassingill1161]

I agree with you. I would be so overwhelmed, I would probably end up throwing it all in the floor. The method of things that bring me joy has never worked for me.

[@alicejump2290]

So glad you help us to understand our needs and not following a set plan that doesn’t work for us! Blessed and safe days!

[@patriciahaga8855]

I am a collector of Mary Engelbreit and I am happy to enclosed most of my collection in a wooden glass bookcase.Love it!!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

You'll have to send me a picture!!!! I just love her 💜

[@jacquelinemoody8426]

Every since I found you, I’ve been decluttering like crazy. Thanks👍🏽

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Love that!!!!!!

[@sl9707]

I did everything at once, and let me tell you, after doing it piecemeal for years, seeing that pile of clothes helped me change my attitude towards new purchases, and also helped me realize I need way less clothing. Regarding sparking joy vs would I buy it again? I feel they're very similar concepts used in determining the personal value of an item, just different wording. Would I buy again can also trigger people to not let go because they don't want to spend $$ on a similar item, so they'd better just hold onto this one. However, if something doesn't spark joy, meh, let it go and let it bring joy to someone else, and I'll be more conscious of why I didn't like that item and choose more carefully next time.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Love that!

[@juliawashburn675]

I changed it "brings me joy" to "do I love it"? If I do, I keep it, if it's "meh" it's going away. Well you don't do that with things you absolutely need, like socks or underwear... lol...

[@vaderladyl]

Actually that pile works for me because first, I don't have that many clothes, second, I need to see everything at a glance for purging purposes and third, helps me to gauge how is my clothing spending going.

[@PHamm54]

I’m a little ADD SO....breaking down is better for me than a mound of clothing, I’ll end up sleeping elsewhere... like the couch!

[@karenfreedman9180]

It took me 7 years to get into my grown son’s bedroom to turn it into my craft room! After months of therapy, I finally stepped in and spent only 10 minutes a day throwing out things I knew were trash. It took me 2 years to gut it, strip wallpaper, paint, get furniture, and decorate. But I’m still working on organizing! Well, one day at a time! I’ll get it!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

That is the best thing I've heard all day!!! You get the gold star for persistence! I am so happy you are near your craft room use! Keep me posted!

[@lesliereinhardt4908]

I feel better. It took me two years to finally start making my daughters room into my office/craft room.

[@KCtheSUNSHINE]

Every single thing I have brings me joy, so I'm working on other approaches too. Too much is too much. Enough already. When stuff makes me feel like I'm suffocating, I need to take action. I watch those other helpful ladies too!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

So true! Maybe rotate your things? Having less around and switching it out will let you appreciate it more often :)

[@janetcurtis1727]

I couldn’t do the one pile! In fact the pile is still there!

[@jmknudsen5357]

I believe the idea of pulling everything out is to prove that you have too much. You will stop feeling like you don't have enough and will see the need to purge. Maybe this impact is what helps avoid the rebound.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I always fear the feeling of being so overwhelmed will prevent people from continuing. But, like I always say, each person needs to find what works for THEM! Thanks for the insight :)

[@DianaTrout]

@@TheCraftyOrganizer I agree. Completely. We all have too much but I think anyone reading the book already knows that. Why so punishing?

[@sophiabrewer7074]

I agree with absolutely everything you've said in the video, both the pros and cons of the method.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Thanks!

[@gerilynne1955]

So many of her ideas my mother showed me how to do many years as ago when I would help fold or clean as a child. I'm 63 and I still use her methods. Too bad my mom didn't write a book! As a kid when I was bored when it would be raining out. I would sit down and sort all my mom's buttons.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I find organizing VERY relaxing and therapeutic. Guess that's why I do it for a living! LOL

[@GretchenHulett]

I agree the pile of clothing makes me have anxiety.

[@Betharoot]

Because I don't have a lot of free time, I have to do things in sections. I did my dresser one day, the shelves the next time, then the rod, and finally the floor. It didn't feel so overwhelming and the job got done.

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

I like doing it that way, too. It takes longer, and is less overwhelming to me. It also gives me time to make minor adjustments to my system as I go.

[@colleenstubbs6011]

I could never put everything in one pile. With 43 grandchildren I am often called away to help out where needed. If I were to put everything in the pile it might be days before I could get back to it. Love love the Clutter fairies method much better. I can then see progress as I go along and not get so overwhelmed. Thanks for sharing your method. It really does make it a lot easier!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

F O R T Y T H R E E G R A N D C H I L D R E N ! ! That is amazing!!!!

[@shandy6870]

I think I first saw this video and a couple of others when I started following you on KZbin. Your suggestion of letting go started the process but I was resistant to letting go of memories. I ran across Marie Kondo a couple of months ago on Netflix and have been organizing my dresser drawers and closet using her method. I am actually impressed with the progress I am making in this ongoing process. I think her idea of saying "Thank you" to each item and saying goodbye to the item helped me to start letting go. Funny how our minds work!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Shannon - that is awesome!!!! I am always so happy to hear someone has found what clicks with them. I never care where the motivation comes from - as long as it worked. Kudos to you!!!! 🌺

[@debragary9760]

Called a Professional Organizer at your suggestion. My home had become a mess following hip replacement surgery, and my stress level is through the roof. Looking forward to getting things back ontrack!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Let me know how it goes!!!! 💛

[@marciaallen6515]

I couldn’t believe my ears when you began talking about Marie Kondo’s method for dealing with closets. I had just been through this ordeal 3 days ago when my precious daughter came for a visit, and announced we were going to declutter my closet. I begged and pleaded for us to do something else, but she stood firm. She was going to do it, and my job was to tell her if it gave me “joy”. We began working at 1:00 on Sunday, and with only an hour break to eat supper and watch the season premier of “Game of Thrones”, we got through all the hanging clothes, shoes, under garments, pajamas, and started on the floor to ceiling shelves, when I called a halt at midnight. I have always preferred to store things vertically, but never imagined doing it with clothes. What a life-changer. Now I have 2 weeks to watch Marie on Netflix, Clutter Fairy on KZbin, and read, read, read. She is eyeing her Father’s closet next, I hope.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

How lucky are you to have a motivated helper!!!! And, you lasted WAY longer then I would have! LOL It is game changing, and having an organized space is liberating and (for me) so calming! Hope you are enjoying your space now. xoxox

[@daniellehohenhaus3680]

I am so happy to find someone that feels the same way about the Marie Kondo method. I do think the concept is good, but if you are drowning in clutter then you are already likely to be feeling overwhelmed. Piling a huge pile of things in one space certainly wouldn’t make me feel better. I find your videos to be inspiring. You, Cass from clutterbug and Kathryn from do it on a dime are my favourite 3 you tubers. I just bounce between the 3 of you. Thanks for another great video.😃👏

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

:D WOW! I am honored to be in your top 3!!!! Thanks!

[@juliaomcs]

Your video makes so much sense. Like how you generously refer to other Organizers, so unselfish and refreshing. I watched one show on KonMari, and was done, I found it silly. I have so much "joy" in my house we almost cannot move. My joy now is tossing stuff. Organizing is ongoing, not a one time thing. And Blessing inanimate objects like other comments said, no way. Get real. Biggest problem, two life long Genealogist living in the same square feet, you can imagine the books, files, computers, tech items, reference materials. Is there an organizer for the Genealogy Disease?

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I have much more 'joy', now that I've gotten rid of my excess joy! LOL I am sure someone is more experienced with Genealogy items.... but if you are looking to let things go; check with a few local Historical Societies! They are usually happy to get those types of things to supply to smaller museums. Just a thought. Thanks so much for watching!

[@antiquesrestoration3874]

Marie Kondo's book worked well for me. I agree with you about the rebounding. It happens even if you're following the KonMari method. Decluttering, for me, is an ongoing process and something I revisit from time to time...purging and donating the things that no longer spark joy...which can fade over time.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

It's so smart of you to revisit often! Well done!

[@ortega71234]

This was refreshing. You are the first person I’ve heard voice any concern or differences with the Marie Kondo method. I agree, she has some really good tips. I won’t use two tips - 1. the ONLY keep it if it sparks Joy. What if it sparks necessity? Not everything I owns sparks Joy, but everything I own serves it’s purpose and sometimes that purpose is to simply enjoy it. 2. The other thing that I refuse to use is saying thank you to inanimate objects. I completely agree with being thankful for the things we have been blessed with even as we are deciding to let them go. However, a thing is a thing and, for me, thanking a thing elevates it beyond what it is. Instead, I like to encourage thankfulness by focusing on being grateful for the person who gave it to me, the person who designed it or created it or invented it. I also like to remember to thank God for His provision of the item. These are things that work for me and I know it is not what may work for others, that’s okay. Just a few thoughts, no judgement, may each of us glean the gems we can from others and let the things that don’t work for us personally go.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Thank you!!!! This is my hope for every viewer - take the gems you can from one another and support without judgement.

[@marymaryquitecontrary]

I think the shock value of all-at-once is vital for some people, especially visual types. But most of us can't/won't do that because of time, space, or physical reasons. One can always do subcategories, then collective after the initial shrinkage if it's still needed. Great review of the Konmari method, and very fair.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Thank you! 💛

[@elizabethvera5321]

Thank you for keeping it real. I agree so much with what you were saying.

[@tinarogers2181]

I'm with you about if something sparks joy or not. The way I like to declutter is if I still have a need for it and if I have a place or space for the items

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Sounds like you are a pro! :) I am amazed at how my shopping has changed as I've de-cluttered... Not bringing it in to begin with makes a huge difference!

[@marybethfrain7165]

Her idea of pulling all clothing (one person at a time)was useful...as especially hubby could visualize what he had ..(we worked together ..and he needed to know he had things he would never use ). i folding and consolidated all of my tops and bottoms..I did not pull all of my clothing out ..so much more room!!! I have 2 wonderful filing cabinets..and shredded old papers..certainly keeping important and current ones ..I recommend a hanging file system ...Marie inspired me a great deal ..

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

That's so awesome!!!! :) TFS

[@margaretfinney6546]

I agree with you on the book. Liked your insight on her book.

[@carylfrench4067]

Do not do everything at once - I ended up sleeping in the guest room for 3 months!!!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I've been minimizing my closet for the last few years and am happy with the amount I now have - but if you had piled all of my clothes at the beginning, I would have slept on the couch for months!

[@agelessinspiration]

Lol yup sounds about right

[@rebecamariaariasperez4380]

Thanks Miss, yes it is true what you say about clothing pile. I did the whole process three years ago. When I classified my clothes I didn't do that over my bed. I used a desk as a work area. The time I spent the first time were three months. Imagine if I have done it over my bed. It was a nice experience. Thanks for sharing your tips. Greetings from El Salvador.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Thanks for sharing!! So glad you didn't have them on your bed!!!! :)

[@kitgreen8181]

No, I would be sooo overwhelmed by piling everything in a pile!!! I’m like you! I have to do it in bite size chunks! FlyLady is awesome and her mantra is “You can do anything for 15 minutes at a time!” Her website is awesome but can be little overwhelming because she has a wealth of info on there, but with that said, she has mentors that work for her that make videos that really help!! Diane in Denmark and Life with Kat are two of my favorites!! I love your videos! Thanks for doing these!! Please keep them coming!!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I've heard of the Fly Lady, but I will have to check out the others you mentioned! Thanks for the great comment. :)

[@kitgreen8181]

Clutterbug is another good one. She talks about 4 different organizing styles and has a test for you to see which one you are. They are listed by bugs... hence “Clutterbug” Lol. It gives a lot of good insight as to why some systems just don’t work for some people. It’s because we just organize differently! It’s really awesome! I definitely recommend checking her out!

[@nonniepalmer8676]

agree with you about the clothes storage .... I try to do it every spring and fall when I switch seasons ... when I do it more often it is not so overwhelming

[@dianaredflowers7928]

Hi Norrine, 👋🏼 I agree with you. I think taking ALL the clothing out is too overwhelming. It would make me want to shut down. Instead, I grab a few items, say 5, look them over, try them on, etc. and make decisions. Plus, things don’t get wrinkled. Personally, I think taking everything out and throwing it on the bed is rather disrespectful of your belongings. Afterall, those were paid for with your hard earned money and were cherished at one time. 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

[@cynthiagee948]

I helped my mom organize her clothes, not by piling up all of her clothes, but by pulling out all of a very particular item. She had, for example, many white sleeveless scoop necked shirts. She did great picking out what she really needs. It was not overwhelming for either of us and we were able to get rid of many, many bags of clothes. Her closet is now very organized with like items together. It was actually fun to do!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

That sounded like the perfect approach! Way to go!

[@sandragallagher2408]

I have a tip about the clothing 😊 I live in an area where we have all four seasons and I mean when it’s cold it’s very cold on and on ! So I have to sort my clothes this way that’s the first thing , sweaters first , then sweatshirts , all the jeans hung up in one space . Then all other tops, shirts I hang by color , all this makes it easier when I’m putting an outfit together I know right where to go !!! I hope you get the idea oh and when the season changes I switch places one in storage and one in my bedroom ! I love clothes but I use to spend to much time looking and this made it so much easier for me . Now all one season 👍🏻

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I love your system!!!! Super efficient - and you know where everything is. Well done!

[@agnesfredericksen9892]

I liked the idea of the pile, it’s the first time I really looked at what I had and actually did a real purge and re organization process. Although I am very organized I still tend to buy too many clothes but in the last year since I tried the Marie Kondo method I not only purged over half of my closet and dresser but I only purchased 3 items of clothing . This is a first for me . As for does this item bring me joy , I have to say that’s working for me too , as much as I love some of the things I have I am finding it easier to part with them , it really has to make sense for me to justify keeping or buying something new , That being said I hope I can stay on track for another year !

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I love hearing how/why it worked for people! Thanks for your perspective!!! :)

[@marietamura4534]

I've been doing one section at a time (dresser, closet ,drawer). Painting and organizing as I go. Been going through the entire house. Taking ideas from both Katherine and Cass as well as Marie. Your right, find what works for you. Fine tuning once the massive majority is done is easier. You can see what you kept if you've touched or looked at it again.

[@spacecoyote55]

The big pile was how I would have LIKED to tackle it (I like to focus hard on a task until it is done, otherwise I lose steam.) but since I have a tiny apartment and 3 young kids, I am grateful to YOU for calling to my attention that I can be just as- or maybe more- productive by gathering the categories of clothing one-by-one. Thank you!!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

You are so welcome!!!! And celebrate after each completed phase!!!! :D

[@anncorsaro1895]

I agree with you about NOT basing getting rid of something on whether it brings you joy or not. I heard an organizer say that that one thing is way off for someone who finds joy in the empty pizza boxes stacked in the corner (not a quote); referring to a hoarder of course. Thank you for bringing up that point.

[@lesliereinhardt4908]

I agree with you about Kondo. I watch the ones you mentioned at the end. We know in the next ~3 years we are going to downsize our home. Therefore, I have begun the purging process. My struggle currently is my office and craft room. I have been successful in purging linens and my books. I did a first purge on my clothes, cleaning supplies and the kitchen items which makes me happy. My family is not on board yet. So I am focusing on my things and simple house things.

[@scrapperiam463]

Thank you...I have not started the process because the idea of pulling EVERYTHING out was so overwhelming and discouraging. Now I can do it in sections that make sense to me!!

[@dbabayco]

I so agree with you on NOT pilng all my clothes together THEN sort them. That would be overwhelming to anyone!

[@marlabaldwin7011]

I agree with you. When I saw a decluttering video & all the clothes piled on the bed I seriously started getting an anxiety attack. It was so overwhelming to me that I couldn't watch the video. After a couple of minutes I was done. I am getting ready to declutter my closet & I am dreading it. I had already decided there won't be any big piles to go through. I am going to pull & chuck it. It might take me longer but as long as I get it done I okay with that.

[@msmikkic9738]

@Marla Baldwin As you pull things from your closet, create 2 or 3 piles (or get boxes): one for trash, one for donating and one for things you want to sell (optional). This is how I do it and I don't think it takes any longer.

[@elizabethlasseigne5361]

I like your idea of tackling sub groups rather than all clothes at once. I'm too busy to do it the Kondo way. I also love your idea of asking yourself if you'd buy the item again today if you could. That has REALLY helped me let go of things. Thank you! I love your videos!

[@louisefindlay8789]

I love the Clutterbug series, it helped me immensely to get a handle on my out of control home.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Cass is awesome! So glad you are finding solutions that work for you. :)

[@juliepfeffer7913]

I completely agree with you! I am DEFINITELY a ONE category at a time as well! I am WAY to OCD to pull everything out in one giant pile. But, I do love her other suggestions!

[@audraforbes]

OMGosh! We must be Clutter Cousins - I completely agree with you. When I tried to watch the first Condo show and say that big mound of clothes on the bed I said, “Oh, no!!” And turned it off; I couldn’t even watch the rest of the show. It’s good to know I’m not the only one who feels overwhelmed by a massive pile of clothes!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

OH MY GOSH! I LOVE THAT TERM!!!! Clutter Cousins! LOL

[@elisevautour6292]

P. S. I have seen Mari Kondo' videos and on T. V. I do the folding method for sure. Brilliant. :)

[@moonlitedaze5688]

NO! NOT EVERYTHING AT ONCE!! I agree that doing each category of clothing separately is better!!

[@carmendez933]

Marie also suggested breaking down into subcategories.

[@cherishedhall]

I have taken a Marie Kondo Surrogate workshop. There are some things I can use the list you have makes sense. Changing the way I fold and organize items so I can see and use everything. The joy part has helped me let go items that I have acquired that no longer have a use in my life. But the first wave resonates with people who need a simple tidy up. Those piles of clothing are small compared to my household with 7 kids 2 adults and 3 dogs. But the stuff does weigh me down and I am working towards freeing my self of things. My craft room is not being used effectively and that needs to change. I am on my way to being a collector that hoards scrapbook supplies. lol.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Those of us with creative minds will ALWAYS have more craft supplies then we really need. LOL

[@DianaTrout]

I would have given you 5 thumbs up on this. I bought the Kondo book and read, then skimmed, then donated it.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I'll take the other 4 anyway! LOL Thanks!

[@judynoyes7971]

I agree that dumping all the “stuff” in one big mound is overwhelming, especially at my age (76) can’t manage that and I’m happy to get anything done in small bites.

[@sarapawsonherrington2595]

Marie actually says to do tops first, then work through each clothing category in turn. I agree.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Watching her show gave me soooo much anxiety! But, I am happy for any method that helps people be happy in their space.

[@Silvana82068]

Agree with you, small piles is more manageable

[@creativefrenzy4669]

I'm definitely more of a room by room organizer, seems a bit more manageable and it allows me to have a sense of accomplishment.

[@ElsaInCa]

I totally agree with you about the Kondo method of pulling all the clothes out of your closet - I’ve watched a few process videos and that pile just gives me the shudders!

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

I did that one drawer at a time, then my hanging clothes, then my shoes, etc. Minutes work better for me than hours when it comes to organization.

[@rhondaeaton4708]

Your video is terrific to create balance! Personally, Marie Kondo drives me crazy.

[@cynthiaakacyndsmith6539]

I am with you.. a home for everything and everything in its home. I have been getter nag rid f things for the past 10 years or so. A parts and piece of a Kondo fan.

[@yvettealba7431]

I feel the same way. Regarding clothes a section at a time. Dresser, sections in the closet. If I haven’t used it in the last 6 months to a year, I donate it. The last is the shoes. Shoes are the ones that overwhelm me. You have been such an inspiration for me. Thank You!🥰

[@marilynlima1248]

I agree with you about the heap of clothes on bed. I actually did this. I had a day off and i agree with you its overwhelming. I did finally pull out the clothes i knew i wanted, that was all i could do. Eventually the stuff i didnt want was on the bed and i just piled it in sacks to give away. I did not feel them for joy. I think what you said was great put all the pants together etc. So great to hear that someone else doesnt feel "the joy" i didnt get that. Thanks for your video.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Glad you did get your clothes done though! That's super exciting 💛

[@clsryan1]

I read both of the books & they were great reads. I did my closet as my first project. Oh my goodness...I thought I was going to be sick! I allowed myself 2 hrs before my husband got home, & I had to have our bed cleaned off. I made it through it, some how, but size differences, older clothes, etc., helped the process go faster. I tackled shoes & purses from my closet next, on the next day. Yes, it feels wonderful when it’s over, but I was so overwhelmed in the beginning. I had to change things up a bit for my mental well-being. I took one drawer in my bedroom, at a time. When I took everything out of my sock drawer, I couldn’t believe I had so many socks! I whipped right through those...no problem. I couldn’t take everything out of all my drawers at once...No Way! Doing things in shorter, more manageable ways has eased my stress & panic immensely.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Way to go, Cindy! What an amazing transformation that must have been!

[@gebswife]

Oh, I’ve tried the dump all of my clothes on the bed. Ugh! I sloshed through it and got it done. The positive for me about it, I saw items that were duplicated or never used. I couldn’t see before because I am prone to putting things back in different places. But, it was overwhelming to do. Thank you for a great video 👏👏👏👏👏

[@barbarac4138]

The giant cloths mound only took me three hours to get thru, then it was done and the fabric items were all done. Now my books took a little over three weeks as I had a whole room of double layer books. Five van trips to the library later the room is down to single layers and two less shelves.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

That is AMAZING!!!! Way to go!

[@virginiaomalley]

My next step is books. Help! I keep putting it off because I hate to get rid of those precious books.

[@janmathias140]

Books are for reading are they not? So if you are not going to read them, or look at pictures if they have them, why are they precious?

[@msmikkic9738]

@@virginiaomalley I feel your pain!!!

[@user-mv9tt4st9k]

We do not get rid of books except as piecemeal and after careful consideration. We want a library, which is a great thing now that the kids are schooled at home.

[@DCB14u2do]

As a person of age, I have struggled for several decades with trying to keep my life orderly. Marie Kondo has done a good job getting people to think and be intentional about their lifestyle habits. Personally I like the folding concept, but I really love to keep things in confined or dedicated spaces. I can say that your videos and concepts have been a joy to this tired grandmother! Some people need the shock of a huge, nearly overwhelming challenge. Not me! I like to do things in bites( like the elephant). That way when I have a child or hubby pulling me away, it's not a difficulty finding my last point of entry. Keep up the good work!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Thank you so much!

[@faymeowsiumo]

I personally love taking all my clothes out then get rid of them. It made me have no excuses not to go through this because I need my bed to sleep. And I agree with you on the one which bring me joy. Everything brings me joy and that lead to my current messy situation. I love all your idea and so far you are the best Ive seen.

[@rynzee4269]

Hi, first, thank you for your channel. Next, yes, I read the book, then watched a few episodes of the Netflix show. I have to say that I did do the dump everything from the whole house method. I started with clothing because there were items in every room. Knowing it was going to be a long project, I picked a time when there were no holidays or family events. Then I dumped everything against one side of the living room which still left us half the living room in which to relax and watch tv at night. It took me four or five days to get through all the clothes. At the end of it, my dresser had space, my closet had space and 5 big garbage bags of clothes went to a donation center. I was left with only 5 pair of shoes, 2 pair of boots ( 1 cute, 1 functional) a dressy purse, a small purse, a granny bag, and a medium-going-Away-for-a-long-weekend-purse. I’ve tried doing it in small sections but until I saw how MUCH I had when it was ALL visible I had no idea how much I could purge. When stuff is hidden away out-of-sight it didn’t get dealt with, it just got shuffled. I thought I was making headway but it ended up just being a circular hideaway Project. It might appear overwhelming, but truly, if you have so much that it appears that way, then you definitely need to face it and deal with it. As far as the mess it makes, pick a time when you can be a little inconvenienced and pile it where you can that won’t stop you from getting rest. Her method isn’t a sprint, it’s a marathon...but you can see the whole map at the start and there are no illusions about the course. There also are no shortcuts 😉. It’s just painful, inconvenient and embarrassing enough to keep you from doing it again. At least that has been my experience. The last thing I have still to do is my craft room...and it is totally out-of-control. But I have hope. :) My hubby will be going away for a week long hunting trip and while he’s gone I will haul all my craft supplies into the living room so I can deep clean, move furniture and totally organize my craft space 😁

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Wow, Ryn!!! I am so proud of you! I am happy to hear this method worked so well for you - I am confident you will sail through your craft room! Let me know how it goes! 💜

[@jilllukas]

I tried the "Everything on my bed", cuz my older daughter told me that's the Best Way to go through my clothes. Well it didn't work for me!! I was so overwhelmed & everything sparks joy. I ended up putting it all in laundry baskets & stacked in my closet. Told my younger daughter & she came over that weekend. She did your idea, we pulled out the baskets & then she went through pulled out all my pants, & I went through them; then sweaters, etc til we were done. That was much Better & Easier for Me!! So now I do that every couple yrs & Love it.😊 I'm Loving the different Tips I'm learning from your Channel. It's really helping me reorganize All my Craft stuff, Group by Group. 😉😊 I know once I have it all done, it will be so much easier on me to keep stuff organized. Take Care ... hugz, Jill 🤗😊 tfs

[@slchugs]

I loved your assessment. I can convince myself that ANYTHING can spark joy. Your comments make sense to me. Thank you....♥️

[@DakaraKies]

I agree... small bite size clothing declutter... a huge pile is too over whelming for me... I prefer to address a section of the closet or a bin of cloths vs a big pile...

[@ppuyle1]

I sooooooo agree! Those big mounds of clothes on the bed would send me right out the door! Doing categories...shirts, pants etc. Much easier! Nothing will every stay organized unless you create the habit to keep it that way! Looking forward to your labels! Very cute!

[@suicydeblonde]

I totally agree! I read the book a few years ago & was turned off by the idea of piling ALL my clothes to go through them. I can see putting shirts then pants then shoes etc but not all at once. I watched the show and was impressed that young people (I'm 50) were willing to do this. If they learn to live with only what they really enjoy then they might buy less!

[@curious1366]

I already do the like-with-like approach for getting started. I couldn't do the all at once approach for that amount of clothing shown, but I will do that for smaller amounts. As for the keep what brings you joy. Maybe the compromise is that when you know that you have to pare down between two items, then keep the one that gives you joy. You still have to be working on removing too many things. An organizer that I really learned a lot from was Helen Buttigieg from the show "Neat". She was good at knowing what style of organizing each person needed, and she really helped people. Many times Helen would figure out how much room there was for something, then tell the person to eliminate anything that was beyond that number. (ie, if a shelf could only hold 3 pairs of shoes, then that's what the person could keep!) So far, I like you, Cas and Helen and that tall woman from another Canadian show (forgot her name.) Wow, 3 out 4 are Canadians!! Alejandra is very inspiring, she is very much a micro organizer which I like, but uses too much plastic for me!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I am honored to be on your list!!!! Thank you!

[@therockinwomanify]

Thank you for sharing :) I agree, the put everything that's in a category in a pile....yikes....makes me stressed just thinking about it! She brought the whole organizing need to the forefront, and that's great, but, realistically, I'm with you :)

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

So true! I appreciate that she made organizing a household word. :)

[@adrianekelly2966]

I agree with you about Marie Kondo’s methods, what works for me and what doesn’t. My brother had a wooden ‘ship box’ when we were kids, the size allowed sailors for personal possessions, no larger than a shoe box. On the top was a plaque that read, “A place for everything, and everything in its place”. It made an impression on me all through life, but like the younger versions of Marie and Cas and so many others, no matter how I tried to organize my belongings, it seemed my energetic/physical framework was spring loaded to return everything to chaos within days. It was frustrating and heartbreaking for me. I love interior design, feng shui Qi flow, having a dedicated space for everything, but nothing worked for me over time, in real life. While I was going through the final weeks of my beautiful cat companion’s life from Christmas until late January this year, I happened upon Cas’s Clutter Bug videos. They were interesting, honest, humble and made me laugh, but most of all they were a comfort, a balm for my shocked, grieving being. I kept hitting thumbs up and subscribed. I learned about visual/hidden and macro/micro storage and manageable decluttering…and I donated my Marie Kondo books (apparently, she’s a Minimalist Uber-Cricket…and I never will be). I began delving into other channels, and listening to/reading Atomic Habits, Elastic Habits, The Five-Second Rule and, most recently, The High Five Habit by Mel Robbins. Game Changers, all. Funny thing happened. I started being able to make sense of objects in available space. It just developed organically in the field of non-judgmental support in about a dozen channels I kept on during a difficult period of adjustment, while I was very vulnerable, completely unstrung, feeling I needed to learn how to live in an unexpected void. This establishing of a new relationship with objects in the context of my life today, this hour, this moment, was not just busy work or obligation. It was fundamental, bedrock relating to myself. Who’d have thought that presenters on youtube would help me release residue of childhood (1960’s) experiences with terrifying nuns and punishment at home over desks, lockers, bedroom…? We all carry old burdens and wounds, and professionals wade into the deep waters of clients’ emotional turmoil. Whole lotta sufferin’ goin’ on there. It’s never ‘just clutter’. I applaud all who mentor those drowning in chaos, help bail out and mend the vessels foundering on the rocks of mind-bending mixes of STUFF. NO one should feel like they’re failing when help can be given. Clearing the mayhem gives people feelings of liberation and a new lease on life. Positive change is possible, and it’s exciting, rewarding, even exhilirating. What I know for certain now, that I didn’t know a short while ago, is that I can have a new connection with home and all it holds. I haven’t Failed. I simply needed to learn some important principles and concepts from some intelligent and compassionate teachers/coaches. Now my application of creative engagement can flow…and I feel for the first time that I can soar and be at peace…it’s a great gift. I’ll be forever grateful. Just as weather warms and days lengthen, I happen upon this lovely channel. No matter how excellent the info, it matters to me where the presenter is coming from. There is a vibrational frequency at the core of all expression, every mode and form of communication. I respond and resonate with kind, humorous, sincere people who offer their talents to support and assist others, whatever their field. Norrine’s energy resonates with my heart/mind/spirit, nothing negative. I might not use all the tips, need all the solutions, but it’s all good, enjoyable and fun. Now, on with my day!

[@elisevautour6292]

Haha...... I've always said this too to others and myself of course... "Like with Like". I think it was Martha Stewart as well. I've followed her for years and still do. Martha and Snoop Dog series is a riot btw. What a fun mix. THEY BOTH ARE KEWL IMO. NORRINE BURKE.... You're on my list of fav. I have been binge watching your series these past few days. I'm so glad to have found you. Much wellness to you and your family. Much continued success. 20,000+ viewers is not too shabby. Keep shining on. 🙏💜

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I love Martha and Snoop together!!!! It makes me laugh! I'm honored to be on your list of favorites. Thank you!!!!! 🌺💙🌺

[@Laura-zw2kn]

I feel the same way as you do regarding pulling out all the clothes at one time. That would be extremely overwhelming for me. When I purge clothes in my closet, I feel it much easier to go through the hanging clothes as they are and removing the ones I’m ready to part with. I form piles like charity, give away to specific, put in the rag pile, etc. and when I’m done, I’m done!

[@barbborja1910]

I happen to agree with you. My closet is pretty organized but I do need to go through it and do some purging. Pulling everything out that is already neatly hung, by type and then by color, would take me 3 times as long to purge! I have learned a lot from Clutterbug. I personally am pretty organized and like to have everything labeled and in its place, preferably behind cabinets or in opaque containers. My oldest son is the complete opposite. He has to be able to see everything, every surface is covered. It drives me insane! After watching Clutterbug’s videos, instead of wondering why my son is a “slob”, I just help him find organization that works for HIM. He’s done much better at maintaining his less cluttered room. I explained to him what I learned and told him his style is different. Not wrong, just different, and together we would find what works best for him. We also used a timer system and cleaned in zones to keep him from becoming overwhelmed. He did 95% of the work and I helped put things into boxes for donations and bags of trash, and lots of moral support so he didn’t feel like decluttering was a punishment.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

YES!!!! I am so glad you were able to help him find a way that works for him!!! What a great Mom you are. xoxox

[@textilady]

I tried the piling technique but with one category of clothing at a time (pants on one day, tops - the following week, etc.). It was truly TRAUMATIZING to see how many duplicates I had (black tops), how much money I had spent over the years and how many items were in disrepair! It was a wake up call for me AND the family. One thing...I did it when nobody was home and I did complete one category in one DAY. Both exhausting and exhilarating and more than a bit embarrassing. What a wake up call!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

So proud of you though!!!!

[@bobbietheeveningstitcher6841]

I totally agree with you...dumping everything piece of clothing in one big pile is way overwhelming! I had anxiety just watching it! I think your ideas of organizing and clearing clutter are much more realistic...thank you...now I need to "tidy up" my sewing room!

[@carolsikes5069]

Like someone mentioned below, I think the point of pulling everything out of your closet and dealing with it in one fell swoop is to give you a perspective on how much you actually have. Plus, to be quite frank, it's very motivating to clear it so you can sleep in your bed again! ;-) I just wanted to touch on one other thing you said. Marie Kondo does say to only keep things that spark joy (outside of the paper category!), but she also gives the second deciding point - that you have a place to put it.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

That's true! I think her book is amazing - please don't think I am putting her down. I love how many people she's helped. :)

[@Moniqkat1]

I totally agree! When Marie helped the pregnant lady, she didn't pull that method. I do it drawer by drawer. I get interrupted and I can't do it all her way. I have to pick and chose her ideas. Recently I wanted to organize my closet and I decided to group by color. That was faster that anything I have ever done. I'll get into going over these color clothes items in due time. =)

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Love that!!

[@haveyougotyourtowel]

My trouble is who I am vs. who I want to be. I see potential for crafts in everything! And I WANT to do clothing alterations to make things fit my unusual taste and frame. What I love to wear, do, eat off of, or cook with fluctuates sooooo much; it's hard to let anything go when things I was going to toss yesterday are today's new favorites.

[@AWanderingEye]

I guess become selective in which fantasy self you want to explore in any given time. I hear you on loving variety...

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I get it! I have a few decor boxes in the garage, so I can switch out color/style when I get bored... And my largest craft box is 'misc' for my creative days. It's still about have a system so you can ACCESS your items. The amount is really up to your comfort level - if you can find it, and it's not causing you stress by having it.... woo hoo!!! But if having all of these options around is causing you any kind of distress... then you need to make getting it organized a priority. :)

[@staceywatts1862]

I'm so happy I found your videos. Common sense seems to be the best method in anything and although I thought I was a intelligent person, I still manage to get clutter in one room or another and that is one of the biggest stressors in my life which is ridiculous! Worrying about NOTHING that is important. What a waste of my life. I wish I knew How to live more into the digital age and take pictures and keep that way, I just don't. Electronics "scare" me. I don't know what to buy, how to use it and don't even really want to learn. I don't like buying anything with long instructions and am not handy. I am creative though and can do that all day long. Like my kids got me a soda stream I think it is, and it sat on the counter for two years and is in my closet driving me insane! Along with air fryer, vegetable choppy things, bread machine, three sewing machines, etc. I manage my mixer, glue guns, curling irons and basics you HAVE to use, but this causes me EXTREME stress. Help !!!!!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Stacey - It actually sounds like you have it figured out. You already know you don't need those things - you just need a little help letting them go because someone else is telling you they have value. To you - they don't. Pass them on to someone who will be thrilled to have them, and you will be thrilled to not have them lurking in your closet any longer! Simplicity is best. Please feel free to email me if you'd like virtual help. 💜 [e-mail]

[@lisalauer9593]

Have the KonMari book started reading & never finished but did watch her on Netflix. It got me started & happy to say husband has joined in & folds his clothes the KonMari way, yay! We aren't clothes hoarders so for us it was easier just taking as you mentioned similar items & going through each. Even so I had 3 med. sized boxes of clothes to let go of. People are always remarking on my organized closets, though I feel I still have a bit of tweaking to do. My kitchen is coming along & I think by the summer I'll need to quickly go through the cabinets again but thus far everything that I've organized is still exactly in its place. There are a few things I'd kept that I will review in a month or so but other than that so far so good. I have a ways to go but we are renovating so I am able to do only so much. I think since it hasn't all been changed at once it has been easier to keep up with what I've already done & have formed good habits that I'll be able to take forward when I tackle the remainder after renos are complete. My books that are all in storage due to the renovation will be my most challenging area to tackle. It's my biggest weakness lol

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I love that you and your husband worked together!!! And yay and keeping your kitchen organized through a reno!!!! Keep me posted on those books! :)

[@CathrineAnita]

I just did all of my clothes. There is NO way everything could fit on my bed, even though the bed is king sized. I did just like you say here, broke it down to categories, and it worked out perfectly. Needs to be said - I had over a hundred dresses (in addition to my five wedding dresses and my thirteen ball gowns) so I felt I had no choice. But the results are still the same, right, and I donated over a thousand peaces of clothing, and it feels soooo good :)

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Good for you!!!!!!!!!!

[@sheliaberry877]

I have learned so much since I found you with all your great and wise tips on KZbin. I have been watching several of your videos each day when I come home from work. Thank you so much. In watching this video, I agree with you that the KonMari method has some very good & workable suggestions, but I also agree with you on each one you commented that were not workable. Thank you, again & God bless

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Wow, thank you, Shelia!!!! See you after work! ;)

[@kathythompson4780]

I do not think I could even think logically with a mountain of clothes on my bed. I use the small pile by small pile method. I can think, make good decisions etc.

[@MsShanarun]

I haven't read MK. I have read so many books before her, that I think I have it by now. :) Not her original idea, but I strive for "A place for everything and everything in it's place." The book that actually helped me, about 20 years ago when I first had children was "Confessions of a Happy Homemaker." By, Deniece Schofield. She was a Godsend for me! Good thing you reminded us to Subscribe.... I thought I was. LOL. I am now!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Thank you so much for checking!!!!

[@paulamcgovern6135]

Love the "would I buy it today" tip!! Planning on getting some decluttering done this weekend, and that really resonated with me!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

You've got this!!!

[@dyspraxicrose3307]

Not so- the piling technique shows people very graphically just how much extra unnecessary stuff people have- that;s the point!

[@scrapoutloud]

You could start by turning all your clothes in the closet around so they are hanging backwards and after you wear it, turn the hanger the right direction. After a few weeks (or however long) you will know what you wear and what you don't. Get rid of the ones you don't.

[@catercoz2491]

Yes, but if you have pain or a chronic illness, it will defeat you. I do one drawer at a time and rest. That is manageable. Stay well and stay safe. :-)

[@carolynbice7972]

I watch both of them

[@suzyemery]

I totally agree.....one category at a time....I recently went through my dress pants...then coats, then colored tees.... Mainly because we had a funeral. That's how it got started. But that's also, where it ended. I have to be in the mood to do it. A huge pile on the bed, would not get finished. I'd be throwing everything on the floor so I could get into bed that night. What if something comes up and you have to stop? I do have my clothes in color order, too. All the blues together, blacks, and so on. That helps alot....you start thinking, I don't need that many items in that color. And keep only your favorites. They are the ones you always reach for anyway.....I get what some are saying about the realization, that by looking at a huge pile, makes you see just what you have....Believe me, I already know I have too many things. Just want to go through it at my own pace. And I need to finish it soon. Because I take everything to salvation army....I'm sure there are people out there that could really use my items that are just taking up my space!! As far as clear container storage....that's fine, but not in my craft room. I have a wooden shelving unit with different types of containers that holds supplies. I use baskets, colored containers, etc. I have stickers in one, stored on their side with tabs for each category or holiday. I have lace in another, pre made tags in another, etc. I, myself, don't want to see all of those items through the containers. It looks too messy. I like the neatness of colored or concealed containers. That's just me. I know what is in each and every one, too!! Thanks for sharing this! It's fun to read everyone's comments and see all of the different opinions! ☺ hugs💕~Suzy~

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

I have to be in the mood too!!!! And I agree with the daily storage - if you watch my office tour, you will see all of my storage boxes are the same color - with only a label to tell you what's inside. But the clear containers really help for outside storage. Thanks so much for watching and commenting! :D

[@waskyper8]

I am single, w/ disability, living in a small place- I LOVED your video (talking about the BIG pile) - Please do more videos re: tips for handling tidiness in a "small space", thank you.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Thanks, Maria! Keep watching! :)

[@brendak5486]

Hello - I watched your video on MariKondo today. It was my first time with you and I want to say that I'm so excited to have found you! I immediately subscribed before the video ended and started searching for any others. I haven't watched all that you have just yet, but certainly look forward to every single one. From what I've seen so far, I LOVE you! Re: Mari Kondo, I have her books and have watched all her videos on Netflix along with anything related to Konmari. For me, it's a wonderful and simple system and I totally agree with it. I've been trying to use it, but have found it to be so overwhelming at the thought of piling all my clothes and related items on my bed. If I did that, I wouldn't be able to sleep in it for probably a couple of weeks! It's embarrassing to admit, but I have a huge amount due to my health issues and weight going up and down, for years. Some items are in multiple sizes and some have never been worn. I'm adapting my own system (kind of) and only doing it a chunk at a time. Like: any tops, then bottoms, shoes and purses, etc. I just own too many things to do it all at one time. A lot of them give me joy just thinking about them, but in being logical, I just can't keep them all. Some things are necessary and I need to keep, even though they don't give joy. I'll certainly have done a very large and necessary purge when I'm done, because my house is shrinking. I've run out of places to 'hide' or stash anymore until I'm done purging. Also, my Mom recently passed away and I have most of her belongings and many, many memory items. I know it'll take me a long time to do it all, but I don't want to give up, now that I've found a way to deal with it. I'm tired of looking at all the boxes, bins and stuff all over the place. It feels like my house is a storage building and I feel the overwhelm as soon as I walk in the front door from work everyday. I don't think I'm a hoarder, but I have too many things that need to go. I am positive that it will be better someday. Your videos will be a large part of my having a home, instead of just a house. Thank you for posting these videos. I feel like I just found a special gift that was meant for me.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Awwww, thank you so much! And, WELCOME!

[@pamschonfarber1041]

Brings joy, there are many things in life that bring joy, but I think its up to the person to decide what matters with brings joy.

[@cadencechrome4783]

Kondo's book worked for me. I still refer to it as my downsizing journey is not finished yet. I think each person must decide for themselves what works. Putting all the clothes, shoes, etc out showed me the volume I had and put it all in perspective. Give her book a chance, it may do wonders for you!

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Thank you, Cadence! I may have to try it with a client that has a manageable amount sometime.... :)

[@cadencechrome4783]

@@TheCraftyOrganizer yes, my stuff felt unmanageable so I turned to the Kondo method and it finally clicked. It really is all in our head!

[@Kat-n-Ollie]

Cadence Chrome Agreed. When you read her books (the 2nd book is a good clarifier) you must be open minded. The minute you start thinking "this won't work" is the pivotal moment where it won't.

[@number1nanaof2]

No no no to the big pile. I agree... Marie does have some good ideas but I would need to go by category. My holiday decor goes into boxes, like with like, so my crafting would also, but there are many sub-categories. I love your craft room. I hope to have one some day soon. You’ve heard of comedian George Carlin?... he had a hilarious routine ‘A place for my stuff’. That’s how I feel at times. Thank you for all your tips. ❤️

[@BringBackMyYesterdaybyDee]

I agree about pulling out all of the clothing at one time, it would be just too overwhelming for me. Love your idea of focusing on each category of clothing!

[@carriejohnson8209]

The reason Marie has you put ALL your clothes in one place is to show you how much stuff you have. I believe we fool ourselves into thinking we don't have too much stuff. Her method has a shock value that you can't deny.

[@TheCraftyOrganizer]

Very true!

[@pamschonfarber1041]

The clothing method actually went very smoothly for me as most things were already in subcategories so they were all easy to go through.

[@cecilialehn1569]

I totally agree with u about asking were to put things when I buy them! Or how they will get used!