Better Than Route 66! Off the Beaten Path in New Mexico (USA Winter Road Trip)

[@amymadden4631]

Aw, Cesca, the story about your dad, and your experiences with blackbirds is very moving, thank you for sharing it. He is with you and loves you, I am certain. Having had similar experiences with spiritual connections, I know the ones that we love are waiting for us somewhere, and watching over us. And in this case, he just spoke to you in the guitar store- what a beautiful moment. Hope you both stay safe, looking forward to seeing more of your journey! xo

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much Amy 🥺 I really felt he was there, and now I guess Blackbird has to be one of the first songs I learn how to play 💛 xx

[@TheBoabby50]

@@OverlandingSophia Good luck learning "Blackbird" as your first song. It's a bit tricky, but I'm glad you chose to learn on a normal 6 string to build up your fingers for the 12. Love your adventures, and particularly your blackbird story. I agree with many others that there can definitely be signals from loved ones.

[@jamesjohnson5341]

A lovely blackbird story Chesca...it gave me goosebumps......thank you, Chesca and Ben, River and Scout....James xxxx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you James, you all feel like friends so it felt only right to share the moment with you ✨🌙

[@LilyAmongThorns]

You guys! We are on a Route 66 road trip and got into New Mexico today (Friday). We watched this video (we follow you religiously) when you posted it a few months ago and my husband saw that LaChoza was close to our planned route. Ken had the chili rellenos which he never would have except for your recommendation (and the fact that my sister in law also devours them whenever she has opportunity). He is a huge fan of them now, although he’s afraid that no Mexican restaurant can ever measure up to LaChoza and might have spoiled him for Mexican food. Haha, such is life 😂 but wow thank you for sharing about that amazing place! I had the taquitos and we had the puffy tortillas that you put honey on ( I forgot the name already)We went for dinner which opens at 4:30 pm …we got there at 4:15 and a lot people were already lining up, but they still had us seated shortly after they started taking people in. The place looks so much bigger on the inside than it does from outside, and let me tell you it got packed!! The food was so incredible! Wow! And service was awesome too. We love your videos ❤️❤️❤️thanks again!

[@TerryX2Explore]

Hey Guys! We really enjoy meeting fellow KZbinrs! Hope you are enjoying your time in the US! Love the story about your Dad! Your pups are so adorable... We CAN'T wait to explore New Mexico! Looks like you guys are having a great time! Safe travels! 💙Terry and Terri

[@aliciathom9633]

Loved the story of your dad and blackbirds, and the song paying while you bought your guitar. ❤️❤️❤️

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Alicia, I think certain veils are thin around NM. It’s a liminal place where special things happen!

[@aliciathom9633]

@@OverlandingSophia ❤️❤️❤️

[@catherinehatt1224]

Black birds! I'm from Lunenburg County NS, and we could share great stories about birds and other things that happen with death. We have many forklore stories, but many that are true. I have experienced quite a few no matter where I have lived. Sometimes it startles me. But I will not go into them at the moment. Just know you are wrapped up in love and see the beauty in the moment. Hugs.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Wrapped in love ✨✨✨ Absolutely love this, thank you 🥹

[@always.wondering.wandering]

Ahh, wonderful video. I so enjoyed hearing about the blackbird experience and honoring your dad with the purchace of the guitar. You're not boring me at all and I doubt anyone else listening. Thanks for sharing that Chesca. And yes, New Mexico is such an awesome state to explore, I have to go back and see more. Love chile rellenos, my friend here makes a delicious chile relleno casserole dish. Ben, I'm glad you drove Sophia to those safer spots, definitely don't want to get stuck in those back road places. Good luck with the guitar lessons, you, Ben, River and Scout would make a wonderful little band...a gypsy band. Have a great week ahead, as always....enjoy!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much Adele, grief is a strange beast and sometimes it’s the little things that help you manage it the most. Haha I’m trying to convince Ben to get. A box drum but he doesn’t seem so sure 😂 Hope you’re doing well, sending big hugs and love, I know it’s been a difficult time for you xxx 💕

[@jillianwhite4601]

What a lovely story about the blackbirds make your Dad proud on that guitar. Play music so he can look down and hear his favourite songs. Stay safe. 💕for River and Scout. 🎸👍

[@OverlandingSophia]

His favourites are Santana, Heart and Pink Floyd so he might have to be patient on my skills 😂 But absolutely agree, thank you 💕 xxx

[@friendofGod99]

Wow !!! Beautiful parts of the planet that I’d never see with you guys 🙂. I know what you’re talking about I am 73 years old/young and I still miss my dad and mom every day. Please stay safe triple check the weather along the path you’re taking because it has been very bad in the direction you’re heading. Thanks for taking me along !!!!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Starr, New Mexico has been blowing us away with the history and landscapes. Weather is massively improving as we head west! New Mexico is high altitude so the weather has been a little unpredictable, but heading west it’s warming up considerably! Sending love and hugs xx 🤗

[@TaraDale-mw7it]

dear Chesca, I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing your Black Bird stories, it was so deeply moving to listen to you tell them whilst you're holding that magnificent guitar. May the music you find through it keep your dad and precious memories close. I'm a new subscriber and I'm hooked on your vlogs. Stay safe and happy travels to you wonderful humans. xx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Hey Tara, thank you so much for the love and the kind words, really means so much. It was such a special and surreal moment in the guitar shop. My dad loved music and it was one of the things that bonded us so it made it even more magic. Hope you're doing well, sending lots of love from a very cold Idaho! 🧡 xx

[@patriciapratley6773]

When my mum passed away from cancer we were stood at her graveside. My dad had passed away 4 years prior also of cancer but she’d never got over my dad passing - they were inseparable. I so wanted a sign to know they were together again. I remember looking towards the bluest of blue skies on that sad frosty January day and seeing two doves fly over and I thought to myself they are together again flying happy and free with no pain ❤ hold those you love tight in your arms or whilst you are not with them in your thoughts. Nothing else matters except being loved and giving love in return. x

[@OverlandingSophia]

Oh my this is beautiful. That was absolutely both of them coming to say hello, and letting you know they were together again ❤️ Thank you for sharing this, sending you lots of love xxx

[@carolyncarson1671]

Beautiful landscapes. I love the Blackbird signs all around. Very special. And if you doubted...the guitar store playing of Blackbird by the Beatles

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Carolyn. I know, I couldn't believe they were playing it. It was a special moment 💕

[@sallybiddick]

Wow! Loved your tales of your Dad, how comforting. I must say that the footage of you in the shop with Hayley had me in tears - don't know why, it was just beautiful. Happy playing xxx

[@OverlandingSophia]

It was really such a strange moment to hear that song! So unexpected but so comforting. Hayley was awesome too, sorry to have made you cry Sally! Hopefully I can play a tune for you one day 🤗 Sending loads of love xx 💕

[@Aaron-P]

A very cinematic opening!! 🤩🤩 You really captured the western feel, right down to boots walking into frame. 🤠 New Mexico seems a mystical, magical region. Might you be visiting Monument Valley as you head west? Thank you for sharing you story about three black birds visiting you. I had a lump in my throat the whole time. I hope you take to the guitar quickly. ❤️❤️😎👍xx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Hehe thank you Aaron! This landscape is SO inspiring for those western shots, I love modern western films so I’ve been running around at sunrise trying to capture it 🧡 🤠 You’ve summed it up perfectly. NM is mystical and magical, unlike anywhere else we’ve been so far. It was pretty fitting to have that blackbird experience here, there’s definitely something in the air. And the landscapes are out of this world, and empty! Barely anyone here so you get the place to yourself 😍✨

[@shooster5884]

Your blackbird experiences are lovely and very special... My family has similar experiences but with white feathers in connection to one of my aunts who died... always on days connected to her. I once had a most bizarre and at the time terrifying experience driving a windy narrow road in the dark to the West of Ireland. The face of my dog (dead over a year) suddenly filled the windscreen in front of me, snarling angrily.. that dog alive was the gentlest creature and never snarled... I jammed on the brakes and was shaking and my heart racing.. I got out all wobbly and didn't know what to think, then thought there must be something wrong with the car but couldn't see anything wrong with it... I was in some kind of shock.. it was so real..and I didn't understand it at all but to settle myself I walked up to the next bend 30 meters away to settle my shakes , deep breathing in the hopes it would relax me because I was afraid to get back in the car and go on driving. I got to the bend and to my horror and disbelief saw big dark shadows - about 8 cattle just around the bend filling the whole road... had I not stopped.. or rather been stopped... I would have ploughed straight into them. I walked on to find a house to tell them... and a farmer came and moved them... but when I eventually continued my journey I was still in disbelief - how did that happen, how could the dog have stopped me. The same dog appeared exactly the same, face snarling, years later in my sleep, waking me in the same state of heart thumping and me trembling. It was someone else's house, an elderly person I was visiting a few days to help. Naturally I raced to look for every possible danger, my elderly friend having a heart attack? an intruder? a fire somewhere in the house? I ended in tears because after even climbing into the attic I couldn't find what the danger was and chose to think, though not convinced, that perhaps by getting up and turning on the lights I had foiled a break-in or something.. alas, next day I went home and got a call the following night that neighbors had found my elderly friend hypothermic on her bedroom floor having barracaded her bedroom door and signs of disarray in the house and that she had been on the floor since the night before. She had been drugged... what else happened her was not known. She survived but didn't remember all but suffice to say that due to evidence found in the house the person was caught and convicted of this and other similar incidents that happened to other elderly ladies. Had I stayed one more night... but there was no way I could have guessed what that appearance of my dead dog was trying to warn me of. However it did end a serial situation that evidence suggested had been going on for years with some people dying as a result and thus by arrest and conviction had saved others from similar attacks so maybe that was meant to be. Thankfully the dog has not appeared to me since. I think there is more connection between the existence that we call life here and the energy that life comes from and goes back to. I don't try to understand any of the strange happenings that people experience, I just accept that they do happen .. because we can't explain them and don't need to.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Oh my god, that sounds terrifying but also incredibly special. Your pup was surely looking out for you! I also think there's far more than we understand. Love that you said we can't explain these occurrences and don't need to, completely agree. What's just as strong as what we see, is how the experience makes us feel. Thank you for sharing those amazing stories xx ❤️

[@aSC_na_kolenke]

The story of the thrushes is very interesting. I'm sorry for your loss of a loved one. The guitar, in memory of your father, is very beautiful. The scenery throughout the trip looks amazing.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Sergei ❤️ The scenery here is incredible, and it’s so quiet! You have the place to yourself which makes it even more magical ✨

[@51marshmellow]

Chesca, the ongoing story after your dad died is truly very special. I hope he continues to visit making meaningful times. I lost my dad when I had just turned 13 and I was living in NYC and I can remember truly thinking I was seeing him in crowds ahead of me on the street in his tan trench coat and bald head. Such a strong feeling for many reasons. He had died of a massive heart attack playing poker with his friends at the Friars Club and I always wondered whether he was holding a winning or losing hand. So it took me quite awhile to truly believe that he was gone at age 51 Thrilled that you got to see so much of New Mexico to fall in love with it even if you didn't make it farther north. Ben, I know that sense of awe as you look at the vastness of the landscape and walk along the steps of so many people that were there thousands of years ago. Your videos are wonderful . Thank you both for allowing us to be with you and getting to know you and the pups. Safe travels, Ellen

[@OverlandingSophia]

Oh Ellen this breaks my heart a little 💔 I think it’s the feeling that accompanies the moment that hits the most. I’ve seen blackbirds around but it’s those moments where it’s felt powerful and like I’m MEANT to be taking notice, you know? You said it so beautifully about the landscape here. It’s a special kind of landscape here and the history seeps out of every rock 🙏💛

[@lorisaltzman9453]

Hailey is amazing! Love her…I love the thought behind how you honored your dad! thanks for sharing this part of your journey!

[@OverlandingSophia]

She is so great!! 🥰 And thank you Lori, special memories in New Mexico to last a lifetime ✨

[@sharonaddison809]

Beautiful story about your dad Ches. He’s always with you. I lost my dad when I was 16. They’re always there to guide you. Much love xx❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

I didn’t know you lost your dad so young Sharon, so sorry to hear that Sharon 💔 They are with us always ✨✨

[@angelandkiki856]

Thank you for sharing your “Blackbird” stories. I felt chills as you recounted your experience. I almost fell out of my chair when you mentioned hearing “Blackbird” at the Guitar Shoppe. Continued safe travels 🙏❤️

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you 🙏 It was a very surreal song to hear, and very special ✨

[@chiefenumclaw7960]

Congrats on your beautiful new guitar. Thanks for sharing your story about your Dad.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you 🙏 💕

[@nkaradogan34]

Also the spiritual meaning of black bird is to explore yourself and new places. Such a magical story you told, how comforting it must be when you see black birds now. ✌️❤️

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you for this Nichola, they’re magical birds ✨🤍

[@gardeninfatuation964]

Stay Safe guys! It's been a week of extremes in NS too! Friday the Valley was the warmest spot in Canada 🇨🇦 and now we are getting a freezing rain storm! I'm hunkered down by the wood stove!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Haha winter weather is crazy. Last week we were running around the sand dunes with our coats off and now we’re getting snowed out at 5am. All part of the fun 😂

[@christine4670]

Me too lol! Have my snacks out Take care

[@georgejulien3286]

It was over 15 degrees here in Langley outside of Vancouver… sooo yeah

[@OverlandingSophia]

@@georgejulien3286 One of my favourite parts about the videos is how happy the Canadians are when the weather is warmer up north than in the States 😂 We love you guys so much. My family are taking equal pride that it's warmer in the UK too

[@georgejulien3286]

@@OverlandingSophia that’s actually hilarious 🤣 I love it

[@peterdaigle4772]

A guitar is the perfect item to carry on your Dad's legacy. Fantastic idea.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Peter, I think so too 🥰

[@andrewmacdonald1103]

The story about your dad and blackbirds was exceptional. The rest of the video was fantastic as usual, but the story was next level!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Andrew. It was such a profound moment and felt I had to share, so now one day when I learn how to play Blackbird you’ll know the story behind it ✨💛

[@liseohplease]

You would never bore us, ever !

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you 🥹 xxx

[@tanypie1321]

Thank you for sharing the story about the blackbirds and the connection with your dad. For me, it is fuzzy bumble bees and my Grandad. I understand that peace. Be safe on your travels❤️ 🐦‍⬛ 🐝

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Tanya ❤️ I love that your grandads animal is a bumble bee 🥹 xx

[@paulawoodward3256]

Thanks for sharing your Blackbird experiences. They were moving and poignant, not at all boring. Enjoy learning on your beautiful guitar. X

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Paula ✨💛

[@higgybee6509]

Aw, I loved hearing about your Dad and the blackbird. My older sister was in Hospice but she wasn't meant to die this soon. The day I was visiting just before Christmas a few years back there was a bright red cardinal sitting on the railing outside in the garden near her window. I commented to my sister in law that might not be a good sign because it usually means a visit from a spirit. My sister in law hadn't heard about that so she said it might be her sister visiting and I said it was probably my Aunt who was close to my sister. An hour or two later Santa came into the room for a visit and took a picture with my sister who was laughing and joking. Dinner came 20 minutes later and I was helping her eat and she asked for a sip of coffee which she sipped through a straw. She mumbled something and the next thing she put her head down as if sleeping. I knew she was gone at that moment. My sister in law said she was just sleeping but I knew. Then I mentioned the cardinal and said it must have been a spirit relative coming to take my sister away. It was so unexpected. Now when I see a cardinal outside my kitchen window sitting in the Rose of Sharon bush I think of a loved one coming to visit.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you for sharing this story 🤍 I think I've heard 3 or 4 stories now about cardinals and how they appear just before or after death. They're such a striking bird too! I hope it gave you some comfort to know that neither you or your sister were alone in that moment. Maybe the cardinal in the bush is your sister coming to say hello ✨ xx

[@chrisandkitty923]

Please please share more of your blackbird experiences. Having had a similar encounter with a robin has given us comfort in knowing ‘she’s there’ Brilliant as always guys xx 🚐

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you guys 💕 If I have anymore moments I'll share them. Robin's are special birds too 💛 xx

[@cindygaudet1390]

Love the story of the blackbird, totally agree it was your dad. I have had that happen with bluejays my mums favourite bird. Hugs❤

[@ElCosmicGitana]

Thanks especially for your openness in sharing your special experience in form of blackbirds ❤there is soooo much more to perceive, when we open. Wonderful you got the guts to share your story 🔥💫🌈🫶have a wonderful trip 🙌

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much ✨ It was such a profound moment, as they all have been!

[@ElCosmicGitana]

@@OverlandingSophia 🙌💫❤️

[@martinnorth2680]

Beautiful Blackbird story Chesca

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Martin 💕

[@joeclow6563]

Beautiful blackbird stories, 😍

[@OverlandingSophia]

🫶🫶 💕

[@bsn2ndsflatdavis378]

Good story about the black bird. If you like the rock formations of New Mexico, you’ll love the red rock formations of the Grand Canyon and Sedona Arizona. A must see !!

[@OverlandingSophia]

We drove into Arizona this week and were blown away by the scale of the rocks and mountains. So beautiful 🤩

[@RoaminRob]

As someone who has not really had a mother and father my grandfather became my best friend. He passed away in '06 and I still think of him everyday 😊 I hope he and your father are looking down on us and we make the them proud 🙏

[@OverlandingSophia]

I’m so sorry to hear that Rob, I imagine the hole they leave behind never goes away. No doubt he is with you always 🤍🤍🤍

[@lorrainestaines3538]

I luv watching your journey and loved hearing your story about you dad, I lost my dad 3 weeks ago so feel your seniment xx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Oh Lorraine I'm so sorry to hear that, 3 weeks is no time at all. Sending you so much love at this difficult time xxx ❤️

[@emilecousineau1464]

A great vidéo...That meal looked amazing .yummy. The story about your Dad very touching. I had and have that with my Mom and Cardinals...they always show up at a spicific time. Enjoy the guitare and your travels. Stay safe. Thanks for sharing. HAPPY trails.

[@OverlandingSophia]

I've heard about 4 stories with cardinals now! They must be special birds ❤️ Thank you Emile xx

[@jasonpacific5661]

We've always loved your channel and yet somehow your mini tribe traveling through South USA is extra engaging and enchanting. Part of it is few channels have ever done it! Certain Santa Fe food is Michelin star quality 🏆

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much! Yep we feel the tone of the trip has changed since reaching the SW. Especially as we’ve slowed down and had the time to explore properly. Could do a whole video on the food here! 🤤 xx

[@jimtheman5598]

Beautiful guys the black bird got me xxx stay safe dear friends xx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Jim, such a profound moment I wanted to share. Now when I eventually learn how to play Blackbird you’ll know the meaning behind it 🥰✨

[@seanog72]

Beautiful story of your Dad and a gorgeous guitar in his memory. Enjoy learning to play and when your finger tips get hardened you’re getting there. Enjoy!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Sean 💕 I’ve started to learn many times over the years and I get as far as the sore fingers, stop for a couple of days and then never pick it up again. Not this time though! 💪

[@seanog72]

Stick with it! It’s well worth the effort.

[@kimbeaney6747]

Thanks as always for the update. It was a balmy 13 degrees celsius here in Newfoundland yesterday!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Enjoy the balmy weather! We’ve had some -10 nights here 🥶

[@coloradoridgerunner791]

Glad you got to see Sky City. I was lucky I got to spend several months with the Acoma's they're wonderful people we rode horses and drove all over the reservation, it's really beautiful in the backcountry where normally only tribal members are allowed to go. I was able to get some really awesome photos of wild horses. Stay safe and keep the awesome videos coming 🤗

[@OverlandingSophia]

That's absolutely amazing! What an experience 🤩 That entire landscape was breathtaking, we've since crossed into Arizona but nothing compares to the sweeping, vast expanses of NM. Nowhere else like it!

[@passingthroughtime3033]

Everything looks really nice. Unique landscapes. I'm sure your father is watching over you. Take care

[@OverlandingSophia]

It’s a beautiful part of the country, one of our favourite places we’ve been so far ❤️

[@jackhaddley2875]

Amazing video. Such a rewarding experience and doing your dad proud. He'll always be watching over you and be proud of you. Loving this journey, and I can't wait for what comes next.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much Jack ❤️ It was such a weird but special experience ✨

[@davery07]

Love traveling with you guys vicariously, heheee. Learning so much of the land that is North America. That definitely is one beautiful guitar. Can't wait to hear you play. IMO music is the language of the soul. The blackbird story ... just wow. ❤ Be safe, enjoy and look forward to your next installment. 🙂

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much for coming along with us each week 🥰 And I totally agree about music, it IS the language of the soul! 💛

[@theresahassan2576]

I loved your story about your Dad and the blackbirds!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you 🥰✨

[@roamforloam7917]

Nice story about the blackbird. I always link the arrival of swallows to my late wife. She loved it when she saw the first ones of the year as it meant spring had arrived. Not as close a connection as you’ve had with a singular blackbird but there’s always reminders in life of loved ones. Good luck with the guitar. Get ready for sore finger ends😂!!…. Safe travels🤙

[@OverlandingSophia]

That's beautiful 🤍 I'm so sorry you lost your wife, I can't even begin to imagine that pain. Definitely think there are signs if we ask/look out for them. I've tried to learn the guitar so many times and everytime I stop to give the sore fingers a rest and then never pick it up again 😂 💛

[@robkirby]

It isn't only aliens we seek, it love if those who have passed, that was a lovely thought your Dad is always with you watching trying to guide. It was nearly 20 years ago since I lost my mum, I keep getting told she has unfinished business with me, I use to tournament her rotten but in fun, she wants to get her own back on me. Carry on play your guitar one day you can give every one a rendition of Beatle's Blackbird. Ben you did well over that rough terrain. All our best thinking of you both and Sir Barkalot says woof .

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much for this Rob, I don't think the pain of losing a parent ever passes. My nan is 89 and misses her mum like crazy still. Sending love to you all and belly rubs for Sir Barkalot 💕

[@sherrierollins3774]

Love you had the connection with your dad.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Sherrie, it was pretty special to hear that song play ✨

[@Newnomads]

Well, now you’ve made us TOTALLY homesick for New Mexico!!! We’re really pleased you enjoyed La Choza… we’re sitting in Italy at the moment thinking about how great NM food is… how that’s for a foodie conundrum?!?! Enjoy New Mexico! It’s a truly unique place in all the world! We’re EXTREMELY happy you’re having a good time! Also, blackbird is the first song I learned to play on the guitar! Give it a go… the chords are elegant in their simplicity… and there’s literally no song better to learn how to pick! You’ll do wonderfully!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Haha sorry not sorry! 😂 Now that is a first world problem if ever we heard one. Sat in Italy dreaming of New Mexican food 😋 Thank you again for your incredible recommendations and suggestions, it made our day. Totally agree, NM is unique and utterly beautiful, so pleased we took the time to explore here a little more deeply than usual. Blackbird undoubtedly has to be one of the first songs I learn. You might hear it one day 😅✨

[@nickthomas181]

Snow in the desert well Ill be dipped.I never thought that was possible in my head anyway. Cold at night sure but snow.....The guitar is really nice. This week's highlight has to be the Blackbird story.I understand Cheska what you are feeling having just lost my father recently. Your father's spirit will be with you always, I'm finding that out and my dad was a moaning old bugger but I nursed to the end and think of him a lot (like isn't it peaceful now). I hope you learn the guitar and it's a lofty goal but to learn to play Blackbird will be and end goal worth achieving. I would also love to visit Santa Fe and New Mexico a superb vlog,cheers!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Yep! Wait until you see the weather we had in the desert this week leaving New Mexico! 🥶 ❄️ I'm sorry about your Dad Nick, although your peace comment made us giggle. So good to find some humour in the darkness sometimes! 🤍

[@deanashortt4166]

What a beautiful sentiment and picture you created for all of us watching. I could feel your emotion 💕losing a parent is NEVER easy, even when you know it’s going to happen. Both of my parents are gone now, for me the loss of my Mom for cancer was such a deep hurt. I watched her suffering and I was physically holding her when she left this world…I literally felt her go. Mom always wore White Diamonds and believe it or not to this day I know she’s with me because I can smell her ❤️. I’m really happy for you that you chose something related to your Dad that brings you comfort and happiness and the desire to learn to play guitar. Don’t worry about boring any of us ( I’m sure) grief is a raw and real emotion. Stay safe 😊

[@OverlandingSophia]

That's incredible that you can smell White Diamonds when she's near! It's funny how we just 'know' when something is a sign, it's hard to explain to someone who's never experienced it before. But that's her way of letting you know she's near. Thank you for the kind words, sending love 💕 🤗

[@amywatson857]

Lovely video, and very moving story about the Blackbird connection. X

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Amy 🤍

[@maryoregan6948]

Great video guys, you will have lasting memories of NM Chessca, what a beautiful story. My friend sent me fantastic photos of the huge hot air balloon festival held in Albuquerque every year. Happy strumming. 🇮🇪

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Mary! I know, some very special memories already! Ah we saw a hot air balloon in Albuquerque yesterday🥰

[@macjac246]

Awesome tribute to your Dad , Chesk ❤.....I lost my Dad in August ....they would be proud of us both x x x

[@OverlandingSophia]

I'm sorry you've also lost your dad, absolutely no doubt they are with us 💛

[@ftkinsella]

Hi guys, such a crazy trip you are having. I remember asking for a sign when my wife passed and that's coming to the first years anniversary in a few days. I asked to see two rabbits sitting together on a lawn during my walk with our dog. I got nothing for the longest time and I had never told anyone about my wish, then one day my daughter came home from her walk with Strider our Husky and I asked as I usually do how her walk was. She said oh nothing special but I did see as I was walking by a house that we like, two rabbits sitting together on the lawn. And she said it was so sweet seeing them together. Well I am still waiting for that sign but you can be assured that they that have passed are listening and watching us. Love you both. Cheers 😘🥂😘

[@OverlandingSophia]

That’s absolutely incredible! And your daughter of all people to see them too 💖✨💖 She was making sure she said hello to both of you. This past year must have been so difficult for you. Sending so much love xx

[@dorisbetts3012]

Chesca, I am so sorry to hear your dad passed. I'm thinking you may have been in Nova Scotia when he transitioned? I understand how hard it is to lose a beloved parent. I firmly believe in birds as messengers from beyond. When my dad died suddenly 20 years ago, later that morning I was talking to my mom on the phone from my bed when a flock of chickadees flew up to my second floor window and started tapping and flappung their wings at the window, soon followed by another flock at the other bedroom window doing the same thing! Never happened before or after that. And after my mom died, a cardinal came to my parents' yard as we were closing up the house after it sold, the first I had ever seen. Cardinals are very rare in my part of Nova Scotia. I had just mentioned to my husband the evening before that I would love to see a sign from Mom that all was okay, and wouldn't a cardinal be special. It certainly was that! I will never forget either event and still find feathers in the most extraordinary places, and just when I need reassurance. Life and transitioning to the next realm certainly are filled with mystery and wonder! Take good care and enjoy that beautiful guitar. ( "Blackbird" happens to be one of my favourite songs that my son sings and plays for me...that and Bob Marley's "Three Little Birds"). Love from NS.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Hey Doris 💛 He passed when I was back in the UK. We stayed vigil with him for 2 weeks, didn’t leave his side except for the night when I needed to sleep. He went during the night. I’d come down with covid and had been feeling horrific. Early that morning I woke up and felt absolute peace, I was just so comfortable in bed, no pain, no aches and had a feeling of complete bliss, as though everything was perfect in the world. I went back to sleep and woke up to a phone call that he’d gone in the night. I’m certain that feeling I felt was him saying hello. It was so strong and so unusual. Those are such beautiful moments you’ve had with your parents and birds, I’ve heard about cardinals before as messengers. Thank you for sharing your stories with me ✨ Blackbird has to be one of the first songs I learn 🥰✨ xxx Sending love x

[@MeliBeBrave]

Hi guys, terrific vlog! Really loved the petroglyphs, so cool. I know it's a while until you reach Argentina, but I wanted to share a couple of places you guys will LOVE (sorry if you already have it on your itinerary). The first one is Canyon Talampaya (La Rioja) which also has petroglyphs and El Valle de La Luna (San Luis) they're neighboring provinces so it's handy to see both. Lots of wildlife and stunning landscapes. Cesca, the story about your dad was so beautiful, thank you for sharing that with us. Sending you lots of love xxx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Hey lovely! Thank you sooo much for this! All of that sounds incredible. Didn’t know about these so have pinned them to our map. Argentina is such a long time away but we’re already so excited to be there, heard nothing but amazing things 😍✨ xxx

[@pamelamckoy7618]

Also hunkered down in Halifax, love the guitar, good luck that will keep you busy for sure!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Pamela! Hope the weather is easing up for you a little?! xx

[@duncangibson9235]

Genuinely moved by the story about your Dad. ❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

It was a special moment ✨✨

[@Alessio-Zinna]

The Blackbird story about you dad was so beautiful

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Alessio, it was a strange experience ✨

[@justtraveltogether]

What a lovely sentiment! 🎸 The guitar is beautiful too! It matches Sophia!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you! I know! I never even thought of that until I got it out at the van! 🤩

[@ThePolleys]

Oh Chesca, having such a special moment and connection is truly a beautiful experience. What’s strange is when I started watching, I somehow had a feeling it would be Blackbird by the Beatles?!? Anyway, I am glad you had these beautiful moments and can’t wait to hear you play one day. ~ Sam 💁🏼‍♀️🚐✨💚

[@OverlandingSophia]

You must be extra in tune with me after binge watching our videos! 😇 💕 It was a really strange and special moment, need to get some more practice in before the playing goes public 🥴 xx

[@MariekeL]

The story about your dad and the blackbird experiences you had gave me tears., thank you so much for sharing such a personal thing. For the people playing Blackbird by The Beatles in the store, that is such a magical moment. He is definitely with you

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you my love, it was such a special moment, I really feel he spoke to me in that shop ✨💛

[@Michael-wg1mt]

I think that is an amazing way to honor your dad, now he will always be with you in your music and in your heart. Happy playing around those late night fires. Cheers

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Michael (you share his name actually). So looking forward to learning properly, I’ve tried on and off for years but never stuck to it. Now I have no excuse 🥰

[@Gillby47]

So glad you had a sign from your dad.I was lucky enough to have to signs from my dad,the first was when a big spider came from under a cupboard and walked toward me,stopped and looked up at me for about30 seconds before turning and going back toward the cupboard.I had always been terrified of spiders to the extent that I would run screaming from the house at the sight of one,since then I have not been afraid thanks to my dads visit.The other was when I woke in the night to see my dad standing next to me,he said,"It,s ok we are all waiting for Elsie."At 7:30 in the morning I answered the phone to my cousin who said that my dads youngest sister Elsie had just died.She was surprised when I said that I new as my dad had told me.She was shocked but as a Buddhist I took it in my stride.Enjoy your memory as I do.❤️

[@OverlandingSophia]

Wow, that Elsie one is amazing! It’s incredible the experiences so many people have had like this. I wasn’t sure about them before my dad died but they’ve been so real and out of the ordinary that I’m much more certain of them now. There’s so much we don’t understand about death 💛

[@johnfromkansas6162]

Enjoyed your choice of music in the opening segment. Loving your adventures.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you John, I’m a fan of Westerns so am enjoying the inspiration of this landscape thoroughly 😁

[@shelaghrobertson8286]

Wow! I have a few videos to catch up on, Christmas/New Year/birthday/wedding anni, busy time of year for little moi. So glad I watched this one, the blackbird theme was just amazing., so glad you had those connected experiences. Funny how you don't "see" the single thread weaving through them at the time isn't it? 💖🎶

[@OverlandingSophia]

Oh my sounds like a very busy year! Thank you for tuning into this one Shelagh! Hindsight is a beautiful thing. Very special to see how the thread weaves over time ✨✨

[@mark.mahorney]

Good decision to come down out of the snow, things can change for the worse quickly out here in the Rockies. Had the most wonderful experience there a couple years ago coming across wild Indian ponies that were living amongst the decrepit and derelict ruins of route 66 tourist shops

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Mark. We were too far off the main road to risk getting snowed in, especially with some steep slopes to tackle on the way down. The weather here is so unpredictable! That sounds incredible with the wild ponies and derelict ruins, would love to have seen something like that ✨

[@suewiltshire8092]

I don't know where to start, snow in the desert, wind, it was all happening. I really wanted to join you for the live. Sadly my daughters Malamute had to be put down on the same day, as you can imagine she was devastated. Thank you for sharing something so special as the story about your dad. I'm going back to site on Tuesday for the next nine months, no holidays, so I shall sharing in your adventures to keep me sane 😁 stay safe as ever love from Sue and Bryn xx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Sorry I’m only just seeing this Sue! That’s awful news about your daughters dog, I hope she’s doing okay. There’s nothing like the heartbreak of losing a dog 😢 Hope your season on site goes well, one day we will be round to see you! 🥰 xx

[@suewiltshire8092]

@@OverlandingSophia thanks for that Chesca, she's not too bad. I'm worried as she never mentions it and I'm concerned she's pushed it away and won't deal with it. Sadly she's a big girl and I can't make her, just have to do what mum's do best, be there for her when she needs me. Stay safe love Sue and Bryn xx

[@suzannehayward1540]

Sending hugsssss fabulous vlog stay safe❤️❤️❤️

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you my love, sending big hugs back 🤗 💕

[@brendaanderson292]

Thank you for sharing another great vlog. Check out Emma Stevens rendition of Blackbird. Emma is from a well known First Nations community on Cape Breton Island. Your new guitar is lovely. Hope you enjoy a great week. 💕💕💕🇨🇦

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks for the recommendation, sounds right up my street so I’ll check it out. Thank you ✨

[@reh0119]

My wife and I are Van travelers, and we are leaving Michigan for the southwest next week. We were in NS at the same time you guys were there too. We hope you are truly enjoying your travels in the US. I’ve been a guitar player for 50 years, and one travels with me where ever I go. So glad to see that you are picking up playing too. There are 2 things I recommend. First is practice! No progress will be made without that discipline. Second is what the environment in the van will do to you beautiful new instrument. Guitars need steady temperatures (between 65 and 75 degrees F is a reasonable range) and HUMIDITY, 40% relative humidity is highly recommended. You will NOT get that naturally. Find a humidifier that can be placed in the case with the guitar; D’Addario Humidipaks are nice because there increase humidity in a dry location, and lower it in a wet location. Good luck on playing and enjoy the road trip.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much Rick! The guitar is actually dehumidified already so it will be okay in the van. This is something Hailey was talking to me about as she has a campervan and guitars too. But yes, practice makes perfect. I played the piano for 10 years but couldn’t play you anything now. It wasn’t my instrument of choice but I can’t wait to get stuck into the new guitar. She’s a beauty 💛 Happy and safe travels down to the SW guys 🙌

[@northstarcreative]

A blackbird would make a lovely tattoo ❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

Funnily enough a few weeks before he died, I got a new tattoo on my forearm featuring a blackbird 😳✨

[@northstarcreative]

@@OverlandingSophia wow, that’s amazing. I did a degree in archaeology and my dissertation was on the cosmological significance of Corvids on Situlae (large vessels from Po Valley in Italy). Sounds very dull, but what I learned about the symbolism (which varies between cultures) and how Corvids behave was fascinating.

[@asaandthemarchharepart2903]

Wonderful video Both. Giant rocks out in the middle of knowwhere. And yes it definitely reminds me of Turkey. Beautiful what your doing for your Dad. Lovely looking guitar. Perfect colour too. Loved your talk at the end. So heart warming and special. Did not know about Blackbirds, always thought Robins were spirit messengers as always get one with you on travels in my van. Love and Big Hugs Both ❤

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Asa, I'm sure robins are too! I met a woman with my nan once, we were in a beautiful gardens somewhere in the Midlands and she was sat on the bench with us. She said her late husband visits her as a robin, and the next thing a robin comes and sits next to her on the back of the bench as if to say 'here I am!' - it was such a special moment for all of us! So i'm sure there's magic with those birds too 💕 xx

[@debh329]

New Mexican food is the best I'm so glad you enjoyed it. I love Santa Fe Its so pretty there. Keep enjoying your time in NM. Have fun safe travels. Rarely people who are van lifers stop in New Mexico you both are the first I seen to talk about our state, Thank You so much. I'm new to your channel. I love it already. :)

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much Deb! We absolutely love NM, more people need to come and experience this place. We haven’t even scratched the surface. There’s still Taos and the north mountains and the hot springs and summer hikes. It deserves the name Land of Enchantment ✨

[@shamanicwillow]

So special regarding your Darling Dad and Blackbirds 🧙‍♀️

[@OverlandingSophia]

I thought you would appreciate it 🥰✨ 🌙

[@gmada]

I really like the local burger chain “Blake’s Lotaburger for the green chili cheeseburger and real peach shakes.” 😋

[@OverlandingSophia]

Oh yes we've sampled Blakes twice! Can confirm the green chile burger is incredible 😍

[@carlbebbington730]

Great video, your story about your dad and the blackbird was very moving, (and certainly not boring at all). Safe travels you two, looking forward to the next episode.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Carl 🥰 xx

[@kelson63100]

The music you used during the petroglyphs hike was beautiful!

[@OverlandingSophia]

I thought it was beautiful too! Reminded me of a video game I used to play! 🧡

[@kelson63100]

@@OverlandingSophia must have been an elegant video game....lol

[@va3ngc]

Glad you got to see some cool looking sites in NM. If you get a chance, check out Chaco Canyon. That place is awesome. It is NW of Albuquerque. That really bad road you went down reminded me of the road to Chaco Canyon, however I hear that they paved it finally. Chaco Canyon is famous for the depiction of the Supernova of 1054 under the rock overhang, a depiction of a solar eclipse and other rock art among other things. It is a totally awesome place to visit. There are a large amount of 1000 year old buildings there too. That is pretty old for North America.

[@OverlandingSophia]

We desperately wanted to go to Chaco Canyon and also the badlands there but it was so far north and the weather so bad we couldn't make it. To see the depiction of the super nova would have been incredible. Honestly we need to come back to NM just to see more of the north, to see Taos, the Enchanted Circle, the hot springs. Lots of unfinished business here 💛

[@sherrywarren-biers3327]

I love the Southwest and New Mexico, in particular! What wonderful, inspiring blackbird experiences you have had....thanks so much for sharing something so meaningful!

[@OverlandingSophia]

Yep New Mexico is a wonderful place! Definitely something in the air here 🥰✨

[@susanmusgrave7885]

Thanks for another fantastic slice of your travels! Don't think of your experience in Serbia as a fiasco you & your Mum & friends rescued Rosie. You both & your families sound like really good people, it's a privilege & a pleasure to share your journey & your story, thank you!🐶 🐶

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks Susan, it felt like a fiasco as it was such a crazy time, but you’re right, it was a true rescue mission and Rosie is so happy in her new home. My mum says she’s already part of the furniture 🥰✨

[@carriedaniels5931]

Welcome to New Mexico hope you can make it to,Taos, extra extra..special space! Camp, Pillar..near by!! On the Rio Grande river....take care!

[@OverlandingSophia]

We would have LOVED to go to Taos, the hot springs, Chaco canyon..but it was just too far and too cold for this trip. We have LOTS to see in NM when we come back here one day. We have unfinished business here 🤩

[@barrywatler7482]

Hi Chesca Ben River and Scout it’s nice to remember family, the day my friends mother died we went home and 2 parrots were flying around the inside of house 🏡 and to this day we don’t know how they got in. Always when we see them parrots 🦜 we think of her. Take care and stay safe cheers from Australia 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🥵🥶

[@OverlandingSophia]

It’s amazing how many people have bird experiences after losing someone 🦜💛

[@marypurifoy3582]

The chiles in New Mexico are delicious. The hatch chile red is mild and green(depending on the heat) is unique in it's flavor and so versatile it's use. The hatch adds a different flavor to dishes and leaves one wanting more.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Yep New Mexico knows how to do chiles! Green hatch is my favourite I’ve tried 😋

[@nottoooldtwo]

Safe Journeys! I don't think you were defeated by the snow, you were redirected by the snow! And you accepted the challenges and kept going. Looking forward to the days when you come through California and see the state through different people's eyes. Have fun! ❤️

[@OverlandingSophia]

Ah love this perspective! Re-directed by the snow, to a Target car park 😂 We'll be exploring California on our way south from Alaska, as we'll be hugging the coast on the way back. I visited in 2012 in a camper van for 3 weeks and can't wait to see how it's similar/different to what I remember 💛

[@nottoooldtwo]

@@OverlandingSophia we'll be waiting and watching!

[@keithgeorge4063]

wait till you get to Monument Valley and the Grand Canyon to see amazing landscapes

[@OverlandingSophia]

Absolutely, we can’t wait

[@sophienova7040]

Another video, another smile! Thanks for sharing your journey

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Sophie 🥰✨ Sending love!

[@kateur9923]

Thank you for another beautiful and poignant video.

[@OverlandingSophia]

❤️ ❤️

[@markplenty2631]

Hey guys! Loved the live yesterday. Music can be so emotional and sentimental, air guitar with the dogs 😂😂, the landscape looks so good! I love meeting other Campervan people!! I’m not too good with spicy 🌶️ foods.. the bread things with honey looked very tasty! I really want one of those light bars, they make such a difference. Gotta love the snow ❄️. How amazing to see the petroglyphs. Well like the train, I’m glad you’re on track 😂.. the best thing about these videos is that you’ll have those travels on film forever! Yeah sometimes maps don’t line up with reality.. wise decision to make a Walmart stop. Ah I really felt your story. Anyway, see you next week! Safe travels! X

[@OverlandingSophia]

The sopapillas with honey were incredible! Think Ben’s going to have to get used to the spice as we head into Mexico 😂 Funny you say about having these travels on film forever, last night we went and watched one of our videos from France, on our trip to Turkey after re-building Sophia. It was so good to watch it back, we’d forgotten so much! Hope you’re having a lovely weekend Mark, and not working too hard! 🤗💕

[@markplenty2631]

@@OverlandingSophia it’s an amazing weekend, came to have roast with father and we watched your video stuffing our face! To be honest, stuff a Carolina reeper crisp in your gobs and then all the food will seem so easy after that. 👌👍

[@elliemacdonald9857]

Another great video. So sorry about your Dad. ♥ I definitely can relate with you,but the bird that came to me after my Dad's funeral, was a crow. My Dad fed them daily,after I went home I was sitting looking out the window and what sits there and stares in at me,yes a crow,I to said hi Dad. ♥

[@OverlandingSophia]

This is so lovely, no doubt it was him coming to see you 💖

[@lindataylor6093]

Stunning drive. Will you get to Canyon de Chelly National Monument? Chesca I'm sending a big hug. I felt your emotions. I'm like that with Robins and say hi to my Mum. Take care and can't wait to hear you play. Enjoy xxx

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you Linda, sending a big hug back 🤗 We plan on seeing Arizona as we drive back up to Alaska, not sure on our route but maybe we'll stop by Canyon de Chelly! xx

[@lindataylor6093]

@@OverlandingSophia Thanks Chesca. I'll be watching. We did a jeep safari through it with Navajo Indians, singing along and had hot chocolate with them round a camp fire. But this was over 20 years ago. Amazing experience for sure. Safe travels. Xxx

[@lindylindybasicoceangirl]

…gorgeous guitar Chesca…like minds-finally decided to learn to play a Neapolitan mandolin that is very special to me this year…downloaded a tuning app😂until I can sort proper lessons …will see if my jackapoo rescue Linus will howl along as I lack in the area of singing…lovely vid all around and I bet your dad will completely approve of your guitar❤🎸‼️

[@OverlandingSophia]

Oh wow! I love mandolins 😍 I've signed up to learn with Fender Play, it's SO good! Don't know if they do mandolins too but it's pretty good so far ✨ xx

[@travelswithforrestflo1239]

Incredible landscape 😍 We really enjoy your vlogs and following your journey. Loved hearing your story about the Blackbirds. 🥰 We loved your guitar choice! Happy strumming 💛

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much guys, the guitar is beautiful, I have no excuse not to learn now 😅✨

[@texn7526]

Thanks for that wonderful story Chesca. I know how hard it is as well, I went something as well when my Dad passed away. It's interesting the signs you see when your in terrible pain and loss. Definitely something to that. When in a rush and are happy we miss seeing them or they are simply disregarded as something bizarre/weird and strange. Keep him in your head and heart Chesca and good luck with that wonderful Guitar. You picked out a beuty💙

[@OverlandingSophia]

Sorry you’ve also been through this pain. Totally agree with what you say, it’s like the grief makes everything sharper. But this past few weeks I’ve been the happiest I’ve ever been, so excited for the journey ahead when I felt the urge to get a guitar in Santa Fe. Had that blackbird experience in the shop on top of feeling joy and happiness rather than grief, which was pretty special ✨✨ Now I just need to learn the damn thing 😄

[@kristingrounds4163]

Ok I have been binge watching your videos and I don't know if you will see this but I had to comment about the black bird....my last grandmother had passed and when at her services when I left the church there were 3 blackbirds in the tree....I have always heard they carry the souls of the dead and watch over the living but what was the weirdest is that a 4th black bird flew up to the tree and I knew then it was all my grandparents

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thank you so much for sharing your blackbird story Kristen ❤️ Blackbirds are the bridge between our world and spirit, shamans use their song to travel between worlds so they absolutely were your grandparents coming to say hi! It's it so special to have moments like that. I have special blackbird moments very often. And they always come at the strangest times but have so much meaning ✨

[@ianhoughton3349]

Lovely story chesca we have blackbirds and robins nest in our garden. @elementlife have a cottage in New Mexico if ever need local expertise sure they would assist. Sorry missed live everyone was gone by time I got back.

[@OverlandingSophia]

Not heard of them, will check them out! Even though we've left NM now, getting to this a little late! We'll be doing another Live in Feb, be there or be square 🤓

[@russellbelliveau1694]

Thanks for sharing the story of your dad. I enjoy unwinding on Sunday evening and watching your videos, always a super interesting adventure, the views are breathtaking wow. Hopefully we’ll get to enjoy a tune on the guitar soon lol Safe travels

[@OverlandingSophia]

Thanks so much Russell, that’s so amazing to hear 🥰 Love seeing your comments every week, so thanks for coming along with us. We’re a long way from Nova Scotia now!