Why Letting Go is the Key to Achieving Your Deepest Desires

[@JayTheStoic]

As the Stoics said: "Control what you can, accept what you cannot." - Focus on your actions and thoughts, but let go of the outcomes beyond your control.

[@betterliffe]

Indeed, powerful words 🤝✨

[@X-Factor-22]

Thank you.

[@adam-_-923]

So basically, it's the same as the serenity prayer, "Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and have wisdom to know the difference"

[@QuantumAruaaa]

This is easier said then done!

[@DrmCom2003]

I've heard an old phrase "you suffer because you desire." I've spent years trying to desire less. It's difficult in the beginning because it feels like you're quitting on yourself. The truth is you haven't grown spiritually enough to attract said things.

[@betterliffe]

Well said

[@hockeymarine88]

Desiring to not desire?

[@floridas_own]

Amazing quote. Thanks for sharing

[@spiceynye813]

Desiring less is a desire. People often miss the point of what detachment is. It's not about desiring less it's about not allowing the desire to consume your every thought. Desire is something we will always have it's not the root of suffering. Obsessing is the root of suffering. When you stop chasing it will come to you. Because chasing after something places you in resistance it's a belief that the only way to have it is to struggle for it. Follow the path of least resistance and life will follow you.

[@derrickrose5933]

This ​@@spiceynye813

[@siobhanfagan-ss5rc]

Since my divorce 12 years ago, I have desperately craved financial security and a home of my own. The more i have fixated this, the further away it's become. I have had cancer, recently lost my job and am now facing eviction. This video has really helped me. I have heard so many say "let go" and I finally understand how to do that and just trust in life, see what the Universe puts in my path and stop over-thinking everything. Losing everything but feeling at peace.

[@betterliffe]

Thank you for sharing your journey. It’s incredibly moving to see your resilience in the face of so many challenges. Letting go is never easy, but your openness to trust the Universe and find peace is inspiring. I’m glad the video helped you find some clarity and comfort. Sending you strength, love, and positive energy as you navigate this path-may new opportunities and blessings come your way soon.

[@tobylots]

I really things are better for you now. I will pray for you that may have peace of mind and love god bless xx

[@Dr.Jekyll_]

Attachment is a holding onto, chasing, craving. Detachment is rejection, aversion, indifference True freedom is non attachment. Non attachment is allowing, acceptance, it’s I don’t mind instead of I don’t care not rejecting but also not holding on. It’s a state of surrender to what is. 🙏🏽♥️

[@betterliffe]

Beautifully said 🙏💫

[@nibeditasahoo6000]

It's difficult but at some point of life we have to accept detachment is the only way to stay happy

[@cabazoncabazon5952]

❤❤❤❤❤ yessssssss

[@speedrunner9907]

is this directed at israel? i don’t get it. I am very pro Israel, and I don’t think they should be detached from their security at all

[@brandeepalmer3514]

What if the thing you’re attached to is your son and he is going down a bad path and is no contact. How do I let go of an attachment for my son?

[@nibeditasahoo6000]

@ I understand your pain. It's impossible to do such detachment. It's 2 years, I lost my parents, still unable to come out of that pain. I lost my dreamt career for which I was trying detachment but honestly saying I never able to forget that pain

[@davienstrong]

@@brandeepalmer3514there’s a difference between love and attachment. Love is what you feel and give without expecting anything in return. Love is free. Attachment is expecting a certain outcome and/or controlling a situation or person to meet those expectations. When those expectations or outcomes are not met, we feel pain, fear, grief, etc. You can love your son without attachment. It’s more than likely that loving your son without the attachments is what he’s searching for anyways. But ultimately, people, even our children or partners, are allowed to have their own experiences. We have absolutely no control. And the more we try to control, the more we push away that which we love most❤ There is a big gap between hearing and knowing this, and actually internalizing, and embodying it, and actually letting go.

[@BrandiBrottem]

As I AM awakening I realize how much I do not want ANYTHING materialistic anymore. As I look at this world in shambles because of greed it repulses me. Whatever is guiding me, I AM so grateful for this guidance ... The truth shall set us all free

[@betterliffe]

How did you come to this realization? Would love to hear more about your perspective

[@BrandiBrottem]

@@betterliffe honestly, it took for me to lose EVERYTHING by the hand of the ones that I called family, friends, lovers...GOD woke me up to the sabotage that I couldn't see. That is why I do not value anything this world can give me materialistically. I am starving for true CONNECTION. TRUE LOVE. DIVINE CONNECTION.

[@connorodea9499]

​@@BrandiBrottem I am so with you. I am going through DNOTS. it is deeply painful and inquisitive in a way that most will never understand unless they revel + personally experience this deep, yet necessary, darkness themselves.

[@BarbaraScott-i1i]

What are those dnots

[@jefferyorton1723]

@@BrandiBrottem man lies, plants guide.

[@NaturallySpirit]

“Detachment leads to Freedom “ 🕊️🧘🏾‍♀️🌅🙏🏾🌞

[@Jeffrey_DeBlaay...888]

to all who read this, and all who don't...sending you infinite peace, perfect health, abundant wealth, joyous freedom, and unconditional love... 🙏🏽💚💚💚💚💚🙌🏽

[@marigoldpluss]

💙💙💙🎉💞💞💞

[@Jeffrey_DeBlaay...888]

@@marigoldpluss i love ya 😘

[@milanvucenovic5544]

❤❤❤

[@Jeffrey_DeBlaay...888]

@milanvucenovic5544 i love you, Milan 😘

[@walktheline6731]

Right back at you 😊

[@Nurturedbynature-1111]

Currently letting go of my father who is Maybe days away from transitioning due to Parkinsons. I realize more and more how this is truly the vessel and his spirit will live on. I now know why I had to start the journey of awakening ❤️ He passed on July 3, 2024 in room 333.

[@mathieuavisse4623]

transitioning ? wtf is that

[@Nurturedbynature-1111]

@@mathieuavisse4623 dying duh

[@Nurturedbynature-1111]

@mathieuavisse4623 and he did transition since you needed to ask, July 3rd. Happy to teach you what transitioning means 😊

[@valeriesnyder2157]

@@Nurturedbynature-1111 I can tell you from my own visions that we truly never die it’s truly amazing and even though I clearly know you are aware of that truth I thought it might help you to have that extra confirmation. Sending you love and hugs.

[@Nurturedbynature-1111]

@@valeriesnyder2157 thank you 😇. I believe that now, but it's still a hard pill to swallow. I feel comforted in all the love I was given and still receive from my Dad.

[@MajinZushi]

I love the Laws of the Universe. I Love the Higher Self. I Love All of You. I Love GOD. I Love. I am Loved. I Love Life. Life is so easy. Life is about Evolution. Life is full of Wonder and Bliss.

[@daryljohnson1507]

❤❤❤

[@Felipe-zl1rj]

The laws of this universe are quite awful, look at how animals have to kill each other for survival. And love doesn't really exist in this world, maybe in some other reality. Cute words don't change the reality of life.

[@MajinZushi]

@Felipe-zl1rj You don't even know the Laws of the Universe. You Talk of the physical Part of Nature that has nothing to do with the Metaphysical Laws and The Quantum Realm. Study the Laws of the Universe First and Stop living in Fear. GOD Bless You.

[@floridas_own]

After I had my spiritual awakening I was in a great place getting closer to living as my true self. I tried to reconnect with old relationships enthusiastic about showing who I’ve become and where I’m going! My ex and I have been dating again and I can honestly say I’ve taken steps backwards. From mocking my spiritual growth to where I don’t talk about it anymore and now dealing with bad attitude which drains my energy. I’m trying to get back to where I was and this video was what I needed to hear. Sending beautiful energy to all. Remember you’re amazing and love yourself.

[@betterliffe]

Remember to take care of yourself

[@fireblade8905]

Leave your ex and get back on track

[@kajolsharma8840]

Same here mate. I was on a wonderful path of learning, filled with enthusiasm, love and compassion for others. But then I didn’t get the promotion I was promised and everything went downhill after that. 3 weeks have passed but I am unable to get back on track and needed this video. Trying to truly follow Krishna’s advice-“karma kar fal ki chinta mat kar”, lose translation-“do the tasks you need to do without the aspirations of the fruits it would bear”

[@valeriesnyder2157]

@@kajolsharma8840the promotion wasn’t for your highest good, there’s something better coming in for you but you have to stay positive. Sending you love and best wishes for the position your supposed to be in ❤

[@yeebba]

Same about the ex thing. We broke up since getting back together and I’ve found peace again. Sometimes people don’t fit into your journey any more and that’s ok. Sending lots of love your way!

[@leafyveins4985]

It's to understand that none of us ever get to "have" anything. You don't get to "own" anything. What you want is to perceive it and be able to perceive it forever. Which you can't do if you're carrying it on your back. And you can't move forward at your own pace if you're focused on looking at it and carrying it. So let it go and it will dance alongside you. Sometimes ahead, next to, or behind. But the one guarantee is that if you keep holding it so tight, you're going to break it.

[@jamesmurphy8676]

Great comment. Have you been enlightened?

[@leafyveins4985]

@@jamesmurphy8676 I have no idea! 😆 And I'm having a good time answering that question every day. Thank you for your comment 🪶

[@karenjackson9692]

I’ve said many of the same things over the years and I live in bliss. Our joy comes from within and not from external stuff. My needs are basic and I’m thankful for my simple life. Great video

[@betterliffe]

Love that!

[@MoeJusNiks]

I am only learning to detach because I can finally love myself. And the more I love myself, be kind and follow my heart and the flow I have been given the more I trust and the more I let go. It's been a proces and still is but it is building more trust in me and the universe. Being in your truth.

[@betterliffe]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Wade2ReaL]

That inner truth is absolute 💎💯

[@betterliffe]

🤝🤝🤝

[@nikkiagumbs1973]

Wow! I was having a full on meltdown because I really want something that I’ve envisioned for years. It popped up exactly when I needed it. ❤

[@betterliffe]

🙏🙏🙏

[@man_made_marsupial]

Dont chase.... attract. Let go.... Of the idea of lacking. It will manifest if you allow it.

[@marisolavalos-ic2vv]

I’m realizing just now how I am desperately in need of detaching myself from anything that is not serving me anymore but causing more grief than anything . For me to no longer carry that identity of playing the victim .❤

[@M.M.Mask83]

I need to detact from a ex gf we recently split, but its the same feelings of hurt and anxiety from any ex gf so its not about the person..its in me and its something deeper so im really looking into my inner self so i can gain freedom from any attachments that dont serve me

[@davidvitry-ferreira9575]

I just want to say thank you for this video

[@betterliffe]

🙏

[@pattyberryman3037]

The Beautiful Beings of Gaia would like to thank Better Life for your service. We are forever grateful.

[@betterliffe]

Your are most welcome

[@daryljohnson1507]

I Am now in a state of studying myself on this very subject... Thanks family, I believe we all are one 🙏🏾 💯

[@shadowsoul7626]

Thank you ...your words are universal sent. I'm coming out of a 5 year narcissist relationship and trying to know I was never loved and beaten emotionally. This is the part of my healing to let go...work with the universe to heal. If anyone is in Victoria BC and would like to support each other if you are dealing with hurt. I'd be willing to share the healing

[@betterliffe]

Glad you liked it! Unfortunately I'm located in Iceland, but it's great to reach to people that have a similar attitude towards life.

[@shadowsoul7626]

@@betterliffe thank you for your content. It's been very helpful and healing

[@valeriesnyder2157]

Go into the woods as much as possible it truly heals us . Sending you love and light and hugs

[@truechamp3404]

How are you doing now?

[@njnikusha]

Let go people, anger , all the pain I have and peace it has brought to me is astonishing

[@Flow_ridah12]

It’s not the outcome that defines us but the journey and growth along the way 💯

[@VeilTitans]

Forgive N forget so you can receive Gods blessings.

[@JimCalhoun-c9g]

Forgiveness is letting the prisoner go and finding out that prisoner was me.

[@Gameking92888]

​@@JimCalhoun-c9g😂😂 bullshit

[@johncarter1150]

God is a mirage... don't attach to false thoughts or ideas.

[@letitgoc.7551]

I’m working on my last year of masters of social work and my anxiety has been spiking. Listening to this made me see how I’m so focused on the end result (getting a degree ) rather than honing my skills as a clinician to grow in my career. It was such a gentle reminder of my worth as a person regardless of my degree and the worth of those that I work with. It’s such a privilege to serve others and I think I was forgetting that.

[@betterliffe]

Thank you for sharing such a profound reflection on your journey. Your insight about focusing on personal and professional growth rather than just the end goal is incredibly valuable. It's wonderful to see you reconnecting with the deeper purpose of your work - serving others. Your ability to pause and reflect like this speaks volumes about your potential as a clinician. Remember, your worth isn't defined by your degree, but by your compassion and dedication to helping others. We're honored that this video resonated with you during this challenging time. Anxiety can be tough, especially during such an important phase of your education. Please be kind to yourself as you navigate this path.

[@LegitimateMan]

This is true to a degree. Just because you let go doesn’t mean you will get the thing. You might you might not. It helps but it’s no guarantee.

[@betterliffe]

Absolutely, we also agree that this is not a guarantee, only a path that will bring you closer to the reality you wish to manifest

[@rust7012]

I went through extreme forms of abuse, torture. I had to rely on myself internally from getting out of this. This is what my intuition has known and relied on from my own self. You can figure this out on your is if you truly are desiring becoming a better version of yourself. Doing this is the only way of reaching the highest version of you, For many it seems harder than the end, but it’s 10x harder to do, but the outcome is 100x better and worth it than the journey of obstacles it takes to get to that point. Don’t let that stop you. I hope this helps other people see their own internal selves, and let go anything. This can include, attachments to identity. That’s one of the biggest attachments anyone can have. Being attached to your identity to the point it’s holding you back. Show yourself love. Understand you can receive your full potential. And release.

[@betterliffe]

Wise words

[@valeriesnyder2157]

How were you able to do that? It’s hard to leave my great grandson and his mother Any advice ?

[@rebeccamcneill6602]

Profound insights, thank you!!❤❤❤

[@betterliffe]

♥️ Thank you for your kind words!

[@keiladasilva8523]

Thank you for this!! ❤️🙏🏾

[@marigoldpluss]

Time to let go and let God here in sw Florida. 🙏🌊🙏🌊🙏🌊🙏🌊🙏 good video thank you

[@betterliffe]

Yes! 🙏✨🙌

[@bnorrod32]

Such a profound, powerful and beautiful message, thank you for sharing 🙏

[@MatthewGillespiedj]

This was something that I had learned before yet forgot since. Thank you.

[@betterliffe]

Glad you liked it!

[@kenny99888]

Thanks, I needed that 😊

[@ClintonFloyd-uk4ub]

I finally learned to let go.😊 I love your videos they are very helpful. I hope you have a wonderful day with peace and love ❤️

[@betterliffe]

Thank you kindly for your comment

[@dxavier.S]

Dude, they kept saying let go, give it to a higher power etc. It finally clicked a bit more, but I think youve illuminated a path for me that was dimly lit before

[@TheDivineTruthofHEART]

For most of my life I wanted nothing and had everything I wanted Few years back when I left work for Gods calling, I was not progressing as quickly as I imagined I wanted to fulfill my souls mission so desperately I saw I had stopped fulfilling my mission

[@Gray-xo7xn]

I realized that I didn't release everything I thought I did. I struggled to figure out what it I was holding on to. Then, a situation happened, and it brought back feelings that I had to deal with.

[@Chhunumunu]

Best video i have ever seen for detachment

[@yashashwinishukla326]

Acknowledgement Self-Inquiry Processing Attachments Taking creative action Embracing freedom Thank you so much! such a lovely video. Just needed. Regards. 🙏❤

[@betterliffe]

You are welcome!

[@rodrequizerhodman6630]

ASÉ. THANK YOU. I AM GRATEFUL.

[@ArtemBadalyan-yc7oi]

My dear Universal family members. I’m pretty conscious enough more or less to align with all your words of Universal process of cause and effect. I feel very extraordinary and happy. Love and Light!

[@goldenretriever4330]

Holy. Some absolute banger tidbits of knowledge here.

[@veearya562]

Dear Better Life, nice video and this is something I absolutely want to master because when we attach, we limit our ability to live in the present moment. I believe we need to respect and trust in the universe and detachment is a great way to do that. I'm also a big believer in the journey versus the destination. Attachment is the destination and too often we focus too much on the destination. Surrendering to the present moment is so powerful!

[@betterliffe]

Thank you for your kind words and for sharing such a beautiful perspective! You’ve touched on such an important truth: the power of living in the present moment and trusting the universe. Detachment is indeed a practice that allows us to align with the flow of life rather than resisting it. I love your point about focusing on the journey instead of the destination-it’s where growth and true joy happen. What helps you stay grounded in the present moment as you practice this detachment?

[@veearya562]

Practicing daily meditation and implementing ways to be more mindful is what I am doing right now

[@Meowsmeows9292]

Best video I’ve ever seen honestly. Found it just at the right time. Thank you 🙌

[@betterliffe]

Glad it helped!

[@clementekpo7606]

Thank you for this 🙏🏼

[@betterliffe]

Thank you! If you liked this, please check out some of other videos and feel free to subscribe ☺️

[@jeffreyhotchkiss2153]

A good reminder, but I struggle to zero in on exactly what I’m attached to, though I know I am suffering greatly, but this was a helpful reminder. Thank you.

[@Dhay69]

Thanks!

[@betterliffe]

Welcome!

[@QueenC1111-cn7mh]

This video is amazing and so important. ❤

[@betterliffe]

Thank you so much for the kind words, what spoke to you most?

[@JonBestSpiritualCoachonEarth]

I feel it was a wonderful piece. Well thought-out. "Joy and resilience" is brilliant!

[@6AxisSage]

its true, i meditated on it for a year and now ive solved all the problems i ever dreamt, explaining it, thats the hardesr part 😅

[@CalebMansfield-ie3uz]

just got heartbroken I fought and fought but the moment I gave up and accepted it I started feeling better And hope to use this to become better

[@betterliffe]

Have you noticed that the moment of acceptance was actually the beginning of your healing? It's fascinating how letting go, even when it feels like giving up, can be the most courageous step we take. Your journey from fighting to acceptance really resonates with me - would you be open to sharing what that turning point felt like for you? Sometimes our deepest pain can become our greatest teacher, though it rarely feels that way in the moment. 🤍

[@CalebMansfield-ie3uz]

@betterliffe the pain was to much I lost my job started drinking a ton lost several pounds and finally I gave up on it accepted it and hope she finds peace to ( the breakup was something neither of us wanted ) The next day I got a job offer pays twice as much and I finally slept for the first time in like two weeks and it still sucks but it's so much better when you don't fight it

[@BensonBenji]

Pictures are truly remarkable.

[@betterliffe]

Thanks!

[@g7enn89]

If you involve your self with life especially of others, drama/attachment comes along with it. That's why I don't involve my self with their BS and toxicity, its way more peaceful and free.

[@betterliffe]

There's wisdom in protecting your peace, and it's great that you're aware of what drains your energy. I'm curious though - have you found ways to stay connected to others while maintaining healthy boundaries? Sometimes our greatest growth and purpose can come through meaningful connections, even if it requires careful discernment. What does that balance look like for you? 🤍✨

[@lancefurcinite6518]

Good video,with some very important points . Definitely worth watching,and acting on.

[@betterliffe]

Thank you so much for watching and sharing your perspective 🙏✨

[@Sirdzie]

This episode complement very well with chapter 12 of psycho cybernetics ❤❤❤

[@betterliffe]

Haven't read that one, gotta check it out

[@nicki3668]

Thank you, I'm detaching from the outcome, I have a tree that needs felling and I'm anxious for it to go well without problems. It's been difficult to get someone to do it. Every experience holds value, I can not control the outcome, I have to let go ❤

[@betterliffe]

Best of luck!

[@noahlapuz3853]

I honor the multi-stage approach.🙏💎🤗❤

[@boayden9971]

Thanks for this. I am trying this. And your video is going 2 help me with my Journey. ❤☯️☮️

[@betterliffe]

@@boayden9971 It's wonderful to hear you're putting these ideas into practice. Every step on your journey matters, and we hope you find continued inspiration and growth! 💫

[@boayden9971]

@@betterliffe Thanks. I also hit the🔔 on your channel.

[@light-shadow-1968]

Good elucidation, it truly helps me in my journey at the moment… more power & hopefully more people will learn from you ❤

[@betterliffe]

So glad!

[@Henry-hp3kl]

Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@CharlesEvans-fj6gl]

i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

[@Henry-hp3kl]

wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him?

[@CharlesEvans-fj6gl]

Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment

[@CharlesEvans-fj6gl]

you can look his name up online and you will find all you need.

[@Henry-hp3kl]

Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.

[@d_shuffles]

The algorithm knew this was on my mind and recommended to me twice today

[@sudip39]

Hare Krishna ♥️

[@J.R-b9s]

Terrific video. Thank you.

[@betterliffe]

Welcome

[@Landekar]

Thanks, AI generated text, AI Provided narration, AI generated imagery, AI generated description. Very authentic to listen to

[@betterliffe]

Oh wow - i didn’t realize I was AI - this is news to me! Are we in a simulation?

[@BarbaraScott-i1i]

Sims

[@johnnygonzalez544]

I have spent many time trying to get over all of my mistakes in all the attachment that I've been having sometimes it is very hard to deal with regret not a lot of emotional issues to go with it I'm just trying to be present and to be better thank you

[@friedasiseho6669]

Thank you for sharing this educational , valuable information.

[@ChrisJansson-g5c]

AUTO REFLEX. AND LIFE. MAKES IT HARD TO LET GO! BUT PEACE IS AT THE END! THATS RANGER SCHOOL

[@densedecisions4568]

3:12 I don't want to enjoy what is good, but be good at what I enjoy. This iseaoriginally spawned to me from food, but it applies to other areas

[@densedecisions4568]

I really did like working/ctrl f-ing on that exam and quiz

[@Lone_Star86]

Don't Chase, Attract. 🙏☯️

[@betterliffe]

Exactly 🤝🤝🤝

[@kenny99888]

It sounds like this applies to me. I will try these steps. 🙏

[@pharaohosam]

While I don't buy and cannot reconcile the idea that you can just selectively detach from outcomes and otherwise still feel a deep sense of caring and connection with things in life, I do think it's vital that we avoid attachments anyway... to as many things, people, etc. as we can. Detaching is worth losing any of the positives associated with feeling attached to this world, to your ambitions, desires, wants, etc. It's inevitable that you'll be attached to things like family, if you grew up with parents around for example. You didn't know any better growing up. But attachment is never worth it, because it's inevitable that the majority of the time, the outcomes you desire will not come to pass. Do not add to the few inevitable attachments in life by bringing in other attachments that are not necessary. I am currently learning to let go of certain lifelong attachments that are not resulting in the outcomes I desperately desired and efforted towards. I value myself too much to be a beggar to that which is not completely in my own control. One sign that you are successfully detaching is that you are no longer praying/hoping/wishing for things. You realize that if you have to do such things, they are typically unlikely to happen. You realize it is best to focus on what you can control, and do so without caring enough to be attached.

[@betterliffe]

We’d like to invite you to a deeper consideration of the perspective you’ve shared. A few questions - 1. You mention avoiding attachments to as many things as possible. But doesn't this risk missing out on the richness of life experiences? How might we engage deeply with life while still maintaining inner peace? 2. You suggest detachment is worth losing positive feelings associated with attachment. But what if there's a way to experience those positives without the suffering of attachment? How might we cultivate joy and connection without clinging? 3. You state that attachment is never worth it because desired outcomes often don't materialize. But isn't personal growth often born from how we handle disappointment? How could we reframe our relationship with outcomes to focus on the journey rather than the destination? 4. You mention no longer praying/hoping/wishing for things as a sign of detachment. But couldn't these activities, when done without expectation, be forms of positive intention setting? How might we maintain aspirations without becoming attached to specific outcomes? 5. You suggest focusing only on what you can control. While this is wise, couldn't we also find value in how we respond to things outside our control? How might we cultivate resilience and adaptability in the face of uncertainty?

[@Freudster21]

Everything is temporary in this life, it is fleeting and will come and go, jobs, family, friends and worldly possessions. You can still love people, and careers and activities and things, and yet still be detached. It is a pure form of love, there is no ownership and it is aligned with the inevitable loss of said people and things. Living in the moment fully and appreciating these gifts that we get for a moment. When they are gone you will already have known the nature of all things was temporary to begin with and there was nothing to be done. When it is your time to pass you can also be detached from this physical world and effortlessly without anxiety pass to the end of this existence. This is freedom from desire of outcome, you can still do your daily tasks and work towards goals, but what will happen will happen. You simply are, it’s a stoic way of existing and it is hard to do, because we are wired and conditioned by our emotions to stay attached and react to undesired outcomes. When you can really get outside of this default state and mindset, you really become at peace with it all. You lost your job? Your girlfriend left you? Your friend passed away? You loved all of those the same before they were gone, and you can love them the same afterwards, and not be affected to such a negative degree, because you loved but were not attached. This doesn’t mean you didn’t care, or are a sociopath or something like that, you simply understand the true nature of life and are at peace and at one with it. Life is chaos and all things will change, nothing stays the same, so you just ride the wave and go with it, being the best you that you can be.

[@Kat-TraversingTheUnknown]

Thank you ❤

[@Joshy2-SF]

I remain detached by simply asking myself " what do you want?" And I reply "I do not know" because whatever we think we want, we probably don't really know.

[@betterliffe]

At what point do we begin to have clarity on what it is that we truly want?

[@chazzat3113]

​@betterliffe good question, I'd like to know that.

[@gunka13]

Well that was interesting...I just watched a video before this one on synchronicity and have recently been getting back into Ram Dass lectures as well as out of "nowhere" studying the Bhagavad Gita. This video has been sitting in my watch later for who knows how long and I just happened to watch it now while also immersing myself in a flow state while making art which is something I have been struggling to reconnect with and trust in giving my time to. I had been thinking about making art as a ritual act and offering and here you mention it. Ah the timing. And in addition I have to admit that even though I have read a lot about these concepts I have always been a bit skeptical and unwilling to put any effort into it while all the while I have definitely complained and not gotten anywhere. What does it all mean? I don't know yet and that's OKAY. But clearly I am getting a message, maybe now is the time to listen to it FINALLY. Namaste.

[@betterliffe]

Yes! It’s perfectly OKAY to not have all the answers - that acceptance is actually part of the journey! The fact that you're seeing these connections now suggests you're entering a powerful phase of spiritual expansion. Keep flowing with your art and letting it become your meditation. Watching your consciousness unfold is truly beautiful. Namaste ✨

[@NeilRaouf]

life is a miracle

[@betterliffe]

🙏🙏🙏

[@lesleyM84]

this being a human being on this place, in this reality, is astonishingly tricky.. and mostly treacherous.. staying present, with a smile, as much as i am able to…..

[@DanielHayes-p2u]

I have had many successes by pursuing my desires with a burning passion. My desire was like an endless fuel motivating me and making me productive. And I can't think of worth while successes I have had where I didn't have desire. So for me this isn't true

[@betterliffe]

You make an interesting point about success and desire. It reminds me of a garden - sometimes the flowers we carefully plan and tend grow beautifully, while other times the most stunning blooms appear unexpectedly in places we never planted them. I'm curious what experiences have shaped your perspective on this? And have you found that different types of success feel different to you when you look back on them?

[@wagwanbennydj6003]

Your voice 😍

[@OneGreatitude]

Salamat. Namaste

[@praveening]

If one can be selfish, detachment is not a problem. In attachment, one at least thinks about his family. In detachment, he thinks about none but himself and his detachment from the cycle of life. Have you ever seen a detached person free other people along with him from the cycle of life? Any person who starts is path towards Spirituality, detaches himself from the material world. For who's good? It is for his personal needs to detach from the cycle of life. It is for his personal need to be part of the celestial beings. Moksha is singular. If teachings can lead the pathway to moksha, why help people with disabilities and ailments? Why help the poor? Why help anyone? Just give them instructions on what has to be done and leave their helplessness to themselves. Attachment in detachment is the key.

[@betterliffe]

If you become the best version of yourself you give more back to the world

[@MKVSHOES01]

❤😂

[@AfridShaik-sx9rg]

This is just a teaser. To truly understand, read the forbidden book Whispers of Manifestation on Borlest and find out what's concealed from us.

[@ladyoflight9452]

Who's the Author

[@sonyatafolla1674]

​@@ladyoflight9452Scam bots at work

[@catshup0821]

Scammer alert

[@catshup0821]

Afridshaik is a scammer

[@shreyanshdas7481]

Amen

[@zex0472]

I realize a daily struggle I encounter is the "romantic" situation. I see myself constantly thinking about talking to girls though I just seem to lack the confidence. When in a group or with other friends, I have confidence and am capable of talking and joking around very well. Though when alone and want to approach a woman on the street or outside, I can't seem to be able to do it. Mainly because I feel like I am being too pushy, or I don't have a logical reason to annoy that person; so by not doing anything, I kind of "protect" myself from such situations. But I always seem to feel bad and feel void for not doing anything. This made me more "attached" to my previous relationship, mainly because it was a relationship, nothing more, but u still want to fill that void

[@mysticaloracle7]

Sir is teaching vedant here. ❤

[@paulfalchi9548]

I Love You All!

[@valeriesnyder2157]

Love you too❤

[@smithsanderson]

Nice bro 👌

[@kylemeis5455]

Anyone interested in moving past desire, look into the Hawkins Scale of Consciousness and how to use it effectively. “Spiral up, keep going”

[@जोगारामपंवार-प2भ]

there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal

[@stanlyEM]

Any interesting quotes?

[@lets_wrestle_kid]

@@stanlyEMdon’t worry it’s a scam

[@cagada]

nice try diddy

[@catshup0821]

Scammer alert

[@dawnkirke2094]

Great video!

[@betterliffe]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@damiensandone2000]

One of Western civilisation’s most significant events is the Age of Enlightenment in the 18thcentury, a period which undermined the values that society had hitherto relied on, namely, on the religious view. This engenders the most profound cultural, sociological and psychological repercussions, leaving many facing a crisis in discerning a meaning or purpose for their existence and struggling to tackle the problems in living that this gives rise to. While we previously had ready answers to the problem of how life ought to be lived and what its overall meaning and purpose was (since faith in the existence of God gave us the reassurance that we are partaking in a divine project) we are now slowly experiencing the consequences of what Nietzsche proclaimed as the death of God, whose full consequences would elude many people as he made clear: “This tremendous event is still on its way, still wandering; it has not yet reached the ears of men… This deed is still more distant from them than the most distant stars - and yet they have done it themselves.”

[@ShambolicNate]

going thru the EXACT same thing that this video is talking about. LITERALLY VERBATIM… i’m terrified 😅

[@betterliffe]

Truth is universal, your understanding of your truth is a gift that will be revealed in time 💫✨

[@martinsantiago7900]

Learn to let go. Trying to gain something by letting go seems to defeat the whole purpose. Let go, and it won't affect you the way it wants to

[@betterliffe]

What in your life has tried to affect you in ways you didn't want it to, and how did letting go change that situation for you?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

[@martinsantiago7900]

career decisions are often made by others. I spent so long trying to meet others' expectations, struggling to thrive in a field I knew little about. I kept complaining all this time but eventually realized that complaining wouldn't change anything and from now on, whether I succeed in this new field or just cry about my lost potential in some other field depends entirely on me. this isn’t just about career choice, many of us let others make decisions for us and complain when they turn out to be bad. Learning to accept things as they are and moving forward is a life skill everyone must develop

[@betterliffe]

@martinsantiago7900 Your journey touches on something so profound - the shift from external validation to inner authority. What's especially powerful is how you've recognized that complaining was actually keeping you tied to those old patterns. This is real spiritual alchemy - transforming frustration into wisdom and victimhood into personal power. When you say "Learning to accept things as they are and moving forward is a life skill everyone must develop" - this resonates deeply with ancient spiritual teachings about acceptance and non-resistance. It's not about passive resignation, but about finding the power that comes when we stop fighting what was and start creating what could be. The way you've connected your personal career experience to a universal truth about how we all sometimes give away our power - that's the kind of insight that can help others wake up to their own patterns of external dependence. Have you noticed other areas of your life where this newfound wisdom about acceptance and personal responsibility has started creating positive changes? Sometimes when we have these breakthrough realizations in one area, the ripples of transformation spread far wider than we initially expect. 🌟​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

[@AgostinoDiGiorgioJazzGuitars]

Let it Happen

[@maharadwan9911]

NAMASTE' 🕊🕊🕊🌺🌺🌺🌲

[@darcydistefano363]

I;m desperate to get my health back. I've been home bound for 3 years with Long Covid. I hope this helps🤞

[@lobsterman2313]

Alan Watts is the master spokesperson on letting go.

[@terencehennegan1439]

When you have concern for another’s wellbeing it somehow detaches you from them because it’s unselfish.

[@betterliffe]

When we let go of our own ego-driven desires or expectations for how we think someone should be, we open ourselves to loving them more fully as they are. This "detachment" you mention could be seen as a form of spiritual freedom - freedom from the need to control outcomes or change others. In the journey of personal and spiritual growth, learning to balance compassion with healthy boundaries is key. It allows us to care deeply while also respecting each person's individual path. Thank you for prompting this reflection. Your insight aligns beautifully with the idea that letting go - of expectations, of the need to fix or change others - can paradoxically bring us closer to our deepest desires for connection and understanding. Has this been your experience in your own relationships?

[@terencehennegan1439]

I failed miserably in my past never understanding the importance detachment is to one’s overall wellbeing. I attached myself to everyone and everything and failed consistently all because of NEED from childhood. Only now “ at 69” am I grasping its full meaning. This video has helped a lot in my understanding of detachment. True Love is being detached contrary to what many believe.

[@BizzleyBear]

Sometimes I wonder if we dont understand desire. I hear this & idk how important it (desire) could be. Where do dreams stand in this all. I just see ppl talkin ab desire, I haven’t gotten thru the piece^ yet. Been thinkin ab that stuff a lot

[@nothing-b2n]

It's the key to God