BF Cheated & Got My Sis Pregnant. So I Left Him but Mom Insisted Me to Forgive Them, So I Cut My...

BF Cheated & Got My Sis Pregnant. So I Left Him but Mom Insisted Me to Forgive Them, So I Cut My Family Off for Years. After Reconciling I Found Out Mom Had Been Sleeping With My Ex's Dad.
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0:00 - Story 1
15:45 - Story 2

[@DarkEinherjar]

Of course the mother who sided with the cheaters turned out to be a cheater herself. Cheaters ALWAYS have each others' backs.

[@onlittlecatfeet]

Always suspect anyone that defend, downplay and persuade you to forgive a cheater

[@inacook2285]

Yes, ALWAYS!!!!

[@victoriakiteley8337]

As well as those who associate with cheaters as well

[@low-keydrama1260]

Story 1: It’s not only just the ex cheating. It’s the fact that OP’s inner circle (especially her mom and sister) did NOTHING to comfort or support her. And what a surprise, Mommy Dearest ended up being a cheater herself.

[@gostavoadolfos2023]

Thisi s fake based on an old reddit famous story (legit story). The writer used most of the details and redditors assuming their is a swinger relationship between the 3 friend families to justify them ganging up on OP and supporting the BFF affair daughter and foring the bf to marry her.

[@justinyu5892]

At least her sister grew up and realised her past mistake, while her little brother grew up to be a decent person and was not influenced by the mom.

[@awoosh13]

@@justinyu5892 Yea I agree. To be fair to her sister, she was young. As a teen, you're impulsively selfish. I'm sure she just was worried about her own relationship and fearing that it would end if all of this was rocking the boat. Good on her for maturing and realizing her wrongs when she became an adult. SMH at their mother though. Acting like a child at her grown age.

[@tracisr]

Op 1 is way too forgiving. I would have acted like i didn't know who my sister was when I saw her at Disney.

[@calico_queen8976]

FR. "Hey sis, sorry I wasn't there for you when your BF knocked up your best friend cause I was too busy trying to get laid as well. " OP's first mistake was talking to her sister when her sister was an active participant/enabler of her abuse.

[@amandaelmer5533]

Can we stop expecting people to "forgive and forget" when the other party never apologized? You don't have to pretend nothing ever happened to move on.

[@NadiaGirl1]

Thank you

[@NadiaGirl1]

Right plus how do we know that the ex friend will go and try to take OP husband.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Story 2 is a no brainer. The rule for naming children is simple: two yeses, one no. If one person vetoes a name, it's out, PERIOD.

[@brookelynnenewcomer943]

I also did the scream it rule.

[@jayewrite1256]

I remember my mom talking about what names they had come up for me before I was born, ultimately I’m happy having been named after my great grandfather (variation at the least) instead of something like Samual with Sam being the more common thing people would call me. I was like 14 at the time when I heard that name as it’s what my mom really liked, and just straight up told her I am so happy you didn’t name me that. Maybe rude to say that but I know for a fact I’d of had more problems at school had I had a name that sounded like a girls.

[@SweetLikeChocolate1101]

​@@brookelynnenewcomer943 What's the scream it rule?

[@brookelynnenewcomer943]

@SweetLikeChocolate1101 it's basically take the first and middle name you like. And you scream it out like you yelling at them. If doesn't sound right or if you can't say it don't use it. It's how I picked my middle child name.

[@hiddencrystal1316]

​@@brookelynnenewcomer943 oh I know that rule by comics 😂😂 so that's what it's call, I never knew it was a rule lol

[@sierrastanley3109]

Story 1) crazy and I think I've heard something similar to this before. Story 2) sounds like the husband was more freaked out about "becoming" a father that he hyper fixated on the name but when the baby actually came and was there it relaxed him and that's why he folded so easily to naming his daughter Ella.

[@carolynehrensberger2162]

Maybe he “caught” pregnancy hormones. Really funny situation to laugh at, but not to be involved in. Must have been so frustrating.

[@Alice15210]

Yeah story 1 sounds too similar to the other one. Even thought it was the same story

[@reck9614]

@@Alice15210I know exactly what story this is based off of. I think the account here probably took the story and changed just enough details and then reposted it. Because some specific points of the story are just to similar for it not to be a repost.

[@Captain-si7du]

@@reck9614most of this channel’s stories are made with AI based on other stories on Reddit, it’s not the first time they’ve done this

[@FlamesAndShadows]

@@reck9614 Good point. Maybe. Thought it was a copy-pasta myself.

[@cryptid2923]

It feels like the mom was trying to coach OPs response so if her husband found out she could be like "look! Your daughter moved on, you should too"

[@smorphous8928]

Story 1: the irony of cheaters its like they they act like cheating is a one time thing but Op's mom has been doing it for 25 years under everyone's nose, and with her husbands best friend. And the fact she wants her husband to "forgive and forget" is insanely narcissistic, and downright emotional abuse. like did she really love her husband within those 25 years or was that just pity and lies?

[@BelgotLeons]

Story 1 aint no way the relationship survives the double divorce/betrayal 😅

[@jeffjeff-nu7jt]

story 1. the sister and husband should get a dna test there is a change they might be siblings

[@Rj-ij6ko]

Man…one day i hope toxic people realize that when you spend years being an abusive POS, sometimes there are consequences. Op’s mother is a MASSIVE POS and it’s not surprising why she defended the cheater

[@Muichirotokito-1f]

What a round about story about a untrustworthy boyfriend sister and mother

[@skillyfullyfun]

Bro it just came out what are you talking about😂😂😂

[@skeleton_flowerx]

There's other stories exactly like this ​@@skillyfullyfun

[@someguyinhawaii]

man watched it in 22x speed

[@Muichirotokito-1f]

I didn't type this I just got on my phone

[@sharkeatinpizza]

​@@Muichirotokito-1f yeah ok bud, really tryna pull the "my brother was on my phone" bs lmao

[@virgilhawkins7368]

Normally I'm not in favor of people reconciling with toxic family once they cut them out, but in this case if OP hadn't, they never would have found out about the mom cheating.

[@pushkarkirola3668]

Lol that husband was trolling till the end Stewarta.

[@Natashalive5050]

Story 1 the dad needs to get a dna test on all 3 of his kids

[@emmaengqvist5178]

Especially the sister; what if the sister and her husband (Becky's brother) share a dad (Becky's dad/mum's AP)!

[@demonic_myst4503]

Whats pount on this tho their all adukts so not like he paying child suport and they all on his side so besides the sister who needs check herself the only reason for hin to insist on it is if he plans be an ass to them and disown them over their morhers actions

[@heartmint7364]

story 2: i got a friend who's name is (translated to english) "a man named lastname". his brother name is "my son is lastname-man". when i found out about his full name (they go by nickname), i told my mom the story. she suddenly said "hey, isn't that the name of (famous singer name)'s kid?". so that's the day i found out that my friend is the equivalent of North West (Kanye's daughter) of my country

[@charitabletrader1581]

Story 2 has such a wholesome conclusion. 😊 Good on the husband for letting it go and agreeing with Ella. ❤️

[@nekorei2023]

What the hell 😭 might as well be a soap opera

[@rebornhydro1090]

story 1 is wild

[@dealwithit9772]

So the whole family was dating the bfs family? Gross. I wouldn't date the brother of a guy who might end up being my inlaw

[@t900HAWK]

As someone named after a fucking country yes it’s extremely annoying to have to explain my name every time and it definitely got me bullied a lot. “Yes it’s spelt like the country. No I am not from there ”. My grandparents named me and my mother didn’t have a choice as the grandparents name all first born males in the family ( which is really dumb considering they live in another country and they never visit)

[@16xOrion]

What country is it?

[@lth4133]

STUARTA! 😂

[@That_butterfly_guy]

Bro has the lankybox upload schedule☠️👍

[@skillyfullyfun]

💀 remember when your comment gets famous

[@nekorei2023]

LANKYBOX IS CRAZY HAHAHHAHA

[@emmaengqvist5178]

Story 1: Let me get this straight... • Sister + B's bro = married w/ kids • Mum + B's dad = 25 years of cheating I feel like OP and her siblings should get DNA tests, especially the sister. What if the sister and her husband is related, they might share a dad! 😱

[@littlesan2474]

Honestly, I'm always happy to see when there's no continuation to a story. It's nice to think that things cleared up for these folk and life genuinely got better for them.

[@thunderpants3500]

You can't mulligan 25 years of cheating/supporting cheating

[@verygooddeal4436]

1st story - OP and her siblings should get DNA tested 2nd story - whats wrong with Alex and Alice. Those are normal names. But at least he agreed on a normal name in the end

[@rswaggz12]

It was the way they were spelled (Al-X) and (Al-S)

[@verygooddeal4436]

@@rswaggz12 oh ok thanks i misunderstood that

[@rswaggz12]

@@verygooddeal4436 no problem. I’m glad I could help

[@leamubiu]

I’m glad I powered through the tangled relationship chart of Story 1, and got to listen to the baby-making mess of Story 2 😂

[@nejet2188]

My dad forced my name on me, ignoring my mom's thoughts she gave me my middle. I've had to explain my name my whole life.

[@memeboyr6177]

Im sorry, but Stuarta? Do you want your child to be bullied?

[@lowqualityrodentrandomness]

Op in story 1 is way too forgiving, would've gone all out on dissing them all you don't need a toxic family like that at all not only that there's a chance that op's sister could be related to her husband so that absolutely sucks for them

[@samuelbcst]

Stuarta is savage. AHAHA But hey at my country you have Eduardo and Eduarda.

[@katiegarcia1524]

For Story #1. I hope OP’s dad gets a DNA test done on all the siblings. Because if the mom was cheating for 20-25 years, and OP’s sister(depending on age) married the son of OP’s mom’s AP🧐…. Yea…. Appalachia hills have eyes😓

[@ImmerGenau2624]

S2: I actually had a situation where they couldn’t agree on a name. My dad started just vetoing all the names mom would suggest. Finally Mom had to give an ultimatum that if dad couldn’t give a name it was going to be the name I now have. Clearly he never did.

[@FluteMusician]

damn so they really named you Immer Genau.

[@TREBORisME]

@@FluteMusician I fate worse than death.

[@ImmerGenau2624]

@@FluteMusician yall have my fiancé and I dying over here laughing.

[@akasiadiabi]

2nd story : I hope you name your daughter Stacy, cos stacy's mom has got it going on.

[@sanddagger36]

anyone who wants you to forgive without any context is usually projecting

[@mygingerbreadheart4037]

Reddit just pulls the trigger on unstable situations and airs all toxicity out

[@etainvelorum5814]

I would've simply told the mother in first story that there's a difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. Forgiveness is for the person who was wronged. Reconciliation is for both parties. Forgiving a person does not mean you have to be near them, talk to them, or be friendly. You could very well ignore their existence and still forgive. The mother had no right to pressure OP for reconciliation and assume it's the same thing when OP is practically traumatized.

[@YukiFrost-rg7vy]

Stacy's mom killed me bro

[@becausemynameiscommon5609]

I agree with that last comment on story 2. Naming a kid directly after you is hella narcissistic. On another note, Stewart?! That's not even a good name.

[@f687sNFM]

The narcissism reeks in story 2

[@greatnate9492]

Story 1: yup same thing happened to me except it was my dad, not my mother. They always preach Christian values but end up cheating anyway. That's a Christian for you.

[@sali668]

For story 2 I am named after my father and I find that there has never been a problem except for when my mom calls from another room for use and either the wrong one answers both thinking she’s calling the other one or we both answer a the same exact time and she gets mad😂

[@nathaliebazinga]

How narcissistic do you have to be to name your children after yourself...

[@Tyleya]

This story was WILD!!!! Mom is a sneaky conniving person. I hate that nobody understands what you are going through until they go through it. Good on dad for coming around but I would not have much sympathy for mom cheating on him.

[@Rinefi]

her husband and brother are absolute MVPs

[@samoea19]

Story 1: Oh so NOW dad understands what she went through 🙄

[@DeathNoteMaker]

Story 1: If there’s one thing those tables do, it’s turn! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Not so easy to just get over betrayal now is it? Story 2: Stuarta? Heck no! Trying to have your child bullied I see. Good on mom to choose another name!

[@luna_beam]

Second story reminds me of when my family tried to named our orange cat Garfielda before we found out 'she' was a 'he'

[@lucifermorningstar2505]

Op was stupid for letting her kids meet the mom without given time to get along

[@Moodyman90]

1st story: heard this before here, been a while but don't think it has a new update since last. 2nd story: holy crap that's a horrible name, full stop. I get wanting unique names and all and I get (but don't agree with) him wanting it to reflect him but don't go inventing new ones for your own ego.

[@reillycurran8508]

S2: I object to the idea that you can't EVER name a kid after someone, but I think the ideal is someone who's been long departed by the time the kid arrives so that everyone's had the time to grieve and the kid can carry the name as their own without any expectations on their shoulders. As an example, I wanna name my first son after my grandfather, I don't even have a long term SO yet, so that kid is gonna be well removed from any pressure by the time they get my grandfather's name. Also my grandfather's name is an actually good one on its own, bit folksy but it's the kind that sticks out in a good way.

[@KuramaKyubi9]

My parents couldn't agree on my name, even 2 days after my birth. Last night in the hospital, knowing thry have to sign my BC before they can leave, still can't agree. TV is on, and Cheers pops up, they both like the show, and the lead actor in general. Both instantly decide to name me after the main character. So I was named Sam. Could have been a lot worse, I could have been Norm.

[@penguinpingu3807]

Story 2: The surname is the family's name. So, it definitely his ego

[@RavenDarkHeart1]

Her ex and friend horrible but her mom is a massive hypocrite

[@hannahhicken346]

Story 1) Is no one thinking that the 2 married couples could be siblings

[@NourAmsterdam]

First story: everybody involved expect for OP, are completely deluded! And they all got karma when the secret affair came out. Yes even the sister.

[@TTVKingSlaysTV]

Kids probably aint even the dads.

[@zombinosh]

Ì heard another story like this where all of the adults were swingers.

[@cre4ch]

I’m ngl, stuarta is a NEFARIOUS NAME 😭😭😭😭

[@KristinieC]

I bet they probably call her Stuarta as a home nickname lol. My uncle calls me Momo and it’s nowhere hear my name lol

[@bryn1063]

Ops a bigger person than i. Id never forgive them.

[@mattiasxxxx7096]

no one gonna mention that many of them could be Siblings unknowingly ?

[@SilveryBlue1010]

Yeah... Someone got the cheater's gene but fortunately not OP.

[@skillyfullyfun]

Bro has 50M lives cuz of all of these videos 💀

[@reillycurran8508]

"I assume OP doesn't want to be Stacy's mom." WELL WHY THE HELL NOT‽

[@jerrycarver5469]

In your second story my parents had 9 kids . 2 being named Johnathan,and 2 named James.

[@yunarukami6161]

Lesson learned: Never be friends with people called Becky. Their named that for a reason

[@chessieray1465]

Momma would have gotten the dragging of a lifetime. All the hypocrisy and enabling was just projecting.

[@cryptid2923]

Something off with ppl nowadays forcing their spouse to try and give the kid theyre name to "honor them" youre not a king or a warrior you dont need to be honored in your kids name technology literally exists youll be fine

[@benitomartinez2106]

I love how once the child was born she said Ella and they both feel in love with it. Also alot of hate for people passing on family names damn.

[@viv7810]

There are crazy stories of people that make arguments for baby names, especially when it comes to family heritage.

[@kidm0bius190]

Story1-fake fake fake

[@kidm0bius190]

Story 2 is also fake fake fake.

[@BoopleSnuffeGaming]

Hitchens' Razor.

[@AniLuver1]

For story 2 I'm going to have to be slightly biased... Yes, naming your kids after yourself is a bit narcissistic. But I and my sister too are products of such naming conventions. She's named after our dad, (shortened/nickname version). Think Alexander turned Alex. And me after my mom, longer version of her name. Ex. Beth turned to Elizabeth

[@rimurutexts]

It’s not weird to have a family name. My grandfather, uncle, and cousin all have the same first name but go by their middle names so it’s not confusing.

[@max4377jk]

13:02 😂😂😂😂 That genuinely made me laugh

[@Bolpat]

I could imagine naming by son after me using a version of my middle name: Theodore.

[@user-zp5cy9hf6p]

I will only forgive after the person whi made the mistake apologizes truthfully and tells me what they are apologizing for then again affairs usually go on for months at a time and mistakes only only for a couple seconds or minutes

[@demented-dede]

On the second story my father was named after not only his deadbeat dad but also after his alchoolic and abusive grandfather needless to say he Is just bearly ok with his name

[@darkshadow2679]

In 2nd story the commenter wild about the "Stacy mom" joke It's from the song Stacy mom

[@behlm5015]

If the mother and Becky’s dad marry each other then the sis has a child with her step brother I hope they not marry cuz it would cause so much drama

[@gotenblack2542]

another dumb story but still always fun to watch

[@user-iw2kg3xk1g]

I thought namely your baby girl Gertrude was crying

[@RavenDarkHeart1]

Her parents are terrible despite having a close relationship with the both families does not make the baby her grandchild

[@bitviper3430]

Since when was is misogynistic to want your kid named after you💀

[@newvision4l314]

Kid already gets the fathers last name, not fair to have the first name too. And it’s a stupid name on top of that.

[@skyro656]

On story 2 Neither my parents nor i are the kind of ppl to name the kids after them I mean, my name is not hard to tell the meaning, nor the historical context... The hard part is telling the "Chronicle of a Name Foretold" since it was all bc of a dream my mother had

[@mikethoroughgood16]

That story reminds me of another story mom wasn’t a cheater but the op of that post she left her family when her ex bf knocked her best friend up she got little to no support and in fact on the day her best friend gave birth they went out drinking to celebrate the new baby she left after making sure her family couldn’t find her and she met her future husband had a few children and long story short she met her family again and her mom was so insistent that she forgive cheaters downright she was attempting to bully that op into forgive the cheaters it kinda broke the family apart this story is so similar apart from the mom for all I know wasn’t cheating on her husband

[@timtompkins8774]

Story 1: So is Becky's dad also charlies (OP) dad?

[@user-pf9yt7oy4d]

S1: there’s something seriously wrong with OP’s mother. She needs therapy ASAP b/c clearly there’s something mentally wrong with her, lmao.

[@ELITEPIRATESHARK]

Stopping kids from saying first

[@sierrastanley3109]

Practice what you preach hypocrite

[@funtimegenshin6973]

Story one people should start getting dna test just in case they are related

[@hannahsmiraculoustextingstorys]

Story 2: I don’t mind the idea of name your kid after someone because of the fact that I actually want to name a future son David after my dad who passed almost a year ago.

[@PeacheZ716]

Stuarta is willldddddd 😂😂😂

[@roabarton7962]

Pfft Stuarta?!

[@samantha1102]

My sister was named after the nurse who delivered her

[@fnaffnafgames7874]

I like the texture you used

[@stxrm101]

ngl Ella is cool asf atleast better than stuarts

[@inacook2285]

I love this channel ❤️ 💕 ♥️

[@ScanTronIndustries]

Waiting for that updating saying Rob and Becky are half siblings

[@TYShawn0521]

“Why name the child after the father? It’s a bit misogynistic” no it’s not? Like what? And why is everyone say “why is so important that he’s honored” why do you care? His name choice is stupid but why do you care so much that he be honored? I haven’t finished the story but that’s such a stupid thing to be upset about some people really need to go outside. Even in the end everyone’s like “oh he’s so self centered that he just goes with any name that sounds similar to what he wants” Or or or, and hear me out You don’t actually know him or what he was thinking and he probably liked that name🤯🤯