Big Girl Charlee Fears Rejection from Blind Date😱 | First Date New Zealand

Charlee is scared that her date might think she isn’t skinny enough.
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[@jones2277]

he's a nice guy. i don't think he did anything wrong. he treated her like a human even though he wasn't into her romantically, and he was honest and didn't string her along or insult her.

[@lovesphynx]

I agree lets be honest PREFERENCE PEOPLE

[@MechPhoenix]

That's not nice. That's normal

[@envymem0re]

its the way she acted. she gave him the ick with her behavior and immaturity and he was automatically turned off and felt a friend zone vibe

[@dtosmanm4743]

it was the size

[@kostapapa1989]

Trust me if a top model acted like her or worse he would still be all over her drooling !!!😂😂

[@shadesofthecityky8082]

@@kostapapa1989 completely, it will be described as quirky and fun but not insecure lol

[@stevenaitcheson6938]

predatory more like.

[@Jay-oh1li]

It's impressive how well he played that date out while not being attracted to her from the start. In most cases you'd see awkward silence or one of them go make a phone call in the bathroom.

[@SkyePhoenix]

He had a camera in his face.

[@lizzyvermaak8415]

He's very clever, polite and tactful 😎. ❤️

[@Lizbeth36961]

He’s a gentleman, treated her with respect. The way you would want other men treat your sister, your mother, or your daughter

[@akirrat9216]

I seriously thought he was into her.

[@irlandaise5631]

same I think deep down he is open and said take it slow so he didnt shut her down even the bad manners and weird comments. I guess he could always tell her. I really thought he was into her somehow, but watching the video closely again when she made the burp joke , you see his face slightly changing. I did ask a man out once who otherwise gave me this smile and eye but he was taken! no ring though but like him was polite but still if he was single , I do think he would have said yes. I dont have bad table manners and manners though lol

[@krisarbuckle]

Homestly, as large woman myself, I was cringing at so many things she did. I felt that he was charming, gentlemanly and very gracious to her. If she wants to attract a man, be your true best, not try to be cringy and think of it as cool.

[@Chloe__________xx]

Agree. I have a friend who is now skinny after being a larger lady her whole life and she still has no luck in love (it’s her behavior like this lady) & I have another curvy girlfriend who has never been rejected in her life, most men don’t care much about our size as much as we think of it 😅 I actually got more attention when I was 26kg heavier 🥲

[@apexoldguy]

she comes across as not being very self aware

[@whale6144]

Perfect Gentleman... And I'm so glad he told the truth.

[@RHathemoment]

I just wish he had gone first in the 'see you again bit.' 💔

[@francinariske9896]

She acted more like a friend, and became one.

[@bananaman8479]

What confuses me if that she said that she’s not insecure about her size but then says things that confirms that she’s insecure about her size

[@akirrat9216]

You can accept yourself and still be sad when others aren't as accepting..

[@kosmicinclinations3333]

She said she's ok with herself but it still hurts

[@Leoviliti1]

When you believe as she does ..that all a person sees is her size ..she feels she's got to say something about it before they do ..as coming from herself will hurt less.

[@alcami100]

the excuse every single obese person gives. Don’t lie to yourselves you know that if you are overweight you are going to feel insecure. She could just do the right thing and loose weight

[@jojobee42]

If you wanna be friend-zoned on your first date, do everything this woman did on her first date! The poop jokes, the burb jokes, eating a bone of meat like that in front of your date, even talking about her breasts... These are things you should leave for a long-term relationship where the spark is already gone. And for the record: Nothing to do with her weight! She doesn't see her own behavior and then just puts the blame on her weight...

[@dtbristol]

She's obviously a woman with "issues", and once you settle into a relationship, her problems become yours. Worse, you could be the one blamed. Men overwhelmingly want peace, and it's doubtful you'd get it with her.

[@catarinarosario9867]

the spark should never be gone!! maybe you mean for the early stages where you are trying to impress your partner.

[@karenslovelymess2538]

The way she held her fork would have been a deal breaker for me.

[@Smallmanbigworld1]

Has tons to do with her weight.

[@beckstyles3467]

okay jojobee42

[@deelite5176]

There’s a mechanism in us that does not allow us to be attracted to everyone. If we were, we would be screwing everybody. Never take offense to somebody who doesn’t find you attractive. Consider it a blessing that you find out early on, and you can move on. I do like the banter between these two they were very cute in that way.

[@homodeus8713]

She’s was not even trying to be attractive.

[@SongBillong]

Spot on. Very mature, intelligent comment!

[@lovelyshirl]

Where did she learn her table manners?!? Not to mention the weird way she holds her knife and fork 😲😲😲

[@cb4017]

Ugh I saw that too 💀

[@charmingSaint]

She's one of the guys at the local pub, and she needs etiquette classes on how to use silverware finishing school.

[@isay207]

And better hair😅

[@slevinlindsay3624]

He was so diplomatic in his answer.

[@OTR392]

Being on TV will do that to a person

[@hhippofresh4537]

Ribs on a first date is WILD!!!

[@moreofawave]

And the first thing she said is she didn't eat much and she eats these Flinstone sized ribs.

[@CA2SD]

She gave him a card...ate ribs like that...asked for a kiss on the cheek...asked to meet for coffee even after he said he wasn't interested in a second date. It has nothing to do with her weight. There was just nothing left to the imagination. He seems like a good person for being honest, paying for dinner, and giving it a fair chance.

[@Boyzee355]

He had no choice but to pay since she just carried on eating her desert giving that her full attention in the moment…. She could have at least acknowledged the bill- god sake what’s wrong with these people- mind you we just saw it

[@rachelbailey-no2pp]

​@@Boyzee355It shows he's decent by not expecting her to split the bill. It's how he was raised.

[@keifer7813]

Lol the weight absolutely had something to do with it, come on now

[@LMLification]

@@keifer7813He probably would have at least overlooked some of her indiscretions had she looked like at least a 6 or 7. He really wanted someone to lay and calculated how long it had been. He just simply did not want her and knew it when he saw her at the bar of the restaurant.

[@MechPhoenix]

She's not used to be approached and thinks she has to try hard and make the first moves. It's sad

[@allyjoy5943]

It really grossed me out to watch her eat. I can’t stand when people Don’t close their mouths when they chew.

[@mymobile5014]

Yeah attacking your food and chewing with your mouth open is a deal breaker for me

[@Foofightersgirl666]

She annoys me 😂 I don’t know how, but she makes me cringe. Her personality to her look, I just don’t like it.

[@lammcmahon4917]

And the noises that go with that

[@MiBzAn]

Awkward alternative big girl here who literally looked like her on this date a few years back. When you're a big lass, sometimes you get friend zoned more often than regular girls and you tend to fit in best "with the boys" - so you pick up habits that make you more "brutish/butch/masculine". She relies heavily on humour to attract mates because it's how she attracts male friends and they're her best friends. So she doesn't understand that there's a difference and that she needs to try to put the nerves aside, let her sweetness through, because she is pretty, she is deserving of love and I think she's funny. ❤ Good luck babe! ❤ You'll find the man that loves your quirks and marrow munching heheh xoxo

[@lebambale]

Good point! We all look for features that signal 'the opposite gender'. Altering one's representation goes a long way.

[@Laura-tp8wz]

What a gracious post. Blessings

[@OTR392]

That was very well put, thank you

[@haroldsingletary8005]

Fifth grade boy behavior, a total lack of table manners and absolutely no couth….three strikes and you are out sister!

[@doradebosco]

This was cringy to watch. Watching her devour her food, eat with her mouth open and lick her fingers was gross.

[@Susweca5569]

She was not a "small eater."

[@kostapapa1989]

Not for me. I like women like that. Not pretending. I just would not be physically attracted to her and not bc of the weight just not my type. Her childish personality does not bother me at all

[@Beth1300]

Mouth open and licking fingers is very gross

[@tyrionlannister521]

Agreed. That was difficult to watch.

[@user-nq4xi9bj4v]

Her table manners are repulsive and the toilet humor is childish and cheap. She is better than that or she should strive to be better than that: elegance and mystery will always be captivating, no matter your size.

[@subtitlesonplease]

When you reach a certain point in life, you’ll realise that being happy and authentic to yourself, is more important than trying to fit into this perfect little box set by society, or impressing strangers who don’t even care about you. Many people only reach that point in old age, then regret holding back and caring too much. She’s a free spirit and it makes her happy. I guarantee that there’re plenty of men who will love her as is.

[@Mariamariamaria617]

Nothing to do with age, but with good manners and self respect. She doesn t have none. Anyway, they are quit young.@@subtitlesonplease Age isnt a escuse for god sake.

[@akainikki]

Smart guy. He knew exactly what he had to say for the camera and audience to not be hated on.

[@patrickwilson2474]

I must say he was the most polite 'rejector' I have seen this far on first dates New Zealand. It was so obvious she is not somebody who appeals to the masses physically. Lovely lady and I'm sure she is fun to be around if you're in the same circles. But unfortunately being an interesting, quirky character has its downsides. You kind of need to find somebody EQUALLY as interesting and quirky as you, which can be challenging

[@MaverickLee11]

totally agree, he knew the moment he seen her but he never let that stop himself from having a good night for both people involved. He handled it so well that even the date at the end insisted on meeting for a coffee sometime lol

[@irlandaise5631]

yes and even his eye and smile made me think he was into her !

[@jay-lm4we]

Plot twist, he's not on Facebook.

[@doraafrick392]

The licking the fingers and ripping into the ribs like that was gross. No wonder she is single.

[@maryhamilton6582]

Wow!couldn't get over the way she ate that rib!

[@anne-mariezack]

It’s the licking of the fingers that was cringe for me That’s what your napkin is for

[@MaverickLee11]

woah, must have missed that part..

[@monique287]

Me too 👍

[@vixoncakes]

“I am a small eater” yet gorges down a ton of food licking her fingers and the only one eating a plate of dessert

[@rachelbailey-no2pp]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@mariepennington1749]

Yuk

[@rachelbailey-no2pp]

@vixoncakes Nothing wrong in dessert 🍰 if that's what she wants

[@Яблочный0]

Don’t be so unkind

[@LMLification]

Lol. In HER mind, I that dinner was a “small eat.”

[@melinmove]

I think working on her self esteem, self worth and self love would be a benefit, she comes across too desperate. Instead of worrying what everyone else thinks of her, she could find out what she actually wants, needs and values in a relationship. Fair play to the guy for being respectful throughout the date, but i dont think he has any intentions of adding her on FB lol

[@LMLification]

Exactly, you can tell that he basically wants nothing further to do with her. If he had really wanted to keep in touch, they would have added each other on Facebook right before walking away.

[@kostapapa1989]

Unrealistic. I know many unattractive people who tried that and it did not succeed. They are still single. Looks play a huge role even if people don't want to admit it. Even if someone has a positive self image altough not attractive that does not mean the people whom s/he likes will also like him/her back. At best s/he would have to settle and end up with people s/he does not really like. That is life.

[@LMLification]

@@kostapapa1989 From what I’ve noticed, people who are self-confident while being realistic about what kind of person they will likely attract have general success with finding someone for a lasting relationship. Those who are unrealistic, expecting a specific kind of person, are likely to be disappointed. With this woman, I think she just wants someone who cares and has put appearance as a non-factor because she is aware of her situation. If she could continue being realistic, drop certain bad habits and add a bit more positivity, she could find someone. She already knows not to expect Prince Charming, whereas some people in her situation remain in denial.

[@annetteyoung6676]

Um I don't think I can handle watching anyone rip a bone like that

[@laurastuart3814]

This poor man. I am so glad he maintained his dignity throughout.

[@goldengoddess1723]

This is so akward even the way she is holding her cutlery is off putting

[@red2lucas]

How the hell is that guy still single?

[@maddyedits01]

May have high standards 😂😂😂

[@lexiemaep7930]

He isn't my type. He looks like a good match for her

[@Mariamariamaria617]

Well..he is not handsome, not to me.

[@jasbelial3943]

Who wants a dude who has the need to spread his seeds everywhere? Big red flag.

[@faustopacheco120]

@@lexiemaep7930 he's out of her league

[@jampotblair]

I’m a small eater had me 😂

[@seeleygirl6178]

I’ve actually known bigger people that didn’t eat that much. Not sure about her tho.

[@mimig6511]

She is dreadful...how humiliating for her.. He was very charitable to her. Attractive lady...but the childishness...no

[@michelericci2862]

Painful to watch this one. The awkwardness, horrific manners, bad jokes, disgusting eating, chest exposure...he was very gracious in maintaining a smile. It was almost like they were punking him 😖😬

[@Jg-ww7rr]

Seriously 😂

[@Queenatlarge]

Really? I thought it looked fun and quaint 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@RHathemoment]

I thought she was incredibly sweet, I felt sorry for her.💜

[@ToFunForThis]

@@RHathemomentno she was too comfortable lol she couldn’t read the room.. he was nervous 😅

[@Carito_ech]

@@RHathemomentdid you see how she ate?

[@NaneelQueenOfDarknes]

Naw, it's the blue hair molitov cocktail of a karen hair cut XD

[@SQUELCH-zj7il]

Yeah can us ladies unanimously agree to Never chop our hair and dye it unnatural colours? It's just not attractive at all

[@alienblackgoo_gle]

Living with a daughter who has severe misophonia makes me extra-aware of grotty eaters! And she is a grotty eater!! How she holds her cuttlery is really unfortunate too!

[@debrakennedy8369]

Who taught her to hold a fork?

[@bloochoob]

A farmer? 😮

[@KatarinaIshii]

The main thing I found uncomfortable is that she didn’t put money on the card and expected the guy to pay. I do prefer if the guy pays on the first date (just personal preference) but I will always be ready to pay in case.

[@CHIPICHIPICHAPACHAAPA]

''im a small eater'' are u sure baby

[@kathleenb3096]

table manners matter.

[@Roastedpotato1441]

The look at the end that she made when got rejected ouch I felt that

[@brigs1856]

They are both great. No spark but great banter. I wish them both happiness!

[@rumbarumba1]

Exactly she will meet the right one for her, she is who she is with no apologies.

[@TaraTiaraBell]

He’s actually very handsome and seems like a decent lad.

[@jay-lm4we]

4:50 "im a small eater"😂😂

[@traceyarnaud8433]

Well she did gnaw on that bone til it was pretty small 😊

[@Carito_ech]

😅😂😅😂

[@LisaRichards_123]

How do you get to know anything about someone when all you do is joke around?

[@joeburr7537]

"I'm a small eater" 😂

[@michelericci2862]

I had to rewind bc I thought I misheard her 😬

[@Boyzee355]

Small eater?? That’s what I thought she said! O. K. Only you say so. Clearly NOT

[@SkyePhoenix]

Maybe she meant on a date?

[@mariepennington1749]

😹😹😹😹😹😹

[@Carito_ech]

I know… I was like… seriously!!

[@loulouedmo]

He goes home and deactivates his Facebook!

[@CC-2020]

Lol

[@geewizlana]

This guy got screwed.... and not in the way he wanted😂

[@emmy166]

I couldn't cope with the finger licking

[@bmartina7772]

yeah😂🤮

[@skyepalmer5719]

He wasnt enjoying the view😮

[@Life_with_gratitude]

Lol, yeah, she was delusional

[@Jg-ww7rr]

Why would she eat like that on their first date. I'd be so grossed out.

[@rachelbailey-no2pp]

I would if I wanted to put a guy off 😂

[@Kat-mu8wq]

Why should she pretend to be something she isn't? If this is how she eats, this is how she eats.

[@Jg-ww7rr]

@Kat-mu8wq Yes, pretend to be something you're not. How often do you see your kids' teachers? Or co workers? You're not just going to walk in like u just got out of bed. Or talk to them like you would family and friends, or even have the same mannerisms. When you meet someone for the first time you want to make a good impression. The best thing you can do is conduct yourself in an appropriate manner so it's not uncomfortable. it's courteous.

[@Mariamariamaria617]

Agree! Horrible and rude!

[@Mariamariamaria617]

Yaaa, being naturally rude and out of elegance. Give me a break!@@Kat-mu8wq

[@glosske]

Damn who is this gentleman hes a dream!

[@angusmatheson8906]

Harley. He's my friend. He played the lead on the NZ horror comedy movie I Survived A Zombie Holocaust.

[@xoxsilentrealmxox]

He has such an attractive face.

[@shorty3552]

She was so cringe.

[@ShizukaRose]

“I know you’re probably enjoying the view”

[@jojobee42]

Such weird things to say...

[@MaverickLee11]

that was the cherry on the cake. desperate need for validation.

[@Carito_ech]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Mariamariamaria617]

So gross!

[@LMLification]

The least she could have done was worn a more modest outfit with her torso covered, let alone avoided discussing her body.

[@tulumbordon5242]

This guy is so kind!

[@stevenkass6154]

"Actually, I don't have any money on me" - Hmmm. Seems like she expected him to pay. Good thing he didn't say the same thing. It felt like friends from the beginning.

[@ComputerUserGhost]

I think she said "actually I haven't put any money in there". As in he took the bill away before she got a chance to put her payment in there

[@LMLification]

@@ComputerUserGhostYeah, that was what she said. She was too busy scarfing down her dessert to move quickly enough.

[@PurpleGold.]

I feel sorry for her. She seems a little developmentally arrested and lacking in social interaction skills. He’s looking for someone who is a professional classy lady. His poetry would be what intellectuals appreciate, her poetry would be feminist propaganda. They both got played by being matched when it was obviously not going to be a good fit for our enjoyment. I found the whole thing cringe and sad.

[@ElectricShark]

She had social awkwardness for sure. I thought her looks were fine. She had a quirky style and I personally loved her clothes and makeup. You could tell she isn't socially adept. I felt bad for her too.

[@mickham]

When she said she wanted to go on a second date I was like whhhy? You don’t know anything about him because the whole night was about you. There should be a cringe warning before you start this video 🫠 it was that bad

[@EitherBendToTheTruthOrLiveALIE]

The hair is the first red flag 🚩

[@alexmalatestas4120]

I actually think, although she was playful...she was trying so hard...that it felt forced and unnatural

[@MsNZgal]

Oh Poo! Shame this did not work out for them. Maybe chewing on a bone on the first date may not work. lol. He behaved like a gentleman. I do hope she finds love eventually.

[@bmartina7772]

Is no one gonna mention that date, turd poo card! I think that was awful 😂

[@robertgelblum5154]

The young lady has tons and tons of personality. It was obvious that she really liked him, and she was trying extremely hard to make him like her. Her strong personality was definitely making an impression on the gentleman, but I could see that physically she simply wasn't his cup of tea.

[@Mandaxx25]

Way too hard unfortunately. She has the same amount of personality as anyone. She just lacks the wherewithal to know when is too far.

[@RHathemoment]

Exactly 💔

[@goldengoddess1723]

His face literally cringed every time she made a comment. He wasn't as shallow as you are. He clearly was turned off by her raunchy behavior.

[@jubernardi23]

@@goldengoddess1723💯

[@Mandaxx25]

@goldengoddess1723 not being attracted to someone isn't shallow. It's a very important part of a relationship and if it isn't there it isn't there and that's ok. Preferences are valid.

[@CMM726]

Why do they set people up who are on different levels of attractiveness? It’s really not fair to the participants.

[@fatcatontario]

The editing around passionate and goal-oriented woman is spot-on😅

[@spiritedaway99]

ikr,passionate abt finishing that meat lol!! i dont think ppl should order that on the first date tbh,doesn't look nice

[@cassandrabuitron427]

They did her dirty with these edits.

[@jojobee42]

Wonder what they left out?

[@MaverickLee11]

thats very true, maybe its all the action points @@jojobee42

[@MaverickLee11]

true too lol

[@traceyarnaud8433]

Well I think she could have done a little self editing and she would have come across a lot better. I liked her though

[@cassandrabuitron427]

She was being entirely herself and I applaud that.

[@carlydubbya7620]

The gnawing on the bone... just, no...

[@masimmomasimmo]

This looked like a Comedy movie

[@christinawau]

Oh word the way she was attacking that huge bone.....this was so hard to watch. From the jump though they were not compatible she said wanted kids right and he didnt want them any time soon.

[@Kat-mu8wq]

He may wish to change his mind. Male fertility starts decreasing at age 40.

[@shannondeasishughes4283]

He’s not sure about the second date and keep it on Facebook for the moment 😂😂😂😂😂

[@xenondoro8573]

The blue hair is huge red flag lmao.

[@dynamicforce8051]

Short hair, blue hair and excessive laughter need to go! Also to be more lady like and have good table manners would help. Exposing her cleavage like that and still pointing it out is also a terrible thing to do. He’s a gentleman, he’ll find someone easily

[@MaverickLee11]

finally, glad somebody agrees with me

[@rachelbailey-no2pp]

She's very child-like for her age. She laughs at things a 9 year old child would laugh at. Her clothes don't flatter her huge frame either. With the right outfit she could've made herself look alot slimmer. The blue hair is what you would expect from a teenager. She seemed more focused on poo rather than her career and life. He was letting her down gently by leaving it as facebook friends.

[@Ljounieh]

Her hair is awesome. The 50's are over

[@spectatoryoutube]

Definitely agree, great comment!!

[@silviateixeira8386]

OMG the way she eats the bone . it´s embarrassing to watch.... You can see she´s passionate about food!

[@Berighteousone]

So he's not a match and she'll find someone that enjoys food as much as she does

[@jojobee42]

Yeah I had to look away when I saw that... Doesn't help that I don't eat meat, which only made it worse.

[@MaverickLee11]

could have told you that before seeing her eat..

[@MaverickLee11]

wants to hope so, otherwise she gonna be eating with cats @@Berighteousone

[@doradebosco]

She's a small eater lol

[@jennifergraham5801]

I think with blind dates the producers should ask if he likes plus size women as well.

[@SusanGFoxyMama]

there's just certain foods you shouldn't eat on the first date lol

[@jojobee42]

"I'm actually ok with myself" ~ well, obviously not...

[@xoxsilentrealmxox]

TBH the first thing that put me off about her was the short blue hair. I don't know any man that would find that attractive.

[@bloochoob]

Yes sort of shorn cockerel parrot chicken hatching out of an egg hair style isn’t great, but blue hair girls do get boyfriends 😊

[@Beth1300]

I think she overdid it with laughing and joking constantly, so they couldn't have a proper conversation, but first dates are hard and it's a struggle to be yourself when you're really nervous.

[@yorkiemom4272]

I could barely watch. It's one thing being heavy, but the horrible eating manners. Licking her fingers was bad enough, but was that a bone she was gnawing on. OMG. I wanted to leave after that. 🤢

[@htid43]

This was so awkward, she acts like an adult baby 😣 even the way she was holding her knife and fork was childish, if she thinks her weight is the issue she is sorely mistaken lol

[@user-fm8br2my4n]

She is a disaster

[@meggriffin4802]

I don’t care what you look like if you have bad table manners and eat with your mouth open it’s a no. It’s a huge turn off. Luckily I’ve been married a long time and he has good table manners

[@Laura-tp8wz]

I wonder if she is self-sabatoging herself because of past rejection? Wish her the best 🌸

[@mosthated863]

"I was gunna eat it but I'm a small eater" 👀😳

[@ShizukaRose]

Awkward

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

Painfully, I was watching the clock on this one

[@sunnie734]

I'm confused. It's very normal in today's society to look like her, yet she speaks like she's a social outcast. Also, she didn't bring any money?

[@LMLification]

She mentioned that she didn’t put any money in the bill holder, as she was too busy scarfing down her dessert to move before the waiter took the payment away.

[@caterinadelgalles8783]

If she were thinner, she would have got away with more, but the eating.....bless her...this guy is a true Gentelman.

[@mstokes8785]

:( why act as tho he's into her if he isn't? U could see the exact moment he crushed her, i know that feeling way too well 💔

[@adedut8134]

She’s very pretty honestly just needs to dress for her body type and be a bit more lady-like

[@SkyePhoenix]

She needs confidence. That's it.

[@FeminineLogos]

well she is not, but she can be polite and respectful

[@Kat-mu8wq]

I'm not changing the type of clothes I like for anyone. Neither should she.

[@allyshadhawan7402]

The comments did not fail to disappoint me

[@Lunaowe]

She's definitely how my date would look like 😂😂 If I had two words to explain this is "All shits and giggles"

[@jromeo8247]

Poetry is awful on a date. It's torture

[@userrrrr12366]

I think she thinks she's way more glamorous than she actually is. It definitely comes off all so odd. The table manners were atrocious and she just was not acting... Attractive. The cringe is so loud

[@Jasminerogers865]

I hope she was just really really nervous and this isn’t how she normally acts…

[@flowergirl7260]

She's a wonderful woman and exactly right for someone out there.🌻

[@samsongomah1318]

Typical sisterhood trope. Blue hair, nose piercing, chin piercing, inappropriate clothing, poor table manners, and bad jokes at 35 years old means single forever.

[@stephmtl3447]

@@samsongomah1318 go back to your incel forums

[@samsongomah1318]

@@stephmtl3447 Clearly, you are lacking information on what marriage-minded men want. This woman does not present herself as marriage, wife, and mother material. You are free to ignore the obvious and resort to insults, and I suspect your insults are more an externalization of the unhappiness you are feeling in your own life. If you are anything like the woman in this video and you are single, then insulting people who point out the obvious isn’t going to change your own circumstances. I can see an unhappy 2024 in your future.

[@scrimbo5319]

@@samsongomah1318Maybe she doesn’t want to be a wife and mother? Not every woman wants that. Not every woman has to be or can be “wife material”.

[@samsongomah1318]

She said in the video she was looking to have children.

[@nutrition.elements]

Poop joke was lame

[@SweetLivingByGrace]

Why did she eat ribs for dinner?!?! Ugh!

[@ceciliapuime4038]

His not interested his body language say it all.

[@jacquelineadams8363]

Sorry Charee I don't see him connecting with you romantically. Keep looking, I like your hair and style overall. I wouldn't eat anything with my hands though on a date I want to impress. It doesn't look refined.

[@vambo13257]

the blue hair is a non starter, ridiculous

[@malenahernandez9377]

Hell no! A 35 year old student????? Doesn’t even how to hold a fork. Eats like a caveman. Blue hair feminist but doesn’t want to pay. Men should pay, by the way. He didn’t have to doubt. But damn! So awkward.

[@katechipata9934]

Her hair is giving Kris Jenner vibes. She could pass as his mother in their photo 😢 Why were these 2 matched together? It doesn’t make sense. She should have been matched with a man who has tattoos and a Mohawk, who talks loud 😂🤷🏾‍♀️

[@MaverickLee11]

truth

[@kfitz192]

Malarky

[@Ou8y2k2]

Yep. Crap matchmaking in NZ again. Phone up Fred or the British matchmakers.

[@MaverickLee11]

lol isn't fred just the front house servant @@Ou8y2k2

[@mamathemeat]

Yeha they don’t look cute together at all

[@kosmicinclinations3333]

Why is she eating like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂