(S6E1) Christian Parenting • A Discussion | Biblical Womanhood • Trad Wife • Homemaker

[@Offthebeatenpath.]

Hair?!!! I’ve missed your videos!

[@keke4realw]

Details needed

[@jordanlee5586]

Yes!!! Loving your new cut! Happy to see you back 🙏🏾

[@TruthBecomesHer]

Did she for real just not even mention it?!😂

[@levienny3577]

Why should she - it's her channel!

[@BelovedbyHim]

There is a video on her channel…

[@Ms11519]

The hair is giving, the skin is giving and welcome back ❤

[@FFJanenk]

God has entrusted me with three boys. They eat from the same pot, but they are different. With our first, I thought I was in control, then the second one came and made me realize how much I needed God. As a first generation born again Christian mom, sometimes I get tempted, trying too hard to be the best mother, but I'm learning to let go of things only God can do, and concentrate on what I can do. As a parent I think I should do what the Word of God tells me to do, but leave the results to God. Some of the seed may not show fruit now, but when they are older. Our children, just like us have a will too. I'm trusting God to help me not to be a stumbling block, or the one to make their hearts hard towards Him. Thanks for sharing and your dedication.

[@Afrodite96]

Ahhhhh! Your locs😭 they were so beautiful! Change is cool too though! Can’t wait for the premiere

[@nicolcacola]

"Do not weary in doing good" The Lord has been teaching me in this season of life that even when we parent right, it doesnt mean we will get the fruit of that labor from our children outright. Doing what is right in the sight of the Lord is our duty even when our hearts break from wayward children. Loved this episode, it has lifted my spirits ❤️

[@grace0195]

I love your new natural curls, they're so beautiful and healthy😍

[@georginakaye1021]

I thank God for your presence in my life Bindi! As a mother of two girls myself, your videos first and foremost remind me to recommit myself to to the Word of God, from which all good things come.

[@prodigaldaughter5978]

I love the TWA! I love your content too! Can never have enough biblical teaching! I am a single mom waiting for the Lord to bring the right man along. Your teaching has been very helpful for me in this current season. Thank you for what you do

[@AshH8898]

I hope you don't mind my unsolicited advice: Instead of waiting for God to bring the right man to you, focus more on building yourself to be the right woman for that man. We're all trying to get it right, and we got this!

[@Kra-ri6fd]

I was a single mom for about ten years but then my husband came along. He stepped up to the plate, a plate that's not even his. But now we're about to have a baby girl (he and I have had all boys) together. Good men are still out there. Hang in there and God bless.

[@prodigaldaughter5978]

@@Kra-ri6fd awww I'm so happy for you! Praise God! Thank you so much for the encouragement

[@jennybillen5430]

Thanks for this. I pray this teaching for women is brought into churches here in uk especially accountability to make sure we serve the lord without distraction. Thanks for this video.

[@je.mulannnn]

My roles in my life may change but my identity in Christ stays the same. I wrote this out for myself as I made notes from watching this video. It's really good to think about where I am and what I believe regarding this topic.

[@LtrishaMartina]

Bindi I love your hair , you look so beautiful , God bless you! I’m not a mom yet or a wife but I love to learn from Christian couples for future reference , I’m taking advantage of the time! 🥰

[@JozelleRenia]

Love this for you ❤❤

[@sarahparis8235]

You and me both, girl! It’s sad that studying this stuff isn’t the norm when single, but finding this channel has been a huge blessing! 💕🙏✨

[@LtrishaMartina]

@@JozelleRenia thank you ❤️🥰

[@LtrishaMartina]

@@sarahparis8235 I know, I live in America, I heard in the 1900s up until mid 1900s they had etiquette and homemaking classes mandatory for women in schools. And of course I’m sure it was based on Bible principles. I took cooking classes in school in the late 2000s but it was one semester. I wish they had it for the kids these days. We could use it for this generation ❤️

[@sarahparis8235]

​@@LtrishaMartina It's actually cruel that this education isn't provided for children/young adults. I was journaling about this last night -- How you'd never put a young woman into a white jacket and send her straight into an operation if she wanted to be a brain surgeon -- She'd go to school first and learn about the job, and in doing so decide if she's really up to it -- But people think nothing of putting a girl in a white dress and sending her into marriage/motherhood with little to zero preparation. I grew up in a pretty abusive family, so maybe there is more education given to some girls, but I definitely have friends who are eager to get married, but it's all based on the idea of having a Disney style romance where someone loves and basically fawns over them all the time forever -- Which honestly isn't even a mature image of what any relationship should be, let alone a marriage with a mature man. It's no wonder there are so many divorces in our country. Makes perfect sense actually. Praying for you on your journey! 💞💞💞

[@rachelbriscoe9421]

We dedicated our children at church this last weekend, and they gave us this book!! Excited to read it alongside you.

[@fabiolasalomon2520]

The build-a-bear analogy reminded me about the Mother of Jesus and how she raised him: She didn't mold him based on how she wanted Jesus to be, because at the end of the day she was raising the Son of God. We are called to raise sons and daughters for God, and God will mold them in the way the He wants.

[@Kara-yc7lm]

Love this. I’m pregnant with my first and def need some recalibrating in my parental framework from what I know in my family. Just downloaded the audio version!

[@natak3705]

Wow, what a book! I am definitely interested in reading this. Thank you for sharing.

[@leirno]

This was really, thank you Bindi for putting your thoughts in these subjects for us to listen to. My nephew just moved in with me last week and I dont have any children of my own so this is something new for me

[@lexiswanson8112]

I totally agree with these concepts! looking back at my own childhood, even being raised in church, I can see how my parents' take on parenting was a miss. My dad never helped with anything in the upkeeping of the home even when my mom was working, and we weren't modeled several aspects that we needed when we reached adulthood. We were told the right things, but I think that the hypocrisy we saw as children was definitely a seed of doubt planted. At the moment, 2 out of the 3 kids are living for the Lord, and 1 is strayed for now. That's not to say that it's "their fault", we are all given a free will! And it's certainly not to say that my God is not big enough to help us heal so we can reconcile and not bleed on our own children. This is gonna be a good book! Glad to see you back sister!

[@VictoriaB834]

WOW, Bindi, your hair!!!! You look wonderful!!! Really, it suits you very much!!!

[@WesleaBell]

As a mom of two adult children who were homeschooled, I find this conversation very interesting! Looking forward to jumping into the discussion with you on this book.

[@HoryezonSky]

Omg!!! I know this is totally off topic, but I hope your husband isn’t too upset about your hair! I remember watching one of your videos a whiilleeeee back where you talked about him getting frustrated because you would start and stop your locs lol. Your hair is sooooooooo gorgeous! You’re beautiful every way and your content is top tier!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@melissabartlett9533]

Bindi, i have missed you - So glad to have you back in this space, sharing your wisdom and insight in a way that makes this journey feel more clear and attainable

[@catozuna1518]

My book just came in today. I slowly read through the intro actually feeling a little skeptical. My thoughts included of course they're my kids; God entrusted them to me. As I continued reading I saw how liberating it is to have the role of ambassador. It is the attitude of trusting God to bless your best efforts. I know I have personally felt so burdened with being a mom. I need to cast my cares upon Him. I need His easy yoke. He leads me and I will follow. Please pray for me and my family.

[@Healthychristiansingle]

The HAIR. It’s GORGEOUS! I just cut my locs off as well! I believe this decision was led by the Lord so it’s HIGHLY encouraging to see your hair. You look BEAUTIFUL!

[@theparttimehomemaker]

Wow- all of this in just the first chapter? I may need to purchase this book! The points about embassodor training and cultural norms have got me thinking deeply. Thanks so much for doing this book club!

[@Lillyofthevali]

Thank you so much for your obedience🤍. Thank you for sharing the wisdom God has given you to share. 🌬️A breath of FRESH AIR! May God continue to bless you and your ministry abundantly.🙏🏾🤍

[@maameyaaa.7563]

25:00 Great point 💯🤔

[@tosha904]

Bindi you are such a treasure. You have a God given gift for wisdom and counsel. You videos really help guide me in marriage and parenting. Thank you. Btw, I love the hair❤

[@marvelousmonet8033]

Omj you cut your hair !!! Never thought you would ! You are a beautiful woman and your skin is glowing !

[@bostank5595]

As a young mother and wife, this really touched my heart ❤

[@dahrlacamaellemabour2207]

This video came at such a right time because I was confused if I was taking it too deep by feeling resentment and alienation from my parents because they are unable to see what they have been doing that would just tear me down instead of build me up. It felt strange to me because in my soul I couldn’t fathom how you would treat people you love that way and I felt childish and felt like I had to suppress because its just was what it was and I couldn’t change who my family is. But it made me resentful, bitter and even more childish 😅and now at 25, I can see it for what it was because I allowed God to come into my life, He has been showing me the lie that I was being fed and it is taking time but slowly I am unlearning and undoing that lie from my identity. But thank you for always standing in the truth and bringing me and others this message so that we may know better and be more introspective and not repeat the pattern and be able to see our children’s children grow by the grace of God 🥰

[@dahliaherrod4301]

You can't change your parents, but God can. Take it all up to Him in prayer and pray that He will give you peace and joy. He may tap you to be the one to lead the charge to change. Or He may go through some other means. Either way, trust that He can do great things because He is omnipotent and perfectly gracious. I had the same frustrations and I'm amazed that prayers from years ago are yielding fruit now in abundance.

[@TwiFiveGirls101]

@dahliaherrod4301 Wow, thats beautiful to know that prayers from year's ago can still be answered. 🙏🏾 Young lady, I pray restoration and healing come for your relationship with the parents in Jesus name. 💖

[@Ash-fz7tm]

From what you’ve described it sounds like your parents, or at least one of them, were narcissistic. My mother is a narcissist and I was the golden child/empath “the fixer” role in the family. My younger sister was the scapegoat unfortunately, she took a lot of the emotional and psychological beatings her whole life from our mother. I was 32, a mother and wife when I finally found out what a narcissist even was but it has changed so much for me. Father God showed it to me and my sister and have been able to finally begin the healing process. I’m happy to hear that you have been trying to unlearn what your parents made you think about yourself bc it hurts so much. Us children and victims of narcissistic parents have to stay close with our Lord and be willing to learn how to be better parents to our own children. The cycle must end with us🤍

[@mirlanded9894]

Very well said! You are so wise. I’ve learned so much from you, and I just wanted to thank you. I found your Chanel 4 months after I got married, and you made me see marriage differently. I like what you said about our identity not being found in anything else but Jesus. Sometimes, we can get so distracted by the roles we serve that we forget who we are in Jesus. God bless you and your family.

[@Lulu-zw9gn]

You look beautiful as ever, loving the new hair style!!!!! We've missed you ma'am.

[@gigi.efstathiou]

girl, i went on a little Yt break, and came back to find you in this video with your new haircut and i had to comment! you look stunning!

[@lonnieslane]

Wow the first 10 minutes have almost brought me to tears because I’m a SAHM I have 2 sons and currently 7 months pregnant with my babygirl, struggling to keep that perspective. I’ve just been so overwhelmed and frustrated. So thank you!!!!! Very timely for me. God bless you sister in Christ🤍

[@Kra-ri6fd]

I'm a SAHM to two sons also and 5 and half months pregnant with my baby girl. I'm a bit nervous about raising a girl...never done so before!

[@lonnieslane]

@@Kra-ri6fd same! I feel so much pressure just thinking of my daughter looking up to me. I also have to remember I literally prayed for this and I trust that He is preparing me and will guide me through it.

[@Kra-ri6fd]

@@lonnieslane I prayed for a girl too. I don't think I was ready for a girl before and prayed for boys then. Now, I think I'm ready....I hope so at least lol. But I'm praying He guide me too while studying the best I can on being a Godly wife and homemaker.

[@teirraperry756]

Just remember to give yourselves grace.

[@kristahirdler9115]

Thank you! This is a great message and I’m so grateful God compelled me to click on this video.

[@NayShea7]

Another great drop of wisdom 👏🏾 i love the framework mentioned. Something similar that i heard and took note of a while back is parents being the shepherds and not the creator. We love, protect and guide but we can't make that sheep any other creation than what God created it to be. Only God and our Lord Jesus have such authority.

[@thaianyquevedomelo4603]

definitely, what we do now will impact generations

[@Yashivaforchrist]

New season it is . Love your new look I’m in a similar stage. This book needs to be on the coffee tables of so many homes. 😮‍💨 Considering the relationships we want to have with our adult kids & their kids is so key 👌🏾

[@asulli7606]

Read this book a couple years ago. Just pulled it off the shelf and looking forward to going through it again. Great book 😊

[@fatimoris]

Excited to start this series! Blessings sister!

[@sammim4213]

Oh my goodness your haircut is beautiful. Suits you so well. Thank you for the video

[@OnosEjeata]

Let’s seek to honor the Lord and consequently honor our children! That was good. All glory to God! ❤

[@hayleydavis7968]

GREAT BOOK! Thank you for the recommendation. It came at a much needed time, I was very convicted through out the entire book.

[@edenredeemed]

Yay! You be been missing fur a while. I hope all is well with the family.

[@darianalawrence643]

You are a beautiful woman (inside and out) for as much as I have witnessed on KZbin. Your hair is only an accessory. Ahh I have a feeling this video is going to be fire 🔥

[@LindsayChinainSimpson]

Bindy, thank you so much for this video. The Lord has helped me realize recently that I need to up my game when it comes to motherhood. I really enjoyed the thoughts this video prompted. I had to open a note on my laptop and type everything so I wouldn't forget. Now I have a go-to place to document the things that I learn and will help me become a better mother. Thank you!

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

Your hair looks absolutely darling. I love it. 💛

[@kingsagenda]

Your cut is so pretty. It gives you a fresh look. 😍

[@WellWiseBeauty]

Completely agree with the ending! I would rather work hard, do everything I can and if my child turned out completely different then so be it however I believe it’s 1%. Look at the prodigal son, he made a mistake and learnt his lesson and returned home. The picture of parents and children is the same way our relationship with our Father in Heaven. That’s why it says in proverbs teach your child they way you want them to go and they will never turn from it. Parenting is one of the hardest job I’ve could have ever been assigned knowing these facts that are biblical principles, parents are responsible in the work they are done especially when they are young x

[@prwhisperer]

This teaching is so good. Thank you!

[@soniamugeni9195]

As always, I have learned so much from this video. Love your hair!

[@summerbaby88]

Love the haircut!

[@bshatajshina]

Wow! Have I been gone that long?! Love your hair the old way and the new way! Beauty inside out

[@kbutrie]

Yay!! I have this book and it’s my favorite parenting book. Really excited for this series 🙌🏼🥳

[@TM-zg6mw]

Thank you for this video! I have read this book a while back and it just didn’t click the way it is when you broke it down. I have been miserable searching for my identit in the wrong place.

[@mantleatrest]

Love the new look and your videos. God bless you my sister.

[@kimdujour]

I ordered the book on Amazon and it gets here tomorrow. I will be reading along with you. Thank you for encouraging us to read with you. I have enjoyed your past book reviews, because you do a great job of edifying through your reviews. But it will be fun to read along and see how that helps me grow even more. God Bless you.

[@joifant8884]

Ma’am so you just gonna pull up and not give us the deets on the hair? 😂❤ beautiful. Would love to join the book clubbbb🎉🎉

[@lovisa4543]

I’m gonna need to rewatch this again because I’m too distracted by her new look😅💕

[@WholeHeartily]

Wow!!!!! You look so cute with your new do! So fresh and new!

[@sherriholcombe5428]

Love this video! God definitely provides me with what I need. I have ordered this book and have learned so much from this subject. I love how you say that the work belongs to us believer parents,but the results, ultimately are God's. I really needed to hear that. Looking forward to each video chapter as God uses you to share His will for us as Christian Moms.❤

[@Leeshalom]

Well this new glow of Joyce, looks like YAH had her go through a isolation and sanctification period. May The Most High YAH be glorified through you daughter of zion! Can't wait for the nuggets in this video!

[@theehappyhousewife3346]

Omg I've missed you. Love the hair I'll be cutting my locks on the 14th.

[@graceruple3158]

Love the hair ❤ Thank you for this content. I am looking forward to reading this book.

[@cuzoma7]

I haven’t watched the video. I just wanted to say that the hair is truly giving everything honey! Do you hear me?!

[@Maderlololohio]

Hey loving the hair been cutting some off myself ❤ you are such q beautiful unique voice ❤❤❤

[@molly_frances]

Biblical parenthood. 🙌 I love this wisdom. Thank you for this video, I will seek out this book.

[@AshH8898]

Your spirit is so remarkable I am grateful for your insight

[@disnooga6926]

Haven’t watched it yet, but the hair is bomb! You look so pretty! But then again beautiful women do in most styles!😍😍😍

[@TheAmericanFrugalHousewife]

Love the book club idea. I was reading along with you when you were doing men are from Mars. Love your insight, we missed you Bindi!

[@KailaAchaia]

I love you hair I just comb out my locks 1 month ago and have been loving to rock my curly fro.

[@demimiller3756]

I have Grace because I had my physical needs met but emotional , social, educational support needs not met, so now that I have two children with the best knowledge I had which was none, I am taking care of two children with no place to pull from to the place, I enrolled in parenting classes and I watch this kind of content for help but i really like a concrete method to follow, so I know that I did ( statistically ) the best. It’s very hard to do if you don’t know what your doing lol 😅

[@BelovedDaughter]

Your hair looks so beautiful!!!!!!!!

[@tigerhop]

Hello, love your vids! Where can I find the lovely outdoor furniture you have please?

[@TwiFiveGirls101]

*I'm very intrigued by this book. I will buy it and read along with you.* I just completed a different Christian parenting book by Jefferson Bethke called _Take Back Your Family,_ its about being a multi-generational family team on mission. I bring that up because it reminds me so much of what you're talking about in _Single Thread in A Tapestry_ chapter of this video. That book uses the story of Abraham to illustrate *lineage creation* and how to view our family as God designed family in strong contrast to modern Western cultural views of family. I was thinking of you and @Offthebeatenpath. It would be cool if either of you two ladies could review that book also. Have a lovely day, and welcome back. 🙏🏾 ❤

[@kristenadorno]

I absolutely adore the modest fitting! I cannot wait to order from you! So thankful for a modest clothing boutique. I have been searching high and low for one with beautiful items!

[@AkashiB2019]

Hi Bindi I love your content and your message. I know you’ve spoken on how your husband feels regarding locs and cutting your hair as well lol. Would you consider an update on your new hair journey what sparked the change, etc. Love the look by the way ❤.

[@catherinemarshall3003]

I would love some new "clean with me" videos. Those videos are the reason I started wearing long dresses.

[@lifetalkwithDusie]

Good to see your video pop up. Ave really missed them😊

[@taryndodds1390]

Beautiful & full of wisdom 💛

[@TeeAhhhna]

Bindi, you’re back 😭😭 I miss you. also Your hair is so cuuutee❤

[@tashundrarobinson3792]

Sooooo excited for this bookclub!!

[@nykiabenit4466]

Omgggg!!!! I love this new look

[@thaianyquevedomelo4603]

that s so true! children learn more from our attitudes

[@erikabright]

I have missed you and your content. Thank you. The new look is giving

[@sarahhedrick9277]

Thank you for this video! Great stuff 👏

[@AllThingsTiffanyTV]

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 OMGGGGG I LOOOOVE YOUR HAIRRRR! Sooo pretty. Okay back to the video lol

[@Nonjabulo_Malinga]

It is not a coincidence that Joseph was taken away from His father Jacob. When he showed favouritism towards Joseph, he started to sow seeds of discord, strife, anger and bitterness in the other siblings and God subsequently took Joseph away. When we are irresponsible in our parenting, we run the risk of losing our children, whether physically, emotionally or otherwise. May God truly help us to remember that our children do not belong to us, they belong to Him and must be raised HIS WAY.

[@schoolwork232]

Can't wait to join this book review! Thanks for sharing Bindi! Blessings! 💕💕💕💕💕

[@nah6730]

We missed you Bindi!!! Love your curls!!!!

[@tigerhop]

This is a very profound teaching, and I am very grateful to you for explaining it! How do you think as a woman, I can focus on finding identity in Christ instead of through tangible things? As women we, bring forth human embodiment of our divinity through birth, but it is a very tangible act. And we are connected to the forces of nature because we are a force of nature.

[@jennaparchment1893]

You're back! 🎉 OK, I know u weren't gone that long, but still... You're like my sister, my big sister & I missed you! 🤗

[@kaylanozawa4798]

I loved this video Bindi! You help me shape my God-given roles as I did not have the best maternal role-models. Btw, I love your hair! It highlights your feminine features (:

[@castylights4382]

oooooooooh her hair is beautiful

[@jerriskiles2856]

I love your hair like that!

[@beautifulwoman5126]

This video is literally healing ❤️‍🩹

[@KARRIEMABDUL]

I appreciate your wisdom.

[@ilovepeaches400]

Bindi your hair is beautiful !! Love your videos by the way

[@MalayaJ]

My big sister in my head. Hair is beautiful btw

[@Angelinesekle]

Omgggg! New look! I love it! ❤ missed you sis