BISEXUALITY

Bisexuality is often misunderstood and as a result people who identify as bi often feel outcasted and under represented. Many people even go as far as denying that bisexuality can even be possible trying to force everyone into being either Heterosexual or Homosexual.
I don't know why we can't all just be happy and let others live the lives they want to live and love whomever they want to love. Everyone is unique and special, and trying to force labels on things based on our limited understanding of the world only leads to pain and suffering.
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[@CoryTheSmurf]

This describes my feelings almost perfectly. As someone who is honestly still trying to figure things out, I find a bit of comfort with the thought of bisexuality. It was confusing for a long time to be like that girl is cute, and so is that guy, and I knew that bisexuality was a thing, but I had heard many people say that bisexuality is just gay people who deny their feelings, which continued to make things confusing. I finally just found so peace when I began to accept bisexuality more, breaking away from these opinions I had heard for so long, and to be completely honest, those people were wrong. I believe that love is found in a person, not a gender, so why should I limit myself to just looking for "the one" in one gender. Its still difficult to accept sometimes, with how some people feel towards it, but its the closest concept to how I feel, so screw everyone who disagrees.

[@dodgeit0605]

"people usually don't like things they don't understand." this is very true! The thing is some people don't try to understand. Personally I'm straight but I've always been the type of person to love everyone no matter who they are and who they love. I've always understood them and supported them(: I love your videos;) and you and Dan are so cute together!!!!! Xx

[@cherryfolk]

I can't explain how grateful I am and how much more I respect you for saying the things you've said. I identify somewhere between bisexual and pansexual (and I'm still working on figuring that out) and it's hard when people dismiss who you are as being "a phase" or "you just haven't made up your mind yet". Because it isn't about "making up your mind"- who you're attracted to isn't a choice, it's just something instinctive, something on the inside. I love that you seem to get that.

[@mrwantmojoe]

I'm 62 years old and very gay....I am dating a bisexual man I'm trying to understand this form of sexuality and I think this short video has been more help to me than several of the books I have read about this. Doctors views and practice may see one phase, but this is your life style...who better to explain things to some one like me. Thank you so much for posting this.

[@theawesomeanili22]

Thanks for voicing this so clearly, your channel really feels like a safe place to go

[@Teresa-xg9xq]

I am having a really hard time figuring out who I am and sometimes I look at myself and I just think i'm so wrong because I can't define who I am. Thank you for talking about this because it really makes me and people like me feeling better and thank you because the label idea is still so hard to accept. I don't know what to say more just that probably i'm gonna watch this video all over again a thousand times every time I'll feel down. thank you again

[@esslar1]

What Brian says about labels is right on and I am struggling with that, too. I always thought of myself as gay and in the past few years have been surprised to find that I like women, too and it's for real, I know that. He says what it is like really well. It's tough because although it is true when I say I'm gay that's not all of what I am, either and I do not wish to "bury" my feelings for men nor ignore my feelings for women. I just want to be my total self!

[@gummiwise]

The message of this video is heartfelt and profound. Don't worry about labels and be yourself and pursue your dreams and goals in life. Damn. Most people pay psychiatrists a lot of money for the great advice that you dispense and dialogue that you encourage for free. Thanks for making time spent on KZbin something really worthwhile, Brian.

[@twilightdragon87]

As a bisexual man, I appreciate the effort that went into this video. We are a very misunderstood group, particularly by other members of the LGBT community, who often assume that we're gay and in denial. It really irritates me at times and often, when you try to correct them, people just laugh and write it off as "oh, you're gay" or "straight" depending on who you're currently with. It's good to know that there are some of us speaking about this to a wider audience. Keep up the awesomeness!!

[@cmnprescod]

I love this video;it makes so much sense; labels suck.The only reason humans put labels on things is because we have a thirst for knowing everything, and if you don't know something, it frustrates you.It is human instinct to put labels on things,but it's how we label things that is the real problem.usually I don't label things if I don't need to;I let the person who knows tell me if they so desire.Labeling I think is an invasion of privacy in some aspects, and shouldn't be a big issue but it is.

[@MollyKillers]

being bi is very misunderstood im not bi but my friend is she likes guys and girls and she gets a lot of hate from people at my school for it from both gay and straight people. they just dont understand it. im with you 100% who needs labels love is a force that makes you love whoever no matter there gender. i think the world would be a much better place if we just let the lables go!!! another great video brian keep up the good work!!!

[@Jeremyj99]

You are literally my hero for being bisexual Brian. When I feel "disgusting" for who I believe myself to be, I watch your videos. You make me feel better about being me. So Thank you SO much!

[@MusiacterJoe1188]

Hey Brian! Just like u I have been in love with a woman first, and then a man, and I hate to label myself as anything. All I know is that I have had the wonderful experience of feeling true love twice during my lifetime, and that I will commit and devote myself to whoever makes me happy regardless of gender because it is all about what that special someone brings into your life, and what you bring into theirs, and how that connection makes living a million times better.

[@bracken1000]

It's harder for men to publicly state their bisexuality. That's because women are not as accepting of male bisexuality as men are of female bisexuality. There's a difference in attitudes between the sexes. Men are more genuinely bisexual than women because men are more sexual to begin with.

[@Whapastim2]

Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes!!! Thank-you Brian so much for talk out about this!!! and so succinctly too! I never get to hear other people who share my experience. Underrepresented is right...But this makes me so happy!

[@TamaraH1978]

I totally agree with you on this topic, People are scared of what they don't know en so they label things to make it easier on themselves. I personally think that it doesn't matter if the person you fall in love with is male or female. You fall in love with a person, not with gender. If more people thought of it that way, there wouldn't be so much hate and ignorance. Just love who you love and be proud of it!

[@anneavery5120]

Thank you so much for this video, I appreciate things like this because it's true, it's hard people such as my self to feel like they "belong" really any where, it's really honestly uncomfortable and with people so unaccepting it makes it hard for me to be comfortable with the way I am, even my own grandma has called bi's pigs so you can only imagine how I feel around my family being, well, bi

[@nicktr2008]

This is a great topic. My best friend is bisexual and we have had many conversations about it. I agree with everything you brought up in this video because so many people don't understand how someone can be attracted to both men and women, especially when homosexuality is such a sensitive subject. A person can't change how they feel towards others and people need to accept that. Great video Brian :)

[@micklafrance1899]

I find that its really great that you admited that you were once against bisexuals and it came from your own insecurities. That takes a lot of courage and is true for most people. Thank-you for making this and clearing things up for many people. :)

[@chppsss2]

Hi lafond66, glad I found ur channel!! I think you summary made great sense. I know how I feel and I know that bi exists -- at least in me and millions of others -- it's not a denial. People who doubt it should read the landmark resesearch of Alfred Kinsey -- sexuality is many shades of "gray" -- not simply straight or gay. I know I'm a #4 on the Kinsey Scale. Thank you for your video!!! Chip

[@moderick]

Hey, great vid, and great topic. For far too many people, igonorance is bliss. What they don't know about, they have problems dealing with. You're right about the hetero/homo issues as far as bisexuality is concerned. I went to a Community meeting, almost 20 years ago, and the major topic was whether bisexuals could be part of a gay and lesbian group. Thankfully, that group has moved on, in very small steps. I love your vids.

[@kieselmk]

CONT2: and at the same time we will have to continue fighting for the acceptance for different things, like e.g. bisexuality. Only that will help us out I think... poeple won't give up labeling...unfortunately. It's funny before I came out as gay, I wished to be bisexual, because I thought there might be a better acceptance amongst the heterosexuals because they can understand at least a part of my world. Well, today... things are perfectly ok how they are!! Thanks for your video!!!!

[@waldomify]

Amen, Brian. I couldnt have said that better. It is a huge thema we discuss at least every time we are going out. I think, labels are outdated and I really hope one day there wont be any labels... I still believe that its gonna happen..

[@Stephenrsm7600]

Brian, agree with you 100% in your thoughts about labels!!!! And congratulations on coming out as bisexual. I too believe people should be who they are and love who they love.

[@asifwekere]

I fully agree with you. Love who/whom you want to love.. Just be true to yourself and nothing else should matter. Great job Brian.. Live4Love:)

[@DayMareMusic]

Hey! I agree with the points you made in your vid and I'm wishing to elaborate. I do know somethings about this topic and I know with some people that for them it has nothing to do with the body, but with the personality. I also know that some people strongly believe that when you find your love, it won't matter because you love them. I know for some people it is a denial thing but you know love is love and no matter if you gay, straight, bi, black, white, a unicorn or a penguin, when you find

[@iDrum63]

I'm going through a similar struggle right now, being attracted to both men and women and not really knowing what I want. It's nice to see that someone else out there knows what its like. It's incredibly frustrating, but I am sure I'll figure it out. This video helped me out, so thanks!

[@kattegattet]

The quiet guy from 610 has things to say. I love that you voice your opinions. Keep it up!

[@paperchest6]

Thank you so much for making this video, i myself am bi and a lot of the time im afraid to be who i am because of how i fear people will treat me poorly. Its really nice to know support is out there..any way thank you so much :)

[@ryandylan8521]

Thank-you for this. As a bisexual female I get so tired of people telling me that I have to like one sex over the other. NO I DON"T. That is why I am bisexual I like both sexes equally. That doesn't mean I am attracted to everyone, that means I develop crushes on both men and women based yes partly on looks, but on personality and everything else people fall for someone because of. I am not in the closet or in denial. I have done the hard thing of coming out to friends and family.

[@lafond66]

I too wondered about this for a long time. But I was too focused on the areas where the LGB differed from the T and not where they were the same. When you boil it down, we're all going through the same struggles and they center around misunderstood sexuality. Instead of focusing on our differences and trying to divide it up (like 'they' do) why don't we embrace an even lesser represented community and stand together as we fight for equal acceptance and understanding.

[@RaylenX]

Labels always make it difficult for people, because it creates expectations for someone to fit exactly into one or the other, whether it is straight, bi, gay or otherwise.. You make great vids ~

[@dbmgalbraith]

your so right Brian. i came out as bi too all my friends because i was afraid of judgment. but in the end i came out fully and the apreciated me even more for being honest.

[@muscleman9007]

I believe that the vast majority of people are actually bisexual. Admitting that to themselves and to the world is a whole different issue. I think there are very few people that are actually completely gay or completely straight and that for the most part, most people are bisexual to varying degrees even if they don't acknowledge or act on their feelings toward the same or opposite sex. Great Video, I wish more people think like you do, the world would be a much better place.

[@deadpool1377]

What's there not to understand really? We like both genders. Seems pretty straightforward to me.

[@thebeaubeaubo]

6 videos and each is better then the one before it. The trending looks real good and professional bent!

[@julieradke3426]

This helps me a lot. I still can't come out to my parents and certain friends. My mom thinks being bisexual is selfish. My other friends don't understand how you can also be pansexual. Love is love. Why can't we just be ourselves. I don't need a label if I care enough who I like shouldn't matter. I love your videos and thank you for having an open mind

[@Ophidimancer]

That's very insightful, to realize that you project your own feelings on others. Not many people are so self aware of their own emotional fallacies.

[@lafond66]

I'm glad you're happy as well. I believe that people should be good, and live positive lives simply to make the world a better place. I'm as certain as I could possibly be on the matter that there is no afterlife. But, even if there were, I'd think that I would be judged on my character and my actions, not whether or not I follow one of thousands of individual gods. If there is a "heaven", I think that all good people will ascend to it. But of course, there isn't so it doesn't matter anyway :-p

[@knowbodie341]

Great video Brian. I like the topics that you talk about. I can see you doing advice videos. Glad you decided to vlog.

[@LordMoogs]

I could NOT agree more! You would think that someone who is open to the idea of liking someone of the same sex, that they would be equally open to liking both. I even would like to think that this kind of all leads back to the whole thing about people focusing on the wrong thing! Or rather, making a big deal out of something that shouldn't even matter. Loving whoever it is that you love. The real question is why are people so concerned about everything else?

[@sruiz4444]

Thank you so much!!! You are such an inspiration and my goal in life!! You always say the right words at the right moment which are so helpful to my love situation so when I really need somebody!! So again THANK YOU!! 3

[@BalletLad1]

to quote one of my favourite videos on youtube videos of late, 'love is love'

[@superstar333333333]

This kind of reminds me of the debate on whether the 'T' part in LGBT should be part of its own community. I used to think that it should but only because I didn't understand it very well and it also drove me crazy how ignorant people would combine gay and transgender and say they were the same thing. I understand it a lot better now and now I just wish that people would understand the difference between gender, sex, and sexuality cause they ARE different things

[@mymalesecret]

I just say love and don't worry about what other people have to say. Just love who you love.

[@jasperismydog28]

That was a very good talk and i love that you say "people just love other people." i think that is amazing. I think you did a great good lob with get the basic idea for people to grasp the concept of bisexuality. thank you for the wonderful video p.s. im not bisexual i just think u did an amazing job explaining it. also i hope you have time to read this.

[@DainMex]

Just go with the flow and enjoy everything for what it is today and stop worrying about the greater significance and implications of small things on tomorrow that isn't here yet. And there is no guarantee that it will get here. That's how I've been going about it, and its actually pretty awesome.

[@andreamartino-harms6394]

p.s. I just found you and Dan via the "Show your pride. Share your love. #ProudToLove" video via ActuallyNPH's twitter account and you've kept me up way too late.

[@lachlann22]

As a bisexual man, it made it very hard for me to come to terms with who I was for a long time. Liking women was "normal" and liking men was "unusual". I couldn't understand whether it was a phase or I was gay or just weird. Eventually, I just decided that I like what I like and to hell with all the other crap. But, even among my friends, there is an awkwardness that comes up when they see me with a woman at one point and a man at another. This is especially hard on teens, a tough age anyway.

[@PaulSearsTravelVlogger]

I come from a shitty little town in the UK and your words are truly inspirational, my problem is that I know who I am but im scared that the people I love wont accept it, my friends are always going on about when am I going to get a girlfriend and all that jazz. Im scared of coming out and all the reprocussions it will cause......

[@luisgeracardenas96]

YOUR HAIRCUT! It's too cute!

[@lachlann22]

And let me say, this is a great video. Bisexuality is a topic that needs to be discussed more. If for no better reason than to eliminate the myths and mystery.

[@ryanlumsden305]

Well said Brian! This is such a great and inspirational video, I completely agree with your hate for labels, I mean were all human so what does it matter? But thank you so much for making this video, it made my day :D

[@docpot10]

I think I might be bi, because both ideas of relationships appeal to me equally, but I'm not sure yet. My friends don't really get it, they keep saying ' if you're gay you can just say' but I don't think I'm just gay or just straight. So I really understand this and I want to say thanks for making it. I really wish it wasn't this hard to understand who I am.

[@10leoo]

Weird fine lines and personal definitions of "love" thanks for sharing you thought!

[@rinny544]

I am a bisexual woman married to a straight man. He had the biggest problem with that for many years. Only in like the last year has he understood. We need to educate people. But you are for sure right that labels suck.

[@rafasuv]

So far the best explination than I hear for Bi behavior. Thanks so much, fisrt time someone explain whats on my mind. Thank you so much Brian.

[@unclefrunk]

...Partly because I'm an aincreasingly less attractive old codger :) and partly because the the appeal of bisexual women in straight mens' fantasies, has made the B-word less ignoble. Labels should be left for the canning jars, but people still like to have an identifier to be recognised and grouped by. Ultimately, it's neither the label nor the associated activity which needs to disappear, it's the ignorance. Bravo for helping to dispel it

[@LucasSoaresSilva]

I have a friend that says: "I love everyone, and everything. It just have to give me tease" and that's awesome, there's just nothing different about any of us!

[@454burb]

Im bi and have found for myself the worst part is a few of my ex's point of view was I would cheat on them with the other sex because they thought since im bi I figured I could date a man and a woman...kinda a problem for me since im loyal to whoever im with. Anyway I love your videos and Mallow610's videos, yal are prolly the best couple ive ever seen, especially being 3 hours apart.

[@rinny544]

well said. People that don't understand are the ones that are the worst about labels. I personally don't use them.

[@satyrgrin]

Brian, I hope I spelled your name right. ~ANY-way...~ I'd like to add a whole new dimension to your argument against use of labels. Consider transsexuals, transgender, and intersex. I'm intersex and struggle with preconceptions about polar sexuality. It makes dating difficult because of gender and sexuality preconceptions in others. If you think others have trouble wrapping their heads around bisexuality imagine how much trouble they have with being of a different sex. Love who you love, people!

[@AmeliaPond1994]

I'm 21 year old woman and for the majority of my life I assumed I was straight. However recently I started college and there is a girl in my class who I have a severe crush on. She looks like a singer I admire but my feelings for this girl are as strong as feelings I've had for boys in the past. At first I was shocked that I could feel like that about someone of my own gender but I've slowly accepted that I'm bisexual.

[@ryandylan8521]

I lost friends in the process of coming out and it sucks. I wouldn't of gone through all that if I was in denial of anything. I feel confused and hurt and ostracized when I tell people I am bisexual and the first thing they say is "Well you like women more though right? Your just not fully out yet, your still in denial." No I am not. Sadly this makes me not want to be myself and just choice one sex over the other. Then what happens when I fall for someone who is not the sex I choose? It sucks.

[@senixmikes]

I'm a "bisexual" guy. I hate using the term because I prefer men to women... prefer. I still am attracted to both but mainly guys and I say I'm 80% gay to try to explain it and it's difficult for others and I believe you said something similar about you. It's just the fact that labels aren't diverse enough as they simplify things too much so it isn't accurate. Labels are bad I 100% agree

[@luketowns7895]

People need to label things in life due to their own insecurities. To these people most things have too be black and white there is no grey is confusing too them, this is where people have a lack of understanding, due too what society has portrayed as the normal and the not so normal. The fear of the unknown is often more powerful then that of the known. Plus keep up the good work Brian.

[@michaelprehn9308]

Correction. I use to hate my self and everybody i would bottle up my rage. I wouldn't talk to my family. But thats long gone. But i am glad your happy. For now.

[@curbsterify]

It took my mom a year to accept my homosexuality, but she still has a problem understanding Bisexuality-- it just comes up in conversation like "Can people really be Bi?". I think this video will help (because obviously she'll get it when someone else says it lol). Thanks for making this.

[@ristin59]

Great video! I've been through the same situation. I'm in a Gay relationship, but I've dated women and find certain women attractive. I hate labels, people have to have a label for every thing and every person.

[@JosephC]

If we could all just let go of the labels, the prejudices, the social stigma and just be honest and allow ourselves to feel what the heart wants. I don't doubt we'd have a world with greater peace and love. And possibly better paired couples. Oh, &1 indirect way gay advancement is helping those who have fluid sexualities is by normalizing same sex attractions. Thus, perhaps helping those that go from dating the opposite sex to same sex may have less of an issue to contend with when they do.

[@TNTWnathan331]

OMG I LOVE YOUR HAIRCUT

[@Tatatrash]

I totally agree with what you say and you phrased in a way that I never could, so thank you for that!

[@NHSSTubaPlayer]

My girlfriend is bi, and because she's dating me, everyone calls her a lesbian. When people talk about us together, they say we're lesbians. I mean, it works for me, but not for her, and I constantly have to correct people and tell them she's bi. And their response is always "Oh, it doesn't matter. She's dating you, it makes her a lesbian." And that ticks me off because no, it doesn't make her a lesbian. I don't see why people disregard bisexuality like that. It exists.

[@qqx01]

Hey Brian, 100% support your argument. Same here. Keep it up. Good work.

[@kieselmk]

hey brian... I 100%, so totally agree with you... except... well... it's not a real except.... You don't want things to be labeled and mankind would be way better off without constantly labeling things. You ask, why we permanently label things and gave the answer all by yourself.... people tend to label, to categorise things to make them and this world a little bit more understandable for them. Due to this fact I think it's necessary to fight for both.... to STOP labeling things and people CONT.

[@lafond66]

I think you're right, however, I would argue that evolution has worked a bit of a skew towards heterosexuality. (PS, tried to look up the correct term for "skew" when talking stats. Looking up "Normal_distribution" on Wikipedia is like hitting yourself in the face with a math text book.)

[@teresan.3507]

thanks for this brian. you have no idea how much this helped me :)

[@joshuaimanuel3032]

Completely agree with you. Just love whoever you love

[@pwalt404]

Great video! Very well articulated. Keep the vids coming.

[@toniquedeween]

I know I'll sound shallow after your great speech, but... your haircut is just too adorable :-)

[@AlexRo2016]

I really like the message you are spreading. Keep them coming!

[@SammiSummer]

you're getting into pansexual at one point. Also I love these videos of your opinion on things because you have such a strong opinion!

[@Jeffrit88]

You and Dan are two amazing people! I love your channel and your topics you talk about there real! And not full of bullshit!

[@lafond66]

That's such a cool chain of events that lead you here. Hi! I don't bite... well, only Dan

[@damieg82]

I admittedly struggle with bisexuality. I'm gay but my on/off again boyfriend of 10 years recently said he slept with a girl (we're off so it wasn't cheating; but hook up), and well I went postal. For one I never knew he had any hetero attractions, and I also felt so inadequate in that, not only did he go after someone else, but someone of the opposite sex. All I could think about is how do I even compete with that?! Hopefully we can broach the subject one day so I can get a better handle on it

[@cyndonna1]

I love this video. Even though I am in my 30's it has helped me a whole lot. Thank you for sharing.

[@thaliacastillo]

I wish more people thought and saw things like you do. Great video.

[@glostaboy25]

I believe love is love and you shouldn't have to answer to any body, love your videos xxx

[@xxLeeanne]

I completely agree with everything you said in this video. Well done! Labels are completely unnecessary.

[@EverHavok5]

I am bisexual, and a lot of people know, and accept me. But a lot of people including my mom and my friends' parents don't understand how I can like both. I only ever had one girlfriend, and because of that people keep saying that I was just "experimenting" which really bothers me. I know for a fact that I like both. And I agree with hating labels. It's irritating that people have to identify specifically as "straight","bi","gay","lesbian", ect. Why can't we just be who we are without labels?

[@darron1969]

Good topic, i wonder how many people live unhappy lives because they commeted early and there are children involved. I have known many married women with children who have left there spouses for other women, compared to men it seems like women are able to change or "evolve" there lives much easier.(not that it easy) I think you are brave to enlight on this topic. I also would like to know if your girlfriends know where you are now and what response you got from those conversations,,,love the vid

[@CedrickYbarra]

I would describe myself as bisexual, but only because my sexuality needed a long explanation and I'm too lazy to pour my heart to people, so I'd just say bi. But in reality I never considered my gender to be male. Not to say that I think I should be a woman. Growing into my teens, i learned the term two-spirit and when i learned the definition the first thing that came to mind was, OMG I'm two-spirited. So the closest to a kinsey scale I'd be on would be like 3.9

[@nathanlawler7794]

Michael Prehn just confused the shit out of me by saying "you can the this and this" and then agreeing/disagreeing again...

[@Meero1993]

I'm bisexual or Pansexual or whatever. I simply like what i like. Never really coming out if no one asks... Just agree with whatever people say I am (unless they wanna have sex with me and they're hot). My sex life is my own to enjoy.

[@markveinot76]

I think you were Bang On with every word!!

[@niwde2]

That's wel put! I can't say anything about your personal experiences, but I don't see it as a problem. For being adulterous can be so many reasons... in every type of relationship someone could be for his own reasons. If you are in a monogamous relationship and only like one gender, your sexuality is not 'done'. Most will still look at and fantasize about others who maybe are more attractive.

[@vidsbyme2590]

Very difficult to discuss Bi-sexuality but it is necessary as education is important to acceptance. I struggle with being biased against bisexual people. Not because I dislike it but I must always remind myself that people have choice of who they find attractive whether it be a blond woman, tall man, dark eyed anything. Even when I remind myself of that I then have the problem of lack of trust. Can a bisexual person ever truly be happen with one sex. I guess they can as I can be happy with one guy and not want any other guy. But I always wonder... is that true. I know logically it is. If you are happy and in love you have no reason to hedge your bets and think there is someone better coming either male or female. I just cannot trust my brain when my heart says "be watchful for anyone of the opposite sex as your partner will move on". Perhaps my lack of trust is due to a past experience. I was so very much in love and he was too.. until he told me one day he still wanted to be with women physically. He said "I still love you and want to be with you always but this is how I feel". Of course I moved on with a broken heart. I cannot say I ever got over him and think of him often. We still talk (remotely) sometimes but never in person as it is too painful for both of us and we are still physically attracted to each other. He is married with two kids. I have no doubt he still loves me and I him but I don't share very well. Marriage means more to me than that. I swore I would never date a bisexual man again and as far as I know I have not. It seems limiting but just how I feel. So, I am biased and it is irrational and unkind and makes me sad but ...

[@callmefren.8975]

Everhavok I agree im bi and don't want to tell anyone in my family because my hole family is Christian and theres only one person that I known that will love and accept me that my aunt. Congrats on being brave enough to tell your family.

[@lgbtqarts]

very well put! Its good to hear someone say it in the way I see it and feel it too :')

[@lafond66]

"The Lord has redeemed all of us, all of us, with the Blood of Christ: all of us, not just Catholics. Everyone! ‘Father, the atheists?’ Even the atheists. Everyone!".. We must meet one another doing good. ‘But I don’t believe, Father, I am an atheist!’ But do good: we will meet one another there.” - Pope Francis, May 22, 2013