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[@braybruh9238]

Do her a favour. Leave her alone.

[@koolsmoothfan]

fr fr, she is not missed, there are plenty of fish in the sea

[@njfinests]

I agree. You don't want black men born in America, ok. Leave her alone. Her dad is not a great example, though. All her feeling about black men come from him!!!

[@coreysanders6197]

The internet playbook: I'm not getting attention so let me go after BM

[@MrStCyrX]

💯

[@babylaneross838]

She's of immigrant background

[@YungJay216]

She’s a tether, most likely 1st generation African. She’s not a tether because she’s of immigrant background, she’s a tether cause she’s undermining black American men & our culture .

[@donnamcintosh2109]

I believe this woman.

[@harveytaylor0101]

She trying hard as hell to sound more intelligent than she is 😂

[@PassportKingMarineVet]

I promise I won’t lose sleep ..

[@sbolden123]

😂 me neither

[@MACHINEmg]

Ever on that mud duck 🦆🤢

[@Heavon1999]

At fcking all!

[@meuniversity8681]

​@MACHINEmg she's young but she got some decency.....she ain't real far off. It's just generally people shouldn't speak, young people shouldn't speak, and women shouldnt speak in public. That being said, joking or not yall emotional responses stink of more than just hurt feelings but of having been raised by an emotional momma primarilly. Yall need a LOT of training, long term marriage is NOT in the picture for such herd like emotionalism....no amount of manly behavior or looks can take that away from you, you need RETRAINING.

[@meuniversity8681]

​@@sbolden123she's young but she got some decency.....she ain't real far off. It's just generally people shouldn't speak, young people shouldn't speak, and women shouldnt speak in public. That being said, joking or not yall emotional responses stink of more than just hurt feelings but of having been raised by an emotional momma primarilly. Yall need a LOT of training, long term marriage is NOT in the picture for such herd like emotionalism....no amount of manly behavior or looks can take that away from you, you need RETRAINING.

[@facelessman5362]

Isn’t this the same girl that said she used to date Glocktavious despite being raised by a traditional immigrant family.

[@MACHINEmg]

MAME FIRST OF ALL...YOUR NOT THAT CUTE....🧐🧐

[@MACHINEmg]

​@@theking8356 Second of all...WITHOUT THE MAKEUP N FAKE HAIR YOU DONT QUALIFY FOR HIGHER EARNING MEN!!! 😂

[@MACHINEmg]

​@@theking8356Third of all..most successful men don't care about color...YOUR EITHER ATTRACTIVE OR NOT!!!! 🧐😏

[@babylaneross838]

I knew she was Non FBA....

[@Mr._Moderate]

Did she survey every guy in the comments about their citizenship and current residence? How does she even know who is American or black? 🤔

[@Paul-r5g]

Anton needs to realize just because someone is talking in a nice sweet voice while insulting bm , is doing the same thing shes complaining about. I don't rock with anyone being insulted because they have a preference but she started insulting bm in order to justify her preferences ( like Ebony K) there is a huge difference

[@kendallrackley1308]

Agree. She’s using her soft voice to throw shade on black men with her presumptive statements. “Black men are used to giving women crumbs.” That’s a presumption based on.. what? Can’t be her experience because she doesn’t date black men. Lowkey she’s weird. What black person references their looks as “Afrocentric features.” And refusing a coffee date because it’s low energy is insane. She’s gotta be like 18

[@donnamcintosh2109]

A lot of you men are something else. When a black woman is ranting loudly on the internet while complaining about black men, she is attacked. However, when a black woman speaks respectfully, she is still attacked by black men. Black women just can't win.

[@Darii.]

💯

[@Zee-yh4ow]

😂😂😂 that boy will call any black man who travel a passport bro and swear they toxic but see an immigrant butter face need n swear she's non toxic

[@Bbmoney244]

Black men do this all the time though. They will state their preference while dissing black women. Not saying 2 wrongs makes a right, but bw have been saying this for a while now. Stating your preference doesn't mean you insult others in the process

[@HomerC.Miller-hp6xn]

This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@LymanB.Crosby]

I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back

[@HomerC.Miller-hp6xn]

Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?

[@LymanB.Crosby]

Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counsellor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being

[@HomerC.Miller-hp6xn]

Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.

[@herbyoung2767]

She doesn’t date American black men?!?!? Oh no?!?!? What are we going to do?!?!?!?

[@koolsmoothfan]

fr fr, bye felicia, she is not missed

[@dancleary4101]

Lol haven’t dated in sisterhood in five years

[@emtyler]

So sassy😬

[@blacmamba9665]

Caribbean black men don’t want her either lol tf is wrong with shorty talking like she’s a 10 🤣🤣

[@TheEsquireOfSportsFSU]

They really think someone cares, though. That's the thing. They KNOW they are least desired, least married, least checked for, and still acting like they're in high demand.

[@dancleary4101]

brothers pay no attention to this. You’re going to see more sister say this it’s just a deflection technique… They know nobody wants them. They’re finished on the dating market and so they want to take one last shot. Just take a knee run out the clock. We’ve already won the game.

[@MCLottotv]

Facts... I'm already at Disney World

[@TheEsquireOfSportsFSU]

DON'T BE LIKE MARIO CRISTOBAL, GUYS!!!

[@RASTAGOOB]

@@TheEsquireOfSportsFSUcmon man

[@TheEsquireOfSportsFSU]

@@RASTAGOOB lmaooooooooooo

[@forwomen9244]

You’re right. Many black women believe nobody wants them because they’ve been told that for so many years by black men like you. It’s unfortunate that my own black father said this to me last weekend. This comment alone is a huge reason why so many black women are choosing to explore other options. Subconsciously, the black male collective view black women as less than, invaluable and unworthy compared to other groups of women. We, black women have awakened to that truth. Things are changing, the younger generation of black women are dating and marrying all groups of men, in the next 10+ years you’re going to see a lot of black women in interracial relationships with biracial children.

[@mattblaylock9038]

How can she speak on American black men if she doesn't date them. Please make it make sense?

[@Nick2quickOfficial]

She used to date a thug, she’s dated only the minority of black men.

[@TrayTrucking]

The same reason why passport dudes speak on not dating black women. It’s literally the same shit.

[@Paul-r5g]

​@@TrayTruckingActually it's not.nice try. A lot of those brothers have had bad experiences with American women so they can speak on those women. I know you trying to pander but nah

[@TrayTrucking]

@@Paul-r5g How do you know they had experiences with black women? It’s a shame you don’t see the issue here. This woman can’t have an opinion without a bunch of grown men jumping in her comments. You don’t find that weird?

[@Jade_Hanson]

​@@TrayTrucking weird how? You're here jumping in comments as well... isn't that weird or do you get a pass because you're a cuttlefish?

[@FFTsteel]

Us Black Men are NOT missing out😂😂😂

[@BDAthleticInsider]

Facts we the most desired men on planet earth lol she the 1 misssing out

[@FFTsteel]

@@BDAthleticInsider 💯

[@zaketirenaudbarca615]

Lol not one bit

[@4411825]

@@BDAthleticInsider🤦🏾‍♂️😂🤣

[@thhunter1]

From the wise words of Jay-Z, “OK. “

[@CriticalTimez]

Now, as a father of a daughter who has a dark complexion, this is very distasteful and disturbing to hear BM are caught up into the light and darker skinned women not deserving better or equal treat. Fellas that mentality is JACKED UP!! Some of you have mothers who are dark skinned. WOW!! Colorist: "prejudiced against people with dark skin. specifically : showing favor to light-skinned people over those with darker skin within a racial or ethnic group.😒😒😒

[@saffylllama5609]

They hate themselves.

[@kimberlyowens5496]

You surprised 😮 that some men think like this

[@henriquesilva-vp1wr]

No BM has ever said "you're a dark skinned woman so you should have no standards."

[@MariaShaw-w1i]

yes, That is what these men are basically saying.

[@TriniTsunami]

I’ve been told that 3 times since January, and I’m not even that “dark”.

[@thatgirlkells5505]

But there are many woman who have been told that very thing. How do you explain Black Males saying "Even dark skin women have standards now" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??

[@AlphonseWeebay]

It’s Nigerian tether males and west Africans in general who are caught up in colourism. We don’t use cake soap over here

[@Yoko.Kurama]

​@thatgirlkells5505 for argument sake let's just say what you're saying is true. Is it the majority or minority? Out of 100 percent of black men how many do you think are disqualifying women soley on being dark? Women have dating on easy mode. If you believe a dark skinned woman has any trouble finding someone you're insane

[@stellamcdonald4618]

Anton, that’s her experience. I have a dark skinned black daughter and her experience was horrible by the male black students who laugh at her and called her names. Anton you cannot speak for a woman

[@BiggieTrismegistus]

It's been well established that black people expect everyone else to "do better" but don't care a bit about their own bigotry and prejudice. That's why someone like Marcus Garvey, a man so antisemitic he _supported the Ku Klux Klan,_ can still be seen as someone worth listening to.

[@BiggieTrismegistus]

Black people care a ton about the bigotry and prejudice directed against them by others but that doesn't mean they care at all about their own bigotry and prejudice.

[@HigkeyRegarded007]

@@BiggieTrismegistusTrismegistus. Cool name reminds me of Persona 3 Junpei

[@JD-ge9eb]

Did he ignore her experience? Cuz I didn’t hear that at all

[@truthseeker4460]

Thank u

[@classyyoungman35]

If someone is worried about the location of the date ESPECIALLY if it’s the first date,It’s not about getting to know the person.Secondly,If she never dated black men Why did she feel the need to share this online?Just continue living your life…lol

[@bryantwilson5761]

It's always the ugly mfs who do the most

[@jazzkatt7083]

Is it me or is she throwing out about as many insults as she said she received? Lastly, men should not buy meals for women they just met. Coffee, wine appetizer at most for first dates.😮

[@tsaunders4684]

Facts

[@JammelYoungTV]

Colorism is a real thing, but I highly doubt that she looked up each and every black man’s background to find out if they were black, American or not. FBA gets blamed all the time.

[@clockwork9825]

We get blamed for everything! 😂😂

[@RandelSnitchon_em]

News flash....no one knows your an FBA until you open your mouth and say it. And it means absolutely nothing to them folks that has always oppressed you.

[@markcoleman7246]

@@RandelSnitchon_em Because you are hypocrites who cry victim 24/7 and don't even care about your own people (black on black violence) so why the hell would anyone else? Also you never lived through slavery so calm tf down about all that goofy race BS.🤡

[@mel2000]

No one can find comment evidence of her being insulted for her complexion. She's either lying or exaggerating to make herself look like a victim.

[@ax6682]

I am not FBA and I agree. Black Americans get the short end of the stick. The worse comes from Non- FBA blacks.

[@drusys4p]

I love dark skinned women. I can't stand when they throw us all in the same category. There's nothing sexier than a woman with dark, flawless skin and natural hair.

[@AlphonseWeebay]

It’s mainly tethers who complain about colourism

[@Preus-by8ru]

Stop simping. 🙄🙄🙄

[@kimberlyowens5496]

Exactly, black people stop speaking in absolutes.

[@mrmillennium2697]

As soon as she said American Black men "generally" don't ..... She lost her argument

[@62BURNER]

Ok she doesn't date black American men? Who does she date? Is she married yet? Anyone put a ring on it yet? 😂😂😂

[@Mimi8402]

She might strictly date African or Caribbean men.

[@cloudyskies7591]

She ain’t dating nobody but her 🐈. You think foreign men leave those women looking for her 🤦‍♂️

[@ax6682]

For real. I guess her preferences don’t value marriage either…OR maybe it is HER. Either way, she isn’t getting what she wants.

[@raylin5905]

If her preferences are better why isnt she married yet?

[@ms.t4322]

If you don't date Black American Men.How would you know what they are like?

[@shanepowell6556]

my black American brothers she basically saying she would accept the bare minimum just not by you Ninjaz you must go above and beyond but in reality Brad ain't spending money on Keisha like that either

[@Bidness100]

🎯

[@okthen5566]

Lookin like mr popo from dragon ball z thinking we care about them

[@Type-VoidNil]

😂😂😂 BRUHHH comeon lol

[@Jedilord882]

Anton I think it’s incredibly important to keep in mind that women like her only have these prerequisites for men who are their direct counterparts. She doesn’t hold the arab, white, asian, or biracial lightskin black guy to the same standard.

[@Gokiza]

African women overwhelmingly avoid Lightskinned American Black men and look down on them quite harshly by comparison to other men

[@Footballjunky55]

They never do, shes a divestor she gon find out the hard way 😂

[@DerekThoms]

Na light skin nubians have to do gymnast flips as well

[@saffylllama5609]

Story story story. Stop ASSuming.

[@Nemesis0921]

I've seen her, she was in another video talking about dating Glocktavius....smh

[@odog76543]

That's interesting considering in this video she's saying she's never dated an American Black man. . .

[@Nemesis0921]

@@odog76543in this video she admits she was attracted to hood dudes....Glocktavius as she calls them kzbin.info/www/bejne/raOWZHalmdZ-odUsi=4UxvS14ANDjC7T8J

[@62BURNER]

😂😂😂

[@MomoAfterDark]

@@odog76543all women do is lie

[@YungJay216]

@@odog76543if you believe that I gotta bridge to heaven for sell.

[@poindextersheelturn436]

Any women who will not accept a coffee date means she dont really like you.

[@r.9874]

Exactly. It's not about the coffee, it's about the time you spend with someone and she seems to look down on that. If I like someone, I don't care where we go.

[@saffylllama5609]

Untrue, it's about the lack of effort. How it starts says a lot about what you can expect during the relationship. I'm not getting all dressed up for bean juice first date either.

[@r.9874]

@@saffylllama5609 Here is what you missed: it takes effort for a man to even ask you out to spend time with them. Women don't have the pressure to ask men on a date, that's our job. Asking someone on a date takes effort and getting out of your comfort zone. Last I checked, you can get dressed up for a coffee date.

[@saffylllama5609]

@@r.9874 If u can push past the pressure to ask for a coffee date then what makes it so much harder to go out for dinner, or to the beach for a picnic, or whatever? Its obviously because a coffee date requires the least possible amount of effort and creativity. 17 year old boys in high school put in more effort than grown men. Movies, dinner, skating, arcade even were places we went on dates in high school. If teen boys can figure it out with their broke selves so can you.

[@r.9874]

@@saffylllama5609 I love that you have placed your mentality on display because 17-year-old boys are not going on first dates to figure out if this is a person who they want to marry, have kids with, be the mother to their children, be a partner with, buy a house with, and grow old with. Your rationale to go from an adult to a 17yo child is funny. A grown mature woman values the time spent with someone. Keywords: "mature woman".

[@Prettygirlvita]

She didn’t lie

[@lovelyamerah]

No she didn't. I'm not even black and I know what she's saying is true. I tried to date BM and all I can say is NEVER AGAIN. 💯

[@carlynyc]

At all

[@charlesxavier3489]

Facts

[@JD-ge9eb]

She didn’t lie about what part? She just tried to group all black men into a certain category but wouldn’t like it if the same was done to black woman. That’s wild to me

[@lovelyamerah]

@@JD-ge9eb Most of you guys are EXACTLY as she described. Stop the cap.

[@melissagriffin7515]

I do not blame her. She is completely right! They need our help to get ahead because the majority of them cannot do it alone. When they get ahead they will cheat and move on to the next one. So leave them out there to do it on there and always keep seperate bank accounts and split all the bills down the middle. So when they start losing their mind you can walk away drama free. If women do not meet your standard walk away and do not ever sleep with her. Easy Breezy!

[@oloatis2182]

She don’t date black men?! Ooh nooo 😱, what will I ever do with my life 😭… 🤣😂😅

[@saffylllama5609]

She didn't say all black men, she said AMERICAN black men.

[@Blurbbanner]

😂😂😂

[@JD-ge9eb]

Yea I think she may be the last black woman left on earth 😂

[@pharrell5334]

Don't throw rocks when you live in a glass house and have soft feelings.

[@stldweller]

I'm surprised you're even talking about this.Blk women can date others but rarely is another race offering up marriage to them. It's not really an option except a very small minority of them.

[@calebhenderson6507]

But they will make them baby mamas thought that's for sure lol

[@michaeljohnson-ym8zp]

@@calebhenderson6507no one has more black baby mothers than black men.

[@forwomen9244]

There are reasons for that but it is changing. I am seeing more and more black women marrying other races of men. It’s still new for us but believe me in the next 10+ years the younger generation of black girls will be in interracial marriages and have biracial babies. My generation of black women are still in bondage when it comes to dating out, because of fear and insecurities. These younger generation of black girls are dating all races of men. I see it with my own eyes. I went to a fourth July parade and I saw many young black girls with white and Latino men. It will of course take time to change because black women have been told for so many years that nobody wants them, my dad even told me that last weekend 😅 it really shows you how black men view black women huh? Then they wonder why black women want to see what else is out there.

[@forwomen9244]

That’s because it takes time. Black women have been race loyal for so many generations. Many races of men are interested in being with black women but don’t know if they have things in common or if that black woman is interested in pursuing a relationship with them. I’m seeing more and more black women marrying interracial men, it’s all over social media and I’m seeing it in actual real life. Times are changing.

[@dred9174]

​@@forwomen9244That's a damn lie they've been trying to get other races of men to marry them for over 50 years. It's black men who have been race loyal until you women lit the social contract on fire.

[@Ladyhotfire78]

If we’re saying the stereotype around BM is incorrect why aren’t BW afforded that same logic? BM and BW are raised in the same culture right? So it’s illogical that only the BW have the issues in dating and courtship. Maybe we need to distinguish what class of BP we’re talking about. She’s clearly describing pookies not more middle class men. Same with women. Maybe the it’s lower class BW with rachet or “new money” values that are masculine and use men for their money. Maybe the more middle class BW DO exist and are feminine, classy, non-combative and aren’t “modern” in a bad way. Just tired of these monolithic ideas recycling on both sides.

[@raylin5905]

Well said

[@keegees]

It's all good she has her own opinion good for her.

[@1anth]

Would you keep that same energy if this were a black man saying this about black women? Likely no, you wouldn’t be…

[@dancleary4101]

What are the race of men is coming to marry her?…

[@princychickricin9437]

It hurts to see some bw say these things. I think highly of all bm and feel they are above other races of men. Just know not all of us bw think this way.

[@dancleary4101]

@@princychickricin9437 we honestly could give two craps what they have to say we know who is who when it comes to the dating market

[@michaeljohnson-ym8zp]

@@princychickricin9437so ask yourself… if there are so many other women interested in black men, why do these men care? Does every single woman on planet earth need to want them?

[@zxcccccc1]

Coffee dates are safer and why meet a stranger at night and give mix messages.

[@michaeljohnson-ym8zp]

Coffee shops open at night.

[@SHOW_ME]

😂plus whats the point of spending $250+ on the first "date" if u yall just meeting? I was born in the 1900s so i dont understand

[@michaeljohnson-ym8zp]

@@SHOW_ME who said you had to spend $250? Besides I thought you all were high value balling men? Did the PPP loans dry up? No crypto? Forex?

[@SHOW_ME]

@@michaeljohnson-ym8zp I'm confused by your comment, I thought you were a man. I have date nights, but I don't just date random women in the streets. Too much going on nowadays. I stay focused on my goal. "High value man" is a social media troupe, don't feed into that bs

[@michaeljohnson-ym8zp]

@@SHOW_ME you wouldn’t like anyone telling you that you should not want what you want. Y’all have options right? Exercise those options to include ONLY the women who are on your wavelength.

[@bysonchi]

She never said that she does not date Black men; what she said was that she does not date AMERICAN Black men.

[@Scruface954]

A black Haitian woman told me she not Givin up cookie til she get married....but she not a virgin 😮

[@macc1279]

Who’s glocktavious 😂😂😂

[@onlymeentertainment]

Fr 😂

[@jussdoughjustin3893]

Professor fraudo glocktavius 😂

[@GETBIG4WARD]

That’s pookie cousin

[@mattiaslp9645]

probably a nice young man that goes to church and volunteers at the food bank on saturday

[@bryantworley2922]

She was 50% off, but had a few points. One thing, though: she said "Black American Men" feel that Black women deserve crumbs. A coffee 'Feeling Out' date is not crumbs. This man is paying attention to you, and unless you're going 'Dutch',, what's the problemon? Also, she mentioned a few scenarios which I can see as problems, but who told you to let those happen. Going back to your car to smoke is a choice, and if you chose it, that's on you, since you could have said no. But, overall, she has points, and flawed thinking.

[@TheEsquireOfSportsFSU]

always with the projection over ONE situation that they can't get over...

[@drestrick3899]

No that is gold digging because a coffee date or a nature walk should be sufficient enough to get to know someone. I’m guessing the cheesecake factory wouldn’t be good enough either 🤣🤣🤣

[@michaeljohnson-ym8zp]

She’s entitled to want what she wants. Lots of women are ok with coffee dates. Go date them.

[@Grand_marquee]

@@michaeljohnson-ym8zpI can be entitled to want a million dollars that doesn’t mean I’m entitled to receive it

[@michaeljohnson-ym8zp]

@@Grand_marquee you can want what you want. That’s the point. Whether you can get it is a different story.

[@yaboyshawn]

I agree with her. Coffee date is just low budget as hell. I’ll at the very least go to a decent restaurant for a first date.

[@stan-oj7rz]

⁠@@yaboyshawnis Starbucks a low budget dating ? Please tell me 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@Reignsupreme76]

She is as basic as a Toyota Corolla, but she has a right to her opinion.

[@herbyoung2767]

Toyota Corolla 😂

[@emtyler]

You sound childish

[@antoniog4894]

A Corolla is a great reliable vehicle. She's a Geo Metro.

[@BruceDragon-sf1tr]

She's not a Ford or Toyota, she's a Hyundai or Dodge

[@TheEsquireOfSportsFSU]

@@emtyler Why are you here? Haven't you figured out that we're ignoring you, yet?

[@NoLiesDetected889]

She thought she could fool BM with a so called educated look. We've seen educated spiritual religious employed 304s.

[@Footballjunky55]

Wit degrees and all

[@saffylllama5609]

Right, all of the women that you don't have access to are 304's. 😭😭😭

[@NoLiesDetected889]

@@saffylllama5609 I ain't trying to access a 304 anyway but it ain't hard. You never hear women say that they have trouble dating because men think they been around. They will tell you its colorism or intimidation.

[@eon001]

I'm not going to judge her for her preferences. No one is forcing you to date her. Just skip her. No need to drag her. However, I will NEVER take a woman out to more than a coffee/drink in a bar FIRST date. Second and third dates, will progressively get better as I see mutual attractions and interest.

[@ebonyskye2964]

Black men in the comments proved her point, entirely. Not only was she judged for her complexion, and to make matters worse, she was berated for having standards. If she was a non-black woman, she'd be praised for her standards. We're constantly told to choose better, but we're punished for it.

[@saffylllama5609]

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK!!!📢📢📢

[@thatguybill34]

*Here we go. A 2 with 10 standards. The internet has inflated these women egos.*

[@r.9874]

@@TheFabulousKelly You basically proved why her video was stupid. How do you know he is a BM? Based on the username and no picture, you just assume they are a BM. She did list standards. Her standard is that on the first date you have to spend more than the price of a cup of coffee on me. So she values money over spending time with someone. Her value is tied in money, not connection. I go to Starbucks for my coffee, and you know what? I see LOTS of wht couples in there daily ... probably on dates or spending time together. PERIODT.

[@Hustle-N-Flow]

@@TheFabulousKellylies many go on coffee dates and white men have done this for decades. The purpose of the coffee date is to not waste our time. Women love to talk and we can sit and listen to one disqualify herself ! Coffee dates work for men seeking quality women to date. Most of these women want to waste peoples time for free meals and be taken out daily by a different man

[@funny_thoughtprovoking5341]

So only attractive people can have standards? 😂 I do agree on egos being inflated though haha

[@TiffanyMoore-ze2hs]

Every woman should have standards.

[@r.9874]

@@TiffanyMoore-ze2hs Every ONE should have standards. She has standards, but no values. Learn the difference.

[@arleneaugustahair8393]

When my oldest daughter said she’s most likely going to end up with an Asian or White man, my brother and his friend were mad. Um she’s biracial and very educated. It’s not about the man being Black but who she’s around most of the time. Her boyfriend is Asian and she’s living her best life. It wasn’t a personal attack but they took it that way. How many Black people do you know take “Outdoor Living” and “Archery” in high school. She had a 50/50 chance from the beginning. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@lamonttbg7200]

Yeah nah I don't have a disagreement with her at all. If she doesn't want to date black men and won't accept a coffee date that's on her. I'm not dating her so no sweat

[@saffylllama5609]

She didn't say she doesn't date BM. She said she doesn't date American black men.

[@CriticalTimez]

Guys are responding with their "emotions," that's why they miss addressing her talking points and immediately attacked her. Yet, men speak of women being emotional as though men don't. SMDH!!! 😒😒😒

[@Hustle-N-Flow]

Her talking points are trash that’s why. Coffee dates were started by white men who do it often. It helps a man let a woman talk who will qualify or disqualify themselves. She complains about what the date cost and that’s the it. Men do coffee dates to avoid wasting time and money on worthless women

[@drestrick3899]

Starbucks is expensive woman 🤣🤣🤣

[@Higfsyourvioihb]

It's some truth to what she is saying...

[@crazyp4549]

🧢 most of the comments was women talking about her.

[@TwoH.Q]

I love dark, black women with black features. I’m married to one. I’m a dark black man from America. To everyone online, stop generalizing. If you decide to stereotype a whole segment, that has to do with your limited experience.

[@reggiehill2917]

This is laughable... show us receipts on a black man saying "you're dark-skinned. How can you have standards"? I don't believe a word of her foolishness

[@leelandglover7777]

I wouldn't go on a coffee date because I don't drink coffee.

[@lavonnealexander6936]

Same, maybe a beer, wine or tea

[@Lou_Da_4th]

Btw, for the ladies scrolling.......a coffee date is a display of intrest in you and an offer to get to know you without wasting too much of our time and resources. Im encouraging all young men in my vescinity to offer coffee dates, if you both click, then feel free to do something more.

[@gcjproductions6789]

Funny how people will make such broad strokes of groups and only experienced a very tiny sample size. Sis, how many black men have you dealt with to determine all of this? You dated black men in every state? How about the black men that don't spend time on the internet? Even 100 trolls on the internet is not a sample size of american black men. If you want to date outside your race, just do it! Stop blaming everyone else.

[@raylin5905]

This only applies to black men. 10 whiteguys can be the worst guys in the world and all white men will never be negatively stereotyped and will still get chances. All it takes is 1 or 2 black guy messing up for all black men to be negatively stereotyped

[@saffylllama5609]

She NEVER said she doesn't date bm, she said she doesn't date AMERICAN born bm. That still leaves bm from every where else in the world like Africa, the Caribbean and where ever else and all those men are also in the USA.

[@saffylllama5609]

Also, she doesn't have to only be talking about men that asked her out. She would also be considering the experiences of the other women in her sphere. And she said most not all American bm.

[@derrickglass4183]

I normally don't come on podcast like this. But the black American men I know are very busy and making money. When you talk bad about black American men's, let me know what circle you are in. The black men's I know are Doctors, lawyers, Anesthesiologist, Nurse, Business owners, etc. You are hanging out with the wrong crowd.

[@NycoleKady]

Small percentage… she didn’t say all ..

[@1anth]

These are the same Keisha’s who have so much opinion about what black men like and are the first to somehow victimize themselves when black men express a preference of a certain aesthetic (i.e. complexion, shape, etc.)

[@babylaneross838]

She's of immigrants background

[@orcaunoo]

she is def not a keisha. she is an ester or abby or something like that

[@1anth]

@@orcaunoo all that is, is an uppity, well-spoken Keisha lol both belong to the radical black sisterhood…

[@1anth]

@@babylaneross838 makes no difference whatsoever. It’s the mindset SHE has individually…

[@1anth]

@@orcaunoo more like Gabby lol but all that is, is an uppity, well-spoken Keisha lol Keisha & Gabby are both part of the radical shea butter sisterhood…

[@steveyj3002]

She can date whoever and i don't care but she doesn't need to go online and hate a whole group of men and belittle them

[@user-rg6nl8yw6o]

I am sorry. It is unfortunate for her. She dont deserve to be verbally attacked for talking. But on the flip side of things. It is funny when you wanna show interest by courting women these days. They tend to use them men. And still be sleeping with the guy who won't even get her a big Mac.

[@barryblack8817]

She not lying

[@62BURNER]

She is lying. How does she know they're black American men? Go to any urban area and the black men are from various countries and backgrounds dressed the same, into the same things, etc. When you talk to them you may or may not pick up on an accent.

[@blackrue]

i acknowledge she said it aint all black men ..... however it aint MOST black men ... she needs to actually look up some stats .. instead of going on whatever she is going on..

[@RPGROBx]

She busted that's all I have to say.

[@dancleary4101]

@@RPGROBx I swear, if every woman looked like that I turned gay

[@steyv]

shame on u

[@dancleary4101]

@@steyv how

[@Type-VoidNil]

​@@dancleary4101 😂😂brutallllllll

[@Mystic_Mary]

She is actually pretty, but her personality destroys it …..ALL

[@kalilove4013]

Is she lying though?

[@leichaurellelux7547]

5:44 She said that it was a specific group which to HER IS MOST however most on the social media are attacking woman for how they look on social media. The good men outside of that most are not attacking woman on social media. I will be glad when social media creates a censorship towards vulgarity of comments where they auto delete in the FUTURE. So her experiences of this clip is on the basis what has happen and again we allllll know she is not talking about the good ones Anton the sad part all of the men think they are good the incels are swimming in your GOOD SWIMMING pools Anton 😂

[@Hustle-N-Flow]

Bw like her swear Brads want them when it’s chads flipping and skipping them lol.

[@hightolerance2500]

Why is she running the hell out the filters 😂😂😂

[@brianscott3503]

Anton, very few men in the comments are talking about her skin color or how she looks…they are asking who are you to say no to “a coffee date” when I’m just trying to get to know you and see if we are compatible.

[@MenBeingHappy]

People attack me all the time, you open your mouth and you will get attacked. They didn’t take down your channel honey so stop crying about some comments.

[@hopelove1595]

If a woman is NOT seeking to be married, there is NO reason, at all, for a man to take her out to an expensive dinner. Dinner dates were part of the courting ritual between men and women seeking marriage. Women, of today, who are NOT out to use men for their money 🤑💰 should NOT expect expensive dinner dates. If you do, expect the man to seek s-e-x because money 🤑💰 doesn't grow on trees. My mother always told us to NEVER accept any gift 🎁 from any men we weren't interested in because 1) It's wrong, 2) It sends the message that you're going to sleep with them and 3) It hurts 🤕 men and will, eventually, hurt 🤕 you when you least expect it. God 👑 knows it's true! I have seen women use certain men and play games with them. Yet, when they think they've met "Mr. Right" he's ALL wrong. In the words of my mother, "God 👑 don't like ugly! You will reap what you sow." The Golden Rule remains the same: Treat people the way you'd like to be treated. 🤔 If you have no interest, whatsoever, in a young boy or a man, you should NEVER accept anything from him and don't mistreat them. We all have souls. Learn to leave people with their dignity!

[@dred9174]

She's obviously lying since she has openly said she used to be involved with glocktavious Pookie and Ray Ray.

[@r.p.m4332]

She is saving Black men's lives. Have a long memory gents.

[@6fig]

I have gotten ice cream at Beach and a walk along the shore for first date

[@saffylllama5609]

This is a good first date. It's literally this easy.

[@SpiritualOutLaw]

I think that colorism is blown out of proportion . I’ve been black my whole life had homeboys cousins, all kind of man conversations. In my circles, a woman’s complexion was never a debate only when describing a person color comes in as a description

[@lisagrl89m.67]

She’s 100%correct!

[@Mimi8402]

Not only that African and Caribbean men do believe in courtship and paying for things as basic as a proper date, so I understand why she’s saying this.

[@triggered3625]

Blsck men just not putting up with blsck women BS no more. I encourage bm to date out

[@god563616]

She made a video saying she will not go on a coffee date with a friend or a man . She NEVER mentioned race at any point of the video but blk American Men ONLY went off on her talking about her dark skin because they are MAD about her not wanting to be on a coffee date. She could've been talking about any race but they got offended which is wild and very telling.

[@Dr.Thomas_Elliot]

A solid 2

[@MrRottoro]

Anton, go look at her video about the coffee date and look in her comments section, I didn't see any black man disrespecting her in any kind of way.

[@troywest1724]

Because she is lying. She is using ADOS/FBA men as a money making tool. She is following in Chad and Becky’s footsteps.

[@christiankic9513]

Bruh to each his or her own but my Opinion .. She Borin AF

[@obtryce7070]

The updatable always has to more to say and offer nothing. Shout out to all my passport bros.

[@thenaughtyamericanexpat]

In Passport We Trust. Salute.

[@Type-VoidNil]

✈️🛩️🇮🇸🇯🇲🇦🇷🇧🇷🇨🇨🇰🇷🇯🇵

[@ebonyskye2964]

@@Type-VoidNilHypocrite.

[@Type-VoidNil]

@@ebonyskye2964 aww shit another one comes for the smoke. I would ask what the hell you are talking about but it's inconsequential. Take care

[@ebonyskye2964]

@@Type-VoidNil I don't date American black men either. I guess I'll see you overseas.

[@jayscott5618]

Attacking someone’s looks is low hanging fruit. People know that women can be offended by such.

[@clockwork9825]

I love coffee. If u don’t like it “BYE”.. 👋🏾

[@holkingd2782]

I think we have a habit of generalizing when we give opinions about topics like this. Why get so upset about her opinion if you know you don't fit the description of the men she's describing?

[@curleybessard7037]

More propaganda coming from these chicks like her, us black men don't say shit like.

[@Bidness100]

She Looking For Attention

[@neon_one_neo3317]

But soon as a black man say he doesnt date black women, all hell breaks lose☕

[@TriniTsunami]

You can say it, and live by that if it pleases you. Everyone should go wherever they're celebrated. Be well.

[@neon_one_neo3317]

@@TriniTsunami you're a black woman aren't you

[@neon_one_neo3317]

@@TriniTsunami the fake approval isn't working, if you truly believed that you wouldn't have commented

[@rahjay00]

Yeah, men already be lying but black men are terrible towards each other and their women. Not ALL but most aren’t there when it matters. I would like to see better.

[@Thadopeera]

She got on a wig. She would be automatically disqualified from even speaking to me in the first place 💯

[@lamonttbg7200]

Skin tone isn't on my list. I love dark skinned women.

[@mel2000]

Nobody can find evidence of commenters insulting her skin tone. She lied or exaggerated to make herself look like a victim.

[@Footballjunky55]

​@@mel2000As they always do, play the victim 🙄

[@danthony4442]

She’s being insulting but in a polite voice. The internet don’t play that. Lol!! That’s why she got roasted but she’s try to play the poor dark skinned black girl card. Lol!!!

[@Bourneman89]

The internet has allowed ALL KINDS of people to voice their opinions. Now she is mad at the internet being the internet. ALL of this for views. SMH

[@ALtheelectrician]

She looks really young and probably has a very limited experience with American Black men. She probably is the child of African or Caribbean parents and grew up in a predominantly white area but I'm just guessing off how her views and experiences.

[@Devlot2000]

wtf is bean juice ???

[@thenaughtyamericanexpat]

I'm assuming she's talking about coffee beans. 😂

[@thefranchise2563]

Coffee ☕️

[@Bidness100]

😂 💯

[@adebisiola5340]

Coffee bean.😁

[@mel2000]

Bean juice is her pretentious way of saying coffee. She sounds insufferable.

[@sleepyapolloh760]

God loves black women as much as ppl hate us

[@ronaldholloway5258]

Good for her

[@thegodofearl]

Self hate is real and she not even average at best we don't care what she thinks

[@j.baldwin3012]

So, is she saying no black men meet her standards? Of course not, so the question is, does she meet the standards of the black men she wants? She's not wrong for having high standards, just as long as she knows that the higher her standards, the more attractive and cooperative her female competition becomes.

[@DominantBlackMaleLeader]

This is part of the reachback. This is how they date: Pookie (Baby Daddy) Brad (Sugar Daddy) Productive Black Man (Step Daddy)

[@kintalea5580]

First: She's Right. Second: The channel Host is ALSO right. I'm condensing my input, because I don't want to walk around this topic for too long. The only difference is the perspectives. She's coming at it from a woman's-"a dark skinned woman's"-perspective. And the Host is coming from an man's-"well adjusted Black man's perspective". They're both correct for opposite reasons.✌️💯..

[@g.v.fitmason1326]

Wait minute, How she's going to Blame me Us for her getting Roasted

[@thegreatone773]

I'm going to need her to stop fronting like she won't be in an arranged marriage.

[@sankofaa3000]

No fba man would give this tether the time of day lol

[@charlesxavier3489]

Why does she have to be a 'tether' for voicing her opinion?

[@MyronGreenfield]

One thing that these modern women dont understand. When we find a woman that qualifies and is marriage material, we will give you everything under the stars within our power, out of love. We want to love women, but unfortunately, most dont deserve it.