Black man, 33 yrs old has never dated a black woman. He now wants to date one.

[@crystalbee9706]

Now that he's damaged and broken and heavy with baggage, he's looking for a black woman to help build him up? Black ladies, just say NO!

[@Osunshoney409]

With all those kids??? Oh hell nah child support out the Azz… nah bruh keep it moving.

[@kisha4040]

@Crystal Bee They always do that. These swirling Black men need to realize that a woman is a woman. Going to another race of woman will not change that

[@BlessedEnergy_]

Hellllllll nooo black women are not his dump site take that shi@#t somewhere ..get somebody else to do it

[@BlessedEnergy_]

Best comment

[@Jazzy-vx5sx]

And you know there's at least one mammy ready to give a chance though.

[@nola7921]

Please don’t date a black woman. There is a snowbunny out there for you. Don’t give up

[@msdeethehoneybeewilson4681]

🤣🤣🤣

[@keepingitrealandtruthful.5081]

Snowbunny...😂

[@ajohnson1294]

😂😂😂

[@aminastoned5687]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheeBadGyaal]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mezxth00935]

He was a stepdad of 5 kids for a bunny. Enough said.

[@ladonnawhiteside4252]

💯✊🏿

[@TheOnlyLadyMarie]

Anything for their preferences 🙄🥴🤦🏾‍♀️😂

[@GETBIG4WARD]

Talk about Darth Simpeous I don’t care what color she was he stupid

[@mrsjoy8831]

Absolutely they will accept the single mother, overweight, attitude trope from every other race of women but black... no no that's where they draw the line

[@prettykitty5416]

Not a high value high earning kang being a step daddy to 5 kids his ice princess birthed. Say it ain’t so 😮. I thought single mothers were a turn off 🤔

[@adams8830]

Nope. The minute you do anything he doesn't like, it's gonna be "see this is why I don't DATE black women".

[@marquitahatcher3561]

Yes 🙌

[@Meee22222]

💯

[@Tonshmar]

YEP!!!!

[@mzfbados1294]

Exactly

[@MsJellybean1111]

Yep.

[@chocolateserenity]

“I’m not gon be a dummy no more.” Translation- I gave snowbubbies the best of me and my resources now I wanna give the bare minimum to a black woman. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mezxth00935]

like always

[@ajohnson1294]

Girl 🎯

[@London2ATL]

This is what I hear when women come on here with 6 kids, 4 baby fathers, and now looking for a good man, but wait.... no sex till marriage and not having his kids.

[@TheeBadGyaal]

Yeah he has too much baggage! 🥴 the fact that he NOW wants to be with a black woman after he’s had mixed kids.. the audacity.

[@lovelyIberia]

yup!

[@Osunshoney409]

We are NOT your social experiment. Keep it moving.

[@jasminelaine1003]

Amen.

[@joshuatruvillion3044]

@@Shay9i with no man though

[@shellz1215]

Chhhhhiiiilleee

[@Malthizar]

Y'all somebody's experiment

[@identi5522]

Yes,thank you;

[@anonymous6594]

Just stay with WW. If you get with one, you will end up leaving her for your preference.

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

Exactly

[@etuitivemillionaire]

“A smart woman analyzes the previous relationships of the people they date. They don't take their word for it that they were innocent in the breakup. Smart women look for patterns.” ― Shannon L. Alder, The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Bible: Spiritual Recovery from Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse

[@shawnni3014]

Facts

[@ronomgenuff]

This is crazy

[@LOSTGPS]

That logic is why most women are single Think about it…..

[@beautyisyourbestfriend]

On behalf of all black women we’re gonna pass him back to the yt women..

[@DandyDuh]

🫡💯🤣‼️

[@TiannaEss]

The white women don’t want him either so I don’t know where he gone go. Probably under some bridge.

[@ryanyoung9202]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@IDFK__]

Yep 👍😊

[@aloveaffairwithself]

All day.

[@afro_buddha4977]

The black women delegation had our meeting and we have decided that we will decline your offer, disrespectfully. We will pass him on to our Mexican sisters.

[@DreamsInBlue]

He is passed on to anybody not Black... Danileigh is a pretend Black woman, she can take him.

[@Malthizar]

What kills me is that Black women cry about being the "least desired woman" yet got the unmitigated gall to decline a man that wants you even if you're morbidly obese and haven't shaved your beard and mustache. Make it make sense

[@DreamsInBlue]

@@Malthizar If you're rejected by the "least desired," it shouldn't be a problem. Cry? Has somebody been crying to you?

[@afro_buddha4977]

@@Malthizar blah blah blah .... Clearly you are undesirable because you sound hurt hurt 😂

[@afro_buddha4977]

@@DreamsInBlue I agree... I hope he doesn't give up on the snow bunnies, plenty more out there for him.

[@MsBrooklyn11232]

I personally will never date a BM who exclusively only dated WW and/or non BW in his life. BM who exclusively only date WW and other non BW can’t really relate to BW. Please continue to date WW sir!

[@lennylink8772]

That's ridiculous. It's hard to find quality people in general.

[@Babajai]

It is sad for a black man to say he has never dated his own reflection. Only black people dislike their own reflection 😔 No other group of people 😒 disregard their own kind.. Sadly..

[@hotties3v3n]

BM*

[@ThePhoenix3712]

​@@Babajai no its not sad for dating your type preference, your mindset is sad if you think an someone that looks like you may have things in common with you, not really.

[@altairolp1557]

What if they lie to you? How would you be able to tell anyway. If you say you would ask to see his exes, etc, then that will speak on what the root issue is and that's insecurity. Him dating outside his race doesn't take away from the fact that he too experiences Amerikkka like any other black man & woman. They can definitely relate.

[@09irishpride]

He doesn’t want a BW for real. He just got chewed up & spit out by snow bunnies. He’ll go back.

[@sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS]

Exactly. It's just a black Stopgap!

[@mezxth00935]

yea they probably haven't jus been checking for him lately so he on his hiatus

[@Thatdudekay2]

Y’all never say this when a white man wanna date a black woman for the first time

[@09irishpride]

@@Thatdudekay2 idk who “y’all” is but I don’t date bottom shelf brads.

[@tessy28]

​@@Thatdudekay2 Just listen to what you said and that should answer your question. WM don't clown and reject women of their own race only BM seen to do that goofy mess. Then run back to black women after getting burnt by preferences. No bw should waste her time and energy on this nonsense. Anyone that does deserves everything she gets with this silly fellow

[@destinytripplett7460]

Coming from a black woman who has dealt with a black man who’s had a history of dating biracial women and non-black women, I wouldn’t want no black woman to involve herself with a black man that does that exclusively. I was told that I was “too dark” for him. Black women PLEASE don’t be this guy’s experiment. He’s only coming to black women because he sees us as a 2nd option.

[@susieuniverse9321]

I second this! I once entertained that kind of man and he asked me if I ever thought about doing something else to my hair-I have locs😳. The self hate is through the roof‼️

[@Moonbaby001]

U are pretty sis!

[@Moonbaby001]

@@susieuniverse9321 u are so gorgeous! 😍

[@adams8830]

Yep, he got bent over and turned out by Becky so now he wants to come back to black women. Nope. Please stay over there.

[@destinytripplett7460]

@@rebeccarambo2893 he told me that on down the line.

[@stilljocelyn_]

He’s looking for a fall back BW until he’s ready to get back out there and date his preference!!! BW stay clear of this 🦝

[@EyeTapTapThruAds]

Ladies please read between the lines… I want the personality because looks is why I’m fucked up now. He views black women as second class in the looks department/ he thinks black women are ugly. NOW he is ready to deal with the ugly.

[@Goddess_Infinity]

Yeppppppppp!!! Peep that

[@missj5564]

BINGO!!!

[@1986Merican]

This!

[@CharisBrinkley]

Exactly

[@kennettabradford6566]

But y'all can't take a compliment from a non black man that really likes us. Smdh

[@truhonestly1327]

We don’t feel sorry for her calling you the N word, we not fighting that battle for you 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@rabrown2799]

😭🤣

[@TiannaEss]

I really feel like he needs a Courtney Clenney in his life.

[@lopinotshay3972]

Dear Sir. Please leave Black women alone. We are traumatized enough.

[@freereign911]

😂

[@ariraquel4567]

😂 😂!!

[@mefe1988]

😂😂😂

[@UnitedPacci]

😂😂😂😂

[@Sigma_Sage13]

Fr fr

[@MsViciousBaby]

I’m so proud of all of these comments. Black is beautiful!

[@brandonbrown6918]

Soo... yawl wearing hair to assimilate with wyte ladies, bleaching yawl skins. 2024 i can imagine a bunch of yawl identifying as white. Stop playing 😱

[@taipan1234]

Get your Passports.. Black Man..

[@cjdiva6440]

​@Taipan123 yes please get them bm!

[@loridori]

@@taipan1234 please.... you're doing us all a huge favor...make sure to take all your dust with you too...we don't need no dust trails left behind

[@taipan1234]

@@loridori it's better than taking care of your bastard kids you had with some thug.. at least you will find a woman who got the brains, to marry a man first.. then have HIS CHILDREN.. black women are too stupid to understand the "HIS CHILDREN" part..

[@2HootHoot]

Black women steer clear!!! 🚩 🚩

[@DandyDuh]

🏃🏽‍♀️💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨💨

[@mikeyy425]

doin him a favor lol

[@Moonbaby001]

@@mikeyy425 clearly the beckies he was with did him absolutely no favor 🤡

[@UnitedPacci]

​@@DandyDuh farting? 🧐

[@DandyDuh]

@@UnitedPacci That's the ground surrounding this dusty .. It surrounds all of y'all🤣🤣🤣

[@km-uh2rs]

As a black woman I LOVE LOVE LOVE all of the many colorful ways we are declining, denying, and rebuking this man in these comments😂😂😂😂

[@Thatdudekay2]

Y’all some losers

[@briak.v]

Sadly he will use this as an excuse to continue chasing Becky's .. he will blame us, they all do

[@joileprincess]

I just love the solidarity ❤

[@DandyDuh]

🏃🏽‍♀️💨💨💨💨💨💨💨

[@lifeis2171]

SAME.

[@Recoverywithtamye]

As a representation of the Black woman community, we kindly decline his offer and will refer him to the Asian community. Respectfully.

[@corettejones]

Madam Representative, As one of your card carrying constituent, I fully Endorse your proposal for this referendum on this platform! 👍🏽🥰🇺🇸🌹

[@chaosswa-ee-ty5911]

Y'all silly. 😅

[@LadyK007]

😂😂😂

[@indigobeauty1]

agreed 🚫

[@mefe1988]

😂😂😂😂Thankyou

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

Black women I'm so proud of us. Deny them the same way Brad rejects his low value women counterparts.

[@Sunflower_Shinee]

I’m proud of us as well ! It’s a HARD NO for me 😂. Also, his resources are still within that community, and they will be. We are not his social experiment. No thank you I’m so proud of us for saying no.

[@DandyDuh]

🏃🏽‍♀️💨💨💨💨💨💨

[@Phoenixishot]

🎯

[@Moonbaby001]

@@Sunflower_Shinee He clearly wants a black woman to split bills and help offset those child support payments 😂

[@Sigma_Sage13]

Sheeeet....deny them the same way they're....nevermind.. 😩🤣🤣

[@MalevolentElephant]

This 🥷 will be a no-fly zone for most black women 😂

[@nmmboy]

He gonna have to make a U-turn back to mayonnaise land 😮‍💨👌🏽

[@LadyAngela678]

Damn right

[@lennylink8772]

LoL, well they are the most unmarried for a reason. That no fly zone behavior you speak of only applies to women that grew up in self segregated urban areas. Not suburbs or un self segregated areas.

[@hotties3v3n]

Better to be unmarried than your last choice!

[@EB-ok3io]

Facts I’m gucci 👌🏾

[@keraraX]

He lost me when he said he not gonna be a dummy no more…. But you was a dummy for the snow bunnies 🐰 NEXT!

[@GETBIG4WARD]

Now you see how men feel when a woman who have 2 or 3 baby daddies come on here and say they want a man of quality it’s disrespectful 🤣🤣🤣just like it’s disrespectful for him to try to give BW what’s left of him after he was been taken to cleaners time and time again by Becky,he need to go back to Becky just like Walmartisha need to go back to Pookie you get what you are 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@lennylink8772]

That's funny for someone of your complexion to state.

[@kisha4040]

Bingo!

[@kisha4040]

@@lennylink8772 She's not a snow bunny.

[@playthatagainbruh394]

Yall say the same thing after having children with thugs/bad boys. Make it make sense 🤣🤣🤣

[@NubianP6]

Bought that hoodie at a 75% off sale, and then wore it in March, in hopes that it would soften the “blow” of him being an exclusive Becky-chaser. 🙄 Believe me, there is *NO* way that he would have hooked up with a Black woman with *5* kids. Now, after he’s been used, mistreated, and abused, he wants to come back to a “sista” (his words). Even for him to say *”I want the personality, because appearance is why I’m f’d up now”* already tells you that he likely won’t consider any Black woman that he’s with to be 100% aesthetically pleasing to him. Her aesthetics would be 2nd (possibly 3rd or 4th) to those of a White woman. No thanks, we’ll pass; they can have him back. ✌🏽

[@coldblooded568]

Right. And the fact that so many BM thinks this way is wild to me lol. Like how BW like BM, but not vice versa? Weird

[@Goddess_Infinity]

😂😂

[@brooklynforever1990]

Exactly stay right over there

[@SunkissedPeony]

Right. A BW would never be his true preference and that doesn't change all of a sudden. You are attracted to who you are. He is just making moves cause things never worked out for him and he thinks switching races will help.

[@identi5522]

Absolutely, everything you said!!!

[@Chuck.Mast3r]

I understand where the ladies are coming from. Most people with some self respect won't seek a relationship with someone who has shown time after time that you're not their type. People like to say the past doesn't matter but it actually reveals a lot about us.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

Thank you anyone who say the past don’t matter really is trying to get you to excuse a transgression most of the world looks down on 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@CharisBrinkley]

THANK YOU 💙

[@lennylink8772]

That is funny. There were no one of his skin color there in his town. How does ones skin color determine ones character?

[@trulydorcas]

@@lennylink8772 Many people from small towns SEEK out who and what they want to date & marry.. . I had family in Minnesota & my cousins dated white people in their town.. But always went to the ‘black area’ further away to date too.. The attraction was their despite the lack of proximity.. . Now one is in Dallas with a black woman; another in LA dating black men.. They always had attraction to their race, even if it wasn’t around.. . He hasn’t in 33 years, that’s a big red flag 🚩 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

I my really does

[@tf8187]

Black women stay far away from this guy. All he talked about was how he was played for a fool by white woman. Now he’s looking for someone like his grandmother to baby him essentially, don’t be that sister.

[@jasminelaine1003]

“Im not gonna be a dummy this time”= I’m about to punish you for everything they did, and put different expectations on you, then get mad you don’t meet them and go right back to the bunnies…

[@kisha4040]

Right. I guarantee you he will not allow a Black woman to get away with stuff he allowed White women to get away with.

[@zeala1]

Speak!

[@tgordon8136]

You hit the nail on the head

[@C-lifeLover]

🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀

[@CharisBrinkley]

Thank you

[@jjayphilly342]

As a BM I know dudes like him. They have a weird vibe around BW and it never goes away. They always think "white ice colder". Shoutout to our sistas...

[@LifestyleofKelly]

Lol he was smashing white for 15 years and also smashed a month ago. He started watching Kendra G two weeks ago and now he wants to come home. He is not even attracted to black women he just wants to find a black women so he won't be alone with a good personality. Atleast he was honest.

[@belizegal29]

@@LifestyleofKelly he doesn’t have a good personality.😂 All your other points are spot on.

[@Patricia-iy3gw]

His snowbunny better come and get him . Now he needs to be uplifted and wants a bw to comb those babies hair . Don't do it sistas let him go back to becky and those five babies . What would you be getting except sex and heartache . Run and don't look back . Now he wants to talk badly about his beckies to bw .

[@mcbthird]

@@belizegal29 he seems to have a pretty good personality

[@TiannaEss]

Those men are your friends? 🤔

[@nnena3631]

"I have 2 children in Arizona that I pay full-time child support on." As opposed to part-time child support? No mention of visitation parenting, mentoring facetime but says he keeps in touch with the step children etc. 🤔🚩 I was married 10 yrs, but didn't know I wasn't bc my pretend wife shredded the marriage license." Shredding the license dosent dissolve the validity of the marriage it's filed in the municipal office first and they have it on record if it's legal. 🤔🚩 "My child's mom put me on child support in high school".... -Huh???🤔🚩 "My sister said I'm stupid, slow, and blind" -Always Listen to the family... 🤔🚩 Church Drummer 🤔🚩 The last white woman called him the N-Word 🤔🚩 I bring more than money I bring wealth.... -🤦🏾‍♀️🤔🚩 Verdict : Run ladies before you become the next figment of this mans imagination😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫🏃🏾‍♀️

[@aliinwonderland656]

Church drummer 😂😂😂😂

[@Lmao10752]

🤣🤣🤣church drummer 🤣🤣

[@seabiscuit2948]

Vetting skills on point!!!!!🤣🤣

[@BellaZ209]

Broke it all the way down lol

[@suzycarmichael933]

Great recap!!!!

[@DestinysMom]

Speak for yourself... My days of caping for BM who don't prefer BW are over.

[@belizegal29]

😂😂I know Kendra was making light of it, but no BW is windmilling for this clown with his histrionics and the fact that he finally got tired of Becky disrespecting him.

[@truebengalsfan]

Why should black men prefer black women? Or vice versa

[@mica8435]

Yeah. I don't care about him being called the N word by a woman he chose. Lol.

[@Sunflower_Shinee]

Mines is over ! I am no longer part of the black male worshiping culture lol

[@susieuniverse9321]

@@mica8435 he should’ve chose better Lmfao

[@SISTAGURL]

Give Becky LING LING or Maria another chance . You got too much baggage.

[@LadyAngela678]

Fuqn right!

[@GETBIG4WARD]

He need to go back to Becky leave Ling Ling and Maria to the good men they aren’t ruined yet Becky have that western mind she is modern and ruined 🤣🤣

[@LadyK007]

😮😭

[@briak.v]

​@@GETBIG4WARD😭😭😭💀😂

[@MaxCharpentier]

LMAO 😂😂😂😂

[@jaceambition7701]

I’m offended for all black women and I’m a man!!! 😮🙅🏾‍♂️

[@rabrown2799]

❤️

[@belizegal29]

😂😂 . I mean this guy is really insulting.

[@DandyDuh]

🫡💯‼️

[@barbettenaj]

Finally a guy with common sense. It’s insulting and all he sees us for is our shape/body parts 💆🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️#byebruh👋

[@atiamadiha1079]

He a straight clown!!! The nerve come on this jawn and degrade us like that.🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@eke.D]

I don't blame any bw who don't want to mess with him. After giving his best to non-bw, he's come back with baggage.

[@ThePhoenix3712]

Baggage and child support

[@wizardofahhhhhhz]

Those white women hurt him so bad that he’s wearing Black History Month shirts in March 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

☠️☠️☠️

[@jroyal4480]

Lol 😂

[@rozieroz7252]

😂😂😂

[@americanexplorer459]

Intelligent people celebrate black history 365 days

[@dmburns555]

😂😂😂

[@numerologicatarot3333]

BW, never take on a project like this. If he hasn’t been able to find a love in BW or have had no interests, consider him too broken. Do not risk it!

[@BKME19]

He still has his ex’s kids and grandchildren call him dad & grandpa?? And he’s only 33? Why would anyone want that. 😂

[@lennylink8772]

Because there are more women than men. And double gay than lesbian. He has the odds in his favor

[@belizegal29]

Total mess!

[@lifeis2171]

Because she's white

[@laplusbelle7982]

@@lennylink8772 false more men globally than women

[@Moonbaby001]

@@lennylink8772 There are different races of men for women to choose from. They have options.

[@coachempress]

Leave us black women alone, stay where you been laying all your life

[@Kaye_Ocean]

I guess bashing his ex was supposed to make us forget simple math. If he split w/ his ex of 10yrs in 2018 but has a 13 & 9yr old by his high school sweetheart in 2023, it looks like the ex wasn't the only one cheating. I like how he deflected that. smh

[@t.m.3769]

The timeline ain't matching

[@BellaZ209]

Exactly! Once he realized he wasn’t making sense he quickly deflected to “she cheated with my cousin” is” yeah ok sir 😂

[@nnena3631]

He was lying and delusional the entire time...

[@belizegal29]

He was disqualified at “Valentimes,” day.😂😂😂

[@euqinom8561]

​@@belizegal29 😂😂😂

[@daniellem578]

I dated a man like this. Black man and I was the only black woman he ever dated. DISASTER! He really was more comfortable with white women and the white culture for some reason. We weren’t compatible and I broke up with him. He ended up marrying a white women after me and having a mixed child. Some black men are stuck in their preferences

[@truebengalsfan]

Was he a bad person or y'all just wasn't compatible

[@mztisfeisty8024]

Girl, what made you even attempt to be his cup of tea?

[@chocovanille5809]

@SMB Girly Girl sometimes they just grow up around white people

[@lifeis2171]

​@@mztisfeisty8024 You can tell when they date white because they have a personality almost as if they are trying to be someone different. It's so odd i've never dated a black man though

[@truebengalsfan]

@SMB Girly Girl so are you taking shot at white women ? What would make these men weak ?

[@meechellea]

He has to truly deal with the reason he never dated a black women for 34 years before dating one. He has a general stereotype of black women with the exception of his grandma. Even if he meets that sweet gentle black woman, when she gets spicy for whatever reason he’s going to be triggered.

[@LifestyleofKelly]

He didn't like how the rest of his women family members acted except his grandma. In the video he says this. He specifically said his grandma was sweet.

[@mezxth00935]

but dont they all feel triggered whenever a bw catch attitude vs the other spicy feisty non bw? They like the attitude coming from them

[@lennylink8772]

What? What about his mother and sister and family? Also you're acting like ski color determines character. SMH

[@LifestyleofKelly]

@@mezxth00935 He is not physically attracted to black women he said he is going for personality now. He likes mixed and light skin. He only likes the black woman behind. He is just trying something new because what he really likes brought a bunch of drama into his life.

[@Malthizar]

"When she gets spicy" lmao 🤣🤣 ok Black women aren't "spicy", they're masculine. Y'all got 151 different ways to justify being terrible mating partners.

[@coldblooded568]

He quite literally just told us that he doesn't like the women in his family.

[@LifestyleofKelly]

He likes his grandma that's it.

[@Meee22222]

​@@LifestyleofKelly right and I was wondering if his Grandma is blk?

[@8213apice]

@@Meee22222 she black. Ain’t no white woman raising him.

[@DAILightSavings93]

I caught those little sly comments about his experience from black women in his family which is why he dates outside his race..

[@BrielleIlMe13]

I dated a black man very briefly, that dated only white women before me. Worse experience of my life. He constantly compared white women and black women. He always made comments that suggested that white women were better. I’m telling you save yourself the heartache!!

[@sacoope1]

Black women please stay away from this guy. The self hate is deep with this man.

[@j.daniels1548]

I didn’t detect any self-hate

[@sacoope1]

@@j.daniels1548 Okay.

[@j.daniels1548]

@@sacoope1 I know you saw that Black History Month shirt.

[@sacoope1]

@@j.daniels1548??

[@j.daniels1548]

@@sacoope1 slow Keisha 🤤

[@gigga693]

Anytime a person talks about everything the other person did that damaged the marriage and none of their contribution to the breakdown…it’s very telling. Ladies he’s not ready for prime time. (Preference aside) he needs healing, not dating.

[@jonnyseablue6911]

I’m guessing he gets that from all the women on this show

[@manchulvanist66]

Some Women are just whores, how about that?

[@Yobachi2007]

What he did that contributed to the breakdown was marry a 5 time baby mama. That junt was never built up because he was trying to run a tribe comprised of other men's families, with a woman attached to other men...apparently his cousin, included. So predictable. He played himself from day one.

[@kiaramurray832]

Her cheating on him with his cousin is very traumatic. And for him to actually see that is even worse. When he talks about it, you can tell he’s still very hurt by it and needs to heal as you said. But whatever he did, unless he cheated with her family member, doesn’t equate to what she did.

[@brooklynforever1990]

💯

[@cliquesnvues]

Realtalk... If he couldn't find beauty in a black woman up until now... that says alot about his character and integrity. Any black woman willing to give him the time of day is taking a huge risk. 1ST OF ALL HE WILL DEFINITELY COMPARE YOU TO HIS PAST EXPERIENCES. DATE WITH EXTREME CAUTION 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@lennylink8772]

How many women would you like to see him run through and not commit to?

[@shawnni3014]

Facts

[@ShaeJ_Shae]

What does it say about his integrity?

[@cliquesnvues]

@Marche’ Baxton I have to question ones integrity who makes a cognitive decision not to connect emotionally/ intimately within your own social group at all. Trust me his decision to NOT socialize or have a relationship with a black WOMEN WAS NOT ONLY FOR LOOKS. JUST BASED ON HIS LOOKS, I DON'T THINK HE HAD A DIME PIECE. THIS GOES BEYOND JUST A PREFERENCE... THIS AIRS ON THE SIDE OF SELF HATE.

[@ShaeJ_Shae]

@@cliquesnvues ook. I thought integrity is doing what’s right even when no one is looking, so I didn’t understand how his dating preference correlated, but I see what you’re saying.

[@ethanm3323]

Cynthia G said don’t EVER do this. Any Black woman that does this is stupid. He wants Black women only because he’s been rejected by Becky or couldn’t afford to keep her or he’s gay.

[@Thatdudekay2]

Y’all love bringing up that monkey

[@sammygotham]

Perioddddd Cynthia has been preparing us for this mess

[@KindTiffany]

He was step-dad to Becky's children....just sayin

[@belizegal29]

This might be the only thing she has said that makes sense, because the rest is hot GABAGE!

[@ethanm3323]

@@belizegal29 no it’s not. So sad Black women are so against her and worship Black men even with them having no job, having no resources, killing Black women, leaving Black women single mothers, no wealth to be seen anywhere but Cynthia’s content is trash. 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@tefnut93]

sisters STAY AWAY, he is gonna say alot of cringing ___ , especially about your appearance since he is more use to vanilla

[@MsJellybean1111]

He tried to avoid drama by not dating a BW, but got nothing but drama😂

[@litchielitch0323]

I lost 2 of my brothers to snow bunnies. We can’t relate. I see how these ladies move and I admire their finesse. More power to them. When they’ve sucked them dry like this man, I hope they have a support system to fall back on because it won’t be me. 😂😂

[@Marinegrunt0311]

Any race of woman can suck you dry.

[@MsBadBody]

Same. All of my brothers have never been with a black woman smh.

[@Marinegrunt0311]

@@MsBadBody I’m married to a Black woman and my youngest brother has black girlfriends. My two middle brothers are married to white women. I’m always thinking man! Y’all messing up the family photos😂

[@omgimover4075]

I’m so glad my brothers married black women. People in my family don’t typically outside our race. The men in my family are pretty loyal.

[@SuperTruthful]

are they alive i'm confused.

[@carlamoore3471]

When Kendra said… That’s what you get😂😂😂😂I fell out laughing

[@belizegal29]

Same.. In fact I said it at the same time.😂😂

[@naturallydope6971]

😂😂😂

[@supremeguardianofmemory7598]

That was nice of His Mom to let Him have his old room back😏

[@sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS]

🤭😆🤣🤣🤣😭

[@JWC24.7]

🥶🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@goddam_goddess625]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@NubianP6]

😂😂🤣🤣

[@allmylifeihadtofight9815]

Girl! 😭😭😭😭😭

[@originalstorm6272]

NO! JUST NO! stay over on the snow side......we don't want you to settle for us now that you've been used and abused. It's ok, we'll support you staying over there🙌🏾

[@geminirising1]

As a black woman, I would never knowingly date a man that will date women outside of his own race. Don’t @ me either. 🙄

[@erehistruth2356]

Amen. That's a turn off.

[@Tiffthefashionista]

I’m only a few minutes in but then had the nerve to wear that hoodie.

[@sylvia.roc_]

Preach 🙌🏾

[@lovelyIberia]

I don’t either!

[@jessicagrant9748]

@@Tiffthefashionista lmaooooo

[@missj5564]

I met a bm like that before and noticed he only dated black women when he needed help. The women he had multiple children with were non black. Those types of men will have baggage, but expect the bm women they date not to. When he gets built up by the bw he will go right back to his preference. I hope no black women dm him. He needs to stay with his preference.

[@aliinwonderland656]

WHAT!? Those submissive, feminine, quiet whyte queenzz were a disappointment

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

Nobody says the white women are like that. Nobody with sense anyway

[@tadycakes00]

😂🤣😂

[@alias4506]

💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@khadb5603]

WE DONT WANT NO TAINTED MEAT‼️

[@j.daniels1548]

I thought y’all liked the beta male simp step daddies He said he was a stepdaddy to five kids that weren’t his. He should be perfect.

[@msdeethehoneybeewilson4681]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@khadb5603]

@@j.daniels1548 I DONT HAVE NO KIDS, AND I WOULD NEVER GIVE BIRTH TO A BLK MALE ‼️.. I WOULDNT EVEN DATE A GGER. I DONT CARE IF THAT NGGGA IS AN ALPHA OR BETA .💅🏾

[@geminirising1]

That part! 🤮

[@Skinny_Pimp]

Wait what? Tainted?

[@nmmboy]

People love using location to justify their jungle fever, but your family had no problem finding the other kneegrows 😮‍💨🤷🏽‍♂️

[@j.daniels1548]

Lmao I have not heard anyone use that jungle fever term since the 90s Hilarious 😂

[@lennylink8772]

Great movie 👍 American is looking more and more like the movie every day.

[@Sistagirltay]

Lmfaaoooooo seriously tho

[@nmmboy]

@@Sistagirltay He needs to stop chasing waterfalls, and stick to the rivers and the lakes that he’s used to 😂

[@belizegal29]

Seriously, I grew up in a predominantly White town in Illinois, where the median income per household was over $500,000. At no point in time did I swoon over Brad. My point, you choose to date those people, and proximity has nothing to do with it.

[@jaceambition7701]

It’s the Black History sweatshirt for meeee!! 🫢🥱☠️🙅🏾‍♂️

[@cutie.the.beauty]

I think its about time he get his passport 😂

[@smellmyfingification]

It's looking that way 🤣

[@djTorchLive]

Look at how he took no accountability to botching his marriage papers. He's not looking for a Wife, he's looking for a solution. Send Him back to where he came from, "BeckyLand".

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

Hilarious if it didn't work out with his preference it damn sure won't work with anyone else.

[@keepsit100atalltime9]

If he don't disclose this information he just shared with us he will probably find someone 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

@@keepsit100atalltime9 Go get him than

[@keepsit100atalltime9]

@@loyalandkindsunshine3382 Lol. I didn't say I wanted him I'm just stating the truth.

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

@@keepsit100atalltime9 Ok, and it won't work just like it didn't work with his submissive preferences because he is the lowest common denominator.

[@keepsit100atalltime9]

@@loyalandkindsunshine3382 It might work for a while but he'll probably relapse.

[@shirl100000]

Dont do it ladies.. never be someone's second options..🙄

[@itoro22]

Or science experiment. He needs to go back because we don’t want him back.

[@WarriorPrincess615]

I get that heart and personality are more important than looks but I could never be with someone that didn't find me physically attractive. And that's essentially what he said when he said he's already done the pretty women.

[@monay200123]

The jokes on him he got the women that were rejects in their own community

[@Hey_its_Brave]

We are not your last hope or nothing for you to settle for.

[@itzjess88]

So how did he file taxes during this 10yrs of marriage?

[@iamqueenergy]

A HUGE dealbreaker for me is a BM that has dated/had sex with WW. It will take YEARS for a man that’s never dated a BW to settle in to who we are. Call me racist, whatever… I’m not a social experiment! Don’t come knocking over here cause the yts disappointed you. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@altairolp1557]

How will you be able to validate his history of who he exclusively dated and had sex with? Are you going to hire a private investigator? If not a guy can lie and tell you whatever you want to hear. Just how women lie about their body count. This is silly, but to each their own.

[@bongoikno4994]

​@@altairolp1557 sounds like you may have slept wit a cave woman

[@iamqueenergy]

@@altairolp1557 right. To each their own. The consensus in this comments section is that this is a dealbreaker. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@lisetteb8727]

@@iamqueenergy I’m with you. Any man that says out of his mouth he only dates other races is a red flag to me. Even the ones who say they mostly date outside their race is a red flag. They typically have some deep seeded form or self hated within them. That’s something no one can fix but themselves.

[@iamqueenergy]

@@lisetteb8727 self hate! That’s all it is!

[@serious7179]

It would be a firm no...whatever kept him from wanting to date a black woman in places like Illinois or St. Louis, MO where there is a plethora means that he was going out of his way not to date a black woman. That bias doesn't go away without some type of help... And it's really telling that he says that he was so caught up with the looks that he didn't realize he wanted someone like his grandmother... So in other words, he's saying that black women are not attractive but white or non black women are. If that's not a red flag, I don't know what is.

[@toybean6713]

Let him stay with his number 1 draft pick😎.

[@greenytaddict]

🤭

[@drcatrinaking]

The comment section is where the REAL SHOW is! 😆

[@chemykal]

So true! 🤣

[@mrs.w8193]

This has struggle love written over it. 🙄 Anytime BM want to reform themselves or “find themselves” or they re struggling or want someone to build them up and “hold them down” they come to black women, but as soon as they achieve success and affluence then they associate whiteness with status and success and they go looking for mediocre WW. This man is a red flag. 🚩🚩🚩🚩 let him stay with WW. If they are his preference, let them help him find himself.

[@MzYumYum]

This happened to a man I went on a date with. The “wife” never turned in the marriage license. He only found out years later after they were separated because the IRS started sending him letters he owed back taxes because he filed all her kids on his taxes! I blocked him while we were still sitting at the dinner table. He seemed nice enough but I wanted no parts of that! 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@DarthFurie]

This doesn't make sense, I'm married and you put on your W-4 Married Filing Jointly as your filing status, then file taxes together every year. To the IRS, you're one person at that point. Any letters we get from the IRS have both our names on it. I'm so glad you got away from him, I'm not understanding his story or how it adds up 🥴

[@maddielu5286]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I am laughing at the blocking part. I give me number but I block them before leaving. Good for you, for walking away from this huge red flag 👏

[@briantbmoth6472]

Lol, tax fraud.

[@Jujutear91]

Not sure if states work differently, but after you turn in the license you get the official one in the mail. If he never got back the official one, why would he assume he was married? It just sounds like these men don't pay attention or are lying.

[@marriejames01]

I thought Becky was fit, feminine, and friendly. I thought she knew how to be a wife and keep the peace? GO BACK TO BECKY‼️ BW ARE DONE BEING THE CLEAN UP WOMAN.

[@j.daniels1548]

What does your husband have to say about this? 🤭

[@j.daniels1548]

@Nashae she thinks most of you all are out of your skulls. I showed her the video where Cynthia G said black women should abort black male babies, and she almost vomited.

[@j.daniels1548]

@Nashae this ain’t no damn dating show! This is a show with a bunch of sexually confused freaks and leftover women trying to be saved 😐

[@jazzmusic8376]

As chairwoman of the the BLACK GIRL MAGIC Committee, WE DO NOT WANT YOU! Want to put all that baggage on a black woman! Take yourself right back on over there to Becky!

[@whatthehellizgoingon]

the first thing he brought up when he spoke was black woman was our fat asses and our built bodies. i would never let a dude like him defile my body for his fantasy. i truly feel bad for any black woman that gets with him.

[@NotLikeUs17]

Reading your screen name and then reading your comment has me almost folded over laughing right now. Lmao 🤣🤣

[@sydneythompson9053]

Idk if I could be with a black man who has only dated out…. it’s too many black men who date out and think/speak negatively of bw for me to feel comfortable around him tbh.

[@ajohnson1294]

He needs to heal before he enters a black Queen’s life

[@j.daniels1548]

Lmao

[@chocolateserenity]

Definitely need to heal more.

[@divinedestiny2774]

Yes he does, he's been through some horrible $h!+!!!

[@ajohnson1294]

@@divinedestiny2774 yes his trauma from his family has caused him to develop self hate. He can’t value a black woman at this moment.

[@Skinny_Pimp]

Heal so he can get that new queen drama. QUEENS HAVE KINGS. Y'all princesses.

[@ToBHonest...]

Nah....just like WM don't want Becky after dealing w/Pookie, us BW definitely don't want Pookie after his a** been dealing with Becky. It's a no fa us dawg. She got the same BM....they can have him.

[@geminirising1]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️🤣🤣🤣

[@MsViciousBaby]

This comment said it all!!! Bravo 🙌🏿

[@8213apice]

❤❤❤🎉

[@SE-gs6gd]

Why would a black woman want to date him with his history and all his baggage. Dude look elsewhere. You would benefit from some therapy too

[@laja1482]

I just had a guy from high school reach out to me with the same scenario. This dude said “I want to come back home” I said, what does that mean? He said “I’m tired of dating white women, they don’t understand me” Naaaaah son and you wouldn’t understand me

[@Natalia-hf3et]

I’ve been legally married. His story of her shredding the marriage license isn’t holding water for me. Perhaps, I’m hungry, need a snickers, and cannot catch up. What is happening with this one, Kendra *Cousins? I’m reading the comments and everyone has summed it up well, something is missing. Edit: his *attraction to BW is about her rear end? Yuck. For some reason, he thought that weird statement would go over well. Thankfully, I watch this show strictly for entertainment. If you have someone, PLEASE stay with them and work out any hardships (within reason) It’s rough out here and these participants consistently prove this to me.

[@belizegal29]

😂😂 Your fun…. I’ve never been married, however aren’t there legal court licenses, documents that state this. I’m so unclear how you don’t know if your legally married if the couple has to file legal documents in a court?

[@BAFABA]

​@BelizeGyaal80 sounds like she didn't file the paper work. After the ceremony the couple, 2 witnesses, and the officiant have to sign the license. Then it goes back to the county to be processed and you are legally married. They send a marriage certificate to confirm it. Some people never turn in the signed license. So I guess she ripped it up instead of submitting it and he never asked about a certificate 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@belizegal29]

@@BAFABA oh wow. I was under the impression all that must be dukes before the actual wedding day. Thank you so much for the clarification.🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@QueenShanine]

@@BAFABA yep I think that’s what happened. When you file it in the courthouse, they give you an official copy for insurance, name change, the dmv, etc. we went Monday after we got married straight to the court so we could get our benefits straight.

[@KB-un3bt]

@@belizegal29 In Nevada after your ceremony, the marriage officiant has ten calendar days to deliver your completed marriage certificate to the county office for filing. You don't file it yourself. A license only allows you to get marrried. A marriage certificate make the marriage official.

[@YAHSCHILD82]

Speaking on behalf of the Fully Melanated Delegation...We Kindly Rescind Your Request....sorry but not sorry...boiii byeee

[@lechell2886]

Unfortunately if a BW dates a BM like this everything you do or say will be a problem and he’ll eventually go back to a WW and also that area he lives in I believe he said Alton, IL is an area where you see alot of BM and WW coupled up… He needs to just go heal and then he’ll attract the WW he desires

[@laneyjackson5916]

Self hatred is real!

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

You see ladies, Judging from this mans history they do choose a woman if she has 5 kids but you need just the right complexion for the protection if you know what I mean.

[@kiymo1]

They will definitely be step daddy to a non black woman’s children, while blaming everything that’s wrong with the black community on single black moms. They help Becky and condemn black women for the exact same thing.

[@queensupreme2000]

I would NEVER want to be a man's first BW.

[@ricana1160]

I would be mad if I’m 33 and kids are calling me grandpa 😂😂😂

[@rabrown2799]

😭🤣🤣🤣

[@belizegal29]

😂😂

[@moonlit9608]

😂😂😂😂 and they not even biological! And how fucking ok’d is the “wife” who had 5 kids when he was 23…. And one is old enough to have kids…?! A messssssss

[@mztisfeisty8024]

He was proud of that because they’re fair complected!

[@scroogemcduckrich9705]

🤦🏾‍♂️ he tryna be rescued by the Black women now that he got played to the hilt

[@rabrown2799]

🤦🏽

[@lifeis2171]

Blqck women.... make your standards like white men. NO THROWBACKS.

[@redswood5731]

Exactly!

[@CrystalFaye1]

He acts like telling us he's never been with a black woman is cool 🙄

[@AbsolutelyLoved14]

The nerve of him to have on that shirt to prove his “blackness” 😅

[@Silver_refined]

The irony

[@nikkithegoddess5932]

He needs to stay his ass with a WW! Once you cross over ain’t no coming back. Now he looking for a BW to save his ass. Don’t do it BW!!

[@damnpam8259]

He's broken and discarded like a misfit toy. No, sir. Stay where you at.

[@TheQueenrevolution]

It's very telling that he made it a point to say he never dated BW... he could have easily just said at the end that he is ok with dating outside of his race...

[@chocolateserenity]

No please stay over there. We good!

[@j.daniels1548]

Are you married? Taken? Ahahahaha

[@MrsFefe32]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@MsViciousBaby]

@@elizabeth9345 black men aren’t like how they used to be. They are starting to act like entitled white women. They all belong together

[@JaysinSpeaks]

@@j.daniels1548 u bitter asf💯

[@R.Yvette.X.]

I did it once. It was Becky this and Becky that. I said, "If Becky wanted you, she'd be here." Ladies, you won't be the exception. They will admit you're better(mine did) but you'll still hear Becky this and Becky that before it fails miserably. You're better off with Pookie, Ray Ray or Earl.

[@brownjaded]

No black women are not better off with any of these black male archetypes. BW are better single or dating men of means elsewhere.

[@R.Yvette.X.]

@brownjaded Abstinence isn't happening, and self-pleasure gets old. So, until Brad, Julio, or Weng Li can be procured, those are the readily accessible non-discriminatory options.

[@allmylifeihadtofight9815]

I’m speaking on behalf of my sistas and saying “we good!” Oh and we don’t give a damn he was called the N word Kendra ain’t nobody sweatin that bs 😂

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

RED FLAG 🚩 WE DONT WANT YOU… I am very skeptical of men who ONLY dated outside their race NOW you want to change it nah! Stay over there! Black Ladies don’t fall for it! Let him be for the “WW”

[@mothergoose80]

I think he should continue to date his preference. Don't burden a bw with all of that baggage.

[@MadmanPanda]

And BW don't fight a WW over this male. He chose that life. Let him have it.

[@devinebeaut]

All I'd say is this is for the brothas that swear that black men should date anything except black women. He's coming back telling you that it's not what it's hyped up to be.🥲They can still keep him though🤭🤧excuse me....

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

That’s a loud minority, most of us date BW. Anybody with common sense would know that blk ppl dating out won’t be sunshine and rainbows in a world where racism still exists… Remember this doesn’t just apply to the men, it applies to the women who say “imma get me a WM” too.

[@MrsRease2011]

@@themarathoncontinues4211 Well said!

[@KB-un3bt]

@@themarathoncontinues4211 BWWM relationships are far more successful. My husband is White and we have a wonderful marriage, 16 years strong. WWBM relationships are not like ours from my observation.

[@devinebeaut]

@@themarathoncontinues4211 my brotha, that's why I spoke on those brothas that does that. The shoe won't fit for all.😇

[@kiymo1]

The preferences in the USA fell through now they’re getting passports to get impoverished preferences.