Black Men Refusing to be Clean-Up Men

[@LordMetalSonic1987]

Women really hate that us men are now picking up on this game.

[@RomWills]

They can't get over any more.

[@LordMetalSonic1987]

Rom Wills It's not just you that the Black Female Borg Hivemind wants silenced. It's other men like you. What I find odd is that you don't really even go in on women yet they want you silenced. These women will pretend to wave a white flag and say stuff like "okay okay, you win. You're right. Now why can't you just go away and stop talking about this?" Like Hardcore Tito would say, these broads are trying to run white flag game on you. Don't buy into it.

[@rockfresh1993]

@@trastradamus Tru they call themselves divested now lol

[@mikeyrobinson5355]

@@rockfresh1993 those white men don't want em either

[@shanenolan85]

Truth 💯💯👏🏿👏🏿

[@vergilabrams359]

Say No To Captain Save a Ho

[@Superrdave6303]

On point message...i can't see myself raising another man's lineage. Why take a woman once she's fallen off when there are those out there who are in shape and on point? Move wisely gentlemen

[@RomWills]

That's what I tell brothas. I know several in shape, intelligent, and childless sistas out there. Men need to focus on them.

[@patton1909]

preach!

[@aaronmarshall382]

Right.

[@josephmurray9585]

Glad I decided my snowboard trips were more important than saving some woman from her past....

[@longcl83]

PREACH!!!!!!

[@Geemoneyy2001]

💯💯💯💯

[@tedizmyname]

#Crucial

[@shanenolan85]

💯💯💯👏🏿👏🏿 and I sooo want to get into snowboarding 🏂 you're living life my friend 💯💯👏🏿👏🏿

[@ChicagoBossa]

​@@shanenolan85 do it, I went snowboarding for the first time this year. it's worth it

[@yaboyshelz]

I remember this nice guy at my old church that was married to this good looking lady with a wagon! And 2 teenagers. And you could look at them and tell something didn't fit right. Well one day she totalled her car and he went and got her a Benz to replace it asap. Few months later he caught her cheating in their bed with her kids father...... They divorced and a year later she married the kids father.... 2 years later he died in a motercylce accident leaving the cheating woman a widow and the nice guy remarried a nice woman... Everytime I think that time I always remember how he bought her Benz....... Smh

[@phantom2468]

I chose to just separate myself from the environment that fosters this type of problem. I live overseas now and if I went back to the states I would be single. I was considered a nerd in school and more recently I have had women from high school try to get at me. I stopped dating black women and American women altogether because through my experience it is all about them and what can you do for them.

[@RomWills]

I understand where you are coming from. I agree that this environment is toxic to productive relationships.

[@jeyda5984]

phantom2468

[@jeyda5984]

phantom2468

[@shawnhazel8208]

@phantom2468 you mention this 6 years ago and unfortunately it did not get better

[@timmybailey4989]

I think most men are picking up on the harsh realities of crazy women, I'm glad black men are rebelling we need to save as many good ones as possible

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

The genesis of Alan Roger Currie’s Beta Male Revolution

[@pslink6437]

The statement you made about the woman putting the kids as a priority over the man, is the woman's way in saying that you are not her first choice, and she's just settling for you. Excellent point made.

[@RomWills]

Precisely.

[@MultiKingvegeta]

Her kids will come first

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

@@MultiKingvegeta Which is fine, and she can handle that whole situation on her own.

[@sigga5]

Gospel once again, Rom. Good vid. You articulated what I've been saying for years. And, it's only going to get worse, man. Women are now even waiting until their mid-30s to try and get a solid brotha. By that age all their numbers are high: weight; babies; and, body count. Then they want a stable cat to take them as they are and just forget their past. She's letting a dude know right there that she don't think anything of you. Women be like: "I'm now overweight, bitter, my fertility is on its last leg and everywhere we go we're going to see a dude I've slept with and/or dated...and I want to give all that to you, brotha!"

[@RomWills]

LOL! Sadly many brothas have heard that same speech in one form or another.

[@patton1909]

fuck that

[@MSmith-mr7se]

Eu Mu LMFAOOO

[@ThaDarkLighter]

Brotha....that fuck up. Its so true. damn dude.

[@ymarley1180]

Fuck that

[@TheImplerazure]

Perfectly said. I grew up seeing this all in school and work. It is going to get rougher for women as men finally wake up. Superb video as always.

[@RomWills]

Thank you. The game is changing.

[@davonbenson9655]

I used to think that women were being nice to me because they were cool, but they only smiled in my face, because of how good looking I was. As soon as I became overweight, those same women showed their true colors, and started ignoring me. I'm just now starting to become physically fit, and the women are starting to check for me again. A lot of these women are full of shit.

[@RomWills]

Women are very much into looks.

[@amazinggrace313]

This sounds about right. If you let yourself go people won’t notice you

[@tmac7887]

I couldn’t keep a woman by my side in my 20’s because of my financial situation…They saw me as a lame when they were dealing with the drug dealers and scammers..Now I’m in my 30’s with a good job and what I’ve noticed is that the people who be trying to stop my money are the struggling single mothers, because I refuse to take care of another man’s responsibilities…It’s gotten bad to the point where I had to have a butch female friend to keep the bitter baby mothers in check

[@D.Anderson]

Bro, I am 43 years no kids divorced grew up in a Caribbean culture both my late parents were married to each other for 44years until they passed 4years apart and was together for 8years prior to marriage. My parent's were great people my dad use to sit and preach to my brother and myself about women exactly what your saying. In jr high they use to give me no play lol then when I hit 15. Lost weight life forever changed. College women, teacher's. The girls that use to give me no play I ignored when I use to be on fb most have 5kids 300plus pounds etc mind you these were the popular girls in school trying to inbox you or friend request you. I have no kids I was married to a single mother for 6years I fell for the old bait and switch! lol I voted with my feet and moved on with my life. I will never do that again I am enjoying my life on my own in peace got a promotion at work, a better place etc but peace of mind is everything in this life Love yourself 1st!

[@RomWills]

Great testimony. Ultimately it's about a man getting the most out of his life.

[@D.Anderson]

Rom Wills thanks bro just sad to see how the landscape changed so much with relationships and basic interaction.

[@RomWills]

David RUDEBOI Anderson You're right on that.

[@joefromdc]

Mary J. Blige - song: Mr. Wrong. first two lines of the song says it all

[@trahouston]

Mary J Blidge is currently paying her ex husband around 120,000 a month because he became accustom to a certain lifestyle while they were married.

[@bishopjames6931]

I'm feeling you 👉 at 18:45 I was once that guy but thru experience learned to not be that sucka and educate yourself on female nature.

[@supa5th20]

Me too bro.

[@patton1909]

Bishop James Preach!

[@shanenolan85]

Same brothers 💯💯 I once was a simp... but THANK GOD I learned NOT to do that...

[@williamdean4775]

I am a black man.. married.. 3 kids with one woman who is my wife. Have a good professional career and a side hustle. Now my wife is white. I was the ugly dude in HS because of acne but it cleared up senior year and I went away to college on the east coast. I remember being on a date with this black girl back in my 20's. I took her out to nice restaurants and out dancing at clubs. And she says to me... I like this dating stuff.. smh.. She then went on to tell me that she sees me dating a white girl. Well I tell you this.. She was the last sista I dated. And my wife after 3 kids and 12 years still has a good body. The old heads were chcking her out at my Daddys funeral. My point is get in where you fit in.

[@RomWills]

Hey you made the right decision for yourself.

[@richtheking7157]

What I have noticed is that older ww in 40 and 50s checking out black men after their white husbands discard them. Many of these ww can't get a wm to give them the time of day. Now that they are old they see us.

[@christopherjameswright9614]

Lol I know I'm late but what does that mean when black women say it looks like u date white girl's...I've had black women tell me that I'm cute but what's the psychological reasoning of why they say that

[@AG-xt6ei]

@@christopherjameswright9614 prob too clean cut. You don’t have the “swag” that a lot of black women want

[@The-DAWG957]

@@christopherjameswright9614 Too much good treatment, too nice or soft, you might aswell date a white girl.

[@responding8185]

Russell Wilson didn't get the memo bro

[@stefonejames8336]

black people always end up arguing with each other smh

[@markswift]

Yup, that is why I keep to myself. I do love the subjects Rom's videos cover.

[@NkrumahTure]

Neither did Jermaine Dupree with Janet Jackson and her half arab child.

[@toreyburse1324]

I feel you brotha. My warranty is my last name. It represents the sum total of all the sacrifices I made to get where I am. And like any skilled tradesmen, I'm not putting my last name on a Jack legs work. I stopped eating other people's left overs when I learned how to cook for myself.

[@RomWills]

That's the way to be.

[@heyitsablackguy9553]

Rom wouldn't you agree that it'd be insulting for a woman to come up to you once knew who was a spring-chicken back in high-school or college and ask to go out with you now who got about 3 kids & tons of baggage? I know I'd be insulted. Men when once they get to about 30 and above are serious. They're not playing around anymore, especially in this economy and political environment.

[@RomWills]

I definitely agree.

[@Larry-qz3es]

I am a 58-year-old black man never married and with no children as well. Recently, there is a woman I know who has five children from two different fathers and desires to have another one with me. My response to her was no thank you. No need for this late point in my life to bear children or to take care of someone else's. Not my DNA, not coming out of my pay.

[@shanenolan085]

💯

[@Waltjoh100]

I was a cleanup guy. I got a kid out of the situation & now have to pay $2900 per month combined alimony child support.

[@christopherjameswright9614]

Got dammm

[@vevomaxx5779]

my step father took my mom with 5 kids, now he's old we take care of him. Mom passed away, and now we all he has Then they adopted 3 more after we all grew up and left. You must have a good heart to be blessed in life, and Its all in how you raise your kids.

[@thelastpharaoh196]

he stupid as fuck

[@REMYXbyVOLUME]

Children will always be number one, I have a daughter that always comes first being a father. However, I do believe that men helping to raise another man's children, we should be held high in the woman's eyes--Great and faithful men, not a good man, but a great one. This is often not the case. We are treated as a disposable-tool instead of a beloved individual or an appreciated individual; Manipulated into settling for being an asset, not a treasure.

[@RomWills]

Very powerful comment. It takes a lot to raise one's own so it takes a whole lot more to raise someone else's.

[@REMYXbyVOLUME]

TY kindly for your recognition.

[@RomWills]

REMYXbyVOLUME You're welcome.

[@RayRay-lg9de]

I understand exactly what you're saying because I choose to be with someone who already had three kids who's fathers all died and looking back now the treatment I received was not one seeing me as a great man but she was trying to control and keep me away from the people I was close to friends and family always wanting to know where I was and all that and I came abroad to better my self and she found herself someone to give her pleasure and he was the same type of as the men she had before and the sad thing is before I found out she was talking to as if everything was cool while he was right there all that time .I stuck not being with her but I have two girls by her and I'm basically a form of income cause she has them and she knows that

[@RayRay-lg9de]

I'm learning to be a better man now through listening to Mr. Rom Wills and other men he has mentioned in some of his videos. I came up as the only boy in the house so I was always trying to seek knowledge from older men and find things out myself so thanks for your videos you are making a difference

[@goscott2]

This brother speaks MUCH wisdom. Very well analyzed and truthfully laid out.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@MagusCimarron]

Been there done that. Got treated like a 2nd class citizen to her child. Once and never again.

[@deadlyraver4454]

I like this vid. Just like your title says, a lot of black men are refusing the clean up man role, or as I like to say, they aren't takeing the scraps anymore.

[@RomWills]

Men are demanding better for themselves.

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

That’s why a lot of men are going MGTOW. Or as Alan roger Currie calls this is the beta male revolution. The non select men are now rebelling and no longer acquiescing to being the Plan Z. They’re demanding the respect they deserve and saying they’d rather be alone than be forced to happily accept leftover trash and pretending to be happy that they’re getting that. And women are mad because their plans hit a snag. They aren’t getting the Part II of their dual mating strategy like they hoped. They got the alpha fucks, but now they’re losing out on the beta bucks end of the equation.

[@deshawnwillis7691]

hey rom you hit it the nail on the head man. Im 29 and live in a urban neighborhood were the thug is the most desired man. Im 29 and i can count on one hand how many black women gave me the time of day. Im a college graduate, never been to prison, so black women often dont want anything to do with me. Now heres my deal i have a bad boy look , if i had a penny for how many times i was called handsome id be rich by now, but once they pick up on my non-thuggish demeanor they completely loose interest. The girl would even go out of here way to make sure the other girls dont like me either and laugh at me as i walk pass. So sad to say Im actually loosing intrest in black women and feeling forced to date only other races of women and no black women. I feel that when women finally start seeking men like me, Im going to feel resentment and vengeful toward them to point that Ill want to hurt them even more then it will be my time to play.

[@RomWills]

Do what you gotta do. If the women don't value the man you are that's their loss. Go where you are celebrated.

[@vlee7217]

Deshawn Willis wow. sorry to hear that babe. u would be just my type 😍. im 29 with no kids and look good myself but i get turned down at times because im not loud. it will happen

[@noneexistent2781]

Never start to resent your women tho bro. I swear its the same 4 me.

[@xoacatl]

Deshawn Willis .... Keep rolling bruh! you just have to venture out of your immediate surroundings. When you do run across those qualified black women it's like a breath of fresh air!

[@reggiejohnson6226]

i feel you man

[@Physicalfitnessandbeyond]

I'm worth more than being a clean up man or to finish last.

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@oaklandsoldier5920]

Amen to that

[@FIREMANLBW]

Us black men just need to go to other races find the women who wants us

[@ilovebuu1995]

FIREMANLBW thank you

[@tyronebixby]

Don’t sleep on women from other races either! They will get on some slick stuff too if you’re not careful. Stay on your game fam!

[@minnesotamatt1980]

stay sharp family

[@darthabrams85theghost39]

Single mothers must be shunned

[@RomWills]

Many feel that way.

[@donnelladams340]

Man I wish I had this knowledge 20 years ago but I had to learn the hard way. Much respect unc for another gem.

[@donnelladams340]

Unfortunately unc most of the women my age of 37 have alot of children, finding a women between the ages of 35 to 45 without children is like finding a needle in a haystack.

[@djmichaeltimex4511]

I'm in the process writing a book relating to this. Yourself and Rollo Tomassi are a HUGE inspiration. I've seen the absolute WORST of this dynamic, you're spot on as usual.

[@RomWills]

Hit me up when you finish the book.

[@mrrsaf]

Another excellent video. A lot of these women will go for that "healer" only to revert back to that life that spit them out in the first place. I've observed that in my life as I reflected on "what I did wrong" and "my patterns". Came to the conclusion that I wasn't scanning the women I was approaching well enough, some of them only saw me as a rebound type. Once I shut off communication and such ohhhhh "shit got real". However, if you buy the ticket, you going for the full ride". I do gotta figure out why all these rejects keep darkening my door. Like I advised before.... I'm no Idris but I'm not table scraps either!

[@narobigaines5072]

I was that young fatherless teen you talking about .Young attractive smart athletic charming arrogant self centered philosopher. From 13 - 30 I would sleep with dozens and dozens of women .I couldn't turn it off I thought that was a badge of honor. I ended up with a child at 30 from a women with 4 kids 3 kids fathers. I ended up being # 4 with her 5th child .My first child was from my worst nightmare .I grew up real quick because now I have responsibility of someone who needs a conscious civilized God fearing man in his life .Thanks for the video .I'm focused on myself now and can wait for God to give me the right signal to have a companion

[@RomWills]

That's growth right there.

[@jabbaweezy]

Damn that woman's 🐱🐈 was a trap. Caught 4 men if not more

[@supa5th20]

Damn! I wish I heard this level of truism 22 years ago!

[@nowdid]

I been on KZbin for 7 years now. I originally came here to watch Lionel Ritchie , Cyndi Lauper and Three Stooges videos. I am so thankful I came across people like Rom Wills,Blackpowerstick,Tommy Sotomayor David Carrol, Avenue Rants and SargeWP.. You men even though I don't agree with everything you say you really opened up my eyes to things.

[@RomWills]

I'm humbled.

[@desmooth7284]

That was some real shit. Great video man. Wish I had none this YEARS ago.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@Tyler-hq9be]

The “clean up man” like u said society is shaming men that aren’t cleaning up but it’s crazy to me. I’m in Canada and the avg women age married is 28 and being red pill I just laugh 😂 I got a step dad and he was pretty much the clean up guy for my mom & u are so right my friend. Never will I marry a women past 25, u 28 looking for a husband now but ur value is lowering while mines is gettin higher… sum bullshit goin on over here guys needa wake up

[@djmichaeltimex4511]

I knew there was going to be a female deflection....and gotdamn what do you know there it is LOL

[@Quincy82AAC]

I will never be a simp mangina clean up man for no woman as a childfree black man. ☀️💯😊🙂🌍

[@Smitty753]

You might be the best dating coach on KZbin you explain things from more of a unique point of view I'm definitely going to contact you

[@RomWills]

I'm honored you would say that.

[@shanenolan085]

14:12 Social Media informed us... everyone is sharing information and I LOVE it 💯💯👏🏿👏🏿✊🏿

[@454bonzai]

Yes Sir 2019! Sent her packing! She had to kids from two different men. But I knew her before the kids and now I'm a viable interest? Parish the thought! Back in the water you go "fish".

[@toteknowledge]

This so true, its frightening..speaking from personal experience.

[@RomWills]

Yeah it is.

[@oaklandsoldier5920]

This principal still applies in 2020. I refuse to be a clean up man.

[@deejaygary191]

I needed this video and I'm not even going to say I'm actually a "good man". I've played the field by being that "dog ass nigga" once point of time. thought I would switch it up just switched it up by putting myself in a position to be the "clean up" man as if I didn't know any better. BIG MISTAKE and quite miserable. But indeed going to get out of this situation it's not for me especially what I'm trying to do in life.

[@RomWills]

Life is a teacher like that.

[@j.namwen.97]

Found your page and had to subscribe. Straight truth being spoken. Thanks fam ✊🏾

[@RomWills]

Welcome aboard.

[@deejaygary191]

I'm not even gonna lie. I'm going thru this now

[@popsmokeandghost2416]

Deejay Gary Get out of it if you got no kids. Make an excuse and tell her you need to get your shit together. It works for me.....lol

[@artbunker]

The Rebellion is just starting. This is the first generation of men who have peeped the game on a massive level. SOme guy will still take care of these women. However, everyhting you said in the video is truth. The non wifing of singl mothers will send a message to the generations to come about the consequences of not haivng safe sex and choosing the wrong partner verly in life. These ladies love to joke alpha fucks and beta bucks. Well , we will not do it. There is no biological or cultural advantage of this practice. They have had their fun. Good on them. Dont expect 90% of the guys who work hard and did the right thing to sacrifice thier fun. There will be good women with kids out there, but Im not taking that chance. Why get a used car with 100000 drama miles on it when you can find one with 10-15000 miles, less bitterness, no responsibilities, and with less stress?.

[@RomWills]

BOOM!!!

[@raymondshepherd3145]

Rom, you are 100000% Right on Point. You, good brothers in the Black Manosphere got Black Negropean Feminist Women Behavior Culture down to an exact science

[@19678897]

I've Just located where I can buy a copy of the Sexual Chemistry!.......getting ready to take a mini vacation.....love a good read, inspirational, informative & Educational......Congratulations on all of your Accomplishments thus far!

[@RomWills]

Thank you for the support.

[@shawnhazel8208]

Bro Rom, Can you speak on what's going on in Japan or provide some direction for research?

[@RomWills]

I haven't really kept up with the situation in Japan. Really it's just a manifestation of something going on worldwide. Non-Select men are not accepting their lot.

[@MarqueshaMartin]

To all my handsome Black Kings. As a 40 year old Black Queen, who have such deep empathy for others, I have no shame in owning up to my downfalls. I have no hatred or ill will towards anyone. For crying out loud I'm a proud mother of two handsome Nubian Kings (20 & 17 years of age). There are some good Black women out there. You're supposed to picky about who you choose to date/marry/have a family. You have a right to be happy. Nobody's perfect! You know what you can deal with..you know what you just can't tolerate! Stay true to yourself always. Peace. Be And Stay Blessed my fellow descendants of royalty.

[@RomWills]

Thank you sister. Respect.

[@MarqueshaMartin]

sure

[@allenspacer5345]

Marquesha Martin I pray none of my fellow men believe that sweet talking bullshit. The moment men start making excuses and going on a quest for the unicorn, is the moment they fall back into the trap. We've given women enough chances, what I do ask of my brothers is that they learn from their mistakes and the mistakes of others.

[@grandcanyon2]

Yup they alwaysget humble after the fact, and start talking that jesus or god talk my nubian kings etc. I hope guys still don't fall for that. Marquesha was one of the same chicks getting it in back in the day, with pookie and ray ray.

[@grandcanyon2]

the reason for that is they want resources and protection for themselves and their children. they never think about how their mating choices effect the community. it's after they get old and got a bunch of kids and no man wants to commit or raise their kids that's when they get on some bullshit. like say shit like what about the children.

[@manuelruffin5743]

Bro you should have put out that book, and not think about it being to inflammatory because thats the truth about about how these Black Women Are, plus putting Good Black Men through hell and now they want us to clean up Pookie and Ray-Ray's mess? I don't think so.......But yeah I wish you would have wrote the book....but if you did how can I order it 😊😊

[@truckerkev7067]

By far your BEST VIDEO

[@shanenolan085]

10:57 It's unfortunate but modern men are wiser... reminds me of the film Casino with Robert Deniro and his wife kept going back to the guy... he saved her from her past life but he learned his lesson at the end.

[@jswann721]

I'm a black woman and I don't like being the clean-up woman for men who made mistakes and had bastard kids. I don't want to raise another woman's child or endure the financial woes of a man having to pay child support to several kids, taking money out of the household. It goes both ways. I'm not simping and being captain step-mom to men who decided not to marry their baby mothers. Go marry her and have her take care of your kids, I don't like babysitting kids that aren't mine and I don't like spending my hard earned money on kids that aren't mine. Believe or not there are a lot of us that feel this way.

[@RomWills]

I respect that. More women need to speak up about that.

[@TheTrill334]

Why did you marry into that situation? That's a choice

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Good for you!

[@Justamanliving]

Hello Sir! I just bought my copy of Nice Guys and Players from your website. I will read it when I get back from my deployment. Your videos and other Red Pill brothers have saved my life. I am 25. I was introduced to the Red Pill at 23. It was hard to accept at first because I was so "nice" but the constant disappointments from my relationships/interactions revealed the truth. I was raised to be a beta. It went against my programming to see women as they are vs the ideals I was raised on. I am not MGTOW or anything because I think a rotation is the best thing a Man can do for himself. If you have 3-5 women that all serve a purpose you won't thirst. This also allows you time to focus on your Purpose. Kevin Samuels has helped quite a bit as well. I get out of the military soon to make good money on the outside. I am actually excited and curious to see the world as a HENRY. When my ducks are in a row I will definitely be at one of your meet ups. Thank you so much!

[@chejedi8397]

It's real.. .and it's accelerating. Great video.

[@shanenolan085]

💯💯💯 Don't Save Her... She Don't Wanna Be Saved 😭😭

[@douglasjones4824]

"Mr. NIce Guy" by Kenn Starr.....that song speaks to this!

[@RomWills]

I remember that song.

[@19678897]

Hello Again Rom!....I was trying to locate your Sexual chemistry book...I've located the other 3 on Amazon.....Can you plz give me some information on how to acquire the book?...Thanks kindly...Tammy

[@ThorstenVXO]

In what ways do female selection criteria differ between the black subgroup within the Western world as compared to Western societies in general?

[@RomWills]

It's really not that much of a difference. My book, *Nice Guys and Players* literally sells all over the world. There's so slight nuances but the criteria is the same wherever Western culture exists.

[@ThorstenVXO]

Rom Wills Thanks for the quick reply. I will get your book and read it. It must be a curse for you to be able to notice all the subtle and not so subtle negative developments in society. Sometimes it's better to be blissfully ignorant.

[@RomWills]

ThorstenVXO It's actually entertaining. Thanks for the support though.

[@charlesrandolph8441]

GOOD INFORMATION AND VIDEO! WE MUST KNOW THE TRUTH AND PROTECT OURSELVES FROM THESE 'VIPERS'! GOD BLESS!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@jdrawles60509]

You need to change your title to "The Gospel According to Rom"

[@RomWills]

That sounds good.

[@x-fatboylifestyle589]

lmao. the kids come first.... ok. 🚪🏃

[@deonwalker1549]

Damn this Niqqa told the truth nd even mention the teacher... This some real shit

[@glennjohnson6897]

Outstanding Rom!!!

[@joelrionstaves4684]

34, not married, no children.

[@busyrand]

"Great Pumpkin..." Hahaha !!!

[@longcl83]

Excellent video Rom!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@ThorstenVXO]

What's the music in the intro?

[@RomWills]

The music is Oh'ms law by Mia Miata.

[@jbmorgan3572]

This should have happened along time ago.

[@RomWills]

Yeah we took to much bull for so long.

[@doncalypso]

Rom, my brother.... next time try to turn up your microphone's volume because I have a hard time hearing you in the replay despite cranking up the volume to maximum. Other than that, keep up the good work! We need you back on Obsidian Radio Live to preach the knowledge to the masses.

[@RomWills]

This video was made with a camera. I'm going to have work with volumes on the camera and my computer. The problem is that it sounds fine on my computer. Then once it's uploaded on KZbin it's something different.

[@doncalypso]

Volume is low but the sound quality is still clear.... and it's probably good that way. Folks need to FOCUS and pay very close attention to what you're saying in that video. You're doing the Lord's work, man...

[@RomWills]

Thanks for letting me know though.

[@nekasheematumizi3469]

Most of the guys committing are Low vibrating men. You are who you attract...The Laws of Attraction... Change your energy then you will be able to attract a women of class with 5 kids.. lol...You get my point.Now in regards to the video, this man is correct when he says women has a selection of "The selective and non selective". Women want a man with confidence, usually those are the funny guys, sports players, or ballers.. The non selective (nerd type) has a responsibility of stepping his game up. Please do not exclude this behaviour to black women only. All women use this same selection process... I see it in white and Asian cultures.We all have been Programmed by TV and ads to believe that cool guys are the best...By the way, 16 years ago I married a nerd... And, he's my KING.....

[@RomWills]

Actually, my books where I talk about the selection criteria are sold all over the world. I've said on several videos that the selection criteria applies to all westernized cultures. That being said, Black men are my primary audience for this channel. Also the criteria is adjusted depending on racial and cultural norms.

[@rooseveltsevere8649]

Very informative 👍🏾👍🏾

[@deannabarnes3771]

My son and I had a talk on why he needed to lose a 45-year-old plus sized woman with 6 kids that wanted my boy to simp for her. He didn't want me to get my belt. ....and he only 32 years old.

[@RomWills]

Tell him.

[@deannabarnes3771]

@@RomWills You know I did

[@jaimesmith2266]

Gotdamn she got more baggages than a airport he certainly dont need no shit like that in his life and i can imagine that belt was closes by lol

[@hiteckniq9691]

I get at least 7 of these in my face every week without fail.

[@timothybailey9117]

Man these intros are pretty lit

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@baileyedward774]

Settling is a sign of being very thirsty for being in a companionship with a woman. #THIRSTY FOR 💧 WATER ONLY.

[@weareit9530]

This reminds me of a streetcar named desire how Stellas sister wanted a man to be with her cuz she was washed up solely for his dinero, this shit is sad, any male that dates a single mother is a simp if he does UNLESS FOR A REASON THATS OUT OF THIS WORLD .01 chance it is but as Unc says “That’s all for today.”

[@minnesotamatt1980]

Into 2022.. no cleaning up!!! 💪🏾💪🏾

[@Unidentified43]

This situation is really unavoidable. The only way to fix this might be people pairing off really early. Like before 25. Arranged marriage style. And probably changing the cultural norms. I dont see that happening though. So after a while everyone would possibly be someones clean up person. Unless you managed to marry your first love or first sexual partner.

[@RomWills]

Well in this context many Black men simply don't want to raise another man's child. Now if both parties are childless that a different circumstance all together. I agree with you that cultural norms need to change. Eventually that will happen organically in the Black community. There are small subcultures in the Black community (Black Elite, some Black Christian sects, some Black Muslim sects) that get it.

[@RomWills]

***** Strong points.

[@Unidentified43]

***** Why are older married men interested in sleeping with 15 year olds? Cant a grown man say, no? If the teenagers are supposedly approaching them? Anyway teenage pregnancy is declining for black teenage girls. I believe I also read black births are declining overall.

[@xoacatl]

What was the incident or chain of events that clicked for you (back in 1999) to say that you seen men not signing up to be clean up men?

[@RomWills]

Nothing in particular. I've been peeping things since childhood.

[@xoacatl]

I hear ya!

[@clarencebrowniii4750]

Jesus, Allah, Buddha, Great Pumpkin lol

[@bamnjphoto]

Good video, you nailed it.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@TheCoreye]

Rom wills could you please start posting these videos on facebook sp that these women can see? Please.

[@RomWills]

People share my stuff on facebook. Trust me they see them. I hear about it in my inbox.

[@jabbaweezy]

Wish I could say I see what you see. I still see too many black men being clean up man.

[@RomWills]

Some are refusing but many are still there.

[@kjhustleguy3673]

real talk salute real game

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@MilitaryAgeMale]

No scraps

[@gbot9000]

Love that bumper music

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@donnis618]

Great video Rom

[@RomWills]

Thanks brotha.

[@dontex7]

💯💯💯👍👏...on point period.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@Train1900]

Women with the thousand mile stare. Its all in her eyes.

[@mslowkey3873]

I understand the message, but answer this for me. Why is it ok for men to pick women they find attractive, but women are shamed for wanting someone they find physically attractive ie:pretty boy?

[@RomWills]

You make a very good point. One of the things that's happening is that quiet as it's kept many experienced men are telling a younger man to look beyond a woman's looks. Many men have got in trouble for focusing on just a woman's looks, "she had a phat ass though." The problem with women wanting pretty boys is NOT that women want these men but that women don't admit to wanting these men. Publicly women will talk about the personality traits they want in a man but not the physical traits. Then men get mad when they see a woman go for a man because he is fine because they believe what the women are saying publicly. In my books I spend a LOT of time telling men to get their physical appearance together because I know the deal. Unfortunately we are in a situation where many men don't develop themselves physically because many were not taught the importance because women are not saying it. Indeed we think something is wrong with a woman who is open about wanting a fine man. Now the only I would say is that it's nothing wrong with wanting a fine man but make sure his character is right. The problem is that a pretty boy has a lot of power over women and power corrupts. Then many men do not like having to deal with the repercussions of a pretty boy's actions.

[@ronibeziako]

Women get pregnant....

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

Rom, I remember you talking about this before, especially at one of your lectures. I was there, I saw it. Of course, this is part of a bigger picture.

[@keithlamont8208]

because it doesn't work when woman do it

[@keithlamont8208]

because it doesn't work when woman do it

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

Killed it.

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@TheMpofu]

What they doing in Japan??

[@RomWills]

Look up Herbivore Men.

[@MoveInSilence23]

Sexbot brothels. They're in London and NYC as of 2017. Before long they'll be in all major cities.

[@treybyrd3332]

Rom Wills basically Japanese MGTOW.

[@ThaRiddler]

Damn this shit too real.

[@RomWills]

It is what it is. Classic men are waking up.

[@ThaRiddler]

Rom Wills thanks for the video man. This shit hit me in the chest. I'm late for an appointment because of this. Had to watch it twice.

[@1968dogg]

The jazz cut intro??????????

[@RomWills]

It's Oh'ms Law by a beautiful sister named Mia Miata.

[@1968dogg]

Appreciate it---she will get a sale...

[@winniew6742]

I found you through Sheraseven1. She did recommend you in one of her past 3-4 year old videos. Lol Shera liked you.

[@bostonwilliams4879]

You are right on