Black Moon Lilith in the 7th House of Relationships: Like a Moth to a Flame 🔥

[@MaRaXxX17]

Lilith represents the need to liberate yourself from your chiron. In order to understand Lilith “the shadow” you have to understand the “wound”. We create a shadow self of the things that we hide in order to keep “pain” away. It’s not negative, it’s just a survival skill. The wounded feminine is included here because the wound to “Source” happens from the very traits that are considered feminine. For example. I have Lilith in the 7th house but Chiron in the 1st house. Because these two things are placement in time you have to go back to where the wound originated. My Chiron is cancer. That means all things that are “moon”. Lilith in Capricorn is all about freedom from the “structures” that constructed and constrict us. In my generation it was also religion and female “behaviors”. So you can see how my Lilith worked in relation to relationships and partnerships. I wanted to be free from people beliefs systems built around the wound. 1st and 7th house aspect for a reason. They’re just opposites in the grand wheel of time. >> the path of earth around the sun and the rest of the celestial bodies. That means that perceiving the process of the generations before me, I learn how to interact w the world. >>the next house over is the 8th house. It includes everything that is transformation. Lol it’s weird I know. But it all makes sense!

[@lemurianchick]

One thing to keep in mind is that defense mechanisms or survival skills are often not consciously known. So as we get older, they become more deeply ingrained and therefore more problematic. I agree with you that it serves a purpose. But it will likely be problematic because it is a shadow element.

[@MaRaXxX17]

@@lemurianchick yes mam! That’s why it’s there, to shine a light :) thank you for commenting. It makes my comment clearer lol there’s always two opposing forces to living, and evolving and adapting will always be the biggest change. It’s important to read the energy to act accordingly :3 astrology never ceases to amaze me!

[@underwaterpanther]

Chiron 4h cancer and Lilith libra 7H here I feel your pain!!

[@chenaeM7]

I felt that desire to self destruct through relationships! I was definitely that girl everyone would scratch their head at and think …. really? him?! or why don’t you just leave??? I kind of knew they weren’t good for me but I was attracted still.. like a moth to a flame you’re totally right. like i almost liked their darkness and destruction they brought to me but you’re so right it was kind of an unconscious thing. Its good to know where it’s stemming from now. Obsessive ex ☑️ Abusive ex ☑️ Drug addict ex (and getting addicted myself + getting eating disorder and health issues bc of it) ☑️ I’ve noticed in my relationships, they ended up a better version of themselves than they were before the relationship, and i’d be the opposite to that, id be way worse, id be depleted and i’d be left alone to find the way back home to myself, or back up to heaven i guess you could call it after travelling down to hell with them.

[@CleoraAleise]

Reading the part where they left better & I left worse hurt but I can relate I’m about to protect myself & my inner child like Muhammad Ali not about to keep allowing this for myself it’s very painful

[@inspiredbygracecoaching888]

This image perfectly reflects how it feels to have this placement in Scorpio. You fall in love with the bare bones of what you deserve. Obsessed with emotionally vacant individuals breadcrumbing you away from your needs. Im healing by refusing to accept nothing but what I want.

[@lilithhecataniangoddessesm187]

I did a deep search about “said” bully from the University I used to go it’s Birth Chart, due to the unforgettable past incident she died of murder by her victim, accordingly to countless of witnesses. Her Lilith is in her 7th house and you’ve mentioned they are attracted to things that would destroy them. The witnesses, including people who were close her said that she was warned by her victim not to mess with her, to quit mocking her, take their important discussions more seriously whenever they had to, but her friends and other witnessed that knows of her compared her behavior to an untrained aggressive dog, where even if you commanded the dog to stop it’s aggressive playfulness thats already hurting you, it would still continue to do so, the bully would continue her gaslighting, mocking and submissive kind of bullying to her into the victim’s anger. Incase its needed, the bully is a Pisces Sun (no cusps) Aries Moon in the 10th house, Venus in Cap in the 8th house and Mars in Libra. The Victim who murdered her on the other hand is a Leo Sun with Virgo cusps, Leo Moon in the 9th house, Venus in Libra in the 11th house and Mars in Gemini in the 8th house. She was stabbed 18 times by her victim in the University’s cooking room for culinary students. They added this details that before the incident occurred, the victim limitlessly attempted a physical attack on her tons of times, but was lucky to have people to interfere it for her. They mentioned she din’t had enough courage to apologize, started acting paranoid and traumatize, she was quieter and shakes a lot whenever she sees her victim or even hear her victim’s voice, they also mentioned that there are times she thought she heard her victim’s voice, only for them to find out it was someone else with a similar voice, yet they said her fear was noticeable. According to the investigations, it was all planned, because they are in the same floor in their last classes. The bully in the cooking room, and her victim in the computer room. But however the victim found a way to get the bully alone was said she be a plotted major plan. The Victim has her Mercury in the 3rd house, has Mercury dominant, she MAY BE a master mind/trickster. But anyway, thank you for this information, I’ll study about it more. I’m madly in love on using astrology to solve mysteries 🖤

[@levypham761]

OMG such a unforgettable story 😢

[@jacobfschaffer]

This is an amazing description of my life listening as a man with this placement. Thanks!

[@elilluesmaangel9142]

The best description of this position I have seen. Thank you for your great contribution.

[@lemurianchick]

Thanks for taking a listen and for your kind words. 🤗

[@unbalancedlibra9788]

I'm a triple libra with with black moon lilith taurus 7th house. Phucked up. I only attract mentally messed up people who had awful things happen to them. Never a nice girl who's "normal" lol. It use to be fun but now I'm freaking tired of it lol. I also have juno scorpio. Freak magnet. All my relations have explosive endings also. All my exs love me and I love them but we all know I'm fire and their gas. I have sun in 12th. Idk a very karmic life

[@lakshrampal2970]

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[@niamarie4313]

I feel you. I’m a Taurus sun, Venus, NN, Vertex all in the 8th house with a Taurus Lillith in 7th and Scorpio Juno too. All the guys I’ve meet have a dark history and are very weird and aggressive. I’m a very nice person, it’s getting draining being the healer of other people and they leave me traumatized while they are better at the end

[@Quasihamster]

The way I like to put it, Lilith sets the house she's in on fire, so whatever part of life that house represents, you ain't getting any, at least not just like that, not without getting your hands burned. Lilith also seems to set on fire anything else inside that house, so please be smart kids, don't put Lilith where you have your stellium. Or your Sun. Or your chart ruler. Or a stellium including your Sun and your chart ruler... O-:) Also, I love that picture! :)

[@lemurianchick]

😂 I know, right! Pixabay has great free pictures and I saw it straight away.

[@hanna-xg7ce]

I have lilith in the same house as my Saturn (my chart ruler) and moon. Help😀😀😀

[@MoonLightt57]

Godd this was such a informational video thank you so much ❤️

[@itty.bitty.pretty187]

Makes sense and I agree with alot of it and some things I you spoke about I made me realize some things about myself in relationships.. Thankyou! I am a Sagittarius Lilith in my 7th house btw which also shares the 7th house of Sagittarius with my sun, Mercury, Venus, Juno and part of Fortune.

[@liliuolani]

Scorpio stellium with Libra Venus in the 12th and north node in Sag and I’m polyamorous✨ alllllllll of this tracks for me. Destruction and freedom

[@AeroAngeloA]

I have this placement and yes through third party situation felt called towards polyamory. It is a happy medium but I am definitely not against monogamy. Very much can handle a happy one on one. Everything is based on equality. I'm not possessive and want my partner to grow as an individual allowing us to grow and love one another with a healthy balance of union

[@lemurianchick]

Curious your Sun sign and Venus.

[@Mirandaconnection]

Same here im Taurus sun, Venus cancer. 🤷🏻‍♀️ just barely learning about astrology.

[@Kahleem-RAHTheAQUARIUS2001]

I do have this placement but it's with a Lilith aquarius 7thouse, It's crazy how I even ended up in my situation, my mom had brought me with her to go to school (to be more specific college)for her protection/comfort I'm 19 at this time her class was a late class from 6to 8:30pm we get there and I'm sitting in the lobby and this girl came out of the computer lab she talking on her phone, she sits down beside and makes comment about my shoes and then we are talking and about 15 min b4 my mom class ends this ask do you want my number or something ☝️ (ME: I'm literally in the moment kinda not thinking much of it.) so she gives her number to me and she also gives me a hug fastfoward a few months we been mainly texting each other a few times shed call but the situation I was in my family was in my mother and my brother was at an all time low in terms of our living situation and what it is was for me an ex. of what it was imagine living in your or a bathroom with your siblings and parent or parents and it's in someone else home it's always awkward, always tension, no space breath as in mentally, yes that's what we and I had to do for about 2 years) so me tryna call her with what I no what my mom is and how she'd react I rarely called her or even picked up if she called I rarely answered overall it ended as she stop calling and texting less an less we're it just stopped and that point I always kept playing back in my head what I could said or maybe if said this then that etc I always thought and whish I was in better situation like finish college and get a job to support an relationship then Id be able be with her for the longest I had dreams of her of me in a better situation but I kinda felt a lil depressed but something happened where I got this feeling of being selfish like im holding her back in a spiritual way by me thinking for myself or strong thoughts that favor my success of being with her so i learned to just let her go in a spiritual way and looked at as more of a lesson.

[@Trust788]

My man has this placement hes very faithfull and iam not a toxic partner nor is he, i think its all.in how much the person loves you he has upmost respect for me and vise versa he also has his venus in his 8th house , no signs of him cheating or wanting or desiring a partner who is dark he loves my faithfulness not to mention we are both 45 not sure if age has anything to do with it.

[@RachelRampage88]

Drug addiction is what can be the danger of what some people like which is toxic like the relationships.

[@lemurianchick]

@@RachelRampage88 That's true! Some people are risk-takers or like living on the edge. A hard angle from Mars to Uranus can sometimes show this: square or opposition--especially a need for speed. (I mean like driving too fast, rollercoasters, hang gliding and not coke! 😅)

[@kellyrozenel7863]

I’m sorry I respect you as a person who looks into astrology, but I have only black Lillith in my seven house and I am deeply committed so almost a fault in relationships whether that’s romantic business or just friendship. I have also never been the other woman. I don’t crave “freedom” I crave balance respect and honesty. I am a Pisces Leo rising Taurus ascending. I almost feel that your description is a little bit biased. Based on the simple fact that early in your video you stated you don’t believe in marriage in the sense of signing on the dotted line. While I do believe marriage is a contract between 2 people who chose to hold up their side legally it’s deeper it’s a promise to another person that you have their back through all life ups and downs and they have yours. I have been in 3 serious relationships the first 2 were toxic and hard I learned a lot this last one has been eye opening not always perfect but we truly care for each other and make it work with commitment communication honesty trust and love

[@lemurianchick]

First of all, Lilith creates controversy and extremism. So if you are committed to a fault and are a Pisces, maybe you look the other way too often when it comes to bad behavior in a partner because you want or need relationships TOO much? If I erred in any way, it was not to include codependency, which is the opposite of wanting freedom. I do not consider myself biased at all! I am definitely opinionated but I can see other sides of an issue. I just celebrated 40 years with my partner. The reason I said that about marriage is that people can get caught up in the surface aspects. Being legally married will not stop infidelity. It won't stop abuse in marriage. It's not a magic solution. But I respect people who do it intentionally and I am sorry if it seemed like I was disrespecting legal marriage. These days there is a lot of domestic partnerships and I didn't want them to think I was leaving them out. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Kelly. 😊

[@abhinandankanwar1445]

Hi Kelly, I have lilith in 7th house Aquarius and watched some videos who just focus on same thing related to attracting toxic and abusive partners who are unfaithful. It's depressive to hear that because I was looking forward to get married. Your comment gave some hope. Is your relationship still going well?

[@unbalancedlibra9788]

As a venus in scorp... nope. No polygamous relationships. I don't share 😤

[@lemurianchick]

🤣

[@jessiedeg2822]

Hi! Im a libra, Venus scorp and 7th house lilith too

[@unbalancedlibra9788]

@@jessiedeg2822 Hello 😁

[@unbalancedlibra9788]

@@jessiedeg2822 whats your sun moon and rising if you don't mind me asking.

[@jessiedeg2822]

No, hahanot at all dear! Libra sun, cancer moon and mars, and everything* else including ascendant is in scorpio. Except for the 2 capricorn/generational planets.

[@grand_air_trine_astro]

Yes ex has Juno conjunct BML falls into my 7th house conjunct my Mars and he has these double standards - wanted me committed but he was cheating in secret but wanted to keep me regardless treated me like an object my Mars wasn’t having it. I healed my trauma now as it was very abusive and I’m out of it 4 months.

[@jelenavidovic1289]

Hi, one question: does it mean that Jupiters must be compatibile with partners Jupi (energeticly) or they must have literally same sign (same energy) Jupiters? Sorry for my grammar and if I'm missing the point, loved the explanation btw very much👍... Thank you .

[@lemurianchick]

Your English is wonderful. 😊 I just am not sure what you mean. I don't believe anyone's Jupiter has to be in the same sign as someone else's. I am not sure what I said that made you think so but no.

[@jelenavidovic1289]

@@lemurianchick aha okay, thank you, the way i understood it is that partners natal Jupiters should match energeticaly, to have the same path, same life purpouse, in sence that they naturaly understand each other, i quess that is the essence, the same sign thing somehow came out of that idea, but i see now you didnt mean literally that. In any case i get it now and thank you for clarification🌌💜 this perception of the matter is very original btw and makes sence ,love it👍 😀

[@jerrimenard3092]

I know someone with this placement and they are into polyamory. They are not married legally but they have a LTR going on. It's rather complicated. They like flngs thanks to a significant Sagittarius stellum, but they also want a place to return to if the going gets rough when it comes to money. They like to drink, way to much. This has landed them in court. It's also not uncommon for them to sleep with the lovers of business partners. With relatively good looks, they get a lot of takers. What I will say is, for some reason I am about the only person not turned on by them. Looking at my own chart BML, I see why. Minds matter more to me then a persons body. They are none to smart. So, we can be just friends because we have incomparable turn on buttons. Yes, it is a lot like 12th house Venus. The big difference I see us that they are not ashamed that other people know they put it around. They are more ashamed that it's not fitting with the standards of the public false morals we have in our area. They want to be views as faithful while engaging in less then faithful behavior. They also want lovers they have to only see them even if they have many lovers.

[@lemurianchick]

God, that is such good insight! Wanting their promiscuity not to be seen as a character defect.

[@dhanurdhar1954]

how affect men, is simple. You have to look at the specific chart, house, sign and nakshatra (vedic here) and you will know specifically how lilith affects men. We can, on any stance, say generally what any sign is for everybody. If you do not know the chart of that men, how do you spect to answer that men's question?

[@lemurianchick]

These videos are for the general public. Specifics are addressed in private readings. You're absolutely right. I would like to learn Vedic astrology sometime. 🙂

[@dhanurdhar1954]

@@lemurianchick try to learn it. I use maitreya software and jagannath hora software both are free.

[@lemurianchick]

@dhanurdhar1954 Thanks!😊

[@tallulahdozier]

I notice you speak with a lot of hesitation in these videos. Why is that? It’s great info but I feel like it would be more hopeful if there was a flow.

[@lemurianchick]

What exactly do you mean by hesitation and what do you mean by hopeful? Are you saying that I am not affirming my statements enough and therefore hemming and hawing? And so it doesn't feel hopeful because you don't know if it's really true? I will never state anything like it's a solid fact because it might not be true for everyone and I am mindful of that always.

[@قصصالانبياءللأطفال-ر6د]

what about synastry chart when my lilith is in his 7th house and his lilith in my 7th house ?!

[@lemurianchick]

I don't do synastry charts. I do love readings my own way but even in toxic relationships it's way too easy to find an excuse to stay with that person when you shouldn't!

[@Ye14678]

I have this placement at 24 degree but Saturn is also there what does that mean and i have Lilith in Leo with Capricorn ascendant

[@dhanurdhar1954]

what is men without women? Almost the half of men is made by femme chromosomes. So that men you talked about should understand that hi is not a men and period, if he does not know himself he may not even know what type of men he is, what to speak of knowing the femme side. He should understand about qualities associated with the femme and the male in astrology. Liked your video and voice. And the girl with the squeleton aswell.

[@lemurianchick]

Thank you for your observations. I agree with you.

[@sandrarobertson8998]

What does it mean if lilith in virgo in the 7th house, please.

[@lemurianchick]

I will be doing Lilith in the signs. Then you can synthesize the info. Maybe married to Jesus? 🤣

[@topshorts4987]

is this similar to Lilith in Libra?

[@lemurianchick]

Yes!

[@ArlingSolorzano]

I have Lilith in 9 house ♌.

[@lastboyonearth1897]

4:54

[@justbutiful1318]

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