Bowling Alley DESTROYS My Bowling Ball.... So I TAKE the Owner's $200 Ball in Return -Reddit Podcast

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[@Fanny_FromDeathPact]

Ok

[@AngryConeMan]

how are people commenting so fast wait why am I?

[@samiahholmes2208]

I have no idea 🙃✨🩵

[@buddhasshadow]

So THIS is what Gaster spends his time on while he's in limbo! (referring to the gameplay)

[@Gamebro3844]

I'm completely on the OP's side in story 4. The SIL asked for the OP's camera, she said no...and yet the SIL still freaking took it anyway! And her wretched excuse for a HUSBAND allowed this! The SIL has some serious entitlement issues here. And that husband is no better. It's completely the SIL's fault that the OP's camera got stolen. To be honest, I wouldn't put it past the SIL to have planned on that. Not the camera having been stolen...but to have given it away. Maybe to a friend of hers. My advice to the OP? Press that lawsuit. That entitled witch can either spend money to replace the camera, or spend some time behind bars. And definitely leave that pathetic husband. He's as useless as a softball at a bowling alley. And you can do SO much better than him.

[@anne-vc7bg]

Honestly - the way they executed such harmonious stories... You may be right. It did say the sil broke her boyfriends PS, so a 2k camera 50%off would be a quick "here's your money if you drop criminal charges". Op should definitely divorce, not yesterday, but last year... This will get exceedingly worse, not so much the sil, but the Toxic game her husband is playing. This is not the first red flag. Hopefully it will be the last.

[@Gamebro3844]

@@anne-vc7bg Well Xbox, not PlayStation. But yes. The whole dropping the criminal charges thing also would make sense. I mean, it's all speculation at best. But again, I really wouldn't put it past that slimy SIL to sell the OP's camera.

[@anne-vc7bg]

@@Gamebro3844 sorry, I'm getting old :) I just hear "videogame thingamajig" LoL. my bad

[@Gamebro3844]

@@anne-vc7bg Lol. It's fine. I myself am sorry for being so corrective on that subject. All the same, that SIL destroyed a game console. And it'd tick me off no matter what system it is.

[@anne-vc7bg]

@@Gamebro3844 nah, it wasn't coercive at all. Words have meaning and we should use them correctly, myself included. If you'd call USA United States of Argentina or something, I'd correct you as well :) it may not be so important to correctly name a gaming device in this situation, but it will make me double check if I'll need to buy anything electronic - so thanks 👍😊

[@CaptainTom_EW]

Last story: OH MY GOD JUST LET PEOPLE BE HAPPY It's none of OP's business what the guy does with his life, if he wants plushies, then he can have as many as he wants if it's not hurting anybody or causing financial problems for the guy

[@kayschut9327]

Indeed, I know a lot of people who do this (myself included from time to time) instead of talking to themselves out loud. Talking to yourself is a healthy, normal, and even beneficial way to process thoughts and experiences. Also a good way to cope with issues, like a girlfriend wanting to get rid of your plushies.

[@meganpardoe8918]

What’s wrong with teddy bears? Sometimes you might want it so you buy it and it probably means a lot to him

[@angelaschultze2404]

Exactly. I collect my little ponies

[@CharlieQuinn2772]

Last story, op found a man who earns enuff to afford a 3 bedroom house, who has plushies he loves and cares for, and is... Upset? This man deserves better like actually. Id cry too if the person i thot was my friend told me i was weird for liking soft toys in such a rude way for no reason

[@GooseCartoons]

I agree, talking stuff out with a thing can help get emotions out without talking to people.

[@sirprize275]

Camera story: Yes sue her and leave your pathetic husband! She stole from you, lost your property, and your husband allowed it to happen and allowed her to get away with it.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Exactly. Heck, I would have called the police and reported it stolen after finding out the husband had let her take it and even given her the key to where it was kept. That’s grand theft, and accessory to grand theft. Get the both of them arrested and press charges.

[@11rahimis1234]

I would take the sister in law to small claims court and get the money back for the camera. She is jerk and needs to learn NO MEANS NO!!!!!

[@Demonic_Culture_Nut]

$2000 is larceny in some states. If OP lives in a state where þat or less is þe lower limit, small claims court wouldn't be qualified for þe case.

[@11rahimis1234]

@@Demonic_Culture_Nut I see. Still she should take her to court and get what is owed to her because $2000 is not something everyone has readily available. Plus this camera was for work and not just some hobby. You do not take people's stuff when they say no and not expect to get chewed out when you screw up.

[@Demonic_Culture_Nut]

@@11rahimis1234 Absolutely. I 100% hope OP lives in a state where þe lower limit is $2000 of value or less since SIL needs jail time to understand what she did was stealing.

[@MarsJenkar]

Depending on what other damages the OP can claim (such as lost income), this might be large claims material.

[@Slaps-Bigmeat]

Just destroying someone’s special ball is sad but destroying their 200$ bowling ball is sweet revenge

[@Fanny_FromDeathPact]

Hell yeaahh

[@viviennemorgan7217]

but you need to pay for the bowling bowl.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@TheZamaron that's true

[@ryanmackenzie6109]

The Camera Sister: although it wasnt sister's *fault* that the camera got stolen, it WAS still her *responsibility* to replace it.

[@gigglesgaming131]

It's 100% the sisters fault it was stolen. It's because of her and the husband that the camera is gone. If the camera stayed in the OPs room like it should have. None of this would have happened. The sister is in direct cause and effect of the camera situation.

[@ryanmackenzie6109]

@@gigglesgaming131 Yeah. I was just trying to follow the logic of the husband. He was saying it wasn't her fault. Even if it isn't her fault, she's still responsible for it

[@gigglesgaming131]

​@@ryanmackenzie6109that's fair

[@NoraIconiq]

For the camera story: yeah no sue her sue her into oblivion people who say well they're family are trying to sweep the issue under the rug if it was literally anyone else they would demand blood for thievery she literally stole a 2000 thousand dollar camera a camera which op uses for work. This is beyond family this is causing direct financial harm to op and her husband just wants to let it go. Hell no sue the sister and divorce the husband. One is a criminal the other is the acomplise theivery is one of the biggest betrayals "family" can do and it should not be forgiven.

[@phobiawitch835]

This. Put it perfectly. Sue her a**, she’s a flipping THIEF

[@viviennemorgan7217]

or you can call secruity or Manager for the beach.

[@gigglesgaming131]

Make zero sense to do that. Nothing will come of it. The sister is at fault for the entire situation. The husband is enabling her terrible behavior. Just because the sister decided to have a melt down at the beach. Gives zero justification for taking the camera, not bringing it back and allowing it to get stolen.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Story 4: OP should have called the police after finding out from the husband that the sister in law had taken the camera. I’d file grand theft report against the SIL, and accessory to grand theft to the husband and press criminal charges, as well as file a small claims court lawsuit against the both of them if anything happens to the camera. Also, file for divorce shortly afterwards.

[@jasonhoward1308]

Yes $2000 is worth the hassle and family doesn’t mean shit

[@princessmarlena1359]

🐴 “Family is a sinkhole. You should get out while you still can!” ~BoJack Horseman

[@kaleatennyson7307]

For story #6, I don't think he's completely overreacting. Yes, I get his partner wants to support her family and their hobbies and stuff, but she should've talked to him about moving the painting because its not just her house. There's gotta be some compromise.

[@danielhorton9826]

I don't think the husband would have overreacted if there wasn't already what sounds like a significant history of his wife doing things like this. Also it sounds like the place for the picture is supposed to be in the nursery. Instead she decided to take down an important picture in her and his room to replace it with something else, without consulting the husband first.

[@dm8391]

I gotta agree with the OP on story #6, your husband is just as guilty not anyone can just go and easily replace a 2,000 dollar camera ,especially since the fact you directly told her no and your husband let her take it. That’s not right in anyway, because it shows they both have no respect for you or your wishes as well as your property so honestly suing her for it is the right thing to do l. It doesn’t matter if she’s “family”, that title is earned whether they are blood or not so I would give the ultimatum of replacing the camera asap with the same value as your old one or take her straight to court even if it affects your marriage because who’s to say he won’t do it again and continue to side with his sister down the line , especially if it will involve you in some way

[@felipeperez7844]

It’s stuffed animals; prople are allowed to have them, no matter the age. Sure most people wouldn’t, but it’s not that weird.

[@Tontteman]

Camera story: op need to sue her, she stole op's camera and doesn't want to pay back what it's worth. That literally is a theft. And that husband, that is so toxic man, she really should dump him also. There is no excuse, he should be one hundred percent on his wife's side and he should be the one who demand that his sister will pay that camera. And it doesn't even matter that she is "family", if you steal something, you will pay it back, either with money or with jail time. Sometimes small and seemingly insignificant issues can reveal deeper and more serious problems in relationship. Yes, one camera can make you think, "what kind of person do i share my life with", is that love? does good husband act like that?

[@princessmarlena1359]

Exactly. Press criminal charges for theft, sue in small claims court, and after getting the money and replacing the camera, file for divorce.

[@harrydewey5585]

Final story is a coping mechanism, and it can really help people who’ve gone through a hard time

[@greytala]

I am a 51 year old woman and I sleep with two stuffed animals every night. One was a gift from my mother when I was in junior high school and the other one was given to me by my Mother-in-love a few years back. I don’t see a problem with him having teddy bears. My stuffed animal have listen to many of my woes over the years.

[@mochitheangelderg9895]

For the teddy bear one, I'm a 20 year old who still buys plushies. Its a comfort thing. Be glad we're not going to drugs or alcohol and that's the thing we have for comfort/coping.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

the manager is such an ahole in the bowling bowl story he could have told op to play a bunch of games instead of bowling in a bowling lane or eat something but i'm glad that op got his revenge

[@viviennemorgan7217]

i will be angry if someone does that.

[@darklightmagus1222]

Last story: OP's Bf either had a poor childhood which is how he was so determined to do well to afford the stuff and comforts he didn't have as a child or the Bf had parents that denied much of his childhood wants so he was motivated into being well independent to get the childhood he was denied. Either way, men want to keep playing even during our adult years no matter how childlish the hobby may seem. A lot of "adult" hobbies like drinking, going to bars and partying are quite self destructive. Most women enjoy these social events but men aren't as inclined. A simple board game, tabletop game, Legos, or playing using our imaginations with collectible figures or stuffed toys can do wonders of enjoyment.

[@kayschut9327]

On top of the more negative connotations it is also a substitute for talking to yourself out loud. Which is totally normal and healthy, and a good way to process thoughts/experiences.

[@GooseCartoons]

This is one of the best things I’ve ever read

[@animefreaks9963]

That last story is super toxic towards the woman, who the hell cares if a grown man collects stuffed animals. I have a Teddy Bear I've had since I was 7 years old, 20 years I've had that bear. 20. There is some patches on him due to my siblings wanting him but couldn't because of how I got to own the bear, but after they knew they couldn't have it they tried to destroy it like 'If I can't have him no one will' and then there is the other sibling who didn't want the bear, they just tried to ruin him because I didn't submit to their attacks and they got upset I wouldn't let them play on my Xbox 360 that was in my room as a bribe to move down to the basement. Now that we are all adults I just have to worry about my niece and nephew now. I still sleep with the bear, it's my comfort item in my life. Anyways, just because a grown man talks to his bear doesn't mean his immature!

[@user-ok9qo5ty6l]

This is incredibly creative and talented!. Yes $2000 is worth the hassle and family doesn’t mean shit.

[@noahmorris6808]

Actually in the story about the camera they could just go to small claims court and be down 200$ instead of 2000$

[@kayschut9327]

Last story: If you want to get rid of something someone else likes because you think it's childish, you are the one who is childish.

[@TheAndromedaGalaxi]

I really just feel like a lot of issues like this could be avoided if people communicated better. And respected other peoples boundaries.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

for the camera Story

[@G_de_Coligny]

Captain obvious entered the thread…

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@G_de_Coligny who are you calling captain obvious?

[@TheAndromedaGalaxi]

For most of the am i the jerk stories. Not JUST the camera story.

[@SpookyGhostHippy]

3:02 the “what” killed me 😂🤣

[@Regden1000]

Fourth story. The OP isn't the jerk both the husband and sister in law are. The OP needs to sue the sister in law and if that causes her husband to divorce her well so be it. If the husband actually wants to resolve this he needs to give his wife the $ 2000 and make his sister apologize for losing his wife's camera instead of trying to defend her for every mistake that she makes.

[@CreatingArt3185]

With the last story what gets me is that if it was a woman over the age of say 20 still collecting/having teddies/plushies nobody would bat an eyelid but because it’s a man it’s “weird” people of any gender should be able to collect whatever they want teddies Lego hot wheels watches without ridicule or judgement

[@BROUBoomer]

The dead stepfather story... They didn't tell me when my stepfather died. And they're scared to tell me where he's buried. Reasons are obvious; I still have a scar on my face where he shoved a loaded gun, and several other reasons. Those kids were not the stepfather's kids. They should not be forced to show grief they don't feel. If they didn't dance on his grave in public, the mother should consider that a win.🤷‍♀️ 👵☮️🖖

[@SamuelHelligins]

I looked at the thumbnail without looking at the title and was so confused

[@Fanny_FromDeathPact]

Karma wasn’t having it today

[@the_once-and-future_king.]

Karma's a b*tch and she's on the rag!

[@christianmarshal6117]

Absolutely astounding! First the sister in law steals OP’s very expensive camera that she needs for work! She stole from family! Then she lost the camera putting OP on the hook for thousands of dollars and in a position where her livelihood is compromised and she refused to pay for a replacement! She caused a member of her family serious financial hardship and refused to fix the issue. Now they’re saying she can’t sue and is painting her as the bad guy in the grounds of FAMILY LOYALTY?! People who don’t treat you like family have absolutely no grounds to demand you treat them like family! OP needs to send a group chat to all of her in-laws saying this- “You are right (husbands name) family shouldn’t sue family. You know what else family doesn’t do? Family doesn’t take things without the owners permission. But your sister does. Frequently! So far she has taken, (list items,) and I have said nothing and replaced them all because “we’re family”. If your sister had acted like family and hadn’t stolen my camera I’d have nothing to sue her for. You know what else family doesn’t do? They don’t act carelessly with something of immense fiscal, professional and sentimental significance to the relative the thing they are “borrowing” or more aptly here, stealing, belongs to. But she did! You can go on if you want about “her emotional state” but acting responsibly even when you’re emotional is all part of being a rational adult! If she’s not enough of a responsible adult to do that then maybe she isn’t a mature enough to go to the beach with her boyfriend while carrying a $2,000.00 piece of equipment she doesn’t even own! So now we have two points against her involving acting like family but she could still redeem herself by taking responsibility and setting it right, because another thing family doesn’t do, they don’t cause massive expenses or hardships to a member without trying to set it right! But she made no attempt to make it right, she just blamed the boyfriend and expected me to pay to replace the $2,000.00 camera she lost the same way I replaced everything of mine she lost! That’s not how family believes. We already have strike 3 but thanks to you it continues. Family doesn’t throw family loyalty aside when it’s inconvenient then pick it up and use it as a shield when it is and gaslight anyone they hurt ignoring family loyalty and try to gaslighting them into feeling bad for demanding what’s theirs be returned. Which both you my dear husband and you my sweet sister have done to me. I’m done, absolutely DONE, treating people like family while they treat me like dirt! Stepping on me without thought, kicking out my lumps when they seem unsightly and picking plants out of me with no consideration of any claim I may have to them or desire I may have to keep them. (Husband’s name) you have 3 days to bring me the $2,000 for a new camera. If you don’t bring it I WILL sue your sister, I WILL divorce you and I might even file criminal charges for theft depending on whether or not I have cooled down by then. When you get here we can talk about where to go. If you want to divorce me for not being your doormat I am done with that! If you wanna try to salvage our marriage I’m willing to discuss it but as things stand right now they’re not looking good. Either way I will be getting $2,000 for my camera back! Before anyone comes at me for destroying my marriage over $2,000 it’s not about that! I opened my home and in return I was robbed. I trusted her and I lost something I hold dear. I stood up for myself and was painted as the bad guy! This marriage is in serious jeopardy because I am being mistreated, manipulated and gaslit and will NOT accept this as something that will happen regularly in our relationship! I have shared this with the entire family to see what they think. If my husband wants to reconcile it will help me decide whether to agree to take him back. Will his family agree that this is a messed up situation and reparations are in order? Will they keep their dead’s down and go along as normal? Or will they join the fun chastising me for not lying down and taking the abuse like a good little doormat? I’d like to get a clearer look at the family I married into!” Then she just has to sit back, watch and wait.

[@Icalasari]

"It's not my sister's fault for losing it" Yes. Yes it is

[@whishwhoosh2788]

Story 4, suing her is definitely the right move. Its a blessing in disguise knowing who her husband sides with. You have a poopy husband. Divorce him as early as now and get back every bit of money from that thief sister in law

[@charlesclark3625]

get two lawyers one for divorce one for lawsuit

[@marypuppet110]

Story 4 : As a part-time photographer I 100% agree with OP. the sister in law NEED to replace the camera, she wasn't allowed in the first place to take it! She need to take responsibility! I would flip out if someone (even if it was family) took my camera WITHOUT my camera and got it stolen! Story 7 : Op is a total jerk! Let the man have his bears, it doesn't impact his life other than bothering you because you find it childish. You need to grow up and understand that it's not because someone has a soft spot for toys and plushies that they are immature. Some people has them as coping mechanism. I'm 30, I have still many plushies, my boyfriend doesn't think I'm immature for it. We also have many friends (women and men) that has at least one teddy.

[@noblenone899]

It's not about the value of the camera, it's the fact that the main equipment used for the ops JOB is now gone

[@notyme243]

the camera story: OP should give her 2 options calling the cops for the thief and getting the money that way or she can write a contact that she has so long to pay it off (like 2 weeks)then sue her for the money as a breech of contract(also write it was from stolen camera) for the teddy bears: if someone told me to get rid of my plushies(i;m in my 30S) i would cry and cut them of my life. shame on the OP bet they have something too

[@gomoestas]

Lost camera story: Sue her and say that either she leaves the apartment, or you.

[@blackbird3327]

Story 4 OP last thing you want to do is piss off your BF about his actions around the teddy bears there's gotta be more to the story of his behavior if he's acting like that

[@LadyMFUnicorn]

Some people think boys should not have teddy bears. She probably thinks he is crazy, slow, and gay

[@viviennemorgan7217]

but the boyfriend is buying teddy bears for comfort.

[@bobm5951]

Story 4 - Neither your husband or his sister had any business touching YOUR camera. You are absolutely not the AH. Apologize for Nothing. Make her replace the camera. Story 6 - Take the drawing down and put the painting back. The painting is more important. Put the drawing somewhere else.

[@Tubb2581]

Story 4: YES, ITS WORTH IT. that's OP husbands family not hers. Someones buying OP a new camera

[@Tanktrap.00]

I'm actually a record holder in my hometown in blowing the most gutter balls in one game

[@mykaelnyx8821]

No, when it comes to the story about the painting he made it clear that he was tired of her for their entire lives always putting siblings and other people before him. So when you finally got something that meant something to them that was put in a special place and then the wife decided to take it down and then tell him a story after he obviously got upset about her doing it just to make him feel bad. This is totally on the wife and quite frankly as a husband who's getting used to being put behind several people in his relationship, I feel for the guy

[@Icalasari]

Last Story - OP is the jerk, people are allowed their comfort items so long as it doesn't harm people. That said, maaaybe the husband should get checked for Autism? I'm Autistic myself and well... This story immediately had me going, "He's neurodivergent"

[@timmiththeturtle6544]

Maybe the last dude was confiding in the bears because of the way op approached the situation in general, she might have that attitude towards other smaller things he does to the point that he’s straight up insecure about his feelings and has to confide in teddy bears rather than some woman who basically calls him a pussy for doing that

[@QuickManEXE]

Story 1: The manager asn't a jerk but certainly a dunce. The lane definitely should've been shut down if the OP's ball was getting damaged like that. The OP and the repair guy played the manager well on getting the Excalibur ball as well. Well done! Story 2: If a Karen isnt a customer, they are the customer service rep. It is possible she was having an off day, especially during covid, but she did seem like a bit of a bat too. Story 3: That manager should've been fired over this debacle. Another case of focusing on pennies and losing out on dollars. Good thing the OP kept his job, especially since he was just following what his stupid manager said. Can't get mad at him for that in the long run. Story 4: This is 100% the SIL's fault here. She took that $2000 camera from the OP, without permission here, so she was responsible for anything that happened to it. The brother and SIL are clearly trying to just brush it off, but im' sure they will be singing a different song if and when they get sued. SIL deserves absolutely zero sympathy and should pay to replace the camera. Story 5: I can understand the mother being upset on losing her husband here, but if the guy was not a good stepfather to her kids, then they are totally in the right for not grieving him. I know my dad never shed a single tear over the passing of his abusive stepfather. Story 6: Yea i think OP is over-reacting here, and big time. I get that the painting was sentimental, but the wife is going to put is back after a quick display of her sisters drawing. OP isn't a jerk, but needs to mellow out big time. Story 7: Let him have his teddy bears. Geez. I'llamdmit it is a bit weird he got upset and cried and talked to them over the OP's comments, especially since these are newer bears, and not ones from early childhood, but let him have something he likes.

[@notyme243]

for 6 the OP said that she keeps picking her family over him so this is something they have talked about by taking down their antislavery picture to put her sister's up , he feels like she is again saying her sister is more important then him. it would be like her always taking her family side in arguments.

[@ZFAME59]

On story 7 the boyfriend sounds cool and nice

[@mykaelnyx8821]

Teddy bear story quite frankly if the guy makes enough money to own a three-bedroom house on his own without support of you, his girlfriend I really think the situation just evolved into he needs a new girlfriend

[@Cyrus_Nagisa]

last story, OP sounds like a horrible person, just spouting out, "grow up" "stupid stuff animals" like grow up lady

[@viviennemorgan7217]

which one exactly

[@C_1O]

That's not gonna be just $2000. OP is gonna lose more money because they won't be able to work properly. Definitely sue.

[@alpha-sama]

Story 4: From the sounds of it, SIL is not worth the trouble of trying to keep a good relationship with her, you should sue her. Not only was she was being incredibly irresponsible with stuff you use for work, she also got them through theft. And the husband is clearly not a winner either, he helped his sister with stealing and is enabling her behavior. Story 5: Can't really blame the kids for not looking sad when they're not sad at all. I mean, if someone passes away who you were forced to live with and was a bit of a jerk, I wouldn't expect a kid to be sad in the slightest. I believe the mother was overreacting but I can't really blame her given that she just lost her husband. Story 6: OP is overreacting. Not only is he freaking out over a painting, the wife also said she would put it back after one night. Had she planned to move it permanently, I think the husband should have been consulted, but that was not the case here. Story 7: OP is a massive jerk. Everyone has their own quirks and some of them may not be normal to you, but that's your problem, so suck it up. It doesn't sound like this teddy bear thing is doing anyone harm, so I see no problem with it. OP is an awful girlfriend.

[@Cyrus_Nagisa]

the camera story, the hell is wrong with the narrator?... "Family is family" sorry but no, family does not steal from family She stole it, she lost it, she needs to replace it and apologize, this pushing blame off to someone else is BS.

[@QuickManEXE]

Agreed. Too many bad people try and expect a pass on things like this because "family".

[@princessmarlena1359]

Screw “family”. Consequences are consequences.

[@mykaelnyx8821]

No, she is not Opie's family, she is Opie's husband's family. It is perfectly okay to sue somebody for that amount of money especially when it is actually can be considered stolen property. I tell you no you can't borrow something and you take it and it gets lost damaged or stolen, you're at fault for it and you owe me the damn money

[@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd]

Story 6: insecure vibes? Really narrator how female bias can you be. The wife did not talk to the husband about moving the piece. This has the same weight as if OP moved a family heirloom to the closet or attic. This is a really bad take imo. That said, honestly, OP is sorta at fault here. Clearly, to OP, his wife siding with her family so much is an issue. Now, while I believe family comes first (beyond the wife), I do think that if this is how he felt, instead of trying to change her, he should have either accepted it and taken the L or left the relationship. So is the wife the jerk? Yes. Did OP do this to himself? Basically. ----- Story 7: So is OP wrong for wanting her bf to stop with the teddy bears? No not really. I mean it is weird given their age and such. Also if the bf wanted OP to move in with him at some point they would obviously need to move. Also, hosting get-togethers would be difficult. So for all these reasons I get it. That said, it is not dumb. Also how OP approached it was bad. OP took an aggressive stance from the start. Teddy bear or not, no one responds well to that. If OP has such an issue with it, I say just leave. The bears mean alot to the BF so if he discarded them resentment would eventually grow. Just treat it as it is...a boundary. OP wants a guy with age-appropriate hobbies which is fine. Just leave and find someone that fits the bill. It is ultimately better then trying to force things. That said, OP is the jerk for being so aggressive.

[@docomega7862]

W for story 6 opinion, but massive L on story 7. Who cares if he has teddy bears? He has built himself a very stable life and has this particular hobby on the side. If it bothers the OP it's her right, but to treat him like a child and be aggressive about something that isn't even that important is weird and entitled. They aren't a good fit for each other and should leave it at that. Nobody cares about grown adults collecting and playing with lego, or table top games minifigurines, so how is the teddy bear any different?

[@DanielGonzalez-qk6sd]

@@docomega7862 unfortunately, alot of people are going to care. It is just reality. It is fine if OP cares but what is not fine is giving the man grief over it, which is the basis of my opinion. As much as we want to say “it is okay” to have weird hobbies it does make life harder and that is just objective fact. It makes it harder for get-togethers or parties to occur. Also moving in is not a single person choice. If she is not comfortable with the bears it would have to be discussed. So for all those reasons if, for Op, the teddy bears are a deal breaker that is fine. I just dont think it is fine to be aggressive when confronting someone on their hobbies.

[@JeremiahPruitt-tq6oh]

I love this guy

[@N8B0DY1]

I get I'm a grown man but I have my old baby blanket and bear because I have an attachment to them as my grandpa gave them to me before he passed

[@Icalasari]

12:15 - Excuse me, but she should sue. It doesn't matter if FaMiLy, if they won't pay up, that leaves court

[@gotenblack2542]

Story 6 idk I mean the picture op put up means a lot to him and the wife didn’t even ask him if it was ok if she put on the sisters thing this could of been avoided if that happened idk I think the narrator is being a bit harsh here

[@submerged10]

Being "family" means fuck all when you've stolen $2k. That SIL and the husband needs to pay.

[@Breaker.of.games747]

I’m currently trying to look for the video and I can’t find it

[@dracodarkheartgaming2357]

Well known Motorcycle Company in Amerika. The First throught: Harley Davidson.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Or possibly “Indian” motorcycles.

[@mykaelnyx8821]

Can't hold someone at fault for doing what they're told by their superior? Obviously you've never worked at Walmart

[@seantastic9216]

Why does bro sound like he’s stationed in a fishbowl 💀

[@Male_07Gaming]

the thumbnail 💀

[@Fiercetits]

OP should make her husband replace the camera, how is not holding a 20 year old accountable?

[@oliviajeanne7709]

I like how the man reading the story is going soft on the 4th story on the SIL. Like did he forget that OP had LOCKED her office because the SIL has a habit of stealing from her? Yeah no sympathy from me at all. Like dude you STOLE FROM HER!? A frickin $2,000 DOLLARS CAMERA and you think she should just get away with it!? F NO!? She needs learn the consequences of her actions and if doesn’t pays then jail! Idc if you’re family or not you can’t just steal from steal a very expensive thing from family and not be expected to pay it back!? The one with the guy having bears. What’s wrong with a man having teddy bears? Many women who are like 50 or so have teddy bears too so why is it weird for a man to have teddy bears? People make no sense there should be no reason for a grown man to have to explain to his girlfriend that he has teddy bears when women can have teddy bears without needing a reason at all.

[@ryanbashor168]

It wasn't about the picture

[@AverageYTshortsEnjoyer]

Imo story 3 should sue her sister in law, and its kinda a jerk move to side with you sister when you know she is in the wrong there

[@kaythenekoboy1503]

The story where the camera is lost definitely not a jerk the sister stole the damn camera she never got permission. It doesn't matter if she's family or not sue her for theft

[@bee-oz4tp]

teddy bear story: he’s healthily expressing his feelings and not keeping them bottled in i don’t see the problem??

[@lordgrape5015]

The story about the painting I think you're misunderstanding why the husband is upset. He's upset because she thought nothing of moving it to put up her sister painting even though she could have just hung it somewhere else in the room or placed on a dresser. In his eyes, this was her showing again that their relationship comes second and is not seen as important in her eyes. I doubt she just figured out how much that picture meant to him if they have been going to therapy already, so move a picture she claimed she was just going to put back up anyway? This is her showing him she doesn't value the relationship like he does again also its not just her home she could have talked with him first. She sounds like she doesn't include him in decisions as much as she should because, again, she did this knowing how he feels about how she treats her family vs the relationship. Imo this sounds a little intentional because i don't see her not knowing this would upset him knowing the issues they have in their relationship.

[@Legourgent]

Story 3 was no she broke his xbox and went to steal your camara and fought the other girl, and "lOsT" her camara and her friend said it was "stolen" i find it Hard to belive you gave her some symapthy after she was repostable for this holl thing and broke the xbox and was mad when the boyfriend was peeved after that

[@anne-vc7bg]

It was probably sold to pay for breaking the bf Xbox and/or more. She sold it. Or traded it. A 2k camera, sold for 1k or 750. She sold it to avoid a lawsuit, settle a lawsuit or have charges dropped. That's why they were so synced.

[@GlitchAsh]

In the last storie the boyfriend is not wierd he just maybe loves teddybears because some are realy adorable so the girlfriend is overreacting

[@user-hz9cx2ed2f]

The thumbnail makes the video sus…

[@AngryConeMan]

What is that game

[@irisrosenicholas5339]

Gary’s mod

[@auroragannon7727]

Sue the sister

[@Irish_Mann]

19:40 this is what's wrong with society. Women have hundreds of stuffed animals that have no meaning to them, and no one cares. One guy has a few teddy bears and it's weird. The lady should grow up and stop being sexist

[@auroragannon7727]

The teddy bear having is part of his personality and she just told him she didn't like rhat je had teddy bears and that she doesn't like that part of his personality

[@bohlokoanemokhachane1038]

2,000 she must sue

[@werewolves_]

Bruh tells a guy to grow up by whining like a 5-year-old hypocrite about how he's too _different_ from all the other sheep out there, and how that makes her _sad_ and how she doesn't _like that..._ so toxic. Everyone say hello to "Karla the Complainer" here, who is not capable of finding a man who she actually loves.

[@sam4260]

For story 6, op is over reacting too much, i cant belive he thinks that he should be the forst instead of his partners family

[@tylercanales5794]

I have to say the first story with the bowling ball I think both parties were kind of scummy and kind of jerks but that’s just my opinion So far, I think we’ve had two stories back to back where the op is a little scummy he literally in the bike story kind of stole from the store. She said will call you in when your bike is ready and then he’s like OK grab his bike and ride away without paying she said will call you it she never said your bike at Stockton so yes, he basically stole from the store. I have to say maybe my situation is different but I’m kind of with the op boyfriend the one with the teddy bear I’m 22 and I have a stuffed bear from childhood. I actually have three of them. I got them at different times in my life one I was like six or seven the other one I got when I was like nine or 10 and the last one I got when I was like 13 or 14 I don’t remember if I said or not I am 22 and sometimes when I’m having a really hard time because I struggle. I struggle with depression and anxiety occasionally so sometimes when I’m in a really bad place, I do talk to them I met again maybe it’s different I collect plushes also, they are all Pokémon, but sometimes one again when I have a hard time I talk to them, so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it

[@omshah9548]

5 minutes early again. TOO GOOD

[@V0idy_]

Ur early holy

[@bigbymoon5707]

Nah bro camera storey sue her ass bro that 2k either the husband or the sister pay for it either monetarily or legally

[@rameelchirico223]

Bruh

[@blaisestar_real]

Sorry for the cring lol

[@oh.josephaguilera3696]

Fi- damn

[@rkaseli]

Is the chanel doing good after the whoal copy wright situation. O hope the chanel is ok

[@Guerrillapicnic]

Yeah the KZbinr is completely off on story 6. You have no idea of the history of their relationship and if they have indeed gone to counselling the she should be way more respectful of his feelings. The way you talk makes it sound like that this is a one off and in my experience this is just another straw added to the camel

[@Zadre1408]

hello

[@darkwarriormaster9644]

Story 4: The sister-in-law is very irresponsible. Story 5: The ex-wife does not know her kids that well. Story 7: The boyfriend is a total manchild. And a girly one at that.

[@V0idy_]

IM EARLY

[@deborahkizer4664]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@blaisestar_real]

First

[@Fanny_FromDeathPact]

Cringe

[@rameelchirico223]

Good for you sir

[@V0idy_]

Ur not lol

[@Demonic_Culture_Nut]

Story 4 -- NÞA. Þe camera was stolen when she took it off þe desk, not when someone took it at þe beach. And $2000? Þat's larceny in some states. She could get jail time if OP lives in a state where þe statute is $2000 or less. Story 5 -- NÞA. Wiþ how þe mom acted, I don't þink it's much of a stretch she tried forcing her kids wiþ OP to love þeir stepdad. I wonder if þe stepdad was actually making an effort while she sabotaged any relationship he had þe potential of having wiþ þem. Story 6 -- OP is displaying some red flags. It would be one þing if wife kept saying she would put þe anniversary painting back up þe next day day after day, but it's literally one night. Story 7 -- YÞA. OP should put away such childish þings like caring about being childish. Also, who says having teddy bears isn't part of boyfriend's hobby? He might be a teddy bear collector. Also, narrator, it's not weird in þe slightest. Everyone has a collection of someþing. Mostly paperclips. I swear everyone somehow gets a paperclip collection.

[@kastleguideshorts8718]

What a funny coincidence I just got back from bowling 🎳 and when I get home, I see this video

[@viviennemorgan7217]

wow.

[@ElijahNozinski]

First

[@Fanny_FromDeathPact]

5th*