Boyfriend Has A Gay Secret? | The Steve Wilkos Show

[@UselessMagnet]

People really need to understand that if there is no trust then there is no relationship, if you don't trust your partner then you don't need to be together. Distrust causes so much toxicity.

[@FrankGina2016]

yes!

[@YourAverageChick]

Amen👏👏👏

[@j0ellyfish]

Exactly. I don't waste my time with people who have to go through my phone, ask me questions, keeps tabs. Nope. Not the one.

[@YoungHaveNot]

Communication and understandings

[@zleepydude224]

Also… she wasn’t a dude lol

[@loriepaix6391]

They've been together for 12 years and he's saying that he wants to marry her someday? Given his past of abuse and cheating, I don't believe him.

[@darabatte578]

Right. He had 12 years to get married. It must be something that SHE wants. I think he's only putting it on the table now bcuz he's in trouble and thinks it may be his get out of jail free card.

[@kenniapresident7666]

It would be for the best of they don’t get married

[@ieshaanderson1317]

@@kenniapresident7666 I agree. He's the type who will give her an incurable STD.

[@haydenthorne4352]

3 years living w her n I’ll go ring shopping. Said what I said

[@darkpisces8125]

She stayed because she’s desperate. That’s what women do today. Stay with men who cheat because they don’t want to be alone.

[@CS-uc2oh]

He literally told the world and her to her face that he didn't put a password on his phone until he was with her. Now why would he not have one on his phone but then put one on when he got with her? ... to hide stuff.

[@haitianbaby0634]

Nobody caught that and that's crazy😂

[@jgd2000]

Exactly! I feel like they didn’t catch what he said..

[@jasmineoden6423]

I soon as he said that I was like how did no one caught that lol I caught it immediately

[@lovehope06]

Lol I caught that too 😂😂

[@brandiscott1855]

@@jasmineoden6423 Naw she caught it hell she caught both of the lies… She asked the first time “oh so you didn’t have a passcode” then caught it again when she said “oh I thought you didn’t have a passcode” 🤣 She was listening and paying attention but makes me wonder after she got the truth from the other dude… Why she still here looking for the truth

[@bubbak435]

he just got a free pass.. and I don't believe a damn word he's sayin.. she's better off cutting that chain loose.. and she's to good of a woman.....

[@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris]

Girl...I'll give you my sneakers so you can run away. He's lying!

[@MSMAMA_SBA]

ROFL!! Yep, that's a fact!!😆😆😂😂😂 Take the sneakers, girl!!! RUN!!💯🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

[@stationzz920]

🦵

[@Deiera-ho7yw]

Yes you don’t even need Steve to know he’s lying

[@donnabalnaves6452]

They know they can’t do drugs they are told before they appear. He is a damn liar!

[@ieshaanderson1317]

100% he is. She doesn't want this drama to continue in her relationship and neither should he so if he was innocent, to help get rid of the drama, he would have followed all the rules that was given to him before the test. Her mental health and the relationship is not important to him as it is to her

[@misscrystalc3762]

He's lying he definitely sent those messages and he's not gonna stop smoking because he knows he'll fail the test

[@nastyyella300]

smh smoking can cause cancer and some people can’t stop to save their life so they def not for no test! So that doesn’t mean he’s lying

[@DaBlacksheep84]

Too many men using women as a cover to hide their sexuality

[@jamesgamero7733]

Blackmen and rappers 😆 🤣 😂

[@misterb1336]

@@jamesgamero7733 definitely the rappers 🤣🤣🤣

[@udob4939]

Bisexuality exists in men too just like women but it’s never a problem when women do it. Homophobia is the reason why they won’t tell you.

[@kiranholt3296]

She's a beard!!

[@marksmith1410]

Too many women being hypocrites saying don't lie in one breath but won't accept in the same breath

[@tylerbaker9878]

He’s not comin back…. And Steve knows😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sagehurd8982]

I think the fact that he cheated on her so many times is very telling. And if he was allowing other people to use his phone he would have deleted the text thread

[@sd_justice_duty9564]

Some guests claim to make a promise to come back on the show to not do drugs nor smoke weed, but they come back by still doing drugs and smoke weed or they don’t come back. The reason they do this Is to hide the truth, but, there are some who come back clean.

[@jamaciag09]

Yall know he ain't coming back right🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thetaureanmisanthrope]

Hell naw.🤭🤭🤭

[@ieshaanderson1317]

🤣

[@angelicadmeza8623]

Ain't no way he thought his lies were adding up.....

[@deew1215]

It’ll really surprise me if he’s back, clean & passes. Like Steve says “I’ll need someone to catch me”…when I fall down in shock.🤣 Would love to be proven wrong!

[@ahumanlewis4793]

She knows in her gut. Trust your gut!

[@mcr9612]

Been together 12 yrs an he aint put a ring on it yet ?!! 🤔🤔🤔

[@Dev-nh4ow]

He’s broke with no ambition in life. Black women wont wake up tho

[@nicolebartlein1854]

He's definitely creeping to the other side.

[@jcofer3074]

I mean, what more proof does she need? He got caught red-handed by the text message.

[@ieshaanderson1317]

He convinced her that someone used his phone. It happens. I let others text on my phone

[@garybaltiejus7248]

Once the trust goes all that remains is toxicity and then the relationship is on life support

[@luxurylifela4559]

It’s not normal to think your boyfriend is having sex with guys. Some people are paranoid and think their partner is sleeping with everyone. Chances are if you’re not a paranoid person and have that feeling and can’t shake it, deep down you already know the answer. She should leave this man. He’s putting her health at risk.

[@thomasyoung5013]

So when he was cheating with them gals he wasn't putting her at risk huh?

[@luxurylifela4559]

@@thomasyoung5013 of course he was. You’re reading in something I didn’t say or imply. Her health is a risk because he’s a serial cheater. First with women, now with guys. Her partner is sleeping around with a lot of people and lying about it. Like I said, he’s putting her health at risk.

[@tubester4567]

@@thomasyoung5013 Gay men have very high rates of STDs, and black gay men are the highest risk. Statistics say 50% of gay/bi black men are HIV positive in the US.

[@gamingaddict2944]

I mean with "gals" he wouldn't be giving her HIV AIDS or Monkey pox...

[@hotmess9640]

Read this too fast at first I thought you said it was normal to think your bf is having sex w guys LOL. I was about to call you a final boss level liberal

[@babysis6.059]

She needs to get rid of him, period

[@ieshaanderson1317]

He's a down low bi sexual man. He was told not to do drugs before the test. He did what they told him not to do. Someone who claims to be innocent of such accusations would have followed the rules to prove his/her Innocence and to get rid of the drama ASAP in the relationship.

[@carolannpacificadam1944]

Yep. He's on the down low

[@nastyyella300]

You obviously are not someone who smokes weed every day lol to stop smoking is easier said then done smh doesn’t mean he’s guilty

[@Wicc_234]

Fr

[@ieshaanderson1317]

@@nastyyella300 you're obviously someone who doesn't understand sacrificing and prioritizing. Easier said then done is part of life. It's so easy for me to say " I don't want to go to work tomorrow" and it's hard to go but I go because I have responsibilities. He's not going to die if he stopped temporarily so his gf can have a peace of mind. Smoking weed should never come before your family.

[@lalaluxxxgaming]

@@nastyyella300 I smoke everyday but i can stop lol I actually didn’t smoke for like 3-4 days last week. Sounds like you’re addicted to it

[@annaleebliss4618]

He's definitely peaking around the corner at least. I bet there's no update he ain't coming back.

[@barracade24]

“I don’t know how those messages got in my phone.” Right 😂😂

[@kushgodreturns5873]

Just break up and be done with it

[@ahumanlewis4793]

I'm only 2 minutes in. If he passes I will be shocked.

[@southbayrickybobby5820]

Have they gotten your jaw off the floor yet.

[@mellanieriley1295]

Me too. Hes bi

[@John.1791]

He’s not going to stop smoking cause he knows he’s gay lol.

[@AshyTaco]

How can you be with someone for 12 years and still not know who they actually are? Smh...

[@mypurplebonnet4940]

Some people don't even know themselves fully, so it's a little naive to think someone will be exactly the same after a decade

[@tincredible]

Easily. Some ppl are great actors, masters of deception, & experts of leading double lives. I know DL men who've been married for 20 or 30 years, & their wives are none the wiser. I know a guy whose wife of a quarter-century is always suspicious that he may be creeping with the women he works with. She has no clue about all of the men, and he's been pristine in covering his tracks. Consequently, she isn't checking for the homies and male colleagues he screws in peace and even brings around her.

[@56chrsbri]

Sure that is easy cause she puts up with shit and he is used to having his way. I doubt she is forthcoming or forward in the past when he steps outta line. And now she gotta a little backbone.

[@somuchminaa]

i like how he said bicurious instead of gay

[@savagequeen9521]

Because clearly he still has sexual attraction to women. They will say bicurious because he hasn’t admitted to being gay. If they label him as gay it can open a can of worms

[@misterbee66]

Well, bicurios people are usually heteros who want to test the waters.

[@kadeelacayo4806]

Yea

[@vexusxenos4188]

I hope to God they come back! I would love to see how this turns out!

[@Realfrenchie]

Don't need a lie detector test or a gay detector test either to know he is gay. She is so beautiful and intelligent woman who deserve better than that liar...

[@ieshaanderson1317]

G detector test 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ahumanlewis4793]

Closeted men are dangerous to their female partners.

[@ieshaanderson1317]

@@ahumanlewis4793 this is a fact. I know 1 lady who is dead because of her down low husband

[@imqueenariez]

I'd love a update…Steves show is sooooo good….this one is over 2 yrs ago…wow!!! Can never get old!!! ❤

[@bestkksser]

This is for you who are reading this keep going you’re doing fine no matter how slow your progress each new week is filled with tiny steps forward Be proud of yourself god got you🇧🇸

[@nobibabe]

Don't ever go back to someone you have a *restraining order* for

[@karlif8804]

Girllllllll his story SUCKS! No way someone else sent those messages. I understand she doesn’t want to believe he is sleeping with other people, specifically men, but come on. He is a bad liar

[@privateuser6150]

He kno he lyin he knew wat it was before coming smh.

[@goatbut29]

What a beautiful black lady!! Cuzz, don't let a white boy like me comes across this beautiful lady. I'd make her happy and show her real love. It's not often an Angel brushes by you!

[@terryfraatz424]

Update PLEASE!

[@nahum9729]

I strongly believe that a relationship especially marriage can survive anything but cannot survive no trust.If you can’t trust it’s only a matter of time.

[@underscore55]

Inconclusive ha yeah he knew what he was doing . Smoking before test ! And that means he probably was involved with some gay stuff with another guy . Maybe he could be gay . Also was there an update ?

[@nateo4205]

Wake n bake watchin Steve

[@ProtoMario]

If the text said, " I am on the bus" that means someone took his phone and went. He is guilty.

[@deeflo6731]

ALL the time it was Bill that was sleeping with her man.. LMAO

[@shawnj3219]

I HOLLERED 🗣️😂🤣

[@artbyuniverse02]

Every SW episode involving Queer people: Bi women- accused of cheating with all people under the sun, partner not really focused on the Queerness aspect of it but more on the cheating aspect. Bi men- accused of being gay and forced to out themselves as Bi on TV, partner not really focused on the cheating aspect but more on the Queerness aspect.

[@bunnyw4rlock]

the sad truth

[@Shalyn-ln9tu]

There have been many stories on here that didn't care about their sexuality, the issue was cheating and not being truthful.

[@theblackshepard4441]

Well it is a big deal idk how the hell you miss that point nobody wants to be with someone who's not attracted to them it hits different now get over it that's just the way it is

[@thekavestation]

@@theblackshepard4441 so the civil rights movement was a mistake? before then black people were just second class citizens, that's just the way it was, they should have just gotten over it right?

[@Leo-ck3gw]

🤔 maybe because the women don’t want to put their mouth on something that’s been in another man’s a hole. Maybe the women don’t want a doodoo weiner in their vagina. Let’s not pretend it’s the same.

[@trex5703]

5:21 lmfao Steve is hilarious 🤣

[@carolannpacificadam1944]

Hell yeah. He's a good dude

[@Famous_Imanii]

Rfs n that look when he turned back @ 5:28 killed meee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Sukunasgodwife]

Why does this remind me of “Are you gay? Carl : How you gonna ask me a question like that? Jo : How did you marry a woman, and then turn around and let a man bend you over? Carl : Ain't nobody bending me over. Jo : So you doing the bending? Is that what it is?”

[@sweetrebel9907]

Which movie was this again?

[@butterlibloom45]

LMFAOOOOOOOOO this part

[@Kvbabe]

@@sweetrebel9907 for colored girls

[@undertakerfanz628]

She's pretty and intelligent

[@misterbee66]

Indeed she is.

[@8213apice]

Nothing intelligent about a woman staying with a man that abused her, and to stay for 12 years and no ring

[@undertakerfanz628]

@@8213apice you beat up your boyfriend and he still with you

[@roxannemoreno2012]

When it doesn't make sense it's a lie. That shit about giving my homeboy the phone and he's texting about gay porn..... come on!!

[@ieshaanderson1317]

😂

[@donnielindon1015]

Be safe out there yall

[@bobthebuilder8079]

I might binge watch these to much

[@nicolebartlein1854]

Same

[@telsclark]

I wouldn't need the show we'd be over after he said "I was not with you so I didn't need a password".

[@ieshaanderson1317]

Great point

[@drewroger813]

They aren't coming back 🤣

[@robertsimmons7556]

we don't need his test we can tell that he's lying that none of his stories made no sense.

[@whyworkwhenicanrap6830]

Why do people go there if they know there lying

[@royalrich1876]

So He let his friend take his phone to the guys house cause at the end of the message he said here 🙄

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

So he's claiming everyone else can have access to hid phone but when he moved in with her he needed a lock ?!🤔What ?!?!?

[@daniellecampbell6556]

8:13 Steve almost slipped up and almost said ''we need the ratings'' and then quickly said ''see your results'' 😂

[@shirleywiese5230]

@Tamia Graves me too. I don’t think he would or needed to say we need ratings. There are plenty of messed up ppl out there 😂

[@Miss_Bias]

I swear I thought the same thing😭😭

[@Redsaver]

as soon as i saw his sweater, I already know what the answer is. 12 years and no marriage.

[@The.S.M.Evans.91]

I tell you what..not supposed to judge a book by its cover, but how he get her in the first place?!? I'm BAAAFFFLLLLEEEDD 😯🤡

[@carlaneal8263]

He got that good 🍖

[@themikaylaanjoli]

He don’t need to come back, that man like men !

[@marcusbennett4623]

His name Omar first thing I thought about was the wire 😂😂😂😂

[@lexacheyenne9653]

A lot of guys are secretly bisexual out here. Don't hide it. I'm bisexual. Just do you.

[@davidrouleau6254]

I would like to see if he came back.

[@R3TR0_M4F1A]

Bro he was texting the homies🤦🏾‍♂️😂

[@robertnance7269]

This is a major problem within the black communities of men. Why doesn't he have his own place , and why is he allowing himself to be homeless and being thrown out continously and now sleeping on the floor. Many females nowadays choose bummy men who aren't competent leaders that are emotionally , mentally, physically , and financially set. If he was the best version of himself he wouldn't have to put up with her degrading and disrespecting like a kid. She likes having a weak man , she can control

[@MTWes-tx2sm]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@southbayrickybobby5820]

It’s pretty common all across the board. Not just in the black community. What’s more common is black women choosing guys that have jet turbines for feet when they knock em up.

[@elizabethcompton738]

Funny how you managed to make it ALL her fault. His mother raised a wimp.

[@nastyyella300]

So you never seen white men who are in the same situation? This ain’t no black community thing definitely racist statement need to be reported.

[@8213apice]

BM are weak and unqualified as leaders period. They’re not dominate nowhere in life.

[@Tomtaylor7337]

Best show ever 👍

[@CShermBern]

Hope to see an update!!!

[@thedude19766]

To me, the update is he lied

[@thetaureanmisanthrope]

Trust me...you won't. He's hiding in plain sight.

[@renegadereid84]

He never returned because he couldn't stop smoking and having affairs with men 🤣

[@lindsayprice8411]

I’m pretty sure this is a rerun. So if he had come back we would know!

[@brandonwhite3723]

He never came back.

[@Tru3BratsLife]

12 years and no ring ??? 🤔

[@cynthiaward4512]

Just be who you are for your own sanity..

[@suzzylandwalz3075]

Those earrings told me everything I need to know 🙄

[@cjnelson408]

THAT BOY FRUITY

[@montechristo546]

I hope he showed back up…

[@nancy-ann-ciancee5127]

Damn I believed him until the end 😮😂😂

[@jboss729]

Girl. He bisexuality honey. Take it from a gay man boo.

[@amandanicole7449]

"I love you a lot" means they don't really love you. Whoever needed this, you're welcome.

[@ieshaanderson1317]

I say this to my husband. He's my other half. Oh hell yeah I love him

[@rayagray6321]

What the f*ck are you talking about? Sounds like you have some past issues you still haven't worked through and you're taking your toxic view on how people can love and making an assumption that has no truth behind it. Maybe you should go talk with a therapist or something Amanda

[@laurasimmer9612]

It's how he said it. His tone & facial expression.... he doesn't mean it

[@Hollowficatiion]

who hurt you?

[@j0ellyfish]

Who ever has to go through your phone to keep tabs doesn't love you either.

[@theupperdeckertaker9991]

Dudes face with the glasses at 1:51 😂😂

[@kay44422]

😂😂😂

[@gabriellajones5646]

“Right” before he even said it, I was going “Right”😂

[@Bitcoin_Millionaire]

She a beautiful queen

[@jrcarter9175]

6:38 Omar's lie detector test results

[@Golden-berry]

Remember everybody if you spread love spread nothing else

[@brodee4930]

Legend has it he lasted a week and a half and relapsed lol 😂

[@nastyyella300]

He ain’t gonna stop smoking weed for no lie detector test!

[@AshleySanchez.16]

Good thing I'm very happy being single for all these years! 😁

[@johnwinkelman1764]

She already knows how he gets down… He does the TubeSteak Boogie!!!

[@setheast2773]

Are we down with what? I feel really bad for both of these people. I'm just being real straight up honest it can be easy dealing with stuff like this. I never been through anything like this but I'm a sympathetic person and both of these people are going through a hardship

[@scottc2076]

The dude’s earnings and shoes are a dead giveaway

[@cheyennefenton7362]

I love your show!

[@crystalgiacobbe7049]

Omg I don't know how those messages got on my phone had me dead

[@leeannharthan4134]

I went to a show (season 13) with my children’s father. The whole time he kept nodding off/ falling asleep (very embarrassing), I was also 8 months pregnant and about to pop. on the 2 hour car ride home i expressed my disappointment and with all of that I found out he was cheating. The night prior to us coming to see the show he was out “at his moms” but the truth was he had been sleeping at the man’s house that he cheated on me for 3 years with!!! Moral of my story; if something or someone seems off don’t ignore the signs. Listen closer to see what you can discover.

[@montibarnett6740]

Was there a follow up on this episode

[@Aris10Baku]

2 weeks later, I’m waiting for the Vid Steeeve😂

[@classic_man_q]

So was there ever an Update

[@SavannaRai]

I can’t respect dl men my ex was dl and it’s crazy how I randomly got a gut feeling and it never left not even a little bit the signs are there always trust your gut you not crazy. so whenever he does decide to come out I don’t want nobody acting surprised cause I’m not going to be.

[@kristoff1skalet176]

If he was telling the truth wouldn't the test say he PASSED no matter what?

[@nastyyella300]

You have no idea what weed does to your mind.

[@honorladone8682]

He's definitely not truthful.

[@DopeBaby.]

She Payin Too Much Attention When He Did His Finger Code While Playin Cards

[@saugusguy]

That Queen is on the down low no question about it

[@smsabala6668]

He is full of it!

[@angiepoppell]

What a waste of time I can’t get back

[@patriciaevans4505]

Two earrings is always tell tell sign

[@maniyjaspain2696]

Please keep me updated

[@janiqueunique8361]

Nessie you should not be controlling/ looking in his phone..but he is not telling the truth..he is lying out his azz!..be done with it..move on G!...l bet he never returned!..l would love to be wrong!

[@katrinavrzal5316]

He shouldn't be cheating and abusive and she wouldn't have to

[@christophercooper1931]

@@katrinavrzal5316 the cheating and abuse is a dead giveaway