Is Her Boyfriend Talking to Other Men? | Steve Wilkos

[@yogabbagabba9145]

Damn, they got pregnant after a couple weeks, and he stuck around to be a father? We need more men like him! That’s amazing.

[@yomama5304]

Maybe we need less people getting knocked up after a couple weeks. 🤔

[@PrinceEmber323]

There’s a lot men who are in the homes. At least 85% of them are

[@alexiegoold2583]

so fascinating lets congradulate him for doing what normal ppl should do

[@MissDeenaB94]

@@alexiegoold2583 congratulate** And sadly, yeah. Especially black men. Gotta give credit where it’s due 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@yogabbagabba9145]

@@PrinceEmber323 learn how to spell before trying to be demeaning. It’s not my fault men rarely step up to do what they should.

[@marcusellis1188]

She clearly searching for an issue. She doesn't appreciate being in a healthy relationship.

[@alyciacook8240]

no seriously, she is definitely sabotaging the relationship

[@pinkpet200]

She admitted herself that everything seems too perfect, and that's crazy that's not what she wants . So she has to find something wrong.

[@FionaChandoll]

I hope she gets better.

[@dgray3771]

@@pinkpet200 Perhaps she is touching up some female friends of hers. And expects him to be doing his friends. Looking up messages from when he was 12 is ridiculous. Good thing the best thing we had when I was a kid was pen and paper haha.

[@silverfox5030]

She’s probably in disbelief because she didn’t have the best relationships in the past. Trauma ?

[@ClownGutzz]

This man found out he got a girl pregnant, stuck around, got an apartment for them and their child, is in her words- a great partner and a great father, and to be a straight man who is aware understanding and accepting of men and especially black men being afraid of coming out of the closet even these days is fucking amazing. What a genuine gem of a human being. I wish this man a lifetime of happiness for him and his child. It’s rare to find a straight guy who is this truthful and transparent. Most would freak out and be terrified of the thought of their s/o thinking they’re gay. **also the gf looking through decade old messages between him and friends when he was a child is real fuckin weird. Hope she gets over that. Im glad him and his gf can put this behind them and be happy now.

[@Raraking4796]

Something she said struck me…it was something along the lines of things are going to good. Which leads me to believe she’s always expecting something bad to happen. I hope she finds comfort in knowing he has been truthful. I hope they all get to live out their happily ever after!!!!

[@leemoon6451]

Tbh I don’t think she knew the time of the messages she was mad and probably didn’t look at the date? And when she went back to check they were deleted so she’s not wrong for none of this she said she didn’t mind if he was bi but what she did mind was the fact that he would’ve been lying about it for all this time.

[@carolinek1100]

I love how they talk to each other. Soft voices, no swearing. He's a great guy.

[@AN-sm9ju]

Her making him explain his actions from when he was 12 is sick. She has some deep issues and should seek professional help.

[@nayanicole901]

👏🏽

[@zacharyberridge7239]

That's what I was thinking. She uses the fact that they have a great relationship, her words, as a reason to question the relationship. It's like she is expecting a bad relationship, and that's what she wants. Weird shit.

[@marissathomas9327]

Very sick . She needs help

[@truecrimeyoutubehq]

I wouldn’t stretch to that extreme. It sounds like there were a series of incidents that made her wonder and then discovering the old messages made those things more convincing and she probably couldn’t shake it 🤷🏽‍♀️….. it really doesn’t seem like there was any malice or deep rooted issues behind what made her think what she did

[@jacobseraphin685]

Bro when you 12 you say all types of weird things to ur friends u ain’t gon be thinkin that your girlfriend is gonna confront you about it 12 years from now

[@toosense]

What a great guy, hope she doesn’t mess it up. Just love him and appreciate the beautiful family y’all have together.

[@ChanceValentine2]

I was saying the same thing.... he reminds me of my boyfriend....

[@NinoNation]

She gonna mess it up for him.

[@itsmanvir]

Wtf what’s so great about a homophobic guy? Or did you miss that part? People really be calling men “great” when they do the bare minimum lmao

[@ar13s37]

@@itsmanvir you must have had a bad day huh

[@NinoNation]

@@itsmanvir You took the opinion of a woman who looked way back into his personal messages from 12 years old. That chick is not a pschycologist to be diagnosing people with false phobias.

[@whitetiger7148]

Some people just can't be happy, being happy! They have to find SOMETHING to be unhappy about! 🙄

[@raymondbatchelor1372]

Lol

[@deedee2698]

Totally agree....

[@danadyd59]

She looks like a man.

[@awhynn8270]

True

[@michelegrovenor6116]

Isn't it just crazy, the girl needs to wake up and stop being so insecure and just be happy

[@MLUdrea]

She's looking way into it. Relationship is "great" but she seems controlling as fuck. Going through his phone from messages 12 years ago? Where's his own privacy. It's a matter of principle; she shouldn't be going through it and especially not from over a decade ago. She needs to seek therapy.

[@chocjayjay8866]

I agree 100%

[@sabrinaberrouet]

I agree as well

[@jaggirl]

I always delete everything after a few months max. I like to tidy up and have a clean space..lol Who keeps messages since they were 12? Who cares what your partner did at age 12. Like really girl. Id like to see her dumb stuff from that age.

[@ruth_833]

Phone still works? Lol

[@terrencelee9366]

@@jaggirl I still got messages from 2019 in my phone, men don’t live in past like that , once it’s old it just slowly drifts to the bottom of the text thread .

[@alexarosekeyworth6238]

Hunny is REACHING! Looking through messages from 10+ years ago? When they weren’t even together and he was a literal child 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@nfh688jfnie]

The only person in this relationship with issues is her. She will run this relationship into the ground. I feel sorry for him.

[@Fred_and_Brandy]

I aint shocked tho, I'm not gonna lie... Seems like that is a common thing these days...

[@kayleesykes2739]

@@Fred_and_Brandy it’s always been common people just aren’t as afraid to be feee now. Thankfully it’s becoming more popular to hate the pieces of shit that bully gay and trans people than it is to actually hate them. Usually closeted gays are the most homophobic in my experience lol.

[@terrencelee9366]

Then she’ll blame him for not dealing with it and women will validate her attitude, this is why when I hear women talk bad about the men in their life ,

[@andregreen4358]

I feel sorry for this dude, he’s been truthful & honest about the situation. The fact that he has to explain his past from when he was 12 is ridiculous. I think she’s petty & she listen to her girlfriends who put it in her head that he might be gay. I believe she’s gonna argue with him over every lil thing in life & make his life a living hell. Just learn to be happy & stop letting people get into ya relationship.

[@OnlyPrettyThot]

On God like dayum shit was he was 12 was crazy like

[@Nelley_Nell_507]

Exactly! If I came across something like that and he said he was 12, I would have laughed and joked and then that’ll be the end of it.

[@Justwonderin]

I think she'll b fine now. She obviously respects him. She's just not used to how healthy the're relationship is.

[@daarnett2x]

1. Why are you going out of the way to ruin a healthy relationship? that seems so self-sabotaging. He seems like a good dude, and you're interrogating him about stuff from childhood. Big yikes. 2. That homophobia of scrutinizing text messages between friends to read as "gay" is why so many men are uncomfortable in their sexuality and operate on the DL. It's sad.

[@americandee7721]

Did she just call her son, the boy? Wow really?

[@lala_Israel]

Right, thought I was tripping.

[@americatochile]

i was about to comment the same thing.

[@gitbitw9353]

I was looking for this comment... I was like wth. That's HER BOY not THE BOY

[@KittyNomNomKarnage]

here comes THE BOY 😅

[@cjnelson408]

Talking like Kratos 😂

[@Brenicole18]

He was 12 get over it wtf 😂

[@staciarupp522]

She can send him my way. They are rare. What a great guy. I hope you guys live a long happy life together. Don't lettem go girl.

[@grubbiesmallz1]

Maaaan…she’s got a good one. She’s obviously had some bad ones in the past. Glad they were able to get everything cleared up so that she can value what she’s got. 💗

[@AlyssaStrobel]

as a lesbian who has multiple straight guy friends, they do joke like this. the fact that he was also 12 years old is just wild that she brought it up. have a feeling this won’t be the last time she tries to do something like this to him.

[@tincredible]

Agreed. If you're the type of lesbian who's viewed as "one of the guys", you may be privy to a lot a of the light-hearted locker room talk/joking that the average straight woman wouldn't know about. Straight guys tend to say a lot of outrageous sexual stuff around the homies that they wouldn't dare repeat in the presence of girls, especially not in the presence of girls they are dating. But she seems like she can be a drama queen in general, which is the opposite of his personality. I don't see it lasting long either.

[@mirandaperez7606]

First time I ever made out with anyone was my best friend lmao that doesn’t make me a lesbian, I like men, I have a man and a family of my own but if my man ever brought this to my attention and then TOOK ME ON A SHOW from something about 12 years ago…. I’d be OUT of that relationship.

[@destineeslaughter6419]

he even said he was in 6th grade like girl wth are you worried about with this man talkin to his friends at 12!? 😂😂😂 HE NEEDS TO RUN

[@BW-dt4qx]

FACTS! That's toxic behavior and the sad part is she doesn't think she's wrong for doing it.

[@asiaryan8639]

Yeah…. Imagine thinking there’s an issue bc there are … no issues in your relationship lol. Also the “I wasnt done going through your phone, I was going to come back and finish looking through it” girl goodbye lmao. Hope she chills out

[@alyciacook8240]

seriously

[@haileynoonan6682]

She may be used to living in chaos, and when things are settled and going good, her brain could be like "this is not normal." Its really not that uncommon. And no, she shouldn't have been going through messages from 12 years ago, or any of his messages unless she had his permission, but when you are raised in a life where there is always something going wrong, or there are always issues, when things finally go right, it just does not feel right to that person. So they think that something bad is coming. I really hope they worked through this because they honestly do seem perfect together, but she should definitely have counseling of some sort for sure to deal with past issues!!!

[@willplaysproductions]

Everything going perfect and trying to find something wrong smh 🤦 dude get outta there

[@keepthat5054]

If she's doing this now she's going to find ways to torture and interrogate him forever, been there and it sucks:(

[@monseenayy]

Yess !! Her mentality will never change. Especially the “things been going too good” it wont get any better . I feel bad for him and what he may endure..

[@MistyLaneLoveConquersALL]

Steve cracked me up when he said a gay guy would of been prepared! 🤣 I'm surprised Steve didn't buy them dinner 😁

[@terrencemillin3413]

He did

[@bfields112]

If Wendy's was from the hood she would look like her 🤣🤣🤣

[@Realfrenchie]

He should leave her because she is so controlling and she is stuck on something that happened 12 years ago. That guy needs to move on and get someone a lot better than her...

[@maricelysquiles5966]

12 years ago?!!! Lmao & I’ve seen guys joke around like that all the time! Doesn’t mean they are gay! Just like dude say you have a small d**k to eff around with each other🙄. My boyfriend says sh** like that & worse to his bothers & friends does that mean he sleeps with them…I think it’s funny.

[@kekejack8654]

I would have left her🙄 she did wayyyy to much🥱 trying go on tv to expose him🤮 sad 😔

[@dominiquelemon7125]

She did! She Did! She Did! Too fucking extra for all this mess 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@lacie18]

I mean I wouldn’t have left her for that honestly cuz I rather stay an fix it or prove my point cuz I wouldn’t have ruined everything for a misunderstanding tbh an there is a kid involved an leaving and co parenting over that is just weird but kind of understandable but like not worth it

[@roastingroyalty2125]

The double standard in the black community is crazy If she’s Bi , why is it such a problem that he might be?

[@Mzleedivine]

He’s cute n seems like the perfect gentleman she tripping but I’m happy she actually has a good guy we all deserve a guy like him ♥️

[@OnlyTheChronic]

Oh wow! A real happy ending! Good luck kids.. like Steve said, don't screw it up because a good relationship is kinda hard to come by.

[@battlerudee]

“I got upset and didn’t want to look no more..when I calmed down, I was going to finish looking” TOXIC 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

[@diwilliams7183]

some females cant accept the fact they have a great man . but would settle for a abusive and unfaithful relationship it just makes no sense smh .

[@kelshawnmiller9310]

Talk to shit queen cause ion see no lies here 💯

[@robink620]

She’s looking for problems that aren’t there. Makes you wonder what she’s hiding. As for that not being a typical joke for an adolescent, I found out some things regarding what my boyfriend did with his best friend, it had me wondering what the deal was. You never know what teenage boys will do with all those hormones.

[@ihateutube1143]

Because she already looking to find another dude

[@Justwonderin]

@@ihateutube1143 u crazy

[@NellaWRLD]

every guy has messed with thier freinds and say some gay stuff, she trippin and looking for drama

[@eshablair4841]

SHE'S CHEATING!!!

[@silverpro8356]

Was thinking the same thing lol.

[@Imjustspeakingmymind]

Yup the accusers are the cheaters

[@ujmbek]

And i won't be surprised if she cheated on him with a woman ​@silverpro8356

[@kujo8290]

Me and the homies used to joke around fruity asf when we was kids 😂 and she’s defiantly giving “never had a healthy relationship” vibes. She needs therapy, that shit don’t fix itself.

[@jayvon9231]

😂

[@onnie.6815]

Me being from ny they still do it now & we’re young adults . Tbh gay jokes funny as hell

[@kujo8290]

@@onnie.6815 me to lmaoo

[@onnie.6815]

@@kujo8290 gay jokes or New York ?

[@kujo8290]

@@onnie.6815 New York 😂

[@marlenyveronica1477]

The fact she said “He takes care of the boy” after saying he’s a good dad….

[@flwrgirl_1]

she's going to drive that man away from her.

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

She is for sure and it will be 💯 her fault !!

[@keepthat5054]

And deserve it

[@jimwilson-kl2xs]

He's a great guy for sticking around after getting her pregnant, amazing, relationship doomed to fail for checking his phone without permission and has the gall to call him out for 12 year old conversations

[@cherryriley5014]

This series put a really big smile on my face they are so cute god bless you both and congratulations

[@wickidbloodymetalqueen7901]

this is how you destroy a relationship....stop reaching hunnie!!!! guys have the right to their privacy!!!! they have their own phone and you have yours!!!! maybe it's you he should be concerned about

[@esmegreeff6194]

He's a great example of a gentleman, dunno why she called the show... insecurities!! She said how he looks after their Son. Hopefully she can be a Mother. After all it's a 2 way street. Wishing them well on their journey ahead.

[@donnaballance7703]

Aww..I swear this is one of my favorite couples I've seen on ANY talk show..💜💙

[@dingo1666]

Really?

[@tionnewilliams8088]

@@dingo1666 dont hate

[@2ndedition766]

They are a really adorable couple.

[@Nikitajade08]

She’s reaching he was TWELVE wtf is her issue digging decade old stuff from a literal child

[@SOULE547]

She has no sense of humor. She definitely doesn’t know that some straight guys joke like that.

[@gamechangingsuccess7594]

Tell me about it, I've joked with my friends like that all the time. It's not that serious and not that deep. I feel sorry for dude, she's insecure AF. I would have dumped her ass if she brought up something I said or did in my childhood

[@lindajones5172]

They have a great relationship for a young couple and I wish them 20 30 40 50 more years of anniversaries and children and marriage and a good life

[@williamstufflebeam4285]

This is my first time being this early!! Hello Steve and Commenters!

[@Hobielover]

Heyo

[@angelbaumert5133]

My first time being this early as well 🎉 woot woot

[@shitneyb5562]

She can't even scold him, he just agrees with her 😂 what a sweetheart. I have a 6th grader and you bet your ass that's how they talk. You have an exceptionally good man. Stay out of his phone, he loves you.

[@Filiota95]

He was 12 when he said those?? She really needs to relax

[@d.dflowers7635]

She looking for issues. Sounds like their relationship is great and healthy & she looking for drama. Sadly some ppl think a good and healthy relationship is too good to be true

[@kaitlynsteidley4679]

If your boyfriend isn't acting gay with his friends around you, especially while gaming, is he really your boyfriend?

[@FedUpPrincess09]

I'm 32 and literally every guy I have ever known acted gay around their friends 🤣🤣 friends, family, exes, acquaintances...not one dude I've ever met in my life hasn't done this lol the only ones who turned out to actually be gay were the ones NOT participating in the friendly gay-fest 😂

[@michaelyobs4448]

It's too perfect so let's screw this up

[@shawnhallmon9245]

Basically

[@theomartin7339]

If being gay is a crime what about having sex out of wedlock? I never hear Christians talk about that.

[@tyrellrichardson3078]

I got mad respect for the fact that she accepted his proposal without a ring. Can’t find to many women like that anymore and that shows she truly loves him

[@NUBIANNAVY]

I did!! Rings means nothing!! We are still married too!!🎉❤❤😊

[@missy4804]

Both of them was so gentle to each other.

[@NinoNation]

Someone tell this man to run... this chick gonna ruin his life.

[@xxhitttmanxx]

I'd be so embarrassed and would question my relationship if my girl brought me on national TV for a lie detector to see if I'm honest or not. That's not love at all

[@Nayyandkeyshia]

Even if he was bringing him to the show to be EXPOSED!!! Is crazy to me!!😕

[@tierahoward874]

He has great energy. He’s seem to be a good man. He listen to her and let her speak. Girl you got a good man

[@truthwarrior2727]

I love happy endings yeahhhh🎉❤😁you know its true love when there isn't a ring and she says yes says alot about her bless them both how beautiful!👍🙏

[@terrijones9043]

Wow! What a beautiful story!!!! And can we just acknowledge the fact that their beautiful son looks EXACTLY like Dad! 🥰🥹

[@brittrm8854]

Ya know, if u look at something (or someone) hard enuff, u will find flaws. Don't nit pick when u love someone🌞🌞🌞

[@takato0524]

He ain't gay, he's just young and in that age bracket. The way us guys talk to each other can be down right ridiculous sometimes

[@FionaChandoll]

Young men say the silliest, most reckless things for jokes and shock value sometimes.

[@takato0524]

@@FionaChandoll i know i do lol

[@torrellallen3165]

@@FionaChandoll you’re so right. I’m 19 and will say the most out of the box shit during the most random times just to get peoples reactions😂😂😂

[@aylineLZ]

I like how they were so calm about the situation lol 😊

[@LordBathtub]

What a nice, articulate young man. Big change compared to a lot of the other young men on this show. She's lucky, he seems great

[@ceantramcbee1962]

I could tell he was being honest ! I love that you can tell they really inlove!

[@ChristineHussey-x3i]

If don’t want to find shit, then don’t go through someone else’s phone. That’s invasion of privacy, how would she feel if the shoe was on the other foot.

[@michelegrovenor6116]

She needs to learn how to just be happy because he a great man and an even greater father

[@khyanni4937]

“He takes care of the boy”, well damn😂

[@cherylcarampot3268]

A control freaking banshee screaming 😱.

[@escobedomonalisa95]

Homegirl out there lookin like she on her day off from giving me a $5 biggie bag from Wendys

[@LeeDfined]

Made me lol

[@lulwoodeh2536]

The most calmest Couple I’ve seen on here lol

[@Jwilliams813]

He seems like an outstanding guy. She should be thankful to have such a good person as the father of her child

[@destinyrc6949]

Steve murdered me at the end with that comment 😂

[@HalfNHalf.]

She looks like a whole man

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

Her voice is manly also

[@faithmiller1437]

They communicate well.. I wish them the best.

[@thejazzyb123]

he’s a great guy

[@RuthLovesJesus]

I see other people’s comments about the woman and how she doesn’t trust her man. Maybe she’s had a horrible dating life in the past and feels this one was too good to be true. When you’ve had bad dating experiences it’s almost like PTSD. I hope now she can learn to trust him and heal from her past. They have a beautiful family and hope it stays that way 🙏🏾❤️

[@sweets2thesweetshop]

Thank you!!!!💯💯💯

[@pdig2963]

To me he didn't look like he had any sugar in his tank !!!!

[@vampire7240]

He seems amazing and she is like. Absolutely batshit crazy lmao.

[@lorddevo122]

Sounds like she’s fishing for a problem in the relationship

[@wadilotus]

What a lovely couple. I wish and their adorable baby boy the best!

[@SuperjoeV1]

The attitude would be different if the guy was doing this, Steve again just letting it go cause he won't stand up to women like before.

[@CmamaL]

Seems like she just wants a problem

[@aaronosbourne2560]

Shes clearly unaware that most guy friends act and talk gay to each other if they're close enough

[@Sweezer3706]

My brother is 22 now and still jokes around like that with his friends, but when they were 12?? The butt if all of there jokes were each others private parts

[@sydneelayla1918]

Allot of guys in middle n high school use to do the strangest stuff bored line gay 😭😩 and they all straight they was just immature

[@rsmith9372]

Perfect Ending Steve... Way to Big brother with that final joke.

[@3669lizzy]

Girl let it go kids joke like that

[@lindajones5172]

I know she I miss the hurt being by and they're a beautiful couple but I understand where she's coming from when people are adamantly hateful towards a lifestyle instead of being comfortable with it and quiet about it because if that's not what you do you just don't do it you don't have to criticize it it's kind of like when men have multiple babies and women when they know they're bad in bed it's like they have something to prove.

[@nevafanthegreat1288]

Come on Steve! Now your just spot filling with this one.🤣😂

[@angeldiannah8306]

Hell in GA you need to lie detector all of the men. I don’t blame her

[@dylpspevtre]

Probably one of the funniest episodes

[@zacharycoltrane]

That's my frienddddd. Go girl!!!!!!

[@jennifergraham5106]

So she said he's a good man, great dad, and she wanted him to keep the messages from 12 years ago, so she could keep looking at them and be mad all the time. Why. It don't make no sense. She's torturing herself with his preteen past.

[@SweetTooth8989]

So ridiculous. Who cares, that doesn't make him gay. Guys joke around like that with each other sometimes it means nothing. It's not like he was coming on to the other guy or anything.

[@smartino546]

how dare she bring her significant other on national tv to discuss his sexual orientation. that’s a huge invasion on privacy and respect. she’s really holding him to something he said when he was in middle school?🤣 can’t take these types of women serious nowadays

[@xkid.darkskin5178]

this woman really came on the show for something he did at 12 she’s a weirdo 😂😂

[@EgoItAll]

Bro I say gay jokes to the homies all the time and we all like women lmao it’s a joke it’s humor she complained about shit being too good how tf that mean he gay

[@Tanyah-]

They’re just the cutest 💕

[@ericaconley6446]

Proposals on TV shows like this are always so cringe 😬