Brace yourself. I have no words for this one at all…

[@real_abiola]

BW please stay away from him. You can’t “fix” trash or help how it smells. He needs therapy and a higher power at his big age.

[@AB-vb4sv]

Too late lol.

[@spb8039]

Agreed! However, I get the impression that the women he attracts look and act just like him. He's not aiming higher than his own level.

[@2sassynclassy777]

He might need some medication too!

[@saharaloveland]

Someone slow would only deal with him

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Excellent observation

[@nekneversleep]

I can’t believe anyone would sleep with this man for any reason

[@Jame6999]

And you're miss perfect 😂😆 shut up

[@originaldelta]

You dont know your fellow women well.

[@nekneversleep]

@@originaldelta chillllll

[@dadaday98]

More than 16 women did. 😔

[@nekneversleep]

@@dadaday98 sadly.

[@margie5841]

"I had 9 girlfriends in my life, and the last girlfriend is the only one I never cheated on" sir what???

[@missnobuhle_]

I gagged 🤣🤣🤣

[@haleyhaley8777]

He sound like that was a great accomplishment..

[@margie5841]

@@haleyhaley8777 right! He even said one good thing was..I was waiting to hear what the one good thing was 🥴

[@margie5841]

@@missnobuhle_ girl 🥴

[@real_abiola]

@@haleyhaley8777 Right! He was so proud too. 🗑

[@fslayer1290]

I don’t think he realizes how messed up and chaotic his life looks to others.

[@niag7273]

😂😂😂😂

[@me_not_me]

He doesn't like liars or manipulators...meanwhile describes his whole life womanizing 🙄. You are the toxicity sir.

[@pipedreamism1]

So the women that gave him a child gets a pass

[@JDMHaze]

these grown women who signed up for the excellence lol

[@loulousworld92]

@@pipedreamism1 I’m not sure if you are blind, Deaf or just plain dumb. The woman who posted this comment clearly pointed out he is a liar and a manipulator so why are you looking for accountability from women who are lied too and manipulated. If a man is presenting a false image of representative of himself how are you supposed to know about the other woman and other kids you take him for what he presents to you. Now on the flipside why don’t we trust guys men who cry about their wives presenting false images of themselves then crying in court about the divorce what if I said the same thing and asked those men to be held accountable despite the fact they were lied too and manipulated. Please please just say you hate women and girls, looking for accountability after being cheated on is crazy.

[@loulousworld92]

@@pipedreamism1 how many all of our grandmother has the same story of a man lying through his teeth and having a fully functioning family in the next town. Anyway black women this is just another reason why we need to divest. Asking black women to take accountability from men who cheat and manipulate them is crazy.

[@mississippibilly_]

@@loulousworld92 I went to a predominantly white school bc of baseball scholarship still have some of those friends...does divest mean other races don't cheat cause that's laughable...I just started seeing divest 2 weeks ago so I wondered do these women actually know wyte people they have problems too..so why the pedestal

[@chanikalane5898]

These are turning into therapy sessions vs a dating show

[@ieo92]

So true..the last thing he needs is to date anyone lol

[@tanbutterfly8282]

Yep

[@helena3631]

Black folks need a lot of therapy most shouldn’t be dating all

[@somemorre]

Facts

[@dothall9295]

I agree

[@wizardofahhhhhhz]

He got real worked up behind a woman he cheated on and never bothered to marry 😒😒. This man is angry, defensive, and needs therapy. He’s never been challenged about his life choices. You can tell that he’s used to using aggression to prevent people from challenging him intellectually. If a woman gets with him, she will spend the rest of her life trying to keep him calm. He also has difficulty articulating himself, he barely put together any complete sentences. This is rough to watch. This is a grown man with 16 kids that are counting on him.

[@destinymcgowan5328]

Any woman who gets with him want to be a single baby mama number 8. If a woman gets with him she might as well make her place a daycare center for all of his kids and be OK with him sleeping with others. There's no benefit to dating him only cons. I know there's a number difference between black men and women but damn. If this is what is out there in the dating pool I'm scared

[@CyberWorld999]

and he will talk bout anything to deflect away from the disasters he has started in all these peoples lives. who the f has an entire discussion on someone giving him an “i’m sorry “ condolence and how he took that as a negative?someone who wants you to start seeing him as some sort of victim because of a death of an acquaintance whom he may not have even been close with. this dude has the nerve to request a woman to stand by what she says and his life literally is the definition of “i’m a lying cheating dead beat b@strd!!

[@CC12398]

Yeah but the women think it's his responsibility for contraception not up to them ...like this guy could even figure it out!

[@1BeautifullyBlessed]

😢

[@femiodeleye]

I'm barely a few minutes into this but his mannerisms are so childish and distracting, he doesn't know what to do with himself. Men can we stop being so informal, don't be in bed, sit and up present youself the best you can. Representing yourself better represents all of us better

[@erichill3128]

What you said is correct but I hear them say they've been waiting so long they don't no that they are going to get picked so they seem to relax hoping they get picked I guess but it's no excuse for not having your hair done proper clothes on etc etc

[@Roccofan]

@@erichill3128 Nope. What Femi is saying goes beyond that. People know what time the show comes on. They know that the show is for finding someone to be with and yet they present themselves in a slovenly manner.

[@ladymariej4156]

Well him being in bed does represent in a way what he brings to the table 👀

[@jetskipapi6193]

I disagree...I want them to represent themselves as they truly are...If you're a lay in the bed unpresentable type while you are trying to find a match then be that...don't want no surprises later on.

[@manup6131]

@@ladymariej4156 No it doesn't. Him in a dumpster would.

[@imanimcdonald4200]

Our community. 😪😪😪😢😢😢😢. Black women and men need to get their lives together (not all but enough of us) it’s really sad.

[@bella28498]

He said he wasn’t black. Don’t put that on the black community.

[@imanimcdonald4200]

He presents as black so????

[@ewutrygetsense9851]

@@bella28498 wats wrong wit you ? Even if it is not him black community here needs prayer and action taken because if you ask him how many black women had kids with him , you be surprised that 8 of them is black maybe one Puerto Rican . You tryna run off with his not black as if black women with 7 kids have not been calling in on Kendra show . Thats the no accountability

[@lovelocked5385]

@@bella28498 he's black 👀

[@bella28498]

@@imanimcdonald4200 he stated he was Puerto Rican and spoke Spanish.

[@capricorn8752]

He's looking to be married now because the reality of diabetes, hypertension, gout and high cholesterol is hitting him... dude doesn't want a wife but a caretaker.

[@Mysasser1]

This!!!!!

[@InsertAliasHere1154]

Looking for a nurse and a purse!

[@krystala17]

Lol your comment took me all the way out lol

[@divinefem8793]

@@InsertAliasHere1154 😂💀

[@capricorn8752]

I'm really getting second hand embarrassment. Men how about you sit up when conducting an interview, shower, brush teeth, throw a cap on or something, practice articulating words in the mirror.... DAMN!!! just act like you care about yourself a little.

[@Trusturtastebudzz]

He is not ready to be with anyone but himself..

[@nnena3631]

And his 20/11 children

[@broco6608]

And, yet some woman is going to decide to get with him and his 16 kids.

[@Thegoodlife4me]

Himself is probably not ready for himself. 🙄🙄🙄

[@wordplay6665]

Geesh! He never shutup until a real question came

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

He don’t have to women will still come.

[@Tracey1sWorthy]

Men there’s nothing wrong with seeking professional help. Please and I plead with you do not put that burden on a woman.

[@brooklynforever1990]

@Mrs. Accountability at all

[@UnpopularAdvisor]

That’s what they all seem to do.. just dump their mental disorders and stress on the next woman willing and ready and if she accepts it she’s “wiF3y mAtERiAL” with no proposal, no ring , or true commitment ever in the equation

[@92thegoat]

I feel sorry for people that you can tell truly want to express themselves but they just don’t have the ability. Please educate yourselves. Being able to express is the key to resolution

[@Irunthesehoezzz]

Dayum. That is 💯!

[@92thegoat]

@@Irunthesehoezzz thank you fam, I’m a poet so I’ve always been articulate but I truly feel for those who haven’t developed that part of themselves.

[@Irunthesehoezzz]

@@92thegoat that was short but deep homie. Get dat channel goin and drop them bars. You be surprised in how many people actually will listen to deep poetry over music. ✌🏾

[@too9593]

This Man has no problem talking and expressing himself. I understand clearly what he said.

[@92thegoat]

@@too9593 😐🙄 right… no problem at all. I’m not putting him down, but bro be fr lol

[@Lb2Shay]

I'm sure the only reason he didn't cheat on her he couldn't find anyone to cheat on her with. And he said it like that was the greatest thing he contributed to the relationship, he didn't cheat.

[@Jame6999]

How the hell do you know that? 🥴🥴🙄

[@daphuckuwant]

🤣🤣🤣

[@carriebrooks4174]

@@Jame6999 common sense practicality and Prudence ...5 minutes with him would send anyone with a reasonable amount of intelligence running 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️

[@CA-zn9bq]

I knew a 52 year old BM who told me that he never once wore a condem. He said he doesn't mess with skanks. I couldn't believe how irresponsible and ignorant that dude was.

[@qiana1976]

Whew Chile! **in Kendra’s voice** 🥴😳

[@ZsaZsaRodeo]

PLUS HE LOOK LIKE HIS BREATH STANKS

[@NestozLikwidVPotient]

and you can put money on the fact that millions of men think that about the women they sleep with as well as women thinking the same way about the men they sleep with. everybody believes they will know a skank when they see one ☝️ and of course claim to reject said skank. 🙄 yeah right

[@JCRFit]

Just imagine that line he told the women and they allowed it!

[@superkalafragilistic8289]

Whats condem?

[@ypdmv7420]

This was sad , this was draining

[@msladyv7378]

Extremely exhausting 😫!! I definitely exhaled once it was done. Sheesh!! 🤦🏿‍♀️ somebody else said it in the comments: Men, please seek professional therapy regardless of what anyone thinks!! Pls!

[@UnpopularAdvisor]

@@msladyv7378 They feel like since we think they need it we should be their therapist it’s ridiculous

[@relaxedautoqueen]

Pookie looking for love. Return to sender.😂

[@jubernardi23]

The women here don't say that everyone deserves love?

[@helena3631]

He’s looking for help not love lol

[@midoshishifu]

That’s pookie Sr. Thinking that some serious woman would want to be involved with him

[@BlackEnchantress]

😂😂😂 Yes with a "Reversal Candle" lol.

[@MadmanPanda]

This man needs therapy and not a woman..."don't apologize for something you didn't do..." what? Kendra is such a thoughtful and caring person and I really appreciate people like her so much.

[@t.m.3769]

He’s right thought. We use words that we hear people say but we don’t consider the meaning. My mom got her Angel wings last year. I don’t want to hear I’m sorry for your loss. You don’t know how it feels and I wouldn’t wish this in anyone. Just say I’m praying for your strength and keep it moving

[@jennzifur]

@@t.m.3769 some people don’t pray, you know (and many people out there don’t want to hear about prayer at that time, on the real). Maybe it is best if people just say, “cool beans” and keep it moving (sarcasm)

[@Iam_highmaintenancebeauty]

@@t.m.3769 so may i ask, do you let a person know when you’re offended in that moment? I just lost my father 4weeks ago, and I don’t talk about it but others that know do, so random people bring it up saying oh I’m sorry to hear about your dad. Bringing it up constantly has became such a CLICHÉ to me, but I don’t want to sound so harsh

[@Lovely-ff7uv]

@@Iam_highmaintenancebeauty "I appreciate your concern. However, I do not want/like to discuss it. Please never bring up that subject up again ". Keep it simple.

[@darkknight_za]

The black community as a whole needs therapy...

[@orihellcon]

He is a madman. Good luck... I feel sorry for whoever picks him

[@lifeisimportantkate]

Do not make fun of mental people you never know what comes knocking at your door one day.

[@MsPrice-pn2py]

Nobody is picking him he was not allowed to present as a potential mate

[@ragnarlagertha2543]

@@MsPrice-pn2py Exactly. There is nothing even remotely attractive about his demeanor. If I didn’t know better, I’d think he was a troll. And truth be told, these women need to be held accountable also for these 16 offspring. Why would anyone allow themself to get knocked up by THIS?? Was he the town’s only man or something? Yuk! I’d gladly use a vibrator before I’d let him get anywhere near me. He even LOOKS stank.

[@Chocodiko1]

MADMAN!!!! That’s it!!!

[@DonAllen80]

A lot of us need to involve a psychiatrist In combination with therapy. So many have normalized their trauma and are currently traumatizing others. This man is raising children, and in my uneducated opinion, there's something more than therapy can handle going on. Raising young men to be emotionally driven because they see Dad, who's unable to articulate his feeling directly without being aggressive or offensive, is a problem. There are a lot of great men locked up because they lacked the discipline not to respond emotionally.

[@Caram3l_Bombsh3ll]

This is just sad. So many hurt people out here hurting people and creating numerous broken homes in the process. You can have every good intention in the world but you’re out here living reckless.

[@AB-vb4sv]

Ruining lives.

[@UnpopularAdvisor]

This is really the one. They think everyone is living like that and NO Everyone is not. It’s those type of people in their own reckless bubbles and careless thinking. Everyone is not living like that and instead of owning and moving out in action to do better they’d rather argue their irrational senseless point of views while point the finger somewhere else.. I really those type of people feel like the world should just deal with their problems not themselves

[@jbcwms]

Honestly, he’s immature and a bit annoying. I love that Kendra was EXTREMELY patient and empathetic w him. Hopefully he goes to & takes that therapy seriously.

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

The problem is that men like him taken it for granted and will wring you dry until you lack anything left to mentally maintain yourself. He needs a professional and regular sessions.

[@TJ-bn1gc]

I pray to God you never need help one day. And if so, I hope that others don’t judge you the way you pass judgment.

[@jbcwms]

@@TJ-bn1gc Love, we all need help. & I am not passing judgment. As I stated, hopefully he goes to & gets the therapy as it’s needed. Even speaking solely for healing of the trauma he’s been through.

[@jbcwms]

@@LadyAstarionAncunin I absolutely agree!! & women need to be careful of who they’re connecting & procreating w!

[@shicks0053]

God cover this man's heart, mind, and Spirit. Give him a stable mind and make him whole again. Take the burdens off of him. Amen!! So shall it be 🫂💞

[@wifeytypefem]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@iwashere5956]

this relying on prayer b.s is the reason people in our community haven't bothered to get therapy

[@kjs9]

Amen

[@aplusdiva7006]

Prayer does work.... You can get therapy and your therapist could need help as well. Amen. Many therapist will never experience what you experience on the daily.

[@jadesmith7983]

This is very kind 🙏

[@nnena3631]

This is tragic on every level, and what's worse is the children may repeat this behavior 😔 this is absolutely horrible.. we HAVE to raise the collective standard...

[@Roccofan]

Indeed, but you can’t do that if everything is accepted. This man got a college “educated” woman to lay with him. I’m not saying those women need to be with college educated men, but they should be a LOT more discerning than this example of manhood. Am I wrong?

[@nnena3631]

@@Roccofan The essence of what you're saying is not wrong but people have to pick a side. On the one hand people advocate for the average guy and the lower earner, no matter what the woman has achieved, there are also people saying a woman doesn't "qualify" for anything better if she dosent look a certain way . Also her degree dosent matter, her income and achievements also don't matter. And no one else wants black women but black men so they need to just settle for what they should get. Give guys a chance and the benefit of the doubt, and be less judgemental. Then on the other hand people also say an educated woman should have a higher standard and shouldn't choose certain men and needs to raise their self esteem, be more discerning. Well this is what you get when you cross limiting beliefs with low self esteem and self worth, qlong with harmful messaging. Educated or not bad choices follow. Meanwhile this guy has no shame about his life choices and thinks he's the man because he allegedly didn't beat his gf's and didn't cheat on the last one.. 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️ So it's not just the choice thT needs to change its the rhetoric that leads to thoughts that manifest into actions that need to change on the whole and individually.

[@Roccofan]

@@nnena3631 You make excellent points, and I do see the kind of options that women have to choose from and most are not appealing. That said, there must have been MANY more men that his baby momma’s could have chosen from. Had to be, but this is an example of how so much of the rot in the black community is created by so few. This one man has been able to do the life wrecking of at least 5 men if not more. Imagine if he had this trash mindset and money to fuel his Pookie tendencies? My question is what did those women see in him? I have a cousin that has a “few” baby momma’s and the way that women are attracted to him is other worldly. He doesn’t lie about his past and they flock to him. When you witness it in person on a night out with him you can see how women find themselves in these positions. Relatively few men wreaking so much havoc.

[@nnena3631]

@@Roccofan That's the way low self esteem, conditioning and low self worth work. Many times you are drawn to the self destructive patterns that created the brokenness in the first place. We often count the ways a son is affected by a fatherless home but give very little thought to how the daughter is affected but then crucify her for the way it plays out in her adult life. When you have an opportunity ask a woman in a bad relationship or having children all over the place if she had a father and if she did was he m a rried to her mother, faithful, loving, protective and kind. That will tell you everything you need to know about her behavior. You ask what did this guy have to do to get the women? Likely nothing much but find some broken women and give them attention. A lot of women are trying to soothe what they never got at home from Dad through men. Others may have had a present father but he set a bad example in how he conducted himself in relationships. What does the daughter learn? That being mistreated, mishandled, neglected, disrespected, abandoned and sometimes even abused is normal. She will then seek out that same behavior in her romantic partner. I

[@JSustain]

@@nnena3631 I think you are confusing income with character. What people are saying is quit bypassing better behaving men for men that you know are a damn fool. Consider his track record, social circle, family, and any red flags. No man or woman is perfect. Try not going for dudes who you know will dog you out. The same goes for men focusing on a woman's looks and skills in bed. That how they get played, and then they want to use it as an excuse to get violent.

[@ashasun6620]

Now this is a "whew chile" moment!

[@jaeshasway]

Yep over 30 minutes worth. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@CamazonPrime]

Chile I tapped out after 8 mins from severe dust allergies 🤧

[@MCthespeaker]

I tapped out at hearing about all them kids grown or not.

[@Anonymous-cl2es]

🤣🤣🤣

[@shelbysycamore637]

Someone smashed the whole dang dustpan in my face with this video 😮‍💨

[@FreeB1Speech]

😷😷😷😷

[@indigobeauty1]

😂🤣 i was shaking my head in disappointment the whoole video...this is beyond disgusting.

[@kimishamadison4005]

This made me really sad and gave me a headache at the same time…😔🙏🏽🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jordanleebrown5403]

I wonder if he suffers from any personality disorders .. Like bi-polar, or like an extreme manic depressant, or a Histrionic or something .. He keep a good poker face for Kendra but that dued is probably off the rails in real life .. lol smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Sunshann]

& clearly a sex addiction

[@nellychild]

Bi polar disorder is not a personality disorder. It’s a mood disorder which can be managed. Personality disorders cannot be managed with medication.

[@mrod87]

im watching this 3 months after ur comment and looking in the comment for a therapists assessment! I literally thought it was me! I wanna play DSM Bingo with this man.....

[@f.-j.j.5738]

Bring back shame in the community. Too many shameless people out there. Shame people who sleep left and right, shame people who have children they can't afford, shame people who appear in public unkempt, shame people who are professional Baby Daddies or Mamas, shame people who refuse to provide for their family. Shame these behaviors and discourage them the best we can.

[@Roccofan]

I’m with you, but for that to happen you would need to have some foundational community standards. You can’t have those if members of your community can have a legitimate path to wealth by presenting the most vile, stereotypical, and degenerate behaviors associated with said community.

[@esengomamonga9292]

in this cancel culture, the black woke mob are making it hard to be harsh on degeneracy.

[@LuxLife24]

I agree. And we do too much coddling and making excuses

[@yournamemustbejealousy2062]

I can't get with shaming people for appearing unkempt in public.

[@jetskipapi6193]

I was shaming folks about the simple stuff...i.e. being overweight, super long eyelashes/fingernails, weave, and crazy hair colors...ended up getting shamed out of a job...but you want to shame people about who/how many people they sleep with, being a baby daddy/mama...nah I'm good, but good luck...lol

[@hardontheyardtv]

Wow! So he basically had a child every year from age15 to 30🤦🏾‍♂️ Ladies! Please use more discretion with who you give your womb to!

[@1BeautifullyBlessed]

😢

[@CookWithStephh]

When u think u seen it all...

[@deepsista36]

This!!!!!

[@professor_bae5788]

Right smh

[@butterflylovenj7300]

Puerto Rican isn't a race. That has nothing to do with his complexion. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@selfmaderish4690]

Only N##### do this 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@kisha4040]

Maybe his mom is a Black Puerto Rican.

[@karringtontaylor9751]

“Somebody said YUCK 🤢”😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@blaque301]

Billionaires be having like 1 kid, while Pookie security guards have 17💀🤮

[@MsCeCe-lt1zg]

😳😳😳

[@eccho1]

Bc the billionaires are BUSY getting shit together.... Pookie don't have nothing else to do bc his life has no high value so he distracts his time w sex.... Billionaires are trying to protect themselves..... They are strategic so they aren't just letting their seed go to just any and everybody

[@saharaloveland]

Elon Musk certainly fathered many 😂 but at least could afford em

[@thekaerichtexas]

Exactly

[@UnpopularAdvisor]

1 that they claim , how many stories have come out about billionaires fathering babies that they don’t claim I get what you’re saying tho

[@bxgirl2930]

He was on the verge of breaking down SEVERAL TIMES he needs SERIOUS HELP

[@aminah761]

Ready to destroy someone life smh 🤦‍♀️

[@leah2476]

Exactly

[@selfmaderish4690]

Dusty’s should never be this confident 😂😂

[@CCATRINI]

Lmfaooo

[@dajewel1982]

But they areeeeeee lol

[@shakitabananaa5651]

But have you ever met one that wasn’t 😂

[@kevinsono]

Because the woman keep giving him the highest honor lol. Kids! Woman really be sleeping with the same guys n then complain about men when they picking guys like him. Lord have mercy!

[@Maxrepfitgm]

What about single mothers and fat women?

[@TheeDaeKnight]

The funny thing is, the people that truly need therapy NEVER think they do. He seems like he just doesn’t know why he had all those kids. He doesn’t want to take accountability and admit that he shouldn’t have made them. Until he’s ready to take accountability and seek therapy (to help come to terms with the trauma he’s experienced and his resulting actions) things will not improve for him.

[@msreen269]

It does take two to have them, but I get what you’re saying. My issue with these men and women with multiple BMs & BDs is thinking they must have children with almost everybody they have sexual contact with.

[@pamjacque8640]

He definitely needs therapy. And he can't say anything about his Mom cuz his son lives with his mother now.

[@TheeDaeKnight]

@@msreen269 I agree for the most part, but he’s the constant in all these situations. We don’t know what he may have told the women. Personally, I know two guys that lie about the amount of kids they have when they meet women. One of them is currently married, has 8 kids total (only 1 with his wife) but his wife only knows about 3 of his other kids. All these kids and all these situationships can be avoided if people take time to get to know each other before jumping into bed all quick.

[@BlackPillMagic]

I’d really thought that we as a people had grown to the point where we no longer were averse to mental health treatment. Certainly many more of us do embrace it but it appears that those who are the most in need of treatment sadly reject it. The positivism is good but not enough on its own. Even when Kendra G offered him therapy that she was willing to sponsor the initial session for he was still reticent.

[@msreen269]

@@TheeDaeKnight I knew a woman who went through that. She thought the guy she was dating only had one child and didn’t find out that he had 5 more until she had a child with him. One out of several reasons I encouraged both my daughters when they were dating to be careful and date men with no children. My first daughter is married but my youngest daughter is 26 and she said it’s really hard to date within her age range because most of the men her age not just one, but two or three BM leaving all those babies in fatherless homes.

[@Girlgonewise]

The women that layer down and had kids with this man are crazier than he is.

[@bella28498]

They are nasty.

[@Khumo_Mpho]

Imagine meeting a man with so many baby mamas and still continuing to date him… I need to know what the last girl was thinking

[@pipedreamism1]

Ty and remember the man said he's from a single mother home so ladies one day you will take accountability that a man is needed when raising a family

[@ms.a806]

@@pipedreamism1 and men will take accountability that they should not make a baby with a woman who is not his wife.

[@yournamemustbejealousy2062]

@@pipedreamism1 yeah so why did his father abandon his family?

[@roshikay413]

I hope he wasn’t a pimp

[@dday3322]

Do you think he disclose that information to new women?

[@righteousru9296]

Kudos to you for offering to bless the brother..... may we all repent and keep Gods commandments

[@charlesbrown8879]

Best advice anyone can give

[@willhines1570]

Man get out of here

[@UnpopularAdvisor]

@@willhines1570 😂

[@kingconfidence20743]

We Are So Broken, Dysfunctional, Damaged, Delusional, Disappointing And Embarrassing As A Culture The African American Race Needs Mad Therapy, Healing And Prayer🙏🏽🤦🏾

[@daughterofyah6209]

It’s because we don’t actually read the Bible and see the curses. It’s time that we turn from our wicked ways. The children of Israel are the so-called “black, latin, and native indians.” That’s why we suffer from sin the most. Let us turn back to our Heavenly Father, the God of our fathers Israel and let’s put down evil lifestyles, thoughts and words. The Most High God gave us laws. He said if we will do and keep the laws, he will make us a chosen people above all- “For thou art an holy people unto the LORD thy God: the LORD thy God hath chosen thee to be a special people unto himself, above all people that are upon the face of the earth.” ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭7:6‬ ‭KJV‬ But we didn’t want to be a special and holy people and thought the other nations new better than our heavenly God. He warned us and said if we want to follow after the other nations and not his ways than we will have curses placed on us because the other nations do not follow after God but followed Satan and Demi Gods and kept pagan traditions: “But it shall come to pass, if thou wilt not hearken unto the voice of the LORD thy God, to observe to do all his commandments and his statutes which I command thee this day; that all these curses shall come upon thee, and overtake thee:” Deuteronomy 28:15 KJV We agreed to that contract in blood and ever since we basically said “f- God and his laws” our people have been a joke.

[@joeroot9142]

We,…….no him.

[@DawnDuhDuh]

...free health care should be in our reparations package and mandatory mental health therapy should be part of eligibility

[@kisha4040]

I don't understand why some people don't groom themselves better knowing that they're about to go live? How are you going to find a decent person when you are not properly groomed?

[@Lmao10752]

Because this how they look on a regular basis lol

[@haleyhaley8777]

@@Lmao10752 lol

[@brandonlongdikjones8117]

It's the take me as I am movement taking it too far lol.

[@kaboomroom33]

A lot of men are riding the “wild about the head” train. Look at Jay Z’s head! 😳

[@tuesdayjanae3676]

Because he’s dusty

[@pamjacque8640]

Prayers to anyone who would slide into his DM 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@CharleneB178]

🤣🤣🤣

[@MsBadBody]

Lmmfao

[@peacebrooks4230]

1. His hair 2.He ain’t married none of his baby mamas 3. He still having kids!

[@abby-a]

He's a dusty

[@FreeB1Speech]

😷😷😷😷

[@NestozLikwidVPotient]

and got more confidence than SIMBA from the LION KING but operating with the qualities of a d@%n jackal-hyena.

[@marcusgurley9495]

you were very generous. the rest is on him. this call just convinced me to go to therapy myself so i appreciate this very much

[@brooklynforever1990]

Good for you 🙌🏼 therapy was life changing for me as well

[@roseaduke8835]

👍🏽❣

[@yeslia2010Godis]

This is what you call Delusions of Grandeur, his traumas have put him in a false reality.. I wouldn't leave my children around him, he may have PTSD and seems unstable.. The way he rose up at Kendra for saying sorry for your lost... The saddest part is there may be a woman out there with such low self worth that she sees him as someone to date,,, he's no where near ready to date and needs extensive counseling and deliverance from the toxicities in his life..

[@aoc092]

I think he mentioned PTSD in the video.. when he talked about an ex trying to 'diagnose' him.

[@Tblizzle]

Seems a bit narcissistic to ke as well

[@lovelee883]

He is exhausting 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@pooh4025]

This was a free therapy session right here.

[@Sophia-oz5qh]

This man need to be by himself for a long time. He's going through a lot emotionally. I'm sure he has regrets, but I think he's just looking for a shoulder to lean on.

[@LadyAstarionAncunin]

Seems like he'll break the shoulder under his weight.

[@Lmao10752]

LMFAO, when Kendra start rushing through the questions 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@saysay_unique]

LMFAO 😛

[@kimjordan8151]

I don’t have any of the problems this man has but this just reminds me how mental health is just as important as physical health. Let me make an appointment with my therapist. Whew chile!

[@AB-vb4sv]

Man here- this is what happens when you decide to ruin 16 children as well as multiple women. This is disgusting. The man obviously needs therapy. Imagine how these kids will turn out?

[@brooklynforever1990]

Lost just like he is. Broken

[@jmoney2610]

The women play a role in this as well, if anything the women are more responsible as they should have seen this guy has a track record of just having multiple kids

[@AB-vb4sv]

@@jmoney2610 yea. It’s disgusting either way. I can tell 5 min I wouldn’t want to spend time around this dude.

[@Rieka.Chanel]

Right this is how generational trauma continues. And it’s mostly boys! Man oh man 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@AB-vb4sv]

@@Rieka.Chanel it’s a collective in the black community. I seen bw reject men based off them not using correct punctuation, which tells me women can reject men and make decisions. This man was allowed to get multiple women pregnant. They allowed it.

[@omiadi7485]

Condolences are sorrows. He's projecting his internal pain onto others by not accepting someone sharing his pain. I feel he's full of shyte, unresolved emotions and clearly unstable. Undateble. Condolences to the next victim.

[@brooklynforever1990]

Agreed

[@cd6741]

Agreed too.

[@cecilemorton8109]

Definitely agree 💯

[@NestozLikwidVPotient]

and there will be more victims. count on it

[@peacefreedom4930]

He’s exactly what his daughters will bring home to him. He is their template. His example is imprinted in their subconscious. It’s ironic that he spent his life being undisciplined, irresponsible, womanizing and etc.. yet expects the Universe to repay his lineage a different harvest than the crop he sowed. That’s not how this works.

[@eddieelliott1496]

Kendra take a moment 🤦this brother is chaotic and all over da place in a interview. Can you imagine what being in a relationship will be like🙆. This guy is bipolar at his best.

[@kateramckay4317]

Just because a man is dysfunctional means he has Bipolar Disorder? If you don't understand the mental illness, dont throw the label on people

[@eddieelliott1496]

@@kateramckay4317 you don't have to understand that a tiger is more dangerous than a house cat even though they both are pussies🤨

[@kateramckay4317]

@@eddieelliott1496 Thats not correlated to the statement I said. The only person who can say he has Bipolar Disorder is a psychiatrist. I made my point

[@kane99560]

I love this show but i cant watch when it gets this serious. I am just here for the lols. This guy needs serious professional help.

[@CoffeeNotTea_]

Lol 😂!

[@Tygerlillybutterflies]

He just loves to talk & go on & on.

[@teal1010]

When people say, “sorry for your loss”, “I'm sad”, “I feel bad”, “It's painful” and “I feel sorrow”, It's not an apology!

[@mikiasg8867]

I can’t even get a text back and bro has 16 children 🤣😭

[@mmmsunshine5367]

😂🤣

[@Worldshottestpariah]

😂😂😂😂

[@eke.D]

"I've had 9 gfs and i only didn't cheat on the last one." LMFAO this dude is King dust 😂. Now are you ladies beginning to understand why there are far more childless black men than women.

[@JDMHaze]

“king dust” 😂😂😂

[@jaeshasway]

And made 0 of them a wife. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@eke.D]

@@jaeshasway yes! Or at the very least get snipped or wear a rubber 😕

[@melissag.428]

“King Dust” lmfao 🤣

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

You need to check the stats sir by the time black men are his age 80% have children. Stop quoting your own facts🤣🤣🤣😃.

[@nadirashabazz1033]

"My condolences" is synonymous to "i am sorry" when it comes to someone passing away but i am sorry he doesnt know that.

[@antoniotula262]

Semantics. His mind ain't right.

[@adams8830]

Man the guy is smoking crack.

[@NestozLikwidVPotient]

and him challenging something that simplistic in basically all cultures is the biggest deflection of something. not sure what cause he proceeded to tell us who he really is by explaining his life.

[@dr.camaled.7085]

He doesn't need a therapist, he needs a psychiatrist. It's a huge difference.

[@EsiriE]

Bye 😂😂

[@MrMisterdc]

OMG, hilarious!

[@keniascott-ul9ov]

I think he's basically to the core a good person. This man didn't get this way for no reason. This type of situation starts from child hood. I pray for this man

[@DrHen-xd3rv]

Accountability. This is something I see amongst my ppl. I pray we learn that WE are the reason for the results of our lives and experiences. Blessings to all my brothers and sisters. Love you

[@moniquew3603]

Can people calling in just please send their kids to their room, and/or their bed before coming onto this show. These kids are always looking, listening, and watching everything you say and do. Also this interaction/situation was just ....🤦🏾‍♀️

[@shangreer9060]

I just don’t understand why Kendra entertains children on this channel. It’s reckless. She knows nothing about them. Is the person able to consent to their being recorded? Damn, they could be victims of all manner of things. It’s just insane. There should be a no kids policy.

[@calikeisha365]

I often don’t understand why folks have their kids on camera…it’s so bizarre!

[@lizamimi]

Exhausting……🤦🏽‍♀️💅🏽

[@buyhouses2833]

The crazy thing is he’s going to have a few more kids before he hits 50.

[@Aries.Goddess30]

That is crazy 👀😳

[@misslove7698]

I surely thought he was near 60

[@honeyvoss1477]

I believe it.

[@rickiesmith413]

@@misslove7698 I agree

[@melanindonnaricca9645]

@@misslove7698 Ain’t no way he’s 46 he said his oldest was 32. I think he’s def in his mid to late 50’s.

[@0xwxe663]

He got the whole nba team package

[@reneegibson2911]

Both teams, some cheerleaders and a waterboy 🙄

[@Aries.Goddess30]

💀💀

[@jaeshasway]

And multiple on the sidelines to fill in. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@QweenofIntegrity]

The abrasiveness is scary. I am terrified and trembling from this conversation.

[@smilingsince87]

Same

[@belizegal29]

Definitely! I am familiar with someone like this, only difference, he has one child. Exhausting and sad.

[@ambasd733]

How is a WHOLE CHEATER ... talking about he doesn't want to date a Liar??? Smgdh lmao 🤣 😂 GTFOHWTBS

[@samajyashabahtisrael9936]

The baby is beautiful. Period.

[@09kenedy]

It’s not about the baby though 🙄

[@bella28498]

What is your point?? This was pathetic.

[@samajyashabahtisrael9936]

@@bella28498 Is the baby not beautiful???

[@samajyashabahtisrael9936]

@@09kenedy This post is.🙄

[@KD-vg1kh]

He started having kids at 1️⃣4️⃣‼️‼️wtf oldest 31 he’s 46 wtf

[@JamalMack]

Okay thanks for doing the math I was just about to do that myself to see wtf kinda time he was on

[@GreyMann2]

Sidenote: in his unique way of explaining himself, he brought an interesting point. I think we should be more vocal about our "triggers" and unfavorable phrases when it comes to tragedy. It grinds my gears when people say "Remember, God doesn't make mistakes!" Or "Look at the bright side, God had better plans for him/her!" Nobody wants hear that foolishness!

[@trinilyfe4404]

And who shaming u? Who made u judge MSN stfu ... how about someone shame u

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

Listen strangers do not know you-your triggers are yours-stop this pseudo psycho healing mess! You are responsible for your feelings-they are personal! He may never speak to Kendra again in life-he failed the test. He was supposed to receive the empathy not repel it!🤦🏾‍♀️

[@dsavoy25]

Expecting people not to feel or have empathy for traumatic situations showed he hasn’t even begin a healing process for himself. He need not call a singles line and lay all that heaviness on anyone in life until he gets a handle of his own. This was a bit much.

[@GreyMann2]

@@Seeingisntbelieving I don't expect people to know everybody's triggers which is why I suggested being more vocal about it. No need to suffer in silence

[@deniseevans7960]

She diagnosed you. This man needs PROFESSIONAL Therapy. One thing he doesn't need is a relationship.

[@coolv7587]

Kendra needs to hook this dude up with an appointment to see the psychiatrist,one of her former guests 😂 😂

[@ladybug9274]

A session with that Psychiatrist" might take him to a place he doesn't want to go to. 😜🤪😬🤪

[@Reneesaidit]

🤣🤣🤣

[@dashannamccullum]

😭🤣🤣🤣

[@suchafknladyyy]

Woooo chiiiii that young man had to have been a patient 🤣😂

[@NeishaNineStarz]

After everything this man is still reluctant to possibly get married even though he isn’t a prize under his current circumstances. I hope he gets therapy to work out some of the complicated stuff he has going on. His kids would benefit from a mentally healthy father he has deep work to do before adding on a relationship.

[@ambasd733]

Somebody dating you CAN'T diagnose you AND it's UNETHICAL ... this Clown 🤡 is off his rocker ... Somebody get those damn children!!!

[@jessiepooh5164]

Therapy is a hell of a healer ⚘️⚘️

[@ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman]

I was already thinking he may have a mental or personality disorder and around 23:28 he was about to say he’s bipolar. I don’t think anybody caught it because she cut him off but I rewinded twice just to make sure. I hope he gets help 🙏🏾

[@lovelyIberia]

he was about to

[@Unconquerable87]

I lost my 27yr old son..a year and a half ago, and when someone expresss their condolences, rather it’s I’m sorry to hear, or my condolences… I could never see myself being angry, or upset over someone expressing condolences. And I’m editing this to add that what actually happened was my brother, my son, and my best friend of 35 + years… died within a month of each other, and even in the midst of my grief I stilk can’t see myself being angry over the way someone expresses their condolences. He sounds like he really need some therapy and healing, I hope he gets that before he moves on in any way.

[@soulshineSessions1]

My deepest sympathies… we walk in the same shoes. I lost my 26 year old son. Prayers for their spirits in paradise 🙏🏼

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

So sad to hear of your losses! Sending you peace and love!

[@ReesyQueen]

❤️ I hope they’re still close & there’s nothing that we can’t get through ! I lost my stepdad in a car accident 2 days after my birthday & in 3 days is the 11th year anniversary. I think he needs therapy because he’s interpreting something heartfelt into something negative & that’s on him… not everyone else.

[@ReesyQueen]

@@soulshineSessions1 My condolences to you as well ❤️

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

Sorry for your loss. I agree... ❤❤

[@Jason-nb7tr]

Ladies, this man ran the streets for long carelessly having children out of wedlock. Now he just realize that he is getting older, health might not be what it was. He most likely looking for someone to take care of him..

[@lifeisimportantkate]

Women need to have pride in themselves. Love themselves more and stop spreading their legs for the first man that speaks to them. This brother certainly has a lot to handle and could do with therapy. To seek another woman now without help could be disastrous.

[@dayciajtalk88]

Therapy should be a priority! For many black men and women, before looking to enter into a new relationship!!!

[@poppa1050]

Wishing every good thing to this man and his family…

[@f.-j.j.5738]

What happened to being presentable? Having manners? Grooming yourself when appearing in public? Having a polished and curated look? If you do not care to present yourself in an honorable manner on a public platform like an online show, you will humiliate me in social settings. My family would shame me to no end just based on his unkempt demeanor. Once he opens his mouth they'd think I lost my mind. If he mentions he has children (and that many) outside of wedlock, they'd Baker Act me.

[@jetskipapi6193]

Nothing happened to being presentable, having good manners, or grooming yourself...let him do his thing though

[@cameoh.950]

🤣 Lmao agreed

[@belizegal29]

Everything you said.

[@reddtrem]

This entire exchange drained me so much!!

[@DiViNELOVE7-77]

His focus shouldn’t be finding love. Instead his focus should be finding himself and getting his shit together. He a whole mess from the inside on out lol🤦🏾‍♀️

[@smilingsince87]

Sadly instead of seeking help he’s trying to seek a woman who will most likely end up having his kids.

[@DiViNELOVE7-77]

@@smilingsince87 and it’ll be a continuous toxic cycle he’s already in

[@TheHarmonyPill]

Chile I can’t anymore 💀💀💀

[@BAFABA]

I think he would actually really benefit from therapy. He seems pretty honest and self aware. He doesn't seem ready though.

[@jaeshasway]

He strikes me as someone who doesn’t believe in therapy. Unfortunately most BM even if they think it has merit will never seek it out.

[@Jame6999]

Probably can't afford it. Better yet his insurance won't cover it

[@LoveAfterPookie]

He needs to get with that girl who was on the news years ago living in the motel room with her 15 kids barking at the government to help her 🤣🤣

[@SunshineKK99]

I see nothing but trauma, heartache, and pain. Low vibrational energy all around him. He's argumentative and bitter.

[@reneehorton4004]

Therapy, is definitely needed.

[@msreen269]

My maternal and paternal grand-parents both had 15 kids each. The difference is, both sets were married and had all their children with each other within their marriage.

[@AB-vb4sv]

Huge difference

[@msreen269]

@@AB-vb4svExactly, that’s my point. He left most of those kids in fatherless homes.🤦🏽‍♀️Now he looking for a new potential BM. These women gotta stop thinking this is ok.

[@suchafknladyyy]

@@msreen269 I'm the baby of 14 it's only 3 mom's as my dad is from a South Sudan tribe he was Muslim all my Uma's lived in the house together and my father was involved in all our lives we have his last name and he was an amazing complicated man I miss him

[@minababy40]

He's not in the right state of mind. He has a lot of anger and resentment inside him.

[@sammynoyb4550]

A dated a Libra man in a similar situation. He couldn't resolve his previous relationships because he had a hard time committing. Making a decision was impossible. He was extremely argumentative and lazy. But he always put everyone else needs before himself. I hope he gets the psychological help he needs to have a better life 🙏

[@Enigmajestic1]

He wasn't lazy He didn't care about himself I used to be the same if he was lazy He wouldn't of been able to put everyone's needs before himself He didn't have any value in himself

[@sammynoyb4550]

@@Enigmajestic1 when I say this dude was lazy. I mean he was nasty. His house and car was a mess because his priorities was a mess. It was always woah it's me. No one will help me....I'm helping everyone else. If that wasn't lazy then maybe I need to revisit the word in the dictionary.

[@Enigmajestic1]

@@sammynoyb4550 oh that's disgusting I assumed you was using lazy in regards to effort

[@najwa777]

Praying for his healing, may God continue to heal and bless his children and family.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@TheRaynebeau]

WHEW!! This is A LOT on SO many levels.

[@Coco_mla]

Damn🤣😭 "Don't apologize for something you didn't do" Losing a loved one is never easy🤧

[@salutemimi81]

😂😂😂 All I can think is this is what method man would look like if he gave up on hisself 😂😂😂

[@l8019]

Heck yeah! 😂😂😂😂

[@amilllion1]

Method would never and looks amazing in person

[@coachpatty2889]

Oooh, I fell out on this comment 😂😂

[@salutemimi81]

@@coachpatty2889 😂😂 it's all I could think Off topic You're beautiful

[@piscespisces6]

Method Man with a mix of ODB

[@soundsgood2me947]

I'm tired from just listening.

[@Nik-Pete]

I hope he finds peace🙏🏾

[@goodseed1024]

Baby, he needs to “find” a comb, a chair, and a psychiatrist!

[@nelliebpink13]

Lol when K start yelling out her questions fast she is completely over it