Brazilian Nanny Moves Into Owner’s Bedroom After His Wife Is Mysteriously Murdered

[@fredders1]

the fact they didn’t even mention her on the 911 call is insane to me, your wife is bleeding out, how do you not tell them

[@dverzo]

Fr that instantly makes the both of them sus af

[@chidinmaobeleagu2968]

The husband is wicked. He plotted all this

[@oliviaw.2842]

Also... why do I have an inkling that the husband and the au pair never shed a single tear?

[@The.best.samara]

@@oliviaw.2842bc they didn’t

[@alinnedub]

They weren't smart at all, I've seen much better plans from agents, you know... As a Brazilian, this ugly girl makes me ashamed, but there are serious people... I myself took care of a 6-year-old boy in England and I treated and was treated with great respect (including the way I dressed). Husbands and wives, protect your family, because even if they are faithful, there are nannies who only think about taking what doesn't belong to them and all they need is an opportunity. Hollywood is there to show that today nannies are almost like prostitute and they publicly expose these people on magazines inside other people's homes as nannies and as wives later... even if they hire older women, don't trust anyone. God bless you!

[@ep5957]

I was an Au Pair and lived with my host family. They took me in and treated me like family and I cannot imagine the AUDACITY this lady had. How cruel.

[@tv-21]

She became their family for reals

[@h0rriphic]

It is usually more dangerous for the au pair- being young, inexperienced, far away from home, and potentially unable to speak the language of the area.

[@Q-ed9dc]

Lady??

[@ykjo5613]

Im sure it is very common. Maybe not the murder part

[@abbysmabby]

my sister was one too in france

[@kendragardner1299]

UPDATE: HE GOT ARRESTED TODAY! 4 counts of aggravated murder and one count of use of a fiream during the commission of a felony. EDIT: Did a little bit more research on why it was four counts instead of two. Here is a quote from the Commonwealth Attorney's Office: "The reason we did that is, it’s very lawyerly and technically, but essentially it boils down to in the aggravated murder statute there are a number of different options to prove that,” Fairfax County Commonwealth’s Attorney Steve Descano told WUSA - when explaining the four different counts of murder filed this week. “When we took a look at what we intend to present at trial, we believe our presentation of evidence can possibly hit both of those different subsection elements. We wanted to cover all our bases and make sure the jury had every option that they could want when looking at the evidence.”

[@carsonc6659]

🎉

[@brownskingirly-z3f]

👏🏽👏🏽

[@insyiwinsyi]

Good to hear!!!

[@KhairaJihah]

🥳🎊

[@suprafatadecontact]

youre a real one, thank you for your service :D

[@michellemcgowan5657]

Wow that nanny must have super hearing , she’s hiding in a basement can hear a stabbing and perfectly what’s being said in an upstairs bedroom ,that’s surely the first red flag !

[@loguipigui9565]

Don't forget the very good receptivity in her phone. lol

[@soniaigwe3546]

While that was a red flag, I would say the first one was the refusal to enter the house once she saw a strange car in the driveway

[@Jessie91J]

she also said that the mom bought tickets for the National Zoo. The National Zoo has no Entry Fee. It's free to enter. you only pay for parking once you get there And even that you don't have to do with a yearly membership.. which most families with AuPairs in the DC Area have! I was an AuPair in the DC area. I knew a lot of AuPairs. And especially the ones with young kids all had memberships to all kinds of things around their home. Additionally, most of the time the AuPair decides what they do outside the scheduled events (like swimming, dancing or music classes), as the parents are either at work or busy at home. So the AuPair will most likely arrange to meet up with other AuPairs.

[@sleepyearth]

@@Jessie91J Yea the nanny and the husband are damn evil

[@jaziahmounty8307]

“sound of flesh being struck “😂😂

[@DomP0es]

Hi Steph Im from South Africa and we could really use your platform to bring justice. The more noise the world makes, the less likely it is for our justice system to fail us. There was a girl from Caledon who attended Overberg Highschool. Her name is Deveney Nel and she was 16. She was murdered on the 7th of August 2024 by another classmate, Francios Brand who is 17. He beat, raped, stabbed and strangled Deveney to death on the school premises during a school sports day. He proceeded to hide her body in a store room where one of the teachers ended up finding her. Francios Brand helped search parties, knowing what her did to her. When he was 13, he raped an 11yr old girl and left her covered in blood with a wire around her neck. He got away with it, no charges or anything. We need someone with a large platform like yours to spread awareness of the femicide happening in South Africa. We want justice for Deveney Nel and all the other women and girls who has suffered at the hands of men. Please Steph. Edit: Between the start of April and the end of June, there were 966 women murdered, and 1644 attempted murders of women. There also has been 314 children murdered and 243 attempted murders. South Africa remains with the highest femicide rate *globally* Enough is enough, so I am pleading to SPEAK ABOUT THIS. No matter how big or small your platforms are, we need to be the voices for those who can't speak up.

[@swaguchiha3508]

she’s made a case on south africa

[@DomP0es]

@swaguchiha3508 I've seen. She repeatedly covers cases in Korea so it wouldn't hurt to do more for South Africa too no?

[@Bunnylovecrypto]

@@DomP0esTrue. We should cover more stories worldwide not just South Korea. She did one only on Singapore.

[@talachii1722]

I hope that Steph does help give a voice to your case. Lief jou ❤

[@cindyj8914]

Also she needs researchers that are trustable and reliable. That’s another factor to think about too. She needs South African researchers first

[@lastyllobille]

I work at the same hospital Christine used to work at (peripherally work in a different unit). I never met her but most of the PICU nurses who have been around a few years wear little coke can stickers on their badges in honor of her since she was known to like drinking it at work. I hope she gets justice. She seemed like a wonderful person.

[@linchinchulin]

Just to clarify, she actually in her instagram stories said that they are dating for MONTHS, in plural. Like, more than one month. Not just A MONTH. And that is EVEN WORSE.

[@g00bers24]

Are you the jury, judge, and executioner? Leave it to the pros 💅

[@elegyofaloyalhound]

​@g00bers24 why are you going around making comments like these defending these people and then liking your own comments.. do you not have a job

[@marmedello]

@@g00bers24if it’s been months that further proof motive. His wife had only been gone a couple of months at that point

[@Fallenfromgrace1990]

​@@g00bers24If they have been dating months, it gives more to the alibi of why the wife was probably killed. It adds to the case and can be argued in court of motive.

[@dorothyf19]

@@g00bers24my brother in christ she literally said those words verbatim this isn’t some random theory/accusation for judges to consider

[@graysonsjourney5420]

This whole story stinks. So the husband was diddling the nanny and then took out two innocent people. For what? Divorce people. That should be the only option.

[@tv-21]

Divorce will be 50/50 split, so that can't happen.

[@danicap9565]

@@tv-21And? It was a family unit, it should be a 50/50 split. Take people lives over money and possessions is sick.

[@jacquelinese1787]

@@tv-21then don’t marry 🤡

[@Nick-b7b9s]

It's clear as day... anyone old enough to remember the 1992 film "the hand that rocks the cradle" knows exactly what happened. 🤣

[@Bunnylovecrypto]

Wait. What part did I miss? I thought Joseph is the only one who died. Who’s the other one?

[@cookiesandcarnage]

UPDATE SEPTEMBER 16, 2024 Brendan Banfield was arrested and facing four counts of aggravated murder and one count of using a firearm during the commission of a felony!!

[@andrewd6754]

4 counts wtf...he killed 2 more people?

[@cookiesandcarnage]

@@andrewd6754 I don’t know, that’s just what the article said haha

[@violet7773]

​​@@andrewd6754 I'm not American so I only know about their legal system from news and true crime but I think sometimes they charge someone with murder in multiple "degrees" (eg 1st and 2nd degree for the same victim), so that even if the 1st degree charge doesn't stick, the 2nd degree charge might? Idk maybe I'm completely off lol

[@TheMychaaaa]

'The reason we did that is, it's very lawyerly and technically, but essentially it boils down to in the aggravated murder statute there are a number of different options to prove that. When we took a look at what we intend to present at trial, we believe our presentation of evidence can possibly hit both of those different subsection elements," Descano said. "We wanted to cover all our bases and make sure the jury had every option that they could want when looking at the evidence,' Descano added. ​@@andrewd6754

[@mizkittycat_rcktgrl]

Sleeping in victim’s room. Sleeping on victim’s bed. And placing photographs of her with the victim’s husband… yes, the audacity is mindboggling. So I can certainly speculate the couple is involved.

[@Darth_Bateman]

Pfft, women amirite? I’m sorry I was joking please don’t cancel me again, i can’t go back to jail!

[@TamiTheeCitygirl]

@@Darth_Bateman okay that last bit made me giggle XD

[@paulalicius]

they are both sick people

[@ThatPurpleFlounder]

and then the husband let's his affair partner take the fall

[@Darth_Bateman]

@@TamiTheeCitygirl ha ha, thanks Tami! So, this means I'm free to go right? ^^ No, what are you doing…. HELP!! No, I can’t go back to jail now, I have a Chihuahua to feed!

[@Deathxnote-1]

I feel horrible for the child. Imagine life knowing your dad killed your mom

[@nodontreadthat]

is that. a paseri onuma pfp omg

[@Myvietboyfriendishot]

Dangit I saw this comment only 5 minutes into the video and ruined it for myself 😂

[@eisschnee5482]

imagine some people protecting the "dad"

[@tv-21]

Omg is it even true

[@Deathxnote-1]

@@Myvietboyfriendishot I'm so sorry lmao

[@flirtnfinesse]

Besides the fact that murder is EVIL, it’s so baffling that she would agree to commit this crime. The man was willing to murder his wife and MOTHER OF HIS BABY GIRL. What would stop him from doing the same to her??

[@thaliaflores2973]

“ how you get them is how you lose them”

[@zoeb3573]

I don't understand why cheaters never seem to come to that conclusion. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you, you're not special. If he's willing to kill his first wife, he's willing to kill his second. Get involved at your own risk.

[@ticianaalfano]

I'm Brazilian, and I must say the way she writes about him in her insta story is like she's trying to "hide" the fact that he is her boss. She makes it seem like he's an American guy that she knew and wanted to date while being in America. I don't think anyone mentally sane would post a picture with a Q&A while after her boss's death. Very odd. Anyway, I hope justice will be served. Christine seemed like a lovely woman. May she has found peace in heaven. edit: the way you tell us the case is really profound and it made me cry thinking about the poor 4 year old. Your job is beautiful and I hope you have strength to help more and more people. Thank you, Steph!! 😊

[@Tome1cafezim]

Oi! brasileira aqui tbm, vim só deixar meu olá mesmo, concordo contigo, esse caso é muito confuso pra mim e cruel em mtos sentidos... espero que a verdade apareça logo. Adoro o canal da diva mango. Bjo :****

[@ticianaalfano]

@@Tome1cafezim simm amg reall tbm adoro os vídeos da diva

[@vitoriamanzinii]

Brasileira aqui também! Comentando apenas para marcar presença. Nem sabia desse caso até sair esse vídeo. Chocante. Realmente, eu fico muito triste pela menininha de 4 anos. Que situação traumática pra ela. Espero que os culpados sejam devidamente punidos.

[@Latinaperspective]

What’s her instagram ?

[@ticianaalfano]

@@Latinaperspective I have no idea

[@whyisthisdifferentnow]

Dude, just get a divorce. It’s NEVER that serious.

[@preciousmorival2201]

But if she got a divorce she would have took the kids the house add half of his salary LOL

[@youngtae1413]

@@preciousmorival2201ok? So that means u kill the mother of ur child ? Stop being a weirdo

[@moonie2663]

Fr people are so fucking dumb and do to much like just divorce u can fix your life and not ruin others

[@Bunnylovecrypto]

@@whyisthisdifferentnow IKR. Everyday I watch crime stories against women, I will always complain to my bf about how incorrigible men are

[@yasmina1994]

@@preciousmorival2201and he will lose ALL that and more in prison so what's your point

[@genesisruiz2282]

I’m a young nanny been a nanny for 5 years now and I’ve had almost every husband flirt in some type of way and not once did I persue it and I would speak with the wife and leave the family. This case irks me that their is a stigma on nanny’s and that it happens too often because at the end of the day the one who needs to be loyal is the HUSBAND and they absolutely killed this poor woman

[@sol-leks6122]

Yes husbands should be loyal and nannies should do their job. Nothing more, nothing less.

[@raybows]

Just a small correction, at 25:50 she doesn't say it's been a month, she says it's been MONTHS which is even crazier

[@friendzenn]

the word ‘já’ gets me bc like…it’s *already* been months so she’s probably implying it’s been so smooth sailing like girl…

[@SaltySerial]

I didn't notice because I'm cleaning while this is on, and listening more than watching..but how interesting that she also says "pra matar curiosidade" which is like the expression, ' to satisfy curiosity' but literally translates to, 'to kill curiosity.'

[@raybows]

@@friendzenn yeah kinda like "crazy how the time flies!"

[@sandralazo1444]

Yup, good catch meses = months its plural Mes =month singular

[@Jasmine_breeze]

It's shocking how comfortable they both feel in a bedroom that is a crime scene. Strangers would be disgusted by such a room and bed. But they don't! The nanny feels great going to bed with her dead boss's husband in the place where the woman was stabbed. The husband must be heartless to replace his wife with a young nanny so quickly and so remorseless. They are both disgusting and suspicious as hell. I hope they won't escape justice.

[@Blakenew127]

Their behaviour after the crime is for me the one of the strongest indicators they did it. And also a strong indicator of shared psychopathy tendencies. In Brazil, there is a famous case of a killer that was caught because of similar behaviour: police caught the killer hosting a house bbq party only days after the murder. A Violent murder that had taken place in the house, k1lling who should be a loved one. After that, they started to include that person as a suspect and the investigation proved their suspicions right. Chris Watts is an American case that follows the same pattern. Psychopaths act under a completely different logic that shock us but it makes perfect sense to them. And in some cases, that is precisely what makes them get caught.

[@Jasmine_breeze]

@@Blakenew127 you are right. These people have a completely different logic. For us it would be logical to work on the relationship and if it is not possible then to break up. For some people murder is more convenient. It robs them of the enormous power that is in humanity - compassion. It must be a terrible perspective if a person knows higher emotions only cognitively but is not able to feel them.

[@theweirdmom]

Came here to say this. Well said

[@lvbags53a25]

The husband has been charged with wife’s’ murder. May justice prevail for Christine. 🙏

[@delia__d.]

Just saw this in the news!!!!!

[@jessr.8258]

Wow! Thanks for sharing, just looked it up! I’m glad cause it’s pretty clear there’s foul play here

[@FabGirlJulia]

I feel bad for the child, brake the family just for a pair fake Brazilian boobs….he is a lost man, gotta think with your other head

[@loguipigui9565]

Even if Christine would have had an affair.. It doesn't make sense that for the first time meeting with a complete stranger she would choose her home, where her lovely 4 y.o. daughter lives and risking her safety, when she can just go to a hostel.

[@jetbllackwings]

and so early in the morning too like?? doesn’t make sense

[@user-sg4ov7ng4h]

And it's bdsm, built on trust and consent. I wouldn't imagine anybody, even a beginner, accepting getting potentially hurt by a stranger.

[@TG-nh6ni]

She's really like amazing...😭😭

[@aurorabustillos4541]

I think the nanny set that up.

[@Musics_90s_Letsbringitback]

@@jetbllackwingsthat's my first thought too, like srsly lunch time in your own house? Doesn't make sense

[@Watchamakallett321]

I grew up in NOVA my entire life, and the class discrimination and parents being picky about other parents is so real!!!!

[@swaguchiha3508]

eh, raised in nova too but herndon is definitely the richer part of nova. things like that aren’t gonna happen in woodbridge, fairfax, lorton, etc. it’s just the rich areas

[@pibarrante6901]

That part of the east coast is soooo weird. My grandparents were from shannandoah. My granmas family farm lost to build lake anna, emminent domain. It had been in the family for over a hundred years. My grandpa was from the northern part of that mtn range . It has changed. With lots of transient govt big whigs. The Rich Men north of Richmond...right?

[@shanrizzo4218]

@@swaguchiha3508 Grew up in Centreville and we didn't have discrimination like that - might be the wealthier areas.

[@KatrinaWilliams-p6y]

​@@pibarrante6901 Sorry to hear this! So unfair towards yr Grand parents!! 😔 ✌🏼🫶🏼

[@crystalhundley5192]

I’m so glad I never had that issue because I mostly associated with families from my church 🤷‍♀️

[@TabooTalz]

Amazing coincidence that on the very morning an intruder breaks in OR Christine decides to act on her sexual fantasies only 5-15 minutes after her husband and nanny leave the hous, the nanny ends up forgetting the packed lunches and has to turn back, and the husband is still just 5 minutes away

[@TabooTalz]

If I was the nanny I would have tattled the minute I found out he's been pleading the fifth lmao

[@SoManyRandomRamblings]

Exactly

[@mony.mp4]

25:51 omg so the word “gostoso” literally translates to “delicious” and it’s commonly used to describe someone who’s extremely attractive 💀 so she literally wrote “no, he’s american, AND IT’S BEEN MONTHS, i’ve been more low profile, he’s 38, treats me like a princess and he’s HOT” 💀💀 edit: in case it’s not clear i’m not trying to shade stephanie or her researchers/translators, just trying to provide some extra context to the sheer absurdity of the situation 🫡

[@Adam-326]

Que rico, né? 😂😂😂

[@CogumeIo]

"gostoso" = "hot"

[@tv-21]

She's a hottie too

[@annemarieboyd5327]

okay? its not much of a difference you could have been nicer

[@Adam-326]

@@annemarieboyd5327 Given that this is a criminal investigation, the difference of dating him for “just a month” and her stating that “it’s been months” is massively important. Also, she says “licking face emoji” when it’s a laughing emoji, and there isn’t even a licking face emoji, so she’s not just mistranslating here.

[@livingmasquerade1418]

the comments are crazy like blaming both the wife and the nanny, but no blame against the husband?? its like when say only the woman who helped someone cheat iss a homewrecker (which is valid) but then paints the husband as an innocent victim? like thats a grown ass man, hes not a baby, he should be held accountable too for ruining the relationship. BOTH the nanny and husband in the situation is evil, dont victim blame the wife!

[@NasandratraCarmenRAKOTOARIVELO]

just a great reflexion of our society. in a situation of adultery, it‘s always the wife who didnt put enough effort to keep her husband, and in this case every single victim blaming comments mentioned or the mistress (and this one is valid as you said). But men can get away with it and are sometimes praised to not settle in a marriage where they‘re not pleased anymore.

[@marc3lline]

like OF COURSE the fact the au pair did all that shit is insane, but she is the one in jail and the dude doesnt even get the comments saying "and he had the stomach to go to bed with the au pair where his wife was killed" and all that .. tsc tsc Always interesting to see the scales

[@easterworshipper5579]

blame the husband? how can you blame the husband? he is just as much a victim as the wife. he was pulled into this girls web and he never stood a chance. just look at her! 😍

[@megha6276]

I really feel sad for the 4 year old daughter who lost her mother and is surrounded by things that she can't understand yet. May justice be provided.

[@ej2507]

He didn't want to loss money from divorce, but wanted out of the marriage and this was what they came up with. Evil people

[@g00bers24]

Source?

[@Blakenew127]

@@g00bers24all of the evidence available so far.

[@LSG101097]

@@g00bers24 Life

[@cvlliz_700]

@@g00bers24are you the nanny or smth

[@hopskip1746]

Pure evil…

[@kafacela483]

Her putting that photo up and sleeping in the same room even is wild....and cruel

[@AmIJosi]

You telling me a guy, who knows how to shoot, needed his au pair to grab another Gun? He has clearly planned all along and that’s why he was locked up yesterday !

[@seekittycat]

When bro said "so I shot the guy in the head but he was still alive I didn't kill nobody. My girlfriend then ran to get a gun to shot him in the chest and killed him." I'm in the party of he wanted to make the sentence lighter for himself.

[@chinaking918]

Same here. He knew she was dumb in love and would do anything he ask. He played her like a fiddle. He won’t even say anything to defend her that’s a 🚩for me. She’s going to get the heavy time and he’ll get a slap on the wrist (if that). He’ll move on with someone else and her life will be over.

[@cyborg_siren]

or use her as a scapegoat entirely; or reasonable doubt is a thing as well. If they can't prove one or the other, they could both get away with it if both were found innocent on account of reasonable doubt.

[@laurierice7687]

Something went wrong with their plan. Much will come out at trial. For one thing~blood splatter. The male victim would have had to have Christine's blood splatter on him and his blood splatter from a head gun shot would have to be on her and exact. Also, defensive wounds on Christine. Nobody is going to lie there and let someone stab them repeatedly, there would be blood splatter from that also. No matter how smart someone thinks they are, there's no such thing as a perfect murder. And that's without something going wrong with the plan. Even if the husband didn't shoot the killing shot, it's still attempted murder and he had to have murdered his wife too. This whole thing is one big setup, imo. We'll find out so much at the trial. But nothing is going to bring back that loving mother and dedicated nurse who shined her light on this world. 💔

[@felixhenson9926]

he's a US citizen and a fed and she's a WOC Brazilian migrant, yeah, he has to have known she'd bear the brunt of it even before deciding their tale was that she delivered the final gunshot.

[@Gghoulll]

I own 2 husky’s and something I noticed from my baby’s is that they run for their life’s and cry if they believe somebody poses a threat to them, but if somebody posses a threat to their owner they tend to be very vicious, husky’s also never stay quiet, if the husky’s were home and weren’t freaking out when the man walked in, then the the father or the mistress could have been within eye view of them. And if the husky’s weren’t home that makes it even more obvious it was premeditated.

[@monamedley6666]

FACTS

[@Georgeツ]

Oh, wow. I didn't even think of the dogs. Good point 😮

[@eemoonee]

I have one husky and when someone comes in the house unless she knows them she is verrryyy quiet. She never barks so I feel like it depends on the dog.

[@larissaleao546]

As a former brazilian au pair myself, I am very glad that you made this video. For a while that was the subject that every au pair would talk about. And for what I read, I was really confused with the order of the things or the identity of the man.

[@passivepanda3656]

Why didn’t he just…divorce her if he wasn’t in love anymore ? This is what is scaring me with infidelity. Beside the emotional turmoil and treason, your significant or the other party can just decide to kill you. And you didn’t even do nothing !!!! I appreciate you for portraying Christine in such a fantastic light ❤️ and restablishing Ryan status. They were both victims. They didn’t deserved none of this ! I hope they rest high and in peace🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@brenna963]

I had an ex tell me if I cheated on him, he’d ruin my life and my credit (we had a lease together). I had no plans of cheating and never did, but that was definitely a turn-off that lead to the slow death of the relationship.

[@theb1ahb1ahnana]

$$

[@leebliss3622]

That’s not what treason is

[@passivepanda3656]

@@leebliss3622 what’s treason ?

[@Mimi-hn6iv]

​@@leebliss3622 One of the definitions for treason is "the action of betraying someone."

[@dontcry9437]

the biggest hole in their story being that guy shot his federal gun but his first instinct wasnt to tell the au pair to call 911? instead he told her to bring another gun? what a shabby story for someone who works as a federal agent..

[@SpeegBJ]

@dontcry9437 Indeed a shabby story for a guy working at a federal agency.

[@SodaQuasar]

One is a nurse. One is an FBI agent. Hmmm seems pretty clear who could possibly be the bad guy

[@loulouhj1104]

What do you mean ? Worst serial killers in history were nurses and doctors . They had the most fatalities . A job doesnt determine if you are good or bad .

[@S.Uranus]

​@loulouhj1104 True, but a ton of FBI agents/affiliates, especially the men, think they're much smarter or are more valuable than a lot of people (especially their wives) and have control issues. I used to have a neighbor who worked with the FBI, and he would not let his wife do anything/go out and would force her to be stuck at home with the children and pets. A job doesn't fully tell you who exactly someone is, but it can clue you into their personality/what they are willing to do for money, or maybe what they will do for free, IFYKYK.

[@jayscrochet5222]

Moved into the bedroom? The audacity!!

[@Flamsterette]

You know, they were having an affair - maybe.

[@ShawnCrigger]

It's more accurate to say she moved into the jailhouse now lol

[@tv-21]

I think they dated after she died

[@ShawnCrigger]

@@tv-21 I think they were having an affair before she died.

[@Bunnylovecrypto]

No respect to the late wife

[@JNB520]

That pic of Christine in her wedding dress at the park, with the random kids on the monkey bars is so cool. She seemed like a great woman

[@fishy6093]

I was an Au Pair outside Washington as well, and it's CRAZY that this girl would even do that. The family normally welcomes you into the family like another member.. how could you be this way to your own "family". I can't even imagine

[@susiex6669]

A family of means that specifically take you in because youre cheap child care. I was a nanny for an upper middle class family here in Canada for a year when I was in my early 20s and only found out after my employment, that I was being underpaid by a substantial amount, and the wife knew it, but if it means you can eat out more often in the month, what does it matter, right? 🙄 I have no sympathy for these bougie women. Raise your own kids.

[@redleeks6253]

​@@susiex6669So this woman was getting her extra payment by sleeping with the boss? And then plan murdering the female boss?😂

[@Mimi-hn6iv]

​@@susiex6669 Woe, you had one bad experience and hate everyone because of it. Yes, there are many employers in many different fields that will intentionally underpay you. That doesn't mean there aren't nannies who have great experiences and get paid very generously. My friend was a nnay for a wealthy family and made bank from it. Sorry you had a bad experience, but your attitude is sad.

[@susiex6669]

@@Mimi-hn6iv In that affluent neighborhood, I was the only nanny that was white. They usually get Fillipino nannies through an agency and treat them like slaves because they know the worker wont complain because she wants to get her papers. Ive heard worse horror stories than mine from Fillipino workers so kindly, go do one. I wouldnt be surprised if you werent one of these cheap eejit boses taking advantage of others while pontificating about what kind of "feminist" you are. 🙄

[@susiex6669]

@@Mimi-hn6iv In that affluent neighborhood, I was the only nanny that was w hite. They usually get Fillipino nannies through an agency and treat them like dirt because they know the worker wont complain because she wants to get her papers. Ive heard worse horror stories than mine from Fillipino workers so kindly, go do one. I wouldnt be surprised if you werent one of these cheap eejit boses taking advantage of others while going on about what kind of "feminist" you are.

[@balencigi]

the only victims in this situation is the child and the mum. having to realise that your dad killed your own mother is truly fucked up. edit: just because i didn’t mention the man doesn’t mean that he’s not a victim. he is also a victim. rip. also i commented this whilst the video was playing so y’all can chill out.

[@janemiettinen5176]

I guess Joseph isnt good enough victim for many. Kinda sad.

[@dansweda712]

​@@janemiettinen5176who's to say he even did the stabbing?

[@Ev3_1024]

Also realizing that your nanny took part in the murder too.

[@wendychavez5348]

​@@janemiettinen5176,I've been thinking the same thing. He seems to have thought he was meeting someone for an adult but fully consensual experience. I'm sure he wasn't planning to walk into what was at best a murder-suicide, or more likely a double murder.

[@DianaOsazenaye]

yeah

[@TwichMcvey-mc3pv]

Poor 4 year old baby. That child will miss the love and attention she was getting from her mom now. I doubt her father knows how or even wants to be her daddy. He seems very selfish. Couldn't even be a married man and dad for five years before feeling like he needs a newer younger woman?? Ugh

[@pequenoben4699]

Tale as old as time, he wanted to have his cake and eat it too, but instead of going the divorce route like a normal human being he chose to get rid of the wife for good so he doesn't has to pay child support nor share custody and plus he got himself the perfect scape goat, because who's going to take the word of a young latina who isn't even a citizen over the word of a white man who is also a federal agent? Also side note but it's wild to me he's only 38yo, talking about women hitting the wall 😂 because he looks like 48.

[@sparrowwilson4514]

Ugh, it’s so frustrating that when there’s an affair people blame EVERYONE except the man having the affair. So ridiculous.

[@g00bers24]

He came home to his wife having the affair?

[@Blakenew127]

typical Even in the comments you can see some people VERY concerned about not making ANY bad assumptions about the guy because investigation is still going. But the same people don’t press ONE KEY to put the same “I am all about justice” passion to defend the nanny as well. Why is that? In other words, they don’t care about justice or protecting potential criminals’s reputation until proven guilty. And mostly, they don’t care about the victim. They care about protecting men at all costs, just twisting around the arguments accordingly to the circumstances. EVEN when proven guilty, like people did with Chris Watts case. It is very easy to tell who is concerned with justice and who is just concerned to see a man they can relate undergoing serious consequences for actions they sympathise with (even if the action is “just” having an affair with the nanny)

[@SjofnBM1989]

​@@g00bers24Did he??? No he didn't. He 'came home' to a fake scenerio he concocted to murder his own wife.

[@melanierose6599]

It’s both their fault, especially in this case as it seems it was planned by the husband and au pair.

[@tiasmith4015]

@@g00bers24no he didn’t

[@ChiekoIsUnderwater]

This was posted right after I finished listening to another episode (like right at the “thank you for listening, and if you have any extra facts” part), very convenient. Thanks for covering so many cases, Stephanie!!

[@iamponyoo]

sameeedd gurl

[@Deathxnote-1]

Frr

[@mommyissue]

Bye I feel like watching these ruin my mood so much especially that Korean kids one who be doing crime and justice wasn't served and they keep getting away... she's too good at story telling

[@tv-21]

I dunt tink he killed her for love.

[@MinnieArt]

Sameee 😂🤍

[@roz805]

As a mom that delivered premie twin sons, I can attest that the PICU nurses that I encountered were the most extraordinary humans I ever met. Sleep in heavenly peace, Christine.

[@watysumady3305]

This kind of relationship is meant to be a disaster from the start. Nanny and boss. It's scary that happened quite often. Woman becomes a victim by the end of the day

[@LunarEleven]

And if it happened it was always bound to. He looks like the poster boy of "Bored Suburban White Guy" which is the subtype of White Guy most likely to be into "eXoTiC" women 🤢 their mating call is something like "I've never been with a [insert any non-white race] before..." It sounds like the previous au pair was a good person and very close to Christine, otherwise this would all have happened sooner. It's so so sad Christine likely died in the midst of the horrible realization that the woman she welcomed into her home and family led to this. She loved him so much more than he deserved and I kind of wish that if she had to die like this, she could have gone without knowing the who or why.

[@ava9xx3js9j]

@@LunarEleven never let another woman that is not ur blood into your home is all I have to say

[@scorpiongurlz89]

​@@ava9xx3js9jTheir first Au pair was a good person. Only the second one is a demon.

[@lewiscayla96]

@@ava9xx3js9jSome cases have shown blood can also be callous.

[@zora2935]

@ava9xx3js9j plenty of stories out there where sisters or mothers or daughters betray “their blood”. The previous au pair became like family to them. So you can't really make that a general rule even for that family. In the end this father didn't just betray his wife. He took away the mother of his child. Betraying his own blood without any remorse…easy to only blame the other woman. But this man was supposed to protect his wife and child. If you want to victim blame like that, better say: be careful who you marry…

[@Michelleistyping]

I was a healthcare worker during the height of the pandemic and it was rough. I lost my grandpa and a coworker. I quit healthcare and I don’t plan on going back. Christine was obviously a good person. So sad that monsters dimmed her light. RIP Christine ❤

[@pibarrante6901]

I am a RN in old folks home. I volunteered for our covid unit. Glad I could help them. They were so so scared. I have a picture of me in full PPE holding a toilet brush! I cleaned and disinfected every shift i worked.. I invested in Zinc Vit C and Ecchinea ..free for all my cowrkers. We all stayed healthy..thanking God. I hated nursing for decades.. but when theres a crisis..I run TOWARDS it. Im a helper. Whether I wanna be or not. Alas, after 35yrs of it, what do i find? I am a nurse! ;)

[@JNB520]

​@pibarrante6901 you're an amazing person 💗

[@khadijahoneybadger1]

@@pibarrante6901thank you for all your help. Some healthcare workers here in the states quit the first week of the pandemic.

[@wendychavez5348]

Blessings to all nurses, especially those who thrive in crisis! Thank you for everything you do, and thanks to Christine too.

[@KatrinaWilliams-p6y]

💔🫶🏼✌🏼🌏🇳🇿🤍 Yeah! RIP Christine 😔

[@MsBengaliPride]

How does a federal agent and a pediatric nurse buy a 9mil house?

[@SpeegBJ]

@MsBengalPride I saw that as odd from the get go... nurse, IRS guard guy agent who also drives UBER.....own a million dollar house. Hmmm

[@TekkenDanser]

Most single family homes in NOVA are at least a million dollars. Part of the reason is locality pay.

[@themaskedone1199]

A month after his wife died!!! They both clearly had an affair

[@g00bers24]

Do you have proof? Will it hold up in court? I'll have you know, he plead the 5th

[@MsEverjade]

@@g00bers24 Oh my god shut up defending monsters you weirdo.

[@gloata]

​@g00bers24 Cry about it.

[@jaccaj1626]

​@@gloata g00bers24 is obviously a troll, the Nanny or the husband😂

[@melanierose6599]

@@g00bers24yeah puf he wasn’t guilty he would have said not guilty, no plead the 5th. Disgusting that you could even try to defend this.

[@StoriesThatActuallyHappened]

Hi Stephanie, as a fellow Korean I've been a fan of your work for a long time and finally mustered up the courage to pursue my own channel. It was on and off at first, but I'm determined to make it work. I want you to know that you have changed a life for the better. My storytelling isn't nearly as immersive as yours, but I strive to improve with every video! You're not just a storyteller; you're changing lives every day, and I hope you remember that. You're impacting a couple million lives everyday, and one day I hope to create work that resembles yours. I know you might not be able to read this, but I want to make this comment as a declaration to myself: once I reach a certain point of success with this channel, I will create a platform to provide financial assistance to any victims in need. I want to change people's lives like you Steph! What an incredible mentor you are. Thank you, and I say this on behalf of 3.38 million legendary souls!

[@LiliAquinas]

🎉Congratulations on your channel! New subscriber for you.

[@carolseven3802]

I just subscribed.

[@danielwatcherofthelord1823]

Wow! You've had a channel for a year and you have almost 4M subscribers!? That's amazing! Great job!

[@Flamsterette]

Paragraphs are a good idea here.

[@jeonjungkook_kooki01]

Just subscribed your channel ❤

[@HoneyyChai]

Crazy how rampant misogyny is in the world that even a murdered woman isn't safe from being blamed and criticized for the attack. "It's YOUR fault you got murdered by your husband and YOUR fault he was unfaithful." You people sound unreal.

[@jlondon423]

So this agent's gun only has one bullet in it??? That doesn't make any sense.

[@ryss335]

Men and their audacity, women is not even safe in their own household and their own marriage. And the fact that stories about husband "ended" their wife is rly common around the world is even more disheartening to hear

[@FrozenPureRose]

Sadly there is also another recent case in France where a husband drugged his wife and basically pimped out her unconscious body for over 10 years...she found out recently and is taking him to court.

[@catherineoneill8260]

He was arrested yesterday in Fairfax county. All over the local news.

[@catherineoneill8260]

Pre approved list is 100% true. I have lived here my entire life.

[@ladyreverie7027]

This reminds me of the Chris Dawson case in Australia, where he moved his student into the house after his wife disappears. Fortunately he was recently convicted of murder.

[@calico_queen8976]

I mean, Juliana is a fully grown woman who KNOWS what she's doing is messed up and was most likely full on board with murdering the woman who took her in while Joanne (the student) is a 16 year old who was most likely groomed into the situation and still regrets it to this day even though she was also a victim...

[@kirstenwright1974]

Guilty as hell. Poor daughter

[@ItisJasmine27]

I feel bad for the daughter.

[@raeplays92]

NoVa resident here, and the discrimination piece can be very real for the wealthier parts of the county but I will say that Fairfax county in itself is *very* expensive. I haven’t experienced it from a parental perspective but just being here and working you’ll find a lot of people are very status driven, so I wouldn’t be surprised that this type of thing transfers to the (wealthy) families and how they handle their kids. Also common amongst the wealthy families is the presence of an au pair or nanny, especially in this type of household in which both parents work and at least one of them works very long hours. I’m disgusted from these victim blaming comments, making it sound like she “brought it upon herself”. Ummm it’s not too much to ask for your husband to stay faithful to you and to not commit a murder with his mistress??? Smh

[@catluver2.0]

Christine seemed like a beautiful person inside and out, she clearly had so much love in her heart it’s so devastating that this happened to her ❤

[@Nanno-Anais]

Thank you for bringing us these cases, Stephanie. I listen to these while I crochet. Your storytelling skills are emaculate. Thank you for spreading awareness on the many issues in our society. ❤.

[@Myvietboyfriendishot]

I listen to them while I crochet too! Just made a couple of granny squares listening to this case

[@lydiajackson8171]

I too, listen to these as I crochet! & fall asleep to her pods after already watching on YT. I agree, she's an amazing storyteller and somehow calmly puts me to sleep with them as well. She is truly one of a kind!♥

[@Nai7547]

38 years old has he not played enough? Getting together with such a younger girl while married 🙄 disgusting I was posted in PICU for 2 months, i truly admire PICU stationed nurses , and even if they are busy, they are very kind and aren't rude, she should have been a very good mom😢

[@FabGirlJulia]

Unfortunately, a lot of man are driven by their other head…..

[@bloodyneptune]

It also makes no sense that Christine wouldn't answer the phone when the nanny called. If you're having an affair, the last thing you do is turn off/ignore your only possible way of knowing if theyre coming home early. Especially only like 20 minutes after everyone who lived there left, and could easily have to turn around because they forgot something

[@KingBasieSims4]

Actually it does make sense. I don't know a single person who has ever answered a call mid adult time! Her Phone also could have been somewhere else if she isn't answering, or on silent (I say this because personally my phone is on silent 24/7 I legit don't even know what my ringtone is). I get Christine is the victim here but anything is possible with humans.

[@whiffynvm]

@@KingBasieSims4That’s all fine and dandy except for the fact that you’re forgetting she was supposedly “cheating”, and it was something to hide. In which case, you would actually want your phone nearby and would be on high alert in order to not get caught. So yes, it doesn’t make any sense she didn’t answer the phone, means she was not cheating, and not having adult time, at least not consensually.

[@KingBasieSims4]

@@whiffynvm I take it you've never been cheated on? I can tell you now of a few stories of people cheating who ignored their phones and got caught in the act. Hell even I caught my ex with his other girlfriend all because he wouldn't answer my call and knew I was on the way to see him. In his "defense" I came earlier than I said, of which if he answered my call he would have known that I was. It happens.

[@NinnyPoo_theJoy]

@@KingBasieSims4riiiight I’m sure every single person you know really told you that they got a call during sex but never answered it

[@kaitlynstrawser3471]

@@KingBasieSims4 i’ve been cheated on, and the only time they didn’t respond was when they accidentally fell asleep with the chick otherwise they kept bothering me making sure they knew exactly when I was going to be back, even if I had already told them multiple times eventually I caught on to the trick and just lied about when I was gonna be back to catch them because why else do you need to ask 5x when I’m getting off work when I worked retail with a designated shift time

[@sour.skittles]

Stephanie, you hold a special place in crocheters heart

[@study0h]

so real

[@chop.sticks.]

I'm literally crocheting while watching this😅

[@greenbunny-]

Been tatting watching her, relatable

[@oliviaeh5553]

The fact that they took the daughter into the house caused me the most suspicion. Because holy shit I would not have done that

[@callmetine]

Hi Stephanie, I really appreciate your effort to spread justice all over social media. I live in Italy and one of the most known and questionable cases here is the one of Yara Gambirasio, a beautiful teenager who was unfortunately unalived in 2010. I think more people should know about her story. Thank you for your time

[@MsSandybarbie]

The way I imagine it happened, is that someone created a fake profile for Christine. They chose this type of fetish, as it includes a weapon. They told him to either enter the house through the door and gave him directions to the bedroom or maybe use a window, all as part of a roleplay. If you're into something, then surely, you will have tools. We all know, that if an intruder is planning on murdering someone, most likely they'll bring their own weapon. In my opinion, this scenario could most likely pass as a home invasion instead of a planned murder. And why are we assuming that Christine was naked in bed? The nanny's story doesn't make sense in the timeline. She enters the house to hide in the basement (weird), she then decides to go upstairs, hears a knife cutting through the flesh (weird), and hears the husband and the other guy, both, ordering each other to drop the weapon (weird). What was the husband doing during all of the past time??! Isn't it possible that the husband forced Christine to take off her clothes at gunpoint? 'Why would Joseph park his car in front of the house, during a busy time. If the police check Christine's phone records and compare them with messages sent on the website, they might be able to find out who was using the laptop. They should also check Joseph's phone and compare all the timelines. I also believe the husband made Juliana shoot Joseph to be complicit in the crime, to never turn on him. Old story, a man murders his wife instead of divorcing her because he's greedy. And I believe, Juliana had a huge part in planning and committing the crime if it wasn't her idea from the get-go. Why not replace Christine, and be the woman of the house, and no effort needed!

[@michelleg6222]

Stephanie is such a brilliant story teller. She touches on all the important details while remaining respectful to the victims and their families.

[@williamhensley8698]

The husband stabbed the wife before the patsy arrived. The nanny is in on it and screwed the scenario up. He forced her to kill an inconpacitated man. The forensics will back this up but a confession is gold, so the LEO are leaning on the nanny hard. They need to give her an "out" so she will cooperate.

[@BlueCherryWinters]

Literally marriage is such a horrifying roll of the dice for women. My goodness this case is so sad and awful.

[@ianahbrewton3669]

Seriously it makes you scared to get married at all, like that man in France drugging his wife for decades??? Its so scary

[@armella.h]

Stephanie can you please do a part 2 after the trial. This story is so mysterious and full of questions. I want to know all the details brought up to court and how justice will play part in solving in.

[@whylife8980]

As bizarre as it sounds, "Where were the huskies?" is a good question. Huskies, as we all know, are LOUD. 2 bitey bundles of Loud and protective are 2 huge liabilities in committing a single murder, let alone a double. Was it possible the "unforseen circumstance" that led to this plan of theirs going awry had to do with the dogs? Maybe even had to do with the baby. There's too many holes that need to be plugged

[@krystall2808]

That nanny sounds pretty dumb...its just a matter of time before she blurts out the whole truth

[@Thessair]

In addition to murder, they should look into how a federal agent has a million dollar home.

[@jennymaria86]

ATTORNEY HERE! A few notes:...An attorney will recuse themself from a case if they see that there is a COI (Conflict of interest) between representing their client and some other outside factor (ie: who is paying them). Juliana Peres Magalhaes' attorney is someone named Ryan Campbell, I looked him up and he's a partner at a law firm in Northern Virginia, so he's NOT court appointed. I don't know who is paying her legal bills, but, Campbell would need to recuse himself AND tell the court why he;s recusing himself if he thinks that the interests of the party paying him are in opposition to the interests of his client. IF he were to continue to stay on as her attorney, even with this conflict of interest, it could actually work in her FAVOR if she's ever convicted because she can bring up 'ineffective assistance of counsel.' (ie: my attorney did a shitty job because he didn't have my interests in mind). Attorneys do NOT want an ineffective assistance of counsel mark in their record with the Board of Bar, so Campbell is going to AVOID a COI. Even if the husband is the one paying Campbell, there might not be a conflict yet, OR, sometimes an attorney for Plaintiff A will talk strategy with the attorney for Plaintiff B because at that moment it makes sense for them to work together (ie: let's get their stories straight so they don't contradict each other) Campbell would probably stop working with that attorney (if that's even happening, because i'm only saying it hypothetically) if he realized that cooperating with the other attorney is no longer in his client's best interest.

[@ava9xx3js9j]

So if she claims that he didn’t have his best interest in mind then would she be off the hook?

[@kaitlynstrawser3471]

A good attorney would, but there’s a lot of shady ones who get away with being shady for years. Look at Alex Murdaugh, for example and maybe since the dude is an FBI agent for the IRS specifically he might be transferring the money to her account so it looks like she’s paying the attorney but it’s him paying for her attorney behind the scenes so there wouldn’t be a paper trail on the lawyers side of things because how is he supposed to know who’s putting the money in the bank account but they have a verbal understanding that he’s the one paying since he would know about paper trails and how to hide them

[@jennymaria86]

@@ava9xx3js9j No. However, it would be something that she would bring up so she can have her case Appealed. BUT, It wouldn't even go up to Appeal unless the lower court would determine that this conflict of interest did two things: 1. fell below an objective standard of reasonableness and that the outcome of the trial would have been different if the lawyer had not made errors; AND 2. the probability must be enough to undermine the judge's confidence in the trial's fairness and outcome. FOR EXAMPLE: Let's say there was a conflict of interest, but in the end they found SO MUCH evidence against her that the lawyer could have been PERFECT, but with that much evidence, she would have been convicted anyway. OR, maybe there was a conflict but it only arose in the beginning because the lawyer decided to take on the case pro-bono once he realized there was a conflict...so...just because there's a COI doesn't mean there are grounds for ineffective assistance of counsel...BUT...the second there's a COI...as an attorney...you want to fix it ASAP and if it can't be fixed ASAP so you don't put the client/case at risk, and sometimes that means dropping the client/case completely.

[@tkennedyyy3115]

@@ava9xx3js9jNo, she would just have the chance to request another trial

[@wendychavez5348]

Thank you, @jennymaria86. I was thinking, any attorney worthy of that title would put their client's interests before those of the person paying them. Of course we're dealing with human beings, but you're right that Campbell should rather protect his own reputation, than to sacrifice the person he's defending in favor of the person writing the check.

[@lolalalia4119]

I'm a former au pair and can attest to the idea that the mother's computer became the family computer and was the only computer I used for family purposes specifically because it was tracked by the mom and had all her credit cards saved. If something needed to be bought online, I was instructed to use her computer and she would often have me do errand stuff like that unless it was something fun for her (NPD). 54:39 100%! My employers had nanny cams and intercoms. Any of the domestic staff automatically knew every conversation could potentially be listened in on. The only way to get around this was during crayon time when myself and the other child care workers would have important personal information or need a tampon 😂 And yes, an au pair is VERY different. I was chosen because I was an EMT with experience working with autistic children. It was a HUGE paycut and nanny abuse is very real. The horror stories I have. BUT the child was wonderful! To be an au pair or full time nanny is very emotionally rewarding and taxing. 56:22 😂 this is laughable! There is nothing more unattractive than a wealthy man cheating on his wife and abusing his position of power. People that choose to be au pairs and serious nannies have no interest in stealing the husband. We wash their dirty underwear, clean up after they eat, care for their child, and listen to their god awful polka music at 8am on a Saturday. You think we'd want to do that for free and share a bed with them at night? No thank you!

[@tv-21]

Well this girl did!

[@TheSamanthak86]

Au pairs are underpaid nannys, they are making it illegal in my country because of the risks of abuse of the system and the au pairs.

[@Dear-Rhiannon]

The polka music is specific and I find that amusing! 😆 You have the right mindset and sounded like a great au pair!

[@zora2935]

I have had an Au Pair getting together with the husband in proximity to my circle when I was an Au Pair myself. 😄 She was the talk of the Au Pair community. I think it happens a lot more than one would like to think. But a lot less in relation. Because I didn't even knew her personally and I knew plenty of other Au Pairs. And the story was scandalous enough to make the rounds… But at least they got divorced like normal people. Getting with the Au Pair is back stabbing enough. Literally stabbing the wife to do it? crazy…

[@lolalalia4119]

@@Dear-Rhiannon it wasn't *just* polka music. Nay nay. He played polka on the accordion! Worse yet, my room was in the basement. His office directly above mine. Totally disregard the 3 giant empty rooms on the 4th floor 💀 and it was the *ONE* morning I could come upstairs at 9am unless my charge needed me sooner and the mother was hungover... People have the glamorous idea of how the wealthy live and the domestic staff experience. *she says halfway through a The Nanny marathon* 😂

[@rociopunzumaran4088]

christine sounds like the loveliest person

[@zhanenicole7703]

Your husband always asks the best questions like he’s in my head 😩

[@kc5739]

As a Korean-Am girl who was born and grew up in NOVA, all of this was so crazy to be following up on in real time. And the opinion of NOVA people being stuck up is SO real.

[@SonjaLoper]

It’s so crazy that you’re covering this! This happened right after I moved to the city right next to where this happened!

[@BestKaede]

The way she describes the story i felt like i was there to witness it

[@pinkyhc4130]

Stephanie, your storytelling ability is beyond compare. Keep going, you beautiful soul. ❤❤❤

[@animeaddict13]

Thank you for covering this - I live about 30 minutes from where this happened and it’s so heartbreaking 😢

[@ThePolgu]

I know this doesnt acount for 100% of the cases, but stabbing is so personal... I doubt this random man from the internet would choose that method.

[@Onora619]

Hi Rotten Mango crew! Would you consider doing a video on the "Supreme Gentleman" incel? He did a mass shooting in Santa Barbara years ago because women wouldn't date him and he put out online rant after online rant and then wondered why women didn't like him. Incels worship him to this day as King Incel. It's really effing wild. I'm torn between wanting him to be forgotten and wanting to hear you rip him a new one as only you could.

[@Rick_Cleland]

"King Incel" ? 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@tv-21]

His name is king alliet the most handsome guy

[@zerogrqvity2889]

There's no video but there's an episode on her podcast on it already

[@abuhammer7450]

Leave him alone wtf

[@Nari-7022]

@@abuhammer7450leave him alone???? wtf?

[@AshleyMaklin]

Just tuned in today and hopped on google - THE HUSBAND IS BEING INDICTED FINALLY

[@irishmarie9892]

I’m originally from NoVA. The reputation, especially in the burbs (closest to DC), is pretentiousness. Some areas are known to have residents who partake in “swinging”. The area is incredibly expensive, but there are many “sketch” neighborhoods in every county. Nice, new homes amidst very old, unkempt ones. The traffic is horrendous. Everyone is in a rush to get nowhere and everyone thinks they are the most important person on the road. I left the area three years ago. ✌🏻

[@camiwoodard7806]

Thank you for being my favorite part of Sunday afternoons. Podcast like yours are the reason why I’m pursuing a degree in criminal justice right now ❤

[@EvelynCorvin]

I was taking this seriously, but I also had it paused at 14:53 and that huskie is staring into my soul.

[@charliekezza]

Ok theory. Hubby did the website, invited the dude over, hubby went to "work". Nanny let dude in, rang hubby. Hubby takes his shot trying to make it look like self defence but realised dude didn't die, kills wife and makes the nanny kill dude. Hubby washes himself off in the 13mins between calls. They were both in on it.

[@zoerae653]

My theory is the nanny made the profile and invited him over and let him in under the husband’s duress. They had been having an affair and instead of divorce he wanted her dead and figured they’d get away with it if they made her look like they bad guy and they “caught her cheating” when she was faithful the entire time.

[@marcelinarebolledo5668]

I love how you used Demure so properly

[@g00bers24]

time stamp?

[@ally302]

@@g00bers24 25:06

[@clementine4606]

@@g00bers24 25:00 lmao

[@869ofuncertainty]

I'll never understand why not just get divorced. If you don't want to be with your spouse anymore there are legal ways to end that relationship.😢

[@PyromaticNinja]

Pro tip from all Lawyers: Never talk to the police if you are being questioned 1 they tell you anything you say can be used against you (not to help you) 2 you can simply talk yourself into becoming a suspect even if your innocent No Lawyer goes “thank god they talked to the cops” Theres nothing wrong with pleading the 5th its only suspicious among the general public in the court system its your right

[@Blakenew127]

So true, make use of your rights people. A lot of innocent people can get wrongly accused in this process.

[@ShidaPenns]

Innocent person: exercise your rights fully. Guilty person: please just confess, for the better of everyone else. Yeah guilty people have rights too but they know they committed the crime so I would tell them to just accept the consequences.

[@zizikitty]

How can the aupair trust that this man isn't going to get tired of her someday and do her in too. Also, WTF, how do US IRS agents have state issued firearms. This country is saturated with violence. I wonder why.

[@lauorozco06]

I was an au pair for two years, the program is not as good as the agencies picture. I wasn't treat as i was supposed to but i can't imagine taking advantage of somebody who opened their house for me. I still visit them and take care of their kids sometimes because they trust me.

[@trinavargas9830]

What do you mean how were you treated

[@lauorozco06]

@@trinavargas9830 i was overworked and the family didn't treat me with the same amount of respect that i gave.

[@Jimin-ci4ed]

For being a federal agent he wasn't the smartest...

[@Raven_Rozze]

Class discrimination is very real here in Northern Virginia (NoVA). My aunt is deeply invested in this mindset and often lectures me about the importance of befriending the "right" type of people. Federal agents encompass any class of investigator or police officer working for the federal government, extending beyond just the FBI. My mom has worked for several inspector general offices and directly within one of the investigative departments. The level of cheating and debauchery in the so-called "elite and classy" world is beyond general comprehension. It doesn't surprise me at all that this situation unfolded the way it did. It turns my stomach to think about how these two went about murdering a mother and leaving a child essentially orphaned. What kind of father does that? He's not a father at all.

[@haleyakes8404]

Just in case anyone is curious, the news is now reporting the husband is also being charged.

[@mayagough5405]

girl im so obsessed with your content the way you tell these cases is very interesting and informative

[@Wiwowiwaa]

Mr. Mango rocks. Always asking the questions I have in my head

[@ashleyparkster]

As a NOVA resident, this story has been on everybody's mind. Thanks so much for going in depth. Really hope there's justice for the mother...

[@miss-nomer]

The term “au pair” is French and literally means “social equal”. The original idea being that the Au Pair isn’t just hired help but almost an adopted member of the family on equal footing with the parents who form a close bond. Christine obviously viewed the role that way and treated her Au Pairs like family, which makes it so much more sick that Juliana immediately took Christine’s place and started sleeping in her bed after the murder.

[@aaaaalixxx]

Lol it doesn’t play out like it’s supposed to a lot of the time. Many Au Pairs are exploited, misled, overworked, and underpaid. I’ve heard many au pairs call it slavery (i don’t agree with using that term)

[@AshleyAbreu_]

Is divorce not an option!!!! What is this I can’t even imagine thinking of this BEFORE THINKING OF SIGNING A SIMPLE DOCUMENT AND ENDING THE RELATIONSHIP!!

[@SomeoneIusedtoknow-s1f]

If you spend any time in KZbin comments, or other social sites, there's a disturbing number of men who consider having half of the marriage money/assets being divided between two people is equal to rape. You will see men act like it's only their money, their belongings, their house, their kids, it's like they forget that the woman put all of her stuff, money, and life into the marriage too, because all she is to these types of men are another belonging. When they're done with her, they don't want her to be able to take half the total marriage stuff, because they think it's all theirs. They are the victims. They are the ones having their stuff taken.... When in reality, both parties have to either agree to a split, or the judge will decide who gets what for them. And judges also go based off of how stable each parent is, what the work/housework/income split is like, whether the man fights for rights (countless men don't fight, don't try to get rights, seem wildly unstable, and male judges seem to be more likely to be biased towards the kids need their mom's more type of bs,) and so men feel as though being divorced is strictly an attack on them, and what they feel they're owed, and the fact that they think they own everything including the woman and all of her money and property she entered the marriage with too. "She's gonna take half my stuff" is their mantra, and they firmly believe it. If you don't believe a woman is your equal partner, then of course you're fine with her being killed, she's not equal, and you deserve what you want as one of those men. I divorced my abuser several years ago, and because of my disability and my husband denying me the only job that would work with my disability pre-diagnosis, I had no income. So I couldn't afford the 3k minimum up front lawyer fees. He took my service dog, he took my belongings, he tried to take my grandmother's ring from me, he tried to take any money I had left, he took my family heirloom handcrafted Israeli nativity scene, he took all of my childhood belongings, he took expensive gifts from my family and friends that were to me, he stole a ladder from my parents.... He didn't just take 50%, he took 90% of everything that was ours, and he took 90% of items that were only mine. I lost more than most men do in divorce, and it's common for women in abusive relationships to be unable to provide money for lawyers, and hard to prove how bad the abuse is, so countless women lose everything in divorce or in separations. But men who cry woe is me and my 50% don't want to acknowledge this, they don't seem to view women as whole entire people with their own money, belongings, and worth. *Shrugs* easy to kill if you're just killing an object you own, like smashing a bowl into the floor.

[@angie917]

She was an ICU nurse that means she was probably most of the time at the hospital that's why they needed the nanny to live in, that's a very tough job. That's very sad. Why don't you just get a divorce?

[@theunusualcatmonster5794]

The worst part about this case is that people are victim blaming the poor mother. She was a wonderful mother, amazing ICU nurse, a loving person and deserves respect. No one should blame the awful situation on her, if anything it was the dad’s and nanny’s fault.