Breaking the "MATURE HAIR RULES"! My Healthy Hair Routine + 3 Ways I STYLE It!

The pressure to CUT MY HAIR & go grey is real! But who gets to decide what’s “age appropriate”?
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[@jennybrandon2393]

Ugh, why can’t women just support women without criticizing? You do you, Angie! You look fabulous and your hair is beautiful!

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

I don't get the criticizing & judging...

[@francesmartin7236]

yeah! You look great and do so to make yourself happy....others should just mind their biz and live their lives!!!

[@pinkbutterflies1679]

I’m positive those comments aren’t from real people but bots.

[@deniseroach5066]

I agree! I think you look fabulous! I wear wigs and I wear your length because I lost mine! I feel more comfortable with it longer! You be you! You look great and your hair is beautiful!❤❤❤

[@9melissal]

The crazy thing is those people think they're giving constructive criticism lol Angie, you're absolutely right, they're just giving their opinion and you don't have to get offended or take it on because it's just that, their opinion. You look gorgeous as always!

[@mgromz]

I’m 54 and my hair is the same length as Angie’s. My mom constantly criticizes me and says “women of a certain age shouldn’t have long hair”. I just roll my eyes and enjoy my long hair. 😊

[@user-ry1vi1jc7o]

The funny thing is, until the 1920s, women didn't cut their hair short, regardless of their age. After that, young women thought it stylish to have short hair and older women were therefore expected to have long hair. I think that lasted until 1950 or so.

[@pattia2869]

Omg my mom used to say the same exact thing to me! My hair is the same length as Angie’s ☺️

[@helendigiacomo4331]

Angie you are beautiful and look fabulous with your long hair. People are so critical and jealous. Sport your locks and never mind their negative comments. I really enjoyed your video by the way. lol

[@victoriaaustin2468]

I'm 71 and I wear my hair long. Tell your sweet mom that is a long ago forgotten old wives tale that women "oof a certain age have to wear their hair like a bowling ball on their heads. I remember seeing those women when I was a teenager way back when and I always thought it looked old and comical for all those women to have the same boring hairstyle. Most of them had perms. So 1950s and 1960s. We don't live there any more. Thank the Lord!

[@pattycooper2656]

I’ve never understood how age should dictate length of hair, silly. You look fabulous!

[@Idk-do4db]

Long hair can age some women since your facial structure drops and long hair can make your face look even droopier. Used to have long hair and now I can’t wait to cut it.

[@user-hx7mi7ml8u]

@@Idk-do4db exactly! I’m a hairstylist and that’s what I tell my clients.

[@yousername16]

yeah but maybe they don't care they look older? When they don't ask for advice don't give them advice. Also the hate is mostly cause long hair is associated with youth so seeing elderly women with long hair makes people angry. I honestly think misogyny plays a huge roll in this.

[@Idk-do4db]

@@user-hx7mi7ml8u it’s the same with men with long hair. Once they cut it short it takes years off their face.

[@lizjo7213]

​@Idk-do4db but the difference is men don't attack other men, they could care less but women go after other women with a vengeance 😅...

[@Kimmie546]

I am a long-time hairstylist (32 years!) that just turned 50. I tell my clients all the time, it's not age that dictates the length of your hair, it's how well you carry it. I WILL be (I am!!) that "mature" woman who is rocking that long hair, because I LOVE it! (And I happen to think I rock it very well, thank you very much!)

[@PoshPilgrim1776]

I was sorting through a stash of photos of me from teen years to retirement, with hair length from pixie to waist length. I consistently looked better, regardless of age, with a chin length bob. I was surprised but it's made my life easier because I wasn't looking at hairstyle websites looking for something new all the time. You are more objective seeing yourself in a photo instead of a mirror.

[@TheSouthIsHot]

I agree. I have never looked good with long hair that hangs down around my face. My age has nothing to do with it although I do believe that I look even worse with long hair at 55 because of the effects of aging. My cousin is three years older and she looks great with long hair.

[@lclaws]

Uncomplicated is why I went all gray. I almost never blow my hair dry. I permed and hi lighted and low lighted my hair starting at age 16. I had a traumatic event happen in 2018. I stopped doing anything to my hair. I recently started self care, with your encouragement. I started HRT and started some of your routines, especially the sunscreen. I am your age and feel better about myself than I have in years. I love the gray color of my hair and love the freedom to not have to get touchups. You are beautiful, and through your channel make others, including me, feel beautiful. Ignore the negative comments. What a boring world if we all looked the same.

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

I totally get that & also love that at the same time you're doing more self care overall & loving your routine! 💜

[@vanitagomes3794]

Hi Angie. You are a great inspiration to me. You have a right to keep your hair the way you want to. Ignore all the negative comments. 🎉

[@cindylund8299]

HRT has changed my life!!!!

[@70sladyalways25]

I’m letting my gray come in! I’m 65 and still have mostly brown hair. I’m embracing aging and ok with gray 😊hair

[@GenaRamsey]

I think it's bueatiful

[@crystalresler5534]

The haters are just JEALOUS!!! You look absolutely incredible ❤

[@lorimoore5589]

Why does sharing an opinion have to be hate? Can someone not like something and it just been an opinion. I do not like middle parts and never known anyone I thought looked better with a middle part, its just my opinion. Its like we all have a favorite color or food. We aren't stepford wives.

[@rainforestblessed5031]

@@lorimoore5589 it's not opinions, it's critisism when you say others should live or act according to Your ideas. Can't you see the diifference? When you say "you must do what I think" that's just pompous and arrogant. So far at least, I don't think there are hair police. Do what You love, please, for heaven's sake, go do what you like if you're not causing harm. I don't care! I don't need to comment if it's not for me. If it is, I'll watch the video and politely say "thank you!" You must be great to live with.

[@crystalresler5534]

And I specifically said "haters" You can certainly state your opinion in a respectful way...that's clearly not whom I am referring to.

[@lorimoore5589]

@@rainforestblessed5031 I never said anyone should do anything. When a content creator says “ of course there were negative comments” it’s like saying I want comments as long as you are positive and tell me what I want to hear. I believe you can share your opinion in a respectful way and never imply that you expect them to change what they are doing. As for living with me it’s great as long as you have thick skin and don’t need your ego stroked 24/7. Which eliminates about 99.9% of women❤️

[@kathystclair9485]

I also have long hair. But I do think that people are not necessarily haters or jealous. This is how they really feel. I think our culture for quite a while has put a stigma on women wearing long hair. I am 67 and my preference for myself is long hair, but I have a sister who wears shorter hair. She was quick to tell me even at 50, someday you're gonna have to cut that hair. I do me and she has to do her!

[@faticeira]

DON'T LISTEN TO IDIOTS AND RUDE PEOPLE You look absolutely stunning and young!! Love your videos xx

[@judygreeneRedheadbeauty]

I am 62, with waist length naturally red hair. I have a KZbin channel on beauty and have been harassed lately by a woman- at least the profile picture is one with purple hair, and she constantly makes horrible comments about me and my makeup videos. Some women are so rude. Just be nice, and allow women to do what makes them feel beautiful! I enjoy your channel!

[@RustyRules426]

Can’t you block her?

[@normanhopfensperger4343]

@@judygreeneRedheadbeauty They're jealous... MYOB, correct?@

[@judygreeneRedheadbeauty]

@@RustyRules426I did, and the person made another acct and commented on another video. I blocked that one, too. I guess it will be ongoing.

[@judygreeneRedheadbeauty]

⁠IDK! It’s such a strange behavior!

[@Cllamg]

I wear mine long at 68

[@wmwilkinson1]

Just because I embraced my gray doesn’t mean everybody has to. Your hair works beautifully for you.

[@GenXfrom75]

Exactly! Mine is white. And really long. And I like it that way!❤

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

Right?! We're not all the same person! We each get to decide what works in our lives! 💜

[@irmaradinson2320]

I am 63 and have silver curly hair and love it. My husband loves it too. Don't care what other people say.

[@9melissal]

@@irmaradinson2320 Your curls look gorgeous in your picture! Of course your husband loves it on you!

[@addicted367]

​@@irmaradinson2320 your hair looks pretty

[@sabraclancy6284]

Thanks Angie! You are 100% correct!!!! Why in the world do we need rules for “mature women “ when we have earned the right to choose for ourselves? I’m also over 60 and have stopped going to hairstylists that want to do the one style fits all women over 60. I constantly change up my look with different hair colors and styles and it is so much fun! We really need to embrace just being ourselves and respect other people’s choices. ❤

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

Well said!

[@iss8504]

I notice there are 2 distinct types of older women online. Old and young.

[@sayuriisme9728]

@@iss8504Love this comment!!🤣

[@drtechindia]

What the BS that women SHOULD LOOK according to her age! I disagree! I want to look and feel for the age my heart feels😅...love to all beautiful girlies out there😘🌸

[@drtechindia]

​@@iss8504👍🏻♥️

[@pamaladraeger]

You look great with long, blonde hair! I just turned 70 and have no desire at all to wear mine short. I was a redhead, now it’s pure white and I still get compliments. You be you! Thank-you for all the recommendations and inspiration!!

[@janetsalter9606]

I'm 70 and I wear my hair like yours. Long and blonde! Get compliments on it. You do you. You look great.

[@janiebratt8826]

Exactly. A young couple came up to me at the store and the girl said, 'I love your hair'. At 75, my hair is waist length and grey. As they walked away, I heard the boy say, 'She is really old'. I liked the first comment the best and still laugh when I think of them.

[@Nancy-kq4dh]

70, long and light brown here too! I also am a beach wave lover and have a beachwaver. Loving the new hairdryer brush Chaz Dean came out with, it's superb.

[@eileengreenspan730]

U look great❤

[@ChristinePacinda]

"...For a woman my age..." You seriously look SO much younger than your age, and I'm really glad you're ignoring all of that absurd social pressure. You look amazing!

[@moosellips5970]

The people writing nasty comments are jealous as they know you look so beautiful with your hair lighter long ❤😊

[@cathrynanderson9524]

I'm 51, and my sister (who is 5 years older) and I made a pact when we were in our 30's promising each other that we would break the rules about hair when we "got old". We didn't establish what age was "old", but we both still have longer than shoulder length hair, and so not plan on making any drastic cuts. But yet I also love the way short hair looks on some women! I have a long oval face and short hair just doesn't look good on me no matter what age I am 😂. I love your hair, and wholeheartedly support everyone's choice to do what they want with their hair ❤

[@sookeecarter5357]

I’m your age, Angie and I’ve been following your journey for years now. I have had people criticize my wild wavy curly hair and my boho style. To all of the keyboard warriors and those brazen enough to criticize my style within earshot or to my face, I say…”Mind your own bloody business and I will mind mine and do what makes me happy, if you’re not happy, that’s on you!” At our age, if we don’t know who we are and aren’t comfortable in our own skin, that is just sad and not my problem. I even have a tee that plainly says, “Be kind, if you can’t be kind, mind your own business, not mine! PS - as always, you are gorgeous and one of my favorite influencers in my peer group!

[@janiebratt8826]

You're right! "You do you and I'll do me".

[@deb9806]

Oh my, I remember when I turned 30 so many "moms' cut their hair short whether it looked better or not. I found ponytails just fine and versatile. If you love short hair fine, but many of them looked older and I didn't think babies cause hair to be discarded. I had twins and was just fine but to each his/her own. I just hated, "When will you cut yours".

[@MoGeeinternationalsince1969]

@@deb9806 30 is so young 😊 Good for you !

[@Msgina28]

My thick hip length black turning gray hair is a topic of conversation and I love it.Aloha from Nebraska.🌺💕

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

Sounds gorgeous!!

[@susanspurling5634]

@AngieHot&Flashy have you tried the minoxidil tablets ??

[@marilynhealy7452]

GO ANGIE! I have never really understood why people think they can comment on someone’s personal choices unless directly asked. You are at the top of the KZbin influencers because you give us honest factual based opinions instead of just hawking to sell another product. I truly appreciate you and really support you!

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

Thank you so much!! 💜

[@crucitasquillace5072]

You are correct!! Do what makes you happy!! I live in 55+ community. I saw so many women just go grey. Well I vowed I was not ready for that. I continued to do my hair on my own while in covid. You look great. It’s your life and you do what makes you happy. Thanks for this hair review. ❤

[@MyFaith2012]

Well said! neg comments are a reflection of how one feels about themselves. Beauty is ageless, old is a mindset. Should we all be fortunate to live another day and age powerfully.

[@cloche-et-chocolat]

'There's a comment section, people will comment. I don't have to be insulted by it, but I also don't have to take it onboard'. That is a whole lesson we can learn from! Thank you for the wise words and for your amazing content Angie!

[@lilacbirman]

I'm gonna be 68 in December and I have hair a bit longer than yours. I love it and always receive compliments on it. Plus my sweetheart (14 years younger than me) thinks it looks great. Other women really should stop the negative comments. You look great and I think your hair length and color fits you. 🌺

[@RosemaryCash]

To long hair!! Cheers! 🍷- I’m totally in the long hair club too.😊

[@serenawu3251]

I’m 46 and I started following your channel years ago because I just love your style and your attitude. Women are constantly told from birth what they should act like and how they should look. Screw all of that. You do you! You’re fabulous!

[@dashnja.9202]

I don't usually subscribe to the "their just jealous" trope. But in the case of people bitching about your hair, I kinda think they are. Your hair is beautiful and you have committed a lot of time and invested in yourself to have it! Rock it, it's very pretty!

[@dashnja.9202]

@@penelope5500 That's at any age though. No reason age should come into the picture if the person enjoys their hair and it's genuinely healthy.

[@amaristoledo4366]

I could not be more proud of you for your intro, you are amazing, one thing about us getting older is that we will definitely do what makes us happy!! and omg you’re stunning I love love your beautiful hair, all of you and your amazing educational content. Thank you from a hot 52yr old. ❤❤❤👏👏👏👏. Thank you.

[@ashleys4652]

Those that say your hair is" too long and "too blonde "are also "too jealous "😂😂😂 Your hair is in great condition and looks stunning, it is a fresh and youthful look.

[@ja-ma-bo]

I am 71 and my hair is almost as long as yours and I love my hair and I love your hair. Good for you.

[@pattyparker2906]

Angie you not only look amazing - but you are here to HELP other women! I don't understand the negativity at all. I have followed you for 8 years and every time I have a facial or go the dermatologist they ALWAYS tell me what great shape my skin is in for a woman my age (55). I have you to thank! So - you're amazing - and THANK YOU!!

[@philisledbetter4412]

I’m 77 and my hair is long. I get compliments all the time because it is grey and I love how it went grey. It is very pretty and I am glad you do not take anything negative to heart. Just pay no attention to the negative.

[@2999-v9j]

Thank you Angie for this video, ever since social media started everyone has an opinion about every single minuscule thing about women. Your hair is beautiful and as we get older being able to grow healthy hair past our shoulders is something to be proud of! I am in my 50’s w/ healthy long colored blonde hair(covering up my gray) and it’s something I’ll never change because some jealous person comments I’m too old. I don’t know how long I’m going to have this so I’m going to show it off and enjoy it while I can!

[@marilainefontenot8220]

I'm 70, let my hair go silver at 50 and never looked back. Also, my hair is longer. You do you!!! Rock on Angie....

[@sayuriisme9728]

I can’t believe people have said those things about your hair! Well here’s my two cents😂😂, it’s beautiful! It looks so much thicker right now and I think the color is breathtaking

[@lolakathol4109]

Thank you! Angie for all the great tips! I am 66 . I have been getting my hair colored for over 30 years! The past 20 yrs. I went to a reddish brown color with a few sprinkles of blond. I get compliments quite often. Especially at my age, you start to feel invisible! It really brightens my day, when someone notices.❤️😊

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

Society has always wanted older women to be invisible instead of celebrating them, it's time to change that!

[@Smango3451-vw4lp]

Love your beautiful long hair. I know I am in my early fifties and a hairdresser with long blonde hair and so many tell me when u get older go shorter. Usually people that say this try and try to grow their hair and can’t grow it out so that’s why they give the opinion to go shorter. Long hair is gorgeous and know a lot of older women with very long hair and I say keep it if that’s what you like. I wished people would stop worrying so much about what’s in what’s out and do what they like and who cares about others opinions and most likely their opinion is based on their own insecurities not always but mostly ❤️ keep it long and if you want to go blonde and long go for it it’s gorgeous!!if u like it short go for it but do what u like always until we leave this opinionated world we live in! ❤️😘💕

[@JoJoAnn-ol5rq]

You look gorgeous and you definitely don’t look like you are 60 Angie. You do you! 💕 I’m 58 (almost) and I have longer blonde hair and love it…short hair looks horrible on me. Thanks for all you do! ❤

[@nancymattern1801]

You are stunningly beautiful, inside and out, Angie! Your skin and makeup look flawless! Thank you so much for all of your hard work in keeping us informed.

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

Thanks so much Nancy!

[@ng-jv6hk]

I think you look great Angie. I stopped coloring and went gray and am now growing my hair out because the cute pixie cut I liked when coloring seemed to be starting to be the cookie cutter old lady haircut that everyone at the salon my age was getting...who wants that?? I think women our age should wear their hair in whatever way makes them feel attractive..you're the person that sees yourself the most and it matters most how you feel in it.

[@jo-elbardell4653]

Your hair is beautiful. 🙂I have never bought into the "age appropriate" nonsense. My mother is 76 and has beautiful long hair and I am 53 and mine is long. Neither of us have any intention of cutting it. Everyone should just do what makes them feel good.❤

[@christinemack2153]

Long, healthy hair on a mature woman is youthful in my humble opinion. The Dyson paddle brush adds so much shine and smoothness to my hair as well. I use another prestige shampoo/condition and once you find what works, you can't go back. Thanks for sharing how you achieve such gorgeous hair! xo

[@SusanSaysSomething]

Which S&C do you like?

[@christinemack2153]

@@SusanSaysSomething I use the Nutritive line (very dry hair) from Kerastase.

[@SusanSaysSomething]

Thanks so much!​@@christinemack2153

[@bobbiek984]

My Friday is not complete without an Angie video 😘 I tried the Oribe, don’t know if I got a bad batch but didn’t care for the smell at all☹️ Going to continue using my Oleplex, as it has the same ingredients as Oribe. Lol… and a couple little hacks I found with my Omni Lux mask… instead of buying the neck piece, just use the mask for the neck and chest… very pliable and gets the whole neck…then I also put the mask on my head!!!! Been doing this for about 8 months and seeing results. And saving 💲💲💲 Love my Dyson too 🩵 Didn’t mean to write a book but maybe this will also help someone else too 🎉

[@michellekristine815]

I agree with your message about freedom about hair and style choices based on our age…age is just a number! You are stunning for a woman at any age both inside and out!! Thank you for your wonderful videos! ❤

[@Kimberly_Knit4Brains]

After losing 40 lbs AND going thru menopause, I was freaking because I've been loosing my hair and it felt really dry. Even my hairdresser noticed...THIS was the exact video i needed to watch, thank you Angie!!! I love how through you are in your research and content....HUGE FAN!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@cherylm699]

Angie your hair always looks amazing! I’m your age and have hair past my shoulders and highlight it. All of my girlfriends also have long hair and color their hair as well. You’re an inspiration to all of us!! If you decide to cut your hair and color it purple, I’m here for it! Love your content😊🥰🇨🇦

[@tishamonroe7418]

love your long hair!!

[@eliseraifman4766]

Couldn’t have said what you said at the beginning of this video better myself! I am 64 years old and I have definitely earned the right to do whatever I want with my hair! I embraced my gray about 8 years ago on my husband’s persuasion. I’m naturally a brunette but went blonde when I started going gray. I now have long silver curls and get way more compliments on my hair (especially from strangers) than I ever did when I had dark or blonde hair! You do you girl! I think that your hair is beautiful and suits you. But it doesn’t matter what I think!

[@stuartpierce121]

Your hair really looks very pretty! It suit's you. People should wear what makes them feel good. Thanks for video! Thanks Angie Jennifer 😊

[@Kim-qt7yn]

Angie, US is a free country, I support you and your hair! I refuse to cave to societal pressures! I am 66, wear my hair long and have double process color (base and highlights). Get compliments on my appearance and have no intentions of conforming to the styles that society considers “age appropriate!” I use micro fiber hair towel too, love your channel.

[@AlaskanGirl75]

Oribe is 20% off on Dermstore right now. Once or twice a year Oribe has a 20% off sale on its website, usually around the same time as Sephora’s sales. I also save by buying the liters during the sale and one of each shampoo and condition last me a full year. I love their products!

[@kayb1656]

I do the same thing, buy the refillable liters during the sale. 👍

[@juliannerogers5283]

Thanks for saying, I love oribe, but so pricey so always great to get on sale

[@LindaKayHolevas]

22:47 I love the grey-away root touch up stick! I don’t hear anyone else talking about it, but it’s a wonderful product! I’m glad you addressed the negative comments about your long hair. We need to move past aging misconceptions & needing to wear your hair at a certain length when you reach a certain age is one of the top ones! 😊

[@ladyofthewood5604]

You're beautiful, Angie! As a major influencer in the beauty community, people look up to you and your opinion matters! Women need the encouragement to wear their hair (and dress) in whatever way makes them feel best. You're a positive role model for us.

[@christinebristow8681]

Each to their own. Hair, clothes, lifestyle, aging, etc. You’re so right we should all do ourselves and nobody else. I’ve followed you for years and taken some great tips from you over things. So thank you for them. I’m the same age as you and I will never understand people putting people down or typing negative things about anybody. Ive always said to the children I’ve worked with over the years… You have the right to think what you like. Nobody cares, but you also have the responsibility not to say thoughts out loud and hurt anybody’s feelings. I love your channel so keep doing you Angie. With love from the UK

[@janedough6575]

My mother used to say “If you have nothing nice to say then say nothing “. It’s good advice.

[@turnbacktime65]

I’m one who loves your new-ish hair. ❤ Thank you for this video. Hair is such a sensitive hot topic. I’m 66. I cut my long hair off at 27 and never went back. I keep the cut feminine and trendy. It’s been a few colors and I will continue to color it. Change is good. Exciting. Renewing. Fun! I will never understand how women can be so scared of change. If you’ve had the same hair and makeup for fifty years time to upgrade.

[@70sladyalways25]

I’m embracing aging and letting my gray hair come in. I have just below shoulder length hair and it’s much easier for me than when I had short hair. I’m 65 and still have mostly brown hair that is natural. I also support any woman who decides to take a different route with her hair 😊

[@ckmucci]

Thank you Angie for your wonderful words about the early '60s and having long colored hair! Sometimes people will tell me You should go ahead and go gray or you should go ahead and cut your hair now that you're 63 and I say no! I like my hair like this. Thank you for your confirmation as I respect your words and all of your videos Thank you so much and keep them coming!❤

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

There's absolutely no reason to cut your hair & stop coloring just because you're over 60! Keep doing what makes you happy! 💜

[@lc6853]

I went gray and I love it! The colour and the natural highlights are so cool. As you say, let us each do what's right for ourselves and we can't go wrong Thanks for all your great content!

[@barbtscott]

Goodness, people are rude. You look fabulous. Love this video.

[@barbarapaige6357]

Hi Angie. I love love your hair! I’m 61 with long blonde hair and extensions. I’ve never felt better about myself. ❤

[@dianevioletta1408]

I get so tired of hearing other women comment on older women with long hair. I am 59 and wear my hair long. Last year I agreed to let my styling cut a *long* reverse bob. I HATED it. It was so short in the back and I felt frumpy. It just wasn’t me. I grew it back, and realize I am just more comfortable with my long hair. It is extremely healthy, grows quickly, I take good care of it (only wash and style a couple of time per week). Oh! And the color shaming! I color my roots but can’t believe how many women say I should just let the gray take over. Uh, no thanks!

[@redroseofsummer2979]

Totally agree... I hate 'AGE RULES'....everyone should just do their own thing. Angie looks amazing and I'm hoping that i look half as good at her age.

[@djohnson0713]

Agree. We should do what makes us feel good. I have friends who went grey during COVID & asked me, I’m still coloring my hair, Who Do You Think You’re Fooling? I don’t think I’m fooling anyone. I do it for me. Maybe in a few years I won’t but for now I’m fine.

[@dianevioletta1408]

@@djohnson0713 right? I do it for myself. I’m not trying to fool anyone.

[@user-ry1vi1jc7o]

I suppose you could ask your friends who they think they're fooling by wearing make up.

[@wendybrown3502]

Hi Angie! I think your hair is beautiful! I'm 62 also and choose to have blonde hair past my shoulders. I so agree with you. We should all do what makes us feel confident and our best selves! Great video!❤😊

[@jann3443]

"Earned the right!" I love that statement. We all have to do what is right for us. I only want to please me where makeup and hair are concerned. I love your dad weighing in on Oribe. I love the shampoo and conditioner Thank you, Angie's Dad!

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

I'll tell dad you appreciated the info! He'll be stoked!

[@oneaudbroad]

@@AngieHotandFlashy yes knowing the chemical ingredients is so helpful! I recently dealt with a lot of hair loss despite being on HRT and it's coming back like gangbusters since I started back on B vitamins, Rx minoxidil, etc after watching your videos. You look so stunning, that blonde really makes you GLOW! I have the same hair color and have been doing similar highlights for years since making it to Texas from the east coast- a huge benefit being that the silver that is coming in gets camouflaged by the light ashy blonde highlights. May I ask if you do partial or full highlights? Love the dark showing through, and while I use many of the products you discussed, will be adding the light brown crayon, especially to add lowlights as needed! GENIUS!!

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

I do full highlights about once a year and partials in between!

[@penniestrong8600]

I've ordered Oribe and appreciate your comments about don't comb it until after leave in products. Agree 💯 let's wear our hair as we like. Important to care for our hair.

[@COgirl394]

You've said it before, but thank you for going over it again. Our hair is our hair and how we choose to wear it does not affect anyone else so there should be no commentary on it. I am 64 and I wear my hair long. It's blonde so I haven't needed to color it yet and I'm not sure what I'll do when it turns more gray. Thank you for sticking up for older women and encouraging us not to succumb to societies prejudices for expectations.

[@lynndecarlo6704]

Angie I've been watching you since day 1. I think you had maybe a few thousand subs. I'm a hairstylist for 19 years and I'm 56 and have long hair. I curl it like yours. THIS IS THE BEST LENGHT on you!! Looks like you brought it up a bit. I notice with my own, even working in a busy salon I have to cut my own sometimes and when I let it go too long, it actually ages me. Especially the angles around the face. Yours is perfect at this length ❤❤

[@heatherg6939]

I’m 60 and the one time I cut my hair short ( I did the Princess Diana back in the 80’s) I felt like Olga from the Old Country. Long hair is definitely my jam and will always be. Imagine Jane Seymour with short hair…nope…and she’s in her 70’s and looks AMAZING!!

[@Victoryshout_nz]

I'm 60 and started growing my hair longer last year after decades of shoulder-length hair. I now love my longer hair and wish I had never cut it in my 40s and 50s! I looked older then that I do now. Thanks for the advice on the hair care routine!

[@Brigitte-cw1gg]

You do you. And you do not even look over 60. My hairdresser is 60 and her hair is 'pink'. It looks wonderful on her. Keep it up!

[@carolgarrett5650]

You do you Angie! Personally I think it’s beautiful. I’m 67 soon to be 68 and decided years ago I don’t care what others think as long as I’m happy with my hair, makeup, clothes, etc!

[@christawicker6981]

I have had my hair short in my 20s, 30s and 40s now I am 50 and letting it grow out. Sometimes you need a change. Your hair is gorgeous

[@Clockaanderson]

Same! I love it!

[@l.sexton439]

Angie, thank you for this video! As a 60 + woman, the pressure to go gray is so real! I love your changes to your hair. I'm trying some of your products as I also have long hair. Cheers!

[@TarynsTime]

I'm 54 with waist length blonde hair, the hair I wanted all my life. Something happened at 50, hormones perhaps, and my hair has never been healthier. I don't know why I'd give this up unless nature forced me by taking my hair. The longer my hair the more braided updos I'm learning, such simple elegance, whether gardening, lounging, or an evening out. Be yourselves, be original, be you. ❤

[@sharontisherman7619]

Im going to be 64 this month. I have been following you for at least 5 years. Since before you moved. I think you are absolutely gorgeous and should wear your hair however you like. Thank you for all the research you do for us!!! I trust your advice and recommendations.❤❤❤❤

[@GenXfrom75]

I turned 49 in June and my hair is long, about the length of my back bra band. I don’t look good with short hair. I’m growing out my white hair and at times, I get sad watching my red hair disappear. But I’m finished dying and bleaching. And aside from trimming dead ends, I’m never cutting it again!! ❤❤❤

[@Mycescos]

I’m in my mid 40s and my grays are coming out a LOT. Almost giving up and going gray but saw your vid and it has inspired me to care for my appearance. I colored my hair as I watched your vid. Thank you so much for giving me hope.

[@ErinFrazier-s5i]

I believe your hair style and color is a personal choice not for any one’s opinion. I’ve had my hair long, short, flat ironed and nearly every color of the rainbow. I now wear it long, curly, and gray. I like it and honestly that’s all that matters! Your hair looks so shiny and healthy and great on you!

[@tht8916]

Thanks for sharing this information. I have fine/thinner hair since menopause, so I appreciate some advice from someone who has similar hair texture. The beach wave really works well for you.

[@redruby8529]

I love Davines nounou conditioner. If you order from their website, you can pick 4 samples. Highly recommend!

[@bethrivka68]

Your hair looks gorgeous , Angie. Thank- you for encouraging us to do what makes us feel beautiful and happy. I’m letting my hair go white; I’m 55 and I love it. I’m noticing that gray hair tends to lose shine so I’m going to try the 2 leave-in serums you suggested.

[@Sandra.Viewer]

Oh joy, another day, another opportunity for everyone to share their utterly fascinating and completely unsolicited opinions. I mean, who doesn't love being bombarded with unwanted advice and critiques from people who probably can't even manage their own lives? It's not like I have better things to do than listen to their ramblings and pretend to care. Can't we all just keep our thoughts to ourselves for once? But no, let's just keep on sharing those brilliant insights and unsolicited suggestions🙈🙄 You truly look stunning! Don't waste a moment worrying about what others say or think. Their opinions are irrelevant and can't diminish your beauty and worth. You shine bright, and that's all that matters!😌❤️

[@Sheilaell1011]

😂

[@MoGeeinternationalsince1969]

Exactly right! Agree 👍🏽 thanks 😊for this comment.😊

[@rolypoly7143]

You don’t seem to be following your own comment about others giving their opinions since you are doing the same thing ! Even though I totally agree with you!

[@michellehogarth]

Great video. Couldn’t agree with the supportive comments here more. I am one that has similar colouring to you and loves your hair colour. Would love to know what shades/ colours you are currently getting put in at the salon as well 🙏 thanks Angie

[@jennifernelson9664]

I’m 52 and I’m transitioning my curly hair to grey. I completely intend to reach advanced age looking like a feral forest witch.

[@peacenow4456]

Well articulated! I'm in between. Still coloring my hair and will never stop but I do keep it layered and about 3 " below my shoulders is best for my face shape. I'd appreciate a suggestion for healthy hair serum to stop so much shedding. I do have thick hair, but the shedding seem to be really increasing. I love Pantene... I only use hair dryer, never irons, etc. Thanks!

[@ldel6069]

You have earned the right to do you! Well put! I stopped watching a KZbinr who said women over 40 should not wear bikinis especially around their adolescent son’s friends, to whom I immediately unsubscribed. 👋

[@ahc142]

Love your hair! Never heard of “norms” for hair at certain ages! It’s the beauty of what makes one their best self. You took the words out of my mouth!!

[@Mini_Min_]

Generally combing your hair while wet is not recommended because the hair is very fragile then - the pulling causes it to stretch and even tear. Hair is the strongest when dry. I usually detangle my hair a little with my fingers while it's wet and that's all.

[@alseyb5198]

I put my long hair in a bun to walk my dogs-protects your hair from frizz. When I take out the bun my hair is wavy and smooth, I live in a humid area. I use a large bun clip, pull hair back hair (like a ponytail), then twist and fold into bun , add clip-takes 2 seconds can holes all day if need be.

[@Lolo-sp1dq]

You don’t look a day over 40! You are absolutely gorgeous and don’t listen to anyone but yourself. Thank you for this video. I am 54 and my hair is long and blonde and I absolutely love it! ❤

[@padmajavempaty7848]

Angie, your hair looks great. Please keep it long. You are a great role model in beauty community

[@traceyhiggins5664]

Hi Angie. I’m also 61 and have long hair….you always look classy and natural . I have never understood why we can’t have long hair after 60. I totally agree with everything you say… our generation of women are strong women who always stood up for what they believed in and were the trailblazers for women’s lib, so yes we have deserved the right of passage to do what ever we wish and other peoples should mind their own council…I’m not a fan of ageism..I like to think we are all equal and relevant…wow, this is so interesting with the ingredients. Have you tried Davinas shampoos and conditioners. I buy mine from hairdressers. Made on a farm in Italy by an Italian family… oh wow, the Love heat protector is the same brand I use by the Italian family by Davina. I love the smell and use their shampoo, Conditioner and oil... Cowlicks are my bane. Grrr!🤬..I have a whopper on my left temple which exposes my menopausal male pattern bald bits…(btw, I absolutely love my book The New Menopause. ) I air dry and scrunch and sometimes use the Redkin bed head curl..well this was a wonderful video as always. Youre7amazing Angie…sending you sunshine from Oz xxx🌞🦘🌏

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

Well said Tracey! Our generation are trailblazers & hopefully we can put these old "rules" to bed once & for all!! Thanks for the sunshine always! xo ~a.

[@GulfCoastGranny]

I have the opposite situation as far as color goes. I like my gray. I don't want to color my hair but everyone in my family keeps telling me I need to cover the gray.. NOPE! My opinion is that I earned every stinking one of these grays and I'm keeping them! I won't ever cut my hair above my shoulders either...unless maybe I become unable to take care of it. At that point, Ill decide what to do if and when it happens.

[@rozaz4754]

Some older women with short hair look younger,some- older.I am 77, long blond hair below my shoulders . I am in the category , that if I go short, I look older. Of course, it’s a lot of work with long hair.But, I get very often compliments from strangers, and also my husband likes the length of my hair ,so it is worth the effort. Some advice: never listen to women’s comments about the length or color of hair in older age, 95% they are fake and jealous. Your hair is your glory…..😊

[@mandygreer3732]

For most of my life I have worn my hair shoulder length or shorter. I’m now 67 and about a year ago my hairstylist urged me to grow my hair longer! I still color it and at my last appointment she gave me the same beachy waves you have in this video. I was stunned (!) at how great this looks! Even with my no longer firm jawline (sigh). So now I can’t wait to try that spinning curling iron! Thanks, Angie for always giving such reliable and useful info!

[@susangendron6096]

You are Beautiful - the haters are just jealous of your stunning appearance!

[@8888gail]

Some people want visual cues as to how old someone is because they find it helpful? I just treat people with respect no matter how old they are. I think one of the reasons why a lot of people think "older" women (whatever that means) should wear shorter hair is that women were supposed to signal that they were now mature and ready to stop focusing on how they look. But, how we look is not about other people. It is about us. It is about looking our best and feeling our best. One reason why I love you, Angie, is that you radiate joy over discovering things that many of us can use to look and feel our best. You are always positive and you give us honest reviews. It would be great if you could still post sometimes, even if only once a month. But, please take care of yourself. We all deserve to do that.

[@birgitraya4909]

I'm turning 62 next month and still wear my hair longer.i never had short hair and I won't change it just because I'mover 60.. People should mind their own business, wear their hair the way they want to and not criticize others.

[@user-ry1vi1jc7o]

Exactly. Ignore the Mrs. Kravitzes of the world.

[@MichaelaGuillory-pt5yl]

Absolutely! I agree! Everyone should be able to wear their hair however they want without judgement.❤

[@leemareeh]

I always wonder why people feel the need to tell others how to wear their hair, it's such a personal decision and who cares what they think? Long, short, grey, coloured do whatever you love and feel comfortable with. Your hair always looks great Angie

[@AngieHotandFlashy]

Agree 100%!

[@MaggieFrett]

Angie: Keep doing what you’re doing. Don’t let anyone let you feel less than. I have been hooked to your videos for 5 years and always look forward to Friday’s! I love the Ghost line from verb, know I why.❤

[@therealgr8typist]

I remember when I had my son 30 years ago and I was asked if I was going to cut my long hair now. Moms apparently weren't supposed to have long hair because it was dangerous for the baby? Um, okay, but no, I'm not cutting it. Now that I'm in my early 60s, I'm feeling that same pressure as I'm going white. I am tired of coloring, but I will not cut it. When I'm done, I will have long white hair. I don't care about the hair length/age rules.

[@katrinaryan1739]

I think long white hair is beautiful!🥰💜

[@kathleenspeegle3517]

I’ve been enjoying the Verb Ghost shampoo and conditioner very much! Thank you for suggesting them! 💕