BREAKING THE TRAUMA BOND (MY PATH… AND YOURS)

[@carolynbennett2735]

Thank you Andrew. I watch many of your videos, but this one really touched a place in my heart. I recently had to break a friendship with a narcissist. I always knew something was off about this person, but I just couldn’t put my finger on it. Everything that she did and said was addressed in your videos. Until now, I did not know that much about narcissists, but I sure am learning now, thanks to you. I had to do research to find out what I have been dealing with, because I had no idea. But dealing with her made me lose sleep, my health was taking a nose dive. She soaked up all of time. But, after educating myself like I am doing now, I let her go, No Contact, now my health is a lot better, I am sleeping better. So, I want to thank you again for all that you do, even reliving a very painful time in your life in order to help us.🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙌💜

[@kaleiamcmillan7477]

The sleepless nights are the worst part knowing you have work in the morning.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯🙌

[@melindalawson4484]

20 years of marriage there is nothing that belongs to that man in my house no pictures no clothes I burned all of it. Gave his tools and things like to people that wanted them I just want to forget that he ever existed. I was good to that man and he treated me like dirt. At the time I didn’t know he was a narcissist.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand this completely.. thank you for sharing this Melinda.. stay strong ☀️🙌

[@tootienottoofruitie1726]

Mel....wow ... you are lucky you had any of his things or yours ‼️🍀🍀🍀

[@1010QUEEN7]

I know exactly how you feel the same thing happened to me oh my God

[@steveinspainkap2043]

I could never forgive her. Too many unforgivable events. So much intentional destruction, but I have made peace with it.

[@kaystephens2672]

Wow. You go girl. I love it! 20 years of your life. I've been burning some old pictures I found. A little passive aggressive I supposed but it was very satisfying. Congratulations for taking out the trash.

[@covidoff]

What this guy does for those who are struggling and hurting is absolutely invaluable. Thank you for sharing your strength when we need it the most.

[@esmelouise9046]

prayers for the people who’ve passed because of narcissistic abuse

[@thirstonhowellthebird]

There are so many. In my world I know of four. They were scapegoats and their families brutalized them and they saw no other way out and they didn’t have the knowledge at the time. My heart is broken. I wish the world could see these videos, these people are demons.

[@shawnskifstad9074]

Lost my dad in ‘99😢

[@camelotenglishtuition6394]

​@shawnskifstad9074 lost mine in 2017, no doubt it's because of one of these demons .. the same one came for me and I barely came out alive

[@annette2153]

Andrew, I just came upon this video clip from 1 year ago. The way you went about going through the fire is EXACTLY the way I went through, including cutting everyone associated with the narc out of my life. I did a lot of flying monkey/enablers housecleaning. You are correct, there are hundreds of thousands of people experiencing or having experienced what you and I have. Knowing that there is a supportive community out there is so comforting and reassuring. Again, thank you for what you do.

[@sheilamurry9875]

Toxic means poisoness. Slowly before, during and definitely after ,as your intuition was being attacked first, so their evilness could ooze into your life until they got what they wanted. Be of good cheer for your awareness and your steps moving forward ✨️

[@tuesday7742]

So hard to accept that he never really cared. The time spent I cant get back. I feel such a fool to havé accepted his toxicity. I think we need to see our own distinctional codependence. It is there or we would never have accepted their behavior towards us.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@mariebonet8521]

It's so amazing finding yourself again, shaking off the dust and Looking at Life as a beautiful journey! Living each day being grateful with the knowledge tomorrow will be even better. Much Love to all of the beautiful souls that are on this channel

[@ivydeangelis9121]

I’m so glad I found this channel . Broke up for good with my narcissistic boyfriend of 10 years . Went no contact completely . I am not even depressed about it . I feel free and ready to begin a new chapter . I proved Him and his whole family wrong . They thought I would never leave . I left . 2 months of being single and working on myself . God bless everyone on this Channel. You can do it . I pray for you . 🙏Stay strong . We deserve better !

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💪💯🙌🙏

[@franceshaggitt3104]

Pls encourage me. It's been three wk out. He lovebombed me third time back saying he will be the man I deserve lolol . He was worse. Like sicker.

[@christielawrence4640]

Oh my goodness, you ROCKED IT. Hope you are still rising. Thank you!!!

[@christielawrence4640]

This COMMENT IS SO STRENGTHENING!!! THANK YOU!!! I SO HOPE TO SEE MORE TRIUMPHANT COMMENTS LIKE THIS. It has made a BIG DIFFERENCE for some of us....

[@priscillathompson77]

​@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneI am missing my children so much

[@ilgenis]

Don't just break the trama bond, smash it into pieces and light it on fire.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes 👏

[@1010QUEEN7]

🎯🎯🎯

[@BlessedChosen7]

Smash It Like KING KONG, that just made my Evening complete. I love that comment.

[@cynthiawlaughlin5435]

I don’t have a support system for this but I can do it

[@gigigogo41]

You're comment ; Just reminded me of the cremation process.....Y👀

[@tommym8292]

I believe I'm in the middle of a trauma bond. My ex wife divorced me a year ago (after 25 years), yet she continued to pull me in through late night texts, weekend getaway's, dinner dates, dinner with the kids, vacation with the kids...until one day a month ago I find out she's out of town with another man she had met, when just the week before I spent the weekend with her...I was thinking maybe things were improving. After I confronted her, she wanted to work on "being friends", yet still see this guy...I literally tried it for a week and had to cut it off...this is the worst period of my life, the lowest...I'm trying to live in the moment, positive thoughts, but it's been a tough month...I'm lucky I'm still here to be honest.

[@spicygal8564]

I survived this trauma bond hanging by my fingertips. This information saves lives. Once I finally identified my ex as a narcissist, I learned the abuse i went through wasnt my fault and my deterioration wasnt my fault. Narcissistic abuse really should be taken as seriously as any other crime because their intent to kill you is very real. Please be safe and love yourselves.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this .. 🙏🙌☀️💯💯

[@kennethsilvestri5874]

I believe there is actually a law in the UK against emotional abuse and much research shows that emotional abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse over the long term.

[@moirabijker7117]

This is true. These people want to see you suffer, truly does not care if you live or die. They will drive you to suicide and smile about it as a huge accomplishment. True evil.

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

I hope you're better now. Hanging on myself at the moment. Such cruelty.

[@GLeon-ov9yu]

Yes!!! They systematically kill a person from the inside out.

[@cordewitt]

Thanks for this knowledge and education much appreciated I am investing in me and my children 🤦🏠👪🤗🤩💕💃 Narc is my past 6 years ago

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😌🙌🙏💯

[@dianemclean4409]

I finally made some headway when I realized I had never loved the man I married. I loved the man I THOUGHT he was - an illusion. It made it easier to move on. Now if only I could handle the triggers better. Once I get triggered it’s like reliving the whole mess. Easy to become discouraged sometimes, but I have to move forward. I will NEVER GO BACK TO THAT HELL.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Light bulb moment 💡💡💯💯

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

How are you today. I hope you're doing well. X

[@sdshawn798]

Exactly. About 3 years ago my Rebecca changed completely. I thought she had a mental breakdown. I was wondering where the person I fell in love with went and when she would be back. It wasn't until recently I figured out that I was witnessing the real Rebecca now for the last 3 years. The Rebecca I met and fell in love with 8 years ago never existed. It's a hard pill to swallow but it is the truth. I told someone recently it had gotten to where I don't even know what is real and what is fake about her. These are nasty, deceitful scum.

[@lesleywolf2497]

I relate completely. You most likely have ptsd frim surviving this hell.......so hang in there....... You are STRONG....You made it this far...right?...😉💖💪

[@franceshaggitt3104]

Me too. Three wk out

[@Jessicaisfreee]

I hope to fall in love with and get into a relationship with someone who is also empathic, loving, caring and kind, who has a beautiful soul, someday who I also find very attractive. A happy, healthy relationship. This seems more like a fairytale at this point.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

In time.. in your time 🙏💯🙌

[@Sofia-xn8wd]

Thank you sooo much for your videos!! I was married for 28 yrs and my husband died… I struggled with grief for years because I was so attached and have totally lost myself. This past year I finally realized that I was in a narcissistic relationship. I ended up with chronic fatigue syndrome 14 yrs ago and my doctor believed that he contributed to this breakdown. I was a career woman and knew that he was demanding with an explosive temper, but I’m seeing now who he really was. Anyway- after him about 3 yrs later while I was still grieving, I ended up in another relationship that I just ended. He was a covert narcissist- which was even worse! I’m finally out of it and have learned so much! Everything that you are saying is correct!!! I went back to him several times, except when I was finally done! Thanks again! You are a beautiful person! Us empaths need to stick together! ❤

[@KuhlaShine]

The first 3 sentences were worth watching alone. You betray yourself in order to appease the narcissist. It's heartbreaking because for the longest time you don't even know you're doing it - you just end up disliking and being disgusted with yourself for the behaviours they have driven you to.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight.. I appreciate your kindness 🙏☀️🙌

[@atirliag2833]

Thankyou for this comment. The way I spoke to that creature was anything but respectful the last 5 years of the 25years, by the time he left, I hated the sight of him, the sound of its voice, it's car coming in the driveway. I sold the weddings rings to cash converters, deleted the photos, still waiting for the final legals to get the rest of its rubbish out of my house.

[@MrIlgenis]

That trauma bond was like a force field of illusions.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Wow that’s accurate 🙌🙌💯💯💯

[@tathe3786]

Force field of illusion…. Yes you feel the nice words and future fakes for real….. but it’s a Spider wap your in… once awoken you notice that yourheart beating is Stress and Pain to get out… this is no Loving Heart Beat…. But that needs time to realize! I feel positiv Energie when I see trees going with the storm shaking their whole volume that let me catch a little glimpse of clearness in my mind… this will be the way of my healing…. Nature…..

[@sherryslilark]

Amen

[@tracemagace8434]

A hall of mirrors

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

Empathetic here and boy they love us ❤

[@Resiliant777]

Excellent Expression!! - “Unpaid Helper” - So true!😕

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely true.. see the video I created recently with the same title..☀️🙌

[@Resiliant777]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Will Do!👍

[@richardlau2447]

I worked for my narcissist mother for over 10 years. I never got a raise.

[@mh-m3682]

I feel like I was an unpaid helper as well.

[@dawnrutledge9954]

I worked my ass off for him. Felt like a slave and he continued to ask for more. Then made me feel useless when I started standing against him. Ugh!

[@margretfasset9173]

I left twice...once as a 16 year old and then as a 50 year old. I should have NEVER gotten back with him. The whole relationship relationship, then marriage and children was about M e doing way too much on every level. Horribly, life -altering events were dictated/ forced until the outcomes were/are his...no matter how I reacted. His words and deeds kept me off balance in so many ways. I lost myself and ruined my life...I had so many plans and I know that my childen's lives would have been better if I'd had the courage to leave...

[@AdamNPDSurvivor]

The lack of empathy from the narcissist at the final discard phase is incomprehensible at first. Especially if you have no idea you were involved with a narcissist.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Completely correct thank you 🙏 ☀️🙌

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

Absolutely, the mask comes off and a stranger is revealed, Hope you are better today.

[@michelleleebento1888]

This 1 really made me cry...its like a slap in the face

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙌🙏

[@juliettehasenbar9211]

Wild respect to you for breaking the trauma bond all by yourself. Wild respect!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💪😉💯💯

[@elizabethflorez2372]

Yes ❤Totally true. Thank you Love 💕 God bless you 🎉

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😌😊🙏

[@1719Elliott]

Thank you😭 the day I broke the trauma bond was heaven. Took years but it was worth it. I thought I was never going to move on. I promise everyone here that you will move on it just takes times!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😌🙏💯

[@candyhumpf6267]

Currently in the trauma bond. It’s awful. I need out. The abuse is getting worse. Will be playing this vid again

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Education is empowerment 🙏💯☀️💪

[@elizabethg3690]

They dont love themself,they dont have purpose in life ,keep move on ,with ur life that the best think we can do to healing especially get close to God !🙏❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Exactly Elizabeth ☀️💯🙌

[@rhondawampner688]

I did things, and said things that I would never do.

[@judepoynter3850]

Listening to this I feel so full of emotion about how grateful I am that somehow I found the strength to go on, and not take my own life. That would just have confirmed to all his flying monkeys that I was the crazy one. This kind of real speak saves people’s lives. 🙏🏼

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Jude.. I appreciate your honesty.. stay strong.. you are here.. everyday moving forward ☀️🙌🙏., ❤️

[@beverlytate2669]

They would love to drive us to suicide so they can play the victim and have everyone feel sorry for them "for their loss"

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

How are you today. Good i hope.

[@judepoynter3850]

@@JohnSmith-wo7ns Yes going great thanks John. Hope you are the same. Thank you for your message 🌻

[@impactbluev]

❤️

[@willeklund6376]

I took responsibility for being in it and staying in after lies and betrayal, then shattered the rose colored glasses leaving no way back. Next I broke the trauma bond with deep introspect induced by two ayahuasca ceremonies. It was like a cord was instantly cut. Moving forward lots of therapy and journaling. I sometimes have nightmares and slip into fog where I have to replay key events from the relationship, recalling the dark-low-vibe condition she swells in, and remind myself that I’m a better man today and of my ability to love unconditionally. 3 years and 5 months (9 months engaged) spent with her but I have no regrets. I have her blocked from all except text/calls but never reply/answer. The radical cycle of messages I get may be valuable in court should she bring false testimony against me. It’s been 33 days and my healing has been expedited by my will, faith and power of my words. I pray for her every night, and leave her in the hands of divinity.

[@barbaraj4027]

Wishing you strength and love 🪷🪷

[@Yellow-oc4sl]

Forgive yourself and love yourself is hard but it is possible with forgive others , discernment is life great lessons, I hope all is well for your journey, a new chapter without those behaviors is a plus , to move forward and not to go back to that , and setting healthier boundaries with the powerful word of NO, wether they like it or not , In my past relationships been token advantage of , last close relationship got pooped on and it was like a final warning of what it could have been the wrong way which was not right , I been discarded , its actually a good thing called it out for what it is and now i know lies and manipulate is toxic behavior, no contact so far , he got what he wanted , i forgive him and Im working on forgiving myself especially allowing him to treat me terribly , hang in there and know there are other people who have been or going through the same , take care and God bless you , thank you for listening.

[@rebeccaelle135]

Thank you as I am revisiting understanding.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Glad it was helpful!🙌💯😌

[@BiancaCalhoun]

Namaste Andrew! Have an amazing Thursday 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Namaste 😌🙌🙏

[@theresaconley5930]

I have found out there are many layers upon layers of "trama bonds" within the narcissistic relationship. I've been pealing back, layer by layer, analyzing, dealing with each one, in steps, on my way to healing. It's alot of hard work, soul searching, reprogramming my mind, emotions and responses. It's not an easy journey but necessary. There's a huge goal that I'm striving for, ME!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message.. as we discover more about our relationship.. more comes to light to be explored..💡💡🙌💯🙏🙏

[@melodymacken9788]

Brilliant, brilliant and brilliant.

[@janicehill5605]

I'm really glad you got through it and came out stronger to help us Andrew 😊

[@fairyprincess911]

The sound of the wind 🌬️ through the trees sounds lovely. It’s too steady to be wind. It’s surf.🌊

[@johnscholetzky2899]

I walk through this Valley of Shadow of Death; for I shall Fear NO EVIL! For "The Lord Shall Go Before Me and His Light Shall Show Me The Way!" He is a Light upon my feet and a Lamp upon his Path for me; Never leaving Me or Forsaking me! Yeah my Lord will fight my Battles for it is his to deliver me from evil... I pray for you Andrew when I pray for others here also! We never really know what type of battle others are going through, So Bless Everyone to PERSIVIER , STRIVE FOR THE PRIZE, NEVER SURRENDER, NEVER GIVE UP, CROSS ✝️ THE FINISH LINE IN RICHESNESS, NOT like a wrenched sin, Evil, vile with contempt in their's heart for your distrustion! The Narcisse will get their 10 fold share of Karma! Best part, let the Lord do it! Let him be in control. Stay focused on the Prize; which IS JESUS and Making it back "Home too Heaven, from were we came from!" Pain and Suffering is part of caring HIS CROSS. Think about that for awhile?

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful empowering message John.. thank you for sharing this 🙌💯🙏

[@hasukiphun8836]

the thing is , i kinda knew she was using and manipulating me , i gave her everything and treated er like a goddess , thinking because she was only with me , but she is so beautiful , and i love cuddling with er , and getting those late night text that she love me and misses me . that's what i miss .

[@sheilamurry9875]

I'm glad their mask fell and left me in the dust. My intuition was telling me the whole time. It's when your rebuilding is where lots of awareness is present what you really was dealing with

[@geedee9256]

Day 53 No Contact and it’s like driving through on a bicycle. I’m doing everything you talk about. I can’t wait til I’m at the point that I don’t care anymore.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Everyday moving forward.. 🙌🙏

[@vaughn7130]

Please share how ur managing day to day, its only been a few days for me and it hurts bad, im trying to be strong, i feel sick

[@mhashas1]

@@vaughn7130 I feel you. I’m only 11 days no contact. My heart is in so much pain from his cruelty and brutality. I just want to fast forward to the point of neutrality

[@vaughn7130]

@@mhashas1 how are you doing today?

[@mhashas1]

@@vaughn7130 better thank you. I'm doing the 12 steps on this like my AA program. There are some steps backwards but No Contact really makes me feel powerful

[@birgitschwaika4761]

Just can say it again and again...i love you andrew...you are my best friend around the World from germany to Costa Rica...no i am no Stalker...i am a survivor

[@rogy1813]

I thank you so much ❤😢😊

[@thebigh9635]

You don't really realise just HOW MUCH you had invested in them until you start looking back , and it's such a shock to see how much of yourself and your life you sacrificed for them ! They were like poisoned ivy on a tree , their toxic shoots found there way into your every nook and cranny , soficating every last breath out of you until you couldn't move or grow ! It's a very complicated and slow process to recovery , you have to peel back every clinging shoot before you are free , and that takes time ! They controlled you truth and reality for so long it can haunt you as you slowly rediscover and recenter yourself , you ruminate so much because it's like coming off a bad drug that you depended on !! I still occasionally feel their thoughts or hear their toxic opinions in my head on decisions and choices I make , or the new relationships I For as long as I remember they were my only authority , my green or red light , my truth maker ! How shocking to think that you allowed someone's opinion to control you ,. well that's what you have to deal with , a poisoned bond that HAS to be broken to be truly free and healthy once again 🙏🙏💪

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight.. spot on ☀️🙌🙌🙏

[@vaughn7130]

Wow, you sure did say that, and I felt it!

[@neohabilis7412]

Even you, Andrew, as strong as you clearly are now, even you experienced crying spells for weeks and months, as I am experiencing. Wow, thank you for admitting that. Those words are a comfort to me.

[@loriequesjmpr157]

Another great video Andrew!! Trauma bonds were the hardest thing for me to get though after 8 years of abuse. What helped me the most was writing down all of the horrible things that he did and said then reading the numerous pages when I was feeling broken and confused. Now when I read it I feel like a total bad ass for educating myself, going complete no contact, thinking logically instead of emotionally and surviving the horrific experience, I see what a beautiful, patient, giving, loving person I am.Totally unaware at the time that such disgusting, toxic human beings are out there. I feel empowered now with the new knowledge and grateful that I had the strength to care enough about myself and well being to heal and move on with my life.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for this beautiful and empowering message Lori.. fantastic progress ☀️💯🙌💯

[@carlosgarza1701]

I'm going to make that list. Thank you.

[@treelover1050]

LORI I DID THE SAME THING. WROTE DOWN EVERYTHING ROTTEN HE DID AND CALLED IT MY SHIT LIST. I KEEP IT HANDY AS A LOGICAL REMINDER WHY I WENT NO CONTACT AND KEEP AWAY FROM THAT LIAR.

[@monicagreen6217]

I share the same sentiment, it's sooo hard some days

[@nylaclancy2655]

I'm fighting my way out from under 64 yrs worth of narc abuse. But I'm 3 months old today and I'm a whole different person than who they told me I was..freedoms ALWAYS comes at a price

[@jennaletizia5430]

Intermittent reinforcement forms the trauma bond. Very hard to break

[@kristinej.4182]

This video couldn’t have come at a better time bc I’m going through the trauma bond right now and it is very difficult to overcome. I know it takes time and knowledge like how you have explained. I try to remind myself every day that the relationship I had with my ex narc was all a lie and deception. You are right, there is no love with a narcissist. My ex narc was with me to get what he wanted and when he didn’t get “everything” he wanted, he discarded me. Thank you for the encouragement. 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 stay strong and continue to become educated 🙌☀️

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

Hi kristine 4 months on im wondering how you are now as I'm going thru this hell now. X

[@kristinej.4182]

@@JohnSmith-wo7ns With time it does get better so keep on the healing path. Tomorrow will be exactly 7 months for me since the discard (Aug 22, 2021) and I am definitely getting better each month so you will too. Like Andrew says in his videos, the recovery process is not linear. We will always have our ups and downs but the important thing is that we are moving forward not back. Focus on your well being, engage in positive activities and please try not to ruminate about the past. Put the narcissist in the past. We deserve so much better. We deserve healthy mined people. Narcs only want to destroy. Take care....

[@conniedomag3713]

I totally agree with you Kristine. I'm in it too and it is so hard realizing you gave everything and ended up devalued. What a cruel world. But the biggest move is acceptance that there is no way to change the past but move forward. The road to healing is so bumpy, I stumbled, got up, stumbled again, then got up with high hopes that one day I will be able to say, " I'm free and happy".

[@kristinej.4182]

@@conniedomag3713 Well said, Connie. The road to healing is very bumpy. I almost stumbled again last weekend but I am getting up and will try to stay up. It's so encouraging to know there are others working hard along with me to be "free and happy" again. Thank you!

[@artluvr6170]

Every day, I watch several of your videos and yet it is still bewildering to me that I used to be prey to narcissists. The more I watch videos and listen to messages like this, the more understanding I gain and the more I feel myself healing. I can't tell you how amazing you are for putting yourself and this information here for us to learn from. You are a godsend.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 😌🙌🙏

[@heavenlygrandma9992]

Asking the Universe for a world without Narcissists.

[@tanyawatts3896]

Thank you 🙏 I recently read a scripture that said “Should I, then, take the members of the Christ away and join them to a Harlot? By no means!’ What you said made me think of this scripture. I though, should a good person , a beautiful kind empath be joined to an evil narcissistic abuser?? By no means!! They simply don’t go together so keep what is sacred and you dignity with you.

[@amiriparks]

I understand trauma bonds now..👏👏👏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

When you do.. YOU DO..

[@rhondawampner688]

I'm crying so hard,

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

Big hugs it get better ❤

[@rsbrinkman9168]

Thank You Andrew well spoken . Yes we didn't die , didn't lose our minds , or take our lives . Didn't drive us over the edge into insanity . We did something they never could faced it , went through it , endured it , as painful , and disappointing as it was , and we are recovering Yet it destroyed them ? It's not like they to had space to repent. Somethings we need trust them to God.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Amen 🙏 thank you R S

[@meiw8358]

Andrew, you did a beautiful video with more knowledge, eye opening with Truman bound, I get it, thank you for your heart felt beautiful video thank you .

[@freetobememe4358]

You are right on. Thinking about the good times. I wrote down the insidious gaslighting, lies, because I kept forgetting and taking more and more.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Stay strong and know YOU have control ☀️✊☀️

[@AntiGovWuFluLies]

Thank you Andrew for your emotional honesty, I recognise how I've been 'mugged' of my good intentions by someone with none. God Bless you my friend 👍🏻

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 😌🙏💯

[@bertiejackrusty]

I, too, dove head-first into the deep end of the NPD education pool and sucked up like a sponge every drop I could get from the psychologists, therapists, experts, and even self-aware narcissists out there. There is so much power in education. So much strength began to materialize, and I surprised myself with my own decision to start taking steps…up and away. The facts and tactics learned from professionals are nice, but it is definitely important to also hear the stories of how other real “survivors” are doing it. Your stories are all lifting me up as well. Work on YOURSELF. Do what you LOVE. I took a children’s book writing class and found a NEW passion. Real love doesn’t ask you to mute yourself, it helps you reach your full potential…crank it to 11!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful reply thank you for this inspirational message ☀️☀️💯

[@ruthrickard8257]

Just to let you all know his favourite song was Wherever I Lay My Hat That’s My Home Should have been a Red Warning Sign and he was proud of it!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@jayneweaver8695]

One of the realizations that helped me go complete NC was the brutal honesty of a few YT'ers that stated "they hate you" "they never loved you" "NO one who loves you treats you like that" "they'll never be satisfied until you're destroyed." When I reviewed my relationships it all started with my dad, telling me "we expect that of you" no matter how well I did, whilst we got cake when my sister got a D in school. Dad graduated to calling me a crook at family gatherings when I succeeded in business. He never missed an opportunity to tell me how my appearance didn't measure up. I started there and blocked every single person close to him and I'm in the process of getting out of this town. Even my nieces 7 year old daughter started being insulting, new family members also chimed in, the insults, smears, accusations just accelerated. I'm starting to feel really, really good, 8 months now. Good luck and keep watching these invaluable videos Andrew puts out.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Jayne..🙏💯🙌

[@jeanetteshawredden5643]

Way to go Jayne. The smear campaigns are BRUTAL but it shows their TRUE Colors.

[@christinepettitt579]

I was born into it push pulled my entire life. At 56 I was discarded by my mother. At 58 I’m free to find myself. I don’t cry anymore. I did my best. I was never her daughter but I’m no longer her maid. Thankyou. Bless

[@ianrs4685]

i wish i'd known how disgusting and manipulative these people were,. a few years ago, i'm like wtf is going on ??

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely Ian.. I do.. 💯

[@richardlau2447]

Yup

[@racheldoesacrylic4089]

Ian rs you say what's going on? i say these narks all flew in on a bus from oz and infiltrated us, we as beautiful souls were bewitched by said NARKADALLIANS, who dallied with our emotions and soul till wonderful people like Andrew and others broke their spell with all their vids// love to all ps they gave us all a hell off a ride didn't they xx

[@PascalVanWaverenADVENTURE]

You are not a docter!!!! You are better than that❤. Namasty. Slowely i feel my energy is coming back because of you!!!!! No docter cut help me but know i learn to know this parasites❤ namasté 😊

[@mountainlion4853]

After over 40 years of being sorounded by narcs I will tell you this. The trauma is like the devil holding up a mirror to your face, you hear loving words and you repeat it back to yourself in the reflection of the mirror. All the kindness and love bombing is PURE manipulation, there is no rym or reason behind it only to score points for the game that they play. The trauma is you feeling guilty for all the good times YOU created, it was not a shared moment, it was your moment. The trauma is you reimagining a good memory and guilt shaming yourself and its constant like being on a hampster wheel. You did nothing wrong all the guilt and blame lyes with them. Hope this helps and Father in heaven bless you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏🙌💯💪

[@therealbronxilla]

This was really helpful.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 😊

[@karenlisenby2661]

Trama bonds never made sense to me…i didn’t fully understand what was going on for a while. It pushed me further away…I started to slowly prepare for the day of dissolution…preparing is so vital for future decisions…the day finally presented itself and he knew how I arrived at my decision for him to leave…he left and has been making me pay since, even more since before he left. I never knew evil like it has been demonstrated to me. I am not a victim…but a thriving individual looking forward to a new life and learning from past experiences…mine and others.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful progress Karen.. keep moving forward 🙌☀️

[@AZDC99]

They love to try to come back and play people like me or you if we dare try to see them in the non-exclusive manner (if you ever tried the FWB thing after the breakip). It's almost as she wanted me to know I was being triangulated with her new harem. But just as an mere outsider basically. With "friends" of hers. (She as never asked about or admitted any romantic things, but could not help but to mention her "friends.") She kept showing up and I finally removed myself from the situation. I recently had to force myself to stop accepting the breadcrumbs and future faking and move.on. I think i'll be at the thriving point soon enough myself after having recently having seen that day I was also "preparing for finally present itself." I need to stay strong and stick it. Good for you for maintaining that much needed discipline. Pray that I can pull it off again like I used to. (She keeps trying a week hearted /half-assed Hoover and I'm a little too insulted by it to continue)

[@belight6280]

After 4 months being ghosted after 8 yrs... she calls. We talked for 3 hrs.. most seemed heart felt, i asked her why she left, she said, I had to save myself. I asked from what? No answer. All I asked her was when do you think you can start help pay the rent again... lol wish I could make light of the whole situation but it's been the most horrific time in my life, she stole, lied cheated ... mostly was a mooch. Her mom is one of the poorest examples of a human I've ever seen. I tried to help but history always repeats. Wish she hadn't turned my adult kids into flying monkeys. Absolutely broke my heart. Therapist says I have ptsd (it's bad) that started in 2004 with exwife. I've attracted these broken people... NO MORE! Andrew you're experience and words of wisdom is priceless. Had she not drained me I'd love to pay it forward, to you. Building back now, its been excruciating to put it mildly. I was heavily trauma bonded. spent 3 months with 1 to 2 hrs of sleep. I was literally going crazy. went from second by second, now hr by hour. wow. a lifetime at 54 of nothing but brokenness. Emotionally immature, she's 30 but 5 yrs old emotionally. Very hard to understand at first. wow wow wow. Thank God you chose to wake up the world when you could have just saved yourself.

[@elainenilsson5472]

One time my lawyer got kinda tiffed with me and he said "Elaine, he has been manipulating you for 20 years!" That hurt. The neighbors that knew what was going on every time I went out of town hurt. No one ever told me. This went on for 8 years or more. I gave up my career in meteorology for him and cut grass for 20 years. And no one told me. I cut my neighbors yards for free yet no one told me. Guess what, they got so comfortable that they would go out to our local restaurants. I run 2 businesses from the house, I sell German Shepherd puppies and I had a lawn care business. My customers were not my neighbors and THEY told me.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏💯🙌

[@kimkoch3272]

Its odd, i always said i felt like his “employee” it was an emotional rollercoaster. NPD mixed with BPD, is a recipe for disaster. I thought i was going crazy, the lies, deceit, emotional and financial control, depleted my soul. And broke my heart. I never could understand how someone who claimed to love, never really did at all.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Great insight Kim.. I too felt like this.. wow

[@vaughn7130]

Its a painful experience, and healing I know will be a journey for sure, I'd love to support and be supportive

[@moirabijker7117]

This resonates with me. My ex-husband still tries to control me with money. He is legally obligated to pay child maintenance but as we know by now these people don't play by any rules but their own. So if he wants to threaten withholding, then so be it. I am now keeping my money for myself (I used to give him some to help pay my rent). But since he is obviously not interested in being fair, neither am I. Every cent I make will now be spent on healing me, becoming kind and loving towards myself. All the money I work hard to earn belongs to me and my beautiful children. The Narc can make a plan like he has forced me to do so many times.

[@Scorpscorpdorp]

This resonates with me too. My N Ex was narcissitic and didn't treat his Bipolar. I felt like a mother, employee, therapist, etc. The last thing I felt like was his girlfriend. I once said during the relationship that I felt like loving him was a 'full time job'. Ofcourse he had narcisstic parents and he hated his mom and I lost myself so much being all the supply he never got his entire life. He envied me my entire life.

[@christopherbirdsong2274]

@@Scorpscorpdorp how the heck do you get overcome that bit of craziness, realizing you are this person's biggest and only person they've had, but you know you aren't meant to be a parent, best friend, husband/wife, emotional support, some are our co parent. Etc. It's not fair because they give nothing. Nada. They take and take!! And we are all yahoos! I feel like a naive fool! I'm so done with it all though, completely, fully, and forever. It's a bunch of vindictive, sadistic, selfish, zero shame, absolutely none of that! If I acted like the vampire's, I'd feel too embarrassed to even show my face at a grocery store, let alone the parading, peacocking sick f's have the balls to do. I feel like they always are causing scenes and as long as they keep up their lies, dishonesty, and other host of tom foolery they pull, that they appear to assume nobody questions this bs?! Just wow. But good for you. Congrats on getting your life back and all that comes with that for you in the beauty that is life.

[@leticiarobles-peterson3863]

15 years married, going through a very painful divorce. we have three teenage children. I cannot block him and keep him out of my life. He is the father of my children. What is best going forward

[@humanistology]

Gray Rock! If not familiar with it, research it…very affective against the narcissist! Be strong, don’t give in; remember that there is no “reasoning” with him. Good Luck❤️‍🩹

[@cindychiarilli8820]

I'm very new to this at a ripe old age. I had no idea what was happening! And I'm not an idiot or crazy! But I'm doing my homework! Which is making me happy but is driving the narcissistic nincompoop crazy! My cell phone carrier blocks numbers, texts and phone calls. But this doesn't include voicemails. Which I receive once a month so the hoover remains in place. It sucks but I'm at a point where I listen partially to the lies on the voicemail, "I miss you, come over and pick me up, I need you, I'm making beef jerky and it reminded me of you-no, that's not abusive at all"! Delete, giggle, breathe, focus on me right here, right now, let it go, let it be. In the painful process of delving into all the horsesh-t from the past, staring it down, letting me feel and letting it go. Hoping to come out the other side remembering to NEVER dance with the devil again. Thank you for your videos. They are helping immensely!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Cindy.. 🙌🙏

[@lisavansant961]

I know how hard it is he's tried to suck me in more than once but I've held firm when I contact him or he contacts me it makes me sicker God bless you in Jesus name

[@rhondawampner688]

This is the second time I'm listening to this. Trying to get through this. I got rid of him first, he didn't get it at first. So then he ended things. Blocked me from social media. I blocked him too.

[@monicagreen6217]

I just want to encourage those going through this really hard piece to dig deep within for inner strength, I have no one to talk to abt what I'm going through, plus I would feel embarrassed to do so, what I use to help me whenever I'm really down, I think of the goodness and purity of my heart, knowing fully well that my intentions were good, and that evil will never overcome good, that's what keeps me going, along with these videos from Andrew: God bless👍💯

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Monica 💯🙌🙏😊☀️

[@faith5217]

Andrew "THANK YOU" I was in a horrible marriage for over 35 years. I married At 18 years old and just discovered narcissists and the trauma bonding techniques. I lived for the "love bomb" phase and it never came back. Intentional TRAUMA BONDING kept me hostage for far too long. PPL PLEASE DON'T DELAY, SCHEDULE A ONE ON ONE SESSION WITH ANDREW TODAY. His coaching sessions have changed my life for the better....

[@ladyoftheveil8342]

I broke it by flying over a thousand miles away from him and I did it alone . Suddenly my support system wasn’t there for me . Found out my what I thought was my BFF was just a another flying monkey. And my other close girl friend just got mad that I moved away from Florida cursed me out for moving to the mountains and we haven’t spoken since then . Even my own son quit talking to me . He doesn’t call or answer my calls . I lost everyone by leaving him. And I still won’t ever go back .

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I appreciate your insight and sharing.. thank you Ginger.. keep your boundaries high ☀️🙏🙌

[@thebigh9635]

You have found peace in yourself I hope , but you are not responsible for others peace , they must find that within themselves 😎🙏

[@COSMICCFREQUENCY144]

Good for you! I’m glad the universe restored your peace!!!! Blessings to you and I pray you find restoration in your spirit and let the universe guide you to authentic people

[@JohnSmith-wo7ns]

Youre 💪💪💪

[@samanthap1389]

I was married to a severe, covert narcissist for 40 years. I knew something was VERY wrong with our relationship, but - its like trying to nail jello to a tree. There's evidence... that no one else can see. There's behaviors that no one else would believe. There is abuse that you cannot prove. I was pushed away, ignored, purposely excluded from events & trips. Money taken out of our retirement fund without discussing it with me - tens of thousands of dollars - for self- promotion & "marketing". I was chased down a flight of stairs... multiple times, while being raged at for questioning said taking of money. I was bullied - emotionally, verbally & financially. After I wised up & requested he get counseling for narcissism, I was lied to, then systematically discarded.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this insight 🙏💯🙌

[@elainesetford549]

Andrew, I can’t stress enough on how your videos are helping me. Everything you say is so true! 100% in every video I watch. I feel so much better in myself, and that’s all down to you. Thank you so much 🙂

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 💯💯

[@fourandsixpants4276]

I did my work. But after 5 years of having left the monster I shared 30 years of my life with I couldn't break the cords of the trauma bond. So I got assist. Deep in the Earth, in a very beautiful cave full of golden and violet hues of light ✨ I had help from Spirit Guides and wise ancestors. Breaking that trauma bond is so possible. Keep looking for your way to break it. I promise you, it's doable. Love and light, Blessings 💖✨

[@mommabear7144]

I want to tell Andrew, Thankyou, Thankyou for helping others. Your story sounds like mine. I’m now 4 years of peace and joy. Living the best moments of my life. I want to emphasize that we have to work on ourselves and do things that we like. Write down a journal also helps. No contact is the only way. Unless you have kids with them. Just talk to them short and simple without emotion. One thing that help me was I cried to God and pray and read scriptures and gospel music. I also got a lot of massages, pedicures and nails done. Oh also facials. I cut off all the people involving with the the ex. And watched a lot of videos. That helped me a lot and helped me with what to do. God bless us all.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Momma bear..🙌☀️

[@moirabijker7117]

Love this, thanks. I am getting a mani-and pedicure on Tuesday. Taking care of myself, spending my money on self-care instead of giving it to the Narc. What I earn is mine.

[@gorunsko31]

Thank you for your story. I am years behind you, still in trauma bond. Instinctively, I also turned to facials (at Aveda Institute as a "practice" client to students) and am thinking about getting pedicure there....this is my self healing attempt...would love to be free, but have adult children and grandkids with narc. I keep an eye on educating videos and books, plus looking at my very first trim bond with my mom. Congratulations on breaking free.👏🙏

[@clairecole1736]

Going ‘no contact’ is difficult not only with young children (shared custody) but also when you have grown up kids like I do. They mention things about their dad unintentionally, and I find it hard to say ‘don’t mention his name’ because that’s unfair to them and unreasonable to put that stress on them.

[@kimhumiston2686]

Once you take a stand against a narcissist family member, be prepared for other family members to turn against you. Happening to me. Has totally taken me by surprise, but, that's okay. I'll deal with it and will learn who is really important in my life. Blessings to all dealing with this. Thank you Andrew. ❤

[@juliekay5756]

I'm really glad I've found your videos. You're experience and knowledge will go a long way in helping others heal from these toxic individuals. Like you Andrew, I did my research, I joined in the chat groups, I bought the books, I listened to countless videos and I spent the time to understand it all. Our stories seem very similar but you have a way about you and you are very well spoken that you have the ability to reach people and help them in their healing journey. God bless you. There's a reason you are who you are!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Julie.. I appreciate your kindness and honesty.. ☀️💯❤️🙌🙏

[@carmengomez8062]

👌🙏👌☘👊✌⚓

[@kalingakrishna2705]

I see you as my brother, Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏💜

[@christyphillips3992]

Everything you have said is 100 percent true!!.the trauma bond and tears are no joke..i could not believe none of it was real on his part until I educated myself..there was nothing I wouldn't of done for him only to get nothin in return ..but lies!!..stay strong warriors and get to the other side of this..we can overcome..💕

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand completely Christy.. I too felt this way.. 🙏🙌☀️

[@hj8501]

❤Thank you for sharing your transitions out of the ❤FOG....

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌😇

[@ingechappell5800]

Thank you for your support and the educational value of your videos. The trauma bond is so hard to break because it really messes with your own sense of reality. It's crazy making...that you could be so adored in the love bomb stage and then be completely discarded. I still feel a real sense of shame and failure from having been so conned. As an intelligent person with a psychology qualification, how on earth did I allow this to happen? How could I fall for it? I think that we all want so desperately to be loved and accepted, to receive someone's attention. With a Narc, that attention upfront is like a drug which quickly becomes an addiction. It's like Stockholm Syndrome, captured and imprisoned, reliant on what seems initially to be such high grade adoration.

[@brigitte2217]

Thank you 👏 feeling the same way 😢love from Germany

[@VioletOne88]

🥺🤟🏼💔😢 YOU are SO courageous & strong Andrew. You did NOT deserve ANY of that horrific abuse. It was NOT your fault AT ALL!!! U can be PROUD of who you are & how far you have come!!!🥇🥇🥇💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼😊😊😊🏆🏆🏆 Omgosh the Trauma youhad to go through. You are brave & honorable!!! Hold ur head HIGH!!! 🔥🔥🔥💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💯💯💯 🥺Realizing I had to break a Trauma Bond w my own Daughter (only child & Miracle Baby) is THE most difficult & painful thing I've had to face, even after ALL I've been through. So f hard & painful. 💔🥺😫 What I'm struggling w is she is/was a Child!!! The Narcs & others were all Adults. Who is the Narc that made me the "Unpaid Helper" ? Is the Bio--Father DIFFERENT than what I've been told? 😳I need to know. WHO would the Narc actually be? Or, is SHE the Narcissist? I mean, I know she was brainwashed by the evil Narcs around us, is it ONLY the brainwashing & it can't be undone? ©️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜

[@overcomer4060]

I've been binge-watching videos on this channel, I just recently discovered it, and it's now a favorite for great information from someone who had been through the fire. This video is just gold; so much information on how to break that nasty trauma bond. When I first began researching narcissism approximately a year ago, I learned lots of terms and what they meant. However, I felt that a few of the terms did not apply to me, and the trauma bond was one of them, I thought, "oh no, that one isn't me." The reason was because I was the one who left him; a year ago I saw that he was still lying to me after 4 years of giving him another chance, my trust was destroyed. So I left him, saying we'd live separate lives, and I've no contact for a year. I got divorce papers in the mail a couple months ago, and for whatever reason, maybe the sheer finality of it, it brought lots of hurt to the surface. And I have fought this insane urge to lash out on him and let him know about all the sly, shady stuff that I know he was doing. And I've had wildly fluctuating emotions, from deep grief, to almost a rage, and all in between. Sigh. The trauma bond is real. Even when you know they're trash, that trauma bond is no joke. BUT I'VE BEEN WORKING ON MYSELF, AND BETTERING MY LIFE, AND THAT HAS HELPED THE MOST. Thanks for a great video.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏 I appreciate your kindness and am grateful to be able to share my experiences and insight with you 🙏☀️💯

[@valerielongmore5040]

Well said I totally agree, I feel what Andrew says relates the best because he speaks honestly , his experiences benefit us all who have found him. Its really helping me a huge amount. Cheers

[@kimgordon3695]

Your words are very helpful. Dis- associate yourself from their antics

[@kimgordon3695]

They will fawn about when they had you under their full control. It's not a loving relationship. The reality is You were never valued. Take good care ❤️

[@moirabijker7117]

I relate to all of this. I gave my ex-husband way too many chances because I felt I had to stay "nice" for our children's sake and because I believe in fairness. Now I know how dangerous this is. No or absolute minimum contact is the only way out. I may not survive another attack by this heartless creature. God help us all. Stay strong. The feelings are intense but they do subside eventually. You are among friends as I also found Andrew's channel and this community recently. 🌷💖

[@nancycrandall4545]

Unfortunately, this is hardest part when you’re willing to forgive someone you love. I don’t want to remember the toxic parts and then I get duped again.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Agree completely 💯🙌☀️

[@moirabijker7117]

This is me. I just cannot seem to remember how cruel and vicious these creatures are. In last 2 days I wrote down all his words and their implications for me and my children coming (astonishly, not) to the conclusion that he does not have our best interests at heart. How many more times do I need to experience this!? I struggle to let go and keep that door, windows and gate closed. Now I am implementing my actions and using all the tools I have.

[@nancycrandall4545]

@@moirabijker7117 I agree that it’s painful. I miss the good times and the groups he’s part of (none of them know the truth about his double life - he puts a lot of energy into acting normal around them, which must exhaust him). I miss the good parts and then I snap out of it and remember, wait, for any moments of pure joy or happiness I enjoyed with him, I paid for it in equal amounts of time in fear, confusion, sadness, anxiety, and humiliation. He pulled the rug out from under me on a regular basis. They’re emotional and physical vampires. Not worth it ever again.

[@moirabijker7117]

@@nancycrandall4545 thank you for sharing your experience. I wrote some more reminders this morning. Words like Danger, highly toxic and corrosive, avoid all contact. Will cause severe suffering and may even lead to death. Stay far away.

[@mostHigh23]

I broke it in 2021...no support system. Only you Andrew 😜...I was right behind you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉💪💪

[@cathyferran7291]

Andrew this is why I love your channel and content and everyday in healing I see things more clearly and it is scary that as a smart person, I could have been fooled so much but then again I am the empath too, finding a balance is a process everyday and I'm getting stronger but there are good and bad days but I can finally stop blaming myself now, thank you for what you are doing, it is appreciated and it is nice knowing I am not the only one

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌💜🙏

[@SweetTeaRN77]

You are not alone. I’m here as well. And here for you.

[@MaryJulkowski-p1v]

Andrew, Oh Precious Andrew. I Thank You, So Much. I Love You.❤

[@johnscholetzky2899]

After leaving a comment here, a song came into my mind from my past, as a 50's song. It was called I think or went like this: "Oh, Oh, Oh, 'YES, I'M THE GREAT PRETENDER!" Living a life that I'm NOT YOU SEE and wearing my face like a Clown! WOW I BELIEVE that back then, some were experiencing Narcissism, but trying to explain it to a song 🎵 🤔 Amazing 👏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏🙌

[@graceruiz4509]

Dealing with this with my mother. I love her more then words but she has hurt me much entire life. I see through the mask and I've became aware of the person she is. It's heart breaking.

[@iconsnart]

Im so sorry. This is utter pain and sorrow. Hope you feel better 💗

[@lulumoon6942]

Revenge is often a fool's errand, but your revenge seems in avenging others!😎 Thank you for your strength and faith, Andrew! ❤️🙏💞

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

My pleasure!🙏😉😊

[@leilagomulka5690]

The fact that you are not a doctor but went through so much and you are so on the mark makes your testimony incredibly powerful. I can’t thank you enough.

[@rosemichog1279]

God's grace and peace be with you too 🙏✨💜

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 🙏💯

[@shaeholden1743]

VERY well said! When I left there was no longer any love left, so there was no difficulty whatsoever in my not looking back. And my mind is still reeling from learning about narcissistic abuse and am STILL learning...and that it's such a large community of abused people. Thank you for your level-headed presentation. And thank you for encouraging words to help others. Bless you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Shae.. 🙏🙌☀️

[@nadulamb4141]

No support system but the POWER OF MY FATHER IN HEAVEN, is how this newfound freedom is possible to me. Just found you! Thanks SOOOO- MUCH for all your dedication to us in need 🙏 God Bless you over and beyond 👏👏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Amen 🙏

[@Zoeybelle13]

Thank you, Andrew! Friends think I’m taking too long to “get over” my relationship with my ex-fiancé. It’s been 3 months (after 4 years of a very tumultuous time together). I have been reading a listening for the 3 months, and it’s still hard. 😢 I know he’s a narcissist and I know it was a very toxic situation (and he has blamed me saying I have problems, too). It’s getting easier, but I have a ways to go. 💔

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙌🙏💯💪💯

[@crosskross]

Thank you for sharing brother 🙏🙏🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏