Brian is left ANNOYED after Ingrid Refuses to be his Caretaker! 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

[@dominiqueuniquenique9752]

Ingrid had no idea what she was getting into. He portrayed himself as an independent and self-sufficient man. But when he shows up, all of a sudden he needs help with everything.

[@justjo7282]

He's a manipulative liar!!

[@NJItalianGal747]

​@@justjo7282 yes creeper

[@placruise]

Ingrid has a choice ! She is not a bad person for choosing not to . The real problem is not the wheelchair , the problem is the jerk in the chair. Run Ingid Run!

[@nevereverforever0010-uf9su]

yup

[@smartguy360]

Dude cant read the room, she got turned off from day 1 when he tried to make her do his catheter and even further when he tried to do oral without asking first.

[@Pewa879]

Dude wears a catheter??

[@ikeeiie78]

Facts he couldn’t read a book 😂

[@VeronicaW-e3d]

If a person could be 'cringe'...it'd be HIM.

[@jasg771]

​@@VeronicaW-e3dI find Loren more cringe😂

[@nickyb7266]

Definitely! You are right! She just wants holidays and gifts and for him to leave 😂

[@alc4080]

This guy really sickens me. He has 4 marriages, and complains that she may judge him for his past. He has a lengthy past. He was a drug dealer. He was a criminal. He married several women whom he divorced. He is a failure at everything. He wants service, not a wife. He is still married to the last one. Plus, he is so creepy. I can't watch him bc he makes me sick. He is old. He is selfish. He is a horrible lover. He is pushy. He is a potential stalker. He manipulates with cheap gifts. Let me count the ways..........

[@justjo7282]

Exactly!! His past is STILL his present!! He hasn't proved that he's changed one bit. He might not use drugs anymore but still has the manipulative behavior of a druggie!!

[@jasg771]

How did those 4 women fall for him?😅

[@KimberlyFertitta]

You nailed my exact thoughts he is so cringe!

[@theriawilliams818]

And for all those reasons she said yes so she has a part to play as well maybe she thought he had a lot of money like those older rich men in wheelchairs ..She knows better now...

[@vanessaguzman9553]

@@jasg771 they all got green cards

[@April-t6z]

If he had any class at all, he'd use a at home nurse while courting her. He just wants a nurse with benefits. He's got literally nothing to offer anyone. This is why you treat your partner how you'd want to be treated. It's hard finding a new one as a charity case.

[@jasg771]

You treat your partner how u wanna be treated. Well said! That's precisely why he ended up crippled. Cos he cheated on his ex and she hired people to get rid of him.

[@tidespring6909]

wonderful comment🔥🔥🔥

[@Mzathenna]

Nurse with benefits … damn 😂

[@jw5275]

In an Airbnb in separate rooms bc no… but right away. He threw her right into a lie. Shame on him.

[@heatherhartman6474]

He is SOOOOO CRAZY!!!! 😱 😨 Ain't no one wants him!!😂😂

[@ikeeiie78]

I am a wheelchair user broke my spine in two places and this guy pisses me off. He uses his disability for attention it’s cringe and makes rest of us look bad. We ARE not like this at all.

[@kittyroxs]

We know ❤ (its ok i can speak for all of humanity. That doesnt include brian btw.)

[@ikeeiie78]

@@kittyroxs lol

[@agenaw2877]

I'm in a wheelchair because of a drunk driver when I was 17, I actually had guys get mad because I wouldn't let them help me. I told them if I do it I'll do it but if I can't reach something I'll ask but I don't want to depend on anyone. Where there's a will there's a way and I find it. 😊

[@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin]

You.Are. Excellent. ❤

[@monejohn9973]

I've never meet a piece of ish like him being disabled...he's an entitled narcissistic with zero empathy or compassion for others.

[@MsSweetoothj]

This guy is just a xes tourist who wants an auxiliary nurse to care for him and wheel him around when he becomes more infirm. The way he keeps plying her younger son with gifts is manipulative and creepy.

[@Gonzokeywest45]

LOL! No 50 yr old woman would want to take care of him neither 😂

[@MissClaudettes]

100%. Maybe an elderly lady in her 80s but how much could she do. He needs a nurse. Your woman isn’t your nurse.

[@Gonzokeywest45]

@MissClaudettes I'm starting to think Loren should move in with Brian. I think Loren would do anything for free rent and food. Including catheter 🤣

[@MissClaudettes]

@ 😂😂😂😂😂😂What a great iidea!!!!

[@heatherhartman6474]

​@@Gonzokeywest45😂😂😂😂😂OMGAWD!!! You're right!! 😂😂😂

[@Quantum_Physics123]

Old men like Ryan who got ran thru, used to be a player, drug addict and a criminal…. in his older age he wants a good woman now, after he treated his past relationships with infidelities & divorce(s). It doesn’t work like that buddy. You should have appreciated what you had when you had it. And women aren’t your rehab center. And the commentator in this video is 1000 percent correct when he said that Ryan needs to find someone his old age or older. Obviously Ryan’s old ways didn’t work in the past, so he needs to stop chasing younger women. He should be looking for love, not a free caretaker (In a relationship) .

[@thechannelofself]

Exactly!!👏👏👏👏

[@joycewalbert1413]

AMEN! Well said!

[@mellorose1436]

Brian: lies about his age Brian: I'm getting Older, you know. You're gonna have to step up in to that cath queen role!😂

[@painhaus4110]

Cath queen killed me.

[@heatherhartman6474]

Yeah, he's TOO GROSS!! 🤢 🤮

[@massiahgrom]

I dated a guy who was very manipulative like him . He got fired . No way .

[@JG-po3ip]

Run Ingrid.

[@VeronicaW-e3d]

...right after you puncture his tyres!

[@nancydashiell1429]

Ingrid is no dummy. She knows something is off about this man

[@cynthiagerold2340]

Ingrid, please walk away.

[@movingmad.]

savage, why not run away?

[@stellag4301]

Ingrid also needs to stop playing the pretend game. She needs to leave him alone and move on. 🤷

[@loredanadincu7930]

F off she doesen't have a gun at his head keeping him there. He keeps coming back to her

[@LisaR139]

You are absolutely right!. Also, she has a very young child, all her energy needs to be for him

[@autumn7031]

So disgusting. WTF would make him believe that after all of his insane behavior she's going to lay down for him other than his incredible narcissism? I think at this point she was really trying to be nice because of his circumstances, but that's a direct result of his gaslighting. There's a fine line between empathy and pity and he's nothing but a victim baiter.

[@TerryB67]

He's turned out to be a real creep!

[@pj2192]

This creep is relentless. Can I have? No. Okay, give it to me. No! Umm, so come to my room, clean me up, and service me, OKAY bish? Icky 😵‍💫

[@chezshirecat1872]

Being someone's caregiver is a big ask, your life becomes that person- which is okay if you choose that life. My mother did when her husband got really sick, before he got really sick she decided to stay by his side because she loved him. It was hard on her and Brian forcing this life on someone is wrong.

[@April-t6z]

If he took the time to build intimacy, it could be different, but he's too myopic. Knowing full well, if she became incapacitated, she's be on her own.

[@darlenebrown2108]

What makes Brian thinks that he's all that? So immature and entitled. Needs to grow up.

[@majortruth217]

Brian is a self centered user, his four marriages show he is manipulative & wears the women out. Ingrid is too young for him, she needs to concentrate on raising her two sons! 🥶😱😰😨

[@annapreble]

Someone who lives with mobility issues in the United States should expect to have a paid position for those kinds of tasks rather than acting entitled to her unpaid labor imo

[@jw5275]

Better get that Medicaid home health aid

[@annapreble]

@jw5275 I don't know much about benefits in the US but are disabled people really that much on their own? I thought social security could at least assist with the costs....

[@falliblewonder]

What does this dude even offer? All i hear is "me me me. How will she serve me" and she is a mother. . . He is expecting her to leave her country and wants more care than her children. . . Like what is he offering her?

[@maryB1142]

Creepy how he made her son get in his car for a present! Exactly what you Don’t want to teach a kid!

[@Heather3HO]

Thought it was creepy,too, don't come by,ya.

[@captainlarrynosleepfishing5350]

Dude she’s not into you! You’ve been divorced four times already, give up already!😳

[@fearthemonkey-72]

What free trip to Brazil? She’s already there.

[@mysurfing3550]

Dudes... Most women will find care taking duties unattractive. Taking care of kids is a chore women are tasked with not some life passion don't get it twisted.

[@0.0dots]

Personally I find it quite rewarding and satisfying. I have a two-year-old and another on the way, my fiance works and I stay at home. It's hectic yes and I wish at times I got more breaks than I do but I'm grateful that I have the opportunity to take care of my child as much as I do. Not a chore for me. I guess you just gotta find what makes you happy in life and run with that. Seeing something grow and take shape based on your hard work is truly something special ❤

[@vellabella1]

​@@0.0dotsGood for you and many others. But not all women want to do this. It is great, that you have a choice. A spouse that can support you , you and your spouse both agree and have the same idea and you stepping up to be a great mom because children dont asked to be born. But this dude is trying to guilt trip her. He has nothing to offer except his nationality passport status. She can find better elsewhere. He cannot even satisfy her sexually

[@0.0dots]

@vellabella1 I understand that but the same can be said about other women. Just because some find it fulfilling doesn't mean they're wrong or the ones who don't find it fulfilling that doesn't mean they're wrong either.

[@agricolaregs]

Taking care of your partner is a duty of marriage. He’s skipping the whole relationship that comes before taking care of a partner.

[@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin]

I promise you Brian will be the most selfishly disappointing lover Ingrid has ever had, if she lets him try. Nothing to do with his limbs. Everything to do with his brain.

[@lilysagecreates]

I think Brian is looking for a hospice wife.

[@VeronicaW-e3d]

Keep in mind...his ex-wife was trying to leave him when he got shot, but she saw it as her duty to stay with him to help him through his recovery...for 2 whole years if I remember correctly...then what does he turn around and do as thanks...?? This horse-headed mofo POS SCREWS AROUND ON HER behind her back, would you believe??!! He's complete trash, and I LUV that Ingrid's mum had the wisdom to see right through his BS. It was hilbloodyarious seeing her visit...lol!!

[@mommav0107]

I thought the ex wife staged the shooting…

[@annicklagace7414]

Ya actually the ex wife is responsible for the shooting.. He had a new girlfriend , who stuck around thru the whole recovery

[@KJ-ut4rw]

I married a quadriplegic after 2 years of long distance dating. I understand where Brian is coming from ref his cathing needs etc, BUT his partner needs to have a choice whether she wants to be involved in it or not. This life is not for everyone, as it can be very overwhelming no matter how much you love the person, and Brian trying to push this on her will backfire. Brian needs to go at his partners speed, no matter what.

[@harrietyounger6118]

Through thick and thin coming from the man who cheated on wife and has a divorce lawyer on speed dial. I get the feeling she would take those vows seriously but it would have to be the right guy she isn't the one making and breaking vows he is.

[@joywebster2678]

She has 2 different baby daddy's, sure, really a devoted wife type. Shexwas introduced as looking for a man who'd move her to USA, and su Port hercand her kids. Brian's creepy but she's not an angel.

[@harrietyounger6118]

@joywebster2678 fair enough If true .my point is she hasn't taken marriage vows and broken them but Brian has multiple times so he can't judge her for that.

[@magical_michelle_]

He is SO gross. He is slimy and just wants one thing.

[@mollyrodriguez7416]

That he can’t even feel!!

[@terry1545]

For a man that said he has no feeling below his waist Sure is pressuring Ingrid to get intimate with him. I hope she doesn’t Run Ingrid

[@fearthemonkey-72]

I’m falling to understand what the attraction is for her here, other than to be on TV. I can’t see one redeeming quality in him. He’s a POS on four wheels. I never thought I’d say something like that about a disabled person. I do not see what’s in it for her. I don’t think it’s money, and if she wants a father figure for her kid she’s certainly able to do better. I suspect she would have dropped him day one had it not been for the TV contract.

[@DN-kf4gg]

Same, I fast forward through their segments. He is just too creepy.

[@everythingtraumaic5069]

r we forgetting her can hire a caregiver to come into his home daily.

[@vellabella1]

For some reason I dont think he has the financial means?

[@everythingtraumaic5069]

@@vellabella1 if that were true...how could he afford to go to brazil, spend all this money on taking his women around. it is said before that TLC does not pay for trips...so I dont believe that..

[@tootiefknfruity3233]

I’m thinking, he should get with Angela Deem.. perfect match! (Can’t stand how he sits in his chair, slumped over, like, “feel sorry for me” pose. Such a creepy person..

[@vellabella1]

Angela would SA him every night. He would be kept captive and abused

[@cathy_clarinet]

She’s too young and beautiful to be tied down like this. Let’s not forget he dropped the bombs on her that he’s an ex drug dealer, addict, married 4 times and I believe he’s still married! He seems like maybe he has no money, as well

[@Basque-Aragon]

Thanks for the remark about women in their 50's and how they still have it! We do, indeed 😉

[@monawilson1562]

Ingrid is not married to Brain, so I agreed she should not sign up to be his caregiver.

[@kittyroxs]

Thank you for what you said about older women 😊 (an older woman 😅 )

[@Shut-up-Shelly]

These toxic men need to stay alone and stop subjecting women to be their slave. They suck the life from their victims. They don’t deserve to be taken care of at allllll. Stay alone and grow the f up Brian!!

[@ikeeiie78]

Why would she want to do anything for him when he can’t respect her feelings at all !!!

[@Bella-wayne23]

He is disgusting and just wants a care giver and still trying to force him self on her she doesn’t want it like read the room. You don’t need sex to take it to the next level for a relationship smh

[@micheletaylor3952]

He needs to hire a nurse,& maybe have ladies of the nite on speed dial.

[@francesWheeler-sx3bt]

I can’t stand Brian he is delusional!!! He is a gross man 🤮🤢 why is Ingrid with him ???? I guess the money is good on TLC 🤑

[@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin]

Brian needs to check himself into an animal shelter so he can be adopted by someone who *wants* to feed and clean him. They can arrange play dates and his breeding schedule.

[@mollyrodriguez7416]

He doesn’t deserve any love that is meant for a shelter animal!

[@Love11904]

Very pitiful man..

[@hopefultraveler3543]

She wants that green card and he wants a caretaker w/benefits. At this point it's just a negotiation. She needs to beware his manipulations; he will baby-trap her if he can.

[@daddams100]

You were spot on today with this analysis! 👍🏽

[@tyraharris2090]

he’s in such a rush to be intimate with her, not thinking or caring about the experience for her.

[@cherylstrauss4084]

He should just go away already!

[@sweetbrown2256]

He keep dreaming let he keep on dreaming keep on dreaming Brian you are a clone clone clone clone Ingrid. Ingrid is such a sweet girl and Ingrid put our foot down. She’s not a stupid girl. This one is a serious girl.

[@pattiw4069]

We all know he could care less about Ingrid's feelings. He's only in it for two things, sex for himself and caregiver. He's disgusting AND still married as of this filming.

[@Jennifer-gd1xj]

RUN Ingrid!!!!! Get FAR AWAY from this loser!!!

[@anitahargreaves9526]

Wow, wow, wow, that's all I have? 🤔

[@cynthiagalindo9997]

I think that Brian guy watched too much Brazilian corn

[@Curlygurly81]

3:37 like a law older than she thought considering he lied about his age he's old enough to be her father

[@Arista177]

Why is she having her son call this man uncle? Unless it is just a Cultural thing

[@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin]

It’s a cultural thing. 🙂

[@Fridgepictures]

Dump this creepy liar. Her parents are right. She shoukd dump him. She does not need this putrid guy.

[@graywill8983]

I hope Ingrid wakes up. This guy has creep written all over him.

[@jw5275]

She was not into him from day one. You saw exactly when the shift happened during the filming. He loaded her up with a fantasy for over a year online and when she finally met him, reality sunk in. Unfortunately, it’s also in the hands of a production company and worldwide audience.

[@mrchips4489]

He's slimy and Ingrid needs to be done with him yesterday already.

[@laviniabatie5491]

She is too young for him, to be a care taker

[@Beepscat1]

BRIAN - ICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@vaness7437]

What he needs to do is hire help! Quit putting all this responsibility and expectation on Ingrid or on any potential partner, especially right off the bat like that! If someone truly falls in love with him, it's likely they'll want to help him to some degree at least. And it doesn't matter if the woman is his age or older, he needs a professional, not put everything on a future partner before she's even committed to him.

[@judyboyle9232]

They are both losers. She should have made an educated opinion the first time she met him.

[@Curlygurly81]

2:22 no Brian is the loser kind of guy that wants everything easy he wanted money easy so he became a drug dealer. He thinks that if he has a woman he has a right to her body and that she is just there to serve him. It's really clear that his mother brought him up to be a spoiled brat

[@nubianhoney4721]

He is so creepy I fast forward when he is on the screen

[@ESLEDUCATE]

She knows that is her fate

[@FakeApologize]

Lol. The harsh truth

[@vanessaguzman9553]

She is not attracted to him. I get the feeling she is even grossed out . She is only considering this relationship because she wants to consider moving to the US to live a better life for her and her son. There is no love …at least on her end .

[@arianabaker2400]

Caretaker she's got children you are still married she needs to walk away

[@kathleenzajkowski6612]

FYI. I am almost 70 and I’m still riding my horse and my dirt bike. Must be my Viking blood.

[@ThouSwell-zx3fd]

Hey fellow Viking😊

[@kathleenzajkowski6612]

@@ThouSwell-zx3fddoes your name have anything to do with the song?

[@ThouSwell-zx3fd]

@@kathleenzajkowski6612 🎵Thou swell, thou witty, thou sweet, thou grand.. Maybe.

[@kathleenzajkowski6612]

@@ThouSwell-zx3fd Ella or Natalie?

[@ThouSwell-zx3fd]

@@kathleenzajkowski6612 I liked June Allyson's version.

[@brianne1547]

get away Ingrid listen to your mother

[@NoneNone-bd2of]

No woman at any age would want to be with him for numerous reasons. And everytime he talks he makes it somehow worse. He needs to stay in his league and stop thinking he can get involved with a younger woman. And it’s not like he’s a millionaire because that might change things. And she looks pretty good in a bathing suit so you have no chance.

[@gemmarobinson4624]

He's pathetic after his actions and full on lies she deserves better by far . He's nasty and creepy 🤡he lied about his age that's massive he's punching above his weight

[@vikkiadamson4732]

Behave😂😂😂im in my fifties and ive off loaded the kids and enjoying my independence looking after my grandkids 😂😂😂❤🇬🇧

[@realvirginia]

Shoot . I'm 51 and I'm still doing what I do.

[@nevereverforever0010-uf9su]

older woman

[@AS8643]

He has a hint of Big Ed vibes.

[@jmhollingsworth8396]

He’s just gives me creepy perv vibes

[@patti8247]

That guy discust me

[@lillydejesus9510]

Pick somebody in your own age. Then maybe you have a chance.

[@TT_09]

He knows better. Women his own age would clock his bs a mile away.

[@kimmoore8512]

Run 🏃 Ingrid

[@jennieg821]

Nor a 60 year old hire a psw

[@harrietyounger6118]

How many times does this man say interment?

[@movingmad.]

lol until he gets it, sadly

[@harrietyounger6118]

@movingmad. Yh Ur right .I was thinking it could be a drinking game every time he says it have a drink.

[@BlackRoyalsCuisine]

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@NJItalianGal747]

Ingrid run

[@jhood6152]

I’m the first to comment

[@ericw8478]

Wouldn't be surprised if Ingrid was secretly turned on by Brian's desperation. Bet if he stopped all of a sudden she'd start asking if he found someone else and pitch a Jasmine-type fit.

[@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin]

Wow. That really says something about you. Edit: He is disgusting and she is clearly not desperate. Jasmine is both disgusting AND desperate.

[@ericw8478]

@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin he's persistent and she'd wonder if he suddenly stopped.