Bride Needs To Find A Dress Her Two "Mums" Love | Say Yes To The Dress

Bride Napiera is convinced she wants to wear a ballgown on her wedding day, but her entire entourage wants to see her in a fitted dress. Meanwhile, bride Valerie has an unlimited budget thanks to her dad.
From season 13 episode 17.
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[@sabster79]

“I don’t necessarily have to show off my body for my wedding”. 👏👏👏

[@Justicia007]

Yes! I loved that!

[@jordanwebster5719]

thinks the momma jealous of her that dress was not boring

[@Maz-zb9uf]

Why should she a women is nothing to be ashamed of we stop this idealolgy

[@Justicia007]

@@Maz-zb9uf No the ideology that's warped is that you have to show all your skin to be valued, No matter what the occasion is even if inappropriate. It's nothing to do with being ashamed of being a woman it's just being appropriate for an occasion.

[@cynthiaraynes2900]

I totally agree!!

[@evileef1]

Can we just acknowledge the wonder Susan Kelechi from THIS IS US sitting casually on the sofa as a bridesmaid ❤

[@angiesimpson6537]

I recognized her instantly!

[@lydiabouts8572]

Came here to say that. Lol

[@gulnihaltoreyin1647]

@@lydiabouts8572 me too

[@janicewolk6492]

Who is Susan Kelechi?

[@jasmineMMA22]

@@janicewolk6492 She played Beth Pearson on a show called This Is Us ☺️

[@mapatterson173]

The first bride was so lovely. You can tell that she is just such a sweetheart that everyone who meets her immediately adores her. Best wishes to her and her groom.

[@dietotaku]

i don't get this notion that just because you HAVE a nice figure you have to SHOW it. it's a wedding, not a tinder date, you know?

[@ladyjustice1474]

Fashion magazines, social media all put pressure on women to look and dress a certain way.

[@cherylb_88]

Modesty doesn’t exist anymore

[@anna1417]

I mean, if you want to show your figure, you can do it ANY DAY of the year right? But for what many consider the most special day of their lives, I agree with the first bride: wear something different and special.

[@paulaajohnson2597]

Flaunt your great figure before it's ruined by having babies. It can be done without looking trashy.

[@leahpope8672]

Second time brides can wear whatever they want. There are no rules. All of the rules are first time brides and it's so boooringggg....

[@MsJackster88]

First bride gives a budget of $2,000 - $3,000... first dress is $3,000 and then the next two go up from there. Kleinfeld consultants constantly disregard the budget provided by the customer. They should respect the budget for the dress, after all they'll make more on the accessories like the veil, shoes, bling belts, etc.

[@robylove9190]

I would be very upset if someone showed me things I couldn't afford. That really sucks!

[@zoerayne101]

It’s all a retail tactic. Is it fair? Not in the slightest but it’s how they keep their doors open. If they put a bride in something say $200 more, test the waters and see how they react then they push it as much as they can. If they fall in love with a dress $500 more the bride says, “what’s an extra $500 when this is the dress of my dreams?” The consultants I can imagine make commission as well for not only the amount they sell, but the price in a time frame as well. Marketing is insane

[@lindarogers2271]

The consultant is there to sell and make money. Yes it is wrong to disregard the brides budget but it is the responsibility of the bride to keep her budget in tact. Also I think the bride get a paycheck for being flimed. The consultant is doing her job well if she sales over budget ( like it or not ).

[@notyourordinarygran]

They obviously work on commission. I would tell them my budget was lower than it actually was.

[@zoerayne101]

@@notyourordinarygran or be firm and assertive!! There’s such a stigma about “angry brides” when it comes to shopping and making everything right, but at the end of the day it’s her money!! Best believe if i ever get married, I am making it known that the price I’m paying is just that.

[@SuperChickJanice]

The first dress was GORGEOUS. I agree with her about the second one, the style was red carpet.

[@julieannejoolz]

That bow looks absolutely ridiculous and so silly! The Mother is just horrible saying the dress was boring..maybe she's jealous of the daughter!

[@debbiemarquis3231]

I'm thinking the same

[@catstreat9434]

Absolutely. Completely tacky, doesn't match the aesthetic of the dress *at all*.

[@dietotaku]

Boring isn't the right word but that dress is definitely awful. It's just a mess and doesn't look bridal at all.

[@ellyharper1592]

Mother needs to dress up and wear makeup!

[@AkireMaru]

It seems nowadays like “jealousy” is a common pea-brained accusation hurled at any woman with a mild to moderately dissenting opinion. I’d wager to say: no. There are 100 other reasons why she may have come to that conclusion. Think beyond the jealousy box.

[@lovelypainful9623]

Also Pnina always knows how to make a dress tackier.. putting a large bow ON THE SIDE?? I’m just glad the bride is happy

[@notyourordinarygran]

It would appear the bride agreed...no bow.

[@lupechacon-florez7520]

Yes like 1960’s

[@3StarLogo]

They only did it for the mom they wouldn't have even put it there lol bet they wanted to make mom say no 😂

[@poponachtschnecke]

@@notyourordinarygran that's a different bride

[@L.Spencer]

They're trying to fool us with a different bride lol

[@writerinprogress]

Pro tip for Mum Number 2: if you're the only person in the room who hates the dress, you're probably wrong. Oh, and it's NOT YOUR WEDDING.

[@mbyrd6713]

Yes, and her idea of making a dress pop with that hideous bow was ridiculous 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jillturner8314]

She didn't wear the bow either.

[@kieraethan]

@@jillturner8314 So good to know! The bow was an abomination.

[@soulstrength]

How was THAT dress boring??? Absolutely not. That huge bow just made the dress look ridiculous. The bride did that just to please her mom. At the reception it's going in the trash!

[@cjPagan87]

The mother was an idiot and has horrible taste

[@jeniferkenney2984]

In the video she didnt even have it on. So maybe they second guessed it later on. The dress looked beautiful without the bow in my opinion.

[@TikiHi77]

So happy that horrible bow didn't make it to the wedding.

[@mandamorris7934]

She didn't even wear it or the veil... go figure

[@tawanahawkins7855]

Haters are gonna hate!! That dress is perfect on her!!!

[@Nyquil5]

The first gown she tried on was gorgeous for her.

[@ginacaradonna1896]

Agree full heartedly!!!

[@chevingladden5146]

It's so refreshing to see consultants, who I'm sure get commission, be genuinely happy if a bride finds a dress AND is equally understanding and happy if a bride needs more time, just no pressure.

[@HeronCoyote1234]

I absolutely love Tamara Tunie as the ME in Law & Order: SVU!!

[@clwbchbabycakes]

Say NO to the bow!!!

[@fluffymountainbunny]

Augh, that mom that forced her daughter to get the awkward looking bow! At least it's detachable. I don't understand... but clearly the bride was doing it for her mom. Noticed she didn't wear it at the wedding though, so it all clearly worked out!

[@dietotaku]

The bride with the bow and the bride at the end are different.

[@susanhighfield3370]

That bow was HIDEOUS! when are people going to realise that Pnina dresses are awful, just because they cost a fortune doesn't mean they are classy.

[@JustGina23]

I love Susan Kelechi Watson just casually being there. This must've been pre This is Us!

[@Dulcess]

I remember looking at old soaps on here and seeing them, if I remember correctly her tv mom was also on law and order SVU.

[@sandydog7449]

Me too

[@jennydrumm7223]

Napiera - First dress was drop-dead gorgeous on her!! Flattering, classy - I can't imagine anything wrong with it! But someone in the entourage said it doesn't show off her figure?!?! WHAT?? Whoever said that is just nuts! Second dress was pretty, but - as I've always said about figure-hugging dresses - it actually managed to make it look like she has a tummy bulge. Where it came from, I don't know because she obviously doesn't HAVE a tummy bulge. I've seen very, very few of those types of dresses that don't give that impression, though. Third dress was very nice, but the huge skirt overwhelmed her body. I'd love to know what she ended up with. Valerie - Dress was perfect! It managed to fly in the face of my earlier comments and DIDN'T give her a tummy bulge, LOL! But her mom... boring? REALLY? The woman has a screw loose! And how she said it was so weird: "If you like it, it's boring". Which kind of implies that if Valerie didn't like it, mom would think it's amazing. And the bow is hideous! Talk about ruining a beautiful dress!

[@lisafreebairn7736]

I am annoyed by entourages discouraging brides from getting what they want.

[@moosehead1183]

The bride brought them to hear their opinions.

[@jdub27]

That bow is ridiculous on that dress

[@gettheedgenow7079]

The first bride is beautiful with a flawless figure. I don't think any of the dresses that she tried on were equal to her royalty. She should continue to look

[@L.Spencer]

It was hard to see the whole dress that the first bride ended up wearing but it looked like a 20's style.

[@MsJubjubbird]

agreed. The ball gowns were too much like prom dresses. i wish they'd showed more ballgowns that had less tulle and sparkle and were more classic

[@KaylaBuhdayla]

The last girl looks stunning on her wedding day. What a beauty! Her dress lets her true pretty shine!

[@lovelypainful9623]

First bride said her budget is 2k to 3k and most of the dresses they pulled were over budget.. ofc she needs to think about it

[@kikiam7850]

First bride needed a simple fabric with an elegant yet more modern design on a trumpet dress.

[@tracylin4812]

First dress on the first woman looked incredible. She looked like a beautiful bride. Kinda wish my waist was that small. The last dress looked like it was wearing her.

[@maddalenapreziosi]

Wait a minute, isn't Susan - the friend of the first bride - Beth from This is us?

[@yahtm]

That’s what I was thinking too!! Unless it’s her doppelgänger!

[@ginacaradonna1896]

I would say you are correct on that observation. You are very sharp to have noticed.

[@BriaBlessing]

It absolutely was! I was scrolling through the comments hoping to find someone else who noticed.

[@WiccanRai]

I love how the video makes it seem we're seeing the 2nd bride, Valerie get married in the final clip, but it's actually another bride, Haley whose dress is similar. The bow for Valerie's dress was completely wrong, far too big and doesn't match. Thank goodness it was going to be detachable.

[@dirrald6532]

napeira is soooo prettyyy wow ... and valerie's dress gets me goosebumps that's the kind of dress i wanna wear on my wedding i don't understand how her mom called it boring

[@YaYaPaBla]

Ohhh the first dress is beautiful. Don’t think I’ve ever seen it before.

[@bethelight2304]

Thank god she dropped the bow…it ruined the whole line of the dress and it’s simplicity 😅

[@dietotaku]

Damn, I get that the editing is confusing but a lot of people are missing that the bride who got the bow is not the same as the one they show getting married at the end.

[@pennwoman]

So weird that they show a THIRD woman in this segment!

[@hotrod66ify]

So where was the magical bow during the ceremony? Good for you bride! You stood up for what you wanted. You look absolutely gorgeous!

[@griffin812]

The wedding footage at the end was for a bride named Hailey. It wasn't Valerie's wedding but I agree with you about the "magical bow". I wonder how much money they were charged for that bow.

[@hotrod66ify]

@@griffin812 oh wow! Well they really confused me with that footage. Lol

[@Giraude]

Noticed that the second bride made it down the aisle without the butt bow. So glad she got the look she wanted!

[@lindawise5546]

Love her comment about being a team together ❤

[@mandamorris7934]

Poor Pnina... That bow was just horrific

[@kelligray1848]

I like this first gal, she seems like a sweetheart

[@andyvictory950]

I really thought that the last bride and the second bride were the same bride, i got a little confused for a second

[@juneharvey5989]

They are the same bride the last part was showing how the dress actually looked the day of the wedding

[@andyvictory950]

@@juneharvey5989 no they're not, the second bride name is valerie and the third bride name is hayley, different dad too obviously

[@juneharvey5989]

Andy, you are correct I watched that part again

[@SondraBerry]

I purposely read the comments to see if anyone else noticed the second and third brides were different people. I wonder if it was a goof or the producers hoped no one would notice.

[@dietotaku]

@@SondraBerry I think it was just bad editing. The full episodes usually include 2 brides choosing a dress and one bride getting fitted and then getting married. They tacked on the 3rd bride's wedding without introducing her so it looks like it's the 2nd bride's wedding.

[@teeshante]

They’re all amazing actresses…

[@SuperChickJanice]

The second girl, her dress was GORGEOUS without the bow. The bow is beautiful, but it doesn’t go with the dress.

[@joiluckadoo-villa9601]

I love seeing you and Tamara together again ❤

[@arunimauniyal4227]

She has Beth from "this is us" as her bridesmaid

[@DST975]

Collarbones to die for - this beautiful lady would look amazing in any style of dress. 😮

[@sukai1pear]

Is the lady in blue with the first bride the actress that plays Beth Pearson in this is us? Am I crazy??

[@wendy5116]

She’s gorgeous in all of the dresses! 😊

[@JodiLeaSnakeQueen]

A bow??? And a HUGE one at that???? Wtf man

[@fossil5639]

That is Beth Pearson from 'this is us' in blue top

[@pinkmarshmallow2023]

I thought I recognised her!

[@blossomx1804]

I'm assuming the is is Susan Watson before the huge success of This is Us. You go girl!

[@h8zel8ngl22]

I love seeing Beth from This is Us!!!

[@bonnieketterman6542]

Love that beautiful.bridal dress it was absolutely gorgeous I loved everything about it I wish u both many happy blessings forever

[@dianefort3984]

Actually, the bow was a very special touch. Congratulations you were elegant and beautiful.❤

[@sandyjohnson8927]

That bow was ridiculous.

[@aviannaromans8980]

the last dress the first bride on was soooo pretty on her I kinda hope she bought it

[@Greyseabee]

That first dress was beautiful

[@TheEkta212]

The dress was soooooooooo beautiful without that BOW! I am glad that the bride liked it tho.

[@paigeaustin7107]

Mom's random bow demand/request was just weird. I swear I had to rewind and watch again because I thought for sure there was some detail or family tradition or story regarding the bow! But no. I'm still confused 😕

[@mymelodyssaxophone7724]

“5 minutes ago” - let’s go

[@jasminej6281]

First bride is so gorgeous

[@sonyabolden9652]

That bow is so 1980s!

[@rosameijering5161]

4:58 that dress is amazing

[@DasCoco]

Happy she stood up against the bow! Dress itself looked gorgeous on this bride!

[@joyfuljaj]

The bride on her wedding day at the end was not the same pride that they had just shown.

[@sharonkaczorowski8690]

These are not dresses I would chose, but the women are beautiful in them. I don’t expect everyone to dress like me or meet my personal, stress on “personal,” views of what is appropriate or inappropriate.

[@nemoneon]

The mom just had to get her way…the dress didn’t need the bow

[@sakilynn]

MoBs, please remember not every wedding has to be a beauty pageant. If the bride wants a dress on the simple side, that's what they want.

[@olinda013]

I loved the second dress

[@Pubearsrg]

I'm always told I'm the only black Susan so I'm glad to see another one. Hey girl hey!!! She's a beautiful bride too 😍!!! I'm so glad the 2nd one didn't use a bow cause she was gorgeous without it

[@dietotaku]

The wedding at the end was actually a different bride (Hayley) than the one with the bow (Valerie).

[@soulstrength]

You're not the only one. I grew up with a black Susan and used to work with one too. Yall out here...maybe not in mass numbers but out here all the same! ❤️

[@morganmorelli8473]

LOVE Tamara Tunie!!

[@jordanwebster5719]

the first dress was the best

[@gloriaelyachar3453]

Her group includes a pre-This Is Us Susan Kelechi-Watson!!!!!!!

[@SandraHof]

That second bride’s mother…😠 I am sure the daughter is much closer to her dad as I was with mine. Her dad seems like a really good father who genuinely loves his daughter. This bride’s mom brought back memories for me from the early 1970s, when my mom wanted to put me in a hideous prom dress with a bow on each shoulder, though I preferred a beautiful white eyelet dress. It was more expensive, but my dad saved the day and bought the white dress for me. I am just glad that the bow on the bride’s wedding dress was detachable, as it was hideous on that dress.

[@akemimoon5405]

i hate the obsession with having your mom like the dress it's you and your husband's day girlie get what YOU want not what your mommy wants i love it when the consultants listen to the bride instead of the entourage

[@Shasha8674]

All the dresses looked great on the first bride to be.

[@marissafisher6166]

Friend Susan = Susan Kelechi Watson (Beth from "This is Us"

[@marycollins1024]

Bride #1… first dress was beautiful

[@SB-hv1kd]

bride is so beautiful

[@jesseostone386]

Ditch the bow!

[@manisha.amariah.doolam]

she didn't wear the bow and the veil☹

[@dietotaku]

Different bride

[@mariajoannou9936]

I didnt see the bow! Good for her!

[@katharina...]

That was a different bride at the end.

[@moodyblues1273]

Always loved Tamara Tunie

[@anjee.3261]

That now though.... Erm, no no way! She looked gorgeous at her wedding (without the bow! )

[@tiffanye9403]

The color was brighter than the dress lol

[@Sandi.Beyette]

Ha! No bow at the ceremony! Mom loses!

[@elizabethedwards7082]

A bride is not "meat on the hoof" being auctioned off, she's a human being.

[@BigRed182]

...and besides which, even if she is meat, if it's her wedding day, she's already bought and paid for. Good for you, Napiera! Save your body for your husband!

[@user-ej2lj4rz3u]

"It`s everything I wanted" ...except the price.

[@TeraTrollE404]

Fights for the bow.... doesn't wear it 🤣🤣🤣

[@katharina...]

We have no idea whether she wore it or not, they showed a different bride in a different dress at the end.

[@krstnlee]

OMG her friend is Beth from This Is Us!

[@melissashilkoff]

Fun fact! Her friend Susan played Beth in This Is Us!!!

[@jem1085]

oh good....she said no to the bow 😂

[@katharina...]

She said yes to the bow...

[@jem1085]

at the very end she didnt wear it.

[@katharina...]

​@@jem1085That was actually a different bride in a different dress, if you look closely. The bride with the bow dress was Valerie, and the bride in the last video was Hayley. I don't know why they did that, but they definitely wanted us to think it's the same bride. At first I only noticed that the dress was different in the last video but then I watched again and realised that the bride was different too 🧐

[@benetagilley8539]

Looks like the BOW did not make it after all. Yeah! They both were lovely brides.

[@kathymonahan8024]

The first was the nicest

[@carolynsteele9929]

That mom wanted that awful bow?!? I felt bad for Pnina

[@TheDoggmom]

The bow is awful Pnina deserves it.

[@carlavanstaden7707]

The bridesmaid Susan is from the tv show This is Us!!!!

[@tracyfun6918]

Where was the bow

[@eileencollazo5243]

😂 right? But its actually a different bride. Haley is the bride filmed on her wedding day in NC, while the bride in the salon was Valerie!! Same dress though

[@dietotaku]

@@eileencollazo5243 not quite the same dress, the neckline is different and there's no see-through bits

[@Sweet94112]

Ask some one to make a fitted ball gown in all the colors and sizes

[@csandford6011]

She should have put the veil on with that ball gown to see the whole picture

[@RevLeigh55]

There was no bow and not even a veil at the wedding.

[@dietotaku]

Different bride

[@danielleandrews2658]

As is the dress was actually a tasteful Pinina dress, now with the bow it really had the designer's touch, if you know what I mean 😉

[@suvzar6194]

I did not see the bow in wedding clips. So she did not actually wear it?

[@jeni688]

It's Beth from "This is Us"

[@sswan9689]

Hey, her friend Susan, is Beth from This is Us

[@meganjoshi697]

Brides looked gorgeous! However…. Can we just talk about how “Beth “ from this is us is in this clip?!???