Brittany Cartwright | Not Skinny But Not Fat

[@tootsle3376]

The fact that Brittany and his son are staying in a B&B tells me everything I could ever want to know about Jax. The fact that he wouldn't leave the house so his son could enjoy the comforts of home and not be uprooted from his daily routine is disturbing. He seemed to change after his father passed away and he asked Brittany to marry him, but it seems he has fallen into his old ways. Move on Brittany you deserve so much better!!! You are beautiful inside and out!!!

[@elsie3724]

Omg this might sound creepy but did you post this exact same comment in the valley subreddit?? hahaha I read it the other day and was like EXACTLY!

[@user-is6de8pp7k]

Brittany and her son must move back into their house. They should live there. Not the father Jax.

[@judithvaughan3078]

I feel bad for Brittany I too was on the bandwagon Jax has changed boy was I fooled. I agree with you 100% he should be in the B&B not Brittany

[@nurselisa40]

Brittany didn't want to stay at the house.

[@susiematthews9549]

I certainly hope but you guys don't let Sheena and Nala be on the valley, she know totally sold her house moved into their eyes so she could be on that show she even said she didn't want BPR to start till after fall That way everyone can be done with the valley. I'm going to tell you one thing she didn't care when you got fired did she ever make a phone call and see how you were doing. Is all there going to do is turn it into VPR and you guys don't want that You're on a different path. I know you're very very nice but I would tell if she never know go to your own show

[@irishmarie9892]

Brittany has stayed the same from the beginning to present. She’s a lovely soul and her son is beautiful. I wish her all the happiness. ❤

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

Life is hard, you *have to* change..🎶 Of course she’s changed! She’s grown so much!

[@barbarabenham129]

Great interview!

[@nicolemoore3275]

Really? New boobs, chin, Botox, drinking habits?

[@wendywalsh9057]

Me too!!!!!!

[@lynettefarley537]

Brittany I stayed 40 years with a man like Jax hoping he would change. He never did. Dont go back. He won’t change because he doesn’t think anything is wrong with him. He thinks it’s all your fault and always will be. Your son will be better off nit living in a home with a narcissist/sociopath. You are doing the right thing. Stay strong beautiful lady ❤

[@maryschoonover15]

You have to remember that Jax is the Father of that little boy Cruz💖🙌🙏🙌

[@LouisianaSwampBarbie]

It took me 5 hard abusive manipulating years to realize this ❤ they dont, they wont, and you are wasting your life with someone who could care less deep down

[@ED80s]

Exactly correct. He thinks there is nothing wrong with him. That's the biggest problem.

[@JMicheleS33]

Over 25 yrs for me, I’ve been dealing with challenging health issues and I’m now disabled, you can’t change a zebra’s stripes, he’s a cruel, abusive narcissist and will never change, it’s taken me awhile to accept it but I certainly have (our issue now is the new dream home we’d just purchased two years ago that was ordered to be sold, he’s been cancelling agents’ scheduled showings and refusing to pay his court ordered spousal support knowing I need it in order to live, just disgusting)!

[@ED80s]

@@maryschoonover15 it is better they are not together if they are constantly fighting. Cruz does not need to witness his father talking down to his mother. You think he will be better with Cruz?

[@estancia3857]

Can we appreciate her for answering the hard questions honestly? She’s one of the realest cast members I’ve ever met. She doesn’t pull that.. “We’re working on things and things are just hard right now..” She is so genuine and honest on what’s going on in real time. I kind of have to give that to her for being with someone like Jax. He’s the person to dance around things. She’s blunt and honest with answering questions. I hope and wish the best and happiness for herself- and the best co-parenting situation for their son.

[@carycarman]

She is amazing!!

[@ED80s]

She is done with jax. She does not appear upset at all. She showed more emotion when he cheated with faith and even when he told her it wasnt working out. Its so true. Once you reach the breaking point, theres no going back. Good for you brittany. At least you didn't waste 20 years with this fool. She will be fine. Jax will be a lonely old bachelor

[@Ashley-qu1bc]

The things he said to faith about Brittany were disgusting, he’s the worst.

[@missld6856]

I think she just believes she has control of him but she does not, it seems she thinks that she’s giving him fear that she will leave for good (which she won’t) and she seems to think that her being gone will “change” him but No. I think it’s the only reason why she seems to act cool in the situation. But if it came down to her actually filling for divorce and selling the house and leaving her husband than it would hit her completely different than it is now. At some point tho she needs to make a decision.

[@livinlovelee2683]

Once I had my son it's as if it all clicked and I literally left from the hospital w my baby and never looked back

[@glitterarmy89]

No but she had a child with him and he's only sticking around for 3 years. That's not a good thing. She's a bad mother

[@SandraUrquia]

​@@glitterarmy89 She knew how Jax was! I always felt like she was just in it for the Money 🤑💰. Jax said that her Family calls her " Brat'ney"! I am tired of her Playing the Victim!

[@sydneymyers3836]

Brittany, you are so strong! PLEASE give therapy a try! From an older lady, please dont waste time figuring it out. Rooting for you. Therapy is not a negative, its like you talked about "talking to gfs" but deeper . xo Much love to you and your baby

[@mac0219]

Yessss therapy is the best

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

Competent therapists are few and far between. So many do significantly more harm than good.

[@mac0219]

@@MyBeautifulHealth I’m sorry that’s been your experience. I’ve made tremendous strides in therapy

[@MissyGirl5150]

I am so proud she finally drew a line for herself.

[@pjt3887]

​@@MyBeautifulHealthif you've had bad experiences I hope you reported them! I've had a handful of not so great therapists however the others I've worked with have more than made up for it. That's why I tell people if you have a W-2 employer or a EAP plan with your employer most of them will cover three or four visits to various therapists before you pick one so that you could pick one that you really connect with you owe that to yourself so I hope in the future you will give it another go. I have a friend right now that I know would be so much happier if she would go and work with the counselor she's in a very difficult marriage and had a not so great experience with the counselor and that has colored her whole experience now counseling and I've tried to explain to her that that is One bad Apple and a barrel of good ones you can't give up that easily and did not yourself the freedom that you get from going to counseling. My last counselor who just retired gave me so many tools and help me to understand that I was with the extremely dangerous covert narcissist I don't think I would have made it out alive without her help.

[@dot_t]

It's called narcissistic abuse. I'm so glad Brittany is finally finding her inner strength to see things how they are! You'll be fine girl, even better than before! ❤️✨

[@rstokes9630]

Jax is such douche. I remember shaking my head in disgust at his bs.

[@melisaolivero3297]

Yes but she doesn’t have a therapist which to me is a reflection of her denial and immaturity.

[@debboutland7408]

​@@melisaolivero3297Or she has not been exposed to a culture which embraces therapy.

[@smithereens7105]

Imagine having Brittany as a mother. She's such a sweetheart. Cruz is very lucky

[@stephainebates4020]

I’d love it!

[@Michelle-Williams-Melbournite]

So true. What a Wonderful Loving Real Woman 🌸🦋👑

[@houman7784]

She’s totally right - the public is very hard on her. Comments on her appearance especially post baby is so wrong. She seems like such a lovely person and I hope her self confidence is solid. ❤

[@marlynnek6449]

She gained 70 pounds with Cruz. Jax is extremely shallow. He is not the first guy to be turned off by his wife's post-baby figure. Sad but unfortunately true.

[@judyivie2215]

I think the comments on her procedures.

[@HiThere-tv2bd]

She needs to go ahead and pull the plug on that marriage. Jax won’t get any better he’s just waiting for Brittany to give in. She can do a million times better.

[@marlynnek6449]

Yeah, it's a DNR

[@leahbia82]

Exactly. When I saw a flashback of when he cheated, his reaction when telling her was almost like, "yes. It happened. You're leaving me now... right?" like he doesn't want to be the bad guy for dumping her, so he does something to make her do it instead.

[@avendanojordison]

Jax is so selfish! He should leave the house for the sake of his childs comfort and well being. Douchebag! I hope brittany never takes him back.

[@robynnmelton6220]

Yeah, why didn't he go get the ABNB??

[@ashleymcmeakin8590]

Its so refreshing to see Brittany FINALLY opening her eyes and having some self worth! Its so hard to see it for what it is when you're in the middle of that, but everyone on the outside can see how obvious and toxic it is. She's describing an abusive relationship like from the Webster's dictionary here and it's greaaaattt to hear her finally speak it! Its amazing the strength and instinct a mother has to protect her babies and she's probably never gonna get back with him. Watch out fellas, Brittany will be roaming the streets of LA as a very single lady!

[@Bernice__]

Brittany is an amazing woman and she deserves way better then Jax she needs to be treated like the queen she is!!! Brittany deserves all the happiness in the world❤

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

than

[@christyb.2272]

@@MyBeautifulHealth I'm a retired teacher, and I find in my old age I do stupid thing like use "then" for "than" and I NEVER did anything like that in my youth. A lot of times it's just a typo. So I refrain from saying anything to people because first of all, you aren't going to change them at this stage of life, and secondly it's really kind of mean.

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

@@christyb.2272 it really isn’t mean. You can go on keeping it to yourself. I’m going to go ahead and correct every spelling and grammatical mistake I come across. We must not lose our ability to communicate properly and effectively. Words matter. I will die on this hill.

[@lauraanderson2199]

@@MyBeautifulHealth, what if they have dyslexia?

[@vickytt816]

Brittany is the definition of toxic positivity.

[@bebesotatx]

"He's a great father," says the woman who had to leave the marital home with her child because Jax could not be bothered.

[@nastassiasmith4786]

Yeah that's a diccc move. I mean why wouldn't he want her and his son to be around everything that he has ever known. His room and everything. We knew he was a P.O.S. but that's so low especially when he keeps trying to say he wants to be just like his dad.

[@jojomiller1630]

OMG he is not a great father…he pretends to be whatever he wants to be but believe me he would destroy your son because he is not capable of loving anyone but HIMSELF! A great father is kind loving and selfless! Those are qualities JAX does not possess! He makes my blood boil with his assholish ways!

[@KazBrown-qu5rn]

Jax was bad from the start she’s just seeing his true colours now

[@JeanBunny-qc2lh]

He’s a terrible father. Great fathers don’t treat the baby’s mother that way. No one will ever convince me he hasn’t laid a hand on her.

[@JustJenRx]

Just because they didn’t work out doesn’t mean he isn’t a great father. I will take Brittany’s words over someone who isn’t in their situation. Js.

[@KatGotYourTongue]

Brittany having to live in an airB&B WITH THEIR SON says everything! I hope she sees that!

[@leahbia82]

I'm sure the conversation went something like this: "I pay more of the bills than you do!" 😂He's a douche. Last episode when he started to say that and instead said, "I know what bills I pay... And I know what bills you pay....it's overwhelming." he really wanted to end it with "... and I pay more!!! " 😂

[@krystleday382]

BRITNEY!!! I just want to tell you that yall are doing an amazing job with Cruise!!! My son is 15 now however back when he was around 18months we also noticed he wasn't hitting the speech milestones at the pediatrician so in PA they have the EARLY INTERVENTION program that we got him started with right away and then they were saying he may not speech much at all but he's always been able to be in regular education classes and now at 15 he was just asked to be a part of the DEBATE TEAM!!!! He still has speech once a week and once in awhile can be hard to understand if he talks too fast buy he is doing amazing and imo those therapists saved him!!!! And I truly feel like they gave him a life he might have not had without them!!!

[@mmh3378]

That’s wonderful, what an inspiring, positive message. Wishing your son all the best!

[@cassandrashelton3690]

My now 9 year old also wasn't speaking clearly and only saying a few words by two and we got him into speech right away. He was speaking in six months! It was amazing honestly. Now we're going thru the autism diagnosis with him mostly due to his social skills lacking, however he's top of his class, makes straight A's every semester, reads at a 7th grade level and is insanely talented in art and computer programming and design. Early intervention is the absolute best place to start.

[@pjt3887]

My youngest Niece was going through the same thing with her son. I was concerned that he was suffering from hearing issues. Finally got her to take him to the ear nose and throat Doctor. Because she had used q-tips so much he had a huge chunk of wax longer than a cigarette! Poor kid couldn't hear because of his ears being clogged with wax from his mom shoving it down in the ear canal with those q-tips. Please don't use them Now that kid talks so much you can't shut him up! 😂 He knows just about everything on everything to do with dinosaur's!!! 😂 Straight A student. My son was the same way. He lagged a bit then caught up. Now he's doing fantastic. Straight A.

[@MandieL-tp5oj]

Love this post! Your son sounds amazing ❤

[@67BE]

Was in a relationship like this for almost 10 years. Wasted my 20s on a narcissist sociopath. IMO they don't change their behavior. Ever. One of the biggest lessons I learned is "the accuser is the abuser."

[@annemarr8096]

Yes! Brittany has won me over 💯

[@1cruiselvr656]

Jax is the typical narcissist. Nothing is his fault and gaslight if at all possible. Brittany needs to file for divorce, get a good lawyer and force a sale of the house and give Jax a reality check by moving on. She deserves someone that treats her like a queen.

[@maryschoonover15]

I know that Brittany would have divorced Jax if they have that sweet little boy Cruz💖🙌🙏🙌 Brittany as a wonderful Mom💎👑💞

[@NWgirlstuckinFL]

First time ever watching this channel. I just want to make a comment that the interviewer is one of the best interviewers I’ve ever seen. She asks thought out questions and then she lets Brittany talk. She knows when to interject exactly at the right time. I’m really impressed with the interviewer. I just subscribed.

[@sassysandra245]

To be honest I feel after watching this interviewer with so many other interviews and with ppl like Khloe Kardashian now in comparison she acts very bored with the ppl that aren’t as famous as the Kardashians now she has had them so I’m a lil disappointed but she still has a great interview style but seeing her face it’s very obvious the not as big celebrity’s def look like a job to her where if you watch her on a big celebrity interview she is so happy and giddy you can tell it’s not a job cuz she loves it and she used to be that way with everyone which is what made me sub back then so it’s just sad that it’s hanged her. I feel maybe these ones shouldn’t be filmed so we wouldn’t see the difference is all. I’m hoping maybe she will re evaluate and drop the star struckness so to speak and maybe not want to be besties with only the hot celebrity’s cuz I do feel she was such a better person than this b4 hand!! Ppl say money changes ppl so maybe it can also change ppl back in time!!! There’s always hope! 🙏 ❤❤❤❤ I love Britt!! She’s amazing and authentic!! I wish and hope she has a man that shows up and treats her like a dream cuz she deserves it!!!

[@debboutland7408]

Agreed - re the interviewer- relaxed,informal,inspires confidences.

[@user-is6de8pp7k]

@@sassysandra245Hi Sassy, This is my first time watching this interviewer. I don’t like her at all. She sits back in the chair acting so nonchalant. There is just something about her that rubs me wrong. I adore Brittany. That is why I am watching this interview.

[@Hugo-nw2su]

Amanda is a pro.

[@nicolet5287]

Proud of you Brittany. You live and learn, keep growing and healing ❤

[@missbelle_elle]

Jax Will never Change

[@Roz-y2d]

No he won’t. He causes misery for people around him. 🤮

[@Marie-v4p]

Love how there's a 69 under that with a thumbs up hahahah

[@lorrainedunne-leslie4842]

Brittany, I urge you to read up on Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It will really hit home and explain a lot of things. You are strong and will get stronger. Good luck!❤

[@fififirestone3787]

And she should also read up on codependency.

[@BriBerg-y9j]

I don’t see a world where Brittany’s life is better when being in a relationship with Jax. He just seems unbelievably TOXIC

[@ED80s]

She's better off alone than with Jax.

[@Mlamx555]

I’m so glad she’s using her strong voice and speaking her mind! Whatever her future holds, let this be the start of a great new chapter where she never has to walk on eggshells, and can say what she feels. Whoever stays is meant to be around her, whoever doesn’t adiós

[@stacycorcoran476]

Wow, splitting the bills the way they do with Jax paying the mortgage and him remaining in the home seems VERY calculated on Jax's part.

[@honieebean]

It's gross. It gives Sandoval energy

[@travelbug4536]

Classic codependent and narcissist relationship. Been there, bought the t-shirt.

[@vickytt816]

Brittany is the definition of toxic positivity.

[@danilaroche1156]

Bought the t shirt? Me too. I had NO idea I was married to a narc. He was DEMONIC. FR.

[@gaelenoconnell-bidabadi]

Long time fan of Vanderpump Rules. Much love to fabulous Brittany! She's a strong woman who puts family and friends first. I don't get the impression that she changed for money or fame and that she is 1 thousand percent committed to her son, Cruz. Much love to you, pretty and strong and capable lady. I believe that she and Cruz deserve the world. Hopefully Jax can step up... but if not, they will find someone to be her match and a great stepdad to her son.

[@JustJenRx]

Brittany was the best thing to happen to Jason. My son also wouldn’t talk until his father left. Seeing her struggle about Cruz’s lack of talking made me remember how much my little one thrived once my toxic relationship was over too. So when she just said Cruz is thriving, I just knew. Best wishes to Brittany! She definitely deserves the world!!!

[@TheoKa4444]

Brittany is honest here and should never explain Jax's behaviour to anyone especially since she had to move out. It's interesting how he did not want to come and see Stassi being happy and getting married. Brittany don't give up on yourself. Don't go back to this relationship just because Jax might be nice for one day. Stay strong!

[@Ashley-qu1bc]

Him not wanting to go to Stassis wedding is very telling for me. Didn’t he even like a comment someone left that said he should have married stassi recently.

[@TheoKa4444]

@@Ashley-qu1bc He did like the comment.

[@sarahdicindio1801]

She is always so open and honest,wishing the best for her 💕

[@kimberleydownunder]

At least she’s honest unlike some bravo fakes .

[@Roz-y2d]

Is it honest to stay with a man who subjects her to his particular brand of abuse, just for the fame and money that came from a reality show? She’s no innocent, southern belle, and never has been.

[@jeanie111]

It’s impossible to not like Brittany. I wish her well❤

[@christinemontgomery3752]

It's sad that it took her having a child to see her worth 💔

[@karleet]

I’d bet that happens that way more often than not, at least she’s keen to it now!

[@LoriNicolls]

And yet if you flip the script to “It’s amazing that it took her having a child to understand her worth more” it changes eh?🥰 A child’s Soul chooses their parents before incarnating. There are no coincidences or accidents in life💫

[@jasminekujala4086]

Brittany I'm going through something similar, your an inspiration, it's hard leaving a narcissistic relationship ❤

[@pjt3887]

However your not alone. I'm amazed at seeing the amount of support groups for those who are getting out. Highly recommend getting counseling with someone who knows about narcissistic abuse. I was so lucky that my counselor saw it from the beginning.

[@Weadessewell]

I just left a 12 year relationship with a narcissist. The similarities are on point. She can NEVER win! It doesn’t matter how much weight she loses, how successful she is, or how good of a mom she is. He will always put her down and will never treat her the way he did at the beginning when he was love bombing! Jax is a classic narcissist and cannot change! He will always think he’s better than everyone else and make light of his past discretions. He will always be stubborn and a gaslighter!! He will do his best to make her feel like he is better off without her and more successful without her. He will never thank her for changing what people thought about him and saving his career. She thought too much of him and gave him too much credit. He’s NOT a good person!

[@user-is6de8pp7k]

Jax is a SOCIOPATH. They can’t be fixed. It’s not possible.

[@alexandriameyer9578]

Brittany is definitely a kind soul, she would be someone I’d want as my friend for sure ❤

[@BeckyVayer-bm7rl]

AGREED !!!! She is just stunning in all aspects.... Jax... absolutely does NOT deserve her.....

[@jamieyancey9473]

Brittany, I just want to say as a mother of two boys, you're doing phenomenal!!! My first son, I took everything so serious, felt like I had to keep up with all the other mom's. By the time I had my second son, I didn't care what people thought anymore. I just wanna drive home, my second, to a LONG time to talk... he's 11 now, he's in the gifted program at his school, he tests at over an 8th grade level, in 5th grade, in language arts. So just enjoy your time with Cruz, cause it goes by so so quickly, enjoy every second and don't let others giv you sh!t❤

[@heatherc.5760]

I wish we all could be nice n happy like Britney she really is the epitome of a good human being. No matter wat she is going through she looks for the good in everything. She doesn't let anyone change her mood she keeps it together.

[@cherylgrace6131]

Brittany is really not a smart gal. The split of finances is whack. If she’s paying for an air BnB, I wouldn’t be paying for all expenses for a house I’m not living in. Jax continues to. Bamboozle her.

[@missbelle_elle]

Brittany is such a class act. So composed & feminine. ❤ l o v e it 🤍

[@darius.smithh]

Yall need to do another podcast together, I could listen to yall for hours!

[@imabeardsley9280]

Damn I’m so impressed with Brittany’s new found strength!!!!

[@Daydreamerr13]

I 100% believe Lala and Jax hooked up. The sub on reddit convinced me more 😂 but that S5/S6 era they fasho hooked up, especially the trip episode when Lala went off on Jax . I recently rewatched I 100 percent believe they fooled around

[@pattyhughes4953]

The Lala now who isn't real anymore will never admit it. At least not until she gets on the Valley or finds another rich husband . I no longer like. There were things I didn't care for before but I liked that she was honest. Real like Katie . Not this past season. Watch out Britney look what Lala and Schena did to their so called beastie Ariana

[@katieowen4483]

I love Brittany and how open and honest she is while still remaining positive!

[@m.s.2549]

Brittany is such a doll! Love her and want the best for her.

[@pjt3887]

I hope she get's the help to set stronger boundaries and let go of the people pleasing it's so exhausting. It's taken me years to get to this point.. Once you realize that it's none of your business what others think about you. ❤ It's truly freeing!!! I'd love to see her with a very successful & nice man who will love her completely. 🙏🏻🦋

[@suzannewhealan4129]

Once you have kids you grow up a lot. She's amazing.

[@DarleneHarris-s6h]

I have a grandson that’s 3 and has a speech delay also and going to speech therapy and so smart.💖💕Brittany is the sweetest and so pretty and she does deserve better 🥰

[@shawn-wp2vs]

Brittany don't ever change your amazing 😘

[@kermit1473]

And BEAUTIFUL IT RADIATES THRU THE SCREEN ❤

[@stoutie18]

We all begged her to see his red flags and is now surprised he has red flags 🚩

[@danilaroche1156]

It's hard to see warning signs when your sleeping together. It clouds your view. There is a reason the Lord says no sex till covenant marriage.

[@chali_93]

The strength Brittany has and continues to supply throughout all this is, especially for Cruz, is remarkable but so heartbreaking. Jax ain’t s**t.

[@carriewest2360]

Amazing interview!!! Love ya Brittany. Keep inspiring & being you!❤

[@tttyaht]

“My mom watches the show and knew who Jax was and my best friend Katie was a fan of the show and I was taking their pictures but I didn’t know anything about the show🥴” okay sweetheart😂

[@aliciafoust71]

Brittany you’re amazing and strong woman! You deserve the best! ❤

[@kathleendobens6648]

Halleluia! She definitely got this right. He is verbally Abusive. You dont need him. Your so beautiful and kind. You deserve the best .

[@kerridavis2630]

Jax is a narcissist. Do you and Cruise the biggest favour and stay away. Much love 💓 you got this 😍

[@gbmgnrs]

Brittany is a sweet, darling and beautiful girl.....she is a light in the room

[@jojomiller1630]

Take my advice I am 70 years old and had four children with a narcissistic self centered ass for 20 years…..I deserved to be happy and finally left too got remarried to the most wonderful man for the past 25 years, I wished I would have left sooner! So RUN Girl RUN never look back find your happy cuz it will never happen with this type of person EVER!

[@mademoiselle_m_dk]

Brittany deserves so much more. I think Jax is giving narcissistic traits 🚩🚩🚩! And if so he’s never going to change. I hope she stays strong and gets a happy life and future with her beautiful son. ❤️

[@angelicalopez1819]

Not true about Lala. Shes been annoying and now its worse. 🙄

[@jennid8958]

I hate how people act like a child not talking yet is a reflection of parenting. Don't stress about Cruz not talking yet! My son had speech issues when he was that age. My friend's son didn't speak at all till he was 3.5, but then he just took off and talked so much. Everything will be fine! 💜

[@pinkskirt7]

Yes! My niece didn’t talk until almost 4 and now she talks nonstop. 😂💓

[@danichesney1876]

My son is 3.5 and just now is talking in coherent sentences. He knew his numbers and alphabet by 18 minths but It took him longer than "usual" to speak as well but he is doing great now. My first born son was talking by 18 months full sentences at 2. But he had harder time with alphabet and numbers but eventually got there by 4 years old. All kids are so so different and just NC they don't develope and hit milestones that are considered typical, does not mean they need to be diagnosed and medicated. I saw it happen with my nephew. He was

[@danichesney1876]

Ruined by age 7 doctors had him on lithium 😮

[@alliehurley8927]

Aww! This was a good episode! Brittany always sends out the good vibes🥰

[@annbressie8615]

Textbook narcissist and codependent relationship. Brittany is getting clarity and should absolutely get her child as far from him as possible. He won't look in the mirror and do the work and if she gets back with him it will get worse and go on and on. So many of us have fallen down this hole.

[@Roz-y2d]

Bingo!

[@LizBJourney97]

I would never deny him access to Cruz. That only hurts Cruz.

[@natalielawrence8809]

I don't think it's fair to suggest that his son should be kept away from him! I'm sure you probably mean it with the best of intentions.. but seriously, you should consider your views around this important stuff.. considering nearly 50% of relationships resulting in children end up not lasting. It's a very real issue.. and I'm just trying to imagine the number of replies to your comment had you written that Jax should keep Cruz as far away as possible from his Mum due to her narcicistic tendencies. The gender gap on this one really needs more healthy conversation.. because with there being nothing more important than family.. it's a massive issue.. and once parental alienation has occurred.. it can be extremely challenging for relationships to be restored 😔

[@annbressie8615]

to be clear, I mean she should be the primary parent. a narcissistic parent is about themselves and can be very damaging to a child's development and ability to have healthy emotional attachments. Any of you believing Jax is just being a guy really are lucky to not have an understanding of how awful these charming snakes are and the destruction they leave in their wake. Brittany seems to have gained some ability to see through it probably because she is now a mother and she will do what is right for her child.

[@taylorn4628]

Love love love Brittany! I think it speaks volumes to the type of person she is to have stayed herself and stayed humble through this crazy reality tv journey

[@JustJenRx]

Can we just appreciate how GORGEOUS Brittany is!!! She looks amazing, and she is GLOWING now that she dropped over 200lbs of dead weight! Dead weight = JAX.

[@nicolekhorasani7019]

Brittany, great interview ❤ Jax be difficult, you’re a trooper, you gotta find your happiness, with or without.

[@youtubewatcher2253]

This podcast makes me love Brittany even more. She's so real and genuine ❤

[@ElizabethGreco-o5z]

God is with you Brittney! Stay strong, you are an amazing person!!!!!

[@danilaroche1156]

Yes. Lord take care of Brittany and Cruz.

[@2getherWeAreWAND]

We love Brittany! She made Jax relevant. She made Jax tolerable.

[@CBB672]

Amanda Hersch great interview, you packed a lot in, and were very kind & fun!

[@dianecraig2953]

I so love that Brittany is so open that she says it all.

[@regiacarani5447]

Brittany is a treasure! We need more women like her on reality television. I’m such a fan! ❤️

[@CBB672]

Great interview!

[@danilaroche1156]

She doesn't look professional at all. The interviewer. Too casual.

[@stacyfaddoul]

Brittany is the sweetest human being! Loved this podcast!

[@Ashley-qu1bc]

My thing is… why isn’t Jax in an air bnb!?! Brittany seems like she is the primary care taker, why would he make his son move out of his own house.

[@nunnaurbiznez8815]

Brittany deserves a kind not narcissistic love. She seems so kind and caring. As a large breasted woman, they are fun when you're younger, (I never had an augmentation) but nobody needs this sh it when you are old enough to not care. I hope she finds the kind of person she and her kids deserve.

[@BriBerg-y9j]

She seems happier without him ( from the outside looking in obviously 😂)

[@kylehollie]

Well Jax and Scan are equal in douche-hood. Makes sense they gravitate back towards each other.

[@rebeccacrakow2918]

Once you have a child- you become so much stronger because now you are thinking about them first! Love Brittany- I was looking forward to seeing a changed Jax however, his head is still huge and he hasn’t changed as a person at all. Thank God for Cruz because Brittany finally opened her eyes. ❤️

[@BlushAxolotls]

Everyone warned her about Jax, she didn't wanna listen.

[@TravelSeets]

She needs to stop paying that mans bills if she’s not living there. I wouldn’t pay his utilities girl

[@vickytt816]

The “breakup” is probably fake PR stunt. I

[@calmtea5369]

Its annoying that Brittney still can’t see that she was love bombed by a narcissist. And she was an enabler selected primarily because she would make him look good and she would enable his bad behaviour.

[@Ashley-qu1bc]

The first few eps of the valley she’s rode for him so hard when he’s such a jackass.

[@Roz-y2d]

@@Ashley-qu1bcThey’re both jackasses.

[@frankelijah1]

Brittany needs therapy. Therapist would probably tell her to stop defending Jax coz every other breath!

[@michellemckinney8968]

So happy to see women removing their children from the toxicity!! Divorce was the best thing I could of done for my son he won’t be a product of his sperm donor 😊 it’s been over 25 yrs and we are thriving ❤

[@hannahmorrison2236]

I had Hyperemesis also. I totally see her not wanting to film then. It was a TOTALLY outer body experience being nauseous and vomiting 24/7. It actually brought my husband & I closer. I hope she finds peace in HER heart for once rather then trying to find peace for everyone else. ❤

[@Janet-Martin]

Actually I really really like the way you wrote that comment because you're absolutely right that Brittany needs to find peace within herself before she can do anything with anybody else !! 👍👍

[@janfraser8681]

She knew what she was getting before she got married, c’mon use your brain girls!

[@livinlovelee2683]

I love all the intervies and after shows better bc thats where we get the real tea

[@lovelylisa-tw2kg]

Jax not moving out of the home to allow his own innocent son and estranged wife stay tells you all you need to know. Jax is not a man and has no idea how to love or to be a good human being. I wish Brit all the best- she deserves it.

[@kristiN1214]

I love Brittany!!! I was born in eastern KY, I love the accents! She’s beautiful and it’s always seemed that she’s as beautiful inside as outside…I’m very happy she knows her worth as far as Jax is concerned and if he’s smart he’ll be up to the task of doing and being better and putting the work into their marriage.

[@danichesney1876]

Jax refusing to leave the house and making it all that much more confusing for his son.... who NEEDS ROUTINE, says all we need to know. I hope she keeps this mindset. She doesn't seem to be bothered and when asked if she would guve him another chance almost immediately said no. File the papers and dint drag this out girl. I know finality and change is hard but KEEP THRIVING you are doing amazing

[@LV420Chick]

Excellent interview but why did you dance around the real reason why they were fired from VPR?

[@CC-kr3mr]

Brittany is a really just the salt of the Earth❤ Wow, what a sweetheart and a well rounded woman❤

[@neighbortrucks7762]

Brittney is DELIGHTFUL. Thank you for your honesty.

[@Bumblebee7558]

He didn’t create the concept of The Valley. It was in the works the year of Stassi and Beaus wedding. They were going to film the wedding and then veer off to the valley and have the younger cast stay on VPR. But then Kristen Stacey and those two guys from Tom times all got fired that year. And that’s when they stopped trying to incorporate the younger cast in. IMHO they should’ve kept adding in some new blood so the older people could filter out and keep the show alive. Jax hasn’t matured or gained any self-awareness since he’s been off VPR. When he left VPR he was talking about how it was “his show “ to LVP and we could even get through one season of the valley without him saying it’s his concept.

[@patternmotherlode9250]

She rly DID forgive so much. I recall the way he disrespected Brittany in their apartment right in front of her mother in early days, and I was like "Hell No!.. This guy is DEAD TO ME!!" Once someone is willing to take shots at you, and hurt you in front of the ppl that love and will defend you... They're telling you they have zero restraint, and you can only expect it to get worse as things get more stressful.

[@Janet-Martin]

😮😮 I remember the exact scene you were speaking about and I couldn't agree with you more because Brittany has always forgiven him for everything that he has done to her but yet if you remember when he got caught cheating it was all the girls fault not his and that's what the interviewer was asking her is how did you go home with him that night after he did that to you and have s*x with him ??? Brittany was not telling the truth and it wasn't the next night it was the same exact night she got him doing it !!! 👍👍

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

Happy birthday, Cruz!

[@janetdorsey5619]

Yes! Happy Birthday to Cruz! 🥳🎈

[@anarubino4105]

i adore brittany she has a heart of gold. great interview

[@MariaRodriguez-om1yi]

I absolutely love Brittany. She’s the best.