Building healthy Boundaries

[@brendenpraise_]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@MillenialKay]

This whole channel needs to be on SABC or dstv, even if it's once a week Mpoomy to the continent and the world🌍🌎🌏

[@bobogona]

My 3 year old niece started nursery in Jan,she always come back tired,last week I called her and she said aunty I don’t want to talk now I’m tired,to say I’m proud of her is an understatement she is setting those boundries,just because I wanted to talk to her at that moment it did’nt mean she had to comply,kids are really good at saying no but as grown ups we find it difficult but Iam slowly learning to say no and not feeling guilty.

[@MpoomyLedwaba]

love it!!! kids are teachers

[@bobogona]

@@MpoomyLedwaba They are teachers indeed and I love that they communicate their feelings without feeling bad or guilty about it.

[@bookbuzzzz]

@@MpoomyLedwaba Ever thought of starting a book club? I know you have a lot on your plate, just something similar to Oprah's book club on GoodReads? FYI! I just reviewed this book on my channel; it was a pleasure to read, indeed... can't wait to hear your thoughts on it.

[@menyeneudofia6485]

This is very difficult in a Nigerian home tho. Your parents feel obligated to always be in your space.

[@chikatakudzaip7765]

@@menyeneudofia6485 I understand you even in Zim but sometimes communicate how you are feeling at a certain time and politely ask for space. Let your loved ones know when you need help you will allow them in your space.

[@joysibanyoni7743]

I set boundaries to respect myself not to offend you. Love that!!!! “No” is a full sentence.

[@Fortunate30]

This was a very eye opening conversation. I was always angry with my boyfriend, I always felt rejected instead of respecting his boundaries, I thought he is selfish but now I realise that I do not have boundaries and because of that I was unable to can respect someone else's boundaries. I was always available to his requests even when I felt like sayinh NO. Now I see the importance of boundaries and self-love

[@qothoasek5815]

This is me.. 🙌🏻and I think whatever we complain about another, is reflection of who we are.. This was eye opening., thank you Mrs Mom

[@ama_lukhoziSLP]

This is a lovely revelation. Truly, learning never ends.

[@yolandagaborutwe3061]

Love right now looks like protecting myself, my heart, my space and energy a little bit more than usual, it's focusing on me

[@boitshepodiketane1351]

❤thts so me❤❤❤

[@thatotg]

📝"We prepare for Love, by learning how to be alone and learning from our past relationships how to improve our next one. Alone we learn to love ourselves, to understand ourselves, to heal our own pain and to care for ourselves."

[@LungeloMnisi]

The older we get, the more in tune we seek to be with ourselves, thanks Mpoomy❤

[@itumakhathini]

Thank you so much Mpoomy. You have taught a lot and I’m still learning. My journey to self love has been very hard but as I’m learning I am losing a lot of people and also this journey has taught me a lot and specifically letting go of my baby daddy and choosing myself. That man has walked in and out of my life as he pleases. I so wanted to come to the festival but I had to choose my child over everything because letting go of that man means child support is not guaranteed, but I know the next festival I’ll definitely make it. I love your wisdom and that you are sharing it with us. Thank you so much

[@paulachoche4286]

I hope one day I can attend one of your women's events you inspired me to start getting to know God again.

[@sonjasamuels5451]

I feel you sentiment 🌱

[@sisamazithaomuhle9118]

"Nobody can be your everything ", really needed to hear this . I guess I have been expecting too much from some people and I overlooked they also have boundaries, thank you for this vedio Mpoomy . ❤️

[@Pj_jeannn]

This is amazing 😅I’m guilty of the first boundary, I always feel bad for saying “no” 🙈

[@EverHopeful555]

When it comes to love I’m in my self protection era…it’s so peaceful here! I’m so glad I have such healthy boundaries, they’ve really saved me from a lot.

[@lillymkototsi2507]

Hi Mpoomy, Truly love this topic. I also spent my 29th birthday by myself, took a day off, went to a spa, journaling and did a lot of reflections and I truly enjoyed myself. I will always advocate for solitude, self discipline and consistency. I have learned with building healthy boundaries for me was learning to be a convenient friend, sister or colleague, it was costly and draining at some point. The joy in saying NO nje when you don't have capacity without feeling guilty.

[@sithandinkosi1242]

Needed thisssss! Okay some examples of saying no to borrowing money all the time 😅

[@khodani_h]

This is relatable, I used seek for validation from people, and struggled to maintain friendships because I always wanted to stand out. I used to stress a lot about being loved or seen by my friends or family. I then developed a relationship with myself, love myself and put myself first. Now I can say no without feeling any guilt that I will lose a friendship. I’m content with myself and doing things that make myself happy. This has helped me grow in different spaces, business, corporate and personal.

[@KaraboFavour]

Sjoooo I never knew I needed to hear this 😍😍

[@zinziswagumede1317]

Great wisdom. Challenged by the example of boundaries with self...

[@simthandilemhlambiso87]

I did the exact same thing on my birthday: spa and taking myself out for lunch ❤. Love this 👌🏽

[@berthatafadzwamapfumo5855]

Loved all of it thanks for the platform. 💖

[@happym3585]

This video was so affirming, I’m at a tug-o-war with boundaries in my life currently and this video made me feel so at ease. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻👑

[@rufarodube972]

Mrs Mom you're such a blessing 👏 really really appreciate you

[@cwayitamarozakafaku5997]

Thank you Mrs Mom, I am busy learning to say NO without explaining myself too. It is not easy but I feel so proud of myself every time I do it.

[@dancinginthepurplereign4126]

I am so glad you are in this Wellness space Mpoomy. Especially because you are a person who does the work on themselves. Thank you!

[@langelihlesibandankiwane1528]

missed watching you doing videos on your own without a guest ❤❤❤

[@friendship6595]

Wow I love the topic and I've tried to discuss it on my channel too so I'm excited to hear your say on boundaries. You have been such an inspiration in my life for years now. Thank you ❤️

[@amosjournal649]

Heading to your channel after watching here

[@pandoramabai4124]

Thank you Mpoomy this was powerful and I learned so much about myself. I am a loner myself and you actually taught me it’s okay.

[@SibuleleTafeni]

Wooow sisi I have been on that journey of being on my own and understanding what I love and I am starting to love and appreciate myself more and more.

[@_AMD24]

I loved this topic !! I struggle so much with this as well but I’m working on it. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@siyamdumisagulwa]

I love you so much Mpoomy and your entire family you've made me to always seek for greatness and never settle for less , i'm a guy but i literally watch all you youtube videos , this topic has actually affirmed me that having boundaries its not something i should me ashamed off 😊i'm going back in setting my boundaries and being selective in whom i spend my time with , thanks a lot Mpoomy . you are such an inspiration and i pray for more Gods protection and favour upon you and your family .

[@thandiswengwaqa6271]

I needed to hear this Mpoomy because I have been struggling with my boundaries lately.....

[@mosibudipriesta]

After listening I have realised that I don't have boundaries especially in my friendships. I have to work it out. Thanks a lot I have learnt a lot😍❤️

[@samukelisiwesithole3795]

Listening to you Mpoomy, makes me realise that I have really come a long way. Boundaries are important especially respecting your own boundaries ❤❤. The self love part, has been hard to master but by God’s grace we are on the right path

[@precious_maphuthi6247]

MRS MOM thank you for this 💖 I really needed this tittle in my life HEALTHY BOUNDARIES

[@evebodirwa]

So insightful and I believe that boundaries are also a form of Self-care 🤍

[@relechoane33]

It's 2023 6 April. I am grateful to have listened to this podcast❤ I love you Mpoomy.

[@__Khanyi.K]

This podcast just hit home, love, love, love it so much ❤

[@lihlelaurasibanda1003]

days later, I'm here too couldn't afford to miss.. I love this safe space, the honesticity, the vulnerable.. Still I repeat one day I'll make to the guests seats lol

[@mwakamatembo7606]

The way I was waiting for this to be uploaded 🥲❤️

[@kabaleGift]

TO me love means being available for myself,accepting myself,complimenting myself and respecting my.own boundaries

[@nobuhlemkhize8217]

My Lenten Journey this year is all about Self-Love....Boundaries is now a bonus....

[@MsRebekahofYHWH]

Always my book list from here!!! Can't wait to grab the new book 📚📖

[@LethoHali]

We’re here! Crossing my boundary to go to bed on time! It’s after midnight in Australia 😅.

[@thembinxitywa9754]

❤️🙏❤️

[@lenahtshimologo2974]

Loved this ♥️♥️ Thank you

[@zuzilezungu5899]

I set boundaries not to upset you but to protect myself 🌟 🤩 ✨️

[@mbalimadela5]

💗

[@dineomoth]

Beautiful video 🥰enjoyed this so much because I just also uploaded my self love journey reflection on my channel and all of this is making sense right now ❤

[@aviwefunda]

What a wholesome video ❤️ I see so much of myself in you 🤭 Those tips on how to say no 👌

[@nazikay1340]

We love you Mrs Mom..That’s all l can say❤❤

[@nomfundoprecious6523]

I am definitely setting boundaries from now and I will be loving myself more ❤

[@pamelathemommy]

I really love spending time with my self but for me it's because when I am around people I feel like I have to prove something or feel small I'm just not content with me

[@Make_his_way_known]

Thank you so much ma'am , my heart has been heavy on this

[@GraceGoneViral]

You keep on serving us well Mrs Mom. Thank you. 🙂

[@natzdijeng1790]

Yeayy first time to be one of the first. I'm so excited about the topic.

[@LethoHali]

9:48 I’m the same!! Soooo hard to say no 😂.

[@MNH_TheFemaleMovement]

Love this conversation, I'm such a people pleaser, working on those boundaries is not easy but very very necessary. Thank you for this

[@motlalepulemorake4965]

This is so profound! Thank you Mpoomy!

[@sheilatualufo487]

Thank you so much for this podcast. I learned a lot about loving and spending time with myself

[@kuhlestutoring-ow6ti]

❤️❤️❤️

[@olwethuntiyane3059]

I’ve missed this segment of your Chanel! Loved every moment and I think for me maybe I need to get back to giving that love to myself for a while ☺️

[@joyfavored3726]

Thank you i needed this

[@bongiwembatha8622]

Is there a way of commenting on the podcast?. This came at a time when I needed it the most I listened to the podcast twice. There are a lot of lessons to learn. I have been trying to learn to love me cause I love hard and feel like I have giving my love to others and not myself

[@dorcusnkomo7335]

Thank you so much for the reminder to love our selfs

[@khodani_h]

I am looking forward to the fest, I will be travelling from East London for the fest 🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@sonwabisenondala251]

Saw the podcast on Facebook, listened to it by chance on Spotify and I'm so glad I did! 🤗

[@Silinganiso]

Yay! It’s Missus Mom❤💃🏾

[@keengmokomane7881]

😍🇧🇼

[@jesiccambanzi5448]

loving self to enable love for other is biblical as well!! second most important command from God is to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. So it's hard to love neighbor if there's no love for self. Looking forward to loving me this year. Thank you Mpoomy, God Bless.

[@Shamiflo]

I'm learning,thank your Mrs MoM ❤️

[@okuhlediko7067]

Love love love this podcast.

[@bongekas4726]

I wasn’t ready for this episode to end 😢

[@esthertibane2728]

Oh wow thank you soo much for this ❤🥰Really loved this...I am also learning to say No without explaining myself .

[@nokwandanyawo6115]

Needed this , I always feel guilty when I say No.

[@refiloesefatsane1653]

Thank you for giving me the idea how I really want to spend my birthday.

[@andilegono3596]

Enjoyed this♥️

[@mueles11]

You are so amazing.

[@bathabilesibanda164]

Insightful❤️thanks Mpoomy

[@thandiswengwaqa6271]

Hey hey🥰

[@kaysocikwa2323]

Loved this!

[@bernardetemendes165]

I can’t wait for #Unlimited

[@zamampungose832]

❤️❤️🙇‍♀️

[@masivuyenodali8622]

Great episode Mpumi. 💞

[@thembekilemasanga4758]

I love it here♥️🫀🙌

[@Serene-ut4hq]

❤❤

[@mandisangqaqhu4442]

Hayibo Mpoomy we are sharing a birthday😍🥰

[@kgomotsomolatelo6924]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@reaobokapanana5617]

Toothpick Ausi😭😭😂

[@ithabelengkopo1690]

Hey Mpoomy....

[@Mummygorgeous]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 its sold out already , the way l wanted to come 💔😥

[@rinaesadike2200]

Hey guys😊, a question? What happens when your partner is emotionally unavailable and not fulfilling that emotional safety need for you. Is it still considered a boundary that you need to respect that they don’t have the capacity to be emotionally available?

[@karenmavhondo1270]

I camp here❤❤❤😅

[@chazchuma6579]

Yey first to comment 🤌🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

[@paulachoche4286]

I hope one day I can attend one of your women's events you inspired me to start getting to know God again.

[@lindiwemkhize6408]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Oyinsunkanmi_id]

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[@lussylupindo1093]

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[@violetmwaanga4647]

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