BUILDING IN SILENCE - Wisdom Wednesdays

[@lauralu6750]

I learned this the hard way. As soon as things would start looking good, I’d open my mouth and things would just start falling apart. It’s hard to be silent when all you want to do is share your joy but you’re right. Everyone is not truly joyous for us. ☹️

[@lovingtheagapeway5554]

Laura Lu: Same here .. I am on the verge of reaping something in my life that I feel is my last bit of hope before it may never hapn for various reasons .. of which one of the reasons consists of the thing crumbling right before my very eyes leaving me publicly humiliated. The same cycle for years. Now I’m sooo desperate for this thing to work this time, that I feel in my spirit this can not be revealed not even to my family members or church members until the appointed time. I just can’t take that chance - smh. Keep the faith sis, and I pray you get ur very hearts desire!!.

[@BeBeautifulBeYou101]

I've always lived a life of silence.The enemy can never come in until you open your mouth to others.

[@5339kimH]

Simply Florence Amen

[@nashiehun9141]

When Joseph shared his dream with his brothers it became a seed of jealousness...have wisdom when to share and to whom you should share. Thank you for the word. I needed it.

[@lenicelacourdia]

Nashie hun yep and that’s why it happened to him because he was boasting about it and didn’t know to keep quiet because he was a child himself. But that’s what we do when we trying to show out and wonder why the road gets hard than what God intended it to be.

[@ladennayoung2939]

@@lenicelacourdia It could have played apart in it, but in reality God allowed it to happen for a reason. God allowed that to transpire in order for Joseph to be in position to be able to bless his family in the future. His brothers didn't even recognize him in his new season/place. And they did indeed end up bowing down to him just as the dream showed Joseph.

[@ladennayoung2939]

@@lenicelacourdia But God advise us to be quiet at times. So jealous people don't speak against the things that God is going to do in our lives. God is preventing them from speaking death into and over it if we obey Him.

[@chanettelaing4664]

So true !!!!!

[@god563616]

this is exactly what I did when I got my new car. I didn't say a word and felt no need to tell anyone. i only said anything when asked and i noticed the response wasn't a "happy one" considering they were suppose to be my friend and rejoice with me. im grateful to God that he leads me in wisdom. though there is times where God will lead you to tell your testimony, this is wisdom for sure to be quiet and be still. But just as the Lord says What you do in secret God will reward openly in due season. Humble yourself before the mighty hand and in due season he will exalt you. thank you woman of God. and thank you for the scripture reference.

[@iamieeesha9619]

Congrats on your car! I'm hoping I get one soon too, I have a job interview today and I ask God that he be with me during that process so I can save up for a car.

[@HugsKisses1997]

Interior Beauty May God bless you on your interview and with the vehicle that you desire in Jesus name!

[@lenaaIAM]

Interior Beauty I will say a prayer for you!

[@Naturellona]

Diana Brown yep me to!

[@god563616]

Interior Beauty thank you sis. May our father make a miracle to happen for you and favor follow you to the right dealership as God led me. After driving my first car for 17 years I walked out with a brand new car at a great dealership with an expired license, expecting to put a $2000 down payment wind up being $900 down, and a $200 car note . TRUST ME GOD DID IT FOR ME ! in due season he will! I remember two three years ago I tried and tried and couldn't save up or get a car for the life of me while I was celebrating everyone around me getting their car. I gave up for a while then I came back just thanking God for the new red car he will give me and he cut a supernatural deal just for me with a RED car fully loaded! I love him he really answers prayers. And the same will happen for you!! Prepare for a testimony and let the holy spirit lead 🙏🙏👍💪

[@tamarahawkins6769]

The Holy Spirit been instructing me to be quiet this is definitely confirmation thank u God.

[@DephneAviyah]

amen!

[@morganalisa7894]

Tamara Hawkins me too girl.

[@ladennayoung2939]

I know this is three years old, but God have been telling me to stay silent this season.

[@MzCrayKray]

This is a great word. I have been feeling really strong that I need to be quiet. I am one to always tell my close friends and family my plans and what I want to do. They seem to never fall through. This year I feel in my heart that I need to build in silence. Plan in silence. Not even tell my sisters or mothers. I just want to be more quiet and move in silence and enjoy my life here and now. God bless this message.

[@divinejustice8657]

Moving in silence is the best way to protect your blessings from God. “Be wise as serpents...use wisdom”. Great advice!

[@melc_91]

This means we cant tell our close friends and family, I do notice when i tell nobody my movements things seem to be going good for me

[@quia-kia]

Thank you for this. I am trying to build a business. I need to build in silence and not move and talk like how I did before. Be wise like a Serpent and gentle as Dove!

[@dime12345]

I'm always hiding don't need validation ... it's natural for me ❤

[@tamikasemple29]

I declare and decree that I will build and be in silence with My goals and dreams In Jesus name Amen.

[@treasurewithlove]

Oooo Jesus. This is why, I dont tell everyone everything. Some people be PREYING on others. The devil is busy. We must protect ourselves. Our spirit. Cover ourselves in prayer. I've been thinking for days. To just keep my mouth shut and quiet. I need to go into hiding and fasting.

[@DephneAviyah]

lol preying on others! Yes we must always pray as the bible exhorts us!

[@CristineChanda]

God give me the grace to build in silence in Jesus's mighty name!!!

[@Soonandvery]

This so spoke to me. I'm currently doing much in silence because I've witnessed first hand people not being happy for me and negative when something good happened to me and that includes family. I've learned valuable lessons about being silent. Thank you for this message! I pray for your continued blessings!

[@DephneAviyah]

thank you and Amen we learn through experiences :)

[@inlovewithyah3596]

Well hey your Sister right hear is happy for you it's ok don't let that get you down smile no matter what and shine

[@7931lila]

So thrilled I found you. My spirit needs The Nourishment you give in your videos. Thank you for following His direction and leading. In a world of empty words, you bring sustenance.

[@sanalb9191]

This is so true. My Pastor is always telling us this. Everyone is not happy for you, or your friend. Thank you!

[@Zestsuli89]

This is exactly what I have been feeling in my spirit. A need to protect the things that are sacred to not prematurely share things. Thank you Dephne

[@booganell]

I wholeheartedly agree with this message! those closest to us will not always be genuinely happy with us. We have to come to terms with keeping certain news and milestones secret.

[@morganalisa7894]

Booganell yes! i need to learn not to tell even some of my closest "friends" my business.

[@morganalisa7894]

i was just talking about this today with my mom! i think the Holy Spirit knows i like to talk about things that happen in my life and recently he's been giving me warnings on why i need to humble myself and keep my mouth shut most of the time. my mom says most people even your "friends" like to see you fail. i appreciate this video so much!!

[@chynnaslibrary]

Exactly I realized I am in the same boat and something guided me to this video due to my own situations. I use to want to tell people this and that and for some reason I just feel like being quiet (totally the complete opposite of who I really am lol) The universe works in mysterious ways.

[@morganalisa7894]

Chynna Ken yes so true!

[@sunshineb1778]

I was lead to pray psalm 91 this morning! confirmation. I need to hide until the Holy Spirit releases me💃

[@DephneAviyah]

amen

[@Called1]

elsie zaninka amen

[@fkaruti]

When you tell a friend some good news that are manifesting in your life ,in the middle of a meal ,and they say they no longer have no appetite for food ,just know that the fasting against you has began!!!protect yourself with silence not everybody celebrates your life positively.

[@SoothingPeace3]

I love this message because that's whom I am, everything I do, I do in silence. I don't post my life on social media. I hide my life and leave everyone guessing

[@nakachi1331]

Amen. I need God's grace and anointing in my nursing career. I have been given a second chance, I want it to be fruitful. Thank you Lord. In Jesus name.

[@alwaysfantabulous]

christiana onyejiaka Amen

[@leen2662]

christiana onyejiaka your story sounds similar to mine. Second chance also doing nursing. God is faithful sister ❤️

[@sharonsmalls6846]

God will help!!! Trust Him!!! I know!!!

[@uBaphiwe]

Aww I wanna cry! I’m rewatching this a few years later & you just thanked us for 9K followers. You’re sitting at 168 000

[@MoveInSilence000]

I use to do this a lot and people would start to get jealous I had to lean to be PRIVATE. People would purposely ask me about my private life and I always keep everything private even at that THE ENEMY used my own family members to start a smear campaign about me because they were jealous , people who don’t know me are telling me about my life just pure hatred for me but I keep everything private. I just realized I’m not going to waste my time arguing with people who think they know my life and I will always be private. Don’t allow REVILERS to destroy your peace.

[@michellemays773]

Thank you @dephne! Praise Abba for bringing this video to my attention 🙏🏽 This video is 6 years old, but very important for me today.

[@Nastasia_Grace]

Amen sister! our mouth can delay or even stop or blessing.

[@Liimoncello]

I literally live by this and it has been an advice from my mother for ages. Move in silence. I don’t share anything on social media anymore. I like to keep myself mysterious. If anyone wants to know they can message me privately. Not everyone on the friend list is rooting for me. It’s best to keep them curious. When God blesses me and they hear or see with their own two eyes only then will they be in shock. Thank you for doing this video.

[@walkingministries5803]

Jesus!!!!!! Whheewwwwww this is so on time for me even tho you posted this video 5 years ago! My Lord!!!!!! Thank you Holy Spirit. I’m sure learning 😊

[@MrDjlo2k]

Proverbs 31:26 (GNT) - She speaks with a gentle wisdom. 💙.

[@kenya501]

This is just what I needed!!! Thank You Holy Spirit for guiding your daughter Daphne to make such a video!! My husband and I are moving into a new season where blessing after blessings are being released to us, and this video just confirmed God word on how not to do things. Everyone will not celebrate with us and that's ok!! Thank You God for your hand upon our lives!! Keep going my sister keep going!! I pray to meet you someday!

[@DephneAviyah]

To God be the glory and may he increase more blessings in your lives! Amen

[@inlovewithyah3596]

I wouldn't mind meeting both of you I would really enjoy seeing all my brothers and sisters in Christ thanks for supporting each other

[@hollyharte7831]

Such good timing. Thank you. Help me help us to be wise and stand in agreement 🤝 with this prayer. Help me at the beginning of .. Thank you for the knowledge in this video. Thank you bless you dear sister. Amen and Amen

[@chinitareid8625]

Yes AMEN GOD TOLD ME THIS I THANK GOD FOR THIS CONFIRMATION IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN.

[@way2girly]

I really needed to hear this :/ Even people in the church who you think would be celebrating with you are jealous and I'm not even showing off :(

[@chinitareid8625]

Greetings in the name of Jesus Christ it is a blessing to be tuning in you are blessed and you and the Family are highly favored 🥰🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰

[@indiawilson3072]

I agree decree and declare and receive and believe by fire and faith in these prayers over my life and my children and families lives in the mighty name and blood of Jesus Christ of Nazareth and it is so and not otherwise Thank you Father, Son, and Holy Spirit Amen 🙏🏽. The Lord has been consistent in telling me to be silent and discretion is necessary for my breakthrough is nearing. I can feel it and his urgency with my obedience to this word is confirmed and undeniable. Thank you in advance Abba, it is so and not otherwise in the name above all others, Jesus Christ of Nazareth.

[@lenicelacourdia]

As I realize now after all these years, why it’s been a straight fight. Just a few moments ago, I was drawing out July in cap letters and I said to myself after insight, beginning now I’m going mind my own business. Got on KZbin and came across this message and clicked to listen. This very message spoke loud and clear to me as I heard your latest message from last Wednesday about Focus and you said it then to be quiet. Now I honestly know why my fight has been so strong. Twice I’ve heard and I’m going to obey no matter how much my tongue want to spew. And to sum it up, I opened my Bible this morning to the very scripture that came to my heart when David said, put a bridle over my tongue...and immediately it was Psalm 40 ! So 3 times means God is commanding me to do just that, SILENTLY build!

[@itsfranky_b]

"Build in silence" a very powerful phrase🙌🏻. I've added it to my life motto list.

[@phairfullymade8582]

Sis, my Zimbabwean sistah,if u were right here I would hug you.So right. Someone said I should talk about my invention n I know it's not time even though it's materialize.Let's continue to cover each other in prayer.Hide in private b4 public.God bless u sis.Amen!🙏❤

[@MsBeyourbest]

So true! Sometimes we prematurely announce the silent revelations that The Lord has revealed to us. Not everyone has "your vision" and not everyone is rooting for us. When we are met with disdain or indifference when we share our ideas, it can cause us to questions what God has confirmed for us in our private time. What a timely message! :)

[@DephneAviyah]

hahaa! amen! (virtual hugs) Yes may He prosper your invention!

[@phairfullymade8582]

Dephne Madyara , you're a blessing sistah. God's continuous blessings. Be sure to bless us when it's wedding bells!!! we know u won't be showing off❤hahaa😄

[@phairfullymade8582]

Dephne Madyara, Thank you!

[@MatandEst]

another WONDERFUL WISDOM WEDNESDAY! :) do all we do FOR THE LORD! love it. bless you all :) -est x

[@DephneAviyah]

amen!

[@Hisjewelever-Malachi]

Such wisdom you share with us Dephne. It’s interesting I am hearing this word from you right now because recently I read about Hezekiah after he was ready to die and had recovered by Lords healing and giving him 15 more years. He showed off all his treasure that he had in his house and God was not pleased with his doing so and sent Isaiah to tell him what God said... basically God took it all away even some of his sons. anyone is interested in reading this account please go to Isaiah 39. We indeed must be wise and not show off our blessings.

[@5339kimH]

Applied to graduate school didn’t say one word until classes were started.

[@crimsonite1524]

O how i relate to this. thats what i did 3yrs ago, now ill be done in may 2020. i struggled with sponsorship, it was never admission into the course, i secretly looked for sponsorship, prayed the whole time, i was not perfect but God was merciful, i got the sponsorship to do a business course, announced it on a friday that classes were next tuesday. my family thought i would never get it, but here we are, the whole story is longer than this but. im left with 4months now. i pray i get a good job right away. GOOD LUCK

[@sharonsmalls6846]

I have earned with God's mercy, grace, and assistance my master's degree. If I share it some people's reaction is negative. I have come to understand it's jealousy and envy. I'm befuddled as I have always been ecstatic for other people's accomplishments.

[@missCleo01]

Confirmation from the Lord...thank you JESUS. Thank you Dephne for this wisdom packed message. 😍

[@fionam4934]

Cleo Madela Amen 🙏🏾

[@DephneAviyah]

amen!

[@sheisadrianna]

Amen! I agree about people telling people about their relationships when they were not even close to being engaged. It makes me confused especially when I see ministers who operate in singles ministry doing this....it's very unwise. Not only do you get your fans egging you on to rush into falling in love and into your engagement(which is unwise and dangerous), but there are witches and jealous, bitter singles who might be watching you from the sidelines and speaking curses over your relationship. Congrats on 90k subscribers! I hope you reach well above 100k!

[@DephneAviyah]

Amen so true! No weapon forged against us shall prosper, but we are not ignorant of the devil's devices! Hallelujah! and thank you i receive!

[@anauxistential8486]

God Bless all who receive this message in Faith & Love. Ai'men🛐

[@ToluFalode]

Love this sis-its so powerful-this biblical verse also reminds me of Esther when she was advised by Mordecai not to say she was a Jew (Esther 2:10)-truly we have to be wise about our surroundings and our circumstances-she was in line to be Queen but her status did not dictate how she handled her circumstances-truly the Word shared here was blessed-thank you!

[@itsallaboutjesuschrist9500]

You are speaking truth. Thank you.

[@MsEster4ever]

Dephne, Dephne, Dephne, What can I say?. May the Lord continue to Bless you. May you now ! and forever be connected to His unlimited resources. I am a subscriber, I have been for quiet some time, I do not frequent your page everyday, but when I do-- you Bless me in Prayer and this is just another one of those times. Much Love Madyara! my dear Love you This is a Confirmation!!!( Though I do not watch you everyday, I do binge watch you lol)

[@lesson5364]

i don't even know wat to say but " thank you LORD for allowing me subscribe to her channel" have a blessed life

[@yeseniasplace]

Man I sure love the women you are. Thanks for helping us

[@kokimahlaba5322]

You’re a powerhouse my lady. 🙏🏽🙏🏽💯💯

[@mamoah]

He’s been telling me the same thing. I got a word from God that shock me and got me so excited. I made the mistake of telling some of the people at my church about it and I was about to tell my friends as well. The Lord warned me that it wasn’t a good idea to do so that I may open myself up to warfare attacks from the enemy. This confirms what he was saying over the weekend thanks for your help ❤️

[@sunshineb1778]

right on time! May the Lord bless you richly!

[@aliciasquaire9001]

Thankyou,for reassuring me that silents is powerful.I had to learn that the hard way.thats way I keep my business to myself.Thankyou Jesus for words of wisdom.

[@curvethefattntelias4253]

that's so true God blessed me and my family with more than I could ask or think and when I told my family about it some were not happy with me they were more like haters

[@primgivens5393]

I came for natural hair videos, stayed for the word of God. you are a blessing! thank you!

[@inlovewithyah3596]

Prim Givens Girl it happens like that sometimes God wanted you here and I'm joyful that you did stop here

[@beesibbs4244]

Amen I learnt to practice being quiet a few years back and what i one of the best lesson I learnt in business and in my personal life

[@iamaksd]

How this is such a wise thing? I have a few times opened my mouth too soon sharing things that I felt the Lord didn't want to share yet and boy I wished I had listened. Not everyone wants to see successful in any form or fashion.

[@DephneAviyah]

we all learn and thats how we get wiser :) m glad you are wiser now! God bless

[@fiifiquartey4179]

Thank you for the powerful advice.

[@susancoleman6855]

i really was avice from this message it came for me i am quick to tell people my progress. and it will not work out.i will go silent for now.Thanks to u Holy spirit for your words to me. and to u sister for shering this with the world.may the good LORD increases u in more wisdom. in Jesus Christ name....Amen.

[@rebeccaoprea9917]

Prayer , praise , and proclamations .

[@Fitfor_Expression]

I noticed this the other day I got excited about something and wanted to share it with my close sisters but God just told me to be mindful..,I been noticing that I can’t always share things with everyone..,b/c not everyone will be happy

[@osali10]

This video was meant for me I needed to watch it to help me in life. I am feeling bad right now cos I realised I have made alot of mistakes by telling friends and family more than they ought to know about me and my family. I pray for wisdom of God to help me henceforth to build in silence.

[@msruezimgoddess1299]

Omg! You know what God has just answered my questions. Of ALL the things u preached this hit me! This is TRUE amen x3. I'm still in shock 😭😭😭😭. I loved this Dephne ❤️

[@gwendolynbradford4922]

This is good Word! Thank you so much😙

[@Bella_M26]

Matthew 10:16 🙏🏾 favorite verse! Such a confirmation. I will continue to move in silence.

[@alexandriaedwards1937]

Thank you for this!

[@TheWomanBeyond]

Amen!!!! Powerful message sis

[@trixietang9982]

thank you! Ive been receiving God's blessings (big and small) since being saved a few years ago. I always felt like I should be telling everyone, but it felt unnatural. Now I realize that building quietly is okay, and when it's time to testify in His name Ill be ready.

[@tsireledzomabuli4121]

Powerful Teaching Still here 2020

[@sweettoothmarie7304]

Prayer to maintain breakthrough!! 🙏

[@louisa_orajekwe]

I don't know what to say..buy you are indeed a blessing.. So much wisdom from the mouth of such a young woman!!..PRAISE GOD!!

[@chichistevenson9317]

"The path of the just is as a shining light,shining brighter and brighter unto the perfect day" You look younger and even more beautiful in 2019 ,we will not be able to look at you in 2030 because the glory upon your life will keep increasing!above all your ministration of the word is getting even more glorious. Indeed the glory of the latter house is greater than the former!

[@PatriciaVlog]

First of all, I pray that God will bless you !!!!! Second of all, your videos are always what I need ! It's like a connection, like if you knew what I needed. Thanks god for people like you ! Be bless !

[@dr.anitha5455]

our most loving daph greeting from south India.im blessed by the prophetic word of God.thank u very much for ur ministry which is very much encouraging in time of need.i would like to meet ur kindself in uk when i come.im doing a ministry in a slum area of India.im dr.anitha.from kolar gold fields.🙏👌👍

[@ann-mariepaisley8441]

This word is still effective! Thank you Lord...

[@ohenewawilliams2217]

God BLESS you, Sister Dephne. All of your Videos have blessed me. you have not idea how much. Please keep doing the Good work. I know God will renew your strength and keep you on the path of righteousness. hallelujah

[@DephneAviyah]

To God be the glory!

[@Kailloumitchell]

I noticed every since I was little the moment I opened my mouth about something I looked forward to it didn’t happened, plans always got canceled

[@tshidiso90]

Am so blessed by this message.Thank you Sister Dephne.

[@sweetestcandy083109]

Dephne!!!! I needed this!!!!! You have noooo idea!!!! Thank you honey and God bless you!!!!

[@DephneAviyah]

amen To God be the glory! :)

[@lildebWorld]

so true.. tell those that u know will keep u in prayer and what good for you

[@DephneAviyah]

yes amen those who are accountable prayer partners! Thank you

[@janinerudder9193]

This message resonates so deeply with me! Thank you for sharing.

[@joyheavenbound6378]

I've done about 4 CXC'S and I'm 100% sure I did my best because I studied so hard and get a grade 3 in one subject and the rest was grade 4's ..my mom told everyone that I was going to do them and tell people to pray for me ..and I didn't know why but I wasn't happy about that ..but for the past weeks I just feel to go sign up and try again just God And myself would know about it ..because as bad as it sounds I really don't believe people can want others to just fail smh but it's the truth I've got to accept

[@KaraDep87]

Girl, love that you are pursuing and speaking wisdom.

[@shedaiy]

Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🙏🙏💝✨

[@DephneAviyah]

amen!

[@tieashasamuels2627]

I'm so thankful for today's Wisdom Wednesday. It hits home with someone close to me. Thank you.

[@DephneAviyah]

amen amen and you are welcome!

[@ganyanajoanrivers4988]

This was for me thank you oh God that you will teach me go be quite and silence in all areas and open my inner eyes to see you . God bless you ss and Everyone

[@msawp6694]

I watched this earlier this year but was led to come back. Praise God for confirmation! Thank you for your channel I am a subscriber and you have truly been a blessing to me.Thank you for what God has given you to pour out to others. It is truly saving lives. God Bless you my sister. May God continue to keep you and cover you as he leads you.

[@mauriceedwardj8707]

This message was right on time. I needed to hear it this morning!

[@shanelleellis2540]

Amen thank you for this word its very powerful.God please help me to stop prove or explain myself to others help me to build in silence!!#BuildQuietly Thank you for this message

[@MissJhane]

I am thankfulnto have felt into this wisdom today. I understand the IMPORTANCE of giving praise to God ALL THE TIME, and to prepare in silence

[@Naturellona]

i whole heartedly agree with all that you've stated!

[@DephneAviyah]

To God be the glory! :)

[@natacae1]

I understand in full agreement with father and sister delphine in jesus name amen

[@matildamkamburi7426]

Amen Amen. May God help me to hide in his presence.. Be blessed Dephne.

[@daniellelove333]

awesome word!! confirmation on the way I'm going with these blessings I've received so far. may God continue to use u for his glory!

[@DephneAviyah]

amen amen and thank you!

[@sybilweston1681]

Sister Dephne, THANK YOU so much for allowing God to use you in ministry. You have been such a Blessing to my life. I Pray God gives you the True Desires of Your Heart!!!

[@allannagreen3034]

Thank you Dephne. I look forward to what you have for use next week.

[@ebonytoilesechandler7679]

Amazing.....

[@PZJBimha]

New subscriber here hoping to catch up on all your content. Thanks for the amazing sharings.

[@ExtraEshia]

i needed this sister!!!!!