M A I D S Let's talk about maids, Bump Lovers. What's the shortest time you've ever had a maid and why did they leave? Let us know your most interesting maids story in the comments below. #Househelp #Nannies #BumpLove #Motherhood
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@bumploveug2 жыл бұрын
M A I D S Let's talk about maids, Bump Lovers. What's the shortest time you've ever had a maid and why did they leave? Let us know your most interesting maids story in the comments below. #Househelp #Nannies #BumpLove #Motherhood
@richardssebagala64432 жыл бұрын
72 hrs! I always do a routine HIV test on arrival so that day I came with her, took her the clinic, they took off the sample it was a Thursday so the lab guy told me results were not so good she he told me to go with her and bring her again in the morning for acomformatory test it also turned up positive and I had no one to stay with my kid that morning since we both me and my husband we had to go and work so my husband sucrificed that day and stayed home with both of them as we waited for Saturday when am off to take her back to her village but she went back home crying.
@richardssebagala64432 жыл бұрын
Another one was sleeping outside the main house, one week after her arrival we cought her with a boy and remember she was a sister to husbands friend who gave birth when she was at school so they wanted her to come make some capital then she goes back and she starts up as all business. So when Mr. found her with a man, he talked to her and left forgave her since it was outside home.,two weeks after she brought the same guy inside her bedroom and we found them having live sex.
@rachaelnabukko43582 жыл бұрын
@@richardssebagala6443 such a case needed counselling before sending back coz you might find nga she had been stop from going to school simply bse of the sickness
@praiseahereza26342 жыл бұрын
Mine was a girl from the village, i came with her and with in 3 hours the way i saw her i couldnt manage🤣she was yelling at my baby imagine
@ruthken25702 жыл бұрын
24 hours
@uwamariachantal27052 жыл бұрын
I WAS GIVEN ONE WHO WOULD STAY CRYING WHEN I GO FOR WORK, SHE WAS 13 AND I DECIDED TO TAKE HER BACK TO SCHOOL SO SHE IS PART OF MY CHILDREN. I GOT A BIGGER MAID WHO IS TAKING CARE OF HER AND MY OTHER KIDS😆
@maxentiaomurungi42212 жыл бұрын
Awww lovely
@nabakoozabrenda Жыл бұрын
Well done.
@shamirahix9651 Жыл бұрын
God bless you 🙏
@mulungishakirah3692 Жыл бұрын
Wow u so good.God bless u more dear.
@gwenjacky2674 Жыл бұрын
Wawoooo that's so kind of you, well done mukwano ❤️❤️
@komugisharitah40882 жыл бұрын
Level of education, physical appearance etc also matters
@carolinemayende79172 жыл бұрын
We had a maid for 9 years..and "Zaalika" left when she was going for marriage..till today she comes back and checks on my mom... She had her own room, she was like child at home yet she was mature ...she even taught us some things like cooking matooke the kiganda way etc.. My Mentor has had a maid for 8 years and she is still there..
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Don't you think this is more of character than anything? P
@najunarabecca76402 жыл бұрын
Tell us about maids that followed her. Because from experience, After a good maid in most cases it's hard to get a better one
@ramathanluyinda51452 жыл бұрын
Waaauu
@shirokiarie51872 жыл бұрын
Team 254.. We don't hire under 18. You can be sued with child labour. Mine who lasted shortest was 2weeks. The brother died she went for the 3weeks 🤦. She was a luhya from west region of Kenya. I loving your content girls 💕💕
@susanvortmann37192 жыл бұрын
I Was also disturbed that they employ minors. In my country its not allowed and my Instinkt will also hinder me from employing a 7yr old
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately in UG, our labor laws are weak. We do need to protect children/minors. We need to do better. P
@zipwangui2 жыл бұрын
Why would a woman, a mother employ a child as a house girl. No matter how careless the government is, to not enforce some laws. Women should know better really, to not employ minors.
@Marydk32 жыл бұрын
I was also surprised when I heard 13yrs. That is a child. I just put myself in the shoes of that girl. At 13 I may have known how to clean my clothes but a household responsibility I would not handle it. Am sure everyone from 254 will be shocked
@intel40832 жыл бұрын
Under the provisions of Employment act section 56 a child under the age of 16 can't be employed..... children b2n the age of 13 and 16 can do light work only. Employment of children under the age of 13 is completely prohibited...
@candidtalkwithadelle2 жыл бұрын
I really pay my nanny extremely well and take care of her medical. This i did not bse i can afford, but my little son is in her hands more hours a day. Maybe that will change as my son grows. I do feel that we need to attach value to the work these ladies do and also have genuine conversations. I have only had one maid so far. Thanks for the conversation.
@rachaelmwine2 жыл бұрын
I agree...
@oliveralinaitwe11192 жыл бұрын
Problem you may think you are paying her well but to her side it's not enough
@diananamawejje14772 жыл бұрын
The shortest time I have had was 3hours, she came and when I went the bedroom, she ran off. Payment for me is 80,000/= also with timely bonuses depending on impressive performance, for example, she washes the cartens, or the windows. The payments depends on your salary and as well the kind of work in your home. That's my opinion
@diananamawejje14772 жыл бұрын
I would like to be part of the show one time pleased
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Yes. Let us attach value. P
@politeayikiriza46052 жыл бұрын
"Teach your children house work" this is very key surely.... Thank you Manuella
@amaniamani42822 жыл бұрын
Thanks you!! I always say I have to empower my own human resource.
@maryk11762 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the show but I have been a maid some time back in pandemic, I remember I worked in a car tain house a round bunga, the lady and her kids were so nice nawe nga owulirira ddala nti oli Waka but later came this husband of the lady who used to sleep there once in the whe more so in weekends mikwano omusajja nga webanywa omwenge that ki man nga kinsoberera nga nebase I only thank God that I could hear him snicking into my bed room and I ran out of the bed room and lock myself in the kitchen you people its a long story, naye one day I sat myself down and I was like what if one day katonda anvamu kuno ogusajja negumpamba nengamba enough is enough I love money but can handle the results from rape, I lied to a lady lady that I had lost some one en I have to attend burial cuz I was a bit scared to tell her wen I was still in her house yo make a long story short wen I got out I called her and td her exactly y I had left. Mikwano some times there things those maids fear to tell u that's y some just leave but not all maids don't know what they want nze Singa nali wakwetega I could have eaten that big man mu bitibwa but that's not my thing and it wasn't my agender nooooo
@conniekavuma51762 жыл бұрын
Employing kids below the age of 16yrs is child abuse banange...unpopular opinion
@kristine_wangui2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Connie Kavuma. I am wondering how a grown woman is employing a child and is OK with it. Shame on them for laughing about it.
@ritzerblessing99172 жыл бұрын
@@kristine_wangui so its wrong but you know that these people don't have another option but to find work since they can't go to school anymore...instead of being married off somewhere at that age employment is a better option...this is a different Uganda we as children fend for families...so I'll take their side on this one
@shanjoeria26762 жыл бұрын
@@ritzerblessing9917 u r ryt its beta
@joanitahnalubwama9052 жыл бұрын
Come to think of it,you're right
@berylnyengo70182 жыл бұрын
In fact it is 18 in Kenya
@julietmujumba60942 жыл бұрын
But if your the wife to someone for real,make sure you take care of yr man,taking care of him yr keeping his spirit contented,women just don't know that.Wake up prepare for yr husband, don't let the maid do yr duties in the life of yr husband, really yr out and you know yr man is ever home early, really? Really?? Then who takes care of him when he enters? Please make sure yr man sees your face saying good day and he sees you again saying welcome back home.
@nshemeireshinnah11432 жыл бұрын
Kemi some men are not okay and they are so cruel munange I was 19 when I started working the gu man was like 40's do you know that after dropping their 2 Kids and they go to work, only him to come back and stay home the whole day trying to be friend me until he started touch touching me in an un appropriate way guess what I did direct telling madam face to face that am leaving coz of yo gu man and he's like abcd...... Only the lady to tell me that I know his behavior I left on spot with my ka 50k nempona omu monster ogwo.
@nambiba582 жыл бұрын
its unfortunate that the maids i have given much of my understanding, love and care, take that for granted and i dont stay long with them. However, those i dont pay attention to, those i pretend not to care for, stay longer and do what is reguired of them.
@nanduggaaisha11792 жыл бұрын
Today am on maid's side this time most ladies just think having maids at home are angles and robots
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
True! P
@aokookello5564 Жыл бұрын
I'm just inagining. Ehy shoukd yiu even accept a 13 year old as a househelp jamani. I do understand the African context of it but an educated woman shoukd not have a 13 yeae old as a househelp
@jessicaalunyu1691 Жыл бұрын
At my home I never employ a maid less than 20 years. I need a mature. This time around I was brought a girl of 16 years. An orphan that I was suppose to be paying to her Aunt. I told them I only need someone for basic things like cleaning utensils and coming home earlier than me because I am always busy. I decided to enrol her in a nearby school. The girl is so Sharp. I encouraged her to assume she is at her mother's home .she should do the regular housework and focus on her study. I am a single parent of one. We are just three in our house. My son goes to school from 6 am to 6 pm. She goes to school at 7:30 am and comes back at 5:30 pm. She then prepares dinner which is always something light. Everybody has lunch from their school and me from my wherever. We converge home for dinner. I take full responsibility for my son except washing his uniform which the maid does. It's been two years. We are ok. I cannot have a minor stay with me and not do something useful for their lives. I don't need someone to stay 24/7 at my home.
@Zahr-Jinda9 ай бұрын
Seeing my goal in someone's story
@AmafollowerofChrist65352 жыл бұрын
Above all,please pray for the maids who are coming to your home.There are some really weird stories about househelps from stealing,destroying marriages,gossip,teaching children weird characters,satanic agents etc. Thank you ladies for the topic
@nsherrysherry27762 жыл бұрын
The shortest time I stayed with a maid was 2weeks, but I came back home when she had stolen my 6month son and spent 15hours with him without getting him but thank God I caught her before nothing bad has happened yo the boy
@maggynowak35559 ай бұрын
Girls don't worry about househelps in your homes. If your Husbands are cheats, they will even impregnate a woman dressed in a drum. Adultreous man is a adultreous all the way.
@richauntie3162 жыл бұрын
How about we call them house managers? Maid is of the past and feels demeaning,as someone who has worked in Dubai as a house help for 8 years, it's not easy especially when bosses expect you to know everything and do everything as if there is a school where we are trained to do that kind of work,and most of them talk down on their helps thinking they aren't humans of educated,some are bad but most of them are good ,its just insecurities of some Bosses who get intimidated.lol
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Changing the title doesn't change shit. But what should change is how we view and treat the help. P
@najjumaelizabeth90162 жыл бұрын
Some people really disgust me with maids we have a neighbor who pays the maid 70k but all chores and taking care of two baby kids like really
@HeyPhonsi2 жыл бұрын
I have heard stories of 13 or 14-year-old maids in Uganda. Is this a thing? Households hiring children as house helps? Isn't it illegal? Why does it seem like it's a socially acceptable thing? 🤔🤔🤔
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
It is unfortunately a thing in UG and we need to do better hence this conversation. Our labor laws need to be upped. P
@janatsanchez35552 жыл бұрын
These thgs of maids are both sides and am so sorry to many but mostly very high so educated ladies treat these people like nothing. Have lived in my sister's place who works with UN but my God what l saw changed me about the stories most of us have on maids. The maid was waking up at 5 to prepare kids for school and later prepare breakfast as everyone is sleeping,cooks,washes cloth, irons ,deals with kids after school and others,that she sleeps at 11 at night but still my sis would be still shouting at her.and out of all this she was earning 60000 sh,she eats last, and she had posho and beans to eat everyday aside that thg broke me that everytime l was on a table l couldn't swallow my food until l said l can't stay here anymore but u ask her about Maids she will tell u stories that me who knew the truth can hardly take in.
@rinahope2 жыл бұрын
Yr right my dear... they treat them like slaves
@nancyoyula Жыл бұрын
Watching this from Kenya and I'm wondering if this is how maids are perceived in UG. The ladies sound so condescending, and are also comfortable employing underage kids? Most of these ladies sound like terrible employers tbh, esp the lady who said she can't have conversations w bodas and maids etc
@maryteka99152 жыл бұрын
Enjoying the show from kenya... Please include translated captions for the luganda parts
@kahundeiryne84432 жыл бұрын
I worked as a maid while I was in my high school vacation but It was fun as if I had left my village for exposure. The experience was wow after I did my internship at the embassy my former boss being my supervisor and guess what; marks were flowing. Thanks to aunt laurita.
@اللالبالاا2 жыл бұрын
I was a maid for 8 years 🤗🤗it will be a privilege to be invited
@lornakal53002 жыл бұрын
In 2008 I sent back a 13year old maid that had been sent to me from the village. I gave her money for school fees, uniform and books and had promised her that I would pay her until she completed S.4. Unfortunately never contacted me again. She reached the village and looked for the next person who was looking for a maid. 😢😢. When my daughter is on holiday I can even spend a week without entering the kitchen. When she is at school I am in the kitchen everyday coz I am a picky eater and I love preparing my meals. I take care of my 5 year old son.
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
She just wanted a way out. She wasn't about this education life. I applaud you for trying to make her better. P
@kezziahwaititu63132 жыл бұрын
Give each other time to speak
@barbraduhabwe41892 жыл бұрын
I had to pose and get the scripture after Pumla told the story; Proverbs 30:21-23 There are three things that make the earth tremble- no, four it cannot endure: a slave who becomes a king, an overbearing fool who prospers, a bitter woman who finally gets a husband, a servant girl who supplants her mistress. A maid that takes the place of her mistress the Bible says is something the earth cannot endure.... God help us.
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Kale see. Even scripture speaks to it. God help us! P
@nahabweruth55122 жыл бұрын
Pumla has put into words my reflections on why a number of my house helps have failed to work for me; the differences in mindset are really something. And of course the patience wans easily when it comes to certain simple things that these twenty something year olds seem to fail to grasp and you're thinking, this is not a child! If I was financially better off, I would also be one of those people that don't keep live in helps. Some make you feel like you have to worry about your complaint not offending them, while they seem unconcerned about you, their boss being offended over washing utensils and they remain unclean. Sigh!
@nambilynatte7364 Жыл бұрын
I have also ever been a maid in 2013 when I withdrew from university in my 2nd year so my friend connected me to a certain lady. I didnt mind doing that kind of job coz I grew up with a stepmum and I being the firstborn suffered with all the house chores. So that lady was staying in mutungo and I was at kyambogo university so i thought it that it would be nearer for me to commute from her home to university. I went to her home when the kid was in p.1 but I left when I was going to get married. So some bosses are good depending on the maid's character while other bosses are really terrible.
@lwangaatlanta2 жыл бұрын
Manuela, my transport experience is still fresh..it happened this week. the girl didnt come, her fone is off🤦🤦
@Carol01104 ай бұрын
Many bosses dont talk to their housemaids ,many maids suffer from mental health not only because of the work but many things
@nakanyikejustine60112 жыл бұрын
And some families you treat them badly 🙄🙄kati wanno mwelunjiya 😂😂😂mbu you know you know
@malkiawaalego25522 жыл бұрын
Growing up, our domestic managers have been in their 30s and 40s. We have been very fortunate to have really good ones, especially if they are more mature, they are great. We had a Ugandan one in her late 20s for 5 years who left to get married, another one for 10 years who left to become a farmer, and another one for five years who is still with us. We pay fees for their kids, on top of their salary. The shortest tenure, in her early 20s, lasted a month before she met the love of her life, a nearby watchman, on her way out she shopped some major items from our house to start their new life 😂
@annlydia75692 жыл бұрын
Hello bump love, thanks ladies for this topic I run an agency for domestic help but my biggest concern is, our society has categorically stereotyped all maids to be bad and unworthy so they're easily thrown under the bus. We need to change the narrative that way we will pay them their worth and also be able to understand that just like other employees in different places of work, good people also exist that can serve us right in our homes
@nakanjakkomayira5862 жыл бұрын
If you run a maid agency. Put in the work to professionalise their work.
@evelynletstalk9793 Жыл бұрын
I have never got a good maid. Either they can't do work, being moody, eating baby's food/snacks, kamanyiro. And yet when they come people who refer them say this one can work. Etc
@kigozi100 Жыл бұрын
Can I tell you how God works, If He doesn't give you here (cute face) He can give you here! (big waist)... Naye Pumla Oli muzibu! 🤭🤣🤣🤣 You made re-watch 26:43 to 27:18 like 100 times! laughing aloud all the time.... Big up ladies.....
@nkhen_c3572 жыл бұрын
The one in cheque blouse she should have sent that child back even before starting to work.. You cant use a minor.... The use of maid have a bad history connotation. We can use another name ladies....
@wanderapauline48442 жыл бұрын
I select and check their clothes, no short dresses in my home. I buy clothes for them selectively. I just like decensy in my home
@Prayerpartnerinternational2 жыл бұрын
I wish you could put subtitles when you speak in your native language. Am a Kenyan so most of it is passing😂
@rachaelmwine2 жыл бұрын
Oh very good point. I have the same problem when I watch Kenyan content 🤣 so I get it..
@Seapila2 жыл бұрын
I had raised the same concern. I love your show I have learnt a lot from you ladies. I always refer people to your channel. Great content
@yulitanabaweesi46792 жыл бұрын
@@rachaelmwine naye racheal😂😂
@raychonmulungi75382 жыл бұрын
You can actually go to your settings and turn on the subtitles/captions.
@estherwangui84492 жыл бұрын
Exactly.. Am a Kenyan too...then you guys shouldn't hire 14 years old that's child labour
@rinahope2 жыл бұрын
The only problem people that consider themselves high class is thinking that being a maid yr a failure, totally nothing n being arrogant!! These are fellow humans who are simply trying to find a a start!! Anyway, thank you ladies for the conversation
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
"Being a maid is a failure." Eh! I have never even heard this away from this comment. Such a wrong perception. P
@kisakyebecky80442 жыл бұрын
For real am amaid but I also have one.but guys pliz some bosses are mean yet they are also working for their bosses but before abusing someone put your self in the maids shoes and pliz.we are the same just the levels differ.be considerate.bigup to my boss she has been good to me in everything
@travonnelynda2 жыл бұрын
I loved it when Angie said women should make time to show the maids around what to do and how to do it
@nanduggaaisha11792 жыл бұрын
Boundaries are also important in families mostly between husband and maids
@Kaka_Industry Жыл бұрын
i love how Aggie broke it down...we have different incomes lets not judge people by what they can afford to pay their helpers.
@Bedofroseshomeug2 жыл бұрын
Av had a maid for 1 night... she was too rude I feared to leave my babies with her the next day I told her to pack her bag. I closed the door ohhh maid stories are stressing.
@graceturyahebwa58782 жыл бұрын
Mrs Mulondo you do go to heaven because of your good works! No it is because you believed Jesus Christ.
@bukenyacathy4712 жыл бұрын
Angie says maid is a maid🤣🤣so my fellow kadamas stop complain naye to be honest with you bakadama tetuli bangu ate tetusiima
@jackiezcribbabycenter61682 жыл бұрын
Seriously, this topic will keep popping at us. I think good maids are rare, now days we have those that come to cause havock at home. Agencies r making money, the more u go to different homes the more money they make. Yes I have had good maids but only those I got from village, agencies it's God'grace. The challenge with us bigger homes, u get two and oh my God? Not easy. But we do appreciate for sharing. Agencies don't know these girls. They just walk in and spend a day with them or hours. The trust be told, good or bad, we need to pray to land on the right person. Good character can be trained and learn. Good luck
@Alphate19972 жыл бұрын
How comes this channel has been for long and I don't come across it until today when the KZbin recommended your video Topic Labial Elongation Great and educative programs ####watching from United States of Arua##
@purplegreenpearl2 жыл бұрын
Instinct also helps...am a good judge of character
@nabawanukagorreth29812 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 it's a funny and informative talk....I had one...that I took as a sister...took her for Tailoring classes for three months.she felt she had learnt alot.....but she left when I told her about bathing cos of her body.. odour.... and that was towards the end of her Tailoring classes....
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Imagine! Some just don't want to be told off. P
@najunarabecca76402 жыл бұрын
I don't know why they smell these days
@liznyamasio2412 жыл бұрын
Hallo Ladies, I like your show am a new subscriber. Kindly when you use local language put in mind you have international audience.
@namubirusophy90212 жыл бұрын
I had a maid for two hours. She told me that she's not interested in babies. Yet I had a two months baby. So I had to let her go.
@tuwirejimusole1673 Жыл бұрын
Am glad she was honest enough otherwise she would have hurt your baby
@pamelanabwire70932 жыл бұрын
Thank you for today's topic ladies. I like the raised concerns and ideas because it aligns with what I'm doing to train househelps.
@dianaelizabeth49792 жыл бұрын
Maids... mine actually escaped and left my baby yesterday alone in the house.. just a day after paying her salary.. and I had asked her a night before if she really wants to work, and had said yes.. Olemwa
@nakitendenaomi1522 жыл бұрын
Maids olemwa sometyms
@lwangaatlanta2 жыл бұрын
yesterday i was interviewing one over the fone, she asked me the "olina abaana bameka, osula munju yamaka oba zilimu nyingi" i asked her "kiki kyosinga okwagala" interview ended🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kivumbijackie85242 жыл бұрын
the guts thy have like thy ever built ahse mstwee
@jeanakelo55222 жыл бұрын
Oyo mubbi...run!
@rachaelmwine2 жыл бұрын
Bwahahaha🤣
@rachaelnabukko43582 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@miriamnamubiru19372 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@allisonlawson94232 жыл бұрын
Good morning to you beautiful ladies…greetings from Barbados.. happy friday!
@linalesia51882 жыл бұрын
If you have a 13, 14 year old help, that’s a child and don’t be surprised if they act as such.
@estherwangui84492 жыл бұрын
Exactly am in shock .how can someone even hire a kid to work for them....this is sad.. In Kenya its not allowed
@jacintamuthoni91922 жыл бұрын
And people should normalize giving their helps offdays just like you get from your place of work coz this is also their place of work. A contract like you get from your employer get one with the too with all that you think it'll serve you and them
@shivanbusuulwa61702 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@rachaelmwine2 жыл бұрын
I agree, even with my live out, there has to be a day off in our arrangement.
@sophieakot3462 жыл бұрын
OMG Manuella🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣going to heaven ,that one.u r right
@jullettedwards5514 Жыл бұрын
Sad. In my country people that help is in our homes are called helpers. Sitting in your queen chairs talking about your subjects.
@veronicaanyango67182 жыл бұрын
Am a miad I wish I could come and talk about some things 😅 people do 😂
@ashabnansimbe18622 жыл бұрын
Pumla I want to be your maid nyabo wabula have learnt alot
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Come. Come. Come. P
@letstalkwithirenerenny2 жыл бұрын
oluzungu lungi nyo ,neighbour wange is asking for interpretation of the whole show
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Hahahaaaaaaa!!! Tukoletutya nyabo ? P
@Tireito242 жыл бұрын
Angie you always speak facts 👏
@stellamurungi87732 жыл бұрын
Her expressions 😄
@nanduggaaisha11792 жыл бұрын
We have had maids at my home, my mother is too tough but they things these people loved in our home my mother told us to respect these girls upto now they check on her and one has her baby girl at my home
@gloriamutoni5137 Жыл бұрын
I know some people (in Rwanda) who use maids from Uganda..it seems they are good ones.. idk
@aliceakello48552 жыл бұрын
I have had mine for over 7years now from the time I had my first child. I treat her like my own daughter. My boys know her as their only sister. Although I brought her in as a nanny, I realized she performs better with the house chores so we switced roles. She loves the kids but can not handle well kids' issues. We have a great relationship with weaknesses here and there but manageable.
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Nice that you took the time to understand her strengths and let her dwell on that. Kudos! P
@letstalkwithirenerenny2 жыл бұрын
Rosette that child was 13 and we put alot of expectations on them maids ,actually nannies ,I hate the word maid
@nyafambaphiona22412 жыл бұрын
Maids I gave up, with these neighbors who don't mind their businesses
@lizzyfavor95307 ай бұрын
Ladies thanks alot but maids nedda no matter how much your good they come with there own expectations, i got a leave out this week and three days down the road i caught her ready handed stealing a neighbors matooke yet i would give her breakfast😢😢 and she cleans and goes immediately she completes her work.
@ugandanbabe67362 жыл бұрын
I’m disappointed at the way ....Rossette said that “they go to the Arab world and face it”just leave that discussion of being a house maid in Uganda and outside....it’s different........when I had just finished campus....I worked as a house maid in Uganda...in some home and I was being paid 500k...., We are all humans but some house wives and their children are not good to maids ..... The discussion is so biased .....”The boss is always good”the maid is always bad
@anniewangarikaranja24972 жыл бұрын
Can't even stand to watch grown women calling children maids with no shame nkt
@hallejudy2 жыл бұрын
Can we treat maids like other employees with a minimum wage and have specific rules and discipline in the home. The conversation and exposure is also important to understand who and where these girls come from
@zaburahzaburahh1784 Жыл бұрын
Angie is the best on this topic the rest are very rude I don't know why
@predestinated92487 ай бұрын
This maid thing swings both ways a maid can be good but the boss is bad or the other way round
@daphinewalusa40842 жыл бұрын
This topic has been loooooooong over dew...😂😂😂
@daisytinka77952 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much ladies. This topic is wide!!!! For me *BAD Vs GOOD* just like Manuela, gave up on these girls coz I also want to go to heaven. Its just luck to have a good maid and however much you treat them nicely believe me u!!!
@kiwuulestone217911 ай бұрын
Buziga ladies mistreets maids 😮
@essy12472 жыл бұрын
Like i pray for every thing else in my home. I pray for a maid even before taking them on. For me it has worked Thanks for your brilliant views. Bump lover in S.korea
@rachaelmwine2 жыл бұрын
This is good advice...
@nabakoozabrenda Жыл бұрын
This is really nice. As you discussed both sides. I personally think salaries play a role in maid misbehaviour. If we gave them more love and care they would work better but also if you asked them heart to heart why they are into business. You ladies are amazing. Great job done as this is the main problem among working class.
@reginanajjemba7713 Жыл бұрын
Manuela copying🤣🤣
@dounial.23962 жыл бұрын
But have not heard anyone say I teach my children house work
@estherwangui84492 жыл бұрын
Am Kenyan am just shocked how you guys comfortably hire kids to work for you guys.. That's child labour...in Kenya its not allowed.. You guys should be ashamed of yourself this is so disgusting
@justjenny6612 жыл бұрын
It's so wrong on many levels, especially hiring and topping it up discussing a 13year as if she/he is an adult. What can a 13year old comprehend, they should be able to do basic chores and actually take initiative to get things done around the home, but still in their minds they are still not adults and have alot of growing up to do.
@estherwangui84492 жыл бұрын
@@justjenny661 exactly I agree with you 100 per cent
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Our labor laws are weak but through conversations like this, were trying to do better. P
@estherwangui84492 жыл бұрын
@@pumlanabachwa8668 ooh okay...true there's always room to do better
@Cirukanyoro Жыл бұрын
Am shocked that it is a normal thing with our neighbors UG
@rashidahbarbie15472 жыл бұрын
Sincerely speaking,I prefer not having a maid,banange avoid maids especially when your children are around 0 to 4 years,because being a maid isn't a job,it's a situation that forces someone to do that thing,and we are in the era of using washing machines,u can do your meal preps,and also I like to train my children to do home chores like tiding up their bed ,toys etc.
@evelynkabahuma70352 жыл бұрын
Hi Ladies, thanks for having this discussion! To be honest, I found this conversation a bit dissapointing...I expected a much more mature conversation from amazing, highly educated and well spoken ladies such as yourselves, not insecure discourse like we see around. This today was more like something you would find on a ''mama Tendo'' page for me. Angie had some great insights though!
@evelynkabahuma70352 жыл бұрын
@UCHL5940741R63joWkxmyHJg No my dear, I was disappointed by the way they talked about maids. They made it sound like maids are slaves or something...except Angie. I expected better from all of them.
@martharinebiseko14572 жыл бұрын
It was honest. Did you want them to be artificial or pretend in their discissions
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
For each negative criticism, it helps to give specific points of improvement. But atte you can't overly compliment our credentials then not add value to the conversation. P
@evelynkabahuma70352 жыл бұрын
@@pumlanabachwa8668 lolest! I don't think it's a question of improvement, I think it's about personal view...and in this discussion, I personally didn't agree with your views...which is okay 😊. Just an opinion 🤷
@Mildred239082 жыл бұрын
I found this conversation extremly classist and elitist. We need to educate ourselves abit more thats all. We cant be casually be discussing child labour, Policing the way people dress because of personal insecurities😅. Nah
@susanvortmann37192 жыл бұрын
I like watching your Videos though I relate to less of your discussions because I dont have a child but As much as I love listening to your Topics, there is somothing bothering me, Ladys I know you are all Ugandan but not all your viewers are from Uganda, pliz could you keep your conversations in English. Sometimes you through some Ugandan Words which we do not understand "Manange" and many more. I am Kenyan living in Germany but your greatest Fan. Keep on the good work 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@terrybouko89612 жыл бұрын
So true or sub titlles
@rankzkate2 жыл бұрын
I agreed with you.
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
This is true. I call out other East African channels for the same. We'll put subtitles for the ones to come. P
@propertyconnectug2 жыл бұрын
My God maids banange... Now I just recently got one and just the next day after paying all her transportation she tells me she's pregnant. That she can't work and then I asked her why she bothered coming in the first place🤦🤦 Cut the story short I sent her back now am looking for a maid
@susannangwale61482 жыл бұрын
Maids feel sexually threatened by male adolescents young male adults. That one who lasted 48 hours....
@amanyajin20752 жыл бұрын
Because I also want to go to heaven I gave up on maids. At 5years my son can wash his own clothes,the dishes and cleans the home surely food won't get in my way to heaven after all God said man can't live on bread alone😄😄😄.
@jdm37622 жыл бұрын
Dear ladies, love your conversations as always but this particular one needed more nuance. Looking forward to hearing from a house helper or nanny as you've promised.
@pumlanabachwa86682 жыл бұрын
Remember - Conversation starter. We'll have more conversations on this. P
@Kiriza22 Жыл бұрын
We had one when we were kids, she was an adult lady. She left and lived on her own. When she got old, she could not manage Kampala any more, so we took her to our village. She lived there for over 10 years, till she died and she was laid to rest on the family grave yard.
@ugdailypop45222 жыл бұрын
I lov pumps for her honesty
@rediteumutoni4059 Жыл бұрын
13 years is too young
@doreeningabire31382 жыл бұрын
Maids maids…So usually when I get amaid I do general medical checkup for a couple of things.So this specific maid I get,day two I take her to hospital,they found she had a bad uti,PID coz dr.asked her and she said she had always had abig problem down there for yrs…So story short we get medz,treatment for her I remember I spent about 200k on her treatment.So we go back home,we slp..I leave her home the following day,left when I had made lunch,for my Mwami since his self employed and returns home for lunch.Since she was new,told her to just wash dishes I would show her other stuff when I returned in the evening.Mwe,as soon as I left for wrk,didn’t the chic call her parents mbu we are giving her medicine when she is not sick,oba for her she uses local herbs…Hubby called me and told me she found her on the Verander on katemba of shaking and shivering she wants to go back to her home.Immediately I left wrk,found her and off she went…Wabula maids….
@hallejudy2 жыл бұрын
Hahaaha I'm sorry
@husnahkemal37602 жыл бұрын
I love angie,pumla and this other one at the right end
@chipod62542 жыл бұрын
Your right or their right?
@mariarasi96819 ай бұрын
a pumla character
@atukundachristine44712 жыл бұрын
I always bring in maids when am in my short leave so that by the time am back at work ,they have learnt . But maids ,they will still do it the other way round ,u just have to be patient with them
@julietmujumba60942 жыл бұрын
Haha,women with their conversations,maids sleeping with yr husband, it's like a man sleeping with his secretary,haha.oh God!! That's being disrespectful to yr marriage.
@allbyhisgrace89252 жыл бұрын
But men very quick to refuse a houseboy , we should get houseboys
@julietmujumba60942 жыл бұрын
@@allbyhisgrace8925 ,haha.Yeah by the way me I prefer a maama,a woman like 48 years,just to help me stay around,me I think I can do my home duties,I make sure you keep few people you can handle,then have that big maama to her you mobilize in your absence,ate bafumba etooke abo,nze ndi muli WA tooke, that's all, washing for my man? I do it,then go out for work,
@julietmujumba60942 жыл бұрын
@@allbyhisgrace8925 ,maama are the best thou you can only handle her when you have a big home where she can also have her own space,what I know they love their peace so much,I think just because they are mature people,after doing her work she goes her side to rest,they hate disturbing them with stress,
@joanitahnalubwama9052 жыл бұрын
For me i the agency that Angie is talking about wasnt good when i tried to reach out to them,they didnt return my calls when i could call and when they picked,they kept lying to me,coming up with so many excuses.
@richardkamaki1542 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed please talk about the girls who are sleeping with their boyfriend's for the sake of fear of loosing them