GIRL TALK: Female Friendships| Red Flags, Jealousy, Competition?

[@hildaninsiima2506]

Pumla has a calling she impacts so much knowledge she needs a tv show or a podcast. This knowledge needs to be shared

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Aaaaaaawwww thank you. We are all on a learning journey. We know better now so we truly must do better. Thanks Ninsiima. P

[@adrianssebaggalajj-sl6kz]

For sure she needs to think about it

[@turkanabeeh5765]

You need to meet her, I meet her at my work place this girl is a vibe I can stay with her the all day pumla is on another level ❤❤

[@ayrin1505]

Well said

[@coolartsstudioz6615]

better said.

[@foodandfriendship5162]

I like Manuella being vulnerable and accepting to be that “ bad friend” It takes growth and maturity because most of us find this difficult!! This made me go back and find out where i was the bad friend , apologize and move on!! Thank you ladies

[@lilliankansiime]

Hahaha, Pumla's conversations are both intense, insightful, and funny. I hear you in your bad marriages 💑

[@turiho_yvonne]

You know

[@manuelap.mulondo]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ We really do need to have a deep look into ourselves and admit when we are wrong

[@vee3581]

​@@manuelap.mulondo indeed...you are right

[@kiwanukaimmaculate7640]

The Manuela then is so me now..and sociophobic too

[@rankzkate]

Uganda has a gem in Pumla. I can listen to her all day long .Love her all the way from Kenya .

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love right back at you Kate. P

[@shantalmuteteri5376]

Me too 😊

[@NabbanjaAllen-lw8rg]

I enjoy her parts most😊❤❤

[@nalubegamariagyaviira5600]

How I admire Rossett's ability to LISTEN. Talking is great, but listening is a superpower.

[@roseviela.30]

Ohhh 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Thx Didn’t know it was a superpower. Comes naturally to me but with the many pple av interfaced and worked with..! It’s a thing many don’t have..

[@loisnantayikisambaklona2613]

Yes Rossetti you are such a great listener that's is one of the reasons you close are to manuella because she talks and you listen. Its a superpower gal love u babe gal.

[@herkimbk4391]

Kajambo omwana weeka...that is a well spoken virtue about you.Thank God for u r a strong n powerful woman of God.

[@Flourish_today]

Pumla, this skill and gift you have is something that needs to go beyond bump love. Girls schools, uni students need this education. Women events, etc. I feel like I have learned so much from Pumlas' friendship conversation.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Flourish. I believe that if I had had these conversations earlier, I'd be better for it. So I do agree. We need to reach out to younger people and teach these lessons. P

[@janewerikhe9528]

True

[@janewerikhe9528]

Let her start with Seeta high school's 😂😂😂l am being selfish 😅😅😅

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

​@@janewerikhe9528 hahaahaaa! I would obviously start with the high school that nurtured me 😂. Then right after - Seeta High. P

[@LynMul]

Nabachwa mugezi nyo. She is extremely smart and confident. Nabachwa your flowers are here🥂

[@Iampromise_k]

I love how Rosette can jazz. You feel like she talking to you direct. I love it girl.👏👏

[@roseviela.30]

Lol😄 Thx

[@paskaziatumwesigye1534]

She sounds like a saint

[@dorahkainew5238]

Its rosettes vibes for me!!

[@essyjessen333]

True

[@ckmatovu]

Bravo ladies. This was emotional. I love Angie's composure. She speaks with lots of warmth in her voice.

[@vee3581]

Angie is very well spoken, a gentle soul and very interesting to listen to. So clued on and verrry refined...well composed too ❤

[@jazeerakalanda6568]

Am a KZbinr myself and would never be caught posting a video this long, cause I worry who would watch! But 3mins in I pulled up a chair and was hooked. Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerabilities and experiences as well as the insightful conversation. Truthfully, it has given me a lot to reflect on in my relationships. Heart to each of you ladies! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hello KZbinr. What's your channel? P

[@Njurizirona]

I actually catch my self several times looking for the longest bump love video😂😂

[@jazeerakalanda6568]

@Pumla Nabachwa Hhhhiiiii Pumla, oh my Ggggggooooddddd, major fun girling right now!!! 😃😃💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙊🤣, by the way we are namesakes >>Nabachwa i swear am not just tying 😁😁. Oh oh Channel name is JAZEERA KALANDA

[@jazeerakalanda6568]

@mujurizi ronah I totally see why now. Very wise ladies with an entertaining yet educational conversation. It's hard not to want 5mins more 😅

[@YeeAmeen]

Am thinking you one of the Kalandas went two of your sisters to school and you to as well..Subscribing to your channel

[@MariaGorretyNamubiru]

These conversations are so enriching, we thank God for the gift that bump love is to us. Love it here!

[@Star50046]

It's more common that young teenage girls and in their 20s are jealous and talk bad about each other?

[@victoriouslegacy-1st]

I have had good friendships for over 20 years since high school and I have seen us evolve. There is so much love and fulfillment in good female friendships.

[@kingamy3167]

Good for you 👏

[@nampalamastulah4240]

I can tirelessly watch pumpa speak for a full day. But thanks ladies for the tremendous work, it's really impactful to many lives

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks for being here Nampala

[@aberjosephine9956]

My girlfriends must watch this episode. I am so lucky I still have my friends from childhood in my life.I have known them since nursery school, others since high school. Like Angie said, I honestly don't have the energy to make new friends. It's a lot of unnecessary work that I'd rather add to my close circle to make it better. Our kids are now friends and I keep telling them if Baraka ever vibes any of their girls I will not support it because it feels like we're now sisters. And some of our parents are close.Like Pumla said, I mastered the art of separating my circles. Wabula BumpLove, wemuligwa wendigwa. I love you ladies.

[@aishananyanzi7423]

There's no single episode that can be underrated. You guys are so full of inspiration. Thank you alot and more. Mind you each episode hits differently. May you guys NEVER run out of what to present. Ameen.

[@geraldinfenti5422]

Unlike what most women will say , with my most closest friendship that I vividly remember, I was the problem😂and I know she was relieved for it to end but it brought me to a confrontation of myself and God has been teaching me to better friend.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

"....to be a better friend." Well done honey. I'm sure this has been each of us at certain points. Just that we never say. P

[@namarajustine4318]

😂

[@manuelap.mulondo]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nyceone45]

🎉 that says a lot about you. You self reflected and wanted to change! Good on you

[@phionahomuse8449]

❤

[@Beextina]

I’m in love with Angie’s voice. It’s echoed & healing ❤

[@vee3581]

Sooooo true, lovely voice...I also like it when she speaks luganda

[@zubedahmayanja9713]

This was my favorite episode because you realise some friendships really hurt alot and nomatter how much time passes and how much you try to un-do the mistake/heal it just is never the same again and some are a relief just like rachael said. But i felt each and everyones emotions in this episode. Great job ladies

[@muwanguzieve1350]

True

[@sylviaboona4719]

I totally agree with the point of categorizing friendships, it is liberating. Thank you ladies.

[@edgarkyeyune7729]

What a lovely, lovely episode!!!... Am a guy & still can't believe it that I have so far watched it twice already. I plan to re-watch it again & again over time. The maturity & deepness of your discussions is quite high and, yet entertaining too. Personally, this is the best talk show out there. Thank you so much beautiful ladies!!!... You truly make us, as a country Uganda very, very proud. ❤️ & hearty greetings to you all from Dubai, U.A.E. Blessings! 🐿️🍃🌨️

[@viviennenabukenya2568]

It's so kind of Pumla to respond to people's comments. Love u miss P. Wonderful episode ladies

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Heheheee! I truly love engaging with Bump Lovers. I don't want to leave them talking to themselves 😅. P

[@MUSIIMARHODA]

I love Pumla, she's such a big sister, please keep sharing your knowledge with us! I love it.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Big sister ❤. P

[@vee3581]

Many people can relate to the lovely Rosette...very fun loving and yet down to earth...so many valid points throughout the series and words of wisdom...Go Rosie, you are such a darling

[@roseviela.30]

Aww. Thank u dear

[@mariafatimamendonsa1583]

I believe if friendships don’t work, especially when you have tried to make it work, let that friendship go

[@mothersgarageworld]

Thank you

[@biyinzikaerinah4763]

Pumla is so knowledgeable , Arinaitwe is such a sweet soul . She is just like me unfortunately I have no close friends apart from family . But I am developing one with my good friend and sister ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Please build on that developing friendship. It's always good for you. P

[@biyinzikaerinah4763]

Awww…Thank you Pumla for this . I have already sent her a message to tell her how I value our relationship and also shared this clip with her . Thank you so much ❤

[@rachaelmwine]

Hi fellow sweet soul😊

[@annahnabalayi1090]

Oh my God ladies I don't know how many nails you've hit today. This is one for watching over and over. I always say once one understands times and Seasons in their lives and other people's lives, life becomes more simpler and it is easier to manouver through the challenges of life. . Thank you so much bump❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Times and Seasons. So important. P

[@cangom1]

I like the times and seasons element😊

[@sonianandagire]

Mrs. Mwiine, I relate with you 150%....in other news @bumplove, this topic came through at the right time. I needed this 🎉🎉..

[@rachaelmwine]

❤❤❤

[@mercyokorom1713]

Sometimes I even imagine myself contributing on this show because of how much I can relate and also just want to chip in. Its just amazing how much I have learnt from this channel and am definitely so grateful for every episode.🙏🙏🙏

[@carolbagonza4295]

you are not alone, but its a very beautiful program about reality of what happens to us

[@sumayamya357]

Same here...

[@kisakyephionah261]

Pumula thax for answering my questions,am relieved,I luv u all

[@minister_awesome]

Wabula Bump Love Ladies have groomed me for true purpose 🙏🏽 Nsiima nyo ❤ this episode is life changing 🙌🏽

[@didi_yiye]

This show is really amazing and so educational! I hope it reaches more people across the world.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We hope so too. Thank you. P

[@fraulamprecht9364]

This needs to be turned into a TV show for the people who don't watch KZbin. Your conversations are very mature and relatable. Everyone could learn a thing or two from y'all (including men). Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, I'm a big fan. Now let me start working on my friendships 🥰

[@sarah-nl4hi]

Can't agree more

[@eileennanyombi585]

But it airs on NTV every Friday

[@Adidmarol-d8e]

I just discovered this channel and I am obsessed and literally watching episode after episode almost nonstop! I’m all the way in Australia so it’s almost 2am and I cannot stop 😅 Please please address the topic of stigma against women who only have an only child either by choice or circumstances. The best talk channel I have ever discovered on KZbin. Much love from Australia ❤️

[@lydianamugga1437]

I don't what Agiee to stop talking the way she looks and sounds so sweet when she talks . Love you girl

[@rahmanakku0]

Pumla is me literally . I love how much she values her friendships. And challenges gender norms /narratives and constructs

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Love that you're here ❤. P

[@halesh7438]

Ever since you started these long episodes i love them have never missed one, we get the full package...continue building the foundations

[@biyinzikaerinah4763]

I loooooove the whole conversation from all the ladies and I loved every bit plus I needed it at this moment . Thank you dear ladies and God Bless you ❤

[@ernestasiimwe4301]

I like that y’all are very authentic and have allowed yourselves to evolve over time…. Today’s conversation was powerful💯

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We thank you Ernest. We know better so we must be better. P

[@Swtleah634]

Thank you very much, Bump Love, I love you and appreciate you. God bless you all Pumla, Kemi, Rachel, Rosette and Manuela.

[@estherw.mubezi3218]

Oh my! This is powerful! One thing I have realized is, no matter how much you do for some people, if they want to be irrational about something, they will be!

[@Swtleah634]

Well-spoken Manuela, when someone gets married they will definitely change a bit or much because Love and marriage are two great things that can ever happen to a person and they will definitely impact your friendship with the Mugole friend. We should leave room for change in our friendship. And it's okay for that change to happen, just give they space and don't over-visit or step into their space anyhow please, respect that.

[@isaaclwanga4506]

I love rosettes friendship with manuela see how she chips in to make Manuela feel great about herself priceless!!!!!

[@roseviela.30]

We sure rise by lifting others.. Oyo we’ve come from far 😅

[@britah-edwardstendo]

Because Rosette is Manuela's friend, I buy Newman's products. 😊😄

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Awwwwww ❤❤❤❤ see why I love her?

[@elizabethmugume6095]

Pumla this is reawakening..... A new thought pattern that must be explored. We must put in the effort and be intentional even in our female relationships. I love this episode.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We must be intentional about investing in our girl friendships. P

[@vee3581]

So true

[@nanyonjohafsa8444]

I enjoyed the show and didn't want it to end. Thanks ladies. You're the best!

[@drakephilant407]

Pumla is so cool! She takes lots pf my attention just watching & fantasizing without even listening... until i get back on track. She's just so adorable. But all these ladies are smart & beautiful.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Haahahaa! But Drake. Love the vote of confidence ❤

[@travonnelynda]

Thank you so much Pumla I have learnt so much from you girl🥰 "Female relationships are gold"

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Female friendships truly are Gold. P

[@roseviela.30]

They are truly gold 😊

[@MusicandBeauty]

Talking about “love-bombing”; it’s so rampant in female relationships, so many uncomfortable conversations need to be had if you want a real sisterhood. Not so much just “sweetie”, “sis”, etc just like in love relationships. Same thing. Bless🙏🏽

[@mfsoul6908]

Female friendships are so empowering. Thank you so much Ladies❤️

[@estherkayongo2707]

Beautiful conversation guys... very valuable

[@zaweddenorah9363]

Thank you Bump Love. This conversation has prompted me to be intentional with my friendships and set our expectations.

[@kirabojosephine3250]

I love love love bump love! Thank you ladies! I always look forward to the episodes every Friday! I watched you diligently as a newly wed and while I waited on my baby and now as a new mom ! Every mum woman lady has something to learn! You have taught me so much! THANK YOU!

[@joanbabirye10]

Whenever I watch our episodes in my heart am like one day I will seat down with these ladies to share an experience. You have groomed me bump love hosts. You have saved me depression coz I started watching way back. You don't know how many times my soul has been lifted by you ladies. I first followed Mrs Mulondo and it took me upto to Bumplove wea I fall in love with each one of you especially Pumla ❤️ This week am calling all my friends especially in relationships wea I was the bad Friend to apologise and for the current ones am gonna do better. Thanks bumpelove

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Yaaaaaaaayyyyy to doing bettterrrrrrrr ❤🎉👏🏾. Very well done. Happy to be your soul buddy. P

[@sammie1919]

Wow wow wow this episode. Had to evaluate my femal friendships this year after university due to gossip being the biggest factor and I had lost hope but this conversation restored it. I have been challenged to be a better friend as well as encouraged that good friendshipa can be found built and maintained. Thank you ladies.

[@jaliahkintu3773]

Hello bump love, I have watched this all over again I don’t know how many times. Thank you for this lovely episode I really needed it for closure. I had a friend I have known for years before we even had children, we have been there for each other through thick and thick. My friend had immigration problems back and forth and became a bit distant with time but I would still check up and support where I can. Eventually, the migration issue was settled they were granted asylum. So this one day I called to check on her as they were meant to be moved to a new place. So as we discussed issues I told her I was struggling with work had just been back as a new mum and wanted flexibility. So was a bit low down and explained the reason as to why I hadn’t checked up on her. She ended the call and said her phone wanted it and I left it at that. The next morning I received a text message from her quite shocking. She stated I always discuss my problems when she discusses her and this is something she is not happy about. She even accused me of not helping her when she moved before from one place to another in 2016. Bearing in mind this time she is talking about I was in hospital with my late son who was battling a rare type of cancer. Honestly, I called immediately after the text message to explain my self, she refused to pick up, sent messages she didn’t reply. My husband tried to reach out to her husband he said he was busy with his children and would call back. He has never called back up to now. She posted my bank card through the post and wrote a note I wish u all the best thank you for the card. A bank card she was using for 7years couldn’t bring it in person. I have always had 100 questions in my head about what happened this episode explains it all. Thank you I am at peace now!

[@jermena7771]

I'm so sorry about what happened. Hope you are feeling better🙏🏿

[@jaliahkintu3773]

@@jermena7771 Yes I am thanx

[@tumaviola3174]

I love the fact that episodes are now longer kudoz to us bump lovers 🥰

[@lillianexodus5080]

Wow.....nice one ladies.. I love y'all And I love you Manuela,your funny personality is the real deal for me. Keep it up ladies thanks for this

[@suzannakyejwe4265]

Pumla is so freaking knowledgeable... I feel my brain filling up with knowledge with every word. 👏👏👏👏🥰

[@lauraatuhumuriza]

Her research tops it all. She always brings in an experts thought which is always 🔥

[@faustanantume9589]

She's such a gem

[@faithamong2389]

Just love her she is such a cutie Soul

[@nanziridoreen3675]

❤❤❤❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Aaaaaaaaawwwww. Thank you Suzan. Whenever I read these types of comments, I'm like - Banange...let me first go back and hear what I said 😅😂😅. Thank you again. P

[@mbabazipillarthefavouredmukiga]

Finally 🎉 I have been on waiting,lol😅 Let me get my dose for the day now Thank you bump love for the educative conversations you always share with us❤

[@rosettewam]

I love Manuella's vulnerability. Pumula that's a big one its helping me make sense. Rational expectations of irrational people. Wow 👌 👏

[@wamalabrenda7933]

I love what Manuela said that we should have conversation I felt it. I have issues with my friend of 8years I feel like am so much into it that am always asking for us to talk. And we we meet its my fault that I don't text I dont call or even visit yet it has always been me doing so if I don't nothing comes from her side yes I know she is this kind of person who can't open up easily but as for me I do so I feel there's nothing more I can do however I don't have the energy of making new friends.And I feel I can be a bad friend now coz am more lonely ,don't open up nd I do things on my own so am confused

[@manuelap.mulondo]

You have solved half of the problem already

[@shaniceo8291]

You guys all nailed it & brought it home.,I had a bestie who just ghosted me without a conversation n it was a long time.friend n perhaps I did something that irritated her or she got money and I was now not in the same financial lane but I mourned that relationship n now when pipo ask me what happened I say life happened. I think female friendships are beautiful when good but when they go south attimes they can hurt deep but that's love we take a risk and hope for the best .......actually women we understand each other if we have the same values and aspirations but never the less sometimes we may disagree but we r still friends. Thanks Ladies for these conversations. Pumla u r my kind of woman, N Manuela I totally get u ,n Rachel u r such a sweet soul , Angie I love who u r and your strength,Rossette I love your how you keep your friendships n overlook trivial things. Bump love might be a smaller platform for u guys but it's brought u to this point but I hope u get a bigger platform cos u guys r awesome ...intelligent and relatable....❤❤❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Shanice. You are right. Girlfriendships are like love. You just bear yourself vulnerable and take a chance. When it works out - it's beautiful. So let's just take the chance. P

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Shanice, do you think you have healed?

[@shaniceo8291]

@@manuelap.mulondo I have healed though I WD have loved closure to heal.completely but it's been a while now and I sort of feel all things work for Good I have evolved as a person and perhaps we r not right for each other anymore and just knowing that not all relationships have closure anyway. I believe now that God has certain people for seasons in our lives, that season was great when it lasted n I celebrate her.

[@shaniceo8291]

@@manuelap.mulondo thanks for asking my role model Manuela On the list of one of the ladies I Wana meet someday, you inspire me to believe everything is possible. You are a super woman .

[@davidbagayadamulira6361]

Money has separated me from friends, who love taking advantage of my generosity too, hypocrisy and snitches.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Money is one of the biggest breakers of friendships

[@renembongn.5877]

Such a great convo. Pumla, you’re such a wealth of wisdom. Female friendships are indeed so deep and conversational. Now I know why it also hurts when it falls apart, recently had to drop some friends which I was starting to become vulnerable and emotional with only to realize they were trying to proposition me their network marketing business ( u know those pyramid scheme entrepreneurs) so disappointing!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Those pyramid schemes are the worst. Better gone. Now you can focus on those that really matter. P

[@nandifaithruth2567]

Rachel your story is emotional and sweet...😢

[@rachealpowerz7250]

Woow Pumla u anticulate everything with so much wisdom in a broad sense .kudos ladies loved the whole show.

[@thekitchentalk_ug.9069]

Kept writing and deleting and writing and deleting. But this was real talk. Girl frdships can be so heartbreaking. Thanks Manuela for sharing.

[@thekitchentalk_ug.9069]

I can relate with every situation from all of you ladies... On both ends.

[@manuelap.mulondo]

You are welcome

[@Renetex-xy2se]

This Topic today..... It is Pumla for me.

[@jacintanassozi3308]

This was a mind blowing conversation.i should surely check myself

[@nantongohellen4628]

Hello bump love, guide me on the books to read to educate myself abt friendship at work or even some other books that would add value to me. Thank u

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Ha! I'm personally not into self-help books. I mostly do research and learn from experiences (both mine and others) but hopefully other Bump lovers can recommend. I'm just glad that you're trying to be better Maama Nantongo. P

[@sylviaboona4719]

Sometime back I read "Never Eat Alone" by Keith Ferazzi. I found it very enlightening.

[@murungiclaire5438]

I think I am Rosette!! I see things from a far! I am non confrontational, I just can’t take drama I’ll watch you go through your phase, and when yo good I’ll be here. Life goes on

[@sophienamyalo3353]

Pumla, Pumla, Pumla. Oba how many times have I called you??? I keep coming back to this episode which aired 10 months ago and each time I learn something new. Thank you Ladies for these discussions. Female friendships are not discussed so much and its refreshing to see ladies dissect the issue. Thank you Ladies, from your ever learning viewer.

[@kemigishajesicca8332]

Great conversation here!!! Female friendships are actually work and healthy female friendships do exist. ❤

[@maryteka9915]

Hi,bump love ....I am from Kenya and I love all of you very much.i am Angie's personality with Abit of pumla's boldness.....av learnt so much for the past one year n even became more self aware. ...the vocabulary am learning is so much since I work in a very controlled environment and new words are had to come by.thank you for the great work.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Happy to have you here Teka. Much love right back at you. P

[@adrianssebaggalajj-sl6kz]

Best show ever, l love Rosset n Manuelaz frdship you guys really know each other

[@roseviela.30]

💯💯

[@manuelap.mulondo]

And we have loved each other for a really long time ❤

[@wisdombase254]

Bump Love hands-on for u. U r the real deal❤

[@marthakyozira2085]

What a knowledgeable episode this is? Thank you ladies

[@byaruhangastephen4137]

i used to watch this program on NTV but Pumla is a real Gem, kudosto the panel Ms. pumla keep up the good work.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you for being here Byaruhanga

[@brendabukenya5281]

Been one of my best bump love conversation because i could identify with Manuela. It's only recently that I've learned to appreciate my friends better and I'm grateful to those who put up with me when i didn't get it that well 😂😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Heheheee! Glad that you've chosen to be better. P

[@manuelap.mulondo]

Can you imagine there are people that learn that they haven't been good friends but refuse to admit it and become better.......

[@nalubegaimmaculate8356]

Very good and interesting topic, much love

[@muheirwehope9934]

Thank you, there's enough space for all of us at the top to thrive💞

[@elviskatende4135]

Naye Mrs. Mulondo and Poverty, you make it look good.

[@palitodeegash]

Ladies, thank you for a much needed conversation that's got me pausing, reflecting, agreeing,wondering, introspecting and taking notes, yooooo!!! Also Pumla for Friendship community president because yooooo the wisdom and knowledge coated with self awareness that she shared was spot on. Thanks ladies....I needed this one

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks Denise. Please keep reffering to those notes. P

[@immaculatenabaasa6637]

Wawooooo my Rachel i also have the same expectations from friends en would always want to know wat went wrong...naye bambi. But thank God he can bring people that understand us well...love u ladies

[@namutebilydia3749]

I love Angie's calmness

[@rankzkate]

These ladies are amazing .Am guilty of some of the issues discussed. Thank you for these conversation

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We're all guilty Kate. We must do better. P

[@eveaka]

One day I'll be as articulate as Pumla... so inspiring!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks for the vote of confidence. You can be whatever you set your mind to

[@judithsky2916]

Bump love u need to give this talk show to public as whole TV show atlist 1hr every one to watch ..coz its too good to be left on KZbin 😊 I love u ladies ❤

[@lilliannatoli1636]

I really can relate to rosette's friend. I used to have that kind of attachment and I have lost people in that kind of way. Some times it is childhood trauma, and the need to please other people Now that I have started working on myself I am improving And also, we love according to how we love ourselves, I was a very toxic friend( I am still working on myself) when I didn't know how to even love myself. But when I learned to pay attention to myself and how I feel yooo I know have better ways of relationship to people

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

This is lovely to read. The ability to self-appraise and decide to be better. Amazing! Keep on Natoli. P

[@atyangelizabeth2046]

Am always intrigued by how much informed Pumla is,and of course there's so much,learning ,unlearning and relearning I do always tuned in And if course Manuela,so real,I learn each time I watch these talks

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We're all on a learning journey. Much of it needs unlearning and relearning. As long as it making us better people, we must aspire to need knowledge. Thanks Atyang. P

[@Swtleah634]

Rossetti's friend was very controlling and possessive. And emotionally, she was also an indirect Bully who thought that "she, was helping a less privileged Rosette" which is why she was shocked that her "Prey" could drive unexpectedly. Shocking!

[@FinesseB]

Oohh my, this has made me reflect on my friendships in my life. I have task to do, on examining whether I was the good/bad friend! Wooow thanks for the wake up call. Bakwano mwebhale nyooo.

[@Fablyflane]

When Angie said , jealousy comments dont stay in the head , but instead come out in the way one reacts & speaks , It reminded me about a scripture , "Out of the abundance of the heart , the mouth shall speak ". I Laughed so hard when Rossette re-echoed Manuela and said " she doesn't communicate " 🤣 Rossette you gave your buddy away 😂But am glad she went passed that season Ahuh , I am more like Angie & Rachel , I love to seek closure . Naye am learning that indeed you wont have it all the time Kakati Madam Nabacwa Pumla chose violence today 🤣🤣, Girl we are going to do better as friends Thanks ladies, this was a super fun and heavy episode. I pray we learn when to let a friend go and also strive to be better friends > Besos

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Some people only understand through Violence 😂. P

[@rachaelmwine]

Lovely summary 😅. To growing and being better friends..

[@roseviela.30]

😄😄Cheers to all of us being better friends

[@anonnona6433]

The jealous energy cannot be hidden. You will feel it. She will try to smile but the smile will be coming from the teeth. Energy cannot be faked 🤭

[@Fablyflane]

@@anonnona6433 true 😀

[@vicnanziri4617]

Hey ladies, thanks for this insightful conversation. You just gained a subscriber! I love y'all ❤

[@alicealice4426]

I don't know if am the only one but i move on so swiftly from friendship breakups and am not talking just kawa friends real soul sisters kind of friendship. I don't even feel the need for closure and esp when i have reached out and it goes unanswered but your answering everyone else,my brain and heart just does some general cleaning 😅😅😅.Maybe it because i go all in for my friends so when it's not reciprocated, it only makes sense to move on. If we met i will remain civil and keep it going.🇰🇪

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaa! But Wambui. Kyoka I knew this was a Kenyan even before reading the name and seeing the flag. Y'all are cutthroat 😂😂😂. Banange...let's be gracious to our soul sisters. We'll need them later. ❤. I love your ability to move on. It's a life skill. P

[@clairenabikindu7264]

Oh my Pumla, lots of love….This is so insightful

[@kasubojustine795]

Ohhhh my God am glad am first today again and you don't know how much have been waiting for

[@100HERSELF]

PHENOMENAL WOMEN! Am in awe, while immersing myself in this progressive, educational and inclusive conversation. Thank you!

[@ayebazibwebabra5368]

You have helped me understand how to work on my relationships now....thank you for bringing up the topic....God bless you all

[@kabagonzachristine6858]

Ladies your being honest on the show we have learnt alot wululu,thank you we are fighting so hard to treasure friendships hmmm

[@soniakats777]

Thank God for these conversations...when its about walking on eggshells, and there are gaslighting tendencies in female friendships run!! I am glad that as I have grown older, I have learnt to pick out toxic traits in friendships, and my circle has grown smaller, with the few friends now we build each other up, we cry together, we celebrate each other we pray together...we are meant to build each other up not the opposite❤ Thanks #BumpLove Thanks ladies for sharing these conversations

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We are meant to build each other. You go girl! P

[@katushabesandra4360]

Beautiful Convo. I have found myself in almost all of your experiences with friendships. I now know better and that is why i protect my space. Now no energy for new friendships unless if it is business relationships.

[@JERISHA147]

Same here i don't have more space for new humans

[@travonnelynda]

Been here thinking of how I was going to request you ladies to give us something about ladys friendships I'm so blessed

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I'm glad that we delivered even before you asked ❤. P

[@akambasisamercy6158]

It's taking me time to heal after someone called me jezebel just because I used to greet her husband who is old enough to be my dad. Remember I completely had no feelings attached... w

[@angelangie6548]

Mrs.Mwine nice submission too.blessings❤❤