Did Birth Order Shape Our Personalities?? FIRST BORN VS MIDDLE CHILDREN ft The Golden Tulip

[@bumploveug]

We're sure you have come across at least one last-born meme that made you laugh. But we discovered that there's a theory that claims that the order in which a child is born shapes their development and personality. Do you agree? Apparently, firstborns tend to be more conscientious, extraverted and willing to lead. They are also more tolerant and emotionally stable than adolescents with older siblings. We test this theory on the show today...get ready to dig in! And let us know how true this theory is for you growing up and how that compares in your children today. Come through to Golden Tulip today and discover their selection of gratifying BBQ every Friday from 6 pm to 10 pm with their fabulous Inhouse Band. #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove

[@patriciakamara8906]

Just when I thought Pumla was the smartest and all, I heard of Nalule. 😮. Such a wonderful bunch to relate with.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahahaaaaa! My siblings are the smartest people I know. I'm literally bottom of the family pyramid. P

[@carolinelajara4086]

Oooh I celebrate nalule. I was never celebrated tooo yet I was and still the smartest among my siblings. But I celebrate myself

[@sumayamya357]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 I will never forget Nalule's kaluuluu on her hubby's PHD

[@mercie8192]

😄 i also honestly thought Pumla was the smartest , love you gal. you just bring a certain good and real energy to the discussions.

[@hopesuzanhilda5936]

Love you Pumla🎉

[@lauramirembe]

Wabula the ambience leero was on fleek fleek fleek 1000%. Please keep that location. The lighting was on point. Simply amazing. But Mr. Mulondo 😂😂😂 you really showed the pampering of Bianca...Bambi we love you,Blake❤ Great show,ladies.

[@eronebalayo7122]

The ladies look loooovely!!❤ The green looks awesome on Angie, The bosom design on Pumla’s dress is mwaah. Racheal’ s hair is on another level. Rosette’s attire is cool. Manuela’s top is giving!!! Loved the stories.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Aaawwwww thanks Erone. P

[@ritakiwala8614]

This brings me to tears because it brings back my childhood memories. I was a middle child of 3 and always felt alone and not enough. It was so obvious the two were favorites. It still hurts 30+ years later.

[@julietkisakye6807]

Oh dear, sending hugs

[@dorahkainew5238]

I get you dear!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hugs Rita ❤. Send them this link and try speaking openly about it with your family. P

[@MyJOSE2013]

hio ni kawaida my dia. just distance yourself from people who make you feel inadequate

[@patriciakigula7402]

First born daughters need a support group naye. And I absolutely love Yolisa - so honored to have met her in this life ❤

[@DignaK]

I don’t know if it’s the makeup or lighting, you all look radiant ❤❤❤

[@arikosimariamiculet]

Very true😊. I had to increase the brightness on my phone to enjoy it more😅

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Digna. I'm hoping it's a mix of both. Lol. P

[@justinekissiti6489]

Yes the ladies looked lovely.

[@user-qs8wv6wy7s]

Yes, they look amazing! Pumla's dress is really lovely.

[@nakigandabinthamis6530]

This show was so lovely, I was smiling all thru .. I enjoyed it much

[@mariamkiggundu2463]

WOW......just a few minutes in and I can relate with Nalule, middle child syndrome. Nice work ladies. This is by far one of my favorite episodes.

[@pamelanabwire7093]

Very interesting topic. The outfits are on point.❤ We certainly need an episode on sibling rivalry - does it follow us into adulthood???

[@lilianmukisa3291]

4th out of 9. 1st to graduate, get a job, sometimes feel overwhelmed and feel like I grew up so fast. Am so quiet, always looking out for others, thinking of what tomorrow brings 😄😄 I purpose to laugh and make myself happy now that I know better. Infact am afraid if taking risks including not yet married🤣

[@christinenakazzi280]

I didn't want this to end 😂😂 I love you ladies good to see you all.

[@wanjikunjuguna8386]

The topic is so real... I'm no 3, very different from my elder sisters who got a soft life....I'm very independent...can be mistaken like care free but I'm OK with myself. This has made me to be very close to my kids who appreciates me every other day!!!! Thanks Kim and Mike!!!

[@josephkyambadde6117]

This show is really based on honesty. Am staying here.. Amazing

[@beatricemuringi4120]

Good to see Angie even before we start. I love her demeanor beautiful intro... Now let me go back and listen.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaa! Kwegamba you commented after the beautiful intro 😅. P

[@kansiimebettie8431]

I honestly want to appreciate you ladies for Sharing your hearts and realities. You're amazing!

[@Carolynmurungikamakune]

Let me just say, I love love love your hair Racheal. You all look so so nice. This topic came just on time. My middle child told my first child that I never listen to her, so she is always talking to her toys. So I am trying to reach out to her more

[@thekitchentalk_ug.9069]

😭

[@kamusiimedeniserosette1205]

😢

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I'm so happy that this episode is allowing us to be better with our children. Thanks Caroline ❤. P

[@joycecarthy5203]

Some of us grew up in a polygamous household, Now, that has another version to it. How nice it would be of you inviting someone who was raised in a polygamous family so others can relate . There’s a lot I’ve loved listening to this conversation but man, it takes other dynamics being raised in a polygamous home. Thanks for the show. Knowing that maama Blake was raised by a single parent , the single parents can relate to the parenting style.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Maama Blake was also partly raised in a polygamous household. She shared this bit on the show. We will definitely have someone raised in a fully polygamous household to share some dynamics. Thank you.

[@dianenankunda7972]

Very good topic and comes at the right time, it's very easy to let it pass as a parent bse you've done so much with the first ones. May God give us grace.

[@babiryeangellah5008]

Best ov the best laughed soooo hard loved all ur stories Pumla’s having a girl n her mum curse was so hilarious n Rossette’s lugezigezi daughter left me rolling on the floor mbu she would jump out of her bed to give orders even wen she’s dozing 😂😂😂😂😂

[@roseviela.30]

Mwana gwee😂.. Olemwa

[@didi_yiye]

Amazing set-up for the show. Great conversation!!

[@preciousnatumanya1287]

100% right, being a first-born am literally a deputy parent upto now and it's challenging that you have to shoulder all that bagage

[@hallejudy]

Thank you Racheal for always stirring the topic on course. You usually answer the topics.Manuella reminded me of me.Rossette turned out like our second born.Angie too.😂😂😂

[@rachaelmwine]

😊😊

[@ninsiimaprimah2021]

Pumla thank you for sharing. I always felt bad about being middle kids. I feel celebrated now. Thank you guys

[@MyJOSE2013]

put it like this; your mommy and daddy shaped your characters greatly by picking favourites. the least favourite gets all the negative words and actions while the favourite one gets the best. a pastor said hao hampedi ndio wa mungu no wonder they succeed. bu you have to shake off that negativity or it will hamper your confidence in life.

[@wanjikunjuguna8386]

The gals look so cool this new year! something new must be happening in your lives gals.

[@brendakyokusiima817]

Growing up , I have always felt the less loved ... And growing up as an illegitimate child and first , it became worse . One moment I will never forget is when ... I had my phone while I had his charger as he was at school ...so he goes to village and leaves his charger with Me in Kampala ....so thieves broke into my house and robbed me including my brothers charger ofcourse...fast forward , I call my mum early morning to lament how I was robbed ( using a neighbor's phone apparently) , after listening to the story of how I was robbed...she ddnt even say sorry or anything ...she asks me " has your brothers charger been stolen too?" Guys like for crying out loud..not even feeling sorry about my life , my lost property ...a charger 😆 I have never healed 🤣🤣🤣 But regardless we move . Otherwise thanks for the show ladies and thanks for looking mwaaaaaaa💯💕...all of you look fabulous

[@redeemed7006]

Eh!!! Charger 🤣🤣🤣🤣 sorry dear

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Aaaaaawwww Brenda. Hugs. P

[@ruvlystudio9964]

Pumla, you are a good sister, you celebrate your sister's achievements genuinely. Nalule is so lucky to have you.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you for recognizing. Nalule is so easy to celebrate. She truly is the GOAT

[@sunshineheaven1802]

I had to write another comment because thank you for this episode BUT thank you for really putting effort into how you show up; absolutely gorgeous!!!! Like you make me not want to show up shabby for sure.

[@laurakinalwa8528]

It's a Ugandan thing😂

[@marianabanks8886]

Wooow!!!! This was such a profound episode. As a middle child, i celebrate you Nalule~~~ Alot to learn from there on how to raise children. What has stood out for me is to raise children with an equal share of responsibilities but treat them according to their personalities!!! This episode is one for the books, loving your conversations lately and the lengthy discussion!! Ladies y'all look FABULOUS!!!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

I agree that this was the biggest take away. P

[@kainebooch]

My God!!! Rachel Mwiine’s hairdo😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@rachaelmwine]

I'm feeling it too😜. Thank you❤

[@lucyfnakiyegawamala7892]

Ladies, you look amazing. Nalule we celebrate you& delight in this success.

[@fatumaqasim6341]

This has been soo sweet😊 and I must say; you guys’ looks have been super eye-catching❤ keep it up

[@dianaondoga4754]

Banange Golden Tulip should be the home for Bump Love. The set looks extremely dope.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Diana

[@leahnakabugo3226]

Thanks so much ladies, you all look great. Angie your dress is so pretty and the color ♥

[@harrietevelyn]

As a middle child, I teared after listening to Nalule’s story. It’s like you are never good enough, never celebrated ehhh!!! Your achievements are obvious. Naye Nga ne cantankerous wetuli😂😂😂😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You must be celebrated. Hehe! P

[@tumwebazekenneth4492]

Thanks the GOATS for the show. Naye some of us are still recovering from PTSD of being the first born, it even "worser" when the parents were just having fun [ as in young] n then u decide to interupt. You become an experiment of sorts.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Bambi first borns. You really suffer. Come for a hug. P

[@tumwebazekenneth4492]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 nga neyanziza. We are heroes..🤣

[@victoriasanyime9910]

I missed you ladies so much, it feels like it's been a while since I saw all of you together... you have no idea how much I enjoy your show. Much love from Namibia ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Aaaawwww much love right back at you Victoria. P

[@ruthiekuku5865]

As a middle child, I can confirm that Nalule’s experience is our life! But we learnt to deal so we are kawa 🤗

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hugs. Hugs. Hugs. P

[@dorahkainew5238]

Yes Ruthie we are very kawa for some reason grace carried us through,I was so much loved by my brother that what I asked I got and it was evident for all to see! That substituted

[@doreen.rruvuza566]

Our position in our family among siblings also has a huge impact in our marriages banange. If you're a 1st born woman married to a last born man, your dynamic will be different from a middle child married to a middle child....etc

[@elizabethm820]

Goodness yall are glowing not sure if it's new production equipment wow wow the makeup!!!! Wardrobe!! Pumla stand up need see more of that banger dress

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahhaaaaa! Thank you Elizabeth. P

[@faithmutenga2656]

Extremely interactive. well done ladies..You did give us a lot to ponder and reflect

[@foodandfriendship5162]

Where should i begin This conversation, these outfits, makeup and jewerly🔥🔥🔥!!!! Welcome back Pumla🥰🥰

[@hildaninsiima2506]

These ladies look awesome ❤Rosette, Rachel , Pumla, Manuela and sweet Angie you all look lovely ❤

[@paulinekiboi851]

You all look gorgeous. Rachel, that hair suits you perfectly. I love the set up too 💯

[@rachaelmwine]

Thank you❤

[@kristinem1431]

You ladies make this journey beautiful. Thank you.

[@thebrightniche]

Awesome beautiful conversations Ladies, I relate much with Rosette' experience. Y'all look elegant. 🤗

[@leodinaaero9333]

By far my best. Very educative especially for children who grew up in polygamous families where the children compete for attention or others become withdrawn. Thank you.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We need to have a full conversation on polygamous raising. P

[@leodinaaero9333]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 I look forward to that. Thank you.

[@kabeehodebrah5015]

Mwetademu time and moni❤😅. You guys look beautiful. Great discussion. We are 6 children and I realise the 1st 3 we are so different from the other 3. We are more responsible

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

And what is your position? P

[@njerijanet4216]

Great stuff always Angie is that big sis my experience I was the head girl my brother still believes I mother too much till now i still believe his still that child hes never outgrown being the lastborn sadly dont know if he will ever change 30yrs later

[@theerinahshow2077]

You`ll looking good!! change of senary has made this show appear beautiful! That`s basically my comment for today!!!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hehe! We appreciate your comment for today. P

[@staciakirya]

I love you Pumla 😂😂😂 You are such a vibe.

[@mercie8192]

thank you guys for this show. i have learnt a lot and now some things are making sense about how we grew up and how am even treating my own children.

[@Amish07]

The picture on the thumbnail looks dope i thought pumla is a twin🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mahorojulian6746]

Am learning Alot today frm ma ladiea n ama tell u I will not fail as a mother wen the Right Tym comes..it will not happen....parents please, let's all learn today..treat children equaly, n don't ever teach children to go against another parent regardless of any constraints please..mu tusasire bamikwano😥❤️🙏🏼

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We appreciate you for learning ❤. P

[@ForeverJ-t9m]

As one of the middle children of 8 though an acting last born for 7 years and second last born for more 7, I never felt any pressure, and as we got more siblings, I think I loved being forgotten so that I could go my own way, so the attention would be else where and I never cared.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh Joan...My sister Yolisa shared this advantage with me. The episode was however too long so it wasn't featured here. P

[@anyangoveronica8804]

Thanks ladies I really loved the show

[@shaniceo8291]

Pumla u look amazing.......you look so smart. I celebrate your Sister Nalule ......and thanks for being open and acknowledging the lack of recognition of her achievement in the past. Pumla I just love you from a far...love from a sister🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh! Thank you Shanice. My sister Yolisa deserves all her flowers. She truly is an amazing woman! P

[@Flourish_today]

I just wanted to acknowledge Manuela dressed in color. She looks pretty in Pink.

[@rosecarolinekatende4462]

Pumlaz submission btn minute 53 and 56 is 100% true and brilliant analysis...I have 3 sons and I can relate to what she has said 100%. I seem to be showing more love now to my first born much as I would not publicly admit coz I had him while young and the circumstances then were limiting factors. Love u bump love

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Rose for sharing. P

[@ugandankitchen.]

Being the only girl and the last born for almost 18 years, my parents were so protective of me, my movements and visits to place and people were restricted to only few places and this with alot other things like being the priority at home in almost everything i believe played a big part into who I am today.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Parents are so protective of their daughters. But excuse me - another child came 18yrs after you? P

[@ugandankitchen.]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 yes and this explains why got complications while giving birth but with time, Alhamdhulillah she recovered well.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

​@@ugandankitchen. Oh! Alhamdulillah 🙏🏾. P

[@brendaamongin2701]

I am an only child brought up by a single mom because my dad passed away when I was a baby. My mom was very conscious that I have no siblings so she brought me up to be very independent and responsible. Yes she spoilt me but would also ensure that I know how to survive in the world without her. Her passing 6 years ago broke me but I am appreciative of how she brought me up.

[@penelopeanyanzire7301]

Sending hugs your way 🫂

[@brendaamongin2701]

@@penelopeanyanzire7301 thank you 🙏

[@Puchi063]

Oh Brenda, it is well ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh Brenda. Your comment has stung a little because it has hit close to home. Your mom seems like she raised you the way I am raising my only child Teja. I wish I could speak to you on what worked and what you think could have been done better. P

[@brendaamongin2701]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 yes of course I would love to share with you how I was brought up. You can let me know how best to contact you.

[@ritaturinabo2063]

Great show ladies. You all look great.... Been blessed. Love you all❤❤

[@rechealnankunda7774]

Ladies i soooooo loved this ❤ As usual , I am learning , and taking notes 😍😍😍

[@joanitahnalubwama905]

Naye Pumla,i thought you're the genius but Nalule ampiseko,you guys are blessed

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahahaaaa! Me a genius???? Not at all but I receive the blessings. P

[@kayitesidoris4814]

As a middle child,5th born out of 7. My father loved me and I could feel it, we used to talk and joke but my mom on the other hand never loved me, not even cared a bit about me, which have made me strong and not care to be honest.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hi Doris. Why do you think your mom didn't love you? That's such a strong statement to make. P

[@olivenamugerwa8947]

Middle children are always remembered at last

[@rochellenteeba6291]

The set, lighting and ladies are on point❤. Life I think sometimes dictates how we turn out I'm the second last but I carry myself like the much older one.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We are trying to be better. Thanks Rochelle. P

[@natukundarichoz9340]

Thank you ladies, important discussion, thank you for tackling it❤

[@namugumyacathy6147]

Today muwomye nyoo🥰🥰🥰very smart makeup wowowoowo

[@carolynekirabo4811]

Pumla you are so so funny. All of you are so real ladies, Rosette, Manuela, Angie, Racheal uou ladies are so helpful so educative. Plus today, the smartness is another level...

[@justineayebare903]

Omg!!! You ladies all look amazing!!!

[@marthakyozira2085]

What an episode 🙇🏿‍♀️🙇🏿‍♀️ Thank you so much🙏🙏

[@omutungipamela2320]

This lighting is so good

[@evejkay6749]

Thank you for this episode ladies. ION....I'll soon be raiding your closets for those beautiful shoes 😊😊❤❤

[@letstalkwithirenerenny]

Cognisant 😂😂😂 like the way Manuela

[@gemmal.bisase3261]

Great discussion ladies!!!

[@baineaneurin5723]

This had to be a conversation. I loved it

[@miris004]

Angie z lipstick is to die for.... 👏👏👏👏👏

[@nnagawaannet1931]

Av come first here today. Thanks ladies for the show

[@lindaacen3112]

This episode was it's own version of catharsis for the childhood I experienced and really allowed me extend some grace to my parents. Thanks ladies 😊

[@babiryeangellah5008]

Pumla n ur siblings u guys r something else brains brains brains kudos darling n now Nalule comes in haaaaaa looks lik she ain’t from planet earth smartest ov the smartest bigup guys pray u pass dat to ur generation ❤❤❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hahaha! Nalule is the real GOAT. P

[@magalienia6958]

All the ladies look exquisite! Angie,that emerald green is ya color #gorgeous. "No 2 children are raised by the same parent",Pumla thank u for eloquently articulating that point. There's some sort of magical authenticity that elevates this show when the ladies get to know personal tidbits abt each other whilst doing the show. Bump ❤️...the show I didn't know I needed. Great job ladies!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks for this Magalie. P

[@tronellanabachwa8076]

Rosette that hairstyle looks fabulous on you

[@ninsiimaallen1568]

Me am the first and last born the only mum's daughter for the last 25years , loved by mum because she is all I have , dad abardoned us the very day I was born buh we thank God he is still alive and God has been greatful for mum to raise me, pay fees upto College en now working,praying to make her the best mum ever.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Bless you and your mom Allen. P

[@nsiimentacathy3676]

Interesting conversation🎉

[@jariatnakitende3393]

pumla is back💃💃💃💃💃 ladies you look gorgeous 🥰🥰🥰

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Of Lugave '- I am back 🎉. P

[@dorahkainew5238]

Hey ladies you look absolutely stunning Angie that green looks amazing on you ,Manuel you look amazing too with that pink top and the pony,pumla mukwano the dress is gorgeous,racheal that lipstick I love me some and rosette that outfits looks great on you! I love the topic as a second last born Bambi attention was little

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh Dorah! Thanks a lot for the all round compliments ❤. P

[@levinnabisubi8171]

Lovely show. You're very smart ladies

[@apio100]

Damn you ladies look amazing mama mwakikubye I love you all bump mummies the show always intressting. Me being one child I have been everything all characters both bad and good😂😂😂 but turned out well thanks to my tough cookie mummy

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

"Only" children are an inspiration because you're the closest to a roadmap that I'll ever have for my child. P

[@janetkan3242]

Iam a first born and now I confirm all first borns are reserved.

[@monicamutani8145]

You ladies are glowing!!happy to see all of you today.

[@mndanu_ke]

And elder siblings should stop telling us lastborns to wash dishes please. Suffering is not for us 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. DEAD. Okay diya. P

[@lydiakisakye4779]

This was lovely show ladies.

[@maceyari7514]

I am a middle child. I never got anything new. Things were always passed down to me when old or broken. 😂. So I learnt how to fix things. At my home I am a plumber, mechanic,electrician you name it, I can fix it. When I was 8 months pregnant I climbed on a chair to fix a bulb and my DH wasn’t amused. He said I make him feel inadequate sometimes when I fix things. Unfortunately it’s just my nature to do such things.

[@nampalamastulah4240]

This is so hilarious

[@psnk490]

Oh how I relate with Yolisa! 😞 I am trying to reparent myself and it is quite a painful and tough journey!

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hugs Pauline. P

[@merciekisey5639]

Yeah all my ladies are back am always looking forward to a Friday love you ladies

[@nakittohellen3934]

True the way we are is reflected in our children Pumla

[@bridgetkaremente4027]

Oh my Pumla... Nalule... You now look so alike I thought it was Tina. Well done Nalule. I'm not sure I met her but Brenda used to talk about her a lot. Well done Nalule.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Haha! Yes...we have grown to look much more alike as we've grown older. P

[@martharinebiseko1457]

Can't wait to hear my children share...

[@kisakyeshilla8944]

Nga your all glowing on this episode. Waooh