FAMILY PLANNING...OUR PREFERRED CHOICES

[@winniewainaina3143]

My "safe days" baby is turning 10 months old!!!! Needless to say,I got the IUD inserted 6 weeks after delivery.I can not entertain any other surprise

[@notongacheta107]

How has the IUD worked for you? I'm about to deliver my first and I'm exploring my options. And I'm leaning towards an IUD.

[@winniewainaina3143]

@@notongacheta107 It was my first option because it's non hormonal and so far so good.My period is a little heavier than before but other than that it's great!!! My sex life is stress free.

[@diana6868]

Family planning with Jesus works very well to those who have faith 😄shd u hv any doubt then, you are definitely finished😁

[@notongacheta107]

@@winniewainaina3143 sounds good to me. Although I'm slightly concerned about having heavier periods because mine are already so heavy with unbearable cramps. I'm praying for better luck after baby is born.

[@winniewainaina3143]

@@notongacheta107 If the period bleeding becomes too much then you just have it removed. Too much bleeding can make you anaemic.

[@HeyPhonsi]

Pumla for president. Love her mindset!

[@eglanceprincess3213]

Rachel mwine is really strong ❣️

[@jackienakangu8954]

Thanks for sharing ladies, About permanent methods, I considered that after baby number 2, but my gynea said NO! That I was too young to make that decision. And here iam now, with baby number 3 at 6months.... He's so adorable!

[@lusekelomunene7605]

I'm a single woman exploring my options way beforehand. I am very cautious of contraceptives and it's encouraging to hear the fertility planning is an option that actually works. thank you!

[@joanitahnalubwama905]

Pumla, pumla,I loooooooovvvvveeeee you,your so truthful and thank you

[@blitzburgs4067]

Pamula you have given me hope, my son too is 11, doesn't have any sibling yet still waiting on God. Rachel you are such a strong lady, God will make a way!

[@rachaelmwine]

Amen!!

[@haddyb1191]

My kid is 12 now and am still waiting

[@bannetinahrachealnamara7802]

But Manuella , one day u will break my ribs. Thanks all the team Bumb love u doing a great role.

[@marizaofficial7585]

Pumula is really open... And thanks ladies for the topic. It is so helpful

[@nakitendejovia8879]

Thank you ladies have laughed out loud than never before,thanks for blessing this nation with your brains

[@luzskin254]

I watch this from Kenya because Manuela dresses like a queen

[@cathybt]

Pumla has me teething..... she's so hilarious

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hehehe! Good thing laughing is free. P

[@lindak.katwesigye1070]

Pumla is amazing

[@beatricekesiime4791]

I love u Pakutho

[@cmn1551]

I've re-watched this show. I first watched it soon as it came out, then i had my 4th baby and went to my Gyn to ask about my options. I saw two doctors at the same facility and the first i saw said he can't do a BTL before 40. Then i went back and saw now my Gyn and he said as long as you sign consent, he's happy to. He said a lot of that school of thought is about the Doctor's personal school of thought or their personal beliefs.

[@marynayebare8101]

thanks for encouraging people, personally i have been blessed by God with 3children in 3and ahalf years in marriage and am now a young happy mother at 28years and i can now concetrate on my career and studies to encourage everyone in the same boat that its tricky when these children are all young and need care but the joy is more than challenges

[@sophiepurity9772]

Sometimes I feel like am related to Pamela. The experience is so alike. I love her honesty , i just like her, I love u ladies.

[@muhammedwalugembe9195]

Naye Pumla!! I like your assertive views. Great contributions from all the ladies. I like to watch your talk shows. You are respectively to each other and you each try to avoid talking over each other.

[@comfortcynthia9178]

family planning is a combined effort. Discuss and agree.

[@stelkyo2386]

Interesting group of ladies.. Rachel, all my love to you. Receive that baby in Jesus's Name.

[@rachaelmwine]

Amen, thank you❤

[@sylviaug53]

I really love you ladies and today team Pumla huuuu I hv never been on any family planning method though single for 8yrs now

[@bridgetnanyange1827]

You guys are amazing and very honest

[@gracetusubira5198]

Mrs molondo coz of the love and reality life I see in you made me follow this link and really am enjoying everything on this show

[@daphinenamuli7566]

Am not yet married or a mother yet but am learning aloootttt.... thank you ladies.

[@nalubegateddy2442]

Am so blessed to have found this channel. Love you ladies

[@annien1778]

Really appreciate the honest conversation. Its really helpful to many ladies who are going through the same things

[@remassemanda5270]

Ladies, you're so smart today. thank you so much for your topic may God bless you all.

[@penelopeakankwasa994]

I totally agree with you Pumla.You must know the number of children you want.

[@jdm3762]

Thank you for this brave and hilarious episode ladies. I've learnt so much and can also relate with some of your stories. Racheal, God speed to you sweet lady.

[@rachaelmwine]

Thank you❤

[@nakiguddegetrude7290]

Pumlah🙌🙌🙌😄😄..love yah .....and all the ladies love you. Thanks for sharing

[@lucyfnakiyegawamala7892]

I've also celebrated my periods often...esp the tension that comes with fertility awareness methods

[@sherrywilliams3691]

Thanks dias now let me watch anti nsoka kwebaza in advance

[@naomea4330]

This is a great topic. Thanks ladies

[@mokisamercy9469]

manueala maueala,your really fun to watch,thnaks for the topic

[@asher4jc]

Glad yo give you some laughter.

[@elizabethirungu7780]

Most gynaecologist are afraid of doing permanent family planning method when you are young because they know you might not be ready for that commitment or you might regret when you are older and need to have more babies, they also need consent from both partners to avoid being sued later if one partner decide that they want to expand their family, not knowing whether the other partner did a permanent method of family planning.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

This makes sense when the lady is actually in a legally bounded relationship. What is your view for a single woman?

[@bagagarebekah6687]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 still I'd not encourage it...if u followed at one time Dr,Ssali of fertility clinic bukoto was sharing about a lady who did it after two kids minus the consent of her hubby,then along the way power shocked both kids to death so since the Lady hadn't told the hubby about her tube tying n even bfo this tragedy the hubby kept on wanting more kids with her n all she said is she was trying too...yet in real sense she knew what she had done... So as they were in the mourning process,hubby says thank God we both are alive n can have more kids,wife wept the most cz of what she had done silently so she shares it with Dr ssali about what she had done bfo,He says he told her he was just trying but there was no guarantee that it'd work out,n actually just did it as an offer at no cost cz of the couple z story...she eventually got only one kid n that was it... So Dr was advising pipo NOT to do it... Unless its between life n death... Sorry for the long post tho

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

@@bagagarebekah6687 thanks for the share.

[@bagagarebekah6687]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 welcome my dear,hope u c their side of the whole thing...

[@amandabridget1375]

Racheal my prayers are with you dear 🙏

[@rachaelmwine]

❤thank you

[@sharifanaigaga6416]

good topic however check out on challenges women face while using these family planning methods please

[@ethel6651]

Yes, I agree

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks for this. We have a specialist coming on the next episode who speaks about this in detail. Watch the space.

[@restymusisi8893]

I can't wait to hear what the specialist says.

[@madrinenabukeera1902]

I love Pumla so much that am making most of my life choices basing on her story. Am intending to be a single mom and is she did it, I can too. These men are just not good people. Thank you for confirming that singel motherhood is not as bad as they term it to be

[@maryannenayebare8813]

YOU GUYS ARE SO COOOL im following all of you

[@eglanceprincess3213]

Rachel prayers for with u

[@marcynantanda3349]

Use IUD it's so great no deffects so far

[@winnietumwebaze3618]

I have laughed banange kika buka , I have done it all like manuella, but now I relie on prayers hahahaha

[@paulamugabi7320]

Thank you so much for doing the Lord's work. Mwah.love from Rubaga 10k loading soon.

[@joanitahnalubwama905]

The best topic,ladies your so humerous

[@wabegaflorence9025]

Oh my you guys are so real! Thank you for sharing your stories!

[@namanyadaphine6590]

Ladies thank you for the show. I always look forward to these episodes. Please in the next episode also discuss about the issues that come with IUD; I have heard of people who still conceive even with it and then challenges of the strings falling off, or the iud getting out of its position due to having a heavy flow etc so that people don't leave thinking that its 100 percent perfect. In my case though it is working perfectly well though, but I know that there are those exceptions to the general rule.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Hello Namanya. On the next episode, a specialist will tackle this. Watch out for it.

[@maquelinebusinge5951]

Do not worry of the strings gs getting off,it can still function 100% well.. u can have t with or without the strings... pipo who conceive on IUDs are those that DOOCH cz t displaces the IUD or even have the IUD while pregnant

[@graciegr2104]

I love yo honesty.

[@yahayamusasi5120]

U are not just beautiful ladies, but very intelligent and informative. 👌👍👍

[@massiekatende-lubuuka1433]

Wow. Thanks ladies for being super honest with us. Just like Rachel, my mom was so against the "foreign" birth control methods, that she advised I don't. So had to download a tracking App which has been a lot of help. My son is 18 months now and we are trying for a 2nd.

[@rachaelmwine]

Oh yes, I was warned too about birth control methods. Yay baby number 2, all the best.

[@flashlamp8939]

Omg ladies this was so great . Am soon getting married and I don’t want to have kids now. But I have been using pills for some 5 years and it works for me.

[@nambassahanipha28]

Thank you for sharing your stories with us

[@izabelgoodluck7428]

Pumla is such a gem

[@africaamazesmeug434]

Manuella banange! I don't know how I've taken long to watch this.

[@edithnamatovu7301]

And studies show vasectomy is reversible so men should not worry ,more contraceptive methods are needed for them as they hardly think of the consequences.

[@josephineakumu878]

Thank you ladies for this. I have learnt

[@rebeccanamata1170]

Hahaha naye banange manuela mbu da baby came out with my iud , l hear those stories but one doctor told it depend on da one who inserted , if they do it wrong u r done

[@namanyamidret1311]

Recheal pliz try neogenesis fertility center. Dr.Rujumba Davis you can also find him at either nakasero hospital or kampala hospital or mulago.

[@mwesigwalinatte5935]

Thank you for the honest conversations

[@nassalimadinah2905]

This was amazing ladies, my gal is 3months and am going for IUD I don't want to get the same mistake i got

[@sarahmartha7224]

I planned to get pregnant afta my baby is two yrs.in fact i planned that they she share a bday or a few days apart. Thank God it worked. My baby will b making 3 on Jan 14th 2021. And i was to b due on 26th Jan 2021.,bt I.hav orwedi booked with my doc to have a c-section on 14th Jan 2021 so they will share a bday

[@shirleyenejessicah6752]

Mine r also 2yrs apart n birthdays 4days apart

[@kitaboo206]

I have haerd of women planning for their children to have the same birthday. Why? Why do you need 2 children who aren't twins to have the same birthday. Or what if you get pregnant when your not planning to? Im not being rude Im honestly asking I hope it doesnt sound rude.

[@sarahmartha7224]

@@kitaboo206 its a choice .+ we love it,t feels gd + reduces costs and time when t comes to bdays.. My mom gave birth to 7 of us. 2 were born in DEC. 4 in Jan. Was the only one in November. We enjoy t when our bdays r nt so far apart. My mom too was born in DEC so thats y she also wanted her kids in dec

[@kitaboo206]

@@sarahmartha7224 Thank you. It would be nice to only have to worry about bdays one time out of the year lol and Im sure your children will love it too.

[@kismatk6798]

Manuella is twisted 😂😂😂 I’m literally on the floor rolling 🤣🤣🤣

[@lilianmukisa3291]

How I love the early birds! Great topic. I love your openness. 💕💕. Looking forward to one about cultural practices; good and bad.

[@eglanceprincess3213]

They actually tackled this 😊

[@lilianmukisa3291]

Please share the title of the episode or you're meaning" out pulling stories" . But I meant a comprehensive one. We've many cultures and bump love ladies stand out because atleast Uganda is well represented from all corners, including guests.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

@@lilianmukisa3291 we'd be glad to do a topic and maybe host mothers from different regions. May you please share with us the examples of cultural practices in regards to raising children/parenting that you have in mind.

[@lilianmukisa3291]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 thanks Pumla for the responses. 1. I would love to start with " the origin of giving names e.g in acholi culture where the're names are given like onenchan, opiyo, etc. Am a Madi and parents give names mostly due to circumstances they face at that moment. This has led to some of us thinking of changing of our names when we grow up or choose a different meaning according to the knowledge. My name Lindrio means no shade but I chose" this world is not my home". Another example is Santa of arapapa from "Anzoyo" to "Anzo" as once seen from a newspaper, can't remember the year. Of late people around me believe that meaning of names follow. 2. Am also looking forward to watching an episode with the bump love ladies either dressed in cultural outfits or share pics.

[@simplyjojo5631]

Rossetti resembles one of my sisters. Such a beauty. 🥰 Weldon ladies.

[@rebeccanamata1170]

I used injections of da three months for my first one and l was ok, l hv tried them again for my second but hv not done me well , want to try another option and see

[@jamilahndagirebscn4749]

This is a bold topic

[@bumploveug]

So necessary though. We bring you the topics that most are afraid to publicly talk about.

[@benabena3010]

@@bumploveug yet so helpful .we thk u Bump Love Ladies looking nic

[@jamilahndagirebscn4749]

@@bumploveug So so necessary. I agree.

[@jamilahndagirebscn4749]

@@bumploveug And so grateful you ladies do talk about these bold ones. For a second I was shying away on your behalf.😄😄 Manuel with tieing or tying her legs, and Brian goes like mukwano 😆. We love you and continue inspiring us. Am a mother of two and I’ve learnt alot from here. My friends call me for advice and the most I give is from here. So thank you.

[@nalubegateddy2442]

Pumla banange 😄 but pliz get your gyna bambi he loves you and wishes you the best dear and for Rachel dear don't worry God's time is the best

[@phyby9651]

This is so helpful

[@kessyfifi]

Very informative, entertaining. Pumla and Mandela are crazy 😜

[@brendanakirya1379]

Manuella you are so real

[@asher4jc]

People like you make it easy for us to share our stories and be real with you

[@GloriaAyera]

I have had the exact same experience as Pumla in Uganda, two different institutions said the same, I was too young, “come back at a certain age,” and they looked me in the eye and said I needed consent from a husband, even though I was single.

[@bettynalujja457]

I really love Pumla❤️❤️

[@carolynealupo1589]

Woow this was soo interesting @ Manuela i can identify 😂😂😂 i hated condom and withdraw too thou

[@asher4jc]

Meet my online sis. *wink

[@Hemma1.0]

Yass pumla😂😂😂we gotta enjoy 😹😹🙌🏾

[@murungicarol8846]

Love you ladies....this show is so 😍 ➕ some looking good.

[@mourinmwendeza5782]

Great discussion

[@asabacaroline5602]

Good topic ladies!

[@g-doxa]

😂😂😂 Manuela ...i hear "tying legs"

[@asher4jc]

🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

[@excellentjolly164]

i love you.you make me teeth. you ladies are everything

[@atlantaesether7366]

Can someone help and tell me what to take to convince after using injector plan,it's been a year since I stopped using it but guys,I have failed to concieve

[@jackiezcribbabycenter6168]

I admire u ladies.

[@lennahakinyi451]

Lots of love from Kenya. I love Manuela's dress

[@maquelinebusinge5951]

Swrhrt come to Mariestopes Ug u will have your choice offered...BTL is about the women's choice

[@tamarakidenbala1601]

😂😂 Eeh Manuella😂😂 I love u all ladies❤❤

[@kayeangella8220]

IUD didn't work for me . My first came just like that So i prefer daily pill

[@michellebryan1777]

I aways say i only wanted 2 children..and i have 2 children a son and a daughter...and i was very, very sick...with both pregnancy...and after having my daughter i told my husband at the time...im not having a another child...so i waited 7 years to have my son...and den i tied my tubes...at 28 years old, and my doctor didn't want to do it...he said i was too young..but i told him...i don't want to have any more children..because i was too sick...my husband at the time didn't agree neither, but i didn't care...i was too sick.

[@morekatusabe8537]

Manuela you are something, you girls I just love you alot

[@shamypassion8094]

hope your not just advertising the iud thing coz am scared of family planning

[@aba_nketsiaba]

I think by far today is my favorite. I loved the plan honesty and openness plus i did learn a lot although am yet to practice any😂. Lots of love all the way from Ghana😍

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Oh Felicia from Ghana! Thanks for this.

[@restymusisi8893]

Am with you Pumla, I always wanted 2 kids and my decision has never changed so after the 2 kids, I made my decision and had my tubes tied because my partner didn't want any more kids but wasn't willing to have the snip

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

what has your experience been like? I was told of cases of early menopause when you have tubes tied e.g lower libido/dryness/heat flashes etc. Please share if anything changed. So interested to know a personal story.

[@bagagarebekah6687]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 mbu also makes your flower cold,so your hubby won't enjoy it... Camping here to learn though never considered it at all... IUD all the way

[@restymusisi8893]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 first of all, I want to make this clear, please don't opt for tubal ligation unless you are really sure that you don't want any more children and even if you have to discuss this with your partner, the end decision has to be with the person who is undergoing the procedure. In our case, hubby didn't want more children after having the first baby but i always wanted 2 children and he knew that. So I asked him that if he felt so strongly about having one baby and no more, he should then have a snip but if he doesn't then I will have another baby. Ofcourse just like most men, that didn't sit well with him, he gave all excuses about having a snip and that was the end of the conversation. I went ahead and had my second baby. But because I only wanted 2 babies in my life, the decision was easier for me to go for the permanent procedure. Both my babies were delivered by c-section so I consented that when I had the second c-section, the tubal ligation would be carried out after the baby was taken out. My baby is now 11 months and none of the things you have mentioned in your text have happened to me. During my research before deciding on this procedure, none of those side effects came up. The only risk which was emphasised was that if its done wrong, you risk getting some abdominal pain or pelvic pain here and there and also after along time, in some cases, the tubes could join again if the clipping method was used and risk getting pregnant......but am sure by the time my do if it were to happen, I will be in my 60s 😂😂😂 and that will mean that the procedure wasn't done properly. But jokes aside, its 11 months now since I had the procedure and no side effects for me. Right now, I don't have to worry about getting more kids and also don't have to disorganise my hormones. But I also think that these side effects should be looked at on individual basis. Just like the pill, it affects each person differently so my advice is don't make your decision based on general perception or hearsay. Speak to your gynecologist and assess the risks based on your body before making that decision. Sorry for the long text and waffling 🤭

[@aworiemily6815]

@@restymusisi8893 thanks Resty for sharing this I'm still thinking about tubligation too. Have my 3 babies and with the experiences I've had prior I don't feel like getting back there. Will opt for this one day.

[@lizasekaggya6932]

I have a lot in common with Pumla’s views

[@penelopeakankwasa994]

Pumla , I love the way you look at things. You look at things in real life . And I love the I about you not WE.

[@hodahoda7164]

These ladies hihi..I don't know nothing about safe days,besides my periods keep changing.

[@nakwanyibridget4289]

Pumla ur a gem 🤣🤣

[@brendanabaggala8021]

Z t bad to use emergency pills more than once for sm1 Hu has never given birth

[@kitaboo206]

I love Pulma!

[@charityesther2154]

In love with this

[@richauntie316]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️ learning alot from you ladies

[@sandraahamya424]

Pumla always 👍👍👍👍👍

[@enidnaome5792]

Thank you for being real 😂😂

[@prossykiconco9552]

Pumla I like u and your views

[@jemimahlinzy5038]

But Nabachwa(okay that part killed me ),in marriage you have to discuss this issue until you come to a conclusion, your body, my body. Family planning in marriage works different from that when your single.

[@sherrywilliams3691]

Hahahaha....this topic has been mwaaa