"I'm not as smart as these people, ok? I have to work harder" Hit me right in the heart. Sometimes I put in insane hours only to end up being mediocre at the expense of my personal wellbeing and it's not like I'm not always trying to think of more efficient ways to do my job.
@tamaraleon3955 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@davecullins16065 жыл бұрын
Try and ask the other smarter people how they do things. They might just have a more effective method than you and you're just one question away from getting more done in less time.
@siyabongamtetwa78885 жыл бұрын
So true. I felt that too. And it hits so hard.
@amaltaguemi3075 жыл бұрын
i felt it me 2
@9210paola5 жыл бұрын
Well that's accurate
@lupe.027 жыл бұрын
A++ for their acting skills. I really loved this.
@asterism75867 жыл бұрын
I would give it a B- but yea
@7y4ne337 жыл бұрын
A for Anne!!!!!!!!!
@channelforpositivitylunder93856 жыл бұрын
Totally agree :)
@harshsoni93266 жыл бұрын
yeah...
@no1chopperstan6 жыл бұрын
Asterismz just for buzzfeed standards 😂
@NowNorie7 жыл бұрын
They're actually good actors
@shelbijackson58297 жыл бұрын
+FruityCandy I think they have both
@bleached33607 жыл бұрын
simplebeautyxx lol
@rimshakhalid50377 жыл бұрын
simplebeautyxx ikr
@klookooma59486 жыл бұрын
simplebeautyxx so bad no
@avamaria13856 жыл бұрын
Meh.
@angela-ul2dk4 жыл бұрын
He kinda looks like all the Jonas brothers combined
@nyshareddy87514 жыл бұрын
angela exactly what I thought
@shivani48244 жыл бұрын
Lmao😂😂😂
@marsitaaah904 жыл бұрын
i thought that 2
@meh61314 жыл бұрын
And his name is Nick XD
@muskaansareen70434 жыл бұрын
Omg yess
@gundeepsidhu22716 жыл бұрын
A STRONG message. Never take life too seriously.
@rapunzelsun96594 жыл бұрын
u have no idea being poor because of this my granda cant spend their money its kinda mental problem. so when life havent showed real face of it u can say dont take it serious
@jd8184 Жыл бұрын
@@rapunzelsun9659 i dont even know what this comment says. Is your grandma poor or is she not able to spend her money?
@rapunzelsun9659 Жыл бұрын
@@jd8184 so this comment was 3 years ago let me explain it to you. My granma was an example If you live in survival mode and if you don’t have stable money you will be facing so many problems and especially when you have to be dependent to someone
@jd8184 Жыл бұрын
@@rapunzelsun9659 oh i see. sorry the word mental threw me off
@JustBetweenUs7 жыл бұрын
Want more Allison!??? Here I am! I've been here the whole time!
@kevin.ezekiel7 жыл бұрын
🖤🖤
@lemonaids56897 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD HI!!!!
@Ayosubzero7 жыл бұрын
What’s going on? Are you back at Buzzfeed?
@cottontherabbit29527 жыл бұрын
Ayodele Cuffy I don't think so, if you look at the end she's in the external credits.
@2000andie7 жыл бұрын
ALLISON What is going onnnnnnnnn
@amber-lb2ow7 жыл бұрын
I mean what did she expect. She was mostly at work and never even spoke to her boyfriend. Of course it was going to end in a break up.
@christinalane52825 жыл бұрын
ItzSo Cute agreed
@dagda30004 жыл бұрын
@I see Everything! Nice. So when you are kissing her you can taste the semen of the last pilot she flew with.
@frozenyogurl4 жыл бұрын
this
@nathanbibiano90474 жыл бұрын
Yeah, because in a mature relationship you have to talk To each other and let each other know. How detail your work is so that way the other person has a piece of Mind knowing. That you're working hard to achieve greatness and not just fooling around.
@ggd18043 жыл бұрын
Yes,but if it's the man who works all the time,then is fine,he is judt trying to make it for both
@aisha.b.40906 жыл бұрын
I’m happy he left her. Honestly, this isn’t healthy. He deserves better.
@bencrosbie6 жыл бұрын
A. Princess. B exactly
@natschaefer10445 жыл бұрын
I'd have preferred it if she took his advice and got help, then their relationship could have been restored, but failing that yeah he really shouldn't have stayed with her
@evelynegoliver99165 жыл бұрын
True love stay. When we true loving someone we need to accept their weakness like their strenght as well. If you go then you dont love the person that much.
@creativebooth31405 жыл бұрын
U gave spoiler man
@clorozweepvmundosalazar51535 жыл бұрын
Ruthy Evelyn stay and destroy himself? It seems like he tried to be patient and tell her how unhealthy this problem was getting, but it was going nowhere and he was becoming more and more miserable being with her. It's not healthy for her but also not for him. I personally think breaking up is good for the mental health in this situation. She needs to seek help about this workaholic problem and then when this is sorted out, maybe they can try again later on or go their separate ways.
@AK-WADE5 жыл бұрын
Work only 8 hrs a day And be with family 8 hrs day 8 hrs sleep This is good
@gianniszacharopoulos57254 жыл бұрын
Simple maths
@subhajitdas98684 жыл бұрын
Right ✌
@baibhabsaha42984 жыл бұрын
And an hour of exercise coz that stays with u
@tylerrumpler69314 жыл бұрын
Rat race
@maxalex2434 жыл бұрын
Fantastic ...
@lovemecom38326 жыл бұрын
Why choose if you can have both your career and love, you just need to properly manage your time and it'll work out.
@haimantidebnath34926 жыл бұрын
I totally agree! But over love is good.. Over work isn't according to me 😂
@ratanakhun25086 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is good at time management you know? Plus who know if this workaholic things turn out to be that serious issue.
@haimantidebnath34926 жыл бұрын
Ikr:-(
@buggedout7726 жыл бұрын
LoveMe,com It's not a time issue, it's the fact that she feels the compulsion to constantly be working. In that scene where she got the email on her phone in the car, she started chewing gum to distract herself from the need to work
@tsv606 жыл бұрын
Easy to say. But not always possible to maintain that balance.not every one can . Not everyone does. Then we prioritise to career often. Sad but true
@falcon32376 жыл бұрын
Your goals and dreams won't wake up one day and tell you that they don't love you anymore.
@dikshabagade55426 жыл бұрын
exactly!!!
@bencrosbie6 жыл бұрын
They do bossman wakes up one morning to let you go 😂
@dikshabagade55426 жыл бұрын
@@bencrosbie your qualification can get u another job then...
@mickeyrace8735 жыл бұрын
So much money for me Tell me why should i care for peace and love?
@joshuaarnold85795 жыл бұрын
This comment made my day .
@lilyblish39957 жыл бұрын
I love these kind of Buzzfeed videos. THEY'RE LIKE SHORT FILMS!
@idaly9027 жыл бұрын
Do you work for Fuel Hospitality?
@KylaRose20826 жыл бұрын
LILY ITS YOU FROM PIPELINE OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
@lilyblish39956 жыл бұрын
Kitty K is that you kyla?
@eduardoernestovidalvidal22866 жыл бұрын
+Lily Blish MAMAsoyS
@lilyblish39956 жыл бұрын
Eduardo Ernesto Vidal Vidal umm, what was that??
@revinaque13427 жыл бұрын
This collab was a great idea. It's a good way to bring back the creators that the Buzzfeed fans know and love, but who have since left the company.
@abhinayamarykoshy12646 жыл бұрын
Revina Que looks like I missed the whole history behind BuzzFeedVideo. Could you fill me in?
@abi.0055 жыл бұрын
Pretending to be in the shower when you don’t want your partner knowing your working and sneaking out... that’s when you know your over working
@vidhishiste87514 жыл бұрын
Water is also wasted
@pursuji.3818Ай бұрын
you're
@ytaaalx31956 жыл бұрын
This is stressing me out so much. I hate to admit it but im slowly turning into her. (not work but school) Im constantly busy and there are times I dont hang out with my friends anymore because im always, always, doing sht.
@Jtuanhall6 жыл бұрын
ytaaal x Well all you need to do is manage your time after that you shouldn't be as stressed or upset you missed out enjoying times with friends or life.
@pillowwall22836 жыл бұрын
All you have to do is to keep the balance means cut out unnecessary things that you do for the sake of "in case this happens".you just cut out extra homework or just don't prepare the little quizes that can be done in the school too,and instead of it get a good sleep if not daily but atleast once after 2 or 3 days(start with your sleep sweetie) because health is actually what matters the most 😃
@areejalsham66626 жыл бұрын
ytaaal x me toooo 😭
@dua_1375 жыл бұрын
And here i am being a total procrastinator 😕
@davecullins16065 жыл бұрын
I'm already there. I'm just autistic so the minimum of contact I need with my friends is through Messenger and Facebook once in a while. Luckily most of them are like that too.
@Frilleon7 жыл бұрын
I got married to someone like her and when life got tough the relationship took a backseat and it ruined our marriage. She's an otherwise perfect person but a family takes two people fully sharing their lives. We're getting divorced. Been a tough last year. :(
@Rox123ify7 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your rotten luck, mate. Heartbreak and tragedies are the norms of this world, as of late it seems. How're you doing these days?
@Frilleon7 жыл бұрын
andrew Infante thanks. I'm good. I just take care of what I control--my job, myself, my health. Just staying motivated and taking things one day at a time. The divorce is a process but could be worse. We are almost done with an agreement for it. The situation is sad but I'm not so much anymore. I was sadder as things were going down and so I've had time to make peace with the future.
@kriskristia60676 жыл бұрын
Frilleon no no no!! Please don't. ..think about this. If you love her,don't let her go. Marriage is hard man. The best things in life are hard and worth fighting for. You only get one soul mate. Everyone else is just a sad attempt at making you feel complete. Listen to me, if you believe she's the ONE God picked out for you, do not let go...you'll regret it
@Frilleon6 жыл бұрын
You can't be together with someone who is not there. All the love and support I could muster wasn't enough to save her. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him/her drink. She's completely gone from the previous reality she lived in. If there was a chance I'd still be holding on. Life continues...
@Jtuanhall6 жыл бұрын
Frilleon Before you both departed did you talk with her about her being a workaholic? I been on the same boat before except not married
@kittycat47464 жыл бұрын
this couple has more chemistry than a lot of Hollywood ones
@notAshildr7 жыл бұрын
That's not commitment issues, that's being a workaholic. And I'm so sorry for that guy living with a crazy person.
@Tsukki077 жыл бұрын
Me (No, not Ashildr, I had the name before Doctor Who, and I'm not changing it!) The commitment issue thing is when she freaked out about the ring which was possibly another reason why she wanted to work so bad to avoid the actual engagement
@mercyogbee70777 жыл бұрын
Me (No, not Ashildr, I had the name before Doctor Who, and I'm not changing it!) He wanted, nobody forced him
@RubeGold3567 жыл бұрын
Just because she doesn't want to get married doesn't mean she has commitment issues. She specifically said that it just wasn't the right time for her because of the demands of her career.
@Chris-wn2uo6 жыл бұрын
chupaxf tf? If it was a man people would tell the woman to leave him. Men get no special privileges
@Jtuanhall6 жыл бұрын
ofowlsandcities Yeah but it was also stated that by the time she met her career demands it would be a long time from then which could be many many years atleast he came to realization he loved her to the point he thought of marrying her yes maybe it isnt a commitment issue but its a career and life issue. She shouldve left work at work and not drag it theres more to life than your career and constantly working bad enough he made a effort and wasted his time for a woman who was more involved with her job than her love interest. Not only that but it was pulling him down you cant blame the guy. You wouldnt want to waste your time, effort, and years in a relationship that will never go anywhere. You can always get back to your career at anytime but you cant get back lost time when it comes to life. This goes for men or women!
@Igglebug7 жыл бұрын
I ditched a workaholic as well. Best decision of my life.
@Samsungsamsung-ec5gl5 жыл бұрын
I'd rather have a workaholic than someone who watches porn
@natschaefer10445 жыл бұрын
@@Samsungsamsung-ec5gl Who's watching porn in this context?
@namelessplanet89355 жыл бұрын
@@natschaefer1044 She is juss making her point. It doesn't need a context. Does it??
@TenshiNoAme5 жыл бұрын
@@Samsungsamsung-ec5gl Yes, because there's like litteraly no middle ground. Only workaholic and the loser watchin porn all day.
@rubiecon64255 жыл бұрын
Why atlest he was a cheatwe
@user-ds2wv8si3c5 жыл бұрын
That moment when you can’t relate because you have no career and no love Update: I have a love life now lol
@HidingSleeper5 жыл бұрын
aka no worries
@mrAmal455 жыл бұрын
fuckin true
@rohan_31284 жыл бұрын
Funny and sad too
@ryuusei32314 жыл бұрын
good for u mate
@user-ds2wv8si3c4 жыл бұрын
Ryuu Sei thanks, mate
@anon.8097 жыл бұрын
WTF. CANT JUST END LIKE THAT??? MOREE PLEASEEE
@joeynathan60736 жыл бұрын
Part 2 - kzbin.info/www/bejne/qIq2mpSLotdkbdE
@TristanDefeuilletVang6 жыл бұрын
We want the part 2 !
@kaykay121527 жыл бұрын
You know who's committed? *JENNA TO HER BASKETBALLL GAAAME TOMORROOOOOW*
@juliamotakef50447 жыл бұрын
kaykay12152 same
@ziry29127 жыл бұрын
kaykay12152 XDD
@Rjayofficiallel7 жыл бұрын
*trey, *his
@pola9437 жыл бұрын
This Jenna thing is getting out of hand... *AND I LOVE IT*
@purpleesc7 жыл бұрын
LMFAO
@sahilparashar99925 жыл бұрын
This is a crossover with that INSECURE guy video..lol
@kayliet96895 жыл бұрын
And the anger issues one too 😂
@argosnot4 жыл бұрын
yess i just watched that one haha
@roxysparks50036 жыл бұрын
I hate it when people say “manage your time,” as if that’ll fix everything. What takes others a few hours, takes me twice as long. I’m just not as fast.
@theplaintiff54503 жыл бұрын
Which is fine, just don’t expect a guy like this to come along for the ride.
@avastars33933 жыл бұрын
@@theplaintiff5450 exactly
@user-js8hf3zj9y7 жыл бұрын
Allison did not come back. See the description. They have given her special credits.
@jamesgors7 жыл бұрын
Nice photo
@user-js8hf3zj9y7 жыл бұрын
James Gorsevski Thank you and same to you
@ananas92767 жыл бұрын
Nice pics both of you it brought tears to my eyes
@JESUS-IS-LORD-HALLELUJAH7 жыл бұрын
Is there going to be a part 2? I really hope so
@jde5007 жыл бұрын
Alison quit buzzfeed a while ago :(
@ZachsMind7 жыл бұрын
Actually I felt that was the perfect place to end it. Like a classic Twilight Zone episode.
@hannahbrand33047 жыл бұрын
I hope so too
@zsuzsisz92637 жыл бұрын
Please let there be a nother one!
@sammyjcomedyable7 жыл бұрын
Jorden this was filmed after she quit. She came back to film this. Buzzfeed hires actors to come in all the time.
@mimimosa2597 жыл бұрын
"Did you like your shoulder kiss?" That's such an allison line lol
@teekanyel56565 жыл бұрын
In 10 years, she'll be a millionaire still trying to buy love.
@nyankrunex96544 жыл бұрын
Tee Abbs but then again, love isn’t everything
@preethika67394 жыл бұрын
It is 😢
@carlosparra89764 жыл бұрын
@@nyankrunex9654 that is money, money isnt everything. Love is everything.
@nyankrunex96544 жыл бұрын
Carlos Parra money and love are both similar. They are both very highly overrated, and always considered more important than other valuable things in life. No, they can’t be everything. Never
@carlosparra89764 жыл бұрын
@@nyankrunex9654 maybe you are talking about romantic love, which is a small part of what love truly encompasses, and yeah, that can be tiring and turn into something destructive at times. Its like saying that hatha yoga (the yoga that we see here in the west with all the fancy postures) is all yoga. Love, just like yoga, is something much more deeper.
@MrBen-zv1ip6 жыл бұрын
She ignored him for several time and did not gave him time and was always at work.So of course he is gonna have questions about their relationship.But when the girl finds out he returned the ring its all his fault now?
@l.f.87415 жыл бұрын
It isn't his fault at all. She is just sick and needs help. He hasn't done anything wrong or could have done more besides maybe make her see a therapist
@aintgonnaletuknow57584 жыл бұрын
ikr what a joke☻ She doesn't wanna engage with him anyway then why is she so angry about him returning the ring🙄
@kayduff56767 жыл бұрын
I know this might be minor but I LOVE that the boss told her to get an Uber if she worked past midnight. I work in an industry that requires many late nights during a certain time of year and I always think how dangerous driving home at midnight is.
@explorewithxena6 жыл бұрын
Handsome, caring, dentist... ffs she is a fool
@SaMihm-uq8lr4 жыл бұрын
Caring?? Even a little financ. for her?? Are you seriosly?!?
@idfc31963 жыл бұрын
Ikr :))
@theplaintiff54503 жыл бұрын
She already had a husband - work. She’ll be 35, single, no kids .. but at least she’ll be a higher rank at work!!!
@Be1smaht3 жыл бұрын
Disagree. Completely
@ATrueLoveOfficial7 жыл бұрын
These two stuffs are so important and such a big deal in life. When you already have both, you have to be able to balance it and not overdo the other one. Because if not, the other one might fall down. And just like what the video showed, it could also harm yourself physically not just emotionally.
@JennDeSantis7 жыл бұрын
So true
@freestate84744 жыл бұрын
Everyone: expecting her choosing love over career She: dies near the Xerox because the back hurts
@justinnaarden92904 жыл бұрын
I understand Nick Jonas point of view better though.
@gotnoname70514 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Lezlylizarde4 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOOOOO
@shanmathisolaimalai68164 жыл бұрын
I don’t get it
@mayankmehta1834 жыл бұрын
@@shanmathisolaimalai6816 he looks like him.. duh
@aaliyahs33327 жыл бұрын
Honestly perfect ending. She pushed everyone away overworking hers causing herself to be alone with no one to help her at the one place she always commited to, her job.
@lepus95887 жыл бұрын
99% of these comments: ALLISON????????!?!! 1% some random crap
@Kiraaoo7 жыл бұрын
Pinecone Power lol
@user-ve4lx8be4o7 жыл бұрын
I think this comment is in that 1% lol
@No_timezone777 жыл бұрын
Pinecone Power 😁
@max811227 жыл бұрын
Pinecone Power IKR!?!
@bencrosbie6 жыл бұрын
Yep 😂
@Nessa-k7q7 жыл бұрын
I'm loving the short film that buzzfeed is posting I just realized they are connected. Because at 7:22 this is a part from Body Issues
@katjohnson49626 жыл бұрын
Just Another Commenter I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED THAT!
@ellanap35945 жыл бұрын
ahhhhhhh!
@siddharthnetam23106 жыл бұрын
Don't worry she would be fine with her emails...
@حوراءحوراء-ز4و5ض4 жыл бұрын
💏💑💑💑
@anewloveofficial91376 жыл бұрын
This is a very good story and sometimes I can relate to it but I wouldn't sacrifice my love for my career because a life without love is boring. I want to keep it balance, having a quality time for my man and at the same time build a career on my own.
@bencrosbie6 жыл бұрын
A New Love Official thats how its done prioritise the relationship
@kingvegeta73014 жыл бұрын
A New Love Official+ Good decision. Because your boss and colleagues can replace you more easily than your loved(Truly loved) ones.
@Spidermanslefttoenail7 жыл бұрын
When you can't focus on the video content because ALLISON
@abbynicole63087 жыл бұрын
Morgan Alexander lol
@oliviar99207 жыл бұрын
And she looks bomb! Look at her hair!!!
@iBeFloe6 жыл бұрын
Wait what?? That's seriously Allison?! She looks like a COMPLETELY different person with that hair & makeup! She also looks less depressing? I'm guessing she's happier now since when she was an exclusive BF worker she was always well...depressing. She's like a COMPLETELY different person!
@anonomus87096 жыл бұрын
iBeFloe Could be maturity.
@flyingpirate63377 жыл бұрын
Isnt the title a bit inaccurate? This is about a workaholic, not commitment issues..
@TheLastPrime387 жыл бұрын
Flying Pirate But imo it still works based on the content of the video, workaholics typically have a rough time with their relationships, because they constantly focus on work.
@swinxfee6 жыл бұрын
Same thing. Cant marry anyone else if ur already married to your job
@romeychowchow12146 жыл бұрын
Flying Pirate
@shrutikoonjul84116 жыл бұрын
That's the whole point of it if you see well! It meant to show how workaholic people get more committed to their work that it disrupts their ability to invest more time and interest in their emotional and social relationships.
@nithinravi44016 жыл бұрын
That is what the title says...
@sin-mtz15107 жыл бұрын
I have real commitment issues. I can't even have friends. I start hanging out with a person and we become friends. A week later I get tired of that person and just want them to leave me alone. Idk what's wrong with me. I always pull away for some reason.
@KM-nt9nj7 жыл бұрын
dill pickle That doesn’t sound like commitment issues sounds like you just like new and trying new things
@reecipieci56986 жыл бұрын
dill pickle I have the same issue- I open up to someone and we get close and then I become paranoid and then push them away and end up making enemies. It’s wonderful
@dynamicallymade26016 жыл бұрын
dill pickle are u an aquarius? Cuz im am and like this too. I honestly can be with someone for a long time as long as they like trying neelw things and have a creative/wierd mindset like me
@sin-mtz15106 жыл бұрын
Just call me Stella Im a Pisces
@elenasalvatore8326 жыл бұрын
dill pickle same here... Pisces as well. We are so weird...
@snehapradhan27115 жыл бұрын
She is a workaholic, she just need to balance out things properly. Her personal life is as important as professional life, moreover too much of everything is not good...I think it should be general I think bith men and women need to understand the concept of balancing out moreover doing the right thing at a time
@appuarpana7 жыл бұрын
My boss is an workaholic. He's writing emails at 1 am, 7 am, when he's on a vacation, on weekends, really he doesn't have a life and assumes we don't have one either. 😅😅
@aquahorns89954 жыл бұрын
What work do you do tho?
@aarond95637 жыл бұрын
Um... am I the only one confused by this situation? It was a great short film though!
@StickyGreenify7 жыл бұрын
she has commitment issues and she ended up hurting her back so now she HAS to commit on support of others
@ethanw11277 жыл бұрын
also when being in front of a computer for so long your shoulders begin to slouch. This makes it easy to hurt your back
@abc314pi7 жыл бұрын
Who else clicked because "Allison?!?!?! on buzzfeed?!?!?!"
@aaliyahloanjoe76906 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the nerd😂
@mshades93226 жыл бұрын
Aaliyah Lo A Njoe haha😂
@tr1stan7066 жыл бұрын
He was in the anger issues. its cool that they link that episodes up
@uzairakram8996 жыл бұрын
she just yelled at him for no reason, reserve your anger for people that deserve it.
@ghanshyamsoni41075 жыл бұрын
Start kase kre
@benedictusdewantoadi66495 жыл бұрын
Totally my ex gf. Workaholic, forget to love herself and forget how to keep this realtionship. She got Minimum salary sms also a maximum stress life. The worst, she blame all up on me? I work hard for her, my salary are more than her, bought her whatever she want. She is not even have a time for me. Even a night. And. Also blamed me for what i said. I want to help her, she refused it. Oke its time to go, i deserve better.
@slovelyyx77185 жыл бұрын
Benedictus Dewanto Adi Those are the type of women who end up 35 and single. Bitter and lonely, living with some cats and dogs. Women, this will be your lifestyle if you decide to prioritize your career and education over marriage and family.
@MsSonnencreme5 жыл бұрын
Sally Lovelyy x hey not a bad word on cats or dogs! I love my two furry babies
@wirakusuma87454 жыл бұрын
Same here bro. I also try to understand her, but she refused too. They just don't know the balance between life and work.
@naomidacosta45955 жыл бұрын
I see nothing wrong with her working hard but then she isn't willing to work things out. That's the main problem!!!
@mixowtlawz0074 жыл бұрын
Finally somebody said it. So relieved.
@Jack303554 жыл бұрын
Yes
@assatamakonnen73044 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I definitely agree with you, but another problem was she wasn't JUST working hard... she was obsessed with her inbox to the point she eventually crippled herself from the burden, and that was also the problem. But you're right, her not wanting to talk things out was the major issue :(
@coldhands66484 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY. I've started to feel like the crazy one for always thinking of the "bad" guys as not-so-bad, or at least not as bad as everyone else is making them out to be.
@_aiko0203 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@nonothatmartha7 жыл бұрын
These two work really well together!
@jero0076 жыл бұрын
I don't want a sequel. Leave the story as it is. Hopefully, many people will get the actual goal of the creator/s for making this video. It is never good to work more than your body can handle. Life is short and too precious to make myself a slave to my job. What's the point of having all those money if you can't enjoy them because you have to see a doctor or rest in a hospital. You have the adoration of your coworker but the people who truly matters are not by your side to celebrate with you. They say it's a lonely place at the top but it doesn't have to be.
@patricialim68164 жыл бұрын
What if you’re an entrepreneur?
@emppos4327 жыл бұрын
GUYS. IT'S NOT WRITTEN BY ALLISON. LOOK AT THE CREDS AT DESC!
@AR-dr1sb7 жыл бұрын
its all for buzzfeed
@asterism75867 жыл бұрын
So, shes back?
@Olivia_Hye7 жыл бұрын
no if you look at the description allison is credited in EXTERNAL CREDITS which is separate from buzzfeed "Credits:" so she's a contractor not employee
@toad73957 жыл бұрын
pretty sure they mean EY BOI ALLISON IS IN DA VIDEO LEGOO
@shaimaachan82545 жыл бұрын
He is realy a good BF
@sohailmskhan41495 жыл бұрын
Really ur right
@LatteSmurf5 жыл бұрын
He's an okay boyfriend.
@sohailmskhan41495 жыл бұрын
@@LatteSmurf 😁😁
@sharathvasudev5 жыл бұрын
And then women ask where are the good men? I don't think it can be better than him.
@erianpena29084 жыл бұрын
Sharath V of course there is.... Someone who could actually understand how hard is to build a career
@tamaraleon3954 жыл бұрын
Good answer.
@theplaintiff54503 жыл бұрын
@@erianpena2908 you don’t need to work 100 hours a week to build a career, lol. That’s a non-sequitur. They were at different stages of their lives. He was ready to settle down, she was still in super career mode.
@katiesigner1687 жыл бұрын
Alison!?!!???
@NowNorie7 жыл бұрын
Did Allison come back or is this THAT old
@tieiatalks7 жыл бұрын
simplebeautyxx that’s what I wondered!
@lisv7107 жыл бұрын
Nah she's growing her bangs out so it's pretty recent
@lisv7107 жыл бұрын
And I doubt she's back, I think she just wrote this video for them. She's a freelance writer
@kruispuntlive7 жыл бұрын
You can see a iphone 7
@kruispuntlive7 жыл бұрын
At 5:43
@roblaenrd18927 жыл бұрын
The hazard sign in the car was to show she can't decide which way to go. She is in a limbo.
@generous_coconut5 жыл бұрын
Stop overanalysing this! Lol XD But really, that is really good of you to spot that.
@Yana-gk2yq6 жыл бұрын
Well she could just marry her job
@kitkatjackwack82915 жыл бұрын
U wrong for that one 😂😂😂
@tashisls70414 жыл бұрын
Lol,people now days 🤣
@adityasaha72726 жыл бұрын
I really hope they make a part 2, the story is incomplete. I loved their acting, the story, the emotions. Everything was just fantastic.
@lupe.027 жыл бұрын
Part 2 maybe??
@gwendolynsheperd90117 жыл бұрын
Lupe Beltran please!!!!!
@otto84447 жыл бұрын
God please yes
@CesarLuisAfonsoDias6 жыл бұрын
Every chapter in life doesn't always end up the way we wanted it. Things need to happen to "you" as a person grow.
@cliveroberts87606 жыл бұрын
no allison doesnt work at buzzfeed anymore
@joeynathan60736 жыл бұрын
Part 2 is here - kzbin.info/www/bejne/qIq2mpSLotdkbdE and there is also a part 3! Its basically part of a series circled on the theme of personality traits we want to "fix" and each chapter explores a different person's insecurities (but with different people).
@kingjoshua84767 жыл бұрын
for anyone thinking this might be an old video, she still had bangs when she was working for buzzfeed
@shmm507 жыл бұрын
Yooooo stop freaking out out over allison, shes not back, and this isnt an old video. Buzzfeed is constantly hiring actors for their projects who don't necessarily work for the company itself. In the description, it credits allison and refers to her youtube channel
@ameliamay4 жыл бұрын
are we just going to forget about the poor dude who had an exam the next day? haha
@juliettem7015 жыл бұрын
This sort of thing can really ruin someone's life and relationship
@rivers00787 жыл бұрын
I was expecting more of a ... “Sorry, I got a new match on Tinder” Video lol
@gretafennelly95377 жыл бұрын
Insanely good, can’t wait for another
@nandhini91527 жыл бұрын
AHHHH I MISSED THESE KINDA SHORT FILMS THEY MAKE.
@rubenahl49035 жыл бұрын
*legends says she still lays in the office*
@watchlimitless19104 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@watchlimitless19104 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Ayivierica4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@cor83426 жыл бұрын
I was crying because all he was doing was trying to help her, and she doesn't see that she needs help. Its very hard to see someone you love struggle, and I just, I knew he was trying to help but couldn't because she was in denial and idk I just. UGH!
@anannyasriram50527 жыл бұрын
Allison???????????
@blossomingdenise57817 жыл бұрын
Anannya Sriram MY QUEEN IS ALIVE
@10animalloverforever7 жыл бұрын
Clød Bless You she and gabby have a channel called just between us
@teenagers0127 жыл бұрын
FruityCandy this was uploaded today!
@thesimpson84187 жыл бұрын
She left buzzfeed wtf confused
@Mjhaider19857 жыл бұрын
According to Alison's twitter, it's new.
@lordbigmama7 жыл бұрын
Okay why has Allison never shown this kind of acting before, this is why she didn't fit in with the buzz feed shortvid-quantity max profit strategy, she is a real actor
@SalElwy7 жыл бұрын
aside from all the Alison comments, this is a really good video with a really good plot lol.
@jthomps7336 жыл бұрын
Sorry, but it's always this kind of a woman that gets a good man. Many men need to stop pining for emotionally unavailable females, and likewise, many of us women need to stop pining for emotionally unavailable men. What you see is what you get. If he/she loves their career and has time for nothing else, that's what you're getting into. Either accept it and re-organize how your needs are met, or move on if this isn't fulfilling your needs.
@hamsakashyap44036 жыл бұрын
Good one.. though for some ... they get into a relationship and then find out their work is more important.. but they keep draging the other one around because they cannot let them down either.. its not really easy to just let go..
@tot.taxi.6 жыл бұрын
i see. i suppose it just all depends on the person
@commanderofkesariyaknights5 жыл бұрын
that is not true. don't lie
@youngfunny18244 жыл бұрын
It goes both ways.
@briseamay27026 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I work up to 15hrs a day but I make sure that I have a (consistent) quality time for my boyfriend.
@worldblazin42095 жыл бұрын
You're literally one in a million. But keep it up, since that is really incredible.
@fariamostafa53195 жыл бұрын
how is it possible? :(
@avastars33933 жыл бұрын
I study 12 hours everyday 😪
@YYBWDL7 жыл бұрын
Honestly I blame the country and how it stresses people out
@kraftpunk17126 жыл бұрын
Natasha Newwonders the U.S is a soul sucker
@sleepwon7 жыл бұрын
ALLISON ????
@MILOEBA7 жыл бұрын
AsianUnicorn wrong it's Allison how you spelt it is how you spell MY name lol
@sleepwon7 жыл бұрын
Ally Burrett sorry lol
@iBeFloe6 жыл бұрын
Wait what?? That's
@HeidiCarreon7 жыл бұрын
I love it when I see Allison and Nick paired together, whether on Buzzfeed or JBU. They’re able to play characters that just hold my attention and I love their performance.
@JaysWorld925 жыл бұрын
12:00 when I heard that cracking noise my heart dropped, I thought about all the insane hours I would put into working. I had to draw back moving forward.
@mariaangel13876 жыл бұрын
In real life, whenever your love life gets more screwed up the further you get in your career
@MashaalK7 жыл бұрын
*IS ALLISON BACK ON BUZZFEED???!!* I always shipped Alison and Nick together, never thought this day would come again :')
@playlist154027 жыл бұрын
Em Kay its just a collab
@Rin-ef2tp7 жыл бұрын
Weren't they dating before? I'm sure they did but then quickly split up
@emmabarton987 жыл бұрын
Omg I freaked out when I saw Allison in the thumbnail
@anamarsproductions3607 жыл бұрын
Emma Barton we all did
@TheArchiveOfEverything7 жыл бұрын
LOVE IT WHEN BUZZFEED MAKES THESE SHORT FILMS!
@heemeshburhooa31856 жыл бұрын
The struggle is real. It's difficult to balance work and love life.
@amelia1095 жыл бұрын
Derek is legit a Jonas brother 😂
@manuel_the_q7 жыл бұрын
She got some serious issues. He had no right to take her laptop. But, she is also not taking any of his advice. And in the end, I don't understand how he was the one who did something wrong. Being in a successful relationship requires both parties to give equal amounts of effort to keep the relationship healthy. As the old saying says, it is a team effort. There are no exceptions to this fact. Now we see in the end that she got a stretched back, which he tried to prevent. I hope that this is just hyperbole and people with real relationships aren't this dysfunctional.
@manuel_the_q7 жыл бұрын
In case you want to know where I got facts, I got them from a marriage councillor and from a relationship councillor. They told me that those were the key to a healthy, loving, and long-term relationship, such as marriage.
@gwenheppinstall31287 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree.
@ramifeto7 жыл бұрын
unfortunately this vid is not a hyperbole at all
@smileyy7777 жыл бұрын
manuelthegreatman haha you'd be surprised!
@bonniezhsu7 жыл бұрын
The writer did an astonishing job and im so happy they got allison and nick to do this!
@melon-dr6nd7 жыл бұрын
Well, that was depressing.
@autopedia26476 жыл бұрын
I love how all these videos roll into each other and are all connected. Like each one showing a different side of the story in this world
@blueangel4ever3704 жыл бұрын
OMG, this made me so sad, I kind of get both sides but seeing it like that is really devastating
@chloecherry71267 жыл бұрын
Y'all Allison ain't back I think this is one they wrote but they just now filmed it. She's literally on a book tour and has a side KZbin channel Just Between Us. You're not allowed to do that on buzzfeed
@schhh267 жыл бұрын
She isn't back, but the video is new. Look at her bangs, she's grown them out.
@autumn78097 жыл бұрын
Her bangs have grown out...
@chloecherry71267 жыл бұрын
schmutzzfink true I'm thinkin maybe she had the idea before and the script done before, but now they actually made the video.
@shantanupanda16507 жыл бұрын
And she never dated that guy, she only starred in a few videos with him
@h38347 жыл бұрын
chloe cherry Chloe, she's doing a collaboration with them, simply starring/writing a script for a buzzfeed video.
@danielle64045 жыл бұрын
I learned from someone that many persons all they do is study they don't find time for fun or even being in a relationship.
@architadesai78766 жыл бұрын
I'm a workaholic and I do not have any regrets about not having a relationship and choosing my career over her. Because in the end, career and love both may leave you someday but the difference is when love leaves you you're left broken and miserable. And love will leave you eventually. Whereas when career leaves you, you're left independent and with money and happiness and satisfaction with life and self satisfaction for the work you did. And if you're independent, great people will come into your life compared to when you're miserable and no one would wanna be with you.
@elixtirr26116 жыл бұрын
You know, as a student, I can really relate to this video. When I was a junior in high school, I only focused on work, and sometimes I would only get an hour of sleep every night because I was up studying or being paranoid about my grades. I made the grades, but my relationships and my health took a huge toll; I became more argumentative and was generally less happy. I also had fewer friends. However, since then, I've greatly improved in "working too hard" and balancing my work life and social life. To anybody out there struggling with this issue now, know that life isn't just about working, but it's also about savoring the good times: love, hope happiness, time with friends, or personal relaxation time.
@Serenity99316 жыл бұрын
Why isn't he working 🤔🤔🤔
@tainicon46396 жыл бұрын
Mighty Nora he’s got a pretty intense career himself. I was wondering the same thing
@celticwind41226 жыл бұрын
Every time theres a scene its late at night.... if hes normal he works an 8 hour shift so he'd be free
@psvitagamer90426 жыл бұрын
I think his a dentist
@komalkomal56396 жыл бұрын
@@celticwind4122 but there's a morning scene where she finds out the ring . He is asleep.
@gandayeo82555 жыл бұрын
I think he a freelancer
@RonaldDotCa7 жыл бұрын
She's back????
@btslaundry87507 жыл бұрын
RonaldDotCa No they just probably uploaded this pretty late for some reason
@michelewilla7 жыл бұрын
RonaldDotCa In the description sheis credited, someone else commented this. She is credited and there is the link for the just between us channel because she is a freelancer.
@iBeFloe6 жыл бұрын
Uh no bts, when someone leaves the company for good they pump out all content with them in it right away.
@rea_keebz7 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure it's safe to assume Allison has not returned to BuzzFeed. Buzzfeed often has guests on the channel, like Grace Helbig, David Dobrik, Shawn Mendes etc. Everyone calm down. also if you do miss allison, go subscribe to just between us it's a great channel
@nick59187 жыл бұрын
These are just two extreme personalities that are not communicating in the way you should with someone you care about. He can be supportive of her and that would certainly make her more interested in spending time with him as a positive environment and in turn, she may end up spending less time with work.
@Jtuanhall6 жыл бұрын
Yeah "SURE" and Waste his time with her while he could find the right woman out there who can put time and effort in her love life and career. As well as not wasting their love interests time.
@bademoxy6 жыл бұрын
yep, feminists, it's always the man's fault!
@kinhtaruth31815 жыл бұрын
I need u in my life nic
@jessicarener65435 жыл бұрын
FINALLY someone stands up for the woman. If I was like her, my fiance would have stood by me the whole time. Thank you for this fresh prospective.
@tynesiastevens65205 жыл бұрын
@@jessicarener6543 he was always by her side and looking out for her the way no one else was. When he tried to talk to her she never was listening. He tried countless times to show her she has a problem and even after the fight he cared enough to let her know she needs help. It's not his fault. Shes never home, she makes promises she can't keep and when she is home he can't even have her full attention. I get it. It's good to have a work ethic, but she has a seriouse problem and he even tried telling her about her back problem as well as the growing problem with her overworking herself, but in the end she didn't listen to him and his efforts seemed to be for nothing because what he feared would happen ended up happening anyway. I relate to her on the fact that I work through my pain but the difference is that I don't push the people who care about me away. That was her mistake mate. It's not fair that he should Stay there and take that type of treatment, and even after that fight it was her who pushed him out. He was willing to try and work things out even after being blamed for something that he had very little to do with. How is he supposed to talk to her if she won't even listen. Seems like she cared more about her computer and work than him. Because even when he walked away she dosnt go back to him she went right back to work
@JacobsMusicCorner6 жыл бұрын
Omg just realised this and Body Insecure are connected. Daaaamn. *claps*
@intreoo Жыл бұрын
I love how this crossed over with the “Body Insecure” short film. It really shows that everyone is dealing with their own problems, invisible to everyone else.