8 Things Only Trans Guys Understand

[@aricooper6486]

TOO ACCURATE. But in a serious note NEVER bind with ace dandages. You could literally crack a rib.

[@tylerene]

FellSans Not only that, but you could literally have a lung punctured. A friend of mine broke his ribs using that trans tape stuff and he very nearly punctured his lung. Nothing to take a gamble with.

[@newbestfriend5867]

My friend keeps saying that they're gonna get a binder and I'm like "Bro be safe" because I'm really worried about it. Thanks for telling me the risks of bandage binding, so I can pass my knowledge onto them.

[@nuggetvonmattenhorn7216]

Yeah I learned that the hard way.

[@jazzyboy3363]

Exactly!

[@0subscriberswith0videos69]

He made a video on it.

[@grantairem3954]

Wish there was a disclaimer in the video or something. That is absolutely NOT safe binding and WILL damage people's chests.

[@gachabanana7693]

Binding with a ace bandage is very unsafe, but binding with a binder is perfectly safe

[@forestly284]

Gacha Banana Yup, an i wish I knew that a year and a half ago😅

[@forestly284]

Panda yup but thank god I have gc2b chest binders now, my life is now changed🤩

[@definitelynotademon4815]

if it was trans tape it would be fine but its not sooo I agree

[@grantairem3954]

@Okay damn not sure if you're replying to me or to others in the thread. I'm familiar with binding, I'm a trans man. I was referring to the ace bandages in particular. :)

[@baddiewise7650]

*sees a thing I have ZERO relation to* Brain: watch it. Me: why? Brain: you gotta.

[@fvckyourcharade894]

Like a train wreck, you can't look away, and we all know Buzzfeed is a never ending series of train wrecks.

[@rarxd8557]

Ya just gotta sometimes man

[@issyyourboo2848]

Omg golden comment😂😂😂😂🤭🤭

[@eno4516]

Gotta learn

[@costcofreezers]

Trey Lichtenberg lol me

[@jaceherondale873]

WHY IS HE BINDING WITH BANDAGES???? THAT IS SO DANGEROUS NEVER EVER DO THAT

[@lostar781]

How?

[@cin9548]

Tokki it can damage your ribcage/ cause breathing or back problems

[@lostar781]

@@cin9548 ohhh. Ok then definitely DON'T do that!!

[@alteredalex]

Yes do not and also with a normal binder wear only for 8 hours at a time.

[@e2b975]

But what we supposed to do?

[@kingofdoots8307]

Just a quick reminder to both the guy in the video and trans guys watching this to NOT use ace bandages. Please invest in a proper sized binder.

[@cinnavoiid_ii]

*whoops*

[@slowstars8167]

reminder that just because they used ace bandages in the video doesn't mean that you should use them - they're super dangerous and from one trans guy to another, your health is way more important than how you present yourself. sweatshirts and sweaters and flannels help a lot and wearing normal clothes feel way better than wearing dangerous bandages that actively compress and destroy your chest. stay safe, love you guys

[@idntknw2164]

And also I believe there are safer things to use like binders I believe?

[@ratgoblin1740]

thank u!! I was actually really disappointed to see it in the video because some young trans guys might see it and think it's okay to do. Spoiler, it's not, it'll likely ruin your chances of getting top surgery

[@ventipinkdrinklightice]

I WAS GONNA SAY THAT,,, I use gc2b in safe amounts!

[@hads5279]

Also just...a binder.

[@buttermepancake3613]

Yes this!! This is so goddamn important! I have permanently messed up ribs that cause me severe pain sometimes just from getting up or taking too deep of a breath too quickly. All because I bound wrong out of desperation. I understand dysphoria is rough but I PROMISE you, binding incorrectly just for temporary relief is never worth it in the long run, and doesn't help you as a trans person. Be good to yourself. ❤🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

[@ellen2494]

Me: **sees him binding with ace bandages** Also me: **silently dies**

[@jshmeatsix1336]

@Joe Smo pssst nobody ask for your wrong correction

[@ellen2494]

@Joe Smo you can say youre right all you want but that doesnt mean its true 😁

[@ellen2494]

@Joe Smo i literally repeated what you said. but if you really want to know, there’s scientific evidence of gender dysphoria. its not that hard to literally just use someone’s preffered pronouns. how did you even get on this video in the first place?

[@strwbrrysanhwa3060]

@Joe Smo bahahaaa how tf do trans people negatively affect you in any way lmfao also it's laughable that you just tried to use science to disprove this "freak thing" that science has already confirmed is possible and correct. Joe, kindly do your research before spewing nonsense.😁

[@ellen2494]

@Joe Smo yes because saying your a completely different species is the same as being a different gender from what you were told at birth. /s

[@fluffylover1231]

Me: a non trans person * sees another video about trans people * Brain: *CLICK* Me: but why?? Brain: *CLICK*

[@aleka6775]

fluffylover1231 i feel you..

[@rubyrocketgirl]

Me

[@rinnittt]

Fr

[@ashestodust9483]

fluffylover1231 Same

[@savannhasalzameda8243]

The accuracy is unbelievable😂

[@L0veAyeXoxo]

hOLD UP CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW HOT RYAN IS

[@baby-ryn]

I LOVE RYAN

[@alexlovesgayrainbows3653]

+internetaddict IKR HOT DANG (nice prof pic btw)

[@rachelsanders6250]

Can we talk about how hot your profile pic is

[@3nd-un0btain3d]

Is Ryan the one with the glasses?

[@jinsburntrice]

+internetaddict YAAAAAAASS

[@noncorporealentity5641]

Two complaints: - unsafe binding - "SWAG AF"

[@dreamofthecure]

looks like the phandom is taking all over the world, but with my help they can take over the universe

[@qwertypieee]

how do i like a comment more than once

[@sidneyisnotcool9783]

Ok but he’s hella cute???? Sign me up for more videos with him????

[@sidneyisnotcool9783]

SuperK677 he is a guy who was a girl

[@charv8]

SuperK677 he’s a guy.

[@h3yjonah166]

SuperK677 actually they're most likely pan or poly but okkkk

[@augustrose5074]

fallingforphan actually, a guy who was a guy* different body tho

[@nesspuffs]

fallingforphan PHAN

[@colkerner5628]

Showing young transgender people an adult trans man binding with ACE bandages sends the wrong message :( please don't bind like that!!!

[@theharshtruthoutthere]

Doctors, therapist, psychiatrist, nurses and psychologist: Lies, and lies, they are sharing you their lies. And you believe them daily, as you go and ruin your own lives. Lies, oh lies, they know not how to care. They know not how to love, what its to have a heart warmly beating in your chest. They have lost their mind, they have gone mad and they drag you with them into the outer darkness of insanity. Seek ye GOD and get your mind back, get back your life and your will to live, escape the madness.

[@jester9342]

do NOT bind with bandages. it decreases your chances of getting top surgery and it’s just plain dangerous.

[@buttermepancake3613]

Yes this!! This is so goddamn important! I have permanently messed up ribs that cause me severe pain sometimes just from getting up or taking too deep of a breath too quickly. All because I bound wrong out of desperation. I understand dysphoria is rough but I PROMISE you, binding incorrectly just for temporary relief is never worth it in the long run, and doesn't help you as a trans person. Be good to yourself. ❤🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

[@kiayaoi]

you really.... REALLY shouldn't bind like they show in this video. please for the love of god never use ACE bandages to bind. they are terrible and will injure you. please.... just buy a binder.

[@whereisyaboitonight578]

I bind with ace bandages for about 10 hours every day cuz I can’t get a binder

[@hmnsdnssx]

IShallBeOnBroadway Please don't, they can damage your ribs and lungs. Like, permanent damage

[@bouie3983]

I wear Ace bandages about 10 hours ever day except on Weekends because I haven’t came out yet to my parents so I bind were ever they are not at school or home.

[@lexsunsh1ne]

you shouldn't wear ace bandages though

[@adamz6571]

Yeah that made me kind of mad seeing that here. Use a real binder guys and don't leave it on too long. Please I care about you

[@superstarrealness]

get a binder please don't use an ace bandage

[@emvh4452]

R Gamm where do u find binders?

[@puppypower222]

you can buy them online! good websites are gc2b and underworks :)

[@kohlatchkat5437]

But I mean, ace is the place ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@NotEmbarassing]

here dont sell good ones and the good ones by internet are expensive, so i use an ace bandage.

[@leorowe3662]

scribbled not to mention break ribs

[@mont-zarella8425]

I hate how people are all like "sof boy" "must protec" Hhh

[@remyfromratatouille9519]

I like that- as long as they see me as a boy, no matter how soft, im fine with it

[@lulwsam864]

yeah same except im fine with it (mostly. unless it’s fetishized. then its gross)

[@sammorgan3588]

Yus we mus protect the trans girls. (this isn't me bein rude, I'm trans, I'm generally meaning stop protecting trans boys and protect trans girls who can't protect themselves.... But also some trans guys who like being called soft.... Aaahhhh u get my point)

[@Hunter-kt1cq]

DONT BIND WITH ACE BANDAGES IT CAN CAUSE LUNG PROBLEMS AND BREAK YOUR RIBS

[@Mathkinz]

^^^

[@tourettehero]

FlowerChild 2508 so can binders. There is no safe way to bind. Only safer ways to bind.

[@genderqueercam]

tourette hero Well, as long as you only bind for 8-11 hours, there shouldn't be any consequences as long as you're doing it correctly. The best thing you can do is use a proper binder, don't do it if you don't have to (for instance, if you're not going out), and wear it properly (nipples should be facing foreword, not down; not only does this look more masculine, it also helps keep your breasts healthy and prevent issues that could interfere with ability to get surgery later in life).

[@tourettehero]

Camryn Prenger there is absolutely no healthy way to bind. Period. There is only healthier ways of binder. Its not all about the boobs. When you, regardless of how, your muscles are doing their jobs, the ribs are being harmed, and the lungs arent allowed as much oxygen as theyre used too. It doesnt matter how long one binds... Its not healthy... Granted, with proper binding, its healthier.

[@delvinmallory3427]

tourette hero i mean, hell, sleeping the wrong way for too long can mess with your ribs a little. a lot of things can, not just binding. i've been binding every day for 4 years and i have perfectly healthy ribs and lungs. every medical professional i've ever dealt with has told me that if you are careful, as you should be with everything, it's perfectly safe, and it's much healthier than not binding when you take mental and emotional health into account. this "safer binding" you're talking about is nonexistent. you are either irresponsible and hurt yourself because of ignorance and carelessness when binding, or you follow the right procedures based on your personal needs and circumstances and continue to be totally safe and healthy.

[@somethingfalls914]

I don't want this to promote binding with ACE bandages

[@lexilol6032]

somethingfalls wait why?

[@Tonystarkirl]

wtf lol because that’s really dangerous and damaging

[@lemonpalaye116]

Frank!!

[@nesspuffs]

somethingfalls FRANK

[@diana-vb7py]

somethingfalls Binding isn't as dangerous. I was told by a doctor it was okay

[@natymonse24]

did they just,.. did they use the word 'swag'

[@garb8933]

Yes, and now I want to kill everybody at Buzzfeed!

[@alramahisalma6206]

And I am 김태형's wife. Nice to meet you.

[@EyesOfErica]

#Yoloswag

[@hanarahmed2251]

Swag only goes with suga's name 😏😎

[@chiyomi2001]

SWAEG

[@ispitmyjuiceforthis2824]

I know this is to direct attention to trans men and the issues they face but please please when binding do not use ace bandages! When I came out as NB to a lot of my friends I used ace bandages to bind and it caused a lot of damage so please please don't show that as a binding option it should not be promoted it is very dangerous! Please stick to sports bras and binders if available!!

[@cinnavoiid_ii]

*whoops-*

[@agatkagrzyb653]

@A M. they're more safer than bandages though. binders are designed to flatten breasts, while bandages aren't and can cause damage

[@agatkagrzyb653]

@A M. i'm not saying binders are 100% safe. theres always gonna be some side effects to binding, as it isnt natural. i'm just saying that if anyone wants to bind, id recommend a binder over some medical injury things. have a nice day btw

[@trinitylivingston1286]

@A M. then you find the best most durable non injury chest binder and/or something else that you can bind with that's safe. There are safe ones out there.

[@trinitylivingston1286]

Yeah, you really don't want to do that!

[@plastiqbeach7487]

0:35 NO!! what the heck is he doing?! never with ace bandages.... smh

[@sop6507]

tHIS!!!!!!

[@agirlwithamillionfandoms2038]

reported worm They identify as a he, you know that right?

[@agirlwithamillionfandoms2038]

reported worm But it is rude to call FTM trans people girls and vise versa

[@vuhicktor]

reported worm Stop commenting that sis

[@cinnavoiid_ii]

-wheeze- whoops

[@kaybee47]

I wish buzzfeed had shown him using a real binder and not promoting unsafe binding with an ace bandage :((

[@ninja-cr1kl]

That's BuzzFeed.. .

[@elliotgov]

Yeah, it kinda unnerved me too

[@thebugcoiiector]

ikr! i was like “noooo”

[@hamdiabdullahi1872]

Who things Ryan is pretty attractive ? 😊

[@hamdiabdullahi1872]

Thinks*

[@jennazoblisien8556]

Ummmmmm me😍

[@nataliewing4337]

+hamdi abdullahi I KNOW Ryan is not only "pretty attractive", but cute AF!

[@pilotland]

+hamdi abdullahi haram

[@hamdiabdullahi1872]

+The Ghast oh hey harm police how u doing

[@lincontay6724]

Oh my god nonono pleeease do not advertise that ace bandages are the correct way to bind. *Under NO circumstances should you EVER bind with compression bandages* Compression bandages are designed so they compress when put under pressure, so if you bind with them, they squeeze you tighter when your chest expands. This can cause *VERY SERIOUS INJURIES*, and also affects top surgery later in life, if one chooses to receive it. Ace bandages are very very dangerous. This is not a joke, this is not a drill. Do. Not. Use. Them. To. Bind. Your. Chest. For the love of god, find some safe way to get a proper binder or use some other safe method such as sports bras or compression shirts. Tell your parents it's a bra or a t shirt. I don't condone lying, but if it's the only safe way, do what you need to do. I know dysphoria is hard, I know it sucks, and it's tough to deal with, but you've made it this far. Don't screw it up for yourself now. Alleviating top dysphoria now is 100% not worth permanent injury or surgery complications later in life, maybe even causing permanent chest dysphoria. Guys, it's hard. It sucks. I get it. But don't hurt yourself just for 1 day of a flat chest. Keep yourself safe.

[@rarxd8557]

I regret clicking read more. (Not that i dont agree with u dont take this seriously i just meant it was really long XD)

[@frogleader3825]

Ye absolutely I agree

[@rosagutierrez5129]

Pleasepleaseplease for all of my trans guys/nonbinary people out there !!! Don't bind with bandages! I used to bind with bandages, but ended up getting really serious bruises! It is not safe..! I love you all and you guys are all so valid and so attractive please stay safe!

[@lostspirits5787]

Hamilton and Horses yea used to do that a lot too, I had really bad breathing problems even when didn't bind and there were some bruises on my ribs. So I stopped and my broke butt brought a binder :,) works way better and is healthier for you, believe me.

[@shweetie4052]

Hamilton and Horses Thank you :) I really want to be a guy and I was gonna bind using bandages but I don’t want bruises. So thank you for warning me :)

[@jayvikautismmm]

thank you i was about to say that

[@softiemama]

Hamilton and Horses why It's not safe??

[@clover2556]

the awesome girl Binders are designed to compress breasts, but also to move with your body (breathing, normal activity), whereas most bandages are designed only to compress, and often to compress when you move. That can lead to serious injury- it might not look unsafe, but it really is. It can break ribs, causing internal bleeding or punctured lungs, it can cause breathing issues, and it can bruise both your skin and your internal organs. It's not safe, so for the love of tacos, all of y'all trans people/nonbinary peeps/genderfluid peeps/crossplayers/etc., PLEASE buy a proper binder.

[@maddieedits]

The guy with the glasses is kinda cute. With kinda I mean, really cute!

[@camieberly6781]

Tomboy Zorua his name is ryan cassata and he's the greatest, super kind too. i met him last year and he was so friendly

[@reevparish3802]

i kinda fell in love with his smile omg

[@princesssarafina3483]

he's beautiful, I agree.

[@sakuwagtail8743]

He's a singer and he's so amazing

[@pippyasmr5134]

Tomboy Zorua he is hot

[@opheliasrue]

DON'T USE BANDAGES TO BIND!!! IT'S REALLY DANGEROUS!!! BUY A BINDER!!

[@opheliasrue]

Millertime. I'm a female and I was born a female. Also, science has proven that transgender people are boys with girl brains or vice versa.

[@woahtherefriend6407]

Mind your own buisness! A person that feels/chooses to be the oppisite gender does not affect your life in any personal matter so if you do not respect it dont interfier with it, it is really not that hard buddy!

[@opheliasrue]

+Millertime. I WAS BORN WITH FEMALE PARTS!! AND I FEEL LIKE A FEMALE TOO!!!! I'M NOT TRANS!!! I was just warning them because it's dangerous. Also, you don't have to accept them, but mind your own business and stop trying to make them something they are not.

[@opheliasrue]

+Millertime. Exactly. Boys in female bodies shouldn't act like females and girls in male bodies shouldn't act like males. And again, why do you care so much? It's NOT up to you what they do to THEIR bodies.

[@MayaKawaguchi]

It's not really your business. Get over it. @Miller

[@lulu_bot213]

I always get the "Your so cute." "Compliment", whenever I ask them if they wanna hang out, they always think I wanna date them ._. I just wanna be friends...

[@SilverFeet]

Let me sum up the comments: -Ryan is super good looking -JESUS CHRIST DON'T BIND WITH BANDAGES -Where's trans gals video? -[bigotry]

[@kattjensen8706]

+Brian Jensen accurate

[@adioshra]

NO BUZZFEED WHY DON'T BIND YOUR CHEST WITH ACE BANDAGES IT IS SO DANGEROUS!!

[@Corrinaa15]

how?

[@slimvvy8423]

+Alex Logan they contract with your breath and break your ribs

[@adioshra]

+Alex Logan it can fracture the ribs if you bind too tightly for too long.

[@drewg.4779]

+Alex Logan You can crack/bruise a rib, it can restrict your breathing too much, and fluid can build up in your lungs.

[@ZimM804]

How fragile are woman's ribs that an ace bandage can crack them?

[@keiraduband]

Buzzfeed supports binding with bandages?

[@smile_kid7456]

Yeah that set off an alarm in my head. Wear compression shirts or bras that can hold your chest back more to make it more flat. Never use bandages

[@carternorris9517]

i doubt they do, but it's such a symbolic trans* thing. Like, most people won't recognize a binder, but everyone sorta gets the memo with some bandages

[@Matty442]

@@carternorris9517 yeah but I feel like somewhere they should say to bind safely because someone might try it like with bandages not being properly educated on the dangers of binding with bandages

[@Anaruu]

@@carternorris9517 i get what you mean but this is like a very mainstream video and young trans kids might think this is a proper method.

[@milomatijiw3299]

Why am I not surprised

[@m0thshiz537]

Is it just me or at the start of being a FTM trans everytime you go to the toilets your really uncomfortable in there even if no ones there.

[@jiminthefurry6240]

I will only use the men’s bathroom if it’s a one person bathroom. Otherwise I will use a gender neutral one or just not go in public.

[@Apetitegirly]

@@jiminthefurry6240 hi army im not trans but i gotta ask this is there really gender neutral ones in ur country?wow

[@M54B30_fan]

Because your a girl in the guy’s bathroom

[@hey_im_shanae2294]

But he is adorable

[@hey_im_shanae2294]

The Unknown problem?

[@skye7067]

I mean yeah

[@sashaonedirection6894]

Random Name so true

[@julmarchiani6563]

Yeahhh I'm not the one who think it

[@joncastillian8389]

It*

[@AdaHyde]

Just got a new binder (sportsbra) today! remember, fellow FTMs, Bind safely! if you cannot fully inhale in your binder, IT IS TOO TIGHT.

[@orangestrawberry3671]

Thank you, You're so sweet. I love you

[@snowytheleopard1777]

This just made my day.

[@AdaHyde]

love ya both, and good luck.

[@sinish5418]

Sports bra's ain't binders though... deep sigh...

[@taog4928]

For some people they work to the same effect as a binder. Essentially, anything that binds your chest down is a binder. I also bind using a sports bra but I hate saying that as it gives me loads of dysphoria so I refer to it as my binder. Just thought I would say, not meaning to call you out or be mean in any way! (I know youtube comments about this kind of thing can get pretty tense!)

[@Annathedreamer]

0:53 my little heart melts... ❤️

[@Al3X0.0]

Annathedreamer Ik right!!! 😂😍

[@mattyk1lls]

Same

[@yaoxai]

SAMEE

[@mernalynpaulo6895]

Same here:)

[@fionabrock1849]

Same😍

[@monroerobbins7551]

I despise it when my siblings call me cute. I struggle enough with body dysphoria, so when people say I’m cute and petite, I feel not only effeminate, but small and childish. My masculinity relates to my image, so when I’m called a twelve year old, I feel just as small as when I’m called a girl. To every trans person out there, you’re awesome as heck.

[@cinnavoiid_ii]

Thanks man. I just got my confidence back 👏

[@ezzamoonstone7320]

Aww snowflake

[@fajarsetiawan8665]

What about Elijah Wood, Daniel Radcliffe, Martin Freeman, etc? They're cute AF and also quite petite. Perhaps it's your image of masculinity that should be worked on as you probably envisaging Jean-Claude Van Damme instead of an ordinary guy. "cute" and "petite" don't necessary imply femininity.

[@gezi5927]

Monroe Robbins that sucks man, I’m proud to be a ally

[@pumpkintea4101]

@@swollehn well, I think it just varies for each person. You probably shouldn't say something like that if others are struggling with a l o t of dysphoria.

[@murphyboyse4135]

Wow this needs a warning about using ace bandages. Seriously a no go.

[@taranhartell2459]

@Ava Schmidt actually no, once is not enough. Better for people to see it a lot than not at all. These things really are unsafe and can cause so much damage when used.

[@ivy4326]

WHO THINKS RYAN LOOKS LIKE A REAL LIFE NICO DI ANGELO LIKE I CAN'T UNSEE IT

[@memryse]

NOPE CANNOT UNSEE GDI

[@distrae]

OH MY GOD HE DOES

[@r_travel4306]

😱 my life is finally complete. Is Ryan gay though??

[@xeno-t]

Omg he does asdfghjkl

[@maevem316]

Omg you're right!!!

[@Howtoeatrocks]

so pissed they show bandage binding because you know TOTALLY A GOOD IDEA TOTALLY NOT A RIB CRUSHER LETS ENCOURAGE YOUNG TRANS LADS TO DEFORM THEIR CHESTS GG

[@MarrickKaulitzg]

+memelord anakie Ikr. Like you even have to be careful with normal binders, so how could a bandage possibly be safe?

[@MarrickKaulitzg]

Yam They could have even used a tight tank top, they look the same.

[@hellotheremelloyello]

I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING

[@unicornsdoesexist]

memelord anakie yeah sure, because people watch buzzfeed videos to "learn" how to do stuff, whatever man, keep bitter

[@unicornsdoesexist]

Kyran easy to say it now, maybe no one had that idea..

[@rekinoszczur]

I cried on the scene where he uses bandages to bind Like it's unhealthy?? Don't do it?? Plese?

[@fvckyourcharade894]

You should talk to your therapist about that. That's not normal. Good luck to you. I hope you get better soon.

[@starsupontheland]

@@fvckyourcharade894 I can't tell if you're joking or not, are you actually being serious?

[@nikki-tr7xx]

dont bind like that. just buy a binder guys, thats dangerous.

[@ILiketoSayYeehaw]

Me: *Is a trans dude* Also me: Is frickin' 5'2''

[@oliverhuffman8441]

Ciel Soleil SAME THO

[@calmfulspider]

Ciel Soleil I'm 5'7"

[@thenametobeunnamed513]

I'm gonna be 5'4 is what the doctor said when I grow up :-;

[@pigeoncrap7952]

I'm 12 and 5'4

[@sapphytaffy6861]

Ciel Soleil ur still awesome

[@myteath]

ya'll please don't ace bind. Its really bad for you and can even brake your ribs. Buy a acutral binder if posible.

[@numberonedad7924]

i found a homestuck

[@ajjauqson6491]

phil's glabella Ayyyyyy **double pistols and a wink**

[@nesspuffs]

phil's glabella aye dnp

[@Ryan-dq6bv]

@@numberonedad7924 I FOUND THE HOMESTUCKS Y E S

[@whizzerbrown1349]

For a solid 3 years into my transition people thought I was a hardcore lesbian, idk how it went from: “You’re such a badass gay!” To “You’re a cute little 8 year old boy named Lucas!” (I’m a 20 year old named Carson??) In the span of about 4 days but I mean,,, closer to the target right?

[@LadyAneh]

-When the highlight of your day is having a sales clerk call you “sir”. -When you haven’t bought a proper packer and start get creative with rolled up articles of clothing -When you can’t find any good formal shoes because the company literally doesn’t make them that small.

[@maxwellsmith253]

Armie of One All of these are more relatable then most of the stuff in the video,

[@pleasehelp3319]

@vl2 boy**********

[@IrynaSvenSchlabach161]

"When the highlight of your day is having a sales clerk call you 'sir' " Oh yes, that's so awesome! :D 👌

[@ash8257]

Weirdly I’m actually quite tall with big feet for a trans guy. But 🤷🏻‍♂️ I’m just lucky. I feel bad for those who have a more feminine, high pitched voice, a bigger chest or more feminine appearance or size

[@b.o.o.n.g.o.o.n6386]

"Awe, you're so cute!" BOI THIS MAN IS THE HOTTEST PERSON I'VE SEEN IN MAH LLLLIIIFE

[@SpiceyYT]

No he's just cute.

[@lulolilalove7463]

You can be hot and cute

[@inkwrll9722]

Lulolila Love I learned that from Jimin-

[@willowthwolf3215]

Ruby Gacha same

[@lyrinvv]

@@inkwrll9722 yeeet haha same

[@14freckles14]

DONT BIND WITH BANDAGES THEY CAN DEFORM YOUR BREASTS AND RIBCAGE PLEASE BUY A BINDER AND DO IT THE RIGHT WAY.

[@BigPumpp]

Good

[@ConfusedGirlButSmartDude]

What if you can't afford the binders tho XD

[@sadbirdgoth]

+NonBinary Noah it's better to not bind for the time being until you can afford one, then end up almost puncturing a lung from not binding correctly.

[@geeksthename]

+NonBinary Noah lots of charities and websites donate binders to trans people who can't afford them (in the UK, there is MORF)

[@ConfusedGirlButSmartDude]

Becca Heslop Thank you, dude! I'm only 15, and I'm broke af, and hopefully I'll get a good enough binder soon :3

[@alexiguess6018]

49% of comments: Ryan is so cute 49% of comments: Don’t bind with bandages (but actually don’t) 2% of comments: other things

[@glassofjuiceplzj2022]

Too high of a percentage: Transphobes

[@alexiguess6018]

GlassOfJuicePlz J Right. I forgot about those *trans squeals*

[@Kayla257ismyname]

WHY is there literally no video of people binding with an actual binder... a lot of other things are dangerous af in the longterm please please be carefull

[@Kleineganz]

Lots of FtM Transgender videos talking about proper binders. It's these "mainstream media" videos where they always get it wrong.

[@watchbrooke]

Okay I was not expecting that ending 😂

[@julia-gi9pt]

hi brooke

[@watchbrooke]

Julia Hellooo!!

[@oliviapresner5909]

OMG BROOKE 😘😘😘😘😘💕💕💕💕💕

[@LucianaSardi01]

Brooooke omg bubu💗💕

[@thehorsesnamewasfriday8695]

What was so unexpecting?

[@tearsdrop2223]

Who else saw Ryan and said "WOW!!!"

[@Lavender_Louis]

mee!

[@liniumutsitatissimum9860]

me. He brings out my heterosexual side

[@GabrielaCenturionNeumann]

Who is Ryan?

[@tearsdrop2223]

I saw him and clicked on the video so fast!!!

[@baby-ryn]

+Gabriela Centurion Neumann Ryan Cassata, the one with glasses and piercings in the video.

[@sinistermusicdestiny6768]

This video is meant for fun, but all it does is enforce stereotypes and show a terrible method of binding which is really unsafe.

[@rosesbxtch3543]

IMPORTANT: the trans man on binding was using bandages! DO. NOT. DO. THIS. EVER. It will lead to major complications later and (if you're trans and planning on getting top surgery) can prevent you from getting surgery! There are ways to bind without a binder, just use google. (Also please don't bind with tape either)

[@tylerene]

Panic! Treasure Ace bandages can literally kill you. They can fracture ribs and the broken rib can easily puncture a lung. This isn’t an unheard of scenario, unfortunately.

[@letsmakeorigami7786]

I'm waiting for the Trans Girls version ..

[@WeDontHaveJack]

+Sém some people don't care

[@levijames717]

its probably coming, i cant imagine they would exclude trans girls

[@ax3954]

+Sufyaan Asif that literally doesn't mean they can't hope for a TG one,

[@VALKYNAZ]

+Aurora Anabeth The way they worded it was really condescending, like they've waited Too Damn Long for a trans girl one. like jeez mein freund it's okay to hope for one but when you're like 'im just waiting for the trans girls one,,' people are gonna think you're being a little salty

[@alyssazerbe9964]

+CatsfromElsweyr it's not her fault you people read it condescendingly. You are the one who took it that way. It's not her fault it's yours

[@GeeaRCee]

I have an FTM boyfriend. He's one of the best things that happened in my life. :)

[@lammywhammy]

Aww :-)

[@leahlichtenstein8319]

Like if you're single and this raise your hand made you lonely because you have nobody to snuggle with 🙋

[@oliviarowanmaia]

awwee :) I do too and he's also one of the best things to ever happen to me, it breaks my heart sometimes the struggles he has to go through

[@leahlichtenstein8319]

I'm still a lonely signal dumpster

[@snowleopard1799]

yessss same my boyfriend is trans too ♡

[@applespotty2232]

No no no no no that's not how we bind😣please be safe any binding people in the comments. Don't do this

[@PhantomFandoms]

NO DONT BIND LIKE THAT YOURE GONNA BREAK YOURSELF DUDE *screams*

[@seanmuffin1461]

Random Guy I suggest buying a binder from gc2b

[@RR-cv6jl]

I used to bind with duct tape because then my family wouldn’t wonder

[@reileyfairchild590]

Yoyo chill m8 there was no binder on set and he was 6 hours away from his house so he couldn't get his and all that was on set was ace bandages, yes I know it's unsafe coming from a fellow trans dood but he posted a video about it I honestly forgot his channel name butnits should be in the description 😊 take no hate from this because I'm not I was just informing you sorry if this came off rude 🙂

[@ll-zn5fg]

Why tf does the category of the video in the description say 'Pets and Animals' ?????

[@whytho9728]

XD

[@mjacks58]

Haley Po. ;)

[@justanotherboredperson6022]

😂 wtf

[@raunisha]

Haley Po. Tfff

[@nellieveber7738]

Omg this just took a turn 😂😂

[@ariesfr8070]

The guy with the lip pierce is kinda hot

[@thanhle6722]

not kinda😂😂 he's HOT😍😍❤😭

[@lexiedurick4207]

+Thanh le True

[@AJ-mm9yz]

+Randy Marsh You mean Guy

[@MsSweetrox]

+Randy Marsh No. he's a He. accept that. its not difficult.

[@ariesfr8070]

+Randy Marsh actually no he's trans ftm if he doesn't identify as a female don't consider him as a female

[@starsupontheland]

Oh my god, they did not show binding with bandages. BuzzFeed!! What are you doing?! PSA: This is SUPER DANGEROUS. Bandages are meant to just keep compressing, they can break ribs and cause extreme difficulty breathing. There are other ways to deal with dysphoria. *Please*, try the cardigan, sports bra or even panty hoes method before you even think about bandages.

[@iwashere143]

They're hella cute wtf

[@sophiehavens3044]

*he’s

[@t.gerasimoski2012]

+Hinikuna they're talking about both the guys

[@bananabread1850]

I Was Here Its ironic because 0:46

[@Gumball-em6xm]

Why can’t guys look like him…

[@sawyer716]

@@Gumball-em6xm they can because he's a guy and he looks like him

[@bellaburke9506]

i dont know his name, but the one who did the usually shortest guy one is super cute

[@Samantha-tp4pk]

ryan

[@ripulikone]

DO NOT BIND WITH ACE BANDAGES! They should not be promoting it. Use a binder or a sports bra!

[@LivLaughGrace]

Tyler AY WE HAVE THE SAME NAME PHAM

[@redacted526]

ACE BANDAGES ARE NOT SAFE TO BIND IN!!! DO NOT BIND WITH ANYTHING OTHER THAN A BINDER OR TRANS TAPE!!!

[@ellemitchell5363]

Using ace bandages is super dangerous and can fracture ribs. Bind safely

[@frinekristia]

This Ryan guy is so cute

[@briroller7980]

frine kristia I know! Where are More videos of him😭😭😭

[@briroller7980]

reported worm no he’s a boy*

[@Gumball-em6xm]

frine kristia ikr! Why can’t a lot of boys look like him!

[@prieltheprune1302]

vl2 actually no the hormones stops that

[@LilithKohlberg]

vl2 He is a man and I don't think you know what he has between his legs. Even if you knew, he is a man. Don't understand him if you don't want to, but respect him.

[@louannmuncie5108]

who else already watched Ryan before this vid

[@GleekOff]

🙋

[@BellaBrysonElla]

Meeee (:

[@XigXag]

Me hardcore Ryan cassata fan.

[@maggiegaspar1180]

Is he in other buzz feed vids or does he have his own channel?

[@XigXag]

He has his own channel

[@archerrz24]

to my fellow folks who bind OBSOLETELY DO NOT BIND WITH ACE BANDAGES OTS VERY UNSAFE IF YOU DONT HAVE A BINDER USE A SPORTS BRA THATS ABOUT ONE SIZE SMALLER, AND A TANK TOP AND USE LAYERS♥️BE SAFE

[@inter-dimensionalhorror733]

alternate titles for this video: i am making myself dysphoric by watching this why do i do the things i do?

[@evelynbasar2383]

BIG MOOD

[@sawyer716]

Same. I think I have the tendency to purpusly give myself dysphoria because I'm kinda self destructive.

[@rainxa]

soy kinda draws Same.

[@vampbat]

Stop depicting trans men binding with Ace Bandages. Stop it. I've seen Cassata wear actual, safe binders and I am sure he knows the dangers of binding with bandages. Stop promoting unsafe binding! It's toxic to young trans people who "learn" from videos like this!

[@biefhaus]

+Kris Carsrud Real talk.

[@chrisl218569]

they shouldn't learn anything from buzzfeed anyway. it's toxic. They should learn from other people who've done transition not some trash pop culture site that's using them for views and money

[@superlamenick172]

you forgot always being on all girls teams on school activities even though you're out as trans, and your friends misgendering you on purpose because "you're practically still a girl" or is it just me?

[@BellaBrysonElla]

I hate that also :/

[@snowytheleopard1777]

I'm only sort of out, and I feel you. It's seriously the worst. Also, your parents flat out refusing to accept you...

[@superlamenick172]

Cory Laventa I know right? My mom pretends I never came out to her

[@TrAsH__6]

well imagine if some guy tackle you and you end up injured (coz we all know that men are stronger then women)...who will get the blame? School.So they want to avoid mixing girls and boys.

[@loverrlee]

I know someone at work who is trans, but I feel bad for them because they are constantly being misgendered because they haven't self-identified their pronouns to everyone (including me). So I feel bad now I'm so used to saying "she" not "he" it's hard to auto correct it in my speech. I've defaulted to just referring to them by name as much as possible to avoid any hurt feelings. But I can't help feeling no matter what I do I'm somehow being offensive. :(

[@radioactivetiger2278]

People are like "omg my soft lil trans boy" I'm like "Shut up I could kill God".

[@CharlieQuinn2772]

Buzzfeed should do a 'What it's like to be a guy on your period' video, anyone with me..?

[@CharlieQuinn2772]

god, exactly. honestly it sounds like the kind of video theyd do bxut iv dug around an cant find one :(

[@nuclearpeacex]

No thank you

[@CharlieQuinn2772]

+derping derpette yes but that was about cis males. as a trans guy, id love em to do a relatable video about trans guys on their periods. its great that they have trans guys in their videos an stuff but itd be cool if they dug a little deeper

[@jessemccree2033]

Boy on his period? MANstruation

[@CharlieQuinn2772]

+dj ѕρooky yes, i support this fully

[@zoeygoldworthy6482]

Who else wants to hang out with Ryan? ;) loll

[@saffi1946]

Absolutely 😉😏

[@crowskinned]

100%

[@michelleannette]

Rick Lopez for once in your life you're 100% correct, I prefer girls

[@anji8211]

Michelle Knight Rick Lopez Lmao

[@lpssparksproductiontm4454]

Zoey goldworthy I would😏

[@loverrlee]

Cute isn't a bad thing! Girls just say "cute" more than "hot" or "sexy" but it practically means the same thing (at least this is true for me -obviously for some people this isn't true).

[@honeybeetle8651]

The "cute" thing hits HARD. I'm shorter than even the girls in my friend group, and they often compare me to en angry pomeranian or a hamster when i get mad. Doesn't help that i have very fluffy hair.

[@heisenberg6103]

Same for me, I have three girl- friends and I’m shorter than ALL of them for some reason, I need my growth spurt, and they always compare me to a fluffy haired baby bear

[@honeybeetle8651]

@@heisenberg6103 god i feel you man 😔✋ for now, we must remain short Kings. Like they say, "the smaller chilli peppers are always the spicier"

[@JayceJude5]

Fine video except do your research on binding it's extremely dangerous to bind with anything but a binder with a trusted brand like underworks and gc2b

[@cinnavoiid_ii]

*whoops*

[@alexiguess6018]

I agree 100%

[@cadaverous6]

Yep I have a gc2b binder and it works great and is super comfortable

[@nerdgirlperson]

it was great until they showed how he binded. That's not safe at all and spreads unsafe binding practices to youth. Ace bandages will mess you up, you need to invest in a binder D:

[@SHANNONbairdISking]

+Buttnuggets yeah I agree they should've shown him putting on an actual binder or something. To be fair I know this youtuber and he's already had top surgery so they faked this but still they shouldn't show something unhealthy.

[@dergrobe41]

who's the youtuber ?

[@cutecreeper33]

He binded with an ace bandage 😭😖 I've learnt from experience DONT BIND WITH ACE BANDAGES MY CHEST STILL GETS PAINS

[@aidenc9575]

he has had top surgery, it was just so people understood binding

[@madisongasser1527]

+Aiden the potato this is still very irresponsible for buzzfeed to portray dangerous binding methods. Nobody should ever use ace bandages. You need to buy a good binder on the Internet.

[@oldchannel3301]

+Madison Gasser ikr

[@cademaw04]

he did that just for show, people would just think it was a tanktop not a binder

[@jessicat315]

The reason Ace bandages are so dangerous is that they get tighter with movement.

[@user-ik7vm1kt6q]

I thought the thumbnail said trains.

[@Lee-uy8lw]

Why do you promote an unsafe way of binding??! Please stop? To the transfolks: please bind safely, the example in the video is a very bad one

[@areyoumarriedtothemusic4635]

Can Ryan look at me the way he did in that last shot? holy moly😍

[@danidkg4071]

areyoumarriedtothemusic yes oml

[@someoneyoudk4547]

areyoumarriedtothemusic. For real

[@alyzerose.]

omg yeesss 😍😍

[@starryislandart]

when youre a trans guy but still always the tallest

[@lanebo8276]

LUCKY

[@sexyjon589]

Are you 6'5?

[@kaleioli]

Same! Haha!

[@idkijs435]

dope

[@fabulousbaticorn9991]

me too. but just because i'm 4ever alone

[@lizx3471]

0:34 HES USING A ACE WRAP I DID NOT GET BRUSED RIBS FOR THID

[@santainbed924]

I prefer calling people hot or handsome instead of cute, i actually get offended when someone I'm not really really close with says i'm cute

[@FosterF.]

Well, a lot of cis guys are cute. It’s a way of saying someone is attractive.

[@villanelle2.0]

Helena Wondergirl me too

[@ladysusanna98]

Same! I feel uncomfortable if people call me Cute.

[@fvckyourcharade894]

The things people choose to get offended over....

[@hassia.s8165]

@@fvckyourcharade894 ikr

[@taylor-maedavies9609]

The black haired dude was cuteeeeee

[@landerlaurits]

that red haired dude is cute too

[@emutresh8935]

Gerard Way is cute

[@taylor-maedavies9609]

idek yes he is isn't he

[@Pandasoarplays]

YOUR PROFILE PIC IS GERARD WAY!!!!!! THE FANDOM IS EVERYWHERE!!!

[@taylor-maedavies9609]

+Pandasoarplays05 67 yeahhhhhhhhhh

[@ellisonmizrahi]

11 months and no trans girl version..... k

[@AHAHHAHHA]

Ellison Bruyn Literally 90% of videos about trans people are about MTFs. Let us boys have a goddamn chance too. 'K'.

[@twigwigsoso]

Stoned in Build-A-Bear workshop I'm ftm and i agree with her

[@AHAHHAHHA]

Would you like a cookie?

[@celestial_bean]

Stoned in Build-A-Bear workshop I have never seen a MTF video

[@separatista]

@@celestial_bean maybe if you use the search bar above

[@imanireo]

0:36 DO NOT BIND WITH ACE BANDAGES THAT CAN HURT YOU

[@robyn656]

Why am I watching this

[@harleyquinn4018]

Who knows, man. Maybe you clicked the wrong video.

[@mariamihailik5310]

Billie!

[@angenishahi7842]

Idk, I don’t know why I’m here

[@stfu_aid4n]

LameEdits because u choose to

[@rws91942]

Most of the replies to this are totally awesome.

[@Charlie-rl9kq]

For anyone watching, please don't bind with bandages they can hurt you badly

[@hearth4days]

Hi fellow trans peter believer!

[@assassinscreedreallifepran1080]

Ik

[@exquistecrpse]

NONONONONONO DO NOT USE ACE BANDAGES FOR BINDING ITS SO DANGEROUS PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT USE THEM

[@cinnavoiid_ii]

*whoops*

[@kian94891]

do not bind with bandages DO NOT bind with bandages DO NOT BIND WITH BANDAGES You will do serious damage to your ribs and the tissue on you chest. The damage can be bad enough that it will prevent you from ever being able to get top surgery.

[@aciralin6502]

why am i watching this im a cis female

[@2007jf]

Yeah but could you being attracted by a trans-man ?..

[@aciralin6502]

Jessy Anderson nahh

[@readthiscomment6062]

+aciralin nahh as in you cant be attracted to trans guys or nahh as in you just arent attracted to Ryan?

[@aciralin6502]

Read this Comment No Im not attracted to anyone so

[@readthiscomment6062]

+aciralin oh ok

[@callmeEmvy]

I think we've established that Ryan is pretty attractive. All the fan girls can chill now

[@doktorryeen5124]

I'm a trans guy and 5' 4'' I GET THIS

[@jaseharper944]

I'm 5' 4" as well lmao, the struggle is real

[@heckinggay4525]

Epic Fires im 5,2 ur literally living my dream

[@leonasnake]

Epic Fires *SCREECHES* UM, SAME?!?!?!

[@vegandolls123]

Yeah.. you're 5'4" cuz you're a WOMAN

[@emxob]

kelly kahil lmao, why hate on trans guys after clicking on a video that literally says its about trans guys. just leave and don't bother people.

[@jaceherondale873]

0:35 OMG WHY ARE YOU BINDING WITH ACE BANDAGES??? THAT IS VERY DANGEROUS OMG NEVER DO THAT EVER

[@arantzasousa5536]

Omg the guy with glasses is really hot 😍

[@chocolatejungkookiexxx2219]

Ä Š yaaass

[@someoneyoudk4547]

Ä Š YAS!!!

[@gingerleaf8006]

their all real guys.

[@stacystupid4083]

Jay Preis so... the guy with the black shirt and glasses was cute.

[@stacystupid4083]

trans men are real men. that's all there is to it! :)

[@Kamoblue]

Can we please have a part two? I need this visibility in my life.

[@nicway3790]

Ace bandage.. why...

[@luci3819]

Nichole Sarah ? ? ? What's wrong with it ? Does it not work or something ? (Knows nothing)

[@TeethHoarderr]

Its Isabel, Bro DOES IT NOT WORK... DOES IT NOT WORK THEU ARE DANGERUS AND CAN CAUSE PERMINITR DAMEDGE MAKE IT HARD TO BREATH ECT.

[@christinahieke5205]

PLEASE DON'T BIND WITH ACE BANDAGES I BROKE MY RIBS AND AM NOW UNABLE TO GET TOO SURGERY BECAUSE OF IT SO JUST DON'T

[@Matthew-ln7lx]

omg fr?