By age 35 you should be smart enough to realise this!

By age 35 you should be smart enough to realise this!

[@jackel54130]

#5 hit me hard. A regular job will kill your soul. Make sure you are pursuing something outside of it that will get you out of the hampster wheel.

[@HanginInSF]

#5 is not true and believing it will hurt you not help you.

[@zshah3107]

Yes, I Wish!

[@dogeatsthesun908]

​@@HanginInSF1. It's 100% true. 2. How it will hurt you?

[@dogeatsthesun908]

There is a joke: Today our boss came to work in a new car... “Nice car,” I said when he got out. “Well,” he said, noticing my admiring glances, “Work tirelessly, spare no time, and next year I’ll buy myself an even cooler car.”

[@HanginInSF]

@@dogeatsthesun908 I'm not your dad, either believe it or don't. Either way, good luck out there.

[@Zkingaka]

By the age of 35 i learnt that how life is fucked by your wrong decisions and now we are not left with enough power to come out and start life again😢😢😢

[@muliczakatalin8247]

By the age of 35 I was already busy with my "second turn", to use the chance and repair everything that went wrong until I could not be decisionmaker of my own life.

[@timcepin3386]

Amen!

[@hatebreeder999]

💯true. Cant believe i fucked my life so much by becoming musician

[@muliczakatalin8247]

@@hatebreeder999 why didn't you do what mommy and daddy said? You would be much happier. From making music you can't finance your existence, that's impossible. You'll never have a big house with a backyard, a decent wife and children and a big car your wife can use to do the shopping. Then it's not happiness. Then you can obviously blame yourself, you didn't listen...

[@hatebreeder999]

@@muliczakatalin8247 i did what my parents told me to do. They wanted me to be musician. Honestly as a kid and teenager I had no interest in it. Was more interested in math

[@davemanone3661]

By the time I was 35 I realized that life sucks and I'm just hanging around until it's finally OVER!🤮

[@johnglynhughes4239]

Born to lose. Live to win.

[@samuraicowboy9605]

@@johnglynhughes4239 much better, thanks

[@WILLPOWERMOTIVATION7]

It's not over, it's never been to late to be what you could've become. If you still have a life, there something to improve and to change if necessary.

[@khaiphamba5991]

Hey. I am in the EXACT same position. I'm just drifting. Life can end anytime, I don't have anything so I don't regret anything. I do regret the mistakes though.

[@davemanone3661]

@@khaiphamba5991 I'm 61 now, do something or it will be a long boring ride!

[@joebenzz]

Agree on all of them except for 11. Why should my inner circle be focused on money, success and starting a family? These are just societal paradigms that have been shoved in our skulls by our predecessors and repeated without them knowing why. Starting a family isn't for everyone. The only success i am interested in is my own personnal developement.

[@gregorypeterson9]

Amen!!

[@LilXancheX]

Who needs development? What’s development gonna do? 😂

[@RJD-vm6pz]

Development will lead him to a physically, financially secure being which will make his life happier and easier. If u can't understand dis simple thing u are still a kid.​@@LilXancheX

[@peterdubinsky5389]

@@LilXancheXyou’re serious?

[@teodortodorov1662]

Yes

[@robertmallac8398]

No 5 is the most important advice, I keep telling my work collegues, think like a mercenary, you are there for the money and nothing else. You owe your employer nothing and they owe you nothing.

[@dogeatsthesun908]

There is a joke: Today our boss came to work in a new car... “Nice car,” I said when he got out. “Well,” he said, noticing my admiring glances, “Work tirelessly, spare no time, and next year I’ll buy myself an even cooler car.”

[@unrealmagic6519]

​@@dogeatsthesun908you might think this is super deep or something but yes newsflash your boss makes more money than you, that's why they're your boss

[@DestinyAwaits19]

@@unrealmagic6519 Your boss employs you. Along with all the other colleagues. They're taking the risk, not you. You should be kissing your bosses feet. That you have a job and you can pay your bills. Don't be so ungrateful.

[@romulodecastrodasilva5863]

33, and now hate society and civilization, in few years i will move to wilderness.

[@hellboy0189]

Society is fucked up and that’s because of 1) individualism, capitalism, consumerism and materialism making you focus on wrong targets that you can’t reach and won’t really make you happy and 2) there is a huge gap between what both you and society expects from you and what you can realistically achieve. It’s even more conplicate than that but at the end I see that, at least in my country, the happiest people living a meaningful life are those working blue collar jobs since they were young and whose family constantly supported them since there were children. Those like me, having family and parents constantly blaming and putting pressure on them, who graduated in college, had to make it on their own and are overqualified in their job are often not very happy. The family you come from plays a huge role on how confident and happy you will be as an adult and on how successful you will feel.

[@b.l70]

I think surround yourself with people who are kind, compassionate, hard working, and critical thinkers are better than ppl who focus on success and money.

[@jayeshtoscano]

This should be taught in schools and must be mandatory. Thanks for sharing such videos. It will improve lots of human lives and enrich families.

[@sweetsteven217]

I don’t care who you are and what your circumstances are. Life is what you make it. My wife proves it. Drug addict mom and drunk/abusive dad. Still is successful at 40 and that’s with wasting a decade trying to fix her family which is not fixable. No excuses. Work and do something about it or stat in depression. That’s it. I’ve met people in wheelchairs who still accomplish and succeed.

[@thobaniselby2842]

Deeply appreciate this content keep up the good work

[@samirbhalerao5579]

Strongly disagree with point no 9. Not necessarily everyone has good well wished parents.

[@dogeatsthesun908]

True but that hatred is like non-healing wound that drains your emotional and psychological resources all the time.

[@samirbhalerao5579]

@@dogeatsthesun908 relatives get dumped upon us. Thank God that we have the choice to choose friends.

[@dualia-s74m]

And not everyone is a good son/daughter

[@EvelynCarreon-f4q]

So much attractive thoughts ❤️ thanks!

[@dharmendarkumar9595]

By age 35 I'll completely stop listening to AI

[@unrealmagic6519]

The grifters spamming this AI shit are gonna get worse.

[@StopTeoriomSpiskowym]

​@@unrealmagic6519 yes AI spam internet.

[@sb_shines3038]

This video lost me at the "family" part. The family you come from is equally important than the family you create. I have realized this that only my parents stood besides me in all my ups and downs, when everybody else just left. Don't leave your family just for a new person that is going to enter your life!

[@leiag201]

It took me until fifty to realize that my idea about life has been completely manipulated by the corporate consumerism model of modern life. Youth is wasted on the young

[@EnglishCad]

Life is very short, and very precious. Be kind, be considerate, but not to the point where people can use it against you. Remove negative people from your life, they will simply drag you down with their drama. Find pleasure in the little things. At the end of the day all we really do is make memories, make the majority of those memories good ones.

[@vahidjannati4622]

I'm 35, I reached them in age 35, This video was a masterpiece.

[@zshah3107]

I wish my family doesn't kill some dreams of mine, yes!

[@v.d436]

U are wrong about "your life is 100% your responsibility ".The type of family one belongs from heavily affects one's future .

[@asdfx30lm]

Indeed. But your future is still 100% your responsibility. Of course we are still limited by our past, but it's still ones responsibility to make the best choice

[@v.d436]

@@asdfx30lm say what u want but one can never become the way they want completely because of past .u are delusional or u just simply don't want to accept it.

[@shaun5552]

@@v.d436 Don't let your past define your future.

[@v.d436]

@@shaun5552 keep your delulu thinking .That quote is nothing just like other quotes like "looks don't matter".Past is most important as it shapes an individual into the person it will remain for rest of it's life.

[@bladerdj3503]

Its a lesson one should learn really quickly. Especially if you dont know the full meaning words can have.

[@DigitalNomad88]

#11 is Trash advice! Stay Single and be happy! Family life is not what its used to be 20 or 30 or 50 years ago! Its not how it was for your Parents and Grandparents Generations! These days mothers, grandmothers and aunts do not spend time raising their daughters to be prepared for good family life and having children, at all! Looking at my generation all married couples 20-40 are miserable, women do not want to be mothers to their kids or wives to their husband's its awful! Gents please stay single and be content!

[@asdfx30lm]

Ay, you do you pal. Some find happiness in being single. Some found their soulmate and happy with them.

[@Mohamed-bm6yk]

I became aware enough that what i being thru isnt just because of me but there are a lot of oppression around

[@holdiver307]

You can change your life at any age. I'm living proof that these videos are conforming to society's fear and consumption tactics. Trust in God and follow your heart

[@JoyfulSaturn-cz2ui]

I've had someone in my phone for the last three years minding my business. I don't get any privacy.

[@nooblegook]

By the age of 33 I realised that money and family are not my dreams.

[@BrianWillcox-qp2hr]

You've only got to look at Spiderman & the good he's achieved since being bitten by that radioactive spider.

[@TransAmDrifter]

Year after year my life gets worse. Too many wrong decisions. It seems like I am born to follow, because every time I try to lead, everything falls apart. Most of my dreams are lost. Ones that aren't yet will be in 10 to 15 years... What keeps me alive is that I have a wife that mostly supports me, kids that love me and a roof over our heads. Yet I fear for the future of my beloved ones. We live, we learn, we experience, we craft, we work... Yet what is the point of all this when everything will turn into dust? Life is just a rat race... A struggle to survive, but no one will survive anyway... We will all die consequently.

[@AEGISAOE]

competition can be healthy

[@MisterMarin]

"Ya'll need some good ol' fashioned discipline!" ~ General Edmund Duke, Terran Confederacy, Alpha Squadron

[@vigneshsp4619]

Why am getting this recommended when I need the most

[@snehalkrishnan618]

Make money, start a fart app.

[@g.s3822]

A thank you, very motivational

[@ksneia]

Almost fall asleep, realising this is text to speech, zero explanation. 🤭

[@ihsaniap6410]

I am 35 but I have always been mistaken for looking like a young boy....

[@timothypotts3913]

So tired of these AI-generated videos

[@unrealmagic6519]

When there's easy money to be made it's gonna happen. 50k views for a prompt, that's a few bucks

[@JasonBrown-zp8tx]

fantastic

[@maokai09]

Appreciated

[@tonywright8302]

Make money, start a Mickey mouse app

[@nothing-b2n]

You killed my dreams

[@thousandvangs3715]

unless opportunity never comes and hanging the rope looks so warming on the neck

[@asdfx30lm]

Rope seems to painful. Have you tried inert gas instead, to help you sleep?

[@MariadeLourdesAniesSanch-ze7hf]

I guess forever my family I feel change

[@victor_ka]

35 is a young person, I wish I were 35 again

[@TheBiggestMistakeEverBorn]

Really? Because I got called 'old' and I'm 35

[@courteousshmuck]

No freaking family! No way, man.

[@jackyyoyo2005]

omg god's truth holy f**king sh*t

[@Ingrid-ui5kw]

Its more easyer to loose a loved one

[@Monstacheeks]

I’m 35

[@StopTeoriomSpiskowym]

AI making same for 40 and 30

[@nat0106951]

I just turned 36

[@sashallendorf2605]

Love it

[@edwardlivengood4468]

Dreams are for those who can afford to pay for them lost mine in Vietnam jungles

[@Jackielocks]

Acquittances? I think you probably mean acquaintances..

[@bobbackward6461]

Not sure if I agree with all, but some of these are okay.

[@peepeepoopoovdbhxvbcc6683]

“If you’re older than 35 it’s over” -Sam Hyde

[@IrfanArif-j7u]

Please try to understand

[@Lestibournes]

I'll go with #6 and ignore this video.

[@peterdubinsky5389]

I mean, regarding the self help stuff let’s be completely honest here. If you’re referring to standard self help books okay I get that, if you mean anything that helps me become a greater person who’s just better you’re full of it for dissing education but then again I’m probably just being an ignorant 26 year old saying that😂

[@apachetamizha]

This is the young age 😊

[@salhimoussa4930]

Stop saying that 30s is young 😅, people above 25 are not young anymore.

[@apachetamizha]

@@salhimoussa4930 Its all-mindset dear brother.... It is how you look at yourself 🙂

[@salhimoussa4930]

@@apachetamizha if you think that you are young in 30s, you are just a adult infant and it's disgusting thing, I believe that men above 25 should take responsibility and act like men not like kids.

[@apachetamizha]

@@salhimoussa4930 Those who are born infant in this planet one day they will witness salt and pepper so everyone will be old enough someday. So it is the will power to stay young and bold no matter what the age is.

[@BB-fo5mr]

Unless your parents were both perverted, anti social, sadistic sociopaths. Then it is their fault. At age 35, you realize - whoever’s responsibility it is, that’s who’s responsibility it is. You take responsibility for what is yours, and stop taking responsibility for what isn’t. This video is full of bumper sticker rhetoric. Likely from someone who was spoiled growing up, but in some way thinks he/she “toughed it out”, looking for unwarranted appreciation. Thats called narcissism. When you are 35, you stop making self righteous youtube videos or you get called out on it.

[@keithduvall812]

Are you saying the way a person's life is at 35 is the parents fault?

[@BB-fo5mr]

Additionally - you formulated your question by taking what I said out of context. Try a little conscientiousness.

[@BB-fo5mr]

Could be, yes.

[@Paranormalik]

Forgive parents huh. If only i don't live with them at my age. and if they managed to install that hole in needs like other people have. without it i don't even feel direction where my life should go.

[@masterchief4868]

Number 5, I dont fully agree.

[@vincentmbwende9131]

I disagree about competition..the high achievers are very competitive

[@Jose-ze1sn]

#6 truer than a mf

[@ILoveHand-ClappingASMR]

I HATE LIFE!

[@languagecollectionchannel9682]

❤

[@luivalentino8520]

Where you get this garbage from

[@Layla_r0se]

Bukan semua orang mampu hadapi hantaran pelik2 sekarang ni. Rasanya bukan Dari yang kecik2 dah ni. Mahaguru pun rasanya bukan seorang je. Mungkin nak bagi nampak biasa2 sahaja. Pada saat ini.

[@Roger..2623]

Kal meri birthday hai koi wish nahi kr Raha hai 😢

[@juanitajones7169]

"Having-Sex/Having a, baby".

[@noveltycrusadec]

Dreams 😂

[@DH-xh3pg]

lol

[@edgaratthetube]

So, I should not consider any of these advices because this guy may not know what is doing??? 😅 Just kidding... I agree with most of the things said here.

[@thefreshprince-t4m]

Nope, not smart enough.

[@VindensSaga]

You make a mistake at 0:45 you dont "lead" people you let them live the life they creating for themselves, it is a shitty advice and an arrogant one as it assumes alot about yourself, if you tried to lead me I would so much fun of you that my words would be echoing inside your mind for years.

[@gregoryhaas4907]

Yeah silence. Everyone see how that tech so helpful 🖕