Don't Be Creepy - 10 Ways You Could Be Creeping Her Out

The average guy is a good dude, but if you're engaging in any of these activities, you might be creeping women out and ruining your chances with them. That's why, in this video, I'm going to tell you the top 10 things to avoid so you don't creep her out... and on the flip side, how to not go too far to avoid being creepy and end up holding yourself back.
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00:00 Start
00:50 What is creepy behavior?
03:20 The 10 things to avoid to not come off as CREEPY 🧐
10:29 The CREEPIEST thing you can do..
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[@1800nodavid]

The word "creepy" is so heavy to hear when you're first trying to flirt or be with someone when you think you're only being nice, but actually that's what I was told when I was actually doing these mistakes towards women. Every single point is so spot on after reflecting on years of me doing those mistakes. But I've been learning slowly but surely how to be a better and smoother person so thank you for making this video! It's worth sharing to those who have no idea why they're actually creeping people out.

[@danhertel165]

I'm 71 been divorced for 30 years, have not had a date or sex in about 25 years, but I still like watching your channel. :)

[@NickKiwi01]

As an autistic person who learned so much of his "romance" ideals from books and movies, I tend to think most of the last four are just about being a gentleman, but I guess a lot of guys these days have never had any role modeling for that! As for the fist several, this is SO hard when you already have trouble reading signals and body language in the first place! Yes, ASKING works so much better than guessing! I've actually said to people, "I'm autistic, so I may not get your signals, so just tell me if I'm too personal or not picking up on something..."

[@TheFunktipus1]

Hmm. Dunno. Women will put up with alot of creepy shit if they are attracted to the guy. Its only creepy if they're not attracted to them.

[@coletrain644]

Is that the kind of woman you want to be with though?

[@DoddyIshamel]

@@coletrain644 One that is attracted to you? Seems like a good idea.

[@coletrain644]

@@DoddyIshamel just cause she's attracted to you doesn't mean she's a good match for you. I don't want to be with a woman who bases if I'm, or someone else, is creepy or not purely on their looks. That's shallow af.

[@DoddyIshamel]

@@coletrain644 So you would rather a woman who is not attracted to you?

[@coletrain644]

@@DoddyIshamel I obviously want to be with a woman that's attracted to me. That's not what I said. I want to be with a woman that's attracted to me but also isn't shallow and doesn't judge someone, including me, purely on looks. If she would let a guy be a creepy asshole to her because he's hot then she doesn't have self respect, is shallow, and that's not the kind if woman I want to be with even if she thinks I'm hot too.

[@FrankMadison1969]

I've seen women throw out the rules when in the presence of a GigaChad. Seems like rules for betas but Gigachad gets away with everything. Just something I've noticed.

[@tonythegreat4275]

Who the fuc....?

[@bigj7844]

😂🤣😂 who and what is a GigaChad???

[@williamhensley8698]

Don't act like you don't know who he is talking about. As if there aren't any embodiments of the gods out there. That being said....the alpha-beta dichotomy is bullshit.

[@xxgreekgodxx3289]

@@bigj7844 Simps God… lmao.. just search it up

[@Marc91weinheimer]

you are either one of the guys she makes rules for or one of the guys she breaks rules for... it is that simple

[@rohitnarayan3966]

Thanks for sharing. This video was straight to point. I am glade to know it’s okay to tell women that you’re nervous when approaching them. I tend to overthink things at time and would just walk away instead of putting my self out there.

[@TheGreyguse]

I love your channel! I already have the love of my life but I like to watch your videos to stay sharp with my marriage! Thanks for all the advice on so many different things

[@scottfeatherstone7156]

Very good advise, thanks so much!

[@matthewsalge4425]

"Men the odds are already stacked against you." Gee, that's a surprising new revelation. LOL. Never felt that way before. Plenty of research (and my own experience watching all of my female friends) seems to strongly suggest that anything you do if she isn't already attracted to you is going to be seen as creepy. So, if you aren't already rich or what she finds attractive it doesn't really matter what you do. I've seen this many times watching my female friends at bars or whatnot. If a guy they don't find hot or attractive approaches them, whatever the guy says or does is creepy. Then I can witness a few days later my friends eating it up when a guy they find attractive does or says the exact same things. In all seriousness, do you address this phenomenon in any of your coaching. Because I know I'm not alone in thinking that when you approach a woman 99% of the time she's already judged you before you open your mouth and it doesn't seem to matter what you actually do or say.

[@fred-ho2yf]

Totally true : whatever Brad Pit says ... Niagara Falls :) :) :)

[@janapeiffer51]

Get new friends

[@gregoryimiola4081]

Your comment is spot on, I have watched alot of Caitlyns Videos I'd like to see a video from her on your response which in my experience is 10000% correct.

[@briseboy]

Bars, my sweet, are exactly where people go to chemically disable their ability to perceive. Only drunks seek other drunks, and therefore the addiction to shut down all perecptive capacity is harder to escape than so-called "friends", who are just defective scorekeepers.

[@Incapacitator99]

The insight you provide from a female perspective on a variety of different topics I’ve found invaluable. Pretty sure I’m not alone on this. THANK YOU!!

[@Mllet3d]

Thanks for sharing these pearls of wisdom :)

[@hi5_centipedes874]

But I'm a creep. I'm a weirdo. What the hell am I doing here? I don't belong here.

[@ravenlasky5286]

+1

[@Empr4evr]

JICKA JICKA JICKA DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[@davidvanwinkle5033]

Well done. Love the song.

[@paulwhitford5556]

Thank you Caitlin for your very helpful advice 👍

[@katanaxxx.]

Ten Things To Avoid In Order To Not Come Of As Creepy. 3:20 1. Not respecting her no. 3:24 2. Focusing on her body. 3:48 3. Touching w/o consent.4:09 4. Too much/ not enough eye contact. 5:17 5. Asking Invasive questions too soon. 5:54 6. Being too rehearsed. 6:35 7. Flirting w/ someone who can't escape. 8:31 8. Getting sexual too quickly. 10:28 9. Restricting our movement. 10. Enclosing personal space.

[@thekasinovaaugusto3451]

🥰🤝

[@ZooblerDotCom]

You’re amazing as usual. Thank you. Brilliant.

[@SimonAmazingClarke]

I am absolutely shocked that we shouldn't compliment a woman on any of her natural features. That goes against everything that I have ever been told.

[@tonythegreat4275]

New age old mon

[@ireviewdopesht7216]

That's a no no.

[@stephenlackey5852]

The way it was explained to me: One should only compliment a person’s choices, not random accidents of genetics. Also, things that some people find attractive, other people may not, so compliments on a persons physicality are not so much about the person who is complimented but the compliment giver’s taste. This makes giving such compliments selfish. Edit: holycrap she explained it the same way my friend did all those years ago😌

[@noyb12345]

Simon the context here is "over" complimenting.

[@chrisayers7957]

As a gentleman, I find it embarrassing that this video even needs to be made. This is basic stuff guys!!

[@williamhensley8698]

Well you just got a gold star!

[@danielsmith-ze3wy]

Thanks for video

[@buckleymordecai9605]

All good solid stuff here, thanks.

[@startrekstarfleetlcars44779]

hey Caitlin, 😂 I wanted to thank you very much, for the Kitty Cat Kisses, it is very thoughtful to include them in your videos. 😁😉

[@freebuilder007]

"Beautiful Blue Cult-Leader Eyes..." LOL

[@WhenAphroditeSpeaks]

Great idea Caitlyn! Agreed. The kissing consent though…. Turns me off every time when asked if I want to be kissed

[@garmisra7841]

OK good point. But how would you feel about this scenario? You've had a nice time, you're into the guy, and he said "You're so stunning. I just want to kiss you right now." Is that expressing desire or asking for permission?

[@WhenAphroditeSpeaks]

@@garmisra7841 In this case he is expressing his desire… I find this arousing, actually. Don’t you agree? It feels different… He is sure of what he wants. That’s attractive)

[@garmisra7841]

@@WhenAphroditeSpeaks Ok, thank you. I know that has been my experience, but it took time and practice (and failures) to get to that point of having good calibration and awareness of the vibes that both people were feeling at the time, as well as enough confidence to speak my mind in the moment. And I guess I was fortunate that I was with a woman who appreciated that as well.

[@WhenAphroditeSpeaks]

@@garmisra7841 oh good! Thanks you for sharing 👍

[@misssecondstar]

None of these surprised on the least 🤣 As a lady, I felt creeped out just hearing some of them. Thanks for educating the gentlemen out there.

[@kajony]

So interesting, Caitlin

[@theeisenator7255]

Very helpful, thank you.

[@mariobuttino6095]

If he has alot of money, he ain't so creepy.

[@RoosterOfTheCity]

Eccentric

[@romaneshaw8398]

Appreciate all the advice it is very helpful

[@jonathangettinger2811]

Something I've noticed a lot of guys will do, maybe without even trying to be creepy, is to continue a conversation past its expiration date when it's clear from the girl's body language that she wants to leave/ be left alone. ( looking at her watch or phone nervously, looking around for a natural exit or hoping someone steps in to interrupt). It's kind of related to using one's size or mass to block her escape except I think most guys who do this just aren't socially calibrated enought to realize they are doing it. A general rule of thumb for the curious is that if a girl is interested in talking to you or even likes you, she will do most of the talking and ask most of the questions. If she starts giving you a lot of one word replies or displaying the above nervous behaviors while you're asking most of the questions, it's time for you to make a polite exit.

[@aidenbowlin6683]

Wow I've done some of these, thank you so much!

[@DaveG-kb2sr]

You can compliment a woman, as long as it's genuine and not made up to try and impress her. Be tasteful and respectful about it, even silly. If she reacts positively - cool, if she doesn't - keep walking. Advice like on the video only confuses guys who want/need help. Also, don't limit compliments to women you're interested in or just physical attributes. Compliment your dad, brother, aunts, cousins, mom, friends, coworkers, etc. Be authentic, not a kiss ass when doing so.

[@MrZZooh]

Good advice and very true.

[@mattwells9904]

Hey cult leader out of question do you have a link for some of the study's that you mentioned in your video would like to give them a reed. :) Keep up the hard work !

[@real_fjcalabrese]

Great overall advice! I have PTSD. Don't engage in those behaviours with anybody.

[@miketurany2082]

I think you saved my life. I always enjoy, and get the most out of your video s

[@jaysartori9032]

This is so true and very interesting! Also, don't touch any women in any sexual way! If you're sitting next to her at a bar just by her body language you know she doesn't like it! " STOP IT CREEPY IT"S ALSO A RED FLAG WARNING"!

[@user-un5vt3by7g]

Great content

[@paulb1383]

Some good reminders although a couple of these are opposite of what I have seen worked and what many others say. And the whole kissing part always just happened naturally especially when you pick up on the vibes she is giving you..

[@donaldschultz3868]

Love the insight and your videos. I just don't completely agree with all of #7. With the Starbuck scenario if that's a part of my routine and I give a worker my number I shouldn't have to change my routine or never go back to a business because I asked someone out. In the gym scenario what if that's the only place I see her? Should I wait in the parking lot to talk to her ( more creepy in my opinion) so I don't take 10 seconds to give my spiel to see if she want to talk outside of the gym. Then after that do I need to find a new gym.

[@andyben87]

Completely agree .

[@misssecondstar]

2 other things that creep me out. 1. When a guy brings up trying to get married /love in the first few times of meeting him. Scares me so bad. 2. When I meet a guy and we exchange numbers so that we can hang out but immediately on text he feels like a different person who just wants to date/have sex. We never end up hanging out. I thought I was meeting a new friend. If all you value me for is sex, I don't need to know you. You know?

[@WhiteMouse77]

Unfortunatelly much people has in fact very primitive character and their charming impression they make first is just learned acting hiding how low personality is beyond and underneath of attractive pretending.....It is evolutionaly developed ability we all have and everyone must count with in social interaction before experience proves who the person really is.

[@davidvanwinkle5033]

On your #2... that is entirely on you. It is very rare that a guy is going to exchange numbers after just meeting you if his intentions are "just friends ". If you did not establish that through communication then you have led him on. UNLESS... from the beginning it is made known one or both of you is married or have a significant other. But if you're walking around single exchanging numbers with single men upon first meet... they are not looking for a friend. That should be obvious.

[@misssecondstar]

@@davidvanwinkle5033 My point is that it's creepy to be suddenly immediately different in text than in person, especially in a sexually aggressive way. No one I've dated has ever done this so it's not all guys. Most guys know how to continue to be funny and kind and establish report before asking me out. Maybe hang out in the way that we said we would first and continue to be non-threatening before taking me on a date. I have standards. I don't blame anyone. Just trying to help a brother out.

[@sacred_alchemy]

Exactly!!!!!!

[@yoyoyo8011]

If a guy asks for your number or if you initially offer it to him without him asking then it’s going to be more than just friends and guess what, you know that already and don’t need to be reminded here.

[@IIAASSOONN]

Touching and asking bold questions in a playful way is a flirting tool tho...

[@briseboy]

It DID hurt when i fell from heaven.Unfortunately, it was a LONG fall, onto my face. The apparently permanently disfiguring injury also causes me to LURCH, always in the wrong directions. But Caitlin, your clear & emphatic explanations are important, invaluable, priceless. Thank you!

[@Jubee12]

I don’t agree so much on #3. I’ve seen this same advice from other female dating coaches who said the opposite in where most women finding it unattractive if a guy asks for permission to touch her as well as the importance of gauging her comfort level. Now of course touching a woman in certain places when you first meet her is a don’t

[@aidenbowlin6683]

I think it's more the way you say it, like if you said it in a way that implies she wouldn't want to ie. "Do you wanna.. maybe kiss?" As opposed to "hey wanna kiss?"

[@worstoftheworst12]

Beautiful blue, cult leader eyes 😂😂😂

[@Jerry10939]

Asking someone out is not flirting. It’s asking someone out. Flirting is more playful, but doesn’t mean you’re trying to get in her pants. I flirt with women, but it’s not threatening. You do it in a way as not to make them feel uncomfortable , because you’re not getting in her space or getting sexual aggressive with. It’s subtle. No the difference. I also find girls use the word creepy for guys they just don’t like. It’s over used.

[@ihategooglealot3741]

Non verbal asking is good too, opening your arms or inclining your head, someone who wants to be hugged or kissed will often respond, if they don't move in ask verbally, if they become more closed off, then back off. 😇 Too close on public transport is a huge one, I've had both men and women do it to me, and it makes me want to barf.

[@greganderson8340]

I love you and your advice

[@mhibbing1]

Careful! The "I love you" might be too soon. Get to know her first! Otherwise it may be interpreted as "creepy"!

[@noelbailey2459]

Brilliant

[@gregoryimiola4081]

So the women can use non verbal language without consent like "she will come open arms letting you know a hugs ok" or she will find you at the gym and start talking to you. It's almost like all the rules for guys and none for her. Not only that but as a guy if she says I love your body that's much better then hey dude I love your shirt. So basically anything you would want as a guy is a no go to say to a girl. Think about it,Guys say these compliments because from their view if they where that girl they believe that is what they want to hear. Lastly creepy seems to be based on the feelings she has about him. I have seen unattractive guys get called creepy for just about anything and that same women would be happy when a guy she thinks is attractive does the exact same things.. Like the movie 365. This guy kidnaps her. Does every last thing wrong. Basically rapes her. Large amounts of women love that movie. Make the same movie with cliff the mailman from cheers and the crimes he did would rack up beyond believe.

[@ichbrauchmehrkaffee5785]

I definetely belong to the type that don't make any moves to avoid being creepy.. I am yet to figure out where the balance is between taking the courage to try and get with her and not being creepy or making her feel uncomfortable

[@DaveG-kb2sr]

Well, this video certainly seems to reinforce that as the way to go.

[@gregoryimiola4081]

Very True, then every romance book every romance novel loved by women shows the exact opposite. It's confusing because the rules are basically made for how SHE feels about you. They change and guys can't be mind readers but women want you to be that guy that takes that chance on the non spoken kiss when they like you and are in disgusted when it a non wanted guy. As a women you just have to exist. So many contradictions. Men are much more logical with a pretty good play book that's about the same for most guys very easy for her to figure out. So many factors and so much difference from women to women.

[@craigmartin1426]

Lol this list is true if you’re not an attractive man if she find you physically attractive a few of these things communicates a lot of confidence

[@captainnibby]

My wife and I were dating for over a month before our first kiss (we were saying good night by her car and she licked my nose, which gave me the sign) after that, I'll admit I was more persistent than I should have been (I was only 21 and she was 19) but I always stopped when she gave a sign to. I was her first (sexual) partner and she was only my second so it took some time. I must have done ok overall, because 16.5 years later we're still together with two little boys and barely any "fights" through the years. This video is still "kid" friendly but I mainly subbed to help our bedroom life. It's not great because of medical reasons, but I really want to make the times we can as good as we can. Thank you!

[@jeffd3492]

1. Lingering Staring: Prolonged eye contact or staring can make women feel uncomfortable. 2. Invasion of Personal Space: Not respecting a woman's personal bubble can be intimidating and disrespectful. 3. Unsolicited Physical Contact: Touching without clear consent is a big no-no. 4. Over-Persistence: Not taking 'no' for an answer and continuing to pursue her. 5. Inappropriate Comments/Compliments: Making sexual comments or compliments that are not contextually appropriate. 6. Stalking Behaviors: Following her around or showing up at places uninvited. 7. Overly Personal Questions: Asking questions that are too personal can come off as intrusive. 8. Not Reading Social Cues: Ignoring signs of disinterest or discomfort. 9. Manipulative Tactics: Trying to coerce or guilt someone into spending time with you. 10. Ignoring Boundaries: Whether they are stated or implied, crossing someone's boundaries is off-putting.

[@remsta3483]

I love this vid . It really is a lifesaver 🙄👍 thank God I just sent the girl from the supermarket that message saying “I still love her” after half an hour of knowing her🙏 I just don’t want to lose her; so I also included that in the second message I sent 45 seconds later

[@davidvanwinkle5033]

You did or did not send those messages? If you did, after just meeting her, you are creepy and extremely emotionally unhealthy. If you're joking, well done.

[@remsta3483]

@@davidvanwinkle5033 dude 🙄can’t you tell I’m joking

[@briseboy]

45 seconds = half a lifetime

[@jumperjunior804]

Research found that 80% of women are only dating 20% of men across all dating sites and apps. Also, like many have said here, that good looking men can’t be creepy, yet the exact same interaction from an average or ugly man is creepy. You seem to be delivering advice that woman say in groups, however after running these by female friends, they disagree with most of these 10 tips.

[@yoyoyo8011]

Well spoken.

[@sargeklein]

Sorry but I do want to know if she has a boyfriend right away. I do not want to waste my masculine energy flirting with a woman in a committed relationship. The woman gets the experience of my masculine presence and confidence and vibe but then tells me she has a boyfriend only after I built up a vibe. Talk about a buzz kill. Oftentimes women will hide the fact they have a boyfriend or are seeing someone because I create attraction. The woman leads me on and it is like a magic spell is cast over her and she somehow forgot she is in a relationship?... Is this really fair? It isn't. But life is not fair. There are no rules in love and war. I may be a creep to one woman but another may adore me. So if some woman thinks I am a creep because I ask straight up "are you single?" then so be it.... The key word is Screening. You have to screen the woman, 1) is she single? 2) where does she live? (approximately) Screening for Logistics are important if we want to move things forward.

[@uinsel]

interesting. whenever I had a person asking me that I dismissed that person right away because he obviously just wanted my body since he had no clue about my mind yet so he had no idea whether a relationship with me was worth while. maybe you also give up on many chances - of at least great potential friends.

[@sargeklein]

​@@uinsel I only have so much energy and time to give in social situations. I hang out at dog parks since I got a dog. Sometimes women come there and are alone with their dog. They willingly come and want to chat with me because I am pretty outgoing and charming (definitely not only interested in sex). Anyone who hangs out with me it looks good because I am extremely fit and put together as a man. I do not know if she is single or not. If I am wasting that flirtatious energy on a woman who has a boyfriend then I am not getting the outcome I want which is a sexual relationship. I have lots of female friends and it is not healthy for me to donate my time to friend-to-friend interactions more than a certain point. It is emasculating. It is about self-respect. I respect and value my time. A woman who is a friend should not prioritize over a woman who could be more than a friend. I have missed opportunities because I would hang out with my female friends and miss talking to the attractive women who actually were interested.

[@WilliamSmith-mz9qz]

Flirting is supposed to be fun so if you flirt with a woman and you found out later she has a boyfriend it should have been a good experience for the both of you, plus you got to practice your flirting skills for the next woman who might be available.

[@sargeklein]

@@WilliamSmith-mz9qz Bro you sound like a major simp. I do not need to refine my flirting skills. I need to refine my ability to Screen the woman and show intent (which she may either accept or reject) to make sure I am not wasting my time. Being blunt and straight forward is attractive, "can I touch you here?", this kind of thing. But still the woman could still be leading me on when I am escalating. If I ask "are you single?" she has to make a decision whether she wants to be promiscuous or not. This makes her accountable for her actions. I have been in too many situations (actual dates) where women hide the fact they have a boyfriend from me. Fact is, there are no rules in love and war. Would you want your girlfriend flirting with a guy like me in public and then the two of us begin walking together back to our homes?

[@buckshotbucky.357reloaded3]

@@sargeklein I agree with you. I do want to settle down in a few years but the current dating scene is making that hard. Nowadays flirting is becoming pointless and I’m done with the chasing game. I’m done trying to initiate every part of the process.

[@jimm190]

Thank you Caitlin, as a man going out with the same woman for 4 and then getting married to her for 32 years I’ve learned a few things that did not occur to me that it would creep her out, like taking liberties when giving her a hug and then patting her back side.🤔

[@briseboy]

Frontside patting might also be a less than estimable gesture...

[@markscott9622]

Gents in this day and age of 'equity', it is far better and cheaper to 'rent' it than put a ring on it and have it buy you.

[@meghangossett3091]

Wow 😳 that's really sad that it's come to that

[@markscott9622]

@@meghangossett3091 You have only your sisters to blame. And the best part is when all of these lonely and divorced ladies turn 50 and 60. Im not Brad Pitt but I have plenty of offers but none worth the time nor investment. It is cheaper to lease than buy.

[@meghangossett3091]

@@markscott9622 that's truly unfortunate 😞

[@markscott9622]

@@meghangossett3091 as they like to say in New Jersey, "it is what it is" and just not worth the price of investment anymore.

[@josephwojtkowiak8551]

As much I enjoy watching your videos because they help me work on my skills on approaching a woman. I have to call you out about complimenting someone's good look like in your example of having blue eyes. You yourself said in another video that complimenting your vampire teeth is appropriate.

[@baron7755]

I would say there are some women who are at the gym to find boyfriends. Perhaps most are not, but there are definitely some.

[@harlanwilkinson3142]

If they're obviously not working out hard, wearing makeup, revealing clothing, no hat, no earbuds, following you around the gym...then maybe.

[@WarrenByrdSpeak]

Interesting…some of this is, in fact, contradictory to what certain women I’ve known and have overhead say. Specifically, compliments, most compliments need to start outward then work in…kinda. Many women have divulged that they rather be seen than not at all.

[@trinsit]

I don't do any of these things as I don't hit on women. My social anxiety has me stop before things start. 🙃 if there's a no, I stop everything.

[@jacobwright1227]

I agree at first meeting this should never be done. 12:09 but in a relationship some role play and aggreed apon Safe words can make this fun for both partys. This part threw mixed signals but overall yea dont do this unless your both on in on the game.

[@dongillis1500]

I think these tips are good when meeting a women. Its about keeping in the game long enough to see if there is chemistry. For me, I can't hang with a woman and put up with all the BS if there is no chemistry. Its very hard to find this.

[@mgu1N1n1]

Men, do not hesitate for one second to place a restraining order against your partner if you feel the need to protect yourself and your safety! the best decision of my adult lifetime was putting a restraining order against her! The US system is biased against men. Trust your instinct and get ahead of the craziness and do not let her or the system create further abuse in your life!

[@hi5_centipedes874]

As a comedian once said, "Don't say anything to a woman you wouldn't want to hear in prison." 😂

[@MrBmoll5858]

Wow Thanks for putting me on the list. Now I feel Bad. I need more help......

[@WhiteMouse77]

SURVEY Hey guys all of you commenting the topic and might know any and if yes please note here if something like that even exists: List whatever related to and about girls & women that is from perspective of rational thinking and sanity NOT CREEPY! What is not creepy related to human females of 21st. century?

[@bin4ry_d3struct0r]

What is wrong with complimenting a woman on her hair? No one is born with beautiful hair. Style and color are choices just like earrings and shoes. I compliment women's hair freely, and, to my knowledge, my compliments were always appreciated.

[@davesaidy1900]

So, just be Considerate.

[@uinsel]

I remember, I did not do much dating since men were way too scary but when I did, I always had emergency friends calling me so I had an excuse to leave if the date went creepy.

[@emsmonster1954]

I feel it would be beneficial to enlighten women just as much as you are teaching us guys. I've done things you stated in this video as well as others and it immediately destroyed the date/any chance with the person on multiple different occasions. You give great information and insight but women need to be able to meet us half way with this information. I've been told by two women that asking if they wanted a kiss was far creepier than just going for it, (yes i tried it years ago when i was too nervous to "just go for it") etc.

[@OmarSaad404]

I'm that asking before approaching or touching is not ruining the mood or something cause I do this all the time and I thought it feels too shy or not confident to ask.

[@redbeardthepink4809]

Here's a cheat code: if you wanna give a woman a compliment she's guaranteed to appreciate, and/or you just wanna get her talking, compliment her nails and ask where she got them done. Women who get their nails done looove when they're noticed, and getting to gush about them.

[@NocturneSonate]

Pick up lines work. Pick up artistry works very, very well. Being flashy works. Being the bad boy works. I've picked up more women in the gym than anywhere else. Women are attracted to men with capital. I think Caitlin is becoming more detached from reality. Getting laid is probably easier to do than getting free food. I love the channel but as time goes on many of these 'what not to do' segments is exactly what to do to get laid.

[@yoyoyo8011]

Exactly. Thank you. All these don’ts and restrictive rules means us men need to just shut up keep to ourselves stay in our lane and go home and masturbate.

[@briseboy]

Suggestion: check self for STDs. Take the hint from them that you may experience some deviation, in fact several standard deviations, from the nonpsychopathic norms.

[@NocturneSonate]

@@briseboy Every two months. Still clean and I've always been clean. That being said, I don't need to take any hints. I'm going to keep a roster and I'll always be recruiting.

[@andresmedcalf7128]

Some states if you block someone from leaving it also consider kidnapping.

[@ballybunion9]

The list starts at 3:20.

[@christophermartin367]

Chris

[@obiwanfisher537]

Yeah but women say creepy about any men they don't find attractive and who makes advances. That's the issue. Of course there are creepy man, but I know so many women call a guy creepy if he says "Hey Susan. Looking good today" but don't look like Chad. And many times a "no" does not mean no. Sometimes they say no playfully, othertimes they mean it. Of course with some common sense you can pick out which no is real and which is not, but that is a bodylanguage thing and not a verbal thing. And asking women to touch them aka getting consent, is also often just a mood killer. Look, I understand that if women mean no they think saying no is enough, but they also say no when they want it sometimes... So. Yeah. There is that, too. My advice to men is: Touch her, make advances and if they reject you, take the hint and don't pursue further. But don't ask for permission, rather ask for forgiveness. It brings you a lot further. Asking a woman "can i hold you hand?" may sound romantic or something, but in reality women will say no and think it's too weird that you ask, even if they wouldn't have disliked it if you just had went for it. And since when do women not like it when you compliment them? "Oh, you have great hair today" ??? What the fuck? Sorry, I liked your other videos but so far I am disagreeing with everything you say. And I am quite successful with my flirting. And asking "do you have a dog" is also neither weird nor creepy, and I never met anyone who was weirded out by that question in the first place. If it comes up, it comes up. Even if it's one of the first things you ask Getting sexual quickly - also not a problem if she is into you. See even you make this mistake of womansplaining things to men as a fact that are actually very much dependent on context. If she likes you, then getting sexual quickly is fine. If she's not into you, then it's creepy. Same goes for being close to someone, which I think is what you mean with "restricting movement". Pushing someone back into a corner is definitely rapey, but if you just stand close to a woman and you flirt and she's into it, it's fine. Of course, if you stand close, she will not be able to walk away easily.

[@demetriusbrandon3337]

Peace unto you… Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha at the sometime you're videos are very Educational, Instructional, Serious, Pleasant and also FUNNY to! I believe the reason why you're videos have a COMICAL FUNNY element(s) in them is because of you're PERSONALITY and CHARACTER which are good in my opinion…. You always make me smile and giggle and a little laughter too! GOD BLESS you!!!🙂😊😀☺️😎🤗😉😃😄😁😆🙃🤙👍👏💪👌✌️🙏🙏🙏

[@Dragonsantos]

This information really should be shared in Jr & High school before having school dances. 🤦 Definitely would have been soo helpful 😔.

[@stickman6644]

How do you show up

[@user-lx2is5tp8b]

What did she say number two was?

[@chrischilds4208]

Vegan women creep me out.

[@honkhonk5181]

Maybe so but they have the most romantic farts of them all 😍

[@nlewis]

What she says is right most of the time and that's why I listen to a bunch of these videos but the fact is women are never gonna make the first move and that's the reason why I'm 40 and still single about to start a business because I don't have time To try and get a woman in a relationship If you don't want one

[@juliechildress8905]

In my twenties, I went shopping for clothes with an old boyfriend once. When I turned to head towards the dressing rooms, he physically blocked me from going maybe twenty feet away. I quit going shopping for anything with that guy after that encounter. He and I dated for four years, thankfully I didn't marry him.

[@traditionaltools5080]

Only 10 things? And yes, women do creepy things. Guys just tend to overlook them because starting a conversation with a stranger doesn't always go well.

[@nobodysperfect06]

It seems like what mostly determines a man's attractiveness to women or his ability to get a girlfriend, is mostly social-skills based or social-behavior based, mental and emotional behavior based and conversation talents. It has always seemed that a man's social behaviors or social skills, human interaction ability has a much bigger impact on his dating life a lot more than the other way around. I don't like it and I always hated it but sadly that will never change,. A big reason why I feel men need to have better social skills than women do is because a sign that a man has good social skills is knowing how to not be creepy,. And we all know it's a lot more easy for a man to get labeled creepy than it is for a woman.

[@ireviewdopesht7216]

That's spot on

[@billdiamond4660]

Thank you for the education. I hope I’m not a creep. At least I try not to be. I am aware of all of your 10 rules and thank you for reinforcing them.

[@offairhead]

Omgosh!!! #8. “Bringing up sex too soon” ....yea that should be like number one. I c t standdddd that!!!!!!

[@meghangossett3091]

Sometimes you just get the creepy vibes without any of these behaviors but great list

[@Akiro369]

What I can't compliment a woman on what she's wearing or beauty without being creepy ? Most women I've met love getting compliments from me. It's all in the delivery a in It's not what you say but how you say it." And it's got to be said with sincerity and respect that comes form the heart. Caitlin as much as I dig your work and find most of your advice useful I'll have to disagree with you on this one.

[@markprogstoy]

No.7 I run 50 miles a week and don't see anybody on the peaceful field where I run alone. What you spend at the gym you can buy and build one at home 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@baigish100]

Wait, so detaining a woman against her will ISN'T hot? Wow. Thanks for the tip. Note to self. "Do not detain women. Apparently, they do not like this! :)

[@ntnrocket1]

Yeah, apparently it's only good in racy romance novels.

[@nuttintosay4495]

My personality will never over come my ugly face.

[@simplesmile6984]

I gotta say my fellow dudes if you see or get that she has someone don't ruin their relationship, instead maybe just politely with kindness and respect end it there, after all would you want that to happen to you? Matthew 7 “Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets.

[@wilcarrero1639]

I have creeped women out before without exhibiting ANY of the traits you discussed. What else. Could I be doing wrong? Combing my hair wrong?!

[@bjohns3961]

#1 don’t be ugly. I wish girls realized that there are rules they should follow too.

[@davidthompson9823]

Basically, don't be ugly. If she finds u attractive it ain't creepy, whatever u are doing.

[@WickedKingLycoan]

Gee Dave…You missed the entire point of the video. Good work on not listening and focusing on your own bullshit issues.

[@user-uu5sg7ji7b]

To respect a lady is the main thing 😊😊

[@dpking3243]

Caitlin, Your huge ear rings creep me out.

[@mihai2303]

exactly. very subjective