My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding Is SO Brutal

[@CamKirkham]

This episode genuinely made my jaw hit the floor, had to pause it after about 3 different parts

[@xxMelaniexx]

Was so obsessed with this show

[@England-edits]

I love your vibe when I am bored I watch you and I am instantly be entertained

[@sarahella6474]

Please react to Derry girls 💚

[@MiOppa1]

@@sarahella6474 I second this!

[@Nitehawkmk77]

Can you do a follow up Cam

[@Timbits-qw1mi]

All i can see when he throws the dog, is him letting him know what he's capable and willing to doing to her.

[@anymous8407]

Google his name he and his sister attacked a pregnant woman and he assaulted an Indian woman with a kid for her gold

[@lizcollinson2692]

Or his kids

[@sybill123ful]

to think he wants 10-11 kids 😭

[@alwayssavage9592]

And she’s acting like he’s throwing a hand bag rather than something that’s alive…

[@thewizard555]

@@sybill123ful its usually the people with no capability of being a parent wanting the most amount of kids possible . he doesnt care about being a father , he cares about spreading his seeds as a showcase of his manliness. he didnt even think once how his wish of having 10 kids would take a big toll on his wife's health & body . carrying the baby for 9 months , dealing with all the health issues , moods swing , urinary problems that come with it and pushing a kid out of such small space and then post partum depression is such a torture . NOW IMAGINE DOING THAT 10 FRICCKING TIMES!! he is fine with having her wife deal with this physical , mental, emotional torture for the sake of his ego

[@kleee711]

Chucking that dog in the water is nuts honestly just straight up shows him trying to put himself in the powerful position who can do what he wants to her

[@thewizard555]

power with no empathy

[@mooncatandberyl5372]

e@@thewizard555 control power n no empathy are some of the diagnostic criteria of a psychopath

[@mooncatandberyl5372]

this time its her dog next time it will be her dead body

[@ameliae3709]

In the episode he actually says he’s glad he knows her while she’s young so he can ‘mould’ her to be the perfect wife for him, I promise I’m not joking

[@paristiger]

Im a traveler and when i was sixteen i was "grabbed" and when i denied his advances i got punched in the face and i wasn't allowed to go to the police and told to not cause any problems

[@JasminMiettunen]

I hope you've been able to talk about it with someone sane who understands what happened to you was completely wrong

[@allibell6795]

God I am sorry this happened to you! I hope you're ok and living a great life.

[@purshas2788]

My god. that’s horrific. I hope you are doing okay now

[@paristiger]

@@purshas2788 thank you, I am. I left the traveller community a year ago, I go to community college(which I wasn't allowed to do when I was at home, I had to leave school in year 7)and have a part time job doing nails💕

[@purshas2788]

@@paristiger i really love that for you. well done on having the courage to leave and getting out. I’ve been watching the big fat gypsy wedding series for years and the one thing i can’t stand is the grabbing tradition. it takes a lot to leave everything you’ve ever known and you are so brave for doing it. You should be so proud of yourself!

[@lizbanglizpop]

I remember being 'grabbed' at 14 by a 16 year old traveller lad at a holiday park and it's a wild time at 14 to be debating between leaving with someone to go off and settle down or go home and do GCSE's

[@jadeshepherd8627]

😬 hope you're okay. Don't know your views on that if you're in the traveler culture, but I imagine its awful anyway BC even the girl in the vid at first said 'its not nice'

[@ssevenfates5274]

I got grabbed once by a traveller lad and screamed for somebody to help me. his dad was near and immediately helped me and brought me to my mam.

[@UUHHi223]

You do know they are not real gypsies right🙄

[@TiniTae867]

Man said VAGAZZLE instead of bedazzle!!! 😂😂😂

[@sheilathepotter6636]

I was literally about to comment that! Made me laugh so much 🤣 I hope he googles vagazzle.

[@Seiko__o-]

I’m sure I can remember like 10 years ago Poundland used to sell vagazzle kits😭

[@Duckduckobtusegoose]

@@Seiko__o-sounds about right for poundland

[@janethughes9541]

No your mistaken he meant what he said.Duh.

[@pinkrebellionxyz1567]

I remember being 9/10 and finding my family friends butterfly vagazzle sticker pack in her room when we stayed over. I asked both of them if I could get one cause it was pretty, where they proceeded to laugh at me. Btw I had no idea what a vagazzle was I just saw diamonds 😭

[@kleee711]

I know travellers and one of the things that pisses me off the most is that the women will be dressed to the nines in expensive outfits and then their husbands will just be dressed in a t shirt and jeans to go to a wedding 😐

[@lemsip207]

The outfits at weddings are so ridiculous and most of the women and girls are in white not just the bride and bridesmaids. The men are getting drunk at the bar. There are middle-aged women in bodycon dresses consisting of basically a white corset top attached to a white skirt and white lace sleeves. The bride and bridesmaids are caked with makeup to look much older. There was one video where the bride looked 12 from behind because of the size of her head compared to her body as if she hadn't finished growing. Her bridesmaids did wear nice dresses, though with kneelength full skirts and sleeves to just above the elbows.

[@JasminMiettunen]

I feel like “respecting a culture” shouldn’t include respecting things like sexism, racism, homophobia or animal abuse even if it’s a part of the culture, but that’s just me

[@rruysch]

exactly. its giving anthropologist: 'we can't intervene. we must observe in their natural habitat.'

[@jessica5470]

Exactly, to the people who are worried about being offensive, what if we never judged Christian/Catholic culture? The world would be fucked if we let them run rampant, no disgusting ideologies should be allowed to prevail regardless of "culture" culture changes, and luckily so

[@kittycat5972]

@@jessica5470 agree. I hope you also include the lgbt community as well, that lot seems to have a lot of s*xual d*gen*rates and pr*dat*rs within its community.

[@Peetreesaur]

@@jessica5470yea tell that to Maga people.

[@joaopedrochicre4809]

To be fair, this show, as all of TLC reality shows and just reality shows in general, has been criticized for misrepresenting Roma culture. And I remenber this episode in particular being criticized by Romani people as spreading misinformation. Been a long time since i read that tho. So i might be missremenbering

[@jadeshepherd8627]

Omg. When i saw him chuck that dog, i teared up. Had to pause it. Infuriated. How could my big fat gyspy wedding actually film that? Thats animal abuse! That crew is as sickening as the kid who actually did threw the dog. Now ive seen the end, idk how he didnt end behind bars for life. He tried to rob that mother, then threatened hed hurt her toddler and attempted to kidnap it. How hes got a pub is beyond me

[@Thefishisatstake]

And the way he laughed at her being so upset about her poor doggie. And laughed about throwing the dogs. Thats serial killer shit. Thats physcopath shit. Like seriously , thats a fucking sign/symptom

[@plumdutchess]

The crew isn't sick. They're doing their job. You can't work on a documentary type show and let your own feelings intervene. The job is to observe and get it on camera.

[@taylove1461]

@@plumdutchess well idk about that, if they're filming a hungry child and they ask how much that child has had to eat that week but they don't give them anything and then go back to their comfy hotel i'd say that is cruel. There are boundaries, and the truth is they just don't care enough to stop it

[@serenacelestine]

@@plumdutchessThis isn’t a nature documentary, they absolutely DO have duty of care

[@somniumisdreaming]

As you eat your sausage sarnie....

[@sw33ts0ur4]

There's culture and then there's law. I'm not respecting something that can cause trauma.

[@kleee711]

Honestly it’s a shame the girls spend a lot of their childhood just being taught how to clean and look after babies and they’re not encouraged to pursue hobbies or careers

[@paristiger]

Yep,that was my childhood and if you don't want to do that then you get called a whore

[@unusedaccount96]

i need a cam kirkham reacts to say yes to the dress omg

[@sierracordova]

That would be awesome!

[@ashtonhozian4469]

omg please

[@Loserssd]

TLC in general is honestly just a gold when it comes to react content

[@loocyfer-8098]

Or don't tell the bride!

[@meredithr.8322]

That and What Not to Wear omg

[@markotnanatkapietruszki]

That boy should be behind bars.

[@lizcollinson2692]

Pretty sure it will happen.

[@mushyluvr4206]

@@lizcollinson2692 he was theres a few news articles about the cast - Cheyanne and her husband are still together btw lol

[@lizcollinson2692]

@@mushyluvr4206 and he did go to jail for 2.5 years. Longevity in a marriage is no sign of the health of a marriage, if there is a culture of ostracization of unmarried women.

[@mushyluvr4206]

@@lizcollinson2692 definitely agree with you, i was just surprised as most of the marriages have broken down since the show

[@astara3770]

This show was just a bunch of underage girls getting married and the producers were like "eh nothing weird here" 😭

[@xxJamiexx]

True

[@helpyourselfimbusy5747]

Cheyenne seems like such a nice person, I’m hoping things worked out for her in whatever way is best.

[@wednesday9623]

They are still together with 4children❤

[@elluc266]

I used to love watching my big fat gypsy wedding as a teen but now it actually just makes me sad. basically all the scenarios were really concerning and with such young people too just like this. weird af.

[@Sunshineattacks3]

Same! When I started watching, I was either the same age as them or maybe a year or two older but now I just see a bunch of little kids😔 I feel bad it usually doesn’t end up well either

[@shaycat13]

I specifically remember there was 1 girl that didn't want to be a traditional bride. Her mother was so angry about it!

[@Nahbrochill]

Okay but getting “grabbed” is just sexual assault. Don’t downplay it.

[@OfficialPotato1]

Josie and her sisters ended up jumping a legally blind, pregnant lady and whilst kicking her saying "I will kick the baby out of you"

[@DanteOhNyoo]

The crazy thing is, gypsies in my country mostly start families at around 14years old. It's 'normal' that they have around 8 children. I am always shocked when an 18 year old girl tells me she already has two kids 😭 Sometimes the guys don't even ask the girl if they want to marry, but go to the dads to ask them and then the dads tell them that they are getting married, it's insane

[@izzilarkins3949]

Just throwing it out there that the whole "asking the father's permission" before proposing thing really is not at all far removed from these guys asking to take ownership of the daughter. Both are just vestiges of the idea that women are the property of men in their life, and I think both need to be seriously challenged

[@jaykilkenny5727]

I agree, though asking the father for marriage to me seems just as tradition. Though personally, I'd ask both parents rather than just the father. It makes sense to me anyway because what if the person asking isn't the right type of crowd for the daughter, or what if the person asking is doing it for personal gain? Though I do understand the whole "man's property thing," it can also just show respect to the parents.

[@Aurora_Lightbringer]

It's mostly just a tradition and it's supposed to be symbolic, but yes, you are somewhat correct. It was originally used as actual ownership in a very loose form, as a woman's job was traditionally to serve her family and then her husband once she'd "decided" to make her own family.

[@HerHollyness]

I actually agree with this take. My father is no longer with us, but if any boyfriend of mine thought he had to ask his or anyone else's permission to propose to me, he'd be kicked to the kerb. My opinion is the only one that matters - my dad has nothing to do with it! I actually have the same opinion about being walked down the aisle - that stems from literally 'being given away' by your father to your husband i.e. "She was my property and now she's yours." Again, he's not here to do so but even if he were I wouldn't want my dad to walk me down the aisle, no matter how 'traditional' it is.

[@jaykilkenny5727]

@HerHollyness That's your decision to make. Personally, I'd like a semi traditional wedding. Course I'd be the groom, but I'd prefer to ask my partners mother of father for their acceptance of my marriage to their son or daughter. The same goes for a wedding. It can be very loose and modern, but some things in tact (i.e., wedding march, suits and dresses, white wedding cake) all in all it's all up to the two parties marrying to make a decision of their wedding.

[@me6664]

thats because 90% of "traveller culture" is just old fashioned uk culture, especially chav/ned culture, like guys aggressively hitting on women, having mysoginistic views, having massive families, downplaying and tolerating abusive husbands. go back to the 90s and you'll see folk like this everywhere.

[@stephanielloyd4053]

We just took a puppy that was going to go to a gypsy site. She is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen, and Im so happy she's going to have the best life ever. ❤

[@mikmak2102]

Just “grab” a person up and don’t give them a choice in the matter. Ah that’s worrying.

[@tori-loo]

I went on a weird obsessive binge on this show a few months ago like we do on old TV programs occasionally and I was genuinely so shocked at the culture around marriage/what is expected of the girls from such a young age.. Whilst the boys are fucking about, the teenage girls going on their 'last night of freedom' on their 16th birthdays with their friends. Like tf? There was one where you could just tell if these 2 girls came from a different culture they'd be travelling the world together as best friends for a long time, instead she basically had a goodbye trip with her, AT FIFTEEN

[@TDdelta777]

15:18 imagine you work at that prison and this very random looking guy who just got released is picked up but a huge limousine. 😂

[@EmilyMcCrea]

does cameron realise that vegazzle and bedazzle are not the same thing

[@kleee711]

The way you’ve full named him has made me crease hahah

[@megand12345]

I dont think sa of a child and then owning a child bride should be a protected part of any culture

[@lizcollinson2692]

Yeah Grabbing was a big thing in the show, its basically assault to end up in a shotgun wedding. Because the girls are blamed if it is seen as having ruined her.

[@sybill123ful]

bro wants 10-11 kids but throws a dog in the water when it’s bothering him 💀 actual psychopath shit

[@SzyszkaM]

Christ, poor girl, I feel so sorry for her. And her dogs.

[@katence_]

no way he fuckin threw that dog

[@CharaYay]

I promise if my fiancé did that to any of my pets he would be following them after

[@sabrinabellefeuille6377]

Thank you for giving me faith in the young community. You are very insightful and it's good to see that in young people. I hope you have a wonderful future in videography!

[@hollie-rosekayagil4353]

Even more shocking than this. There is an episode where the girl was gifted a cat by her fiancee. She dead serious said she hates cats, asked can you eat cats. She was serious.

[@Sunshineattacks3]

Wait… what?😂 like she hated it so much she wanted to eat it or she thought it was a gift for her to eat? Either way that’s wild.

[@CamKirkham]

Hello you gorgeous donuts, let me know if there’s any other TV shows you’d like a full breakdown of x

[@anneliese_maesmusic15]

you should do one of those stupid my story animated they are shockingg

[@CoffeeCatsAndALittleDog2]

You should watch Don't tell the bride. Some of the episodes of it were absolutely crazy!

[@idkwhattocallmyacc]

Milf manor is back with a season 2!!

[@Suzy24]

You should watch the American version of this show it’s so messy

[@Aimeejaynea]

Can’t pay well take it away!! Or Benidorm 👏🏻👏🏻

[@ejwills_xoxo]

I was engaged by 13 so i ran away to england i am now the happiest ive been with a guy that respects me and a gypsy family (thats nothing to do with my family) took me in and they love both me and my partner

[@Piffaliff]

That grabbing shit they do is a proper madness 😮 if anyone else done that sort of madness then they would be getting arrested an sent to prison for sexual assault for real

[@darkangelholz]

I'm only up to the part where you're talking about John's family but if you haven't already Google his sister Josie, her and some other family members including the mam actually went to prison/got put.on tag for beating up a pregnant lass and I believe one with learning difficulties from their community. There is another episode with Josie Blinging up a tag she has to wear with gems!! I'd love to see you react to more of these, maybe Sam and Patrick's wedding as she wasnt a traveller but he was but she did everything the gypsy way for their wedding. I think I may have invested too much time in this show 😂😂😂. Lots of love Cam from county Durham xxx Edit didn't realise the blinded up tag was this episode 😂😂 xxx

[@wednesday9623]

Sam and patrick are no longer together she now is married to a country boy and has another child, cheyenne and john are still together with 4 daughters

[@nathalier4065]

Throwing dogs in the river, snatching toddlers and threatening mams. Sounds like a class act

[@concretel10n]

"half an hour ago I was in jail" And in half a year you'll be right back

[@peggy9624]

hi cam!! you are honestly one of the biggest influences on my life and i look forward to watch your videos while i eat my dinner

[@Therealbellagothh]

If someone even put their hands on my dog to pick him up I would be on the news

[@idkwhattocallmyacc]

This show is insane 😭 also looking for a husband at 13/14 is crazyy

[@xxJamiexx]

Childmarriage

[@JosephineA-t3i]

“shitting rusty water in the morning” is wild

[@ETOMCR]

Cam I believe the term is bedazzle and the term vagazzle is the bedazzling of the lady parts 😂💀

[@doylethechocolatelab]

The fact he threw that dog in a lake with what seems to be blue green algae on it is not okay

[@Wonderfully_Wicked6664]

Use to watch this on tlc when I was a teen. And what those kids and mothers had to go through use to scare me. I was only a couple years younger than them. Is this real life, outrageous!

[@nbunnysnowboard]

The fact that I used to watch this and think it was ok… is not in fact ok

[@kleee711]

Nowadays a lot of gypsy couples ‘runaway’ to ensure they’re allowed to marry because they will have spent the night alone together without any supervision so to save face they’re allowed to marry

[@lcoyle1998]

Ngl I'm not saying all traveller families are like that, but literally EVERYTHING on the show is a borderline criminal red flag. Almost every adult man from the show needs to go to Prison...

[@JasminMiettunen]

They apparently do go to prison, at least here both Cheyennes dad and John got locked up for a while

[@lemsip207]

The council own traveller sites on the edges of cities. Those traveller sites need to be as far away from towns and cities as possible. Some have been 'settled' in houses and turned newly built quiet districts into dangerous ones.

[@LLHE103]

As usual stupendous entertainment to watch with my dinner tonight. Thank you kind sir

[@geekelly000]

Same happened between Neanderthall women. "Well, I got a concussion and he did drag me by my hair into his cave but it's culture and I've got chosen. Look at Ooga-mooga with her fully functioning brain and still a spinster at 18 😳🙄"

[@RacingAtHome]

"She's now 16 so she can legally get married." Ah. Brilliant. I'll just put this with the rest of the red flags.

[@sierracordova]

I just realized this show existed and I’m so happy you are reacting to it!

[@purshas2788]

please watch more of this series. I’ve been watching it for years and love it and seeing u react to it it’s actually hilarious 😂

[@grousewithakeyboard]

“It’s crazy how mature she is for her age” woah cam you need to calm down!

[@tori-loo]

Fucking love the dad came out of prison to a glass of prosecco lmao

[@anneliese_maesmusic15]

i love these videos they brighten up my day thank youu , 15 im 15 i dont think im ready for marrage not even closee

[@MayMoment_]

I'm 20 next month and I still think I'm a good decade away from even considering it. I love my boyfriend to bits but until you're 25 your brain literally isn't done developing, so I think I'm gonna wait until then to really wonder about it. The thought of a 15 year old getting married is absolutely mental to me

[@Moonpie90]

'There's a gap in his fridge with cheynne's name on it' the donkey noise I made 😂😂

[@itzholliie]

OMG I WAS ADDICTED TO THIS SHOW BUT IT GOT TOOOOOO INTO 15-YEAR-OLDS FOR MY LIKING 😭😭

[@MayMoment_]

Bit dodgy that

[@Nebulametal]

"I've just finished watching 'My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding,' and I can't help but feel a mix of emotions. On one hand, the extravagance of the ceremonies and the strong sense of community among the Romani people is truly fascinating. The vibrant colors, the elaborate dresses, and the cultural traditions displayed are nothing short of mesmerizing. It's a colorful celebration of love and family that really stands out in a world where weddings can often seem standardized. However, as I reflect deeper, I can't shake the sense of brutality that accompanies some of the portrayals. While I appreciate the cultural aspects, the show also highlights some uncomfortable truths about tradition and gender roles within these communities. The pressure on young women to conform to certain ideals, particularly regarding their appearances and the expectations placed upon them for marriage, is quite alarming. It raises questions about autonomy, personal choice, and the sacrifices faced by these individuals in the name of tradition. Moreover, the way the series sometimes sensationalizes these practices can lead to harmful stereotypes. It's crucial for viewers to approach this content with a critical lens, recognizing the complexities and nuances of Romani culture that the show might overlook or oversimplify. In a broader sense, the reality show format often thrives on exaggerating certain traits for entertainment, which can perpetuate misunderstandings about the community as a whole. I believe it’s vital to engage in conversations around representation and to seek authentic voices from within the Romani community. Ultimately, this show has opened my eyes to the rich tapestry of traditions while also prompting critical discussions about cultural practices and societal expectations. It’s a reminder that behind the glitz and glamour, there are real stories, real struggles, and a real need for understanding and respect. Let’s hope that through dialogue, we can appreciate the beauty of the culture while also advocating for positive change.”

[@Annamarsellaa]

Cam you’re looking so good! PLEASE DO MORE STRICTEST PARENTS ❤️❤️

[@xxJamiexx]

Take over Ownership?! Wtf

[@rizziesmomoring]

enjoying watching this while eating me scan, love from up north xx

[@therpp9183]

loved the comment about call of duty!!!! had me in stitches!!!🤣😅😂🤣😅🤣😂

[@Tones87]

I have BEEN WAITING MONTHS FOR THIS

[@TiniTae867]

Cam you’re glowing 🔥💖

[@rachelbirchall4630]

This is gypsy life is so different to ours . Girls marry at the age of 15 & don't go to highschool they finish school at age 10. The boys finish school at the age of 10/11 & go straight into work.

[@gabrieladerre2862]

2:03 This type of behavior is so disturbing! And I say that as someone that's experienced it, while also being a guy. And I imagine it's way worse for girls.

[@steveb4662]

American here, so this traveler thing is completely unfamiliar to me. All I know is that he threw that dog into a body of water. He was dead to me after that.

[@daviszdirector]

"down there is going to be like a yo sushi canter" is crazy LMAO

[@maniaccentral143]

Gotten to the point where only being called a gorgeous donut makes me feel special 🥰, keep up the great work! I love your videos

[@Annamarsellaa]

we need more chaos crew reacts!!

[@ellie-jaygriffiths9994]

This used to be my favourite show ever when I was little

[@pearlkt]

Jodie’s wedding was insane and the divorce was crazy

[@EllaDeanPendragon]

Normally Cam Reacts is so funny but MBFGW is just disgusting. John doing that to the dog shows he has control issues and would likely do that to her. 'grabbing' is assault in any other area of society.

[@marney_prince]

Your videos make my days better thanks

[@CherryyyMC]

Cam is by far the best KZbinr on this world. Also can you react to Friday night dinner! Love ur videos cam keep going ❤️❤️❤️

[@sienat8665]

I love you mate 😂 your accent (my first language is not English), your reactions and comments? You make my day! Thanks ❤

[@AmyOrtiz-pg7sf]

Just found this channel; it's so funny!! Great accent!!

[@Suzy24]

I’ve watched the American version of this show but not the English one, the American one is VERY messed up

[@Sunshineattacks3]

I started with the American one, but I promise you, the British one is worse

[@cheerfulsatanist]

There is no way, I repeat NO FUCKING WAY, he isn't throwing your kids into the river whenever he gets annoyed with them. But I'm sure that will never happen.

[@PriestessMemory]

7:08 OMG! But also this is why I love dogs the most! They forgive you even if you are a piece of 💩 and the doggo seemed very proud with the big ass stick ❤

[@abbiebeth_]

god i adored this show as a kid

[@johnlaurens5860]

Cam needs his own tv show

[@jordangann7438]

Youngest out of 5 here, just because you're surrounded by people doesn't mean that you can't be lonely.

[@katiestokes6885]

18:01 hey cam I’m a traveler but it’s the sad truth about the culture is that woman will get called “dirty” for being with men before hand even some people don’t like when you date someone without intentions of getting married,(fun fact travellers sometimes get nicknames for random stuff I actually have an uncle nicknamed grease because he likes elvis and the grease movies or even my granddad is called small John because he was short)

[@RJ-pu4tz]

Loved this show, hope to see you make more vids on this

[@jodydiewald]

Big fat gypsy weddings is one of the best shows ever

[@margonaut]

not all “traditions” are good or worth keeping

[@therpp9183]

so the dad is of to the gulag... guess the armed baby aint a team player.. lol

[@Dan-gk5yz]

You're right on time cam 😅

[@LGDT64]

Someone needs to tell Tomska about that baby

[@elc4516]

I live In The us and am not a traveler. But my dad use to tell me I was his property and he owned me. He’s a disgusting pig to me. I no longer talk to him. I’m 27 😂

[@elc4516]

It’s crazy how men or dads can think they own their daughters

[@imlfletch]

yet another cam video to get me though exams 💪

[@SM.Skate.]

This was such a good vid keep it up 👏

[@jeepsthetimebandit]

It's only the same as your dad 'giving you away' in church. He hands you over to the groom.

[@Jenniferlynn6504]

I could listen to you talk all day lol ❤

[@strawberrychangeling]

15 year olds getting married & im 15 and have never even held hands wtf

[@asockworkorange]

I watched season 1 and 2 of this back in the day... WILD

[@lpsangel3]

The way he threw the dog made think that guy shouldn't have 1 kid, let alone 11 😅