@TheEllises

This weeks episode of Funky Friday, Devale and Khadeen Ellis join Cam Newton as they discuss their marriage, careers and the balance for them both.
About Devale
Devale Ellis was born on April 2, 1984 in Brooklyn, New York City, New York, USA. He is an actor, known for Sistas (2019), NCIS (2003) and The Blacklist (2013). He has been married to Khadeen Ellis since July 4, 2010. They have three children.
About Khadeen
Khadeen Ellis is known for A Piece of Me: An Everyday Story (2016), Makeup X Breakup (2016) and The Business of Christmas (2020). She has been married to Devale Ellis since July 4, 2010. They have three children.
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Executive Producer:
Cam Newton
David Ricks
Produced / Directed By:
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Production Manager:
Ashe Kennedy
Social Producer
Briana Lawrence
Camera:
Vashon Revils
Amani Billups
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Troy Hermes
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Brelan Butler
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[@lindseyj2884]

I love how Devale talks about black love being a threat and how black love is revolutionary

[@indiasavage7]

Same

[@BakerneshaTV]

Same!

[@nicolejames3054]

He stood his ground on it too💪 it is a threat! Unity amongst us is a threat.

[@kj7682]

Because IT IS!

[@TheLilly]

And then Cam got the nerve to push back smh

[@epiphanyloa]

I'm so glad Devale got his break in acting. Even though they don't like to be deemed as couple goals but from the outside looking in, I have much respect for this couple - ups and downs included.

[@deykno87]

Stop it

[@williame.7982]

I don't think there's anything wrong with having a healthy respect for a couple or individuals, but I do think it's a little weird when people start to put others as "couple goals" or just "goals" in general... you only know what they allow you to see, and when you try living vicariously through someone else, you can miss certain opportunities in your own life...imo 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@reallife0728]

AS BLACK PEOPLE WE DESPERATELY NEED TO SEE & HEAR HAPPILY MARRIED MATURE COUPLES SPEAK ON LOVE & MARRIAGE!!!!!

[@brittanywestmoreland6539]

I thank God my parents have been a great example. They have been married for 42 years. Marriage is beautiful and being born in wedlock is as well.

[@ruckes13]

I agree 👍

[@gg784]

Dead ass!

[@omifunkemccloud3362]

@@brittanywestmoreland6539 wow Brittany, that's amazing. Can you share how your parents influence you today? 🙏🏿

[@itsroween]

Khadeen spoke facts. She can be submissive to her husband because he has SHOWN her he is the man with the plan. Amen to that.

[@s2ncurai]

That is true! I cannot follow u if send me & our family over a cliff!

[@MichaelSmith-fs4ns]

Also she vetted him as well cause that’s what both sides don’t do

[@lawandabritt3303]

Select the right one with the proper intention and lufe will be incredible

[@lenacoledennis4963]

King and Queen thangs xoxo

[@ericajordan9612]

When Khadeen said about Devale thinking about her day being better, I had to check myself in my marriage.

[@gg784]

True

[@shawnaj12]

Big facts

[@courtneejackson8530]

Same!! I’m just now watching and thinking about what I can do today for my husband to make his day better!! Great advice!!

[@lovejones1897]

@@courtneejackson8530 right me too I’m thinking the same thing. Maybe some candles and just sit and talk with him after dinner.

[@karenthomas6553]

Omg I could not agree more. Talk about a reality check for your marriage

[@qhen9322]

Devale, Devale, Devale! brotha! You speaking on black people and black love the way you did made me want to support you and your wife on every platform! Very impressive my brother! You stood solid and confident in what you said and what you said was all truth! Thank you! #blackloveisimportant

[@higherresolve]

Please have Devale and Khadeen back. This was a great interview. We need more. Can't wait for their book!

[@jasoneley7913]

Imagine living in a world where seeing a fully functional marriage w/ kids is so foreign that its entertaining to watch.

[@Mecctacular]

Say that again! 👏🏾

[@aura5944]

That’s really what it is 😯

[@butterflyygyrlsworld5106]

THAT PART

[@brooklynforever1990]

Sad isn’t it

[@lovejones1897]

This world would be a better place

[@Mupeta.]

When they spoke about how there's aspects of their parents' marriages that they did not want to inherit, I felt that.

[@nepps6766]

Devale Ellis ladies and gentlemen!!👏🏽 I love how he handled the “non negotiable” conversation!

[@sonyag.coaching]

I love the growth in Devale. This is what true leadership, love, respect, and healthy relationships looks like.

[@beautifulba_kmay5369]

I’m excited to watch this! Devale is about to school Cam on a good relationship, and how to be a good man to his wife❤️🤎

[@ORACOLOGNE]

Its not a competition

[@star4110]

Khadeen and Devale r such a great couple. I’ve been watching them ever since Devale said he was gonna change his life w his iPhone and 60 seconds. And to c how far they’ve come since then is unbelievable. They deserve all of this and so much more.

[@kairo333]

Been loving #TheEllises since before the fame. They are still one of my faves! So happy to see them still winning! Wishing them and their babies all the best!!! #BlackLoveIsBlackPower

[@jagirl281]

Since back in Brooklyn day 1 with the two boys

[@kairo333]

@@jagirl281 Yep! 💪🏾

[@cynthiarange5513]

I absolutely love Devale & Khadeen ❤. They are not afraid to show the true reality of marriage. What they are doing is a game changer‼️

[@iyamom4]

I love when Khadeen drops it for Devale. They keep it spicy. I love the boys. This IS my favorite family. I am so happy for the Ellis Family ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@bettaaskboutmik3861]

I love them... the way Devale speaks about black love and how he loves his BLACK wife is amazing

[@GishelleWatson]

That was a GREAT INTERVIEW Cam🙌🏽 Your Growth and Transparency is GREAT🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@callhernetta9708]

This was a great interview. I love seeing happy, healthy relationship’s that can be honest and transparent!!!!

[@itsHappening-ry2ef]

They went Thru the storm cheated on each other the whole 9 before they got to this place ‼️

[@jenniferibe8]

@@itsHappening-ry2ef who told you that? 🤨

[@melaniemartin4203]

Right where did that come from they never said they cheated at all what's wrong with folks

[@pierrechapman]

Amen

[@Wanderluster888]

@@jenniferibe8 it’s very true. After they had Jackson. Listen their podcasts and they have a book coming out

[@tanseybeasley4220]

Understand, Devale is a grown Black man and he will not be shook about his view on the importance of black love!!! Get into it!!

[@lachelle81]

Man…he didn’t change his stance one iota. Love it

[@melissabrown2192]

This couple is annointed. Speaking truth in a world of darkness requires a higher calling than anyone can comprehend. Keep speaking life, light and love. 🙏🏾🙌🏽❤✊🏾

[@cb4664]

Lessons from this podcast: embrace change; you never know how God is going to use you, it’s His plan, not yours. Learn to pivot, if a door closes ITS FOR A REASON. Respect your partner’s vision even if it seems like it’s not ideal for you, and find a way to make it align with yours. Don’t put other couples on a pedestal, every couple has and will have their own struggles. Also submission is simply trusting someone to lead, and that trust is earned.

[@melman4591]

This is so good to see. Love on both sides without being materially motivated. Just genuine love for each other. Just having someone to do better be better. I pray I find this one day. Salute to Cam for showcasing this and to the Ellises for showing us that it does exist. God bless all of you going forward in life

[@SoBeSuchin]

I feel like K and Devale are my family. Love how they love each other. They are truly friends and their respect for one another is impeccable. And they're very realistic! I just really admire them.

[@shannah2609]

Loveeeee this couple! The accountability, transparency, vulnerability. They’re doing what works for them. ❤❤❤❤. Great job Cam!

[@momofhope4235]

Black love IS criminalized!!!! Thank you for telling the TRUTH!!!! Keep celebrating BLACK LOVE, ups and downs!!!!

[@ronniepilgrim3449]

I love them! I have been watching their blogs since RoRo was a baby and now he is six years old. The family is amazing and talented. So proud of both Devale and Khadeen. I love that we got to see the grind and now we get to see the reward. So happy for their book and the show Zatima. Black excellence. So dope!

[@tuniciathompson794]

I really enjoyed this! My husband also wakes daily with prayer and asks God for direction on how to make the day better for me!❤🙏🏼

[@michellem.7097]

#keeper

[@becauseweare1]

I'm so impressed with Devale educating with clear and historically accurate political economic facts. Cultural hype does not translate to political economic power and spiritual wholeness. We can have money and still be murdered. Cultural influence has not and does not translate to less mass incarceration, financial net worth, healthcare, and being brutalized unto death outside AND within our "communities".

[@luvlyelle]

This interview showed me that there are couples out there that has relationship mindset like me. I appreciate this interview to show me there is hope for what I want and what I like in a partner, friend, husband (if it gets to that point). I don’t have to be “married” but the relationship is so genuine, loving and natural that it feels like we’re married and the world thinks we’re married. Like the airport scene lol Peace&blessings to the Ellises♥️

[@Giggles138]

This was such a raw but in-depth interview/ conversation that touched so many surfaces that’s usually overlook. Love it

[@SherG2774]

This is one of the greatest interviews on the channel 🎉 Let’s have Khadeen and Devale - part 2 please!!!

[@kaylatmorg]

This was an EXCELLENT interview. So relatable and touched on so many points. I come from a Caribbean household just like Khadeen so I so relate to how she spoke about the dynamics of her parents marriage and how they communicated and it affected being a struggle at times with her being able to effectively communicate with Devale. I know they don’t like couple goals and honestly I don’t like saying it but Devale & Khadeen are being great great examples of what healthy black love looks like. I’m older than them yet I get a lot of gems from how they are and how they move. Can’t wait to get the book!

[@applesaucetoaboss800]

Cam and Devale two different type of men. And that was highlighted when he spoke about having empathy for commenters on social media

[@meek2312]

Big facts!!

[@jlijahsteel09]

FACTS!!

[@MsLockhart18]

This was a dope conversation. As a married woman wanting to be different from what I've seen and continue to witness of marriage and relationships that I know would not serve me, it's so insightful of all the greatness and growth that I've been following since the beginning of their journey. Thanks Cam for this much needed link for this type of conversation our community need to be opened to. ❤

[@RoseSimeus]

We love The Ellises ❤!! Everything said was on point. They have provided so much wisdom throughout the years and via their podcast!

[@DesiLu4Life]

I love how Devale is talking. Makes sense!! Good interview!! ❤️

[@kashiko321]

Maaan, cam u spitting 💎 " love is NOT bondage, controlling, shackles. It's freedom!! One that will stick with me is "older days couples would find a reason to stay" our generation finds reasons to leave.. Keep interviewing great like minded people ‼️

[@juatinatemple1903]

My ex husband said he felt like I was trying to get rid of him when I told him to join a bowling league or hang with his cousins.

[@belindalindsey7056]

That was so true and it was from his mother.

[@LadySunflower1224]

They now have 4 beautiful son's love them💕💕💕💕

[@brooklynforever1990]

I’ve always admired their transparency.

[@AlieshiaTV]

She loved the intro but I was like what is he saying 😂

[@corkymarie1932]

I had no idea Cam was so funny 😂. This was a great conversation

[@vanessabennett382]

I'm gaining a new respect for Cam and his intellect and realness. I'm a Kay and Devale fan clubbers. Love their Black love!

[@monalisa542]

Couple of the culture: Denzel and Paula

[@sashevolves1632]

I love me some Khadeen and Devale because they always keep it a buck! We expect that from Cam always so all 3 combined was amazing!!!!

[@taylahs.3808]

Devalue and Kay are a wonderful example of true black love. Cam was lost in translation. Jumping from One thing to the next. So glad Devale was able to bring it back. Cam is really trying to sound so profound, but is so lost.

[@brandyeldridge3332]

I thought I was the only person who picked up on this. Everything you said is so true. Not to say Cam is not legit in his outlook and input. He is just all over the place. If he could just stay on one topic, complete that and move on to the next and so on and so forth. Then maybe he could he can relate and be more relatable.

[@kitaboo2245]

@@brandyeldridge3332he doesn’t believe in black love

[@brandyeldridge3332]

@@kitaboo2245 oh, okay. Well that makes a lot of sense. Thats why he couldn't relate or stay on subject. No belief.

[@brooklynforever1990]

Agreed. The immaturity in him strong.

[@brooklynforever1990]

Agreed. The immaturity in him strong.

[@tonataylor176]

Let Em Know Devale 🥰 #theellises4life Hey Kay Kay Also 🙏🏽 Thank you for explaining that respecting each other is not considered being submissive. A lot of men out here don’t have leadership skills in any way but expect someone to follow and submit to them. Like Khadeen stated, when he showed me he can lead….. Best statement ever…. You have to be able to LEAD if you expect someone to follow you.

[@SheniceSays214]

1. Barack & Michelle 2. Denzel & Pauletta 3. Russell & Ciara 4. Devale & Khadeen 5. Kevin & Melissa 6. Sean & Beyoncé 7. Sam & Latanya

[@reflectioneternally]

8. Courtney B. Vance & Angela Bassett

[@kenshirotanjiro6479]

Simp and ciara

[@reallove5116]

Tabitha & Chance!!

[@SheniceSays214]

@@kenshirotanjiro6479 Russell is a lot of things but a simp is not one. He’s a good man. He’s one of the few good guys we have left and that’s why he he’s getting under future skin and apparently yours as well.

[@brooklynsms.erikakane]

I love this couple they have a beautiful marriage and family .👑🗽

[@brandonlow1694]

I absolutely love listening to Deval! Yes, he’s a comedian, but even more so, he’s full of a wealth of knowledge and truth, and he boldly speaks THE truth in any room, regardless of trends and popular emotionally charged arguments. He elevates the intellect in discussions. I love how he distinctively challenged Cam’s comment about “all love…regardless the color.” … I love and agree with Devals clarification… Black love is distinctively different, powerful, and revolutionary due to the history of oppression in our Nation. I could go on for days! Great points made by Deval!

[@nicoleamarie7261]

Such a great interview I love this couple! I didn’t want the interview to end

[@lechellewilliams7382]

Yassss! This interview was on point. I just love them. Please bring them back!

[@hopeselesho4479]

I love this interview especially as a young and very single young lady still just because it really promotes knowing thyself and standing firm in that. Your life is yours and you CHOOSE what that looks like and people are allowed to accept or reject that and usually it has nothing to do with you. Loved this. Bookmarking it ❤

[@gbender8859]

Very good interview. Devale is an old soul and they are a great couple. Very open and honest. Part 2 please.

[@tamekawarren4198]

Cam please don't let your ability to not give a flip, disconnect you from your soul. That will create narcissistic tendencies and disconnect you from the true and living God. I see you son and I'm praying for you. Please don't let this world do this to you. God has a plan for you on another level. You have the ability to speak to the masses for the kingdom♥️🙏🏽

[@carlcasey8766]

Love the convo, Cam and the Ellises r doing they thang💯

[@dawnthompson7743]

Kay Kay really picked a good one. I've never seen a more dedication black family man who really loves and cherishes his wife! #blacklove

[@TheLovely990]

I watch him, his children, and wife. Love it!❤️❤️💐💐

[@KjNooNoo]

My favorite couple, been following them for such a long time and to see them grow and become successful from the dreams they had a long time ago is so inspiring…they always have each other’s back and their love is so deep…I absolutely love to see it and it needs to be seen 🖤

[@changeyourcleats5037]

Another banger. The guests have a dope vibe with dope content and a dope story. Cam continues to grow in this space and this is a great example of his growth.

[@niqbrown1774]

Dope conversation! I truly appreciate this interview, Cam. I’ve been watching the Elises and listening to their podcast for a while now.. beautiful family.

[@laniececarty6972]

Boy I love these two! So authentic ❤️

[@pinkporsche6241]

Thank you for this interview ❤ I love them so much 😊

[@anitrarobinson2348]

Cam, you never disappoint with the interviews! This is one for the books. Loved the conversation and the energy you bring. Peace and blessings.

[@MC-xf8bu]

Modern day Cosbys! Beautiful couple and family!

[@healthystart890]

One of the best most authentic and truthful interviews about love, marriage and relationships…it is evident that you all are elevated to higher frequency…this was a gift to the world 🙏🌎🌅💫

[@patriceiverson218]

Cam the man!! Thank you for this episode. You chose two great authentic people to share love, honest, support and friendship about their life and marriage. That's keeping it Funky and I loved every minute of it!!!

[@jameswilliams3t]

Hello 🤗

[@vannesegreen8934]

Love this conversation! The Ellises are one of my favorite couples I follow… I love how they break down their relationship and how genuine it is! Awesome !!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@Pancake_Bootayyyy]

Such an amazing interview. I love them so much together & individually as people. ❤️🫶🏽

[@valeriebillings7248]

Love them! So down to earth, humble, transparent. He’s doing an amazing job on Sistah’s and Zatima. Great interview! Bravo! They dropped powerful gems! 💜🙏🏽

[@mizzcashmoney1]

Yessssss! I clicked so fast. I love this for them. I've been watching their family vlogs for years

[@alisonassanah-carroll1957]

This was an awesome interview. Khadeen and Devale are each very intelligent in their own right, but they complement one another so well in tbeir walk of marriage. Cam is very transparent! Would love to meet him in person and just have an intellectual conversation. I thoroughly enjoyed this interview! ❤️

[@angeliquejackson2482]

I really enjoyed the show. Very informative and transparent.

[@fabuloustrainer]

PHENOMENAL interview! I appreciate the honesty and openness!

[@miniae48]

Great episode, a part 2 is NEEDED!!

[@TRay_Unveiled]

I just love #theEllises! I love the way that Cam is using his platform!!!! #loveCamNewton!!

[@timsmith1033]

Real talk Cam, u might be a better interviewer/media guy than QB which is COLD AF much success to u Cam. Devale killing it, bro is a superstar n the making, as a married man love y’all relationship and convo

[@suewalker8356]

I just luv the way you luv and make people think this could be them. I thank God for allowing me to witness what a family should be like.❤❤

[@keananmims3685]

Great episode Cam!!!! Keep them coming man💯💯

[@centariogrier3255]

I've watched both parties operate in their platforms. This is by far the best interview I've seen for each party. Cam was very intentional with his questions and Devale/Kadene dropped some monster gems. Vale...much respect to you bro. People don't understand how heavy the crown is that we wear as black men, but it seems like your emotional intelligence (and spirituality) has been your saving grace. Nothing but love bro. Y'all be blessed

[@keeidoeee]

This was such a great interview Cam! I love their honesty and transparency

[@i_amcici7168]

We need a part 2, this was a good conversation. Next talk about the one and raising kids

[@CB-gl5xn]

Great interview!!

[@faziletdrake8126]

I LOVE THIS INTERVIEW!!!! ❤ THANK YOU CAM 😊

[@quanzawilliams4696]

I love the real authenticity of the conversation. Letting your truth be told. Never know how and what this can do to change someone's life. #LOVETHIS

[@MeganAlexandriaSpeaks]

This was a great interview! I absolutely love this couple!!!!

[@gaybrielsmith3120]

Love this!!! So genuine and for a person in hope of one day getting married really enjoyed hearing this conversation and put a lot of things in perspective

[@qowabhoo]

They are so intelligent and insightful. I can not wait for their book!

[@brithegenius]

This was a great interview. Glad I found this video !

[@tylynn256]

I am so excited each time I see your platform Mr. Newton. They are so informative to me. Longevity isn't the goal for me, it's how graceful couples go through the good and bad and how transparent they allow themselves to be.

[@sleepupgamer6318]

I love all these people involved in this interview! ❤️greatness!

[@dennelllancaster3047]

Tik Tok BEFORE Tik Tok - I like that! 😍

[@epiphanypivot6861]

Funky & Fabulous! I love it here Cam! You’re as solid as a rock brother!

[@PamelaSmith-ct7cf]

Loved this interview! Great conversation! Devale and Khadeen, you guys rock! Looking forward to the next time you bring them back Cam!!

[@ashliecraig2073]

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE BOTH OF THEM SO MUCH!!!

[@lorettabradford9024]

Great Interview Love both of them- thanks for keeping it real- and stay that way.❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@betty8959]

What a beautiful life they must live. I loved this meeting of the minds. Great interview!!! God bless you all.

[@r.e.a.lquintessential4126]

This interview was so necessary and wonderful!!!

[@melanietarrio3309]

Yessss this interview is all that! I love everyone's perspective and intellect keep going Cam much respect!

[@antoinetteswilson]

This was so good. I love that I can now learn from the ones I literally watched grow up. I'm so proud!!!