To celebrate 'MATCHED with P.S.', we're giving away another R500 Takealot Voucher 🥳🥳 To qualify: 1. Subscribe to DEFINING 2. Give this video a like 3. Tell us what you makes you go on a second date with someone ❤
@gins_on_skates Жыл бұрын
1. Subscribed 2. Liked the video 3. I'd go on a second date with someone if I am my authentic self around them and if I am comfortable being around them.
@PhenyoBoitumeloKekana Жыл бұрын
I’d go on a second date with someone if I feel like they were real and our energies connect and I got a sense that he is really interested in the things I say.
@Matshepo_Pearl Жыл бұрын
I'd go on a 2nd date with someone if I am comfortable and I enjoyed their company as much as they enjoyed mine 🌻
@ntaolengmoloi1416 Жыл бұрын
Hi Defining fam, I'd go on a second date with someone who has the ability to hold up conversations,and we both want to get to know each other better 💗
@truly_isipho_esihle Жыл бұрын
1. Subscribed😁 2. Liked 👍 3. I would go on a second date with someone who matches my “energy”. If our personalities match, then we’re definitely giving it a second try 😅I don’t like being uncomfortable with someone who I would love to be in a romantic relationship with. So if someone can easily make me feel comfortable and at ease , best believe they would score some points with me. Also, I genuinely appreciate an authentic person, a person who smells good, a person who makes me laugh and a person who challenges my mind😅 that would definitely make me consider going on a second date ✨
@blinkym21 Жыл бұрын
This is the kind of guy parents love to see you walking in with , he’s got the kind of wholesomeness that makes parents smile and ya he definitely looked like he smelt good😍😍
@yolipeba Жыл бұрын
This guy is so kind and well mannered 🥺❤️
@lungileblose2743 Жыл бұрын
He was so nervous it's cute and they both have BEAUTIFUL smiles.
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
Agreed ❤
@londiwengobese2829 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date with someone is good manners and a good character ❤️
@selatswadaviddikgale1049 Жыл бұрын
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@mahlatsemasha2308 Жыл бұрын
I really like how calm he is bandla🥺
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
He's so nervous 😭
@itsnomacles Жыл бұрын
Calm???😭
@mahlatsemasha2308 Жыл бұрын
@@itsnomacles 😂I meant after a while he became calm.
@ninam4029 Жыл бұрын
They’re both so soft spoken pls🥺
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
Beautiful match right ❤
@lexioko Жыл бұрын
Everytime i get on here I’m saying “ncooo”, WHEN WILL MY TIME COME😭😭😭
@elonatamsanqa1311 Жыл бұрын
What made me go on a second date with my current boyfriend was how easy and comfortable the conversation was on our first date. I know this sounds cliche, but it truly felt like I had known him for years. I left that date with so much excitement and eager for the next one. 3 years later, I’m still just as eager and excited to spend time with him.
@SphiweMchunu_ Жыл бұрын
Content yeDefining!! Tell Dstv we are camping this side🔥❤
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
Thank you Zandii 🥺❤
@lifewithmahalia Жыл бұрын
Good manners and good characters are a big factor. This was amazing to watch
@KhanyisileDlamini23 Жыл бұрын
Kateko seems so nervous but it's cute😗💗 when she said:"i can do things for myself too and you're just adding on to my life,i wouldn't want to be dependent on someone."i love that 💗truly enjoyed this video💕 What makes me go on a second date with someone is if our energies connect,we're very comfortable around each other and they have a good character 😭❤
@fikilemthembu4237 Жыл бұрын
He could easily be Okaywasabi's younger brother or am I seeing things 🥺
@jumper4christ Жыл бұрын
I'm loving this segment, I'll sign up in 5/6 months 💀🤡😂
@yollandandamase3161 Жыл бұрын
They actually had a connection 😊but the guy is nervous yho😭 beautiful smiles by the way❤❤
@rachaelnyatlo8305 Жыл бұрын
That "Don't worry, I'll tell you later" was everything for me
@justnikrato Жыл бұрын
Him being so nervous is so cute argh… the stammering has me blushing with my screen 🥹
@lerato_ntsane2942 Жыл бұрын
The guy seems like such a good guy
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
He genuinely is good vibes. He was just very nervous
@leratontsane9250 Жыл бұрын
@@DEFINING yeah he really is good vibes. I think the nerves are understandable though under the circumstances. I wanna see how things go after the second date 😅
@elanaywimmerth5084 Жыл бұрын
He is so nervous, its cute🥰
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
It's very genuine and understandable 🥹
@joymasilela9190 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date with someone? Is, if I can see that they kind. How they treated the waiter, how they communicated with me during the date, and if they were good vibes between us than a second date is on the list🥰🥰🥰
@elanaywimmerth5084 Жыл бұрын
I love their energies so much💕
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
They are very cute 🥹
@naturallybecca4360 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date is Kindness. When a stranger is kind, how they speak to you, staff and other ppl. I watch how they maneuver the conversation. A kimd person will speak aobut themselves but also share interest in you. I watch if they are comfortable to laugh in my presence. Genuine laughter is always a safe and good measure of a good friendship and connection if not more. Aaah actually i can't wait to be asked out on a date just to experience this.
@Mandy_Mandz26 Жыл бұрын
She's so gorgeous yho😻😻😻
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
True ❤
@lifewithsubstance Жыл бұрын
i go on a second date with someone if i feel safe around them , how they speak about people that aren’t in their life anymore and just how they treat people when they’re around me .
@lexioko Жыл бұрын
Honestly, what makes me go on a second date with someone besides them having a clean look and good energy, are the kind of questions they ask me. I’ve come to realise that people want to give good answers to your questions when you’re on a date so they can sell you a beautiful idea of who they are. But the questions they ask you aren’t always as thought through and those tell me where their mind is at and whether we are aligned at surface level extent.
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
Hey Fam ❤! You've got the winning comment! Please send us an email (definersmail@gmail.com) or DM on IG with your details so we can give you the voucher 🥳🎊
@lexioko Жыл бұрын
Reallyyyyy 😭🥺❤️ thank youuuu
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
@@lexioko yes ❤️🔥. Please get in touch asap
@NsovoShevian Жыл бұрын
This was so beautiful to watch😭❤️ What would make me go on a second date is definitely the energies we would've exchanged on the first date, if we are both comfortable, feel safe and easy going with each other then it's a win.
@blackqueen5714 Жыл бұрын
A connection is what makes me go on a second date . It doesn’t have to be love at first sight , but I just have to feel that you are someone I could possibly fall inlove with . If something feels right then chances are , it’s not wrong . He must also smell nice and have a FUNNY sense of humor. Also , a kind man , how you talk and interact to the people around you . If a man is only kind to me then that’s not a kind man . ❤️ #SayitwithPS
@bongiwephasiwe5611 Жыл бұрын
Argh he's so adorable🥺 otherwise happy with the outcome of this date!😍
@mslettiemathibe71 Жыл бұрын
I love them so much 😍 both Gorgeous, fun & easy going ❤
@reabetswelekoma3682 Жыл бұрын
There definitely was a connection between these two, loved this episode so much!
@melanikhoza7225 Жыл бұрын
what makes me want to go on a second date is simply interest, like feeling like you want to know more about this person after the first date but qualities will be being able to be genuinely me around them and them around me. also the conversation must be conversationing mhan😅, there's nothing like knowing you can speak to your person from jump.
@moseskabo1690 Жыл бұрын
Here are some of the factors that lead me to a second date with my girlfriend after the first one...which was 🔥🔥🔥😤😤😤❤❤❤❤ Our Chemistry: A feeling of attraction and connection between us was the first key factor in deciding to go on a second date Cooversation: our engaging, enjoyable important for building a connection and getting to know someone better. Shared interests: If we have common interests and hobbies, that can be a great foundation for future dates. Sense of humor: A good sense of humor and the ability to make each other laugh can create a fun and relaxed atmosphere on a first date, which can increase the chances of a second date. Confidence: Confidence can be attractive and can make a one to feel more comfortable and at ease on a date Respect: Treating each other with respect and kindness is important for building a positive connection. Curiosity: A willingness to learn about each other's lives and interests can helped us to build a deeper connection and understanding.Overall, every person is unique and may have their own preferences for what makes them want to go on a second date. It's important to be true to yourself and follow your own instincts when deciding whether or not to pursue a second date with someone.
@Ms-lb7lb Жыл бұрын
You should win!
@luthojojo Жыл бұрын
When there is an undeniable connection between her and I. The person doesn't have to be perfect but must be polite, kind and considerate. When our hearts connect, the looks wont matter. 🖤
@fungaizireva Жыл бұрын
I want Kateko all to myself 😭😭ndithini bc yiSoulmate yam 😭😭
@rebbekandahuma21737 ай бұрын
Such a cute combination. She’s so chill and calm while he’s a lil bit of a nervous wreck. They’ll balance each other’s energy
@naturallybecca4360 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful episode Defining. This is social media okay. This is emotional entertainment okay. Bless you guys
@ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297 Жыл бұрын
I love this match! I knew it the minute I saw their intros. Aaahhh love is so cute guuuyyzzzzz❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@khanyi_ng Жыл бұрын
He is so calm (interms of how he speaks not the nerves lol) and collected. He also sounds like a really kind person just luke the lady. I really was hoping that they choose each other and they did. 🥹❤️ Love it for them, hope the second date goes well too. 🎉
@JustCaraDube Жыл бұрын
I hope to see them back on the next episode of defining love.
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
Are woman from Gauteng dangerous? 👀👀
@GracefulYvonne Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😭I think ba Strata are the dangerous ones!!
@janetranganai3446 Жыл бұрын
what made me go on a second date with someone was the special treatment that the guy gave me and the detailed chat where i hardly had to ask questions
@Mbali.1902 Жыл бұрын
They so cute 😩❤️ What will make me go on a Second date is how our conversations flows from the first date and matter of connection we had between me and him
@SizakeleMashiane Жыл бұрын
I am very big on energy, no matter how big or small. I would go on a second date because the person made me feel like I don't have to be someone else, but just show up as me. A flow of conversation, and that minute of silence which we didn't feel because the energy already spoke volumes. I would want to experience that energy and space again. That's why I'd go on a second date. I love the concepts you guys always bring.
@anda5864 Жыл бұрын
What would make me go on a second date is if I find the other person funny. I love to laugh and have fun. Laughing together could deepen the connection.
@lifewithntokozo Жыл бұрын
Normalise tagging the blind dates 😭.
@itsnomacles Жыл бұрын
Bathong 😭😭
@KUHLE_MXUTU Жыл бұрын
Please especially guys😭
@ayandamoyo5494 Жыл бұрын
@Kuhle 🤣🤣🤣🤣say that again
@lifewithntokozo Жыл бұрын
@@itsnomacles 😭😭 we need his information asap
@nthabisengtabane8156 Жыл бұрын
Please!!
@lulo_m Жыл бұрын
Wow this is actually so cute 😍🙌🏾 I love both their energies and Kateko’s freckles are so cute
@jenephuti1564 Жыл бұрын
I would go on a second date with someone if we connected, our energy matched and the conversation flowed❤️
@cnezinreallife Жыл бұрын
He’s a beautiful man bawo wam 🥹
@LadyLebza Жыл бұрын
They’re so cute ❤ I have a good feeling about this date
@hillarynkuna7713 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date with someone is definitely their ability to make me laugh and their character as a whole, like them being sweet, kind and a good listener. ❤️
@nomphelomaphingana2126 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date is the present chemistry and to genuinely establish a genuine connection. Also at first encounter, my anxiety always gets the best of me so it becomes an opportunity for me to be less nerves. I love both candidates, and wish the second date to be a success. 🥺❤️
@Naledi_Kibinyana Жыл бұрын
i think they're cute
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
Same ❤🔥
@sinolwethuxakata4881 Жыл бұрын
1.subscribed a long ago. 2.thumbs-up.👍🏿 3.we should really connect ,the conversation should flow and we should find a common ground within ourselves and mostly we must laugh during the date .😂❤️
@tabantjieulenda1282 Жыл бұрын
This makes me believe in love❤
@chosen9758 Жыл бұрын
As a lady I really appreciate effort put into a date and good conversation and if we share the same basic morals and beliefs. Another thing is physical attraction. When these 4 things align I will definitely be keen on a second date with a guy. Sometimes the attraction builds up so if the other 3 things are there, I would still go on a second date to see if attraction will build between us.🥰
@eletuprince1156 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I like that..
@PrincessDlamini Жыл бұрын
Good mannerism, how they treat service providers (waiters/waitresses) and definitely how I feel around them are all the things that contribute to whether or not I'll consider a second date.
@sumeiyaali3755 Жыл бұрын
Going on a second date with someone will depend on the energies if they’re aligned, the conversation, feeling safe around him, appearance (clean and smelling good). Like defining’s content 👌👌
@elonatamsanqa1311 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely cannot wait to see the outcome, a few weeks from now.
@siphosetufokazi112 Жыл бұрын
I decided to go on a second date because there was definitely potential, he was good looking, he's a hard worker, he smelled good too. First date the nerves are always there and they play the part, so on a second date I feel that's where you'll read the person better
@thandowww1289 Жыл бұрын
Them being funny and able to initiate conversation screams second date for me .
@dimphosekonya98 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date is the chemistry of the first date, the personality of my date and how they treat the waiters and waitresses if we at a restaurant.
@katlegoprudence817 Жыл бұрын
Second date Flawless conversation and being respectful at the same time
@babandaku6581 Жыл бұрын
That "bathong wena!" after he asked about her kissing 😂😍
@fundiswazakumba9074 Жыл бұрын
What makes me to go on a second date is a person I can talk and laugh with…connect with I guess 😂😅❤
@bonniembeki9357 Жыл бұрын
Loved how calm he is,very much appealing 😍
@lesedi_m_ Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date is the overall treatment I get form a guy. You have to make me feel like the most special hun emhlabeni. And this has little to do with material and more to do with how you talk to me, how you engage in overall conversation with me. You have to be really sweet🥹❤
@bongiwelanga1706 Жыл бұрын
This episode was so cute ❤ Mental & emotional connection makes a second date for me. The date must feel natural and make me forget about the world
@Adelaide408 Жыл бұрын
Don't forget to update us with their second date xym I love them 😊❤️ Oops their smiles 🤌❤️❤️🔥
@alizwatuko5902 Жыл бұрын
*What makes me want to go on a second date?* If I know on the first day that wow I want to see this person again or I at least want to have them in my life even if it isn’t in the capacity of a partner. The flow of the conversation. If I laugh a lot. If I don’t want to the date to end.
@ivymafalo1550 Жыл бұрын
Just make me laugh so that I can have something that reminds me of the date then you will see me again for a second date❤
@pitsii1383 Жыл бұрын
Argh I actually enjoyed their date......
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
It's very realistic 🥹
@lerato_ntsane2942 Жыл бұрын
Same
@neondou4142 Жыл бұрын
We are here..... ❤️
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
Dankoooo ❤
@Zoey_bela Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this episode soooo much. The energy is everything💞
@esthermpokela5773 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go out on a second date it's the simple basics of one representing themselves in a human factor full of humanity. A person who sees people and respect each individual in their position or state, whether good or bad state. Someone who loves spoiling himself with self care and love as that comes essy in giving to someone else. Letting your cup overflow before you pour to another person. 😊😊🤗🤗🌻🎉. So internal health needs to reflect as I engage with the person. Manners as well to thy self, not to me or for me. Yeahhh I'd go for a second date with such a person I have described above!!
@TLG24 Жыл бұрын
I will consider going on a second date if the guy is respectful, kind and outspoken.
@dibusengmoyo7649 Жыл бұрын
I go on a second date when I feel comfortable with the person.
@amahle499 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date with someone is to give him another shot and also learn his inner self
@Ow-Tee Жыл бұрын
This was really amazing to watch. Re squeezeng in hleng!!!!!
@Imvubu.dablack Жыл бұрын
🤣the guy looks disappointed these kinda dates are tricky when you can't hide
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
When? 🫣
@mzontsundukopolo4784 Жыл бұрын
Them showing compassion ability to communicate and be compromise for the other partner❤
@paballo_modipa Жыл бұрын
What would make me go on a second date with a person is the quality of the conversation we would have had, and the energy I would have received🥰
@mulisaravhuhali985 Жыл бұрын
What make me go on a second date with someone is connection, similar hobbies, likes and perspective
@Adelaide408 Жыл бұрын
Dr love said he's going to check on them re kopa feedback please 🙏 thanks in advance
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
It’s coming 🥺🥺
@Reset_With_Louisa Жыл бұрын
Am big on energy, so if the person’s exhibits positive energy then second date it is❤
@reabetswelekoma3682 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date is being interested in the person & would like to know the person a bit more, just exploring and working on the connection.
@lululekalakala6512 Жыл бұрын
This episode was delicately beautiful, thoroughly enjoyed this episode!❤🌻🌸🌻🌸❤
@NatalieManyati Жыл бұрын
I want the link ya Defining Love. I'm ready to define it.
@lebogangsekwati1331 Жыл бұрын
Manners, kindness and respect. These will definitely score a second date with me 💯💯💯
@ThezoekindofLife Жыл бұрын
Going on a second date for me is for assurance and asking uncomfortable questions.I always try not to get blinded by what I see but try and understand the other person not just their outward appearance but their inner being .
@ruthkamwi_youtube Жыл бұрын
I’d go on a second date with a gent I can have effortless and respectful dialogue with. Someone witty, open minded, fresh smelling, and sure of himself but without airs.
@thatoolga Жыл бұрын
What would make me go on a second date with someone is the connection we had on the first date. Was the conversation flowing, did I enjoy the company and do we at least have a few things in common, then I'd definitely try out a second date.
@helly_b Жыл бұрын
I’d go on a second date with someone if they’ve got a great personality, make me laugh and respectful.
@beautymolapisi6301 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date with someone is a good listener, not a self centered someone and a gentleman
@nompumelelomvimbeli8765 Жыл бұрын
Bathong not me seeing Lesego!Arg😍
@lelethuluu9320 Жыл бұрын
They are sooo cuuute. No, I think nam I'll...
@tlotlosdiary Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date with someone is good energy between us, mutual attraction, laughter and fun 🧡!
@orearabilemokgoko190 Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date with someone: The person I went on a date with is a God fearing man, we were comfortable around each other, had different conversations and got to know each other, we could relate to each other's life experiences here and there, i didn't have to be in my masculine energy during the date, I could be myself around my date and after the first date we both felt like we could turn back the time so that we can spend few more hours together.
@thandiswabusakwe4665 Жыл бұрын
Matched 🤩
@DEFINING Жыл бұрын
Did you see it coming 👀❤
@ngobeniboledimaggie Жыл бұрын
What makes me go on a second date with someone is getting to know little deeper into a person's personality and building some intimacy as well as momentum
@liliyane8031 Жыл бұрын
What makes go on the second date with a person is the connection we had on the first date, how we see life in general, his kindness and he's listening skills 👌 ❤️❤️❤️