Exes Reveal Why It Didn't Work Out w/

[@ThobiRose]

Hope y’all enjoy this ep, it was super fun and quite emotional to do this but it was great being able to share and be vulnerable. Love is beautiful, don’t forget it y’all!!!! Things end. That’s okay. And now we are moving ON ON!

[@delisilengwenya7887]

I love how open and honest you are. And to the producer Noma, I definitely got closure on this one.

[@DrLeratoPhoto]

Super happy you shared your experience Thobi. It gave some of us the closure that we needed. Still love you lots lots.

[@monicakamaphula3861]

I did mommy and thanks for the honesty. 💯

[@sphosh918]

I love you Thobi ❤

[@Bongani_RSA]

Now we can move on 💪💪

[@nomcebobuthelezi944]

This man was looking forward to a break up and he says he was made for the streets and the last time he saw his ex was this morning. This man is clearly putting himself first.

[@diane_paulus]

True📌… he belongs to the streets 🤣 like he said

[@oratiwesphambo5686]

I need Thimna to runnn

[@fhumulaniligege6030]

Was looking for this comment! He likes them together but I don't think he loves her enough to make it work forever

[@nomcebobuthelezi944]

He wants to be single in a relationship

[@skutalinokoyo1272]

Girl I see people commenting that they hope him and Thimna will get back together and I’m just thinking naaaah Thimna should run for her life. This man has clearly chose himself.

[@Between2_worlds]

I’ve learned that it’s important to have a life outside of your relationship. Nurture friendships,nurture familial ties and most importantly spend time with yourself. Find a hobby to just for you.

[@marym1476]

And also having a partner that give s you the space to have your own social life.

[@thecorporatebrokeauntie]

❤

[@mphobrightsemommung7805]

Libho and Thimna are definately getting back together. I think they just needed time to explore being popular and single, but eventually they will realize there is nothing for them out in these streets.

[@MrsMax2009]

i think so too...he still likes her

[@xolelwaganto]

They should just get back together, the spark is still there. One can tell they deeply care for one another. It's normal to want different things in a relationship they should just work on that. Otherwise bona bayathandana bethuna

[@kimberly1084]

We also thought thato and mo would get back together

[@nwabisamarawule3566]

If they ever broke up. I just think the break up was a lie to get the public off their relationship.

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

Truth is there's really nothing in these streets. Vanity upon vanity😭

[@kagisomosete549]

I honestly feel like a lot of us get into relationships for ourselves, by that I mean we dont really consider each others feelings, " I know what I want if you don't then bye" type of attitude, we don't think about compromise, balance, support, and understanding. Relationships are built, it's two personalities coming together, we won't be ready at the sametime for everything, somethings we'll need patience, I guess the question should be , "am I willing to build the kind of relationship I want with this person... This is a dope concept by the way, great episode too.

[@molopomatobole1767]

Thobi got hurt a lot she gave it her all but sadly it wasn’t the same with her partner

[@phumezatshandu7813]

"I'm made for these streets"...ladies, here is a self- proclaimed player.

[@thembisizani3435]

Andimthembi ncam lo bhuti, ngathi he is just stringing the girl along, ngathi girl yi back up yakhe

[@entertainmentt.2435]

@@thembisizani3435 true ,

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

He actually has that look yaz', that "you look like a player" look. He also missed his friends, I think he's not ready for commitment but he still cares for her deeply

[@Nonssss_]

Thimna and Libho are full of games , what he mean he saw her this morning 😭😭

[@upilematululu8292]

Thimna just always seemed way more emotionally mature and in tune with her emotions. Libho just seems so nonchalant about a lot of things.

[@zamilemkhwanazi5562]

I see that too, his ego isn't letting him be emotional.

[@patiencedube1972]

The outfits definitely create a chilled atmosphere, chilled and honest chat. I wish they had designed the studio the same way. Like cute couches and cushions. That would have made it perfect. I enjoyed the chat.

[@qumbupodcast5180]

"We were honest with each other but not with ourselves" I felt that on my 5 years relationship that ended 3 years ago and I haven't recovered.

[@Yassmiinn.]

One day at a time. ❤️

[@qumbupodcast5180]

@@Yassmiinn. We gonna be alright

[@siyamtolo6733]

I could tell that Thimna has not healed kanti she's still seeing him in the morning. That situation always benefits one person, the one for the streets. The other just strings along hoping for more.

[@lifewithzandihalley6512]

Ngl I'd be hurt if I break up with someone I loved and they say they weren't heartbroken... like? You couldn't wait for me to be out of your life? That hurts

[@DEFINING]

Shout out to Libho & Thobi for their honesty in this episode! Give this video a thumbs up & share with us your takeaways in the comments section below 🔥#DEFININGBreakups #RoadTo200K

[@pakowame4737]

Libho he's technically cock blocking us potentials!!

[@augustinekubalo4360]

Now this is the honesty we are looking for. The first episode lacked details, it was too general

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@augustinekubalo4360 Libho didn't give ANYTHING.

[@enhlentuli]

"I wish I had not taken everything he said as truth, and interrogated a bit more towards the end" Thobi spoke with such honesty and vulnerability.

[@beulah_nkosi]

After “defining break ups” we need a “defining love backs” series 😂😂😂😂 because Libho no Thimna👀

[@nickymthelebofu]

True , they will get back together if they haven't already. I'm quite sure they still snacking each other

[@Ngasii]

Hayini😂

[@kiwigirl359]

@@nickymthelebofu snacking each other! Heyi wena😂😂😂

[@ulemuloiseeliasi6547]

Vele🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tshilidzi1046]

😭💀

[@casuallythandeka45]

I love Thobi Rose’s voice. It’s so unique and fits her character ❤️

[@tshepisomashele1185]

You can tell by Thobi's voice tht she went hard in tht relationship and she is still dealing with the pain Libho should just ask for love back nje

[@KaraboMaseeme]

Id really like to see zuki or karabo ... thats one relationship that shook me

[@xolisilendlovu4837]

Same😭💔

[@nhlanhlamahlangu7681]

Who are they?😢

[@bulimakgato4127]

Same yoh 💔

[@sibs312]

@@nhlanhlamahlangu7681 uyakhala kodwa awbazi 🤣🤣

[@pamellandeya9129]

Baphi? Yho they were the 1st people I watched here on KZbin!

[@mynameisgift]

Libho is a walking 🚩. There is ALOT of growing up he still needs to do!

[@refiloe.b]

I realized this during their relationship when they did their KZbin Q&A. He said the 1 million was all his when asked what they plan to do with it. He then masked it with laughter but you could tell he meant it. The fact that they weren't on the same page was sad. But also he's much younger than she is so they're not on the same level. You can hear that he doesn't wanna commit but he also doesn't want to lose access to her.

[@lesedisheleng4609]

I agree with you 100%

[@lungilematsuma8006]

He is 24 after all. He is truly for the streets yaz’ 😭

[@mynameisgift]

@@refiloe.b that’s so unfair. He should let this girl go. Access will only make her hate him in the end

[@mynameisgift]

@@lungilematsuma8006 I pray for the women who will fall for him now. He’s not ready at all

[@orapelengmolefe2395]

You can feel the hurt on Thobis voice, unintentional people will drag you

[@juniormekgwe7479]

My partner and I broke up for 4 months but we were still there for each other and supporting each other. Guess what? We are back together 😅 Libo and Thimna vibes 👀🤣

[@khunindlovu3310]

Thobi's laugh is so contagious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣and I relate to her so well in this episode

[@DEFINING]

She was so honest 🥺

[@musasinazo6531]

He said "I'm designed for the streets" 😭😭 he said it with his chest 😩😭 I hope the lady will watch this since he saw her that morning 😭

[@blinkym21]

Can so feel the emotion in Thobi’s voice 🥺🥺… I feel like Libho is having his cake and eating it too😂

[@nocawangamlana5944]

yes Libho yes hahaha

[@OKRRA]

His cruising 😭😭

[@zinniasharma3471]

@@nocawangamlana5944 he is giving TRASH vibes thou, TO ME THOU

[@ntokiii7729]

I can commend Libho for his honesty ... he is for the streets and why should he lie about it? I respect the honesty ... sometimes relationships feel like jail because I can't even see my friends because mjolo?? Compromise goes both ways and eish it is tough sometimes when you're not ready!

[@maphindikhumalo2842]

Is it just me or Libho and Thimna look alike🤔especially when they smile😫♥️

[@bonolomoitoi805]

I wish Libho & Thimna would've made it , they were perfect together. I hope Libho won't shade my girl.

[@rethabilem4197]

I’m just here for the realness of it all. Breakups come in different ways and forms and just because a certain couple can just cut ends and be grand, doesn’t mean that’s other people’s reality. Big ups to the Defining team for this 🙌🏾

[@kattsomething]

Libho 😭🚩 Remaining friends after breaking up and still continuing to hang out/go places together sounds like it delays healing. When do you move on? We can be cordial, but ditsala? Each to their own ❤️

[@SimplyKeamo]

they not over over, they probably smashing still

[@zinniasharma3471]

Libho is trash honestly 😒

[@MahasheS]

Thank you Denise! Thank you for such a healthy approach on this man, y'all were born for this.

[@scenesbyzena7580]

Thobi deserved a better person to do this with Yho😭😭

[@tsholofelo_N]

I was thinking the same thing. He lacks a bit of Emotional Intelligence (not saying there's none) and seems like someone who isn't introspective that much. Lol She needed someone 'deep' mhan

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@tsholofelo_N I just watched this and I agree. He's so immature and lacks depth yoh 😭

[@boitumelombatha5066]

Sister Thobi🥺🥺🥺❤️ Her voice gives me goosebumps. Love her so much

[@lebohangntlamelle7218]

You’re kidding right😔

[@ThobiRose]

@@lebohangntlamelle7218 whatever weirdo 🤮🤣

[@ssego5208]

Libho is a "gents pleaser type of a guy", Thimna must not give him that chance 🤔

[@LifeupdateswithTee]

Libo and thimna have always been my favourite couple, I hope they work things out.

[@leletumateta6233]

This is a beautiful series marn! Needed.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Leletu ❤

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

These people should just appreciate to have been loved loudly and to the fullest. Some of us have never experienced that

[@Power_of_editors]

Ooh Mtase m even asking myself if i eil ever experience tht in my life

[@Neptune910]

Libho &Thimna are still "dating" 🤞🏽🤞🏽

[@mvuselelo7150]

Breakups are sometimes needed so that you can really find yourselves, if you get back together atleast you will know what works for the both of you.

[@mbalikubeka1590]

Ingaske niposte all the episodes at once 😂😩

[@Bongani_RSA]

Aowa aowa 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Sanele_24]

Siphelelwe lixhala kube Kanye 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tembisanxusani]

@@Sanele_24 😂😂😂 I’ve found my people😂😂😂😂 ❤❤

[@tembisanxusani]

Qha sana😂😂

[@zamantulihlengiwe8338]

uyofika ninii unext week for the next episode. 😭

[@ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297]

Not being on the same page is such a deep struggle in relationships. We need to put on the FULL armour of God for that one🤺. Great episode, Defining Fam.🔥

[@Elizabeth-vu1tb]

Yaaaz man like Libho.🚩🚩🚩 if it’s over, stop lingering around “protecting, khaphareng to malls etc” while you know that your for the streets.❌❌ False hope; let the girl go. And let her HEAL and find herself a man who’s ready to give her what she needs.

[@thembisizani3435]

!!!!!!!!!!!!! He makes me so mad

[@jesss8060]

He’s so childish that one hey 😅 like why is he trying to create an impression that they are sneaky linking etc

[@ntombizodwamacu1852]

Listen, I hear you neh. Mara if she really wanted him to stop she would’ve said so.

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

She will have to make that decision to make him stop one day

[@samkgaladi3064]

Clearly, she enjoys his company. Otherwise she would have told him to stop. She said they now more connecting more than when they were in a ship.

[@Hopecomethinthemorning]

I like this kind of content. Such conversations need to be normalised. Destigmatising breakups (a very normal occurrence in most relationship life cycles)...one conversation at a time.

[@MissLiso]

I totally enjoy everything on this channel. Love how intentional Thobi is, so hope she finds someone alike 💓

[@kokim2237]

I want to hug Thobi 🥹❤️

[@Elizabeth-vu1tb]

It’s playing videos with their exs in the beginning for me!!. 😂🤣 But I love how they answer the question they picked up too. From the bet I knew some exs still meet in the crocket places. “ the spark NEVER dies.”

[@sphesihlemsiza7065]

"wena na" Libho and Thimna are going to get back together. I'm so glad Libho didn't shade Thimna

[@nomandlasibeko4567]

being dragged while you can see and feel that this person isnt on the same vibe as you anymore is so emotionally draining. thats where im at rn and i dont know whether to start mourning the end of the relationship or have hope that things will change and work out ☹😢.

[@ninamugabe]

Pray about it 🥺 I think you should let the relationship go because if you hold on longer, you’re only hurting yourself 🥺 I’m truly sorry that you’re going through this 🥺 I’m praying that you find peace ❤️🥺

[@Channyy956]

So sorry ❤️

[@nosiphombatha4629]

Love and light to Thobi Rose🌹 …May you continue to heal Sis♥️

[@EverHopeful555]

Libho and Thimna will always be in each other’s life!

[@bulelanibotman]

man, i love thobi's voice! it's so different and unique

[@refiloemoloi6344]

Ohh my Thobi, love and light mama 🫶🏽

[@nompilosibiya8373]

I like how Libho explained how his heart isn't broken

[@thembisizani3435]

Thimna must run as fast as she can away from le ndoda 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@Princess_lopie]

Love and light for Thobi❤

[@Princess_lopie]

I really loved Thobi and the Lizwe. I was looking forward to their wedding and I hope they both find genuine partners soon.

[@boitumelombatha5066]

Yho relationships are a whole full time job😱😭

[@Sive_Nyanda]

Libho and Thimna were faves since Love Island 😍❤️ but as long as they’re happy bantase 😊🙏🏾.

[@karny2323]

I'm really excited about the whole #DEFININGBreakups thing bcos I get to relate so much😂😂😂

[@DEFINING]

Few more minutes 😜

[@Tshego_Genevieve]

I literally see Thimna in Libho These two were soooo connected😍

[@ahviwe]

The spark sparked again this morning ke 😅

[@robbylebotha]

Treat your partner like you would your child 1. Give them your all and expect nothing except for them to elevate. 2. Accept that some days you will be bored by them or angry or even just want your own space. 3. Accept and dont regret doing a few selfish things for yourself now and again. 4. There is never a reason for you to make them carry your past baggage before them. 5. Dont be too vunerable around them, people like thinking its cool, but in reality its draining to hear someone complain all the time. Think of a divorce mother whining to the kids beke le beke, its just not healthy. 6. Dont hesitate to spoil them when you feel like it. 7. Most importantly, accept that they might outgrow you oneday and that that may be a good thing. 8. They dont owe you nothing and if they do, its not perpetual. You're not a slave owner are you

[@jabulileleroko7636]

I'm afraid Thimna is the one who hasn't moved on and probably dreams about getting back together. She needs to make more friends fast or date or whatever to help with the process. Because uLibho uthi 'Thank God, Im out of this shit!' apho akhoyo

[@Itsmythimthim]

You know more about my life than I do. You ready for the exam on my life😂

[@jabulileleroko7636]

@@Itsmythimthim Sorry! Ndiyaphapha. You're right😭

[@nompumelelosibiya4789]

@@jabulileleroko7636 🤣🤣😭😭😭 kodwa nawe jabulile!!

[@KaraboMoshoeu]

@@Itsmythimthim ariana what are you doing here 😂😂

[@jabulileleroko7636]

@@nompumelelosibiya4789 😭😭yhiii🤣🤣🤣

[@Lunga28]

Libho and Thimna will definitely work it out , I think they just needs this time apart to figure themselves and they will come out stronger

[@athibooi8661]

Definitely not. He doesn’t love her. When someone feels like you’re too much work! Nah

[@Yassmiinn.]

@@athibooi8661 He's so immature. Goodluck to whoever he dates next

[@ninamugabe]

If “you know where the danger is” was a person, it would be Libho 😂🙆🏾‍♀️

[@cwengamgadle23]

Libho was CERTAINLY designed for the streets!😭

[@jesss8060]

Sonke siyamfuna ingxaki and naye uyasifuna 😅

[@nondumisomhlongo]

@@jesss8060 😂😂😂😂 wow mam! Don’t say you didn’t hear what he said when he breaks your heart.

[@Neptune910]

Mjolo is like farming. We have to play the long game to see the fruits of our labour . It doesn't have to be with the same person though

[@DEFINING]

🔥🔥🔥

[@morgannaill1776]

I disagree with the last part

[@aphelelefeleza4016]

I bet on this guys, a new couple is gonna come out on one of these episodes.🤞🏽

[@Qinisolamabhele]

Exactly what I was thinking😂

[@zinathibusika5463]

At least Libho admits that he’s for the streeets. He might be in Thimna’s life but I doubt she still wants a part of him. His honesty is adorable though. ❤️

[@Chantellmunyai]

I enjoyed the episode. I have learned that we need to be emotionally free and accept the when the relationship is over

[@Ntlentle_]

Oh bethuna Thobi 💔 love and light my dear ❤️🥺

[@charmainthete8497]

My girl Thimna probably thought we wouldn't find out...Welp😂😂😂

[@LifewithTebatso]

Warm hugs for Thobi ❤

[@shereenmakwakwa994]

Libho's last comment of "we're still in each other's lives, I'm able to khapa her when she goes to the mall" he is still sleeping with her for sure 😭

[@MissMandy_]

Idc...Libho was definitely the problem in that relationship😭😭

[@salumzansi]

Before I knew Thobi and Lizwe have broken up, I noticed that Thobi was different, her energy was different, you could tell from her post on Instagram that something wasn't the same anymore, only to find out she and Lizwe are nolonger together and also Lizwe was a bit different, on Instagram he stopped replying to Thobi's comments and on the videos be was different, he was not like he used to be before.

[@mwansachisanga7243]

Luyanda happened

[@leratomashilo5179]

Libho saying he wasn't heartbroken? Bathong and he sure doesn't seem hurt over the break-up.

[@bradleyblarseloma3608]

Thobi's voice it's over the moon..... she's my crush 🌡️🌡️🔥🔥

[@Sive_Nyanda]

Love Thobi’s voice 😍😄

[@lilbemaps7079]

Libho is not make sure with the moving on part 🤣🤣🤣😭

[@ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297]

We are always honest with other people before we are truly honest with ourselves. Hopefully, these conversations will help us change the order of honesty, and that it isn't used against us.

[@tru2746]

sending love and healing to Thobi..

[@nangamsom934]

Uhm, ndicela uLibho abuye after 6 months.... We still need clarity👀

[@yourstrulyshania]

There's still something between Libho and Thimna. Genuine question, how can one heal if you are still in each other's lives? I feel like somewhere along the line, they would either fix things or it would be a harsh reality to the both of them that eish we thought we could try and do something about it....

[@beingbellefluer]

Thobi was honest throughout im not sure about Libo hey … who accompanies their Ex because they want them to be safe 😂 chile .

[@afrobonvivant]

I can't believe this is how I find out about your break-up Thobi!😭 Shows how long I've been off socials🙈 I really loved yours & Lizwe's relationship; it just seemed to "work" You're very right about us humans not being 100% authentic with ourselves and our partners, and the detrimental consequences of it. I wish you love that aligns with the wonderful spirit that you are; love that will feel like coming home instead of a battlefield of anxiety. Love & light sis.🤗🤗🤗

[@justzama3726]

Love this guy for being honest masimthukeni ke but uthethinyani

[@theegyptianqueen-muhriabene]

Thobi 🥺 I don't know her but I think I like her 🧡

[@snowym7188]

Not Libho saying he's designed for the streets 😂🤣😂🤣😂 love the honesty

[@clairegontse4064]

I really love Thobi🥺🥺♥️

[@itsharea_]

We learn alot about love, friendship, heartbreak people sharing they stories love it ke Sana ❤️

[@leratokgang]

Libho “protect her” 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@ndiegoba]

Yoeh Thobi 💔 I hope you heal ❤️

[@busisiweshabangu4716]

I saw libho and Thimna together last week at H & M

[@boitumelombatha5066]

Haibo his response to are you still single? Nkare he is not sure😂

[@NyeziNkanyi]

Been waiting for this. Thank you defining ♥️

[@butterfly5378]

Thobi’s voice sounds like Baby Rose’s voice 😌🔥🔥🔥

[@ThobiRose]

@@missC_wa shem lol

[@claristadiwanashe]

Need an episode with Thuli Nduvie ASAP🤗

[@coco_mmmm]

This guy is a pure red flag

[@sthabiledlamini4290]

Libho must work things out maaan please aargh… they so cute together