Can A Marriage Survive Infidelity? One Couple Reveals All | Megyn Kelly TODAY

[@karaa7595]

BIG red flag: he didn't confess to her until he got caught. And it's obvious he doesn't have a sensitive conscious because he did it 4 times and still didn't feel the need to tell her about it.

[@brianjesse6313]

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[@superboi7028]

Unfortunately most men who cheat always blame their wife. Smh. Yes blame the person who love and trust you while you stab them in the heart.

[@kathysavage9342]

And women who cheat blame their bfs/husbands by saying they weren’t getting enough attention, they didn’t feel desired, blah blah blah. What’s your point?

[@s.b.3853]

Nancy C 👏👏👏👏

[@risumotus]

@@kathysavage9342 The point is, cheating is destroying lives and families. Women or men, they lacking the sense of resposiblity. You have only one life, don't spent it with cheating losers!

[@sabrinabowden-hughes1730]

So true! That's not being repentant or sorry he's projecting in Psychology blaming her for his choices God help her

[@tkaki6029]

Everyone who cheats blames their spouse when really it’s 100% them.

[@RelaxednCaIm]

He cheated because he wanted to cheat, plain and simple. If he was feeling unappreciated he could have talked to his wife without sleeping around.

[@mimiso516]

Can I give you 10 thumbs up?

[@ginalex4life]

Hallelujah 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 that's why statistics say *COMMUNICATION* is very essential and vital in *ANY* relationship. #Period

[@giuseppesarto3657]

Some people have to learn how to identify what really bothers them and also how to communicate that effectively... it's not natural to everyone to do both those things well. Your assumption that everything stated in the video is untrue just cuz he "wanted to cheat" seems really superficial.

[@liehash]

Spot on

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[@JJ-yu6og]

He brought the women to their home. Wow. He did not want to be married. He had a lot of anger and bitterness toward his wife and children.

[@noneyabusinezz6671]

Jojo Jo He didn’t like the responsibility of tasing a family. He was selfish. He put his needs first.

[@RoDelCa1]

... and he didn’t want to spend money on a hotel, he could’ve been traced right there and then.... cheap!

[@kittencatlover156]

I feel he wants the best of both worlds.

[@julietawakened4058]

You don't have four affairs because you feel underappreciated.

[@moonchild8914]

right? you have 4 affairs because u feel overly confident that you are never going to get caught

[@chuckchillout6228]

Why do people have affairs then..?

[@TheEmily1218]

preach. omg, he is such an asshat.

[@wintersweet6717]

Naive

[@Thankful305]

I say Narcissist...rather than an asshat. He kept looking at the monitor and sucking in his stomach at the beginning of the interview. This guy is gonna keep having affairs---that wife needs to WAKE-UP!

[@SniperRose1]

Mark my words. HE WILL CHEAT AGAIN. She's a doormat who has convinced herself that she's stronger for taking him back. So delusional.

[@Dafeelingstudio]

She’s a liberal just like Hillary Clinton stayed with her husband

[@SniperRose1]

Gazelle Barca lol. Many women from both sides of the fence stay with their cheating husbands. Current first lady Melania for one.

[@s.b.3853]

Yesssss! Stronger for taking him back..pffft!

[@pinaopina]

SniperRose exactly! She wants to be in control. She rather say I forgave and let him come back rather than saying I got dumped.

[@blissfulfaith2105]

She is weak that's why she keeps on taking him back.

[@connorbanana8584]

i dont like how he blamed her for it... saying he felt unappreciated, thats his own insecurity that he hopefully worked on

[@motasralucamaria]

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[@noneyabusinezz6671]

Marten Dekker I understand that but did he communicate how he was feeling or did he go jumping in bed with other women.

[@Tameekarose]

Connor Holtzhausen I cannot believe she let him blame her because everybody has a choice

[@dennisbaxter5447]

Connor Holtzhausen women always blame their partners, for their own affairs. Oh you never gave me what I needed, not enough attention, etc etc etc.

[@tkaki6029]

Marten Dekker even if she did that it doesn’t justify his actions. There is no justification for it. If you’re unhappy say so. If it doesn’t change set a boundry (this needs to happen or I need to seperate). There is never a reason to step out

[@MelissaMisinco]

It’s a hard situation. He shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant a second time! He needed to be honest the first time he cheated. Four times that’s unforgivable.

[@dennisbaxter5447]

Melissa Misinco Well it's obviously not unforgivable, because she has forgiven him, so your comment does not make much sense.

[@jessicanotestine]

I always roll my eyes when I hear people say the best thing that ever happened to them is something horrible. Like really, infidelity is the best thing to ever happened to you? Sheesh.

[@renatalivlove75]

I think that's because that's the only way they can justify their idiotic decision to take him back...

[@ginalex4life]

I guess🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ThePossumone]

Yeah I get you

[@tigistkassaye5703]

If they still love eachother and choose their family over any obstacle or evil thrown to break their happy family, then they don't have to follow most weak people route which is break up. Break up is easy, fixing and moving forward is wining no matter what for the sake of kids as well as couples. If both weren't on same page to their future goal breakup could be an option. But here both are trying selflessly so appreciate it.

[@tranellmoore6591]

It takes courage to move forward with someone who hurt you. It’s not easy to stay or leave but judgement doesn’t help anyone.

[@nerdy_swiftie8214]

She says what would happen to her kids if they broke apart.... I say what will happen to her kids if they stayed together. Is that a kind of man you want your kids to look up to?

[@k.g.9857]

He's still their father no matter what...

[@sarcasticallyrearranged]

+my name you can't be an amazing father if they purposely hurt their mother. Mom is also setting a bad example for the kids and showing them what is acceptable in relationships. I still resent and am angry towards my father at times, for cheating and disappointed that my mom forgave everything he did just so we would have a father.

[@Garthock]

+sarcastically deranged I gotta be honest, I have divorced parents and regardless of either one of their actions I made a strict point that I never took anybody's side (I was also an only child, and it happened when I was much older). It was eye opening too to realize that they're just my parents. Just as I rebelled against their control, I also don't get to control them. They are their own people, and I would never hold it against them for seeking happiness in their one chance at life that we all get.

[@ratherbenapping10]

my name you cant be a good father and disrespectful to women at the same time. he is supposed to teach his children how to treat women and how to be a loving honest person which he is incapable of doing

[@ratherbenapping10]

Sarah R i think they should im glad i know what kind of person my father really is. i take all of his relationship advice with less than a grain of salt

[@andymorris358]

To me, an affair is the immediate end of a relationship. There is no forgiveness, no coming back from it.

[@kalenmccoy9695]

I agree

[@Pinkrosepetals86]

Which means u will be better at ending relationships than saving them. There’s more pain in that. So sorry for you guys.

[@santiago3391]

No forgiveness = forever bitterness and resentment. Stop listening to pride. I hate to be the one that preaches religion because I am the furthest thing from being religious. I do take some of the passages in the Bible to help through life. Like in Proverbs, "Pride goeth before thy fall and destruction" I'm a strong believer in. Also, Jesus forgave everyone after they betrayed, tortured, and killed him. Forgiveness is for you, not for the other person. Also, keep in mind that forgiveness does not equal taking them back and reconciling. You must forgive and move on or else you will carry on that resentment to the next person you meet

[@mernaloisbrown5809]

It is a fact that cheating doesn't have to end a marriage and relationship and nothing is wrong with forgiveness after cheating a lot of couple are still together after cheating too.

[@moxr8111]

I can't believe her told her the whole truth at one time. 99.9% of cheaters trickle the truth out over months or years and the betrayed spouse ends up re-traumatized over and over again.

[@palesarobyn6310]

My reality so sad

[@bobwangor3599]

Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. You cannot recover from it. You will NEVER trust that person again. You must move on. If you don't believe in monogamy,fine,don't get married. Marriage is a wonderful institution that's why most of us seek it out. It's human nature. So is the reaction to being betrayed.

[@Pinkrosepetals86]

Yes you are right it’s the ultimate betrayal but so are many things in life, it’s really a nuance issue it’s not all cheating fits one size all. I mean if ur intelligent u can reason with that.

[@mickie4445]

The husband took his mistress to their home. How could that creep do that.

[@cwm8565]

Shallow view

[@raenaprottengeier]

@@cwm8565 🤣

[@elizabethhollandd]

Awww..poor baby, he felt "under appreciated ",so he just had to go screw other people

[@kamkox9273]

How in world did that troll get anyone to sleep with him? His wife is beautiful.

[@elizabethhollandd]

Kam Kox lol right!

[@noneyabusinezz6671]

Lol Exactly!!!

[@rolie8585]

If it was the other way round, would you say the same? Hopefully you're not gender biased.

[@oldyeller3338]

lmao right he just didnt have any other choice he needed to feel better about himself so hurting his wife didnt matter anymore, because HE needed attention HE needed to feel good about himself it only makes sense. (This is Sarcasm for those who cant pick up on it)

[@RockyTop85]

He really didn't take any ownership!

[@djregina6897]

James Bellamy I agree. That’s typical narcissist behaviour. I had an ex that cheated and did the same thing (tried to blame the whole thing on me). The thing is, I know for a fact he felt appreciated because I literally did EVERYTHING someone can do to make him feel special. I also tried to make it work for about a month and a half and after a few extra lies, I ended it. Cheaters will cheat, it’s not worth it to stay.

[@YoutubeGirlie]

What happens when he feels "unappreciated" again? He needs to go.

[@tamilmahal1]

cancer and cheater is NOT the same thing!!!! wth are these women talking about?!? the dude is blaming his wife for cheating and she became stronger....hmmm....

[@zeusarreguin8903]

LovePeace I was scrolling down wondering if anyone picked up on this! Exactly! Cancer isn’t a choice. Cheating is a choice. You make the decision to do one, you do not make the decision to get cancer. That writer, what a dingbat! This episode made me cringe.

[@BlueEyesBrittany]

It is not only the wounds and the betrayal, it is also the health risk and the material problems divorcing will entail.

[@nikkiforever07]

The first one was a year after their first child was born?? Nah you didn’t just cheat on me you cheated on a family BYEEEEE.

[@katelynrose3024]

He's selfish and a serial cheater. He did it once and will do it again. He's all Me, Me, Me.

[@michellep.145]

Oh bull! !! Everyone in any kind of relationship feels at one point or another unappreciated. He is putting the complete blame on her. He will do it again that's for sure.

[@paulettelarose-richards2942]

She is in denial

[@pollyannaprinciple5860]

He's probably on Tinder, secretly dating men and women. Don't pretend he has stopped.

[@djregina6897]

Pollyanna Principle This dude is on Ginder too.

[@PollyGammy]

Not sure. I had an affair many years ago, my husband found out, and we worked it out. We are doing well now, but it takes a lot of work. I never cheated again.

[@MsMockingbird06]

Now we’re comparing the CHOICE to cheat to getting cancer? This guy blamed his wife for his selfish choice. He cheated because he didn’t cope well with the situation going on. Nothing caused him to cheat, but his choices. The honesty needs to occur before cheating happens. There’s no excuse in this case or any other 🙄

[@momof372]

He will do it again, seen no remorse. A very selfish man. Marriage and family is not easy, having kids really throws a wrench in, no excuse ever. Get in or get out. This video shows a man who only cares about his own needs, not his wife or kids. Who knows it was cut. Maybe there is something more to this story.

[@Cupcake_queen1983]

U don't cheat under any circumstances!

[@Dafeelingstudio]

I know you don’t but it’s a choice

[@kevinharrissr5255]

Just walk away. Dont endanger your spouse via STDs or even worse someone being killed. It’s a tragic betrayal

[@Morganbking111]

How many times has any given person felt unappreciated in a marriage? The struggle and daily grind does that to a relationship sometimes. A commitment rises above those personal feelings to honor the promises made even when it’s uncomfortable or not easy. If in fact you are so burdened by feeling unloved or unappreciated that you need something different then it’s likely time to sever that relationship and move on. It’s up to each person to decide what’s right for them but personally I could never accept a cheater as my spouse. I need complete trust in this area and want to give my husband the same thing.

[@popadijaruza5165]

In this kind of situations you can see that woman in love is not as smart as she was before she fell in love ... ZERO self-respect ...

[@teresazephrobsc7281]

Forgive and forget...about them. Abuse, addiction, adultery are my three deal breakers.

[@alanhindmarch657]

I had an affair after 13 years of marriage and 2 children. The other woman’s husband found out first, then I owned up to my wife. When her husband came to my home to blame me for everything, my wife sent him away telling him that it takes 2 to have an affair and sort his own life out. To cut a long short, my wife and I are more happier now and have been married for over 40 years. The other woman, had another child to her husband and is still with her husband 27 years after the affair. By talking to each other, explaining why, not making excuses and getting your partners trust again, your relationship can be stronger and more loving.

[@amygee778]

Hello everyone!! This guy cheated cause he felt underappreciated because she was too busy with their children. Geez. She should have put him first like he wanted her to. (Totally being sarcastic) This guy is just a cheater and he will always blame it on something else.

[@lilmakori]

I wish women would cheat back or just leave.

[@dennisbaxter5447]

lilian makori is that the other way around too,or just that women are perfect, and men are not???

[@dennisbaxter5447]

lilian makori I know you think women are perfect, but in the future, if you ever cheated, and regret it, I hope you dont mind your then partner, saying sorry you have given me permission to cheat on you, and leave. According to your statement, you should not ask for forgiveness. Don't say you never would cheat, you might not, then again you might, who can foresee the future. Men and women are not perfect, yes both. Ever heard the saying, be carefull what you wish for?

[@CookingItAllWithYasmin]

It's better to just leave because honestly doing the same thing as them is just going make things worse and defeintly not worth your self worth .

[@evelynmarx6212]

I cheated back. You welcome

[@lilmakori]

@@evelynmarx6212 good for you

[@allaroundangler8107]

TBH, one of the greatest advice my mom ever gave me, don't really know if she meant it 100%, was do not get married til your 35 years old. Just so happens that I was 35 when I got married to my beautiful wife. I got all of that stuff out of my system in my youth with my bachelor days. I can honestly say that I have married the woman of my dreams, and I honor, cherish, and lover her everyday I am on this earth.

[@luv2cook5]

AllAround Angler it doesn't make sense how you had to get it out of your way..the temptation is always there

[@siobhan1245]

Bla bla bla

[@cynthianolder8587]

Sometimes people don't have a lot of wild oats to sow when they are youths, and they actually can be ready for that one person That wasn't me, but there are some people like that

[@PS-qn4oz]

Nice! :)

[@RockyTop85]

So she gets all the baggage from those you slept with, who you didn't love?

[@momofboys2822]

He was wrong absolutely Wrong. But at the end of the day he admitted the 4 affairs. He could have kept it a secret but he didn’t. He was open and honest and worked hard to show her that he wanted her and that he wanted to earn her trust back. She chose forgiveness which is the hardest and most selfless thing she could have done. I applaud them because they have their family together!! Their marriage was worth fighting for❤️

[@BlueEyesBrittany]

I do not know how I would have dealt with the problem but one thing is sure is that I would have been scared for my health firstly and mostly secondly I would not be able to trust the person again. Both reasons why I prefer to remain single and abstain from relationships.

[@christina2311]

His eyes look empty. He is likely a narcissist. It makes me sad how some women continue to stay with someone who doesn't value them, when there's better out there. Kids sense when their parents are miserable, and his affair with leave lasting marks on his wife and children.

[@ikid2groove855]

Lol this kinda things never work out- she will never look at him the same way

[@debracolter4693]

Well at least she will have a clear conscious if he does it again at least she will know that she really tried before calling it quits. Then there will be no guilt on her part and she can get on with her life.

[@ghopkins7928]

@@debracolter4693 yes

[@lakenziecrawford7142]

He cheats on her, then blames it on her, then she takes him back... brilliant.

[@wintersweet6717]

I wonder if she is or was a stay at home mom. Dependence on him financially.

[@hairdresser1300]

I wondered that too

[@pantaloon2473]

I would have dropped him the minute i knew he was cheating lol

[@GB-ic1im]

The double standard: A man who gets cheated on would most likely NOT take that woman/wife back, as she profoundly hurt his ego (extremely important for a man), and most people would agree that it is the right thing to do. Also, a man knows that he can move on and do better. On the other hand, a woman who gets cheated on may feel the pressure to forgive her husband just to save the marriage (better said, the illusion of a marriage). It is incredible how there are SO many women who do NOT see their value (probably the result of a profound and very hidden low self-esteem) and let themselves be disrespected by their "husbands (if we can call them that way) and how society can promote this!

[@roxannemccarthy45]

ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER BOO!

[@Dafeelingstudio]

9-10 yeah sadly

[@ccc-fd3ls]

yes true

[@suepost9026]

4 affairs! Are you kidding me.What is wrong with you. Hes a compulsive cheater and wont change.How can she ever trust him again. He is so selish, and has excuses that in a way hes blaming her for it. How can you have a marriage when you have to constantly worry if you spouce is happy or not. You have to make your own happiness. Its not your spouces responsibility to build you up constantly so youll be faithful. Shes a fool to trust him . 4 affairs in 8 years of marriage is crazy.! It would only take 1 and my husband would be out the door.

[@BethCampbell-b9c]

For anyone who thinks about cheating, and have kids, Before you cheat just think how you’d feel if someone did this to your daughter, or son! And yes I know of what I’m saying... I was the spouse who was cheated on.

[@NoCoIntelPro]

Cheaters are narcissistic and for the most part lack a conscience.

[@ellie5901]

It seems that time has proven that marriage was such a double standard, i.e. the women couldn't afford to leave home or stand up for themselves. Its been going on for a long time, the business trips, the proffesions that allow plausibility for the lies, and the cheating. Woman still have a long way to go in terms of woman's rights, and to be treated with the respect they deserve.

[@TheBRATTYrosi]

It’s destroyed me....multiple affairs ... I always kinda knew but wanted him to be better than that....so I convinced myself I was wrong...idk how to forgive .... it’s literally consumed my life and I’m so lost at this point... 😖 Ppl don’t do this to your spouse it never stops hurting , you just learn to live with it.

[@hairdresser1300]

One day this will all just be a memory.TRUST ME. Please move forward . You'll only get stronger and wiser Betzabe and you'll be able to help others

[@laurelflint1866]

It's been 2 years since you left this message. I hope that you've found a good therapist for yourself & are healing. God bless you

[@jayda3335]

Im just going through it! I am consumed with the thought s of my wife cheating. I forgave her but when I see her laying next to me all I can think about is that man on top of her! Help!!!

[@enalexiis]

@@jayda3335 Currently going through it, stay strong, seek professional help/therapy but dont fight it alone. It can be too much

[@enalexiis]

I feel you on that and I hope you’ve found/feel much better since this was 3 years ago. I’m currently living this just right now and I haven’t feel as lost as I do right now, but just got to take it a day at a time

[@ladysmith7747]

I have watched a few of these videos and it is always that the husband cheats and the wife forgives him. Does that mean that women don't cheat? Does that mean that men don't forgive? Does that mean that there is a taboo to being open about women cheating and men forgiving? Why the double standard? This is 2018.

[@jmkbee5334]

Liar Liar! He took the affair partners to their matrimonial bed yet denied it. I strongly believe he will cheat again. To think that he cheated because he ‘felt unappreciated’. There is no reason good enough to cheat.

[@CarolKegel]

Just found out my husband of 17yrs, who nursed and stood by through addiction, and a terrible accident, has been having an affair for over six months. I feel like I want to die!

[@ChrissieLatham-w2c]

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I know just how you feel, I am going through the same thing right now. 9 Months ago I found out my husband of 35 years had an affair for 5 months, emotional and physical. I also feel like I want to die. If I had the guts, I would have killed myself. I wish you all the best, and just know you are not alone. Hugs ♥

[@josegallegos1713]

The problem is that when good people is cheated on, they will feel an obligation to do the "rigth thing" and confuse that with staying. Dude, the right thing to do after infidelity is to have dignity, value yourself and move on.

[@danielpaul7736]

I was with my now ex husband since we were 15 yrs old for 27 yrs but 17 yrs into our relationship/marriage he cheated on me for the first time and it was devastating, but I stayed and we worked thru that affair. However over the next 10 yrs he ended up having 5 affairs that I know of (and I don’t know how many others that I didn’t know about). I gave my everything and we had one daughter that was 9 at the time this all began, at the age of 18 I found out about his last affair, that was the breaking point I couldn’t do this anymore, I had lost all respect for myself and it damaged my daughter more by staying than had I left sooner. I can’t go back and change things now but in divorce I lost everything, the life i was used to, my best friend & and all I had ever known. I do agree you shouldn’t just walk away but infidelity is a deal breaker now for me. I cannot trust a man again at this point because of what the one I trusted most and said he loved me did to our marriage for over 10 yrs. My daughter came to me after all the divorce was over, she said she wished I left her dad when she was 9 because it affected her in ways I can never go back and change and that affects it had on her, that breaks my heart every day. In conclusion, my ex husband raced to the alter 3 months after our divorce file and married the last girl her cheated on me with. We have one life, I feel that you need to take care of yourself and your kids first, if you are with someone that doesn’t respect you and the family you built then don’t stay. I was able to find out all this through the help of a hacker. Ciaberhacker2019 @gmailcom. I will forever be grateful to you for helping me expose him. I recommend him to anyone.

[@TroyP20]

He should have stayed single or at least told his wife, hey can we try something different

[@debrap947]

Sorry but I am of the mind and experience because of my first marriage...if they cheat once they will cheat again. I can't tell you how many times my former husband cheated...we have been divorced since 1994 and he has never owned up to cheating even once. After we were divorced half a dozen people came to me about how many times with several different women he cheated on me. My current husband is one in a million and would never betray marriage that we have worked so hard to build for the last 21 years. I do wish them all the best...never say never!

[@gal0982]

We all have our boundaries and values. For me, I could and would never take back a cheater at all. I’ve been through it and for me, it’s not worth the unhappiness and heartache of trying to make it work. There are far too many people in the world and so little time to enjoy your life. I get about kids but kids are better off in two homes that are happy than in one that is miserable.

[@BlueEyesBrittany]

I am ever so glad I never married when I hear all these stories and having experienced what I did.. At least for health reasons but emotional and material ones as well .. I come from a broken family so I know what the deal is all about.

[@samd5259]

An amazing woman, may God bless her.

[@narayani2357]

Hw do i know my husband is cheating,he deletes all messages,bt I hv my doubts

[@nancyparra5741]

Question six yrs later dod he cheat again

[@katierogers2206]

How selfish to cheat. Especially on a new mum! A woman who's carried your child! What's wrong with people. His wife is beautiful. Nobody deserves to be cheated on.

[@dandybigherm2336]

People will say “He cheated because he wanted to.” But on the other hand women cheat and say “I felt under appreciated and like you weren’t giving me attention.” Then everyone is supposed to feel sorry for them. Honestly I do believe people cheat for many many different reasons. But if someone wants to work on their relationship, hey who am I to judge. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Blando7887]

The betrayer MUST show a profound amount of genuine regret, shame and accountability

[@MrTurururu3]

This could have been me, all thanks to mansard security for helping me find out earlier about all of it!

[@LuBre]

You "feel underappreciated" so instead of sharing your emotions with your wife you betray her (4 times) and bring other women in your house? The same house where your kids live in? That guys will do it again, sooner or later.

[@emmalorenz7653]

If there's problems in a marriage, or any romantic relationship, talk to your partner about them. Or if you just don't want to be in that relationship anymore, then just end the relationship. Cheating on them will not solve or fix the problems, it just makes things worse, people will look at you worse, and then if or when the relationship is ended it will be far worse than having had just ended the relationship before cheating. If you have children with that person and you're worried ending the relationship will affect them, it probably will, but it would be alot better than if you cheat on their parent, are cheating and continue doing so, or find out you're partner has or is cheating but continue the relationship for whatever reason or for however long. It will just be better for all parties involved. And if you're someone who has been cheated on or are still being cheated on, and you're still in that relationship because you think you can work it out, or he/she will/has or can changed or any other reason, don't, because if they had wanted to work it out, really wanted to work it out, then they wouldn't have cheated in the first place. That means they no longer care about the relationship, and staying won't do you or anyone any good. Or if you're staying because there's children involved, still no excuse, it won't do them any good to grow up with a cheating parent or a parent that takes it and stays.

[@0817sweetstacy]

Marriage isn't perfect! I applaud this Woman. She is obviously a Fighter and a Strong woman. She could have just left him but She decided to Fight for their Marriage and Family and so did He. If more married couples worked on Their problems like this One, there would be a lower Divorce Rate! Much Respect to Both of You!

[@ratherbenapping10]

TruthSeeker08 i dont agree you sound like a doormat no offense. if someone doesnt respect you now why would they respect you later especially if you stay with them?

[@0817sweetstacy]

ratherbenapping 10 Good observation. Guilty as charged actually. Thank you for pointing it out. I should point out to you that it's rude and now I'm in tears. It's really impolite to put others down when you: 1st) don't even know it's true. 2nd) Mean to harm their feelings. That being said I'm not talking about myself. I was simply giving this woman credit for sticking by her husband. In a marriage you should try everything to work it out before divorce!! (I learned this the hard way.) She stuck by him and everything worked out! 🤔 I don't understand why you have a problem with this?! I also don't understand why you feel the need or right to comment about my, or anyone's personal life just because I posted a comment?!!! My comment was not rude or disrespectful. Can people just post their opinions without being judged or called names?! I'm guessing your Mother didn't teach you about morals and respect for others.

[@Tameekarose]

TruthSeeker08 you do sound like a doormat

[@Tameekarose]

Yolanda Mtintsilana You cheat on me the marriage is over

[@ZeeZee11111]

Retarted comment hahahaha

[@heidi196]

I had same thing happen but he also blamed on me. Which is almost as bad as cheating itself

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Heidi 19,you are absolutely right 🤙🤙 🤙

[@Trishandherhome]

She is beautiful inside and out.

[@mimiso516]

Possibly, they can if it is a one-time thing' But 4 times- no way. Guy has inferiority problem and will always need a woman, any woman, to stroke his ego. He will cheat again. (and in today's climate of sexually contracted diseases it could be fatal for the wife)

[@pennyschild6131]

She’s right forgiving does take a weight away.

[@pieterviljoen1257]

He rationalizes his problem He does not own the mess I doubt that he understand the mess he created.

[@ArshadAdventures753]

That lady made a terrible decision, her husband deliberately cheated on her, he's not worth forgiveness.

[@Cinder1987]

Most men will cheat if they have the opportunity to. This applies to many women as well. People get bored which is one if the main reasons they cheat. Sadly, boredom in the bedroom makes people stray but there are other reasons as well.

[@wingasuncion5794]

it;s true. You can come out of this being the best person you can be. God will make sure of it if He is in your life.

[@DWhite-ys7cy]

What amazes me about people who leave comments on matters like this is their lack of understanding that marriage is not something to be easily discarded due to a few mistakes. We don't know the couple's struggles, so let's encourage them to work through this difficult season. Marriage takes effort, and we shouldn't encourage people to run when things get tough. True love isn't something you can simply turn off.

[@jenniferalvarado3672]

Haven’t even watched this yet. I’m going to go ahead and be a judgmental b**** and say he’s a narcissist. Carry on. Watching now...

[@skyesmith8735]

He's blaming her for the affairs he had by saying he cheated because he felt she didn't appreciate him and was taking advantage of him.... that's rubbish. And then he says now she knows what she has to do to make me feel appreciated. That's abuse. "I cheated on you because you weren't appreciating me enough and you need to change your behaviour and show appreciation for me in the ways I have decided so I wont cheat on you again".

[@TS1207-g9y]

I see all these comments saying he "blamed" his wife for the affairs. I didn't see him blame her. I saw him saying what he was feeling at the time that influenced his decision making. The wife (or husband) is usually never to blame, but one can't deny that their behavior can, and usually does play a part in people straying. Does that justify his actions? Absolutely not and I bet this guy wouldn't say it did. But let's not pretend that there aren't two people in the relationship who are responsible for at least trying to satisfy their partner's needs.

[@joannwilderman8921]

The blame game. So sick of it..

[@itsjustmyopinionbut1671]

Agreed, such a double standard. 9 countries where women are killed for even a friendship with another man while she is wife number 5 for her husband.

[@kathleentwomey8431]

It's their relationship.

[@sakuraogami6885]

It’s their *toxic* relationship.

[@haunted_lunchbox]

Nope, I couldn't do it. This man is so selfish & pinned it all on her. He'd be out on the curb!

[@markluis8473]

The Megyn Kelly today logo looks like the north face logo

[@joanofarc1470]

Imagine the power he has she's asleep at the wheel

[@carolinegutierrez8236]

:(

[@jenniferalvarado3672]

Yep. I stand my assessment. He’s a narcissist.

[@erikarios7237]

He is blaming her for his insecurities and his choices. Not a stand up accountable man.

[@troll23-troll23]

Why do affairs happen? "I think it is your own human frailty, weakness, not doing your homework on your inner life in the relationship, that you are vulnerable to an invasion." (Diane Lane in an interview - see DVD - about the movie "Unfaithful" with Richard Gere). It could not have been said any better. Further reading for those who are serious and trying to understand: Patrick J. Carnes "The Betrayal Bond".

[@kitkat3155]

He brought them into the home because he got off on it. Disgusting. And she is teaching her daughters that it’s ok for a man to treat you like this.🤢

[@Em-vv8jr]

If a man is capable of confiding in a mistress and has the guts to even bring her to their home, he is capable of confiding in his Wife. He just wanted other women.

[@CraigsOverijse]

Selfish man he need this he needs that and he’s not owning any responsibility that he caused her pain in that statement. Forgiving people who wounded you this hard it is really hard and these women are awesome for being able to do this.

[@Carylina1]

So she was required by him to change and appreciate him but what did he need to do/change? Nothing it seems. This is unsatisfactory.

[@cnarlteam4814]

Dan and I met in a way even romantic comedy writers would roll their eyes at (you can read more about it here). In 2013, I was studying abroad in England for a year, and he was a British student at the same university. We met through mutual friends at a Halloween party and started dating after that. That eight month time span was the only time we’ve lived in the same town, during our almost seven year relationship! Since then, we’ve been in a long distance relationship. I’m not going to lie, it was rocky at the start, and we actually broke up for a few months. A 5 hour time difference is tough for anyone, and at 20 years old, that was a huge commitment. We weren’t very good at being broken up, though, and after only a few months we got back “together” - even though we were 4,000 miles apart. In 2015 I moved back to England, where I lived for the next three years, but we were still long distance. With an hour’s drive between us, though, that didn’t seem bad at all. Due to visa, health, and career reasons, I decided to move back to the USA in 2018. It’s been a lot easier doing the 4,000 mile distance now that we are older and more experienced at this whole crazy thing! Moreover I was able to track his phone activities using H24HRS🪐NET. Totally untraceable, cheap and anonymous. Let him know I referred you.

[@jlynnd1616]

Survive, maybe. Thrive, definitely not. People can lie to themselves and say they can get past it. But the minute your spouse is not home when they say they will be, or any other similar behavior, that seed of doubt will always be there. Couples just go on to co exist after infidelity if they choose to stay together. But things will never be the same. Physical abuse and infidelity are two things you can never come back from.

[@brittanyjones8656]

I would forever be suspicious and not trusting. I would be done

[@arfriedman4577]

Cancer is not an affair. No comparison.

[@Kyliersmom215]

Lol. She's going to cheat on him this time around. (And she just said they joked about her trusting him, smh.)

[@ontherockswithsalt560]

Cheaters tend to also be narcissists. They need supply. If wifey isn't good supply he will find supply elsewhere.

[@hairdresser1300]

Yes...best short and simple reply on this page. Folks need to educate themselves about narcissists. Plenty of utube education on this subject

[@oliviamae3281]

Bless her, she's way too good for him, he's punching way above his weight and he knows it. If the cheater minimises an affair, get f*****g rid. He's a jerk.

[@patricadyson778]

What a beautiful woman. She could do better.

[@SilverScreenJean]

She is beautiful- he is a dirtbag- she needs to move on and find someone better.

[@RachelEvolve]

Leave him.