Can Husband Use Wife's Money in Islam? | Nouman Ali Khan

In this video, Nouman Ali Khan discusess the financial rights of Muslim wives over their husbands. He eloquently underscores the husband's sacred responsibility to provide for his wife's fundamental needs, encompassing food, clothing, shelter, healthcare, and more. Khan's insightful explanation emphasizes that Islam places the onus squarely on the husband's shoulders, emphasizing that the wife is not under any obligation to contribute financially to the household. However, he also clarifies that should a wife choose to contribute, it is her prerogative. This video serves as an invaluable resource for Muslim women seeking to deepen their understanding of their financial rights within the framework of Islam. Moreover, it extends its reach to husbands, offering them a profound insight into their financial responsibilities towards their wives, fostering a harmonious and just family dynamic.
Nouman Ali Khan's video on the financial rights of Muslim wives offers a bridge to greater comprehension within the Islamic community. By elucidating these principles, he underscores the importance of equity and respect in marital relationships, fostering an environment where both partners can thrive and fulfill their roles without ambiguity. For Muslim women, this resource empowers them with knowledge that can help ensure their financial well-being and security. Likewise, for husbands, it serves as a guidepost for embodying the principles of care, support, and responsibility in line with Islamic teachings. In essence, this video contributes to building stronger, more harmonious Muslim households that adhere to the values and principles of Islam, promoting mutual respect and understanding between spouses. (#Nikkah #Marriage #Love##islamicvideo #islamicmarriage #islamiclecture #islamicmotivation)
Video: Nouman Ali Khan (Bayyinah Institute)
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[@tatijelly]

Please pray for my husband. He is struggling financially, so far I was supporting our family, he fell into the trap of drugs,then he got mentally ill, it was the most horrible, nightmare,thank God he is feeling much better, I pray every day for him to find the strength that God planed for him💪🏼🤲🏼🙏🏼

[@DeenandDuniya02]

You are such a beautiful soul sister may Allah grant you Jannah ameen and make allah allow to complete recovery ameen

[@tatijelly]

@@DeenandDuniya02 thank you, but we see in others what we have inside us, which means you are a beautiful person too🤍 thanks a lot for your kind word it means a lot in times like this 💓💓💓💓 bless you,we need more people like you

[@Floyen-tv3hl]

I am sure Ustadh doesn't mean the wife can blow away her husband's money as she wishes. She has a right over his money to fulfill her basic needs but not waste it on useless stuff

[@MalcomHeart]

What are these "basic needs"? Can she spend his money despite his will? What if she wants x hair shampoo but he buys her y shampoo which is cheaper, as he is trying to make ends meet? All the cute Imams who keep promoting this type of green light to wives fail to acknowledge that it's MOSTLY all about wives desire to have and possess worldly unnecessary stuff. They encourage wives to do the impermissible without regard to our today's family crisis stemming mainly from FEMINIST Muslim wives claiming their so-called rights!

[@mizgenius3363]

The Ustad meant exactly what he is saying. He is clearly talking about gifts and beyond just the basic needs. If you are not prepared to spend on your wife then you have no business getting married and ruining someone’s life.

[@youngcoder4721]

​@@mizgenius3363if you are a gold digger marry a sugar daddy like Donald trump. As for money Allah has mad it clear husband is entitled to half of wife's wealth in inheritance and hazrat Muhammad took money from hazrat khadija. All these perfect preservation of quran myths are created to impress westerners l.

[@nigahamster.-.9053]

@@mizgenius3363well wives should have money for their husbands aswell if they do

[@mizgenius3363]

@@nigahamster.-.9053 well, it’s Allah’s rules that the husband provides and pays for everything and a wife’s money is only her’s. Take it with Allah, if you have any issues.

[@mariyausman9418]

Well this is the real man talk and understanding of evng, but some man are stingy or mommy boys, they don't know how to treat woman, ask her to pay bills, solve many issues, legal, financial or or.put them problems on woman/wife head unfortunately 😮😢

[@riyaadrhoda3990]

It doesn't matter if you wife makes ten times more than you. You are the one responsible for providing all the basic necessities such as shelter, food and clothing. If she wants to help out that's her choice. The problem usually starts when the husband becomes dependent on his wife's salary. It should be made clear that as the husband you are fully responsible for the maintenance of the family. You should be able to cope without her salary and that should be agreed upon right from the start of the marriage.

[@mjb_mohd]

So a man has to earn for everyone, hut a woman can earn only for herself ??lol😅

[@SamPathan_69]

Yaah Rabbil Alaameen Ameen your servants are the salt of the World without of them we are lost and ruined they show us the the straight path Yaah Rahmaanir Raheem bless them always MashaAllah Ameen 💕🌺🌹🌸

[@kimberlywallace6148]

Well I can tell you that my Moroccan husband is a thief! I’m American, living in Morocco and my husband has never provided for me financially and has repeatedly stolen money from my bank account. This is a disgrace in any culture! He has never worked since we married and blames it on low wages in Morocco. I worked as a high tech RN in The USA, saved money…was in a near fatal car accident with my mother while home visiting and with permanent injuries and was awarded a large amount of money in the settlement and my husband has taken my bank card, withdrawn loads of cash and gone out with friends at night IN MOROCCO! Disgusting!

[@Matt-jc2ml]

Awful

[@KS-cl8br]

transfer your money to America and then divorce the thief

[@Yomle_ade]

​@@KS-cl8bryes

[@khluvly]

I advise some of you to rewatch this CLIP or find the whole speech so you don’t misquote, misunderstand, or slander the speaker

[@falaafalstick]

You’re not supposed to use your wife, but if she gives you money, it is permissible to take it, and it is permissible to marry her for her money because the messenger of Allah said so

[@SabaShahkhan]

Where?

[@YasserMaghribi]

0:03 that's false, the money of the husband is NOT "hers". He has a duty over his wife, to take care of her financially, BUT she has NO right to touch his money without his permission.

[@zehranasimhaque8348]

True. A man is suppose to provide his wife with all the basic necessities but is not required to put all his money at her disposal to spend as she wishes. He has equal responsibility of fulfilling the same basic needs of his parents/sisters if they don't have their own financial means.

[@user-do5ie4dw8s]

He is a learned Islamic scholar. Surely he has taught himself and researched extensively before giving this talk.

[@YasserMaghribi]

​@@user-do5ie4dw8s I'm reaally amazed by the fact that there are brothers/sisters like you that really believed it, that really believed that the wife has the right to rule her husband's money without his permission... Subhan'Allah... (or maybe your answer was 2nd degree ?) The only exception, it's when the husband does not provide the minimum necessary for his wife and children, in this case she has the right to take from him what is necessary (not even more). Go learn your din dear brother/sister, you can even ask your local imam about this, don't take my word for it if you don't believe me

[@artisthusnatalal3099]

​@@YasserMaghribiYes you're right. The husband is responsible but the wife is not supposed to rule over it. Only if the Husband becomes stingy then the wife is allowed to take from his pocket without his consent but not more than the financial she needed

[@uz327]

​@user-do5ie4dw8s ever since the allegations were made against him, all NAK ever does is pander to women. Even if means disregarding clear unambiguous instructions of the Prophet SAW, if a woman can't spend her own money without her husband's permission how can she spend his without his permission. “It is not permissible for a woman to donate of her money except with her husband's consent - once her husband gains charge of her (at marriage).”41 “It is not permissible for a woman to (independently) spend of her money - once her husband gains charge of her (at marriage).” 42 “It is not permissible for a woman to spend of her money except with her husband's permission.”43 41 Recorded by Ahmad, Ibn Majah, and others. Verified to be authentic by al-Albani (Sahih ul- Jami' no. 7238). 42 Recorded by Abu Dawud and al-Hakim, Verified to be authentic by al-Albani (Sahih ul-Jami' no. 7625 & as-Sahihah no. 825). 43 Recorded by at-Tabarani (in al-Kabir) and others. Verified to be authentic by al-Albani (Sahih ul-Jami' no. 5424 & as-Sahihah no. 775).

[@dr.bebekhadeeja9915]

People tells that women working in islam is haram, but let me kick those people and tell....see the history of Khadeeja Raziallah anha. How big women, humble, independent, rich, business women she was. Aap Sallahu alaihiwasalm never forced her to spend her money on huzoor. But she did it whole heartedly.

[@etherealrosegold]

Our mother Khadija didn't go to work in her car and mixed with men. She hired people to do business and travel for her. She stayed at home.

[@youngcoder4721]

That means it sunnat to take money from wife what's your point. Perfect preservation of quran word by word letter by letter? And husband is entitled to wife's wealth in inheritance soo yeah what's your point?

[@youngcoder4721]

But hazart Muhammad was using money of khadija wasn't he??

[@TugbaSahin-h8x]

You dont read good? Hz khadija did gave it to him. Although he did not ask for it let step beside oblidge her.

[@youngcoder4721]

@@TugbaSahin-h8x how do you know the fine details of their marriage were you there?

[@Wavecattt]

How many procent is acceptable for a woman to pay per month. I we are going to buy a house eventually i would love to invest my money too. So i wanna know what is good for the balance of masculine and feminine energy in the relationship. We also have a house keeper. Ofc we still do things in the house and garden but yeah🙈

[@emilytorres2482]

My husband has a joint account with his mom. I have no access to that account. I can't work because I have to take care of our toddler. I always have to ask him for money for food to make later or for our child's needs. Only sends me 40 for the week sometimes don't even. I live with my mother in law. I don't what to do it's very sad and stressful I'm tired of feeling this way. I don't think this is normal.

[@fathimarihana9274]

Yes it's not normal.

[@fathimarihana9274]

If u can try to become independent.

[@fathimarihana9274]

I have two toddlers.dont think that u can't.a mother can do anything for any circumstances if she has the power of wil that she can do anything

[@creativity2598]

I don't understand american ulema at all. They have to drive 15mins to go for every salah each day. That's why they pray a lot at home and grow up and deliver sermon's like this

[@hyatut_dunya]

True sadly

[@rmz8962]

Someone send this to my husband. He is the gold digger version of a man. He always takes my money and never returns it. May Allah punish him! Ameen

[@fathimarihana9274]

Most of the women experience this... don't worry u will get ur reward from allah in this world or akira..have patience they will never develop

[@fathimarihana9274]

Ameen ameen ameen ameen ameen

[@bintachatty8415]

Where is it written which verse

[@azkahajadeen]

Subhanallah an amazing video n i learnt alot of things 2day.. it was useful.. May allah make it easy for all of us n forgive all our sins n accept all our duas .. Aameen Im actually looking to get married , Pls include me in ur duas .. May Allah bless me with an amazing, understanding husband who loves Allah n his rasool , has a good character n treats me nicely , kind n compassionate towards others , may he also help me be a good understanding wife who compromises n does everything for the sake of allah n someone who brings him peace at home .. May he bless everyone who is looking to get married with a righteous n understanding spouses who will be the coolness of thier eyes n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen ... May allah make all our tests n trials easy for all of us , make us steadfast in our deen ,guide us to the right path n always keep us connected to the quran at all times n forgive all our sins n accept all our duas , grant us jannah n safeguard us from the hell fire aameen aameen aameen

[@bakerzane3055]

One thing I noticed about Islam and Sheikhs in general is that they’ll never defend the 4 wives argument, it’s almost like they’re ashamed

[@muhammadomer5301]

U r right thats a common problem. If u can speak urdu/hindi i would suggest mufti tariq masood for it

[@Sara-nl6es]

Brother there are conditions on it, it’s not haram, it’s halal under certain circumstances. If you can afford and can do justice with all wives do it.

[@muhammadomer5301]

But a woman can give her money with her happiness. How can u define the attitude of Syeda Khadija (RA) and what Quran says regarding that, that V find u orphan and with insufficient and make u ghani ( Surah Duha) And the hadith that women r being married for four things i.e money, deen, family lineage and beauty?? Comeout of this colonial era defensive and "ashamed of islam" interpretations and selective reference quoting

[@youngcoder4721]

Not happiness sunnat

[@dnajournal4321]

Bro, if I give my wife a car, I can still ask what happened to it. I asked what happened to the kitchen scissors I gave her last week. $5 scissors. What do you mean I can't ask?

[@MrKay1619]

What about heritage?

[@My-fm8mt]

Spot on. 😂😅

[@AiShaBeLayLMO]

Subhan Allah

[@unknownpage9239]

0:03 and for that reason im out

[@momomoustafa502]

First time I totally disagree with you but no problem

[@empresskhadijah2677]

Disagree about what Islam ??

[@jahangirali4209]

I must say you must learn to make a good speech in view of Quraan kareem and hadith with full teachings without your self basic knowledge. I'm sorry i don't want to hurt you but think it once.

[@uz327]

Personally I love the prophet SAW more than any scholar like NAK, so I won't let NAK veto the messenger of Allah. “It is not permissible for a woman to donate of her money except with her husband's consent - once her husband gains charge of her (at marriage).”41 “It is not permissible for a woman to (independently) spend of her money - once her husband gains charge of her (at marriage).” 42 “It is not permissible for a woman to spend of her money except with her husband's permission.”43 41 Recorded by Ahmad, Ibn Majah, and others. Verified to be authentic by al-Albani (Sahih ul- Jami' no. 7238). 42 Recorded by Abu Dawud and al-Hakim, Verified to be authentic by al-Albani (Sahih ul-Jami' no. 7625 & as-Sahihah no. 825). 43 Recorded by at-Tabarani (in al-Kabir) and others. Verified to be authentic by al-Albani (Sahih ul-Jami' no. 5424 & as-Sahihah no. 775).

[@syrasafdar]

HAHAHA, man literally? go earn some handsome amount of money to get out of this sick mindset and stop quoting false saying by prophet/ahadeeth just to justify that you can use her money. Which Islam do you read by the way?

[@uz327]

@syrasafdar they're Sahih hadith. If you disagree, you disagree with the Prophet SAW. Buts that's typical, you only like the parts of Islam that suit you.

[@syrasafdar]

@@uz327 WHAT? how confidently you said these are Sahih Hadith! This is ridiculous. I myself have been studying Sahih hadith for years now and never have I ever read these. How can you lie so confidently? Kindly do some proper research about your sahih hadith before preaching.

[@uz327]

​@syrasafdar well, obviously you have selective reading. I gave you the citations of 3 narrations, go look them up if you "never" read them. Fear Allah instead of accusing me of lying. 41 Recorded by Ahmad, Ibn Majah, and others. Verified to be authentic by al-Albani (Sahih ul- Jami' no. 7238). 42 Recorded by Abu Dawud and al-Hakim, Verified to be authentic by al-Albani (Sahih ul-Jami' no. 7625 & as-Sahihah no. 825). 43 Recorded by at-Tabarani (in al-Kabir) and others. Verified to be authentic by al-Albani (Sahih ul-Jami' no. 5424 & as-Sahihah no. 775

[@syrasafdar]

@@uz327 The only thing that is validated by the quran andahadeeth is that a woman cannot give charity FROM HER HUSBAND'S MONEY without his permission. Not the crap you mentioned above about her own hard earned money. Let me clarify you a bit more so that you don't get me indulge in such a useless argue, No scholar, Islamic Daee or any molvi in the world will tell you that these lines you wrote above are even considered hadeeth let alone be Sahih! pathetic . Quran clearly mentions that you have no right even of single penny of your wife's earnings.

[@fajaradanmustafa1794]

😢😢😢😢

[@selenophile02622]

Is job for women haram 🥺

[@BaraanhNajaaislah]

No

[@aribahaftab5677]

No not at all All the halal jobs are permissible for her to do but the thing is that she won't be responsible for the financial needs of the house.

[@artisthusnatalal3099]

Job is not haram depending on what kind of job you do. The husband is responsible for everything but if your salary is huge, a wife can help sometimes to contribute at her own will. Some women do get good salaries better than their husband. A good marriage is to help each other with home chores, money, Children, homeworks, etc this kind of marriage Allah gives it more barakah

[@Aman_zyan]

Not at all

[@MuhammadHaneefummeed]

If her money is her money,and my money to her money ,then why in the world would I marry.better stay single

[@YpG_Mier]

100%

[@aneesa3516]

Youre no man

[@ayeshaeman72]

Here comes the man who is not a man. You better stay single instead of destroying other persons life.

[@negashbadu977]

The choice is urs.

[@mr.ak-facttech9856]

​@@ayeshaeman72he is probably right because a man works very rigorously to provide for family.... and he is only obligated to pay NAAN-E-NAFQAH nothing more than that if he does then he gets rewarded for it but if the wife works full time as house wife then he should give some extra money

[@muftihyder7422]

I am seriously saying that this sermon is being wrongly quoted by women. Money is a controlling factor in any relationship. When you're advocating a husband's money is her money, do you mean to say she can spend as it pleases her? Because then she wont listen to him for anything. In addition if she is earning by herself, then the husband will have no say in any of the decisions of his family. He will be financially drained of his respect. I am sure Islam doesn't advocate husband's to be in that role. A finanical independence with such an infused mentality is a perfect recipe for a failed marriage.

[@midigee]

I think you're looking at it the wrong way. It is a man's responsibility to provide for his family. The money her earns is to be used selflessly for his family. All this video is saying is that a husband may not deny his wife her due even if she earns more that him. By due of course I mean things like feeding, transportation, clothing, medical and house bills etc.

[@CliftonGilmore-w8o]

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[@mr.ak-facttech9856]

This is Gunah-e-jariya....... Promoting false information and discouraging young men (who can afford Naan-e-nafqah ) to stay away from marriage

[@AimHigh1]

This is 2024, we are no longer in our ancient time when we compare men and women. Religious scholars always accusing men over women without knowing the facts is making me sick and tired. When you claim that men are responsible for finances, why don't you also mention that women have responsibilities too? Finish your sentence completely. Do these scholars have a reluctance to speak about misguided Muslim women? I take care of my family by keeping an eye on Allah Rabbu-Tala, who is my greatest witness, Alhamdulillah.

[@kms69q4]

Wife is responsible for cherishing their offspring properly, but not to provide or spend her own money, anyway, whereas, on the basis of humanitarian ground, if a husband is unable to earn, in this case, she could do it, if she is Capable....but, in general ~ Not instructed to do it in Islam religion....

[@khluvly]

this is a clip of a longer video

[@Jacksparrow-qj3lt]

False information

[@MuhammadHaneefummeed]

Nouman was wrong on this one

[@TheLovelyOneify]

How?

[@slaveofallah5853]

He was wrong on many “ones”, this person is not a person to take knowledge from if you care about your akhira