i'm going to be honest here, when he said it's not about love but peace.. i actually felt some kind of relief from a heartbreak i have been carrying for quit some time..
@skyejacques Жыл бұрын
I pray you heal the wounds and the trauma that were the core for this to happen as well. It's a huge test
@ShamlaShamla-xx5oz Жыл бұрын
May allah bless u with someone who will be your forever peace.......and what ever allah takes anyway will be replaced it with better things
@naturelife7510 Жыл бұрын
Yea, experienced the same relief after hearing this
@nojoudi5476 Жыл бұрын
Hear..hear...
@bulanbintang789 Жыл бұрын
I did it also
@Dewy123-n6011 ай бұрын
for the person reading this may you find peace in the person Allah has written for you...
@mirtabasum706311 ай бұрын
Aameen
@fatoufaye256411 ай бұрын
❤Ameen
@aqsaaqsashahnaz263410 ай бұрын
Ameen soom ameen.
@dianrinanda270810 ай бұрын
Amin...Barakallahu fiikum
@makdayohannes9 ай бұрын
Ameen ❤
@TheSunnahChannel10 ай бұрын
To the person reading this: Even though I don’t know you but I wish you the best of what life has to offer to you may Allah (S.W.T) Guide you and always protect you and your family Ameen.
@jupiterian583110 ай бұрын
Amin, you too ❤
@coumbadiallo59 ай бұрын
Ameen and you as well ❤
@konikaprapty9009 ай бұрын
ameen
@ADan-lemon8 ай бұрын
Ameen ya Rabb. Wa iyakum
@Bedofroseshomeug8 ай бұрын
Allahuma amin 🙏🏼
@TinyKitchenGarden Жыл бұрын
I got married to my husband because I knew he’s the right person for me. Love wasn’t there but Alhamdullillah I fell in love with him and now we are living happily ever after. 😊
@heymanhaha Жыл бұрын
What do you mean love wasn't there? I'm curious
@TinyKitchenGarden Жыл бұрын
@@heymanhaha I mean I wasn’t in love with him when I got married. I just liked him as a person and decided to get married to him.
@heymanhaha Жыл бұрын
@Sidra wow. That's incredible. Completely opposite of how the current western culture does marriage. I think it makes alot of sense though. Marrying for the external reasons (looks, money, status, etc) will always run its course eventually but purpose and God will unite eternally
@dametime402 Жыл бұрын
@@heymanhaha well said
@TheOrganics01 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Same. Didn't even like them
@rosalespaty73768 ай бұрын
This hit at the core of my marriage/divorce. We didn’t bring each other peace. I would always say “he prays, goes to Hajj and has done multiple umrahs, is good person..” but the anger management issue was a red flag since before marriage and I chose to ignore it. 20 years later, 4 children, and divorced. Wish I had this concrete advice before. Listen to this lecture youngsters! And May you find peace in your current (or future) spouse.
@TheSunnahChannel8 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you with better
@aimanfatima-l3f7 ай бұрын
Hy , can you tell me one thing ,,, if a person has anger issues so do i not marry him? If yes then here in Pakistan about 99 percent men have anger issues bcz here it is considered men's right and unchangeable thing ... In these circumstances I'm not going to marry anyone then?
@mystic69707 ай бұрын
Must get legal prenuptial agreement and find deen person @@aimanfatima-l3f
@Mskhanurfsimona7 ай бұрын
@@aimanfatima-l3f Make dua in tahajjud and pray satul haajat and uh will find that 1 percent men of ur interest inshallah
@hijuhbye7 ай бұрын
assalamu alaikum. i hope you're coping well with your situation, may Allah make it easy for you. if you're ok, would you leave a brief response to my question based on your experience and realization? it's completely ok if you don't want to. my question: im currently talking to someone and as far as i could understand, he is a good, calm and cool headed person overall. however, he struggles to say his obligatory prayers. this is why i am a bit hesitant. what would you advise me to prioritize regarding this person? jazakAllahu khairan.
@za761 Жыл бұрын
Purpose of marriage: Looking for Peace/calm (not because you love that person) - when talking to them, you feel calm, tone down. There is peace
@Shinobu2506. Жыл бұрын
I dont marry a man without loving him
@annie-e9u11 ай бұрын
@@Shinobu2506. When there is peace, love comes naturally. A lot of wife, unfortunately stay in abusive relationships. Sure, a part of it is your brain playing you and because you are at a very vulnerable situation you can't really decide clearly for yourself. But think about it for a second, the thinking of "look for love" is what breeds this sad misfortunes, most of the time. Thankfully, there are absolutely beautiful relationships out of this mentality but we can't really deny that majority of them are unfortunate. Therefore, look for peace. And let love unfold naturally.
@tamago_yaki8 ай бұрын
@@annie-e9ugood point!
@kehfilwara16924 ай бұрын
May peace and calm be there in my marriage, May we find peace in the person Allah is written for us, may all my anxiety, stress goes down when talking to my spouse, i feel calm and may i talk to him in a gentle tone and he does the same for me.
@sooshmitafaruk5318 Жыл бұрын
I was married at age 24 to someone I knew was wrong for me but due to family pressure I gave in. He had mental illness that was not disclosed until after marriage when he could no longer hide it. But I felt bad to leave until I was abused in many ways so I left. I hope young people who get married only marry for the right reasons and do not do this just to please family and meet certain age expectation.
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
May Allah grant you ease, Ameen
@salimbanjo1019 Жыл бұрын
May Allah grant you goodness in this world and in akhira
@sooshmitafaruk5318 Жыл бұрын
@@salimbanjo1019 thank you
@mariaa3480 Жыл бұрын
im currently in a similar situation :( so scared man, theres so much pressure and guilt but i don't know wht to do, I can't sacrifice my happiness and future but at the same time theres so much pressure and culture issues
@sooshmitafaruk5318 Жыл бұрын
@@mariaa3480 stand up for yourself because your intuition never lies.
@mahdhimohinudeen9977 Жыл бұрын
"When you live a purposeful life, when you accomplish purpose and you live that way, then good people of purpose will come in your life" 💯👌🏻
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
In sha Allah
@mohdizhar94126 ай бұрын
Such a relieving comment
@qenimeri2 Жыл бұрын
I'm not Muslim but I consider this sagacious advice.
@yusifalmayish Жыл бұрын
Sagacious is my new word of the day
@mdmarufkhan7132 Жыл бұрын
Its true that marriage is not all about love its about peace... If you do not have peace in love the purpose of love is gone
@mehwishfarooqui8923 Жыл бұрын
When he says my anxiety goes down, honestly, my anxiety goes down 😅 listening about a person like and literally get one is really a reward from ALLAH..May Allah blessed us with the best spouses.
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@kehfilwara16924 ай бұрын
aameen May I find peace and comfort in my spouse and may when i talk to him my anxiety goes down.
@ibrahimhussein8528 Жыл бұрын
No one is perfect in life, in my opinion the best way to live peacful marriage life is more respect,less expectations & share thoughts ,help each other in good & bad situations.raise children in good manners .
@دوليدصغيرون Жыл бұрын
The perfect commitment 🌹
@margina007 Жыл бұрын
so true
@farannezam7371 Жыл бұрын
True
@ismatsayeed5584 Жыл бұрын
Very true
@fauzianalwoga6 ай бұрын
Preach❤❤❤❤❤❤
@zainabulghazali Жыл бұрын
The last words of Ustadh are very true. The same thing I've experienced in my life. The day I became purposeful, a purposeful man came into my life Bi'dhnillah ❤
@kehfilwara16924 ай бұрын
Subhan Allah May a god and purposeful man comes in my life too.
@defenderofdecency7218 Жыл бұрын
Brother Nouman is right, the purpose of marriage is gone when there’s no peace in it. I can attest to this through my personal experience. Lack of peace ended my marriage. May Allaah have mercy on us. This life (dunya) is for testing us by God. It’s not perfect. May Allaah forgive us and grant us his paradise in the afterlife (akhirah), aamiin.
@watermelonsugar6909 Жыл бұрын
He's a real special person. His relatable humorous practical explanations are a gift to modern mankind. Allah bless him
@FatimaQasim-h8k8 ай бұрын
I got married in the age of 16 because my step mom was not nice and now I am so happy with my husband Allah keep as both happy Ameen ❤
@TheSunnahChannel8 ай бұрын
Ameen
@kehfilwara1692Ай бұрын
Allahumma Baarik May Allah keep you both together till the end of your lives and reunite you both in Jannah. Aameen May Allah bless me with a righteous man with good akhlaaq who brings peace in my life. Aameen
@AhudtheCatАй бұрын
Ameen
@rabiabinteabdullahАй бұрын
@@FatimaQasim-h8k aamiin ❤️
@sameemrasheed1392 Жыл бұрын
Marriage: Is Allah and Allah alone combining two hearts as one and this is marriage. True marriage is not difficult, it's easy. It's not a job. It doesn't hurt. It is half when we are a unit in the process of our faith.
@heyitsdiamedico5538 Жыл бұрын
im about to get engaged and i had so many questions regarding if we are right for each other or not..this video gave me all the answers
@candicecole19 Жыл бұрын
❕Spend your given time wisely❕ “But the life of this world, compared to the Hereafter, is nothing but a fleeting enjoyment”. (Quran 13:26) 🤍
@IshtiaqAhmad-x9s Жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful ,i didn't hear about it earlier but in my experience after getting into this love thing for a long time(exhausting ) I'm convinced on love might not bring peace even more drama .....and you can live more soulful life with a person who doesn't say" i love you" ,but they're respectful to you and it's peaceful to be with them ❣️
@hafzanakim Жыл бұрын
I agree
@serreh Жыл бұрын
Subhanallah may Allah grant all the single men and women pious husband and wife which will be the coolness of our eyes. Ameen
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@MoZo-0-1 Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@Concert_guru Жыл бұрын
Ammeeeeeen!!!!! 😭😭😭
@justinphiri5742 Жыл бұрын
Aameen
@radhikaarora8323 Жыл бұрын
Summa ameen!
@miuganteng2568 Жыл бұрын
I just knew it! Thanks for sharing. His elaboration makes sense: Islam means peace and in our marriage we also look for peace first!
@symew Жыл бұрын
Even if it’s an informed decision to marry but interacting and keeping relationships with human beings is tricky they can change anytime.
@R33t1 Жыл бұрын
This is extremely true. They can change for the better or for the worse.
@skyejacques Жыл бұрын
Definitely. Sometimes our trauma bonding makes us connect, and we aren't able to see clearly due to trauma.
@sohaalam1843 Жыл бұрын
So true and it hurts 💔
@abdulwahididris6543 Жыл бұрын
Perfect answer ever 💯.May Allah grant everyone of us long life ,peace and end up in Jannah.Ameen .
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@altynaidzhakshibekova5946 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@humakhan5163 Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@As-go6ho2 жыл бұрын
I say this: if this person gets u close to Allah or get you away from Allah. That’s the most important factor IMO.
@curiousmind85102 жыл бұрын
A tyrant, oppressive husband gets you closer to Allah. So, should you choose someone like that?
@As-go6ho2 жыл бұрын
@@curiousmind8510 I didn’t say that. that tyrant might force u to do things in the name of religion & that will get u away from Islam. if ur wearing a hijab out fear from ur husband then it’s worthless & unaccepted in the sight of Allah. That’s why I said “gets u” closer, and what I meant is if that person makes you WANT to love Allah & worship him. then yes 100%.
@vanessajoycecollett6607 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree the one thats right for u will bring u close to Allah n give u peace.
@Chuckruu8 ай бұрын
Close is diff things to diff pple . Criminality violence addictions in law cruelty etc is from humans
@45-sadiaislamswarna742 ай бұрын
I really was very frustrated regarding how to find someone. Now I know how to have Tawakkol and do my homework. Allah Almighty will handle the rest in shaa Allah
@sharminrezamati1900 Жыл бұрын
I hope the Almighty Allah will give me the person...the perfect one for me..who will understand me and both of us will find peace in us. ❤
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
In sha Allah, Ameen
@kehfilwara16924 ай бұрын
aameen Me too, May we all be blessed with a peaceful, loving and fulfilling marriage, may we find the right partner. aameen
@aminatacheickcoulibaly51769 ай бұрын
Waaaaaaaaouh This really describes what I'm going through. I was planning to marry a man that I loved too much. The problem was that there was no matching in our communication. We couldn't even understand each other, so after thinking of the fact that I will not find peace in marrying him I just decide to cancel everything. May Allah give all of us peaceful marriage 😊
@TheSunnahChannel9 ай бұрын
Like seriously 😨
@nayabkhan81538 ай бұрын
Same is my case
@fauzianalwoga6 ай бұрын
Please cancel and if they insist report to the police 😢. Some people are psychopaths
@kehfilwara1692Ай бұрын
Aameen 🤲 May we find a righteous husband who loves us, cares for us, respects us the most, and gives us peace. May we find an understanding man to be our spouse. Aameen
@mehdiyatalhaoui Жыл бұрын
Waaw, it's like you explained it all why my marriage didn't work 🤯
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
May Allah grant yo ease and bless you with happy life.... Ameen
@RaeSA18 ай бұрын
I love listening to Norman Ali and I appreciate his wisdom and guidance so much. This is the best guidance I have ever heard about marriage and it is explained so well. I wish I had heard this ages ago. Allah has given us the exact tools and guidance we need when choosing a spouse and yet so many of us are not aware of it. I once heard someone say, when you make a difficult decision and you are not sure it was the right one, observe how you feel after you make it. If you feel peaceful, then you know it was the right decision. May Allah grant us all peaceful and loving marriages 🙏🏽.
@TheSunnahChannel7 ай бұрын
Ameen
@SheikhMorteza3 Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah. After watching this clip, my heart came into the peace. Alhamdulillah
@syasmin7819 Жыл бұрын
May Allah give us spouse, who will be our coolness of our eyes
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@Chuckruu8 ай бұрын
And you be the coolness of theirs. It is a two way street. Do your homework .
@AhudtheCatАй бұрын
Ameen summa ameen
@Alhassane_Aminane Жыл бұрын
May Allah grant us , as students great spouses that will be the peace we are looking for , ameen
@sahanajparvin1490 Жыл бұрын
Subhanallah! I needed this and I got it...Allah hu Akbar! Alhamdulillah for everything ❤
@ammarafatima9717 Жыл бұрын
That’s me Alhamdullilah ❤ I’m the peaceful wife as a result and by the Grace of Allah Almighty, my husband has also calmed down over the years.
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah, May Allah always keep your family happy
@worshipthecreator9081 Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulilah
@ahz6907 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah... Thats very rare in current times!
@kehfilwara1692Ай бұрын
Allahumma Baarik Pray for me too, to find a man who brings me peace and I do the same for him, may I find a righteous and loving man who is the most compatible with me. Aameeen
@pizzahouse30 Жыл бұрын
I really needed to see this video right now bcoz i have been going through something.. thank you to this scholar for this video and thank you to allah for showing me this video.. i hope everything will be good in future inshallah and I'll come back to this comment thinking.. indeed the allah is the best planner.. alhamdulillah
@athershakeel021 Жыл бұрын
You Are a Muslim, "Live A Purposeful Life", NAK gives us golden advice everytime,❤
@sutrianingsihbintibagio1982 Жыл бұрын
I'm still looking for my PEACE ☺ my future husband is out there somewhere 🤲 or maybe I'm getting married in Jannah 🙂
@MA-20207 ай бұрын
Keep hoping, keep believing 🤍
@noobsplaysensei3324 Жыл бұрын
Making a good decision at first doesn't mean the person won't change in the future.
@tyatya2551 Жыл бұрын
May Allah blessing you all couples who love each other in achieving the highest love, loving Allah SWT and Rasulullah Muhammad Sholallahu alaihi wasalam💖
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@ayampencen6363 Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👍..aaminnnn
@raabdul13939 ай бұрын
From life experience😊 Been accused of anger problem, and wife applied Divorce. In new marriage, No problems😊
@TheSunnahChannel9 ай бұрын
May Allah grant you ease
@fauzianalwoga6 ай бұрын
🧐
@Mylilgem9 ай бұрын
Marriage is about learning. How you learn to deal situations together. How to make connection stronger together with Allah if you faced difficulties. How do you deal with difficult situations when it comes using Quran to solve it. They are also tests we should not forget about that either Insha Allah
@jahidulislammm Жыл бұрын
Trust me This is the most peace giving vdo I watched till this year❤
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Jazak Allahu Khayran, plz subscribe and share video with your family and friends ❤
@ayeishakhan6265 Жыл бұрын
Same
@GHURABA_DUNYA Жыл бұрын
@@ayeishakhan6265same
@aqeel41389 ай бұрын
Brilliant! Quran is perfect... ❤
@TheSunnahChannel8 ай бұрын
Indeed
@nanerhjayy8 ай бұрын
May Allah swt grant us the spouse who gives us peace 🙏🏻
@TheSunnahChannel8 ай бұрын
Ameen
@StudentOI-18 ай бұрын
Best best thing i have seen today.. Allah bless him ❤
@TheSunnahChannel8 ай бұрын
Ameen, may Allah bless you too
@adralia239 ай бұрын
WE do the sakinah, and if we managed to established that, THEN Allah will give mawaddah warahmah. So find out what sakinah really mean. Peace, calm.❤
@Katniss_cosmos9 ай бұрын
😂 Where is the person that will give me peace??! I wish my mom would hear this ❤
@angeltaurus582 ай бұрын
May Allah bless our children with righteous spouse who are humble , on Deen , who show kindness to our children, respect them nd vice versa ...may we see them united nd happy always in our presence nd absence ..... AAMEEN ❤️
@TheSunnahChannel2 ай бұрын
Ameen
@aymaejaz64489 ай бұрын
This is so true and important and doesn't need to be from a religious perspective too, his talks are very valuable advice as he can relate to people
@Taetae_lover2 ай бұрын
This man really motivates me
@purplebear4457 ай бұрын
What brings u peace …. I added this to my list of questions I need to ask thank you !! 😁
@TheSunnahChannel7 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you with best
@userzzz730 Жыл бұрын
Yeah Noman sir. Peace is what matters the most.
@humakhan5163 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Really from some days I was thinking about my future husband recently I qualified my jrf net now I enrolled in ph.d alhumdulillah This speech is very helpful for me at this moment really the almighty allah is the greatest Shukriya for this video
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
May Allah grant you ease
@GHURABA_DUNYA Жыл бұрын
Assalamalaikum due to hurry and laziness in internet revolution, we dont pay much attention to english rules. but atleast we should be cautious about Islamic principles. So please write, Allah - not allah Qur'an - not quran Muhammad - not muhammed peace be upon him/SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam - not pbuh/saws Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'Ala- not swt Its not about sin and haram but about respect towards our Rabb!
@Litestay19 күн бұрын
La ilaha illallah Subhanallah 💕💕💕 Alhamdulillah 💕💕💕 Allah hu Akbar 💕💕💕
@farzanamunni8947 Жыл бұрын
Please in this ramadan... Pray for me to get the spouse who will peace and calmness for me..... Sry,i am not good at English
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you with a pious spouse
@jamalnasirntabdinasir9805 Жыл бұрын
May almighty Allah grant you sister good husband amiin Ramadan mubarak
@mahirprince2642 ай бұрын
😭 He said such beautiful words!
@bareerahskitchen2646 Жыл бұрын
I love my husband hE is my peace I love him like crazy and that's is the reason which makes me happy I feel happy when I care him I always pray my Allah that I always love him more and more because this is the only reason which makes me grateful to every time
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you and your family
@ayampencen6363 Жыл бұрын
You are The greates wife...👍
@shahzadilyas2878 Жыл бұрын
I don't know if Ustad Nouman will see the comments and respond to them, however, I am in complete agreement that the marraige is to be at peace and be able to give others peace. However, this is a very tricky question to ask your future spouse: What gives you peace? For majority of females these days (I am not giving a % number so that people do not get offended), ultimately what gives them peace is $$. Knowing the fact that sustenance is ordained by Allah Subhana Hu Wa Ta'ala, how do you give them peace???
@Alhassane_Aminane Жыл бұрын
It's simple, show her what real peace is , ( without money)
@khyberwatch19 Жыл бұрын
Its a problem if she is infested with feminism
@nummy2 Жыл бұрын
@@Alhassane_Aminane agreed. True respect, deen, personality and even just showing that you’re working hard to provide and change ur financial state is good enough for a woman who knows what she wants
@Alhassane_Aminane Жыл бұрын
@@nummy2very well said , it's all we can hope for, May Allah grant us great spouse ,
@faizalodhi Жыл бұрын
Yeah except rich people’s children who had all the luxuries in their life know that money is not the key to happiness or peace. I’m a live example of that. Money doesn’t make me happy respect does
@sobiaeram5969 Жыл бұрын
Peace and happiness. That's it!
@oyelolaoyegbola8 ай бұрын
Short video, it has actually hit the nail on the head. These are all we need to know.
@Yoemer942 жыл бұрын
May Allah forgive us all and grant us all Jannatul-Firdaus. Ameen
@TheSunnahChannel2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@syed.jr.2 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@worshipthecreator9081 Жыл бұрын
Thum Ameen
@ramasow1404 Жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT guide us through ameen 🥰 and may Allah bless us with the coolness of our own eyes and may we find peace over our future spouses ameen ya rabil'ala'min 🥰
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@spreadingpeace8934 ай бұрын
May ALLAH KAREEM always protect you my brother..
@suzifauzi Жыл бұрын
Peace ❤ from Ya Salam...Alhamdulillah
@OneUmmahh1709 ай бұрын
- [02:20]* 👰 Marriage is an informed decision, not predetermined by destiny or luck. - [04:52]* 💡 Make an informed decision about marriage by learning about the person you're considering marrying and understanding compatibility. - [06:08]* 💔 People change over time, so don't solely blame fate if a marriage doesn't work out as expected. - [07:18]* 💑 The purpose of marriage is to find peace, not just to fulfill romantic ideals. - [09:03]* 🌟 Prioritize peace in a marriage by seeking a partner who brings calmness and reduces stress and anxiety. - [10:37]* 📚 Focus on personal growth and purpose, and the right partner will come into your life naturally. Summarized
@TheSunnahChannel9 ай бұрын
Well needed comment, jazak Allahu khayran
@nidzcoolcat8 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful thought. JazakAllah for this.
@TheSunnahChannel8 ай бұрын
Share this with others and don't forgot to subscribe
@samia6888 Жыл бұрын
May Allah give me and my single brothers and sisters who as asking Him for a wonderful faithful spouse. Ameen.
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Ameen.
@kehfilwara16924 ай бұрын
aameen Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqeer.
@aliadiaz81599 ай бұрын
For the purpose u can find peace❤
@farzanashaikh76108 ай бұрын
Whenever i listen any scholars lecture it make peace n it jas ans of my question ...im single umarried but i alwys have a fear of arrange marriages cz apko sari duniya rishtea dar rishte lagne vale agents ek tasweer le ayege pasand h ha bolo nai bolo ...then shadi fixed hogyi then puri zindgi compromise ...vo insan ko smjhne mai ouri zindgai lg jaye or shdi k bad malum ho ki he is not my typ or may b im not his typ ...only compromise for whole life ... Better is what phle se malum ho lekin no haram.things lekin ap apni pasand se ek dusre ko jan k shdi krey ...
@TheSunnahChannel8 ай бұрын
May Allah protect you from every evil
@farzanashaikh76108 ай бұрын
@@TheSunnahChannel jazakallah khair
@DaoudaWone-k9x5 ай бұрын
I like the way he talks in this dina
@fadilasyad1595 Жыл бұрын
سبحان الله انه محق نتسرع في الزواج وننسى اننا سنتاثر بعواقبه طول حياتنا ليس نحن فقط حتى أولادنا سيتالمون بسبب سوء اختيارنا
@bismasyed33406 ай бұрын
He's such a CHAMP❤
@ludefi2465 Жыл бұрын
According to Quran, Men need 1 thing: provide, women need 2 things: obey and be faithful (no betrayal). It is in sourate 4 verse 34. Working to achieve these qualities will give most of the peace needed to both.
@fabbydabby7194 Жыл бұрын
I still don't see how those things can you peace
@ludefi2465 Жыл бұрын
@@fabbydabby7194 I think that majority of fights in a couple are due to ego or betrayal. So if your wife submit to you, then there is way less drama/fight, so more peace. If she also behave in a way that shows her loyalty to you, then your trust in her will grow and with it your peace. If you provide, you will « build » for her a place where she will feel at home and in security, so at peace. And she also will respect you for that, which will make it even more easier for her to submit. So even more peace in your relationship. I think that with these foundations you can build a love that will last. I think that is why God said that. Knowing more of male/female psychology can probably help find other reasons as to why God said that.
@fabbydabby7194 Жыл бұрын
@@ludefi2465 Okay I get it, but I think the guy has to be a great a guy for a lady to be able to obey him as women are very much capable of proving for themselves
@ludefi2465 Жыл бұрын
@@fabbydabby7194 It’s true that in today’s feminist world, in many countries women can work like men. Even though they take no pleasure in providing, like men do. But I wasn’t talking about feminist « bible » and feminist men/women. I was talking about Quran and muslim(a). According to God, the husband is only required to provide, not be a « great guy ». It’s the women’s job to work on submission and loyalty. If she feels entitled to some Hollywood prince because she can work, it’s her problem, she needs to deal with it, or face ending up alone/divorced and dealing with her bad choices at a later age. On this matter, I can understand that in our time many women overestimate their value and they are lost because no one tells them when they are wrong and everyone pedestalize them, pandering to them, and always find a way to blame men for their mistakes. Going to any social media make it clear that the trend is to pandering to women. But imo no man with a little dignity will deal with that nor commit to a marriage with such a girl, because it’s obvious that girls who look for a « great guy » can’t bring peace and are unfit for marriage. Earth is wide and there are plenty of feminine traditional women in it, even non muslim one, if you are looking for peace. So don’t limit your horizon, enjoy and build your family if that’s what you want. If you provide, and are muslim, then trust me you are plenty « great ». Don’t let feminist belittle you.
@anaguz Жыл бұрын
@@ludefi2465not true really … prophet saw said the best among u it’s best to your family. Provide (only) it’s not enough, it comes with other characteristics, if your husband brings money but treats u like trash no person will feel at peace with him, all things have to have a balance and if he is a good Muslim he will not treat u like trash, that’s not the definition of Muslim in the first place, remember , in Islam it’s not all about you relationship with Allah it’s also about tryout relationship with His creation therefore even if rightfully u are full filing your obligation (a relationship can’t be based on fulfilling duties only we aren’t in a corporation) u will still b harming them as a human being, so yeah there must b always a balance and work to improve as a Muslims and therefore as human beings
@fazeelathvekar5285 Жыл бұрын
Alhumdulilah . Your messages are very helpful. May Allah give you Strength and happiness.Ameen Ameen
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Ameen, jazakillahu khayran
@al_falah_dawah Жыл бұрын
I think I learnt this speech by heart .. As I saw it too many times😅
@murshidafathima78210 ай бұрын
Masha Allah really I got this message from my past mrge life
@TheSunnahChannel10 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you and your family
@dr.mohsinadastan9187 Жыл бұрын
I have completed my university exactly as sheikh told by doing my homework and without thinking of marriage . Now its been 10 years i am still single.I couldn’t find proper person whom I could get married. But last thing really hit me. Live purposeful life and accomplish purpose so good people will come to your life. Now really my question is what could be that purposeful life.
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Make Dua to Allah for a pious spouse and Wait for the right time and perform your daily farz
@TheOrganics01 Жыл бұрын
= life is the qadr of ALLAH
@SanaShaikh-ht3ht Жыл бұрын
ALLAH HU AKBAR! Awesome
@Moneystream87879 ай бұрын
May Allah protect him
@TheSunnahChannel9 ай бұрын
Ameen
@sakeenah_souls10 ай бұрын
Real & raw! Love his lectures!
@TheSunnahChannel10 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you and your family
@fiza1010 ай бұрын
Beautifully explained! ✨
@TheSunnahChannel10 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@sobiahamid8985 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant as always… Ustad Nauman 💕
@nadeeramuhammed8916 Жыл бұрын
Ma sha allah a clear cut observation very helpful to understand all of us may Allah make all of our life in peace
@Sophia-sp7eb Жыл бұрын
I love this imam
@Kulsumartandcraft Жыл бұрын
This is what a lecture 👏🏻
@Truthful_lyf Жыл бұрын
What you are explaining is very much understanding ,Masha Allah 👍🏼!! But , Spouse (hus) not able to watch or listen Islamic talk !! There spouse made (wife ) maintain peace 👍🏼
@patriotlightning77919 ай бұрын
Allahu Akbar ! ❤ SubhanAllah ! ❤ El Hamdoulillah ! ❤ La ilaha illa Allah ! ❤
@Saaima19758 ай бұрын
Do background check about family and prospective spouse through neighbours and friends. Make sure they have respect in the community and they are financially stable and can provide for you.
@Squirrellium Жыл бұрын
People..please try to have a wholesome family life so that your children is raised mentally healthy with ideals of wholesome family life. This generation is hopeless but we can work on the next generation iA
@razamughal9095 Жыл бұрын
The only way that cqn be achieved is for women to stop working
@idiaanibilowo4481 Жыл бұрын
To stop working outside the home, especially while raising children
@mahammehar8859 Жыл бұрын
U r doing great mashAllah mashAllah keep it up plz we need persons like u
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
jazakillahu khayran, plzz Subscribe and share with your friends and family
@hi-jz6sl Жыл бұрын
may Allah BLESS YOU NOUMAN, this gave me hope
@TheSunnahChannel Жыл бұрын
Ameen, wa iyyakum
@violetpi66608 ай бұрын
This was amazing 🤲
@badrunishamilanzi6483 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful reminder indeed.
@ZOHA21018 ай бұрын
best vidio everfound on youtube .......and finally i made a decision for a whole life jazakaallah❣❣❣❣
@TheSunnahChannel8 ай бұрын
May Allah grant you ease and success
@ZOHA21018 ай бұрын
jazakallah may allah grant u all the happiness and peace you have ever desired in this world an d world after this@@TheSunnahChannel 💝
@ZOHA21018 ай бұрын
i need a piece of advise@@TheSunnahChannel
@k.patron8763 Жыл бұрын
1:47 Çınaraltı 🌿
@RamatoulieSanyang-pp7yv3 ай бұрын
May ya Allah grant us all ar good spouse
@TheSunnahChannel3 ай бұрын
Ameen
@Shcreatioooooon7 ай бұрын
my parents are finding spouse for me...by listening thier faisla i get worried anxiety n all...i dont undetstand what to do..yet i knw ALLAH has written him thousand years beform the earth is created for me....yet i am restless please pray for me so i can get what i prayed...INSHAALLAH😭😭🤲