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@SorrySod2 жыл бұрын
Men are not from Mars Women are not from Venus This whole entire binary Was pulled out of Uranus There, fixed it
@Mel.H_2 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA 😂 😆
@carebear60362 жыл бұрын
Just realizing the dichotomy of this goes even deeper bc Mars is represented by Ares & Venus is represented by Aphrodite
@amypieterse41272 жыл бұрын
Love it
@bloodgutsandangelcake60792 жыл бұрын
@@carebear6036 and the word "hermaphrodite" actually comes from hermes (and aphrodite.. for some reason). that was the word for intersex people, but mercury is represented by hermes. so there you go. enbies are from mercury.
@carebear60362 жыл бұрын
@@bloodgutsandangelcake6079 yeah! Hermaphroditus was the son of the two gods! The gods united his & Salmacis' bodies, hence the current meaning of hermaphrodites 😊
@carololiveira48312 жыл бұрын
“It’s dehumanising to call women people” is always a hilarious take
@Nate52 жыл бұрын
Calling someone a human makes them not feel like humans /s
@InevitableSecrets2 жыл бұрын
These are the same people who can get offended over terms like Mankind lol 🙄 It’s like, make up your mind!
@TitaniumTronic2 жыл бұрын
Who the fuck has that opinion bruh? I just wanna talk.
@iamtheportal2 жыл бұрын
Ok birthing person… who talks like that?
@bloodgutsandangelcake60792 жыл бұрын
@@iamtheportal basically what the guy said that the end of the video. a mother individually could still call herself a mother, but only in medical contexts would they be referred to with a term that would describe them as "birthing", because that's literally what they're going to do, no? as a cis woman who's been pregnant before, i still referred to myself as a pregnant woman, but not everyone who gets pregnant is a woman. as for birthing person, that only sounds strange because it's not been used before lol. anyway what do you suggest then if not that?
@m0L3ify2 жыл бұрын
The "feminists" who claim that you have to look a particular way in order to be a true woman have _completely_ missed the boat on what feminism is actually about. It cracks me up every time.
@CorwinFound2 жыл бұрын
Gender critters are the epitome of toxic femininity. They say they support gender nonconformity as an alternative to being trans (it isn't btw). But then pick apart women for not being gender conforming enough as proof that they are trans. It's ridiculous and deeply toxic.
@littlecatfeet90642 жыл бұрын
Like not an erect penis or a beard? How horribly transphobic!
@nickwittednonpareil2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had the strength to laugh at it. Watching JK Rowling destroy her legacy and a series I cared about as a child is painful, and I'm just a cis ally. I can't imagine how hard it is for actual trans kids who once looked up to her. It makes me furious.
@Jane-oz7pp2 жыл бұрын
Especially when they reduce their womanhood down to their ability to breed 😩 like hun, you're more than a uterus.
@Anonymous-sq6eo2 жыл бұрын
Feminism, rights for women. Men dressing up as women have absolutely nothing to do with it.
@sharonsomers53422 жыл бұрын
People have looked at my pictures from my youth and said I'm a transfemale. I always wonder about their mental health because there is a picture of me in the hospital holding my baby and looking exhausted. There is a picture of me pregnant. I was clearly AFAB because I had a uterus. I just have a bit more testosterone than normal and I'm okay with that. It doesn't make me trans, it makes me myself. And if somebody else needs a bit more or less testosterone to be okay and normal, that's cool too. Somebody accused me of having breast implants. I said "they are 2 different sizes! Gravity has had her way with them! Look at my car, does it look like I got a multi-million dollar settlement for the mistakes a plastic surgeon made? No? They were installed using factory settings. Get over yourself."
@mammoneymelon2 жыл бұрын
that's one of the funniest ways to respond to someone making weird uncalled for comments about your body tbh i will never understand why people are so obsessed with whether or not someone "looks trans". the features they look for are all features that some cis women have as well, i don't understand why that's such a hard concept to grasp lol. it's almost as if human bodies are incredibly diverse are there isn't some kind of "default" body we're all supposed to have - this is why representation for ALL people is so important
@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow91952 жыл бұрын
how to tell on them they've never experienced boobs 🤣 naturally they rarely are symmetrical omg
@arenlykos24212 жыл бұрын
My favorite version of the planets one goes something like "If men are from Mars and women are from Venus, that implies at least 6 other genders just within our solar system."
@swimmyswim4172 жыл бұрын
Lmao that’s where I was hoping it was going. The Uranus punchline got a chuckle out of me, but I definitely prefer an entire solar system of genders.
@SomeOnlinePerson2 жыл бұрын
Incidentally, there are at least two space-themed gender "charts." They're remarkably thorough.
@sarahr83112 жыл бұрын
My only issue with that idea is that I still don't like that Pluto isn't a plane any more. So there should be 7 more genders besides the Mars and Venus ones.
@eklectiktoni2 жыл бұрын
The weirdest part is that apparently both men and women are aliens. So which gender is native to Earth? 🤔
@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos2 жыл бұрын
@@eklectiktoni Enbies ofc
@PrrrKitten2 жыл бұрын
This one is hitting home. My trans child just came out to her grandmother. Grandmother is looking for people to blame thinking my child couldn't make up her own mind on things. Jammi, thank you. You are helping me understand more about what my child has gone through and will go through.
@MR-nn5iu2 жыл бұрын
I wish you and your kid all the best!
@Confused_Artist51502 жыл бұрын
Hope you and your kid have a great life
@anwenrees62342 жыл бұрын
Your text just sent what my trans son nana (my mum) did to my son and me saying have a good life too us as I support my son so I had to block her and cut her out of our lifes
@SylviaRustyFae2 жыл бұрын
The sad part is that grandma here will no doubt learn one day that her transphobic actions of today have consequences when that child chooses to distance themself from the hate of grandma. The ppl who love us, they accept us entirely no matter what, they love us unconditionally; any less that and their love is an empty promise that they wont keep. Every family member ive cut off has been bcuz of their failure to love unconditionally.
@momamiandkiddokelsi90272 жыл бұрын
I so understand you! My enby kiddos paternal family blames me for "putting idea's " in their head. I just shake my head and guides the relatives to Jamie's channel. I love my kiddo and will always respect them so I will fight everyone who tries to belittle my precious kiddo! You go mom! You are wonderful who stands with your child!
@Kattlarv2 жыл бұрын
"Eating vegan makes you a girl! - I'm trans, so thanks! - Wait, NO! YOU ARE A MAN!" It's both sad and a bit hilarious how quickly they flip on a dime.
@LunarEcho-rt9jm4 ай бұрын
they have too many uno reverse cards up their sleeves
@MeltedBrains892 жыл бұрын
Ok, I'm cis but if anyone throws a "get well soon" regarding any part of my identity they're getting a "Oh, I'm much better now, thank you" in response. I like making people mad by purposefully misunderstanding them while still looking polite/calm. Too many years of customer service taught me this
@nikoletahanakova85732 жыл бұрын
That would be a lovely reaction :-D
@CorwinFound2 жыл бұрын
Excellent response! I'll use it in the future. It's a form of malicious compliance. "Thanks so much! Since transitioning my mental health has improved dramatically. I appreciate your concern."
@DeathnoteBB2 жыл бұрын
I usually say that to bigots cause they clearly need genuine help
@sevans87842 жыл бұрын
Pro gamer move: when someone obviously religious makes some "holier than thou" comment about my identity, I wanna say, with complete sincerity, "I'm praying for you!" I just haven't gotten up the guts yet lol for real though, if they really think my existence effects them whatsoever, they need all the prayers they can get...
@CorwinFound2 жыл бұрын
@@DeathnoteBB I do that and get intense about it. And really specific. Like if it's a guy bitching about Elliot Page I start with a comment that they must be really insecure as a guy if Elliot triggers them. Maybe they should see a therapist about that. I stay supper sincere sounding and no matter what they say I just keep going with it. They usually just shut up within a few comments because denial starts looking guilty. One tactic against the phobe trolls.
@dneug50532 жыл бұрын
As a male metalhead with long hair I'm slightly offended by people assuming that men don't care about what products they use on their hair. Out of all my roommates, out of which I'm the only cis-person, I'm the one using the most products for his hair. Does that mean that the transphobes can't stand cis-men who take care of their hair either?
@noahluppe2 жыл бұрын
I only have shampoo, but gone through a few to find a good working one (and that also changed over time). But I probably should get some more stuff, my hair would maybe not get as damaged, especially as I normally wrap it relatively tightly.
@marnenotmarnie2592 жыл бұрын
some of them unironically are like that
@keeratkahlon90352 жыл бұрын
These people will be like "Real men don't care about their appearance" and than show a picture of bodybuilding model who has starved and dehydrated himself with a strict fitness regiment as an example of "Real Men" (Nothing against models, beauty, fashion and film industry has abused a lot of it's workers who are just trying to earn a living, through near unreachable standards which change very quickly, while further perpetuating bodyshaming misogynistic and transphobic ideals to the rest of the population to sell their products. That being said i find the irony of the "Real men don't care" crowd rather funny)
@sophiejones35542 жыл бұрын
@@noahluppe I’m guessing from the mention of wrapping that you have very curly hair, so you definitely want a conditioner. It is worth noting though that conditioners come in two varieties: wash-out and leave-in. You may want to try just using a leave-in conditioner first. Apply it when you wrap your hair rather than in the shower.
@noahluppe2 жыл бұрын
@@sophiejones3554 Nah I have straight hair. But loose they can get in the way so I have a kinda bun, but I don't care for looks, so I just wrap it around itself tightly to some form of bun/topknot. But thx much for the help ^^ I had wash out condisheners a couple times but I'm mainly just too lazy to apply and buy :)
@brilliantchaos53972 жыл бұрын
I think most cis people that refuse the word "cis" just don't like the implication of them not being the "standard" or norm and therefore feel like they shouldn't need a prefix. Since they are "regular". I think that's why they get so riled up.
@passionate_possum_pal2 жыл бұрын
They were so used to having the privilege of being considered default, that now they don't want to give that up, because it feels like oppression to them
@MR-nn5iu2 жыл бұрын
@@passionate_possum_pal That does sound plausible yeah. Especially with the repeated "special treatment" schtick they tend to repeat as their justification because the treatment doesn't directly affect them positively
@passionate_possum_pal2 жыл бұрын
@@MR-nn5iu It's the same thing that people used with gay marriage and the like.
@MR-nn5iu2 жыл бұрын
@@passionate_possum_pal Heck, they're STILL using it. Old habits really die hard with some people.
@amarisfrede22 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'd like them to read a text where things are switched, like: "We welcome all men and cis men, whether they are in a marriage or straight marriage, all are valid." Wonder how quick they would think it's stupid to just prefix one and not the other.
@Lorena-eh5cl2 жыл бұрын
This doesn’t have to do with being queer, but it does have to do with labels. I’m autistic and I said “neurotypical” on a chat once. And someone replied “I din’t have to know what neurotypical means to know that that’s a slur!” 😐 I was literally speechless lol
@commandercorl15442 жыл бұрын
...why
@theedenadventures Жыл бұрын
That’s like the non autistics telling the autistics what language to use regarding their own diagnosis and being offended on their behalf.
@Montesama314 Жыл бұрын
"I'm the default! Labels are for THOSE LESSER people."
@AstralArbourSys Жыл бұрын
@@theedenadventures oh my god don't get me going about person first language. it's all well and good if that's how you as someone with a disability want to be described, but pushing that on others isn't cool especially if you don't even have the disorder they do to begin with. i'm an autistic person, not a person with autism, don't make it sound like a fucking disease.
@_gorillazfreakinc._24 ай бұрын
Yet they're probably the same people to casually use the r word, which is an actual slur.
@BambiTrout2 жыл бұрын
Apparently the whole pink and blue thing goes deeper than just switching. Before around 1918, there were no gendered colours or even gendered clothes for children. All children up to the age of about 7 wore the same clothes in neutral colours - largely because people could only afford a limited amount of clothes, dyes were expensive, and this allowed parents to use every item of clothing as a hand-me-down regardless of sex. This changed after WW1 largely as a marketing strategy. In the post-war market, clothing manufacturers realised they could double their profits by pushing consumers to buy two separate sets of children's clothing, so style magazines started to promote the use of pink and blue to designate boys' and girls' clothing respectively. By the mid-1920s they had started to more aggressively push for fully differentiated clothing for boys and girls. The colours eventually switched in the 1940s, which held for a generation, until the 60s and 70s, when women's liberation movements started to push for unisex children's clothing once again. Gendered clothing only came back into fashion for babies in the mid-80s, when it became possible to detect the sex of a fetus, allowing parents to splurge on blue and pink paint again and excitedly tell everyone about their unborn child's genitalia. I think it's really interesting how these things have always been presented to us by our parents and grandparents as just "the way things are" when THEY were the ones who changed it to be like this. They act as if gender is a scientific fact, unchangeable from before birth, when in reality, they've been switching the cards for years. Fucking doublethink. Pink is for boys and blue is for girls. Blue is for boys and pink is for girls. White is for boys and white is for girls. The past is alterable. The past never had been altered. There is no war in Ba Sing Se. Oceania has always been at war with Eastasia. No but seriously, gendered clothing for kids is bullshit.
@commandercorl15442 жыл бұрын
Hah, I never knew this! It makes sense that they lost dyes in WWI (Had to use those for uniforms and various war related things) but I didn't know it switched more than once.
@electronics-girl2 жыл бұрын
I suspect the meaning of pink and blue has gotten "locked in" now that we have color photography. I doubt it will switch again.
@m-vi-yoh Жыл бұрын
1984
@Prence2 жыл бұрын
As a trans woman, I started to carry both a pad and a couple Tampons in my purse. Obviously I don't need them but if I'm in a stall and someone who does use them needs one, I will have them on me.. I learned to do that from another trans woman on the internet. Plus, it makes me feel affirmed when I go through my purse and I see that I carry them as any other woman would.
@yippee85702 жыл бұрын
Aw that's so sweet! I love this💞
@Tree-House692 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, it's a life saver to have them around when someone else is stuck in a restroom without anything aside from TP, before I transitioned (trans masc) I always carried spare that I wouldn't need if I was out just so I could hand a smaller pack off to someone who's stuck or similar. Now I still sometimes carry a small pack if it's possible, mostly to offer to a friend of someone who's stuck, one of my cis woman friends or in the far-off chance that in trans friendly spaces another trans masc or NB gets stuck when their periods start.
@LesRealLlama2 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you this, could come in use for me in the future ❤️❤️
@Prence2 жыл бұрын
@foxymoron I’m a trans woman, are you saying I’m transphobic? I’m just trying to do something nice for other people. And just so you know, men can have periods as well. I’m not transphobic, please stop trying to make it out as I am.
@actualgoblin2 жыл бұрын
@foxymoron I get that you're trolling, but you should be able to understand that not all people belonging to a group possess certain traits while still recognizing that there is a statistical association between the two
@time_keeper22442 жыл бұрын
As a trans person and genetics student, I would love the ability to see chromosomes with my bare eyes! INSTANT KARYOTYPE?! PLEASE!
@m0L3ify2 жыл бұрын
As a former Research Assistant, I can definitely say that would have made my job a WHOLE lot easier! "Look at all you plebs with your ethidium bromide and your agarose gels! I can see that mouse's heterozygosity with my BARE EYES!!"
@dianapovero73192 жыл бұрын
@@m0L3ify Yes! just yes.
@m0L3ify2 жыл бұрын
@@dianapovero7319 This entire convo is even more fun when you read it in Ryan George's voice 😄
@kevinbatfan19892 жыл бұрын
If you’re truly a genetic student, you would know that you can never be the gender opposite of what you were born with. It’s called common sense
@FrozEnbyWolf1502 жыл бұрын
@@kevinbatfan1989 The appeal to "common sense" is a logical fallacy known as the argument from incredulity. Not only are you completely ignorant of genetics, you also fail at formal logic.
@friendbright53752 жыл бұрын
I think I actually disagree with a point you've made in this video: You CAN misgender someone by using gender-neutral terms, but only in specific contexts. My parents started calling me "they" when I came out to them despite my pronouns not being they/them. They thought they were making a compromise, not using my AGAB anymore but refusing to call me by my name and pronouns, but they just found a new way to misgender me. Degendering, depending on the context, is just as bad as misgendering Edit: Just to clarify, since somebody in the replies pointed this out: Gender neutral language IS important, especially in the context of law and medicine, this comment is referring exclusively to a specific statement Jamie made and not the actual post it was addressing. People give birth; this includes women, men, and nonbinary people.
@SailorSaturn19942 жыл бұрын
yep, exactly this. they/them is perfectly good in situations where you don't know the person's pronouns, but only as long as you actually don't know. and ofc when the person's pronouns *are* they/them. I'm really sorry your parents are misgendering you and I hope they either learn to do better or that you can leave as soon as you can and it's safe to do so.
@komaedakat15832 жыл бұрын
my mom did this to my brother when he came out as trans. It's lazy, especially since they/them are my pronouns by my mom decides when she wants to use them to talk about me to others :/
@Nakia117982 жыл бұрын
It's about context. If people are using they/them for people they don't know the gender of, or that person doesn't care about what pronouns someone uses, it's obviously very different than your scenario. Sorry that your parents suck btw, that's not compromise. There's no compromising in respecting your child.
@tra120482 жыл бұрын
That just sounds like a blatant attempt at an insult tbh. It shows that they _are_ capable of using new pronouns for you, but they don't want to bother actually using the correct ones lol. It's even worse if they don't even need to use new pronouns for you (nonbinary AMAB keeping their he/him pronouns, for instance). It's just outright disrespect at that point.
@delfyinc2 жыл бұрын
Jamie's point was about inclusive gender neutral terms. Like, it's not misgendering to use they/them when talking about a group of people. In your situation, with singular use towards you specifically when it's not your pronoun, it absolutely is. I hope your parents figure it out and come around soon
@BinturongGirl2 жыл бұрын
The person who posted the tweet at 2:08 went on a full twitter rampage, posting a whole thread of pics of old and current friends, acquaintances, their kid's teacher, even their children's friends etc, claiming that they were all trans. It was really fucking creepy and probably criminal. They were ranting about how the trans are everywhere. It was honestly deranged.
@draalttom8442 жыл бұрын
Great he didn't try to fuck any of them at least, they all get a place at our table
@foxinabox51032 жыл бұрын
WTH?!! That fucked up...
@sophiejones35542 жыл бұрын
I mean… yeah, that literally does sound like it could be a symptom of a mental illness actually. It think it’s called Capgras Syndrome. Literally, sufferers think everyone they love has been replaced by imposters.
@draalttom8442 жыл бұрын
@@sophiejones3554 imposters, not transitionned
@enbyarchmage2 жыл бұрын
The creepiness of that person's actions only proves one thing Idiscovered pretty quickly, after I dove into the gender rabbit hole: it's pretty freaking easy to "headcanon" ANY person as trans. One only has to ask themselves "is this person trans?" in order to find a whole lot of ways with which the person in question fits gender stereotypes that do not match their AGAB, whatever that may be. My own mom, for instance, is transphobic and very much cis, but she was a huge tomboy as a child and, since that time, her personality can be so stereotypically masculine that a therapist once criticized her for it several times in their first (and only) session.
@RedSunsetDK2 жыл бұрын
As a cis woman who is calling myself and other cis gendered people cis, oh definitely yes I'm okay with being called cis 😊
@-Aquablue-2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@lauratroy132 жыл бұрын
Same. If it's relevant in a conversation i refer to myself as a cis woman. Don't see a problem with it
@chazbertino61022 жыл бұрын
I prefer real or normal, but to each their own lol
@RedSunsetDK2 жыл бұрын
@@chazbertino6102 well since trans women are both real and normal women, that doesn't differentiate between cis and trans women or same for trans and cis men.
@passionate_possum_pal2 жыл бұрын
@@chazbertino6102 trans women are real and normal, pal.
@kristi62742 жыл бұрын
The one thing I've see and hate the most are the "I was a tomboy, it would have be horrific to be "forced to transition". Like???? I was a tomboy but didn't feel or identity as male, all you have/had to do is ask 🙃 Nobody would just start calling you trans if that's not what you identify as like what are some of these people on??
@overworkedwarlock942 жыл бұрын
Well, they need to find SOMETHING to complain about.
@kristi62742 жыл бұрын
@@overworkedwarlock94 oh definitely they aren't happy unless they are complaining but still aren't happy because they weren't oppressed
@sammy-the-haze2 жыл бұрын
But also, I was a tomboy and would’ve been THRILLED to know that I had the option to transition before I was 15 and all the way through natal puberty
@kristi62742 жыл бұрын
@@sammy-the-haze right, like a simple 10 minute conversation might save save a lot of confusion for the child, but to assume either way is just wild when the person is literally there to be asked
@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos2 жыл бұрын
@@kristi6274 Uhg, so true. Growing up in the 90s and oughts was just awful for trans awareness. The number of times I thought, "Well shoot, it sure would be great if I had been born a girl. Oh well, nothing to be done about it; as everyone knows, t****ies are not in their right mind. Although, again, I totally get why they would want to transition. Men really did lose the chromosomal lottery." Like, just being brought up in a culture where being trans wasn't a punchline would have saved me a _lot_ of unhappiness and anxiety.
@lizf13532 жыл бұрын
The person who said "everything we've seen from the LGBTQ community was planed in the 90's" was right! We did have a evil plan in the 90's to try to be treated as equal, have our human rights respected, and be treated with dignity. 😯😱🤣🤣
@jengerbreadhouse2 жыл бұрын
and the planning only started in the 90s! every bit of progress before then was an accident
@uta62802 жыл бұрын
@@jengerbreadhouse except for the gay pirates, people wouldn't be civil so we did what we had to do, and if that's traveling the high seas with a loving partner so be it.
@eklectiktoni2 жыл бұрын
I thought they were talking about climate change 😵💫
@lizf13532 жыл бұрын
@@jengerbreadhouse Hahahaha
@lizf13532 жыл бұрын
@@uta6280 🤣
@bitchenboutique69532 жыл бұрын
The folks who insist they can SEE chromosomes annoy me so much that a few times I’ve said “so you are 100% sure you know what mine are?” (I’m a cis woman) and they say yes. So I press “you’re absolutely sure?” and they say yes. So I smirk and say “Really. You’re positive. You are 100% sure I was not only born female but my chromosomes are definitely XX.” And I just stare them down. Because yeah sure I happened to have been born with typically female bits and I definitely have the secondary sex characteristics associated with females, but I have no idea what my chromosomal makeup is. I also have a bit of a deep voice and am nowhere near “dainty,” so it doesn’t take much to get them to question that 100% they were so sure of a minute earlier. Just for grins.
@wordforger2 жыл бұрын
Lol. Reminds me of the first transwoman I ever met. Her daughter was giving her a bit of hell about not being able to sing high because she was transitioning later in life... So I couldn't help it. I sang my lowest note. Yeah, I'm cis, but I've got a deeper voice for a woman and have been accused of sounding like a baritone when I get down there because I know I how to make it sound mannish. So I figured that would make her feel a little better. A lot of standards we hold for what makes someone a woman are total BS.
@bitchenboutique69532 жыл бұрын
@@wordforger In high school even though I was in the soprano section of the choir, I stood behind the tenors… and whenever they struggled with their part, I’d switch to help them out!
@sanityshattered2 жыл бұрын
Person: "Saying 'people' is dehumanising." The same person: "Why not say 'women, trans and nb PEOPLE'?" oh.
@tidepodpadthai26332 жыл бұрын
Also they said "we are women, not "people"" as if you aren't both? i doubt they even thought about what they wrote before they posted it but they really should have thought about the implication there
@sileudies2 жыл бұрын
Voidpunk people:
@FaunaturaleOG2 жыл бұрын
Same for those who are iffy about they/them YET those same pronouns are used casually for past tense settings. Just wild
@FrozEnbyWolf1502 жыл бұрын
It has the same energy as when people get offended by "Happy Holidays." The language is meant to be more inclusive, and nobody said you aren't allowed to celebrate Christmas anymore. Similarly, nobody ever said that women have to stop calling themselves women.
@carlairving2 жыл бұрын
Being legally considered as "persons" was one of the biggest first-wave feminist fight in Canada. Now, TERFs cry when we are included as people...
@MichaelMann-hg5kv2 жыл бұрын
8:31 well... As a trans guy, I'm sorry to say that it's kinda true. I don't pass at all, so when I went to get a *men's* haircut that I got an appointment for *in advance*, the hairdresser wanted to charge me for a *women's* haircut, which is a lot more expensive. If I was born male, I would've been charged for much less in the first place, but instead I tried to explain to him that I appointed a *men's* haircut and that I'm a *guy*, all while trying to suppress a panic attack. And after all that I only got a minor discount accompanied by the most condescending tone and him acting as if I'm a child that he's trying to calm down like "here, does that make you feel better?". I'm so freaking tired of all the inherent misogyny in society, from big to small. It just drives me crazy, and every time I experience it myself it reminds me that we live in a messed up world and also that no one will ever truly see me as a man. So yea, fun (Anyway sorry for the long rant, guess I just had to get it out of my system)
@calamityjean15252 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you had such a hard time. Maybe the next time you need a haircut, if the hairdresser insults you like that you consider just getting up and leaving. Go to another establishment that treats you better.
@amarisfrede22 жыл бұрын
Sorry dude, that sucks. I had something similar happen to me once. Although I'm a cis woman, I did go to a hairdresser to get a man cut. I had long hair, and just wanted all of it shaved of. So, nothing complex, I thought. And they did advertise for a mashine cut for 10€. However, the hairdresser started by making my hair wet. I asked why, and they said that it's standard for a woman's cut. I told them I just wanted everything shaved off, for the 10€ they advertised. They said they couldn't do that, because I'm a woman. I said, then I don't want it, and left with my wet hair. Ended up shaving it with clippers myself, and have been doing so for over a decade now. I'm sorry the hairdresser was rude to you. If it helps you let off steam, write them a review, cuz basically the hairdresser just disrespected you, assigning an identity to you that isn't yours. It's like he'd suddenly dye someone's hair black, because they 'looked goth' to him, instead of the red or pink the customer ordered. The hairdresser should have treated you and your wishes with respect, but he didn't, and that's on him, not on you! And the people that matter will always see you how you are, and respect your identity as a man. It shouldn't matter, how well you 'pass'. Nobody is forcing Madonna to look like a Madonna, but they respect her name and identity all the same. So, no matter as what kind of man you are presenting or appearing, you are a man, and that's all anyone needs to know to respect you!
@dianeb-r85122 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro... that's exactly because I fear something like that would happen that I haven't come out (as transmasc) to my usual hairdresser yet. For context, my parents have moved away from the place where I have grown up a few years ago, and they now live in a flat. One of their greatest joys is that there is a hairdresser literally next door to their building, and he does a really good job. As I am a student, I got the holidays during a part of which I go to my parents', and then, since it's very convenient and practical, I go get my haircut there. The problem is, as the appointment has to be done in advance (like, at least 3 weeks), my parents do it for me... so, they get an appointment for their "daughter". So I get to pay the "woman price" and to be misgendered all along... I tried to explain to the guy why I wanted a short haircut the first time I came (I had very long hair for most of my life), but I was just so scared that he would judge me or make any bad comment (more the fact that I am very shy) that I ended up not saying anything. And my parents don't even understand the problem...I feel so tired sometimes. Like you said, the world is messed up. Stay strong bro
@muriel58262 жыл бұрын
@@dianeb-r8512 so sorry to hear this. I hope you get to claim your true identity in all aspects of your life soon. But I also understand that you need to feel safe before doing so. I hope that makes sense
@Anonymous-sq6eo2 жыл бұрын
Of course people will never see you as a man, because you’re not a man. The sooner you learn to live with it, the better.
@ariwillis48452 жыл бұрын
Damn the daycare one hit real close to home, as I am a nonbinary childcare provider who uses they/them. Kids always ask me “are you a boy or a girl?” and I struggle to answer because I worry that word may get back to parents who do not approve. My default response at this point is “I’m a mystery.”
@Otakugatothequeen2 жыл бұрын
I'm cis, but sometimes when people ask for your gender out of nowhere it can be kinda weird so I usually just reply with, "I'm a genderless blob of Autism and hate." ...I have Autism and social anxiety...
@mammoneymelon2 жыл бұрын
my mom teaches first grade and every year the kids get confused and ask my mom if i'm a boy or a girl (i'm a stereotypical nonbinary person with an odd name) and she tells them to ask me, so when they ask my go-to response is "what do YOU think i am?" because i think it's funny watching them try to decide lmao
@IdaMSG2 жыл бұрын
I watched the Baymax episode last night with my two children (6 and 3 years old). I had just briefly explained periods to them when this scene came up and the oldest said "That's a man" and right after he said "but men can have uteruses!" I did something right. ❤️🏳️⚧️ Then we talk about what being trans means and how I knew he was trans because of the flag on his shirt. 🏳️⚧️ I don't keep anything from my children and see these topics as the most natural thing. But I'm so happy they are having these stories in cartoons ❤️🙌
@Am-uj6qn2 жыл бұрын
The most natural thing? Is there annother defenition for natural that i don t know about? Because natural means that it happens in nature and i don t think any other animal is taking hormones and doing surgery because they feel like they are in the wrong body. Being trans is far from natural.
@shezedks2 жыл бұрын
Based parent story, hope they're enjoying the series 👍🏳️⚧️
@quantumgroovytime2 жыл бұрын
incredible, thank you, your kids are lucky to have you :]
@quantumgroovytime2 жыл бұрын
@@rhymerlegend2717 ok??? and i don’t, they have an incredible parent who is raising them to treat everyone with respect and dignity.
@quantumgroovytime2 жыл бұрын
@@rhymerlegend2717 you have make 1K+ comments on this channel. yikes.
@vadskamanta2 жыл бұрын
The pregnancy part really got to me. Was at an amusement park today, and naturally they had rides you're not allowed to go on if you're pregnant. However they stated that "pregnant women" aren't allowed on them, so I assume it would be totally fine to go on them if you're male or non-binary and pregnant! It's not even that hard, just say "If you are pregnant you're not allowed on this ride". Interestingly enough, the statement about pregnant women was also only in the english version. In the native language they only stated 'pregnant' without any gender attached. They also only had diaper changing stations for kids in the women's bathrooms so tough luck if you're a male (cis or trans) and there with a kid who still wears diapers. Honestly, fine I get that they don't think inclusive language is necessary (I obviously don't agree since I reacted to it), but it can't be that 'woke' of an idea for a male to go with their kids to an amusement park?? Can it??
@PlatinumAltaria2 жыл бұрын
These people think that fathers are dangers to their own children, so actually they probably do think it's weird for dads to take their kids out.
@VJ20992 жыл бұрын
Come on friend, have a bit of common sense. Regardless of whether the sign says pregnant women, men, or non-binary, the keyword here is *pregnant* so if you’re pregnant anything, you obviously shouldn’t be going on certain rides.
@VJ20992 жыл бұрын
@EC Lowe good point
@alexabaxter66582 жыл бұрын
In Australia, major shopping centres have "parents' rooms" for that kind of thing, so neither the standard male nor female needs to have diaper tables or accommodate wheeling in a pushchair. Realistically a guy alone with his kids might get weird looks or worse, but the signage doesn't enforce it at least. The women's bathroom is just stalls and sinks plus menstrual product disposal bins, so kids are only in there once they're old enough to attempt to use the standard facilities or wait for their mother to. I'd hope a dad can do that too! There's the disabled bathroom if the normal options fail, that's roomy and has a change table, but you don't want to use it and make disabled people with no other option wait.
@eclowe65942 жыл бұрын
@Marianne science disagrees but you do you
@omni-one3762 жыл бұрын
just wanted to share a token of trans joy about finally finding the courage to use the mens bathroom for the first time a few days ago. these videos really helped in building up that courage over the last half year and i wanted to say thank you anyway have a nice day everyone and I'm sure any of you who haven't found that courage yet are going to find it soon ✨️🏳️⚧️✨️
@Rene-is-confused2 жыл бұрын
That’s so great!!! I’m so happy for you!!!!
@omni-one3762 жыл бұрын
@@Rene-is-confused thank youuuuu ❤️
@charliesmith27972 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you!! I'm a trans guy and I hope that someday I'll be able to do that too :)
@omni-one3762 жыл бұрын
@@charliesmith2797 I'm sure you will. little piece of advice: try to go to some place where there are really few people so its less likely to run into someone in the bathroom, takes away a lot of stress ❤️
@gonewitht2 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing! Glad to see some trans joy :D
@EvanNeedsTherapy2 жыл бұрын
You know, I just realized when people do the whole “phobia means irrational fear of something” I’m not blankphobic! They really aren’t saying they aren’t afraid, they’re saying they aren’t IRRATIONALLY afraid. They believe their fears are rational, because they believe queer people are predators, which is entirely statistically baseless, they are irrational but they’re justifying it with fear mongering. Wild
@catherineshaw34622 жыл бұрын
Yes, I have seen that directly argued. ("I'm not homophobic, I'm not scared of gays.") Unfortunately for them, the definition of phobia includes irrational fear and/or hatred of X, and their actions are pretty hateful,
@shawh69372 жыл бұрын
True, they definitely see their views as rational. They also ignore the fact that phobia can mean "aversion to" and not just "fear of" and I think it's safe to say transphobes certainly have an aversion to trans people.
@sophiatrocentraisin2 жыл бұрын
While what you say has merits (they think their fears are rational), people who play the "litteral definition of phobia" card usually say they aren't afraid. Right before revealing how afraid they are. And if you think "not being afraid" and "being afraid for rational reasons" at the same time is incompatible for basic logical reasons, welcome into the mind of the "facts and logic" crowd
@catherineshaw34622 жыл бұрын
@Marianne So would you be happy with Jamie coming into women's spaces, then? Genuinely curious.
@catherineshaw34622 жыл бұрын
@Marianne Thank you for answering and for being consistent. I agree it's often about passing, and given that most people would read Jamie as male I suspect he would have problems getting in to women-only spaces if he wanted to. (Also, the route he took to physical transition didn't involve having anything carved out of his arm - he has a number of videos about what he chose to do, some of them posted within the last couple of weeks.) But to address your other point - the vast majority of transwomen aren't a threat to other women. As far as I can tell. Or are you referring to something other than a physical threat?
@cayk4812 жыл бұрын
4:32 "i'm not afraid of trans people!" *proceeds to explain how scared they are of their supposed plans*
@theomegajuice86602 жыл бұрын
The "I wouldn't be offended, I'd be annoyed and insulted" responses to being called "cis" are really weird... that basically IS being offended but they've had it drilled into them so hard that "people who get offended by things are irrational and bad" that they're dancing around the word.
@Tree-House692 жыл бұрын
It's a more specific version of offended, but to them they view offended as "The thing irrational hysterical people do" due to the language in recent popular politics online and IRL, so since they see themselves as the "Completely rational logical and morally correct ones against them there Crazies(tm)" they look for a way to still try to separate themselves from the concept of offense/taking offense.
@CorwinFound2 жыл бұрын
"Not offended but annoyed and insulted" = "I'm not a snowflake but I fall from the sky and melt with minimal heat."
@happyanonymous97892 жыл бұрын
Well, it's the same as when trans men/women are told that they're not real men/women. Trans women are trans women. They're not the same as biological women and they will never be that. Same for trans men. If a trans person can't accept that they're trans and instead gets offended when someone doesn't see them as real man/woman, I don't see why a cis person can't be offended over being called "cis". Hypocrisy by LGBT as usual.
@Jane-oz7pp2 жыл бұрын
"to hurt the feelings of or insult - She uses language that offends people" - Merriam Webster definition of offend.
@happyanonymous97892 жыл бұрын
@@Jane-oz7pp Goes both ways really.
@thalianero10712 жыл бұрын
I think the “people who get pregnant” backlash is in part due to more transphobic branches of feminism that include misogyny and reproductive oppression as experiences that are essential and universal to women’s experiences. Then, to say that pregnancy is for “people” instead of “women” flies in the face of these theories
@theomegajuice86602 жыл бұрын
The point I always make about "people who can get pregnant" that no one else makes is that it's important because GIRLS, who are NOT women yet, can also get pregnant. It's actually really important that you don't automatically assume that everyone getting pregnant is an adult by defaulting to "women" even if you're anti-trans. But trans-exclusionists seem to care more about excluding trans people than they do about acknowledging this issue affects cis-girls
@m0L3ify2 жыл бұрын
@@rhymerlegend2717 I'm pretty sure there are a lot more girls under the age of 18 than you're accounting for
@CelestialScribbler2 жыл бұрын
@@rhymerlegend2717 Trans men and non-binary people who can get pregnant may be a minority but they are people and not women, what's the harm in including them. And even if you want to be transphobic, are 10 year old kids really women just because if assaulted they can get pregnant? It's not about changing the entire language, it's about small changes to be more inclusive when appropriate.
@m0L3ify2 жыл бұрын
@@rhymerlegend2717 Not really, but have a nice day anyway
@shadowsimp6972 жыл бұрын
@@rhymerlegend2717 the term "people who can get pregnant" refers to people with a biological ability; not every person who can get pregnant is a woman AS WELL AS not every woman (cis included!) can get pregnant. this term serves the purpose of talking about a certain aspect, where gender simply doesn't matter.
@biggiechungus7842 жыл бұрын
Cis is an adjective, not a slur. I wouldn't expect the people who don't know what a pronoun is to understand that though
@bloodgutsandangelcake60792 жыл бұрын
actually it can be a prefix too ^^ but agreed.
@oonooooooooo2 жыл бұрын
literally, second grade english would beat their a$$ up
@jojo-digidestined40732 жыл бұрын
@Marianne so you would deny somebody a comfort just because there different that's fine along as there aloud to miss gender you other wise that's called being a hypocrit
@lucienfortner8412 жыл бұрын
@Marianne The truth is that people are the gender they say they are. They're the ones living as themselves, they know what gender they are. You, as a complete stranger, do not know other people's gender better than they do.
@vanessadisco66432 жыл бұрын
It goes beyond the word Cis... it's what the word represents. You are shoving everyone aside and insisting that women and men (99% of the world) identify themselves as "not you" in order to feel included. Just like you're shoving your way into bathrooms and sports without even a considering thought to the fact that there are real perverts in the world who are already capitalizing on all of this and disparities between women and men physically... no conversation... just, "this is how it is and if you dont like it youre transphobic... and you have no idea why there is pushback?? Videos like this are for people who already agree with you... to the rest of us it's just another example of how self-indulgent this community is.
@glitterbug56782 жыл бұрын
Everytime someone says they can "just tell" when someone is trans i think about the articles i read that tried to shame a trans athlete and SHAMED THE WRONG WOMAN BECAUSE HER OPPONENT WAS SO TALL AND MASCULINE
@saltedsword88522 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that there are KZbinrs like you who I can look up to even as a transwoman
@BahamutEx2 жыл бұрын
Same
@Tree-House692 жыл бұрын
I had mostly known and seen trans fems throughout my younger years, Jammi and Ty were the first trans mascs I got to see, I'm so happy that Jammi's channel has grown as it has since otherwise it felt like a lot of creators like him were underdogs.
@Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic2 жыл бұрын
Idk any mtf trans youtubers but ik noah finnace (probably spelt his last name wrong) is like Jamie, hell they both even met up and know eachother 😂
@BahamutEx2 жыл бұрын
@@Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic Samantha Lux and Riley j. Dennis are 2 that come to mind
@sluttyMapleSyrup2 жыл бұрын
@@BahamutEx Riley can be hit or miss but she did make some great analyses on Brooklyn-99's LGBT+ representation. Also Philosophy Tube, Conure, and Miss London (but Idk if she's still in the Blaire White sphere of influence).
@kierawoonarowicz86362 жыл бұрын
Someone from my old school called me a “soy boy” once at school, I was super in the closet as a trans person then, but that made me super happy just because someone called me a boy. Didn’t even know it was an insult. I was just happy to be known as a boy.
@xerxeskare64522 жыл бұрын
For further context the thread made by "[blank] is a REAL woman" was about accusing all of her past college affiliates of being trans when in actuality, they were all cis. Even the cis teachers were clocked.
@Eloraurora Жыл бұрын
...I guess this is a hair better than her betraying an actual trans woman who confided in her, but still trash.
@thats_a_cat69022 жыл бұрын
I never understood why people find it dehumanizing to be be called a "person"
@eclowe65942 жыл бұрын
I just wanna go Mandy Patinkin in Princess Bride on them when they do that. "Dehumanizing. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means."
@thats_a_cat69022 жыл бұрын
@Marianne well if you are a Cis woman that is pregnant I will use she/her pronouns and call you a woman but if you're talking about pregnant people as a whole which means ANYONE who is pregnant including cis women, Trans men, non binary people, and other non gender conforming people I will use a gender neutral term such as 'person' or 'people' I am not refusing to call you a woman, you're just looking for an excuse to be angry Also 'cis' is just a term used for saying not Trans, yes Trans women are women but in some cases its important to clarify that this person is Trans and this person is cis.
@thats_a_cat69022 жыл бұрын
@Marianne you don't have to agree with me but I don't believe that Trans women and non binary people are erasing women they mind their own business mostly. If you can get pregnant then you have a uterus that doesn't make you a woman
@thats_a_cat69022 жыл бұрын
@Marianne Trans women go into women's spaces because they are women, Trans men go into men's spaces because they are men, you have probably shared a bathroom with a Trans woman more than once without even realizing it, they play in women's sports because there is no advantage that they have against cis women
@thats_a_cat69022 жыл бұрын
@Marianne you say that as if all Trans women are muscular and tall when most try not to workout too much in order to be more feminine
@thalianero10712 жыл бұрын
I would guess they’re annoyed because “cis” is not an identity term; it’s an exonym for people who are not trans. Same with almost any label for a privileged group; eg. white. It’s natural to be annoyed at having a label used for an aspect of oneself that one doesn’t consider important, but accepting that labels for privileged groups are not up to privileged groups to decide is something people should accept
@theomegajuice86602 жыл бұрын
I'd argue that "trans" isn't really an identity term either, it's purely descriptive. You identify as your gender (male, female, non-binary etc.) and then "trans" or "cis" describes whether that gender matchs with the one you were treated as when you were growing up.
@SimonClarkstone2 жыл бұрын
"exonym" is a good word.
@transgenderguineapigguy2 жыл бұрын
only that 'white' people aren't actually white... we're pink
@KaiHenningsen2 жыл бұрын
"cis" works exactly the same way as "hetero" does. Are people just as annoyed being called "hetero"? No? Why? Because transphobes have been telling them that it is a bad word, that's why.
@Mudblood772 жыл бұрын
“but accepting that labels for privileged groups are not up to privileged groups to decide is something people should accept” Wow such privilege you have there putting labels on people they don’t want or didn’t ask for. So opressed 🤣🤡
@PokhrajRoy.2 жыл бұрын
Moral of the Story: We’re all SHOOKETH that the ‘90s was 30 years ago.
@m0L3ify2 жыл бұрын
I will live in eternal denial
@transsexual_void_fairy2 жыл бұрын
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@rachelppython2 жыл бұрын
No no no i refuse
@lamcb.94762 жыл бұрын
I was watching the Baymax series and when that scene in particular came up I was like “awh that’s sweet I wish I had had all that kind of support when I first went buying pads” and then I paused and rewinded with “wait was that a trans man?” Because I honestly didn’t focus on it, and I smiled with “oh right of course not only women can have periods that’s real nice that they included that. The house of mouse is making some progress”
@DisneyFanatic2364 Жыл бұрын
5:01 Well the first part is right. Crossdressing doesn't automatically make you trans. Could just mean you're a boy who likes dresses and makeup. Or an aspiring Shakespearean. The rest was ridiculous.
@runic_raptor2 жыл бұрын
On the last one, it always feel like it's "Women aren't 'people' they're women," Which is uh... a little off. Women are included in people. If you think they're not included for any reason, that's weird and kinda wtf
@austinfranklin4172 жыл бұрын
If I had no choice but to put my child in daycare. I'm worried about the quality of the facility, how well-trained the caregivers are, and how well my child gets along with the caregivers. I don't give a shit what the caregivers look like, who they love, their gender, their sexual identity, or any other thing that's none of my business. So if I had to put my child in daycare, if the best facility around is exclusively run by trans humans, then that's where my child would go.
@dianapovero73192 жыл бұрын
Me too, I actually said yes to the screen as if theop could hear me.
@kevinbatfan19892 жыл бұрын
That would actually be The worst type of daycare I’m pretty sure the trans people will try to indoctrinate your children into their beliefs and forcing them to use pronouns. Just my opinion…
@moonlightnymph79752 жыл бұрын
@@kevinbatfan1989 they literally wouldn’t though also, pretty much everyone uses pronouns so idk what you’re even trying to say here
@dianapovero73192 жыл бұрын
@@kevinbatfan1989 You do realize them is a pronoun...
@Vroomvroom822 жыл бұрын
@Kevin Garcia
@hope-hk6oy2 жыл бұрын
4:12 well, that post got one thing right - queer people shouldn't get "special treatment". so I guess that means we should stop being persecuted, be able to marry who we want, adopt kids if we want to, and see ourselves represented in media! look at that, a common opinion lol
@Dabloon-god2 жыл бұрын
Saying "Get well soon..." to a trans person also could be interpreted as, I hope you can get your hormones and/or genderaffirming surgery soon, so you feel better 😂🤌
@finmiles9652 жыл бұрын
I really needed this after my best friend of a decade just said he’d now be deadnaming me cuz he couldn’t lie to god anymore.
@MR-nn5iu2 жыл бұрын
Yikes, so sorry to hear that
@passionate_possum_pal2 жыл бұрын
Goodness I'm sorry
@eliotrix29552 жыл бұрын
If there is a God then "he" knows your trans and I hope "he" tells your friend that your deadname is the lie
@VeryGoodDad2 жыл бұрын
Sending hugs
@RebelWvlf2 жыл бұрын
That "friend" sounds like he is in the cult and I am so sorry.
@PinkPuffball19922 жыл бұрын
As someone who is also a part of the B, I accept everyone that is a part of the community! Also, I watched the entire first season of the Baymax show, and it's basically a series of shorts where Baymax goes around and helps people with their physical health but also their emotional health as well. It's really cute and great if you just need a feel good series
@twiggledowntown35642 жыл бұрын
Did you change your icon? I swear I've seen you before.
@PinkPuffball19922 жыл бұрын
@@twiggledowntown3564 Heh, yeah, I changed it
@twiggledowntown35642 жыл бұрын
@@PinkPuffball1992 It looks really cool!
@PinkPuffball19922 жыл бұрын
@@twiggledowntown3564 Thanks! I just found it on Google images when I came out as bi and was like I wanna still be Kirby but also show off my bi pride, so yeah
@beardiemom2 жыл бұрын
One of my letters isn't even in the commonly used acronym, but idgaf, T belongs there. 2 of my closest friends are trans and when they came out, I just responded by asking what name they wanted me to use going forward and told them that I couldn't care less what gender they were as long as they are comfortable being themselves.
@SquisheeDog2 жыл бұрын
As a cis person the only problem I've ever had with using cis is that my mind keeps thinking it's sis. Similar to being confused when my friends kept going to a restaurant called Chi's and I thought they just liked eating a lot of cheese.
@extrantice Жыл бұрын
would definitely go to a cheese restaurant
@CodaBlairLucarioEmperor Жыл бұрын
I'm a cis guy guy and go through the same thing, but for me it's also worse because my brain then turns sis into sissy into sister like most people.
@littlegoat713 Жыл бұрын
6:44 "Get well soon!" My response to that would be, "thanks! I'll try, but its kinda hard when you're forced to live as someone you aren't, y'know?"
@Laura-ir7nj2 жыл бұрын
I'm offended by the words "creamy pink" I never thought there was anything worse than "moist"
@lauratroy132 жыл бұрын
To the vegan transphobe: my best cis male friend is vegan and is so hairy and probably the most 'manly' looking guy in our town, but sure. Eating soy makes you a girl
@BahamutEx2 жыл бұрын
If that would be true I'd be eating tons of soy lol. (trans woman)
@amarisfrede22 жыл бұрын
Yeah lol, as if meat and dairy wouldn't have much more hormone residue, come on. 😁
@BahamutEx2 жыл бұрын
@gr1mmr34per gaming probably the whole "real men eat meat" thing 🤷♀️
@BahamutEx2 жыл бұрын
@gr1mmr34per gaming indeed
@LesRealLlama2 жыл бұрын
@@BahamutEx yeah haha yh. Ima do it and i expect to be a women in the next 24 hours.. or else
@gaypenguinhaslimes41902 жыл бұрын
My mom is a Anthropology professor (study of humans, specifically she teaches Cultural and Physical), and when I came out as non-binary, she sat me down for a lecture, but about the statistical likelihood a primy (a baby born very ahead of due date) will later identify as trans/nonbinary, and about how gender is made up and a very well researched history of how the binary is fake An odd response to someone coming out sure, but nice nonetheless Thanks for the free collage lecture and the wonderful love and support Mama ❤️ (Just wanted to share some ok cis people as a pallet cleanser for everyone lol)
@user-guigui01 Жыл бұрын
About the primy.... 😮😮😮😮
@jhivarr4202 Жыл бұрын
Also born a premie (so many different ways to spell it :D ) at 23 weeks. Also trans. Always wondered if there was a connection! Looks like I will have to do some minor searching! Thank you for this comment!
@CombustibleCake2 жыл бұрын
so i work retail currently, and when a coworker and i were stocking shelves we saw a “5-in-one for men” bottle that claimed to be shampoo, conditioner, bodywash, facewash and shaving cream. we started our male coworkers if they’d ever use it and most of them said something along the lines of “hell no, there’s no way it does all of that, what did they even put in there”
@probably_not_garfield2 жыл бұрын
No, Jamie, we are never prepared. Precisely why we love your content 🤌
@flasche.2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, it’s always a pleasant surprise :D
@Commentingstuff2 жыл бұрын
Especially with all the things cis hets have going on
@SD-uz1cc2 жыл бұрын
This was the top comment for me and I read it as he said “are you prepared” and I very much laughed at the contrast 😂
@Commentingstuff2 жыл бұрын
@Marianne bro idk if you even watched the video but cisgender = not trans, and Heterosexual = not gay, normal = someone who doesn’t waste their time commenting that they made up a slur Hope this helped, go read a dictionary
@Commentingstuff2 жыл бұрын
@Marianne Sorry for misgendering you with a gender neutral word, it must be so hard to be a cis woman 😖 Cisgender and Heterosexual are terms only used when necessary. I’m not going to see someone and be like “Wow they are such a cis het!” Because it’s just a term used to, your right, sub categorize. But guess what? People are “sub categorized” all the time. Is the word INTP a slur? No, it’s just an adjective used to describe people, and cisgender heterosexuals shouldn’t waste their time talking about how it “offends them”
@lawrencescales98642 жыл бұрын
Oh no the “I don’t know trans masc people are real” line of reasoning for pads
@GenderFluidDragonKing2 жыл бұрын
I think what's funny about the whole soy thing is so much food has soy in it and also soy doesn't increase or decrease the amount of testosterone in someone's body by any meaningful amount. Even then estrogen isn't negative everyone has a mixture of testosterone and estrogen so it's not that big of a deal
@amarisfrede22 жыл бұрын
Also also, most soy is being fed to livestock, so if it did change those who eat it, shouldn't meat have an even higher concentration?
@draalttom8442 жыл бұрын
It does change you a tiny bit, nit enough to notice but what makes me laugh when they cry about soy milk is, do you know what has a lot more oestrogene and transfers way more easily in your body (still isn't significant) cow milk.
@Jupiter-ng1yi2 жыл бұрын
Little rant: my parents told me school is brainwashing me simply because I believe rape rates aren't going to go up if we let trans people use the correct bathroom. No way I'm going to ever tell them I'm nonbinary :/
@Werevampiwolf2 жыл бұрын
Statistically, more Republican Congressman have been arrested for "lewd conduct" in a bathroom than trans people. There have been 0 recorded instances of trans people doing such but 3 Republican Congressman
@amarisfrede22 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you're forced to live with such closed-minded people. As if the rates of trans people getting harrassed by being forced in the wrong bathroom wouldn't go down instead... And a greater acceptance in general would also reduce the hate and harrassement tomboys and femboys are currently getting, using the right bathroom. But I guess your parents don't get their 'facts' from scientific journals or newssites, right?
@LesRealLlama2 жыл бұрын
Oh, that really sucks. Hope you get someone u can talk to about it
@transsexual_void_fairy2 жыл бұрын
i'm so sorry.
@muriel58262 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your identity here. I hope you find a community in person you can share the real you with, even if it’s one carefully chosen person at a time. Hugs!
@taigathesilly2 жыл бұрын
"would you be offended if i called you a 'cis man' or a 'cis woman'" well yes because im a trans woman
@lorifiedler132 жыл бұрын
You could blow them a kiss. 😘 You passed the test. Congratulations 🎊
@ke3oy_2 жыл бұрын
nicely done
@kanyoje2 жыл бұрын
You had us in the first half not gonna lie
@commandercorl15442 жыл бұрын
Take my like and run off with it, along with your hilarious comment.
@katyj60582 жыл бұрын
This is it. This is the best comment with the read more format.
@yippee85702 жыл бұрын
Well, you can call me 'cis' if it's for context, why not? Otherwise just call me a 'woman'. Same for trans women. Only necessary to use 'trans' before 'woman' if we need context, because trans women are women. It's a learning journey, I admit. I did wonder the first time I heard the term, having already been a woman for a long time, why I needed to add 'cis' to it. But I thought about it, talked about it, asked questions and learned why it is indeed sometimes necessary to say 'cis woman'. Up until a few years ago I was very ignorant about trans issues (other than that I felt compassion for people forced to feel vulnerable and excluded just for wanting to be themselves). Now I'm the parent of one trans kid, one cis het kid and one cis gay kid. So we're all colours of the rainbow in our house! 😀
@luxlloyd58052 жыл бұрын
Perfectly worded. As a trans person, I don’t mine if people refer to me as a “trans man” in a relevant context, but if it’s irrelevant (as would be the case most of the time,) I don’t appreciate it. I’d imagine it’s the exact same for cis people.
@CorwinFound2 жыл бұрын
I had a friend (past tense) who threw a hissy fit any time I referred to him as cis/het (or just cis or het). "You always use that as an insult." My response, "No. I tend to use those terms when you are being trans or homophobic. Because you so often are." As context he would use the t and f slurs because he thought they were funny and that he was "allowed" to say them because he had a trans, bisexual friend. I eventually gave up on him.
@passionate_possum_pal2 жыл бұрын
That's so great! And I fully agree. I'd rather just be called who I am without a prefix, unless there's a need for clarification. Ex. "Do you need a pad" "You don't sound like [x]" this like that.
@Anonymous-sq6eo2 жыл бұрын
Trans women are not women. Women as a word has a meaning, and men dressing up as women doesn’t fit that meaning
@foxinabox51032 жыл бұрын
@@CorwinFound good for you! I think You've dodged a ballistic missile there
@eckoschreiber2 жыл бұрын
30ys ago, I went through my school asking people what they thought about heteros... Reactions by pupils and teachers alike not getting they were (presumably) asked about themselves were hilarious;o) And that's why I think the coming out process is important and enlightening even for the (alleged) defaults^^ Thx Jammi, much love!
@storyspren2 жыл бұрын
If men are from Mars, and women are from Venus, then I must be nonbinary because I'm from Earth :p
@icaruish2 жыл бұрын
ah yes, the two genders : creamy pink and light blue-
@theradioestofbois2 жыл бұрын
The two colors, girl and boy. What about the creamy buttered popcorn gender
@Ava-wu4qp2 жыл бұрын
The word "creamy" being associated with a person's gender is just off-putting imho
@cat_clawz94732 жыл бұрын
The rest of the color wheel: am I a joke to you? ;-;
@LesRealLlama2 жыл бұрын
(And maybe trans) - the other thing
@maayanona2 жыл бұрын
9:51 ... You do know that soy doesn't have real estrogen in it, but cow's milk does, right?.... because a female cow actually has estrogen while soy is a plant...
@bastienfelix4605 Жыл бұрын
I’m a cis man. I like to occasionally wear dresses or makeup. This is only because I find them pretty. I’m cis and feel perfectly comfortable in my masculinity. I actually hate that there aren’t any big brands of dresses for men. Dresses are usually very droopy around the chest when I wear them so…
@epichoagie59992 жыл бұрын
If someone needs to cling to a "simple binary", then it is pretty clear they are simple-minded. Frankly the whole gender spectrum thing is not that difficult of a concept to grasp. So I have to figure that, if someone is unwilling to learn it, they must be rather smooth-brained.
@anti-usernamesaltaccount36232 жыл бұрын
Oh, to be a mouse unaware of the social construct that is gender.
@haha-lj5sq2 жыл бұрын
Nah I’ve studied it a lot but I disagree.
@epichoagie59992 жыл бұрын
@@haha-lj5sq Define "studied". Do you mean you actually looked into scholarly resources and did research? Because you seem to be disagreeing with mountains of research from scientists of multiple stripes.
@gustavohermandio14402 жыл бұрын
its not about learning xD people just disagree with your spectrum idea of gender. its a social construct, meaning that society gets to decide how it works. the leftist academic lunatics that want to separate gender from sex do not talk for society as a whole. when most human agree that gender is a spectrum, gender will be a spectrum. for now, the humans of earth do NOT agree with your progressive idea of gender.
@epichoagie59992 жыл бұрын
@@gustavohermandio1440 You do realize the same academics you now decry as "eeeevil leftists" (I'm assuming you think they're evil somehow) are the same ones who used to think sex and gender were the same thing, right? Science changes and grows as new developments occur. Hell, if not for the German Nazi regime, studies about this sort of thing would have already been widespread. The Nazis destroyed an institute that was studying the phenomenon when they took control. Anyway, it's not like this is a new idea. Trans folk of all stripes have existed throughout history. Yes, gender itself is a social construct and always has been. That doesn't make it any less real. Money is a social construct and it controls all of our lives, much as I wish it didn't. It's not a matter of opinion. As I said before, this is thoroughly studied and researched fact. I can link you a video made by an actual biologist who talks about all this with over 200 cited studies. It's 30ish minutes long and quite educational. Been meaning to follow up on his sources, come to think of it.
@AliceIsSleepy2 жыл бұрын
I mean, I'd rather not be called cis, since I'm excessively trans, unless it's the right gender.
@EveryDayALittleDeath2 жыл бұрын
Saaame. I'm nonbinary though, and not intersex* so calling me cis and gendering me correctly are mutually exclusive. But like, if I was called cis I wouldn't be offended, I'd just explain that actually, I'm not, because I'm not exclusively female even if I present very femme. *not that you have to be nonbinary if you're intersex, just that intersex people are the only ones who could potentially be nonbinary and cis at the same time.
@elvenbugs2 жыл бұрын
‘EXCESSIVELY TRANS’ IM SCREAMING
@Jane-oz7pp2 жыл бұрын
@@EveryDayALittleDeath no, not really, you could be male or female and still be cis nonbinary. It's a fairly new thing, but you can elect not to gender your child in some places now, meaning that they are assigned nonbinary at birth.
@EveryDayALittleDeath2 жыл бұрын
@@Jane-oz7pp I guess legally speaking, that's true, but I meant more in the sense of "your gender aligns with your sex". Just because you choose not to register a child's gender before they can express it doesn't make their sex not exist, you're just deciding that you don't want it to have any bearing on how they are raised or treated by others. Which is definitely valid, but not exactly what I was referring to.
@foxinabox51032 жыл бұрын
@@elvenbugs okay but, how much trans is too much?? Hmmmm /j
@iriandia2 жыл бұрын
At 6:00, yes, the first terf I knew literally told me (several times!) that trans people were kidnapping girls & forcibly injecting them with T. As in, children. It was so wacky that I pushed back immediately, and kept pushing - and pushed my way right out of my egg! Joke’s on her!
@thetea40932 жыл бұрын
I wish someone would forcibly inject testosterone to me wth
@iriandia2 жыл бұрын
@@thetea4093I mean when you look at how hard it is to actually get T, it makes her ravings even worse.
@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos2 жыл бұрын
Ha, that's a great egg-cracking story. Not the transphobia, but the poetic irony.
@commandercorl15442 жыл бұрын
If only it was that easy for trans kids.
@floreya672 жыл бұрын
Yolk's on her! (Sorry)
@luccamalualves82612 жыл бұрын
A week ago I was talking to a woman that works with my mom, she asked me why my mom uses they/them for me, I explained what is non binary to her and she said "your generation is complicating things, I have a brother that is trans and with him it's easier" I said it was cool that she had a trans brother but she answered saying that her "brother" even did a surgery to put breasts, I tried not getting angry and just asked if she meant she had a trans SISTER then, she said that her sister (she misgendered her again) died a while back so the family were using her deadname and masc pronouns now, but it wasn't a problem cause in life they tried using her pronouns and chosen name
@amarisfrede22 жыл бұрын
What a bigot. 😞
@transsexual_void_fairy2 жыл бұрын
oh god
@purple45962 жыл бұрын
Dear lord people are stupid
@akitokutikabanae70102 жыл бұрын
Im just horrified i have no words
@muriel58262 жыл бұрын
So awful. I mean it’s not gonna hurt any of them to remember her as she wanted to known. Jeez
@latronqui2 жыл бұрын
I have used the "kids do weird things" narrative in support of trans kids. I'll share it here in case someone finds it helpful: When I was 3 years old, I told everyone that I was a character from an anime series and named the people around me like other characters in that universe. When I was older, I met a boy about the same age (3) who behaved like a dog. So how will I know, if my boy ever says "I'm actually a girl" whether it's a phase or I have a trans daughter? Well, I can do the same my parents and the parents of that dog boy did. They treated us like we were demanding to be treated and we soon grew out of it. If my kid doesn't grow out of it, then I guess it means I have a trans kid. But I don't have to force anything.
@dustind46942 жыл бұрын
Someday I will reconcile how Jamie reads like Daniel Radcliffe and David Tenant got in a pleasant looking teleporter accident with some sick body jewelry, but it is not this day. Also @2:07 did... we just get amateur cis phrenology? Ew.
@Ava-wu4qp2 жыл бұрын
They need to go back to the 1860s
@ilikechococookies342 Жыл бұрын
HOW did you manage to perfectly encapsulate Jamie’s vibe?? Incredible job ❤
@caspianrobins77562 жыл бұрын
You're so close to 1 million subs. You deserve it! Hope to see you get there soon.
@possums1542 жыл бұрын
0:49 I’d be more offended if you called me a cis woman considering I’m trans, but if you called me a cis man I’d thank you
@lukescastle2 жыл бұрын
Ayy dude same
@lycaptain Жыл бұрын
same, i’d be so happy if i could pass as a cis dude
@heythere47322 жыл бұрын
As a cis woman, I have no problem just being called a person. Because I am a person.
@bloodgutsandangelcake60792 жыл бұрын
same! and when i was pregnant, i had no problem being called a pregnant person. i was (and still am) a person. and i was pregnant. sure, i was a pregnant woman. but is a pregnant woman not, a pregnant person?
@heythere47322 жыл бұрын
@@bloodgutsandangelcake6079 exactly. To me, its dehumanizing.
@bloodgutsandangelcake60792 жыл бұрын
@Marianne what are you hoping to accomplish by deliberately spreading misinformation online? intersex people, including some born with testicular tissue or even an entire penis, can be pregnant. a penis makes someone a man by your logic lmao. if you’re gonna be a complete bellend, at least do it in a way that doesn’t completely fall apart the moment natural variance occurs.
@dapper-ant26342 жыл бұрын
Damn guess I'm a girl now, I knew I should have bought the 6-in-1 wash at the store.
@the_alien_12392 жыл бұрын
this is amazing to watch- I love how comforting your videos are. I felt really dysphoric today (I’m a trans guy) but your videos have really helped. Loads of love Jamie, thank you so much !!
@amarisfrede22 жыл бұрын
Hope you have a wonderful day, king! 🤴
@akitokutikabanae70102 жыл бұрын
Sending you lots of love boi ❤️ hope your day went better brother
@qnkendra15232 жыл бұрын
Slowly people around me have become comfortable with me labeling myself and them cis. The ones who were like "well if there is another label needed they need to come up with a different one" finally got it when my response was "until that label exists I will use cis if a different label comes up then I will adjust". I just can't get over how ugly and ignorant people get not just about trans but about gender presentation. I ended up forming my opinion on that long before I even knew transgender was a thing because of fights with my parent as a child about skirts/ dresses vs pants. I wanted to spin on the juggle gym stuff and use the slides without gross male children chanting about seeing my panties. And later as I got older it was also about my ability to move during that time female clothes often had silly things like pencil skirts where you had to learn how to take baby steps. then having people who in general are allies try to tell a known trans person they are supposed to care about that they didn't count as their true gender without sufficient presentation just reminded me of my childhood. Being called a boy because I was wearing pants
@astrinymris99532 жыл бұрын
9:25 I agree! Being able to tell who's cis and who's trans is a lame mutant ability. Go for telekinesis or teleportation instead; those are much cooler and more useful superpowers. Or the ability to transform into a dragon. 😉
@book-obsessedweirdo86772 жыл бұрын
You're thinking much too small, the ability to turn into any thing!
@FrozEnbyWolf1502 жыл бұрын
Shapeshifting FTW. Of course, that's how you can tell who's trans. Anyone who would pick shapeshifting as their special ability.
@book-obsessedweirdo86772 жыл бұрын
@@FrozEnbyWolf150 or a furry
@muriel58262 жыл бұрын
I love that list which randomly ends with “turning into a dragon”. I mean, who doesn’t want to be a 🐉 if only temporarily?
@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos2 жыл бұрын
@@FrozEnbyWolf150 tfw you didn't even go with shapeshifting full-stop, but instead settled for sex-swapping...and then took >20 more years to crack the egg 🤦🏻♀️
@SylviaRustyFae2 жыл бұрын
10:50 That person still forgets about cis intersex folks who may not be women but can get pregnant nonetheless.
@zehrverygood Жыл бұрын
A person who has both female and male chromosomes pairs (47XXY, 46XX/46XY, 46XX/47XXY or 45X/XY mosaic) can also have both testicular and ovarian tissue. Previously, these persons were diagnosed as "hermaphrodites" but the nomenclature should be changed: There is no complete consensus yet which terminology to use, but **disorders of sex development**, abbreviated **DSDs**, or intersex are being discussed.There are many variations and some hermaphrodites have more male genitalia while others have the opposite. Whether an intersex person could get pregnant and carry the pregnancy and have a baby depends mostly whether they have a more complete set of reproductive organs. So if there is a fully functioning uterus and ovaries, then it's theoretically possible to get pregnant and have a baby.However, most if not all true intersex persons have incomplete reproductive organs and a pregnancy would be rare.
@theomegajuice86602 жыл бұрын
8:57 Honestly, kudos to that particular transphobe for finally coming up with a 2nd functional joke. Maybe after all these years they've finally broken the cycle of rehashing the attack helicopter meme over and over and over again!
@commandercorl15442 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, they're getting out of the loop!
@tameniai Жыл бұрын
I never cared WHAT was in my daycare workers' pants as long as they could watch the kids and not murder them. I double checked with my daughter (in regards to my grandchild) and her words were 'If they would watch him at night so I could sleep I would pay for them to transition myself'. Just an FYI.
@thewickeddevilofthewest Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@Fruityflootloops2 жыл бұрын
My wonderful grandma came across an article on Facebook claiming “they” want to switch Mother’s Day to Birthing Person’a Day and we had to explain to her that’s just from some conservative propaganda and the only reason we do that is for specific situations and parent is often better anyway. She immediately became upset the article was trying to rile people up like that.
@birdieblue8122 жыл бұрын
I honestly just started watching Jamie's videos because I find him soothing, but after watching quite a few I started thinking to myself "how would I handle it if I have a child and they turn out to be trans?". I have never considered this before, partly because I don't see myself having children, but the best I can come up with is; go to a medical professional and get puberty blockers until they are old enough to decide if they want to transition or not.
@BahamutEx2 жыл бұрын
👏👍
@amarisfrede22 жыл бұрын
Congratulation! 🎉 You passed at one of the essential pillar questions of: "am I suitable as a parent", that sadly many parents don't pass yet.😞
@harrypotter27002 жыл бұрын
I’d recommend a gender specialist before a doctor to get puberty blockers. At a very young age you want to be sure, because if your child is trans then a gender specialist can just ensure that they’re doing what’s best for them. Of course young kids can most certainly know at a very young age, but it’s always good to be sure that they’re getting the best help and treatment possible.
@soniarodriguez87372 жыл бұрын
@@rhymerlegend2717 Yeah agreed, why not just allow them to grow and once they're an adult have them make their choice. I mean they still are just kids.. PS. Just a suggestion, don't get mad
@tinnie752 жыл бұрын
@@soniarodriguez8737 I'm not trans but from what I understand, using puberty blockers helps them with the possible transition later because they won't for example develop breasts or get periods. Which I assume should also help with gender dysphoria. But if they get older and realize they're not trans and are in fact the gender that matches their sex, they can stop the blockers and go through puberty as they would without it. No harm done.
@suzannax2 жыл бұрын
Somehow I'm more bothered that they called magenta a "creamy pink"
@jolenemiller12 жыл бұрын
I have family members who think I am the worst mother on the planet because I support my teenage son who happens to be trans. Like I didn't do any research or talk to doctors, therapists, or my own child, before signing off on gender affirming therapy. I get unsolicited advice all the time. It is VERY difficult to bite my tongue when intentions are good but knowledge is not.
@sunnalyn2 жыл бұрын
As a cis woman, no most of us are not okay please hELP THEYRE CHASING ME DOWN-
@cat_with_a_rat2 жыл бұрын
short answer: no.
@ElizabethPayet2 жыл бұрын
long answer: definitely not
@MynameisnotRenold2 жыл бұрын
Short answer: sometimes
@SimonClarkstone2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I was thinking that for like half the commenters here the answer to "can I call you cis?" is "no, because I am trans".
@RebelWvlf2 жыл бұрын
Being surrounded by them, I can safely say that they are definitely not OK and I just wanna wake up in man's body and not care about anything that is forced upon me and seen as "FeMaLe GeNdEr RoLe".
@cat_with_a_rat2 жыл бұрын
@@SimonClarkstone i was referring to the “are the cis ok” but tru
@TheOriginalDarcAngellover2 жыл бұрын
It was the Victorian period when the colours were changed round. Pink was seen as an Energetic colour and therefore was associated with Boys while Blue was a calming colour which is why it was linked to girls. 😂 the shampoo one was funny, though I have to say I either go for smell or colour not so much the others. Lots of CIS people scare me with the lack of education and/or thought processes they have. My favourite is the ultra religious CIS people who can believe in a magical man in the sky, but not that someone could be trans 🤭 (No offense intended to anyone who is religious, I know not all religious people are like that)
@Tijggie822 жыл бұрын
"If you wish to label someone, you owe them a cookie." As a baker, I agree. We have some lovely oat or peanut butter cookies 😌
@gintarenorv9052 жыл бұрын
7:19 I mean... if I didn't know Jammi was a trans man, I would simply think he's a very cool man. A day care with trans people wouldn't look much more different from normal daycares, would it?
@isuccatdrawin80572 жыл бұрын
I really loved the inclusivity in the baymax show :]
@My_mid-victorian_crisis2 жыл бұрын
I was conversing with my son's father a while ago, and being trans came up. I flat out told me that he would have been made to transition because he played with girls as a child. He was abused at home and bullied at school; girls and their games were safe. He is a manly cis/het, not the stereotypical overcompensating of women who transitioned in the 80s and 90s and is open-minded about LGBTIQ+ (his middle child, my son's halfsibling, had come out as Neby). I've tried so hard to educate him better, but...
@idklol86102 жыл бұрын
Did you or your husband say that? I'm confused
@My_mid-victorian_crisis2 жыл бұрын
@@idklol8610 my son's father, no my husband, we are not married. He is convinced that he would have been forced to transition. Because he played with girls. Even though he had a enby child and I'm enby.
@TessuDraws2 жыл бұрын
"It genuinely feels dehumanising to read "people who get pregnant"." you can't dehumanise someone by calling them a person jesus christ go back to English class
@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos2 жыл бұрын
Clearly they want to be called a *_"human_* who can get pregnant." Smh my head, they said it felt "dehumanizing", not "depersonizing".
@wordforger2 жыл бұрын
I think it has something to do with the fact that we live in a society that pushes pregnancy on 'people who can get pregnant' from the moment they're born, and now even if they don't want to even consider pregnancy an option they have fewer options to avoid it. I think many would rather use a term that has fewer references to what is considered 'a woman's purpose.' I mean, I totally get inclusivity and all, but there's some messy patriarchal associations we have to unpack before terms like 'birthing person,' 'people who get pregnant,' and 'people with uteruses' gain wide popularity.
@flipperflipper-eo2gp2 жыл бұрын
it's disgusting to undermine women hood .
@flipperflipper-eo2gp2 жыл бұрын
@@wordforger are whole lifes are revolve around our hormones .there is more to a women that just a look 👍 it's insulting
@Dexy832 жыл бұрын
I'm so offended! How dare you point out that the 90's is 30 years ago! I can't even! 🤬🤣
@Sol-Kage2 жыл бұрын
Also for the last one, it also covers underage girls who get pregnant to use the gender neutral term.
@bloodgutsandangelcake60792 жыл бұрын
hmmm, idk "women's rights to education" does/did also cover a 4 year old girl going to kindergarten as well as a grown up woman going to university. but agreed, yes. and they can all miss me with that "it takes away from our motherhood", because i can categorically say that when i was pregnant, not one single person told me i couldn't be a mother. not one. i had more people saying i absolutely HAD to be a mother even tho i detested the idea of it.
@zehrverygood Жыл бұрын
@@bloodgutsandangelcake6079 Why did you get pregnant?
@noooodianoodles2 жыл бұрын
I clicked as soon as I got the notification bc Jamie is just what I needed rn :)
@boneenthusiast20522 жыл бұрын
I had to clarify to my ex-brother in law what cis meant because he thought i was calling him a "sissy" every time i brought up gender :] (i was the first trans person he'd ever met)
@purple45962 жыл бұрын
LOL
@Amara87387 Жыл бұрын
“Everything has been planned since the 90’s” ok if this is true, then where’s my handbook or creepy robes? What? Am I not trans enough to be contacted by the gay masterminds?
@byecatsstacey74672 жыл бұрын
As a cis woman it is simply depressing how so many cis truly are not ok. I cannot roll my eyes hard enough sometimes. Thanks for the humor, as always, Jamie, keep up the shining, positive attitude!
@OneTopic2 жыл бұрын
😳
@passionate_possum_pal2 жыл бұрын
OT!!
@cat_with_a_rat2 жыл бұрын
hi OT
@saltedsword88522 жыл бұрын
Oh my god it’s him. Hi OT
@bluejayfinch2 жыл бұрын
Omg, OT :D
@xxibjrosek2 жыл бұрын
HI OT!!!
@v-cassinova90072 жыл бұрын
Cisgender: Cisgender describes a person whose gender identity corresponds to their sex assigned at birth. The word cisgender is the antonym of transgender. The prefix cis- is Latin and means on this side of. Cis is the short hand.
@tomatogoose4426 Жыл бұрын
I just clicked away from a scary video that was starting to make me feel anxious, and the instant I heard “hey spuds” I immediately felt better