MASH ALLAH thank you Dr Omar Suleiman from france thank you so much
@user-eh1qt1rb5l10 ай бұрын
I think the best is to break it off because Allah said in the quran (And [yet], among the people are those who take other than Allah as equals [to Him]. They love them as they [should] love Allah. But those who believe are stronger in love for Allah. And if only they who have wronged would consider [that] when they see the punishment, [they will be certain] that all power belongs to Allah and that Allah is severe in punishment ).The thing why it is so hard to leave it off after having known it's haram because you love someone beside Allah .if your love for Allah as it should be then you won't be tormented by leaving off the other person .I think yasmin mogahed talked about what wrong love is perfectly .You guys need to check it out .From my own experience, it is haram and you need to cut it off .May Allah grant us ease in breaking haram relationship and you don't leave something for the sake of Allah out of taqwa except that Allah will give which is better .it is the promise of Allah
@EramFatima-ok2bw6 ай бұрын
jazakAllahKhair!
@onemillionpercent6 ай бұрын
but what if this is the man i believe is my husband inshAllah?
@nile372 ай бұрын
@@user-eh1qt1rb5l What if we do feel rermourse a out it
@syfatsamrotulf819722 күн бұрын
But they have done together, so repent and make it halal, get nikkah, not wasting the time and use the girls, they know from the first time that they are dreaming marry, so why should break it, if it is Haram then tawbah and repent and make it Halal
@Basketballismadeforyou9 ай бұрын
I dated this girl for a week now. I actually loved her but just today i realized the relationship we had was very haram and zina. I dont want to go into detail but very explicit, besides that she was amazing… but i realized just today that it was haram and very bad to continue. I wanted to just block her but i realized the feelings she had to me. She said she wanted to marry me when were older, make a family, and be happy, maybe this is nothing to you guys but as 14 and my first and last relationship i was heart broken when i remembered those things. And when we both said we would never leave eachother.. i want to cry but im not, i just feel empty after blocking her. I should have said goodbye or something but i was too scared.. i want to improve my self but i feel empty after this, and i especially dont want to imagine how her morning is and if she will do something bad to herself. Please Allah (SWT) protect her. Im scared. I dont know what to do.
@umarbashir45868 ай бұрын
Asalamu alaikum, just remember that Allah is everybody else and we can only pray to Allah to give us better!!
@ybcaramel5 ай бұрын
If she is Muslim and you know that she has made tawbah and changed her way as well, you should marry her. Do istkhara and tawakul 3la Allah. A man in my community was in the same predicament and he broke up with a woman who he loved and year later he proposed to her and they got married and have been happily married for 8 years now and have 4 beautiful good children whom they brought up in islam. It was especially hard for him since everyone in the community knew of their sin but with time, people forgot and were forgiving of their situation. His parents didn’t approve of it back then but now they get along just well.
Allahu Akbar ❤ sheigh Omar Suleiman always such a beautiful inspiration for Allah's sake Masha Allah ❤ free free Palestine Ameen Ameen Ameen ❤❤❤
@teffygr5947 Жыл бұрын
Wallahi - every form of haram *never* works out well - the end result is negative 100% of the time.
@Sam-su9rq Жыл бұрын
I have seen worst in Halal arranged marriages... 100% negative outcome. So it can never be generalized. If sincere tawbah is done... let them make it halal. There is nothing better than a nikah between two loved ones.
@mdfisa4453 Жыл бұрын
Don't be in any haram relationship bcoz you will never find peace while disobeying Allah, No matter how much you claim that you love him /her
@kieshat73156 ай бұрын
I would be careful not to be so dismissive and judgemental of others, may Allah swt guide those in haram relationships.. the best case scenario after the act of such a situation is that they do take a step back from that haram relationship, and then pursue a halal relationship (and marriage) inshaallah.
@ybcaramel5 ай бұрын
I agree but if they change their way and turn back to Allah, it works out. I’ve personally seen this with men that drink and then quit for the sake of Allah or a woman who doesn’t practice or fulfill her rights and then does so for the sake of Allah.
@talhamalik6658Ай бұрын
@@Sam-su9rqtrue and halal would mean both partners consent also so they can get out of it. Arranged just means ur parents arranged it but they asked you both if you want to get married, it’s not forced. Good thing is they can divorce if needed and follow Islamic law in halal fashion. A haram relationship is based solely off of lusts.. do we really think being attracted in a lovey dovey way with someone haram wise is rational? You have a kid but who’s the mother and father?
@RahmaARahma2 ай бұрын
Jazak Allahu keyren.
@MuhammedLaith Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@sabahmohamud-mu3sx Жыл бұрын
Masha Allah bro
@MariamRomoke-yn1lt2 ай бұрын
Masha Allah tabarakallah
@tanweerchiktay Жыл бұрын
Wa Alaikum mus Salaam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatu
@VictoriousDrucilla Жыл бұрын
Ameen 🤲🏾
@SonaSona-wh7wg Жыл бұрын
Nice
@mustaphabojang76428 ай бұрын
How long should that tawba be and during those moments of repentence can you talk to the girl without saying or doing any haram thing? Please help me i need answers.
@musdhafamohamed79528 ай бұрын
Mashallah
@KismetMdAmin3 ай бұрын
Subhanallah.
@Ameerah786 Жыл бұрын
Yes....if correct action as in wrong of course you can.thrn be happy for the right way.
@OumHaroun2019 Жыл бұрын
Salam alaykom WA rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu sheikh Omar Suleiman, I am a divorced mother of a three years old boy I live to worship Allah and raise my son to be a good Muslim and why not one of the scholars of İslam, I am looking for a husband who fears Allah and I don't want to make haram relationships not even talking with men in the intention of getting married. The problem is that I don't find the qualities that I seek in my community people in my city and generally my home country are so different from me we grew up in a secular country and applying the rules of İslam 100% is tremendously hard , for exemple no polygamy, they submit only to the rules of the country ( the law) which is too far from Deen. I want to live following my Deen and the Sunnah of our beloved.
@OumHaroun2019 Жыл бұрын
I am Tunisian
@WahibaBoudjedra3 ай бұрын
SALAMALEYKOUM dr Omar Suleiman
@shamilak6350 Жыл бұрын
Salam can someone help out what if I end the haram relationship and then we take time away from each other but when we try and make it halal our parents don’t allow it what should I do
@Muslimah-j1p9 ай бұрын
Darood Nazar e Kram perhyn Ya Rehmatul Alamin Sallalahu Alaika wasalum Huzoor Nazre Kram farmayn mujh pr
@halimaabdulla48654 ай бұрын
Did it workout for you ??? May Allah make things easy
@yamenlol43323 ай бұрын
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
@danialabbasy3705 Жыл бұрын
Aslam Alikum, Can you make video(s) on incident of Karbala? Jazakallah
@_goc Жыл бұрын
May Allah SWT make it easy for everyone and facilitate for it to happen, if there is goodness in it for the worldy life and will contribute to us attaining JANNATUL FIRDOUS, ameen🤲🏻🤲🏻 It's a process of developing yourself too. I've often felt as if marriage is out of reach for me. But when I look back and look at now. I've just got onto a road of physical, bodily healing and mental healing. Maybe I'm supposed to learn how to cope with my condition before the door of marriage opens for me. Most definitely one needs to master the skill of having Allah the center of our world before we can bring other people in. And it all starts with an intention to draw closer to Allah and He eases you towards ease.💗
@عبدالحميدمحمدن3 ай бұрын
جزاك الله خيرا يا شيخ
@fromMuslimtoMumin Жыл бұрын
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@travelnewsbeneficialknowle3020 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏
@janaenae1338 Жыл бұрын
I lllooooovvvvveee yyooooouuuuuuuu🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@tahatarq3465 Жыл бұрын
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@mirtaufeeq923910 ай бұрын
I am in a haram relationship, but we are very much stressed about it as it is haram , so once we tried to get apart just because it's haram , but we couldn't continue the separation even for a week , what should I do at this stage, we are not in the state to marry only 20 yrs old ....one more question so out prayers reach to Allah in the period of this haram relationship????
@lboyplays2108 ай бұрын
You 2 are very young...its hard to hear this but u guys nee to stay away from each other period.. maybe in future when u can provide for her u can go back to her.
@samia68888 ай бұрын
You can get married, like get the nikkah so you are Islamically married and then years later you can have the wedding.
@mirtaufeeq92398 ай бұрын
@@samia6888 not in the state to do nikkah, we can't do it secretly
@ShineStudent-b6s7 ай бұрын
I can understand it's v difficult but take it slowly u gotta block each other on everything no contact for atleast 6 months , ik this 6 months might feel like forever to u , bcoz to stop chatting for just 2 days is also. V difftbut u gotta control ur nafs and busy urself in something else Like for me I am reading Quran with tafseer , it gives me peace , also whenever u get the thinking of the girl , donot keep on thinking about her , us thought ko usi time remove krdo apne mind se This is shaytan which makes u think , she also used to say like this, and she used to love this foood or street or whatever , and also try to make her understand this , it will be easier if u both block each other at the same time And fir after 6 months or an year, ur mindset is still the same , that is to marry her. , then as sheikh said u can proceed in a halal way I hope it helps
@mirtaufeeq92397 ай бұрын
@@ShineStudent-b6s thanks bro
@mohammedmaryam70189 ай бұрын
Assalamualaikum please i have a question
@gamingrazor21619 ай бұрын
what if the girl is christian
@mojo4384 Жыл бұрын
Dear sheikh can you do video on magic I feel like I am going mad... I'm doing self ruqyah
@salmahjhingoor31072 ай бұрын
Àssalamoàlaykoum why u thinķ i a bad men àm in this chanelle today i roza i make àlls. Good to allah why 24 yrs iwork i alwaye with allah and rasool swa think about this. Ameen
@dianahhs8311Ай бұрын
Assalamualaikum everyone, can someone explain to me what counts as a Haram relationship? I have heard that doing couple is haram. However, i have also heard that it is not haram if it is a march to marriage. So, i am now confused and need someone to clear up...
@ana_ferhana Жыл бұрын
واليكم السلام ورحمة الله وابركة
@Proplayer-ff4st7 ай бұрын
What if im muslim and the person i like is a non-muslim
@amer4572 Жыл бұрын
Full video ?
@starshaped. Жыл бұрын
This is just a short kzbin.info/www/bejne/jpe4i56keK6HpMU A lecture from him talking about this topic, hope you find it useful 🙌
@amer4572 Жыл бұрын
@@starshaped. may Allah reward you
@CRUSH_SHOTS Жыл бұрын
what is your toothpaste name
@piqueny8872 Жыл бұрын
Make sure you have the right mind frame maturity and importantly Islamic Knowledge for marriage. Marrying to make the relationship doesn’t mean things will work out for the long run. Sadly a close brother did the same, his whole family have to support him in his relationship Provide him both meals for Ramadan, his Eid celebrations are at the parents home. His mom reminds him of his prays fasting his charity jummah prays attendance While his now “halal” relationship does not want anything to do with Islam. She’s used a man weakness against him for him to marrying her Completely ignorant of the way his future children will be raised. if his hajj was accepted. All because he wanted to make his haram relationship halal to justify his sins